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Next and side bar please.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:47 PM
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Dude, I think you got it all wrong, bitches ain't the goal. This is personal preference but quit dating apps. My advice: Lift and get into a sport (which you are already doing) and keep going. Improve your style as in dress better. Nothing crazy, focus on fit and quality. Define what the fuck do you want out of your life and chase that. You're a man in a mission that gives life a deeper meaning. That + lifting boosts confidence and is attractive as fuck for girls and people in general. If you ha…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:40 PM
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I think you bring interesting ideas but I feel I'm missing your point. So under the logic you present, OP should do something he clearly feels would make him unhappy in the name of a moral imperative? Like we males need to always do the honorable thing according to whatever moral code we attach ourselves to?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:16 PM
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Why are we even discussing this? You don't owe her shit. You gotta do what you gotta do. A man should never go against his desires and needs. You don't like her anymore? Let her go. Don't wanna marry her? Don't do it. Nothing will happen man. She'll move on and so do you. That's life, and in a year you won't give a fuck if you truly embraced RP principles. Cut that BP moral self-sabotage, go get whatever the fuck you want from life. I know you want to do the "honorable" thing but It will explode…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:32 PM
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OP don't worry about this shit. I'm living in the same region as you. I never had a shortage of nice girls to date so far. And don't judge your dates on what they say, watch what they do instead. She might say oh yes pay gap and shit, rape culture. And give you a BJ and nice a fuck on the second date you brought her back to your place and cook breakfast the next morning. Those crazy bitches are not the general rule. Most girls you'll attract by increasing your SMV are against all that non-sense.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 07:28 AM
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I don't pay much attention to it. However, I looked at this image online. And I think I'm in the 14-16% range. Nothing crazy. I won't be on the cover of fitness magazines anytime soon, but I think for my goals and happiness it works.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 07:06 AM
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I'm not a fitness expert or someone who tries to build massive amounts of muscle. But I'm heavily focused on sports performance and a healthy lifestyle. And I battled with stress eating my whole life. So I hope my experience can help you somehow. I will cut any refined sugars, fast food, and overall shitty oils if you haven't already. Some game changers for me that might help: Lean protein sources (beef, chicken breast, salmon, tuna, eggs or plant-based stuff) Green veggies, they're high in fibe…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 07:28 PM
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now we're asking the real q's here.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:12 PM
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In my experience, I think it works like that (at least for me). You increase SMV, the hard work pays off. You start attracting bitches without even trying too hard. You spin plates, you have all sorts of adventures. Great sex, ok sex, and mediocre sex. At some point, you don't even know how one of those girls start to look more interesting than the random hot bitches you've been having as plates and BOOM! You're dating/LTR. Shit goes south in X time for whatever reason. Back to spinning plates, …
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:04 PM
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Nope, no bj prior to kissing, kino, clothes off.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:28 PM
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I had something similar one time. However, in the end, it was a massive shit test. The girl comes to my place we start kissing, kino, I get to her pants, we got naked. Fuck! She even had a condom in her purse and gave it to me. The moment I tried to fuck her she would keep giving me shit. "not now", " I'm not ready". Stuff like that while taking my hand away. My reaction, I said. Ok cool, I feel kinda tired now. You can stay and sleep or you can go. She stayed, and at 2 am in the morning while I…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 05:46 PM
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I agree with your great comment.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 02:23 PM
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Homie, you gotta use those two weeks to truly assimilate the sidebar. You're asking questions like someone that doesn't understand TRP.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 02:22 PM
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Drugs/alcohol Daddy issues + mommy issues = HUGE reg flag for me Bipolar Text me during work hours to hangout cuz she has nothing going on in life (Like Monday 8 am) Shitty mindset and negative narrative/ victim role Racist
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:45 PM
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He's funny, witty, honest, not hiding what he thinks or his intentions. Also, rich, fashionable, he bangs hot girls, famous, and is a BJJ blue belt. In my definition of frame, he's a good example in those vids. But is not about the jokes and being a savage. Is the fact that he's very comfortable in his skin, and has a strong DGAF attitude. That comes from building a life you feel happy to be living. From feeling that you do shit that matters to you most days. Simply put, from living a meaningful…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:25 PM
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Next!
/r/askTRP26/07/19 07:24 PM
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You're killing it. You're doing what they can just dream about. work on your DGAF attitude. Eventually, I would get a better circle of friends (I did). You need to be around people who get it. Not little bitches that complain about your success.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:15 PM
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That's just the way it is man. Sometimes you feel like a rockstar. Other times you feel as if life is beating the shit out of you. What's important is that you never stop moving forward no matter how shitty life gets. Gotta trust your process and embrace whatever life throws at you.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:53 PM
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I've been there brother. It's a natural consequence of being on the pill. I let go of a great LTR of 5 years because of what you describe. I was 27 at the time. A year later, I got an amazing job and was making above average income for my country. I'm obsessed with MMA and I was able to train more and better. I had several, leads, dates, plates during that year. After messing around I got a girl I shared my limited free time with under my own terms. She was of course hotter, smarter, and didn't …
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:29 PM
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Same here dude. I fly solo for the most part. It's just the way it is.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 08:12 PM
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Not sure why you're asking this homie...NEXT!
/r/askTRP07/06/19 07:22 PM
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If your goal is to only spin plates (which I think for now it is). Don't over think the situation and don't judge yourself. TRP is not an unbreakable code or rules set in stone. TRP are principles to help you become your ideal of the best man you can be. This being said. You fell on her frame, you were her emotional tampon. So what? You did what felt like the right thing to do at that moment. However, don't make it a habit. Learn the lesson, move on, and next time you meet go back to your spinni…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:35 PM
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Dude, I think you already got a fair amount of useful advice here. So I want only to say congrats brother. It takes courage to do what you're doing, be consistent and in a couple of years, you'll certainly be an even better version of yourself. Keep it up!
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:56 AM
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Dude, sorry to break up your fantasy but trust me you'll find other "mom of my kids" type of girl eventually. Be a gentleman to your ex and her new guy. Carry on with your life. Learn from your mistakes and do better next time you feel you have something cool going on with a girl.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:15 PM
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Probably you'll find better stuff on the sidebar. But I'll try my best to help you based on my experiences. Girl gives you IOI you go talk to her. It really doesn't matter what you say. Don't hesitate just go for it. Your body language and overall fun vibe its what matters. And most important stay relaxed and confident. You're in uni so ask basic shit. What's your major? or literally, any shit related to uni would do the trick here. If she likes you my favorite signal is when they play with thei…
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:32 PM
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She's fucking the dude or thinking on going for it.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:18 PM
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Fit, comfort, and fabric quality over the brand. always. Now, I like monochromatic and edgy-minimalist with a touch of ironic fashion every once in a while. Usually, all from local brands with no logos on my pieces. No girl ever told me "Oh, I won't fuck you cuz you don't like Gucci" if you like and can afford to throw some money on brands do it but for you, not cuz bitches will notice it. For example, I have a friend that is into the high-end real state biz and he does spend a lot on designer s…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:50 PM
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Don't be an idiot dude. Males, we're better than that. Trading sex for career advancement or similar is girly as fuck. Do the right thing. Assume the consequences of your actions, for the good and the bad like a real man. Maybe you were to busy to study, or you just suck at that class and didn't want to study more, I don't know. But whatever it was, try your best to past and if you fail just take the class again. I know that might sound terrible for a student. But trust me, worse shit could happ…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:02 PM
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if she already had positive interactions with you in the past, just ask her out. But don't be weird about it. Just say hi and ask her what's up in her universe right now and what she's up to later that day. If she asks why or says I still don't know, proceed to tell her your super awesome plan "well...I'm going to this (insert cool activity) at 8 pm, they'll have this 1,2,3 reasons why you shouldn't miss it. Come with me, see ya there at 8 pm? Skip the movie, it sucks for a first date. You can't…
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:39 PM
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Passing shit test like a boss.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:21 PM
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You got it homie. As you see, when you have injuries you can always work on other aspects you might not be as sharp as you would like it to be. Like your reading more example. Nutrition could be another one, when I'm injured I focus heavily on nutrition. Good luck with your recovery.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:56 PM
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Depending on how fuck up the injury is you either train your way around it or stop completely and fill the gap with game and books. If you can't train the body attack the mind. For example. I have a meniscus tear and I do MMA. Right now I can't train at all. So I do yoga, jump rope (as it has low impact on my knee), game girls, I'm reading more, and everyday I watch MMA technique videos.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:49 PM
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It's simple my friend. Keep doing your extra stuff (lift, MMA, meditation, etc.). You'll feel shitty for a while and there's nothing you can do but to accept that is part of the healing process. To speed things up go and hangout more with your buddies (hopefully the ones on TRP) and get some fresh pussy. Game a couple girls and do what feels good for you. Just talking, just kissing, just fucking or all together. It took me like 6-7 girls to to feel great again after my last break up. Oh and no m…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:41 PM
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You should go an absorb the sidebar first if you felt the need to ask this.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:54 PM
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Solid move, if she's not banging that dude she'll be doing it soon. Good for you, well played sir.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:21 PM
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It was more of an example, so it could be adjusted to whatever you feel it works for you. A joke maybe? But in general, I don't follow "rules" like this is too fast, this is giving validation too soon, this XYZ. I normally follow my gut and never hide my intentions. If I like something about someone (not just girls) I'll let them know if it feels right to me. At the end of the day, it's about you and how you genuinely interact with people not about following textbook rules. Sometimes for me, tha…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 01:33 PM
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The idea was for you to fill the blank. but let me be more explicit. you say something along the lines of..."You know what, I lied to you. I don't need a fragrance. But I think you have a cute smile and I like your energy, we should hang out later..." something like that adjusted to your style. Hope it helps homie.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:03 PM
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Day game bro, go places you like if you see a girl that catches your attention approach, say hi or whatever.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:00 PM
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I see you're a man of culture. Great answer.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:49 PM
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Lmao, great answer.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:49 PM
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Go as a regular customer in your time-off when you know she's working. if the fragrance is for girls say you're looking for a friend. act as a customer but tease her a bit and trigger emotion. when you see it's time to buy something or the customer-salesperson relation is about to vanish. Tell her something like..."You know what, I lied to you. I don't need a fragrance. But I think (XYZ thing about her) it's (insert adjective. cute, elegant, interesting, whatever) and I want to know what are you…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:38 PM
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Welcome to reality bro. That's how it works, however, you'll gain better friends and attract more meaningful people (girls included) to your life the more you work on yourself.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:28 PM
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Next! Sounds like too much shit, and I think she's leading you and not the opposite. If you're good looking and successful as you describe. You'll probably find an even better girl effortless. No need to get locked by a girl with ex-boyfriend issues. and almost hitting the wall.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:14 PM
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Sometimes but not often, I don't have time for that as I train and work all the time. But I don't think masturbating is wrong as long as isn't attached to porn or replacing your interaction with girls.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:10 PM
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MMA Healthy Eating Daily Meditation Looking More Fashionable No Porn No Shitty TV Cutted Lots Of Shitty Friends ​
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:59 PM
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Short answer, Literally anywhere. Long answer, I meet girls at any place where I'm a regular. The cafe I go to work often, the coworking space I visit every two weeks (after work only). Essentially, any activity I enjoy and do on regular basis opens a door to find like-minded and interesting girls. Social circle game is also a nice way to meet girls.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:01 PM
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If you're still chasing women you haven't dominated TRP principles to its core. Women are not evil or the enemy, but they're not the main destination in your journey. They're just a happy complement to your life. Like it or not we're bound to each other. It has been like that since the beginning of time and it will always be. We're made for each other by natural design. Now you'll see lots of "hate" to girls on TRP, but is a phase. It's part of the process while you're waking up to reality. but …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:36 PM
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Yes, the principles changed my life for the better. Applying TRP principles helped me to improve myself mentally, spiritually and physically. As a guy that was raised by a hard-working single mom and two shitty minded uncles, I missed many valuable lessons every man that wants to be a real man needs to learn. Lucky me I found the knowledge I needed. Now three years after embracing TRP I'm healthier, balanced, both mentally and physically stronger. I'm happy every day as I'm living life in harmon…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:28 PM
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I would say don't get married, but we're all idiots so you'll do it eventually (I did around your age) and got successfully divorced at 27. The best answer is not about which age, you must consider this only when you feel you attain a massive level of success in everything you want to achieve in life. Once you truly embraced an abundance mindset in every relevant aspect of your life (money, experiences, fitness, spirituality, game, etc.) you'll be ready to "settle down" and that might happen in …
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:12 PM
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I was you 3 years ago. Spoiler alert, if you truly make all this happen most likely you'll be the one asking for the divorce. You're just seeing the top of the iceberg for now. I recommend you to look for the red pill handbook. it's like the best of the sidebar in one document. Also, don't miss meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Quick advice, be mindful of how you talk as words are powerful and your narrative becomes your reality. "I am going to start lifting again ASAP (as soon as the snow melts)"…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 08:54 PM
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It all depends on your own goals, what's your vision of being a badass male? answer that and act accordingly, however, going pussy centric in my early 20's sure gave me lots of fun. I wasn't on the pill at the time but I'm 6'2, always being athletic, and have a charismatic personality by default. If I started a biz instead, read more, and party less I would probably have way better quality pussy back in those days and I'll be even further now in my personal goals. Of course is against nature thi…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 04:56 PM
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Read the books "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life" or "The Four Agreements" if you're more on the spiritual side. Also Meditations from Marcus Aurelius. Quick tip, understand your own mortality, your time in this place is shorter than you think, you really wanna spend your most valuable asset complaining about shit? or picking arguments for everything? Choose your battles wisely. Good luck homie.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 04:26 PM
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You have a pussy focused mindset that's why you don't get laid. Chase money and long term life goals, and build up that power. Deal with it, your sexual energy is one of the most powerful sources of energy. Use that energy to start a biz, lift more, travel more, build a fucking amazing life where you do whatever the fuck you want AKA increase SMV. I'm only 4 years older than you, "I just want to fuck, like every day, multiple times. Frustrating man." Duh! we're dudes we all want that at some poi…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:23 PM
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If you need help to answer this for you, it's time to go back and digest more sidebar stuff. Good luck fella.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:00 PM
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If you gotta ask homie most likely your frame is still a work in progress (mine too at times) but in LTR context I would say...showing leadership at times but then go back to man-child habits like endless gaming instead of owning your shit. Not keep it cool when her hamster wheel is running and craving unnecessary drama, when you do things "for her" instead of because you're a responsible man who knows how to take care of himself an everything in his universe. In other words, you're the captain …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:19 PM
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Short version: Shitty sex, got bored of her and her bs as I took the red pill, I had a shitty frame at the time so I failed as a leader, with self-improvement came many opportunities (hotter girls included), the red pill version of me wasn't the best for her or anyone right now FWIW. I ended a 5-year-old LTR with a 7 who loved me deeply and wanted to have my kids in 2019-20 (in her words) she was smart, decent, had a great relationship with her dad, tall, cute. Why? I had a shitty frame and we s…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:12 PM
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Same in my country brotha, we already had a #metoo bs campaign and government is passing a law to force public institutions to be 50% male and 50% female. I'm also in South America. There's no escape from it, however, 90% of the girls here support that shit but still many are happy following traditional gender roles.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 05:54 PM
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Mixed Martial Arts, more money, and male fashion. In other words, build a life I'm fuckin' happy with on regular basis.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:05 PM
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Thanks brotha, it took some serious reading, thinking, and testing for me to reach that understanding of TRP. I agree 100% with you, there's no shortcut to be the best version of yourself is a life time journey, and you know how it is, everybody wants to go to heaven but nobody it's willing to die.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:16 PM
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Sure, homie. It's all about self develop, you don't do XYZ to "get" the girl you do XYZ because it makes you happy, it gives your life meaning, and when you are living your life like that. Mind, body, spirit, finances all align to turn you into an unstoppable force of nature amazing shit happens (biz, quality girls, social circle, money, opportunity). Game becomes your natural state and people (not only girls) notice. that's my personal definition of game based on what I read and experience so f…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:16 PM
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No, that's not the point. The point is that you turn yourself in the best and most powerful version of you, pussy is just a by-product of the badass man you become. TRP isn't about gaming bitches and the game itself isn't about bitches, that took me some time to process.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:06 PM
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I agree 100% with the comment, I would add that it might be interesting to start building up some power and owning your shit. Attack mind, spirit, and body. Frame and holding frame is a by-product of improving yourself, not only girls but everybody around you will feel that you have your shit in order whatever that means for you, that's powerful and power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:02 PM
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Nothing to add here that's pretty much it.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:37 PM
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I don't judge you little homie, at your age I was an idiot with girls (Single mother kid). I use to get nervous as fuck. if they look at you and don't say stuff probably means they seem to like something about you or you catch their attention. Act natural, respond as you would to any guy friend. Hi, how is it going? with confidence. They're not gonna hurt you, if you don't feel like talking, make direct eye contact for a while a keep going with your shit, if she's cute talk to her and try to sca…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:42 PM
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I think you haven't fully swallowed the pill, don't focus on woman, the core concept is chasing the life you want to have, slowly become the powerful man you want to be and pussy come by itself. Stop chasing pussy bro, chase self develop. For example "I have sat down at home and started drinking everyday at night and have not left my apartment for a week" you gotta fix that shit first, next to that pussy is irrelevant in your life. It sounds like you need to embrace self love, define a purpose, …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:45 PM
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First, I'm sorry you're facing such a shitty situation. I think just embrace AWALT and don't take it personal. This isn't about you. For your own well being you gotta let it go (not easy at all). Try to build a case and fight for custody if possible. When you say "this guy is a typical beta" is your ego talking, let that shit go bro, what you're sayin' is "I'm not alpha enough so she replaced me with a beta piece of shit" cut the negative speech. I practice MMA (hopefully to compete) martial art…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:43 PM
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I agree with OP 100% when you stop chasing women and focusing on being the best version of yourself the challenge is to keep woman away because they'll be the ones chasing you. I do enjoy occasional "game" night outs with friends but is not the my main goal.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 06:27 PM
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Text isn't a tool to make her addicted to you, use it for logistics only, "Hey what are you up to [I'm doing this cool thing ] see you there? yes, awesome see you at... no, next! You can interact a bit more according to the situation but don't ask "how was your day?" type of shit it makes you look like you have nothing else going on. Read the sidebar bro.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:22 PM
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Same here bro, I'm 28, I'm a martial artist I don't look big but athletic and strong anough and make what for my country is above average money. I wear mostly black jeans, boots and white sneakers, solid color T-shirts, leather jacket and a couple rings when I feel like it. Girls in their early 20s dig the style and over 30 too. Stick with the classics is the move.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 04:34 PM
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That's what we're here for bto, to learn from each others experiences and ideas. It took me awhile to understand the role of fashion in my journey as the man I'm working to be, especially because all those Isntabitches make male fashion look gay as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 04:28 PM
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Well, in my personal experience is not about getting pussy (it never is), which I'm sure if you follow TRP principles you're able to get anyway. Is more about using fashion as a statement to express your personality, whether you like it or not people - not only girls, will judge you based on how you look and the vibe you carry. You can decide to be a decent looking but basic guy and that's fine, or a man who likes to look sharp and powerful at all times, is up to you and you don't need to look l…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 10:17 PM
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Wellbuiltstyle That's a cool tw account to keep it simple, thanks for sharing bro.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 10:01 PM
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Like you OP I also learn to appreciate fashion as a way of self expression (game changer), I went from less than basic bitch to edgy minimalist and now I get compliments from girls all the time about my outfits. I would add something to your post, the basic bitch look can take you even further if you accessorize correctly. Try with a cool hat or a couple rings, a necklace or a cool bracelet and of course a nice watch. They have the power to immediately upgrade your outfits with no effort.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 09:31 PM
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Don't give a fuck about other people opinions, the validation of your success is not about what those "friends" think about you. You're a champ already for working on yourself develop, own it. You gotta be comfortable with the uncomfortable, lots of people will throw shit at your process, ignore and keep growing. You can always make new friends, in my experience, even better friends. If it sucks go to a hotel and enjoy your time there alone, you don't need to take anyone's BS. Part of your growt…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 04:13 PM
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Many benefits bro, better sex long term —you explore more crazy shit with her because you're "the one", she trust you. Less time spend on spinning plates and more time to be productive, this doesn't mean to abandon your alpha journey, that's when she go and cheat on you for becoming a beta bitch. You enjoy the love cocktail (dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin). If she's an alpha female she might be a nice complement to your life and even help you to attract more positive things for your goals. I also…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:27 PM
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I've been working on myself under TRP for only two years (it's a lifetime process), this is precisely why I wanted to share. To get input from the community. Girls want to have fun, proof them you know how to show a girl a good time. I think you're right, I used the thesaurus to look for this word, I think is mostly about being the fun, entertainment guy you know you can be, naturally, people, not only girls feel attraction when a man works on himself. I'm not seeking for TRP admins approval, or…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:07 PM
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/u/MyDixenCider Dogs before hoes. You made the right call, true alpha choice.
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