redcastlesteel Archive

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32	40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong? Have you tried using Hinge or other apps - at the same time? I was using Hinge and Tinder at the same time at one point and Hinge seemed to have better conversation starters due to the design of the profile page. I know it's often beaten to death on here, but app dating is a numbers game for guys and I started finding success when I was having about 200 - 300+ matches.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 06:05 AM
36	Is pussy the main way women seduce men and lock them down? I mean, some women might use sex as a tool. Some might not. It depends on the person. Though you kind of answered your last question - if someone likes you and is sexually interested, of course they'll want to have lots of sex with you. If a woman is not interested, nothing you say or do will change her mind.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 03:22 AM
1	[deleted by user] Like everyone is saying: women love confidence and unpredictability. But success comes in a lot of different forms. I'm the quiet confident type and it has worked fine for me. Is it as successful as "life of the party" loud confidence? Probably not. But you don't need loud, cocky confidence to find success.	/r/seduction	29/12/21 01:13 AM
7	The Importance of Being Good in Bed Different women can have wildly different preferences when it comes to sex. And while there's common techniques that feel good to all women, they still have preferences. The only way to figure out those preferences is to ask, tease and explore. Sometimes, a stronger body and not watching porn doesn't cut it - you'll need to offer more than that.	/r/seduction	25/07/21 01:24 AM
7	Have you ever hooked up with college aged girls while not being in college? 31M here - had some fun with a few 21 year old students (separately) over the course of 6 months a while back. All from Tinder. Usually matched, texted for a few days then invited them over. Generally they liked me because I was mature, confident (and caring), had my own place/car (super convenient), and had a decent amount of experience in sex (made them come back for more). Interestingly they were turned off by guys their age, since they found them immature and entitled. The girls were lovely,…	/r/seduction	18/07/21 10:51 AM
1	Went out for the first time. Failed hard and feeling shitty, could use advice Have you tried MeetUp?	/r/seduction	20/05/21 12:14 PM
1	Opening with I have Aspergers? Not saying there's anything wrong with Aspergers... ...but you're opening with something that has a negative connotation. It insinuates there's something wrong with you. Don't open with that line.	/r/seduction	20/05/21 12:12 PM
1	Where do I stand with this girl? Some girls get super flirty, sexually suggestive and show a lot of interest, only to apologise and say they have a lot going on. Then they completely stop replying. This happens all the time. Maybe it's true. Maybe it's not. Personally, I didn't care. I was busy with other girls, my work, friends, family, hobbies etc. I've hit it off with plenty of girls who flaked. It's just a part of the game. If she's interested, she'll hit you up. In the meantime, as others have said: shift your focus somewh…	/r/seduction	20/05/21 12:03 PM
2	I'm 20 and idk how to flirt Tell her you like her and ask her out on a date. If she says yes: maybe she likes you back. If she says no, take the hit and move on.	/r/seduction	20/05/21 11:50 AM
3	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? Go to the gym regularly, eat healthy and build a nice body for yourself - that's a really good start.	/r/seduction	12/05/21 12:00 AM
3	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? Some girls are adventurous and if you push the right buttons, they'll come straight to your place.	/r/seduction	11/05/21 11:56 PM
3	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? Age 23 - 27: 1 (First relationship) Age 28 - 29: 30 (Post-relationship rampage on Tinder and Hinge) Late bloomer, but that seemed to have worked well for me. Kind of crazy how I once thought I was ugly and no girl would want me.	/r/seduction	11/05/21 11:53 PM