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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fast Well is like a lot of young women say, they wanna have carefree fun in their early to mid 20s before they decide to get into a serious LTR and look for the 'one' to settle down with in their late 20s onwards. That's all that many other men want as well, that experience of carefree fun that women have an opportunity to indulge in relatively easily. Whether one person else thinks is overrated is immaterial as every person would have their own perspective on it after having gone through that phase.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 03:38 PM
4	If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you wait Technically it isn't but whether feminists/leftists/etc.. want to admit it or not, men and women have innate psychological differences that manifest themselves in having vastly differences preferences when looking for potential partners. One common female preference would be height, wanting men to be 4 inches taller than her at a minimum and often stating that they prefer men who are 6 feet tall, when they only comprise 15% of the male population. Whilst in most men it is practically irrelevant …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 03:15 PM
16	If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you wait I can't speak for anybody else but I don't personally have an issue if a woman has always delayed, as long as it's not too egregious like making a suitor wait several months or so, getting physically intimate with a man that she is interested in. Other men may complain about that but to me it's a wise dating strategy from a women's point of view as it weeds out in-demand men (i.e. Chads/Alphas/whatever) who have plenty of women lined up at any point in time and more often than not are merely int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 12:41 PM
32	If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you wait This attitude of delaying physical intimacy with a guy that they fancy for a LTR is mainly held by women with ahem a 'dubious' sexual past that they are fully aware is off putting to a lot of men, for various reasons mentioned previously on this subredit on numerous occasions. And that's why they act like born again virgins/low n count women at the start of these courtships to give the misleading impression that they are 'wifey' material. Women can be promiscous as they want but they have to u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:47 AM
2	Are 'outdated' preferences towards men also misandristic, while the same towards women are deemed misogynistic?" The difference as to why males seem to get more backlash for their shallow standards is because there little to no market for them. That doesn't make sense. Why would anybody be upset about the standards of someone or a group of people that can't realistically demand them from their intended target? A normal reaction would be that of laughter, contempt and a roll of the eyes at such silly entitled attitude that can't realistically be acquired. It should be the other way around with people unders…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 01:54 PM
3	Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual past Like I said I'm not digging through tens of thousands of threads in TwoXChromosomes, and subreddits of similar ilk, to find these hilarious hypocritical comments about this topic but they're there if you're really that desperate to read them yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 03:52 PM
6	Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual past Why would women ordinarily complain about virgins or men that are invisible to them? They only whine about it if they hear about another woman who feels 'wronged' by a virgin who successfully got in her pants. That doesn't happen very often for obvious reasons but they clearly state their feelings about any uppity lying virgin trying such a 'despicable' thing with them. Meaning that if they ask a guy about his sexual past he better be 100% honest with them if he's a virgin. But if a man asks abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 03:45 PM
13	Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual past There've been numerous threads over the years in misandrist subredits like TwoXChromosomes, can't be arsed looking for them as I don't bookmark them or anything, where many women redditors have not been shy in saying that any man lying about being a virgin after having had sex with them is guilty of gross deceitful behaviour that requires immediate action namely cutting all contact with him and not seeing the guy ever again for committing such a despicable act against them. Personally I think th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 03:27 PM
–	Do woman shame men more for their preferences? I've known several women who've been with younger men, at least 10 years or younger, and in every instance the guy eventually moves on to a girlfriend at least 5 years or younger than himself. lmao Classic examples of this phenomenon among celebrities would be Wawrinka, Pique, various Kylie Monigue, Madonna boyfriends/boytoys, etc... to name a few. Women are not stupid and they know deep down that younger men are not in it for the long haul and are just in it for the fun of it, an experience the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 10:21 AM
2	Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILD Since the majority of women are faithful only woman cheater's have anything to be afraid of then. If it were men that gave birth to children I'm sure feminists would argue that it would be absolutely imperative that the paternity of the child is confirmed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 11:27 AM
3	Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILD To avoid wanting to find out the DNA of the baby as coming across as accusatory I'd advise to frame it as innocently wanting to find out what the ancestry composition of the baby is, problem solved. If the woman still finds that insulting then that should set off loud alarm bells in any man's head because no woman would oppose that innocuous harmless request unless they're actually genuinely afraid of finding out who the real father is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/23 11:19 AM
4	Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning? An analogy in the reverse scenario would be a husband that was romantic with women in his previous relationships but is completely devoid of showing any of that with his current wife just because being romantic didn't work out for him and doesn't want to do it again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 12:17 PM
2	Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning? To be fair women on average have the upper hand in mate selection from their late teens and early/mid 30s so the male experience isn't comparable at all to that of an average woman in that period. Some women insist that in that period they don't overly focus on a small subset of 'desirable' men (high status/ wealthy/handsome/etc..) a subset that is often estimated to be around 20%, while not paying much attention to the majority of average men in those years. But from my personal observations it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 11:58 AM
2	Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning? Like I said in the post above, it's disingenuous to claim that there are many men expecting to find a LTR partner who is a virgin as it's simply not realistic. By and large it's a preference for a woman that has a low number of sexual partners. And that will vary, what's considered low, from men to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 11:37 AM
2	Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning? Nobody is saying that you, or any other specific man, should but other men are entitled to feel differently for various reasons. Saying that many men are expecting and demanding a virgin for LTRs is a stretch though, the main argument is a preference for a low number of sexual partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 11:32 AM
2	Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning? with a ten foot pole That does depend on the woman. The woman from the OP though isn't the type that many men who are not having much success in dating would consider as someone that would be LTR material. So in this scenario no, the OP girl would not be seen as 'bailing' material. An overseas girlfriend would be preferable in that instance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 11:25 AM