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Laugh. Dude's a joke. He's not to be taken seriously.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 07:11 PM
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That's deep, bro. Deep.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 07:03 PM
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Your room should be clean. Not for her sake, but for yours. As for her bitching? That depends. Just experiment and see what works. Forget logic, she's still a woman. She'll ignore logic. My mother responds well to sarcasm and humor. More important than anything though, don't get defensive or whiny. Most of the time, I just laugh at her.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 06:11 PM
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Socializing is not a game of speed. We get used to seeing film/tv representations of conversations where everyone is extremely witty and quick with their responses. We think that those are how conversations are supposed to be in real life and sometimes we forget that these things are scripted. Truth is, most people out there who try to be quick on their feet fail miserably at it. Take your time during conversations. It's not a race. You don't have to respond instantly to everything that is said.…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:30 PM
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Some people just don't want to be helped. At least you're on a different path. Don't become them. Be better. Much much better.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:09 AM
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Go for it man. If you wait until you "improve" your SMV to try, then you'll basically be starting at square one once you get there. However, if you start doing well for yourself (getting laid) don't get complacent and start slacking on you. You are the most important person in your life. No one else. You come first.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:54 AM
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If you don't want to talk, don't answer. I'll answer when I feel like it. If not, I don't. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 04:50 AM
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DO. NOT. BE. EXPRESSIVE. Do not complain or talk about your problems unless you found a solution. DO NOT BURDEN YOUR S.O. WITH YOUR BOWL OF SHIT. Women can barely attack their own bowl of shit with a teaspoon, you cannot possible expect her to help you with yours. It is not her job to be there for you emotionally, don't be a bitch. You couldn't be more right. Complaining is not attractive, no matter how justified your hamster says your complaints are. No one wants to hear that shit, especially n…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 04:22 AM
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Yep. Happens a lot doesn't it? I'm from the south, and I hear a lot that it's one of the last bastions of happy families. Nope. Shit's broken everywhere. Most of my cousins are victims of beta dad syndrome and/or divorced families. I can look around at most of my extended family and see the ones who've turned out productive and happy. Guess what, their parents had a healthy male/female dynamic in the household. The ones that didn't raised beta boys and slutty girls. Oh well, it's better to spot …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 03:59 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Some people are just too far gone. People live their lives one way for so long that nothing seems to help them grow. Everyone needs a little guidance. Even mothers. It's a shame yours may not have gotten it when it was needed. Use it to your advantage, practice holding frame like a boss.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 03:13 AM
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First off, ew. Haha. I've tried talking to my dad about a lot of things, believe me. He doesn't listen. He can barely read anyhow. No. That's wasn't a joke.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:14 AM
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I love the word No. When you say it, you can see the instant the hamster goes into overdrive. When this semester started, I found myself in a class with a girl who I tried to game during my BP days. First day of class, I got there early. She and her friend were the only ones there. I walk in and set my supplies down at a station on the opposite side of the room and head out to take a piss. On the way, she calls to me and says, "hey, why are you sitting over there by yourself?" "I want to." She s…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:59 PM
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Don't put all pressure on yourself. She's just as responsible for making it a good time as you are. If the conversation is lacking, it's on her just as much as you. Don't go into it with the idea that you have to win her over or impress her. She's just a girl, there are billions like her. DO go into it with the idea that SHE has to impress YOU. If she doesn't pull her weight, on to the next.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 04:34 PM
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"That's not true... You also make a mean sandwich."
/r/askTRP07/02/15 04:38 AM
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First of all: I really fucking hate texting... So stop fucking texting. It's a waste of time. Second: sometimes girls put up LMR, shit happens. Get together again and if she still seems keen, try again. Don't sweat it. What exactly was I doing wrong? You were in a house full of people, including her family. That shit's gonna be weird for anybody. Especially a girl who doesn't want to be found to be a slut. Next time, get her alone somewhere. Your hamster is going on a tirade right now. Let it go…
/r/askTRP07/02/15 03:50 AM
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Here, have an upvote!
/r/askTRP07/02/15 03:33 AM
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First of all, welcome to TRP. It's a tough bitch to swallow, but you'll get there. This is merely a first step. We've all been floored by women before. In fact, that's how a lot of us end up here, like you. Anyway, you're already taking the steps you need to. You're viewing the relationship for what it was: Shit. Forget the good times as much as that sucks. They'll never be as sweet as they were. They've been soiled. Remember the bad. That time she treated you like shit? Think about that. That o…
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:49 AM
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Best thing you can do is plan. Sit down and figure up your expenses: your debts, what your dental is going to run, any potential educational cost, etc. If money is tight, and by what you say, it is; you may want to stay at home for a year or so and get your shit sorted. Set priorities. What needs to be taken care of first to last? Figure it out. Lose that weight! No matter what else your doing, fix that shit. It's your health, that NEEDS to be fixed. So get to it. Sometimes life throws you some …
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:20 AM
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Take some time this weekend and lay out a plan of your own. Come up with jobs for each of them. Girl 1 looks into this and girl 2 looks into that, etc. Try to think of how their time can best be utilized. Then, next time class rolls around, lay it on them. As much as it sucks, tell each girl why YOU feel she should do whichever part you give her. Tell her she's good at blah blah or whatever. Telling them their ideas are bad probably isn't going to do you any favors. Encourage them to go in the d…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 11:51 PM
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She's just trying to get a rise out of you. She wants to see if you'll get jealous. Don't let that happen. Jealousy fucking sucks. If you've ever felt it, you'll know what I mean. It's one of the easiest ways to let your hamster get the better of you. She's just a plate. You shouldn't give a shit if she's fucking other dudes. After all, you're fucking other girls. Next time she does it, just don't take it seriously. Tease her for it. Tell her about the girls you're fucking. Doesn't matter what y…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 11:34 PM
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What kind of work are you having to do with them exactly? Context would be good for advice. Other than that, women need for a man to take the lead. This is especially true in group situations. Put a bunch of women together and tell them to get something done, and likely all you're going to get is a bunch of back and forth bickering. So, if you find yourself in a group full of women, you're gonna have to learn and know the things they are good at as individuals. I've found that women can generall…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 11:23 PM
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The last time I had oneitis was this really boring girl who couldn't carry a conversation to save her life. She never did anything fun or interesting, just sat around all day and played video games. Getting her outdoors was a fucking chore. Oh, and her sense of humor was as dry as a fucking rock. See what I did there? Think about her negatives, not her positives. I know she has other men (orbiters) in her life, she's in a sorority, she identifies as a feminist, she has daddy issues, she smokes, …
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:44 PM
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She's a plate. Don't bother with a follow up. Just forget it. She's a plate. If she's not there, don't waste any time thinking about her. She's a plate. Go fuck another one.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:31 PM
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Agreed. A woman who knows the dude is going to be around often, like in OP's case with class, might throw a rejection at him just to see how he reacts. It's almost like a sly underhanded shit test to see if he's the dude she thinks he is. If he gets all butthurt: Fail. If he breaks frame and supplicates for more attention: Fail. Not giving a shit and going business as usual is the only way to really win. Not only will it fuck with her hamster, but if he truly doesn't give a shit, it will kill hi…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:22 PM
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Haha. K, any pointers on how to go about that? Where should I start?
/r/askTRP03/02/15 11:06 PM
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It's only a problem if you view it as a problem. And you most certainly view it as a problem. I'm 5'5" but my height very rarely enters my mind. I just don't give a shit. I couldn't tell you how to get over it, as its never bothered me to begin with, so I never worked through it. But, if I were to give you some advice, look at this as a natural screen to filter out shitty people. If they are shallow and give a shit about your height, then they aren't even worth your time, let alone your commitme…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:56 PM
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Look at it this way. If you go for it, she'll either: Reciprocate: Kiss you back. Not Reciprocate: Ducks you, turns away, etc. Trust me when I say both of these are good things. 1. Is good because of obvious reasons. 2 is good because now you have your answer. You know she's not into you. You've checked another off the list. On to the next. Move on. Go for it if you want, either way, you'll get an answer.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 04:27 PM
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Your advice is sound, but hard nexting is going to be impossible for this guy. He has classes with her. He can't exactly go full no contact in this situation. That means he's going to have to have some mega balls to deal with her bullshit when he starts to cut her off. Cut her off OP. It's your only option. Move on, its not worth it. You've got oneitis and it's fuckin with your shit. It's going to suck sitting next to her and having her whine and complain that you never hang out anymore. She'll …
/r/askTRP24/01/15 03:48 PM
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Good job?
/r/askTRP24/01/15 02:46 PM
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According to Rollo, that's not necessarily true. http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/02/plate-theory-ii-non-exclusivity/ Plate Theory II: "Spinning Plates doesn’t necessarily mean you’re fucking all of your plates." and, "...you don’t have to be sexual with every one of the plates you’re spinning...It’s the potential in knowing that you could be, or that there are women who will value your attention that prompts a competitive anxiety in women." So, if we're going by Rollo's system, and I assume w…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 04:40 PM
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Fuck it. What do you have to lose? Keep us posted OP.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:14 AM
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Go read the FAQ over at gain it, located here: http://www.reddit.com/r/gainit/wiki/index They have all the information you need to get started.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 02:40 PM
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The friend zone sucks. We've all been there. We all know how it feels. But there is a better way: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2rqzny/just_say_no_thanks_to_the_friendzone/
/r/askTRP17/01/15 12:10 AM
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Just do what works for you, man. The advice to escalate quickly is mostly for saving time on girls who aren't interested and protecting yourself from becoming an orbiter. If you want to take your time, do it. Nobody's stopping you. Just make sure she KNOWS your interested sexually and not just friendly.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 11:20 PM
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If you're looking at this as a potential LTR, then I don't think you did anything wrong. It sounds like you guys (at least her) are young. So, it's likely that she was insecure and was simply comfort testing you. Again, if you're looking for an LTR, this is a good thing. Just wait and see how she acts after this. If nothing changes or things get better, you're all good.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:28 PM
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Yes, OP. If you decide to meet up (and I have a feeling you will), do what Josh says. For the love of god, escalate. Make it clear that you are no old beta you anymore. If she responds negatively (ducks the kiss, etc.), she still wants the beta orbit. DO NOT give her the orbit. You are able to escalate or you HARD next. If you can't escalate, she wants validation and not your D. However, be extremely careful. You may already have oneitis for this girl. It will be very tempting to fall into the t…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 07:03 PM
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"You love it." Initiate kino/hug.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 06:16 PM
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