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How do you feel about your physical self when fully clothed?
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:02 PM
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I don’t know how to get back to texting her (because I don’t want to make it obvious This sounds like a perspective problem. Making it apparent or clear that you are interested in spending time with her is fine. She's a person with emotions too. What you want to avoid is coming across as desperate or too strong.You can want something without being desperate for it (I wish I had leaned this earlier!). I personally try to go for the most honest approach. I always do my best to say why I'm thinking…
/r/seduction06/04/19 05:50 PM
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Wait so when you say you're busy and offer an alternative at another time, that's fine and she acceps. But when she says she's busy and offers an alternative (and a more immediate one at that!), that's unacceptable and you freak out? Great rational "male" response.
/r/seduction06/04/19 05:31 PM
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Gym
/r/seduction06/04/19 05:14 PM
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This is by far the most valuable and well-throughout out response here. I’m surprised it hasn’t garnered more attention.
/r/seduction21/03/19 04:48 PM
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Some people have poor communication skills hahaha
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:08 PM
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waiting on my side for them to cross seems weird Why does that seem weird? You either meet her in the center of the street or on either of the two sides. You can try to motion at her before she crosses, but that has potential to be more awkward, and I assume you don't want to run across to her side of the street while the light is still red.
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:16 PM
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Who cares? The game is called "have sex". You can be disgusted by the motives and other players and still want to win at the game of have sex. You clearly aren't interested in winning the same game, or aren't as motivated, so I don't see why you're even here commenting.
/r/seduction15/02/19 09:45 PM
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You most likely confused her blank stares into the distance as an IOI. Pretty common at the gym. I find myself staring blankly at girls, walls, even other guys while in between sets without noticing. It definitely doesn't necessarily mean I'm into them.
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:30 PM
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Calling people lads doesn't help your point. It almost seems like you didn't read the post. The FWB wasn't his GF, they were no longer seeing each other, and the mom was divorced. Nobody in this story crossed any moral boundaries. Nobody cheated on anybody. I don't see what you take issue with.
/r/seduction27/12/18 05:25 AM
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There's nothing illegal about sleeping with the girlfriend of another guy. If that guy assaults you as a result, what he did is completely illegal, and you can and should file charges for assault. The girl is not the guy's property. She is able to make her own decisions.
/r/seduction19/12/18 05:07 PM
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So, in a nutshell, first go to formal and dance with several girls and have lots of fun, and then afterward ask your crush to formal.
/r/seduction17/12/18 02:56 PM
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It sounds like the backpack is not that heavy?
/r/seduction05/12/18 04:20 PM
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Say what you're thinking and be honest. Why is that a mystery?
/r/seduction09/11/18 06:29 AM
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You really can't go wrong with the ol' ball-fondle-at-first-sight either.
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:45 AM
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That isn't a slight towards women, and it shouldn't imply any fault on their part as individuals. It's simply a fact of our genetic programming. That said, I think "Women love what you can do for them; they don’t really love you" is a bit of hyperbole and not always 100% true.
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:25 AM
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There isn't a lot of thinking involved. Just a basic understanding of human desire and psyche. Also probably realizing that you were thinking a lot about women to begin with, in a way that was probably counterproductive. If you learn life's truths rather than the falsities society has taught you, you'll probably have to think less.
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:11 AM
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Malnutrition is common in developing asian countries, causing the population to be shorter on average than Europeans. Generally, girls like tall guys.
/r/seduction22/10/18 08:09 AM
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Funny, of all the ethnicities I've encountered, Latina girls pay me (a white guy) the most attention.
/r/seduction22/10/18 07:39 AM
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Does nobody else see the irony in this reply?
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:50 AM
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From the literature I've read, those only help with physical manifestations of anxiety, no?
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:50 AM
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This is pretty crucial information that you probably should have included in your OP. Girls deal a lot with creeps and people who pretend to be somebody else. This is a super common way for girls to verify that you are who you say you are. Now, it's totally within your right to choose to not interact with girls for whom social media is as second nature as texting or calling. But keep in mind that this is a non-negligible percentage of girls under 30. You're really just substituting an older (and…
/r/seduction21/07/18 08:59 PM
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Of course he is generalizing. You can't enter a discussion involving ethnicity and expect anybody not to speak in generalities.
/r/seduction22/06/18 10:32 PM
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I have some extreme social anxiety too sometimes but that seems to fade quick once I start a conversation Social anxiety doesn't fade once you start a conversation. That's like saying you have arachnophobia but it fades once you're in room full of spiders for a minute. It's called apprehension.
/r/seduction22/06/18 10:24 PM
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Not to be a dick, but I don't quite understand your claim of "I know what the app does "
/r/seduction07/05/18 03:01 AM
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How are you confused about how getting a girl's contact info for a messaging app can be helpful? EDIT: lol downvoted for pointing out that the guy who claims he understands a technology obviously does not understand said technology, else he would not be confused about why said technology is useful. I've been downvoted for a lot of stupid stuff on this website but this is a first.
/r/seduction06/05/18 06:23 AM
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Yeah it sounds weird but seriously, take a break from masturbation. Pickup and game really aren't driven by thought and reason (although the techniques they use can be). They are driven by the primal motive of seeking sex. The voice in my head that talks me out of escalation ends up being drowned out by the overwhelming desire for sex when I decrease my masturbation frequency to two or three times a month
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:39 AM
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I'll repeat advice that's repeated constantly here: texting should be used as a means to setup some in person activity, e.g. a date. You're not supposed to get to know her or establish a relationship through texting. You're supposed to do that in person. Girls are probably getting really fucking bored of dragging on conversations over text. I definitely would. Send her a couple of messages so she feels comfortable, and then invite her to some activity with you in the next few days (doesn't have …
/r/seduction18/02/18 10:28 PM
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Exchanging social media in the form of instagram isn't a substitute for exchanging numbers. Instagram is less personal than a phone number by design, and is more like inviting somebody to have a glimpse into one's life. Imagine being an artist or a musician and inviting somebody to your own art gallery or concert. Only you don't have to be a musician, and your art can suck. I see the appeal of exchanging snapchats, but if your goal is to set up a date with a girl, getting her number is the way t…
/r/seduction15/02/18 08:54 AM
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I must have missed the part where they started having sex in the middle of a rave.
/r/seduction05/02/18 04:21 PM
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This probably works well for people with a moderate and reasonable level of cynicism. If I gave my truthful opinion, I'd probably have such a bad reputation that I'd lose my job.
/r/seduction30/01/18 08:47 AM
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Nobody ever said change is easy. It sounds like you didn't read the post though. If you make an effort and go to the gym regularly, you won't be scrawny or fat. If you make an effort and research fashion and style, you won't be poorly dressed. If you make an effort and care for your skin, your teeth, and your hair, you won't be as unattractive. If you make an effort and learn new skills and constantly improve yourself, you won't be worth as little. If you make an effort and do all of these thing…
/r/seduction22/01/18 11:03 AM
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I've made friends over the past three months of working a new job. I'm 25. After graduating from college this June, all but two of my friends moved away. The new friends I've made are completely independent of those other two from college. So, uh, yeah. Stop using your age as an excuse.
/r/seduction27/12/17 02:15 AM
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How do you still have a positive response when you know that the person you're talking with is just completely off-base in what they're talking about?
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:01 PM
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Great, thanks! I'll practice this while sitting at my desk at work next week!
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:00 PM
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Lol, funny and surprisingly accurate. Lived with 5 girls for a year, can confirm 90%
/r/seduction22/12/17 04:17 AM
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I see this question asked a lot, and the popular answers are usually something along the lines of "move on", "pursuing her isn't worth your time", and "she isn't interested or you'd know." While this is mostly true, it's important to keep mind that this girl is human, and doesn't have some omniscient perspective. Many girls are shy, awkward, and afraid you'll think they're weird or won't like them, especially if your only previous interaction was with her at a club. If you play it too chill, the…
/r/seduction22/12/17 02:12 AM
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Enlarge? Enlargen made me angry.
/r/seduction01/12/17 03:08 AM
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Oh God dude, the world really isn't this rosy a place. I used to love myself. I played video games, spent most of my time indoors, but had some close friends. I got good grades and overall did things that made myself happy. As a result, I had practically zero interaction with girls until my 20's. At that point, I started doing things like working out, eating healthy, stepping up my style game, watching videos on how to talk to girls, and generally doing things to make myself more attractive to o…
/r/seduction22/11/17 09:45 AM
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So you're a male model too?
/r/seduction17/11/17 06:19 AM
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If you're trying for a longer style, you could try this: https://yt3.ggpht.com/-11X5PFCSjP8/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/L0pmw0FGqWY/s900-c-k-no-mo-rj-c0xffffff/photo.jpg
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:52 AM
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, man.
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:39 AM
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You look fine. Don't take what others have said to mean your hair sucks. It doesn't, and it looks like you have decent hair genetics. But if you want to have long hair, you either need it to be even longer, or you need to cut the sides short. Look up some styles online. Right now it's at an intermediate awkward length, which isn't helping. You could also experiment with letting your facial hair grow out. For most people with even coverage, a light beard makes them look more masculine, which for …
/r/seduction16/11/17 05:36 PM
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I'm frustrated about shitty homophones.
/r/seduction07/11/17 10:15 AM
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I used to actually "not give a fuck" because it allowed me to avoid dealing with rejection. As a result, I rarely got laid because I rarely tried, despite being in college and surrounded by girls. My mindset now is not the same. Now, I do care, but in the event of a rejection, I don't allow myself to get too caught up in that one outcome. What many people describe as "not giving a fuck" might be better as described as "not being overly concerned by the possibility of rejection."
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:30 PM
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Girls like this don't want your poems Did you read your own post? If the way you speak IRL is at all similar to the way you write, you were probably spitting poetry at her all night.
/r/seduction29/07/17 10:55 PM
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Dude download the app and try it. You made it to reddit and figured out how to create an account and post messages. Downloading and using an app is certainly within your ability. I really hope you're only trolling or you're set to have a rough time in life.
/r/seduction27/07/17 09:26 AM
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You take a photo and then send it to somebody? Like Jesus, you've used a camera right?
/r/seduction27/07/17 03:55 AM
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we became friends that make out occasionally but wouldn't fuck Um what? Sorry to draw attention away from the topic you're asking about, but how is this the "friend zone"? Or has making out with all your friends always been a common practice for you?
/r/seduction26/07/17 03:26 PM
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Ah, that's too bad. People like that are why we can't have nice things.
/r/seduction18/07/17 03:40 AM
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Where was she called a whore? I see posts that criticize either the guy for much of his behavior, or the girl for suggesting they sleep in a bed together (indirectly of course, but surely they intended to sleep at some point in the hotel room). Yes, the girl said no hookups before the room was booked. She also said several times that he was not paying for everything. She certainly didn't push him away by the chest when he refused to let her pay. Apparently warnings and words weren't to be taken …
/r/seduction17/07/17 09:40 PM
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Lol nearly every reply here had been extremely level headed and reasonable. The post was downvoted because of name calling, disparaging language, and quibbling over numbers. Any valid points the guy had were utterly buried.
/r/seduction17/07/17 09:28 PM
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She had a place to stay: her own home (and unless she lived more than an hour drive away, paying for an uber home almost certainly would have cost less than a hotel). Instead, she asked to share a bed with him. Not that I agree with the poster you're responding to, but the perspective you're presenting makes it seem like she stayed out of necessity.
/r/seduction17/07/17 09:22 PM
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Out of curiosity, what was going through your mind when you suggested the two of you get a place for the night? Were you trying to appease him (he said he didn't want to go)? Did you want to extend the date? Were you willing to split the cost of a hotel in order to cuddle with him? Did you have sex on your mind at the time?
/r/seduction17/07/17 11:30 AM
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How do you know why he was dumped? You know practically nothing about the situation.
/r/seduction21/06/17 08:19 PM
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"Most girls are in the store to shop, not get hit on." "Most girls are on the bus to travel, not get hit on." "Most girls are in the restaurant to get food, not get hit on." Most girls are in the gym to work out, not get hit on." These are all true. One of the only places girls go specifically to be hit on is a bar/club. But this typically doesn't stop people from hitting on girls in these other places. And yes, it's totally possible to be creepy and annoying in these places too. The issue with …
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:15 PM
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I've heard (white) girls reject guys by saying they're only into black men. People have preferences. Race is one of them.
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:45 PM
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It seems like your opinion about the morality of ageism is coloring your conclusion about the morality of being dishonest about age. Let's remove the specifics of the type of discrimination we're discussing. If you know that people will discriminate against you for some innate quality (sex, race, etc.), why are you morally bound to be honest about that quality? I'll clarify that I'm playing a part here for the sake of discussion. I personally believe that people have the right to prefer whatever…
/r/seduction19/04/17 05:31 PM
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I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. How is the issue of age discrimination (the reason he is lying) aside from the point of him lying about his age?
/r/seduction19/04/17 02:59 PM
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If he isn't being otherwise manipulative, why does his age play such an decisive role here? If you knew that other people would discriminate against you based on your age, wouldn't you be weary about disclosing that information honestly to people in public?
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:51 AM
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You are entitled to your opinion as much as the next person, and so is the OP. If a person is interested in having sex, why do you get to play the deliverer of judgement and decide that it isn't ok? The law says 16. There is obviously a societal consensus that at such an age, a person is adult-enough to decide for themselves how to conduct themselves sexually.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:48 AM
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Did you read the post? She very clearly chased him. Since does being chased by a girl make a person a predator? She could have been 17 years and 10 months. At 18 years, nobody would bat an eye. But 60 days younger, and now anybody who has sex with her is a predator? For chrissake, think about what you're saying.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:27 AM
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The distinction is that he isn't talking to these women with the intention of fucking them. Sure, he probably wants to be better able to develop romance more easier on the future, which can lead to things like sex (and other sorts of things like interpersonal relationships). As anybody who reads this subreddit must know, there is this thing called inner game. The main goal of the author here is to develop himself as a person and as a man. You can put the pieces together.
/r/seduction16/12/16 10:43 AM
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In most cases, external social pressures push her to say no (this is related to the feeling of guilt). Girls might say this verbally while making out, or nonverbally before you're even initiated conversation, or at any point in between. Regardless of the situation, most girls need some form of persuasion to overcome the negative social pressure to not have sex. Otherwise, any girl who was remotely attracted to a guy would make it incredibly obvious. In many cases, internal pressures push her to …
/r/seduction02/12/16 06:42 PM
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I see what you did there but there are actually only two steps and you listed both.
/r/seduction18/11/16 11:23 PM
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Probably trolling/envious. It's easier to dismiss somebody's experience as made up than to admit that possibly that person did something you might not be able to or haven't yet.
/r/seduction06/11/16 09:01 PM
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For the record, my conclusion wasn't that the story is fictional. I just don't understand why this is the reaction people have every time they read a FR posted here. But yeah, nice report. I enjoyed it.
/r/seduction06/11/16 08:59 PM
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Does it matter if this is fictional or not? If it's fictional, this was some creative writing and entertaining to read. And I feel sorry that the guy has to make up stories like this to feel good. If it's truthful, then GG. Smooth work. Hopefully you see her again in the future. (I usually regret not going all the way)
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:24 PM
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Apologizing seems like an odd/awkward thing to do. Apologizing inherently implies that believe you did something hurtful or morally or socially incorrect. You didn't do wrong by her by trying to kiss her. Her pulling away isn't her way of scolding you or telling you that what you did was reprehensible. By trying to kiss her, you were testing her boundaries, which is an absolute necessary part of human social interaction. You take a step forward, she takes a step back. Maybe next time you take a …
/r/seduction30/08/16 05:43 PM
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All really valid points. Thanks for the response.
/r/seduction29/06/16 08:21 AM
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Honest question: why would you want for people not to know what you're really like? I wouldn't want or be happy around people who like someone who isn't actually me.
/r/seduction29/06/16 03:45 AM
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