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reddit_benmartin/r/seduction31/08/18 08:11 PM
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reddit_benmartin/r/seduction15/05/18 08:31 PM
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Yes, I've dated many asian girls who grew up in Asia and none of them were weird that they can't maintain normal eye contact. I tell you, that girl most likely have social autism.
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:44 PM
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Nothing you can do about asian girls not wanting to sleep on first dates. Just blame their parents.
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:36 PM
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Next time you see a hot girl, go into it expecting failure and so when you do fail, it won't sting so hard.
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:33 PM
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The fact that she went inside your home means she was interested enough. She probably wanted to know the quality of lifestyle that you live in, and she was not impressed and decided to bail.
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:31 PM
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Anyone?
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:21 PM
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Asian girls not making eye contact is not a common cultural thing. It would seem more like the girl you are dating has social autism.
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:20 PM
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PUA skills is a myth. It's all about the looks and being able to say "would you like to go out sometimes?".
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:07 PM
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I guess I've been too modest to realize how awesome I am. How is it down there?
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:03 PM
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Most of us asian guys prefer asian girls so it's ok.
/r/seduction02/08/18 07:34 PM
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Not quite smooth, but to the point I guess. You gotta ease into it a bit. Like "so...you come to this campus often?"
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:45 PM
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so true
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:42 PM
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All this talk about girls at the gym has motivated me to go to the gym tonite.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 09:45 PM
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And us normal men appreciate their poses. So what's the big deal? It actually motivates me to work out harder when I see hot women at the gym.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 09:43 PM
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You're braver than I. Even if protected sex, I can't see myself having sex with every girl who I find attractive and willing. EDIT: if you've been lucky so far, perhaps the fear of STD could help you from controlling yourself from hooking up. Remember, regret always comes at the end.
/r/seduction04/04/18 08:43 PM
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Can I ask you a serious question, and please be honest. With all this hooking up, did you end up with STD's?
/r/seduction03/04/18 11:01 PM
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It's possible you have peaked and is slowly heading down.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:27 PM
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That's why before marriage, you want to make sure she is the type who can go to the gym with you (simply by asking her to work out with you). If she is not into working out, then decide whether you're ok with it or move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 09:16 PM
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Casual platonic friendship with a girl, yes...it's ok. Close platonic friendship with a girl, no...because it could lead to a one-sided crush, or that when the other person starts dating someone, it is highly unlikely that you can continue being close friends.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 01:10 AM
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i didn't
/r/askTRP23/01/18 12:47 AM
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u lost me after the 3rd paragraph of this novel.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 12:03 AM
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What happened to "accidentally" brushing your hands to hers?
/r/seduction15/01/18 08:27 PM
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Well, you can always go at it by being direct, and just introducing yourself and asking her name, and how she is doing. It's direct because it lets her know that you are interested in her. Or you can go at it indirectly like asking her about homework, and basically go at it like your trying to make friends with her. Obviously, the bad part is that you may end up in a friend zone, BUT if she thinks your cute, then asking her out later (like a week later) would still work.
/r/seduction13/01/18 02:24 AM
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Well, nothing says more respectful than an initial greeting of "m'lady" with a tip of your hat.
/r/seduction13/01/18 02:19 AM
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If you don't mind getting rejected in front of other guys at the gym, then go for it.
/r/seduction13/01/18 02:07 AM
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With online dating, the "approach" does not mean much. Work on getting good pictures that still looks like you in real life.
/r/seduction13/01/18 02:06 AM
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Get a picture that is not a selfie. Selfies are not too accurate. I've seen overweight women look good with selfies, but at normal distance, the truth comes out.
/r/seduction13/01/18 02:02 AM
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The first time you ever approached (in your life), how did that go?
/r/seduction13/01/18 01:44 AM
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All you need is repetition. The more you interact with hot girls, the more you get used to it, and soon, it won't be such a big deal. I was the same way. If I'm out with a girl that I find very attractive, I become super nervous. But I just stuck with it, and just tried to meet as many "hot" girl types, and eventually, it wasn't some huge deal anymore. EDIT: you think male porn stars are intimidated by hot girls? No, because they are surrounded by them on a regular basis.
/r/seduction13/01/18 01:35 AM
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You mean a guy approach 20 girls and he gets all their numbers? I believe it's possible. I'm thinking if brad pitt wasn't a famous actor, and he approached women (especially in his prime), he would probably go 20 for 20.
/r/seduction13/01/18 01:22 AM
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If you're already attractive, then all you need to say is "hi". But just hope that you're the most attractive guy who says "hi" cuz other attractive guys are saying "hi" as well.
/r/seduction13/01/18 01:18 AM
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She sounds uneducated. And as for your "line", you're putting too much effort. It comes off desperate. Just keep it simple.
/r/seduction13/01/18 01:16 AM
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Fistbump? Look at cassanova here.
/r/seduction13/01/18 01:13 AM
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First, ask her if you can kiss her. Then ask, "wanna go to my bedroom?" It's not that hard.
/r/seduction13/01/18 01:09 AM
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Just make sure she doesn't "professionally flirt" with her next co worker once you guys are dating and work at different locations. EDIT: I find it amazing how some of you don't realize that if a girl is willing to flirt with you while she has a boyfriend, that she won't do it again when you two are dating.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:57 AM
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Or or....she was not interested. But that shouldn't matter. It's a numbers game. One will eventually take the bait.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:52 AM
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Obviously you were mesmerized by her looks that you couldn't pay attention to what she was saying.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:43 AM
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When you talked to her, were there other guys nearby? It must have been even more embarrassing if a bunch of guys heard everything that was said.
/r/seduction13/01/18 12:39 AM
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I don't think you have to do anything that you aren't already doing. If you guys are really good together, just continuing how are you with her will keep her. If not, then you were not meant to be. EDIT: Be with a girl who is into you as much as you are into them, then you won't feel the need to try hard.
/r/seduction01/12/17 12:04 AM
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You're braver than I. I can't even do that even if the girl is giving me signs of interest. That's my dream, to ask out a random stranger girl that I find attractive. I guess I'll just have to stick to meeting women from online dating sites.
/r/seduction01/12/17 12:02 AM
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I dated this asian girl who didn't date asian guys, but I told her "but I'm asian", and she said, "i know, but you're an exception". I really felt proud about myself. Is that how you felt with your situation?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 10:21 PM
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You sound kinda bitter. Did she reject your advances?
/r/MGTOW27/10/17 08:51 PM
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I'm an average looking guy, and I'm gonna use this technique on a supermodel! I can't believe I'm gonna end up dating a supermodel, hooray!
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:50 PM
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