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| 3 | GF got upset and said she was going to go to the bar at 1am, but didn't after talking | redditaccountiuse | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 06:40 PM |
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| 2 | No means no.I would separate work from pleasure, but I agree that it’s not offensive for me to get nudes, ha. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | AWALT or AWACapableOfThat?AWALT but AMALT too...it's just about knowing the dynamic and how to navigate it etc. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel like shit if they don’t do something productive during the day?Absolutely. Even weekends and vacations make me feel like crap. I work hard and look forward to my time off the whole time...then when it comes, I feel worthless to society because I'm not doing anything. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 11:17 PM |
| 7 | LURK MORE - or Why Some People Will Never "Get" TRPThe problem with TRP forums is they are destined to be full of people who don’t follow the principles, because once you have your awakening and modify your behaviour, you kinda move on. The people who engage in the social media content are usually those just discovering it, still in anger phase etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | 1 year dry spell and my frame is complete shit nowFocus on yourself and stop seeking external validation | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 07:13 AM |
| 3 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?the incredible ability for women to lie about anything, from big issues you can understand why they'd cover up or totally inconsequential things. this goes along with the most painful realization - that the sense of honour and integrity is a mostly male trait. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?Hip thrusts | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 01:31 PM |
| 6 | So she finally cheated [LTR]Good. You found out she wasn’t the one to marry. Go on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys in LTR practice TRP?Plate potential is always important. I don’t have plates because it doesn’t align with my values - but the potential to have them needs to always be demonstrated in a natural way. 100% agree. Monogamy and respect is very important to me. But one way this works for me is having a public job where I attend a lot of events and have people come up to me. The couple times my girlfriend has been around to see this, she almost gets drunk on desire. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she will refuse sex for various reasons but offer a blowjob?i can get it if she's on her period or real tired and doesn't want to go through the cleanup etc before bed. if she's still making sure you get off i'd be happy with that. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 01:53 PM |
| 3 | What’s with Gen Z conservatism? Are we really sure the West is doomed? Could someone explain?the pendulum has swung and conservatism has become counter-culture and cool. the left, which was once the counter-culture when i grew up, is now the mainstream. they are the puritans and authoritarians telling you what you can and cannot say. young people like to be rebels. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Older guys plating younger womenI’m 30 and my SMV is the highest it’s ever been. Mainly due to working out and pursuing my career. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Since discovering the red pill many aspect of my life have changed, more success with women, & etc. it all makes sense but does anyone have trouble letting go of what they used to think love was?there is still love and romance bro. we are all humans and equal. the red pill is about discovering what works for men and what works with women. you might have to let go of the fairytale idea - which itself might simply be cover for being lazy and getting unattractive - but there is still beautiful love to be experienced. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 02:55 PM |
| 6 | How do women manage to move on so fast ?Definitely true men are the romantics, but also it's easier to move on when you have lots of options and people throwing themselves at you, men or women. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | As a Woman the Wall is Inevitable, As a Man your Wall is a ChoiceI’m not really up on the current meta, but I’m usually in smaller places too. Big cities I think the algorithm makes it harder to find mutual matches, unless you pay for unlimited swipes. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What's the most selfish and solipsistic stuff a girl has done to you?Long story but that was in the first month of the relationship and it took me another 2-3 years to end it, though I knew I should since the start. It was my awakening to needing to put myself first. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 02:08 PM |
| 3 | How important is social circle/popularity after college?idk about popularity cause i dont really have a lot of friends at 30 now but i work in a very public field (not even that high up a job or anything, just public and interact with a lot of people at events etc) and i know my status as well known in the local area has contributed to positive attention from the opposite sex | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 02:18 AM |
| 8 | As a Woman the Wall is Inevitable, As a Man your Wall is a ChoiceTinder, social media and work (lots of public event attendance). I don’t drink and don’t go to bars or stuff. I’ve had a girlfriend for several months now tho who’s 21. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/19 10:39 PM |
| 4 | What's the most selfish and solipsistic stuff a girl has done to you?Early in a relationship cuddling on the couch with a girl who was in a text chat with her ex talking about how much she loved him and saying I wasn't over right now... Hell of a red flag and part of what led me to the red pill. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:49 PM |
| 6 | How did you get into your ltr?The heart of the red pill is more simple to me. You can still be in love, romantic, flirty, fun, loyal, committed etc...just remember to put yourself first and stand up for what you want and deserve. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:58 PM |
| 58 | As a Woman the Wall is Inevitable, As a Man your Wall is a ChoiceYep. I looked like garbage at 27. Started taking care of myself, working out, pursuing career harder and I feel like I’m 19 at 30 now. Those college-age girls I missed out on before are attracted to me now. Didn’t miss out on anything in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Tired of Sex Denials with LTRI was in a longterm dead bedroom and now I am very clear about what I want in a relationship. It's not going to get better unless you put yourself first. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | How to treat girls when they mention their ex boyfriends or what to say to hold frame?if you're talking about a relationship, i think it's only respectful not to bring up exes period, and i would make that clear if i cared about a relationship. if not a relationship, whatever. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Finishing Insidei wouldn't do it unless you accept she might get pregnant. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 03:22 AM |
| 7 | Which realisations have shattered/changed your world view the most? (Trp or not)Capitalism and free exchange is beautiful. It is progress. It is peace. It is freedom. It's a natural force for good. It's such a shame it gets demonized. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 12:51 AM |
| 84 | Which realisations have shattered/changed your world view the most? (Trp or not)Studying economics when I was younger made me completely shift from the standard lefty/socialist to more libertarian. It felt like no one in public school taught you about how money actually works and human incentives. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Are my views on holidays in LTR’s outdated?I'm with you, and it's how I phrase things now too. You can do as you like, I'm all for you pursuing what you want in life - but this is not what I want in a relationship for myself. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | advice for making sure you get a boner?Lots of warm baths and stretching ahead, good luck | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 01:51 AM |
| 0 | advice for making sure you get a boner?Urination issue - do you have phimosis? Something to google and fix if so. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 01:17 AM |
| 27 | Is she a slut?Yes she likely goes raw with other guys she just meets. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How to forgive myself?Dwelling on the past is behaviour you need to get over too | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 01:10 AM |
| 2 | What advice do you have for moving to new cities? How should I handle a career that requires a lot of relocation (consulting)?if you're looking for a long-term relationship, you just have to inform partners of the logistics and see if they're on board for that. i move every few years for work. i broke up with one LTR because she wouldn't move with me. my current LTR will go wherever i go. i love moving and going to new places. i get so sick of the same place. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Men who went from unattractive to attractive, How did your life change?i gained about 30 pounds of muscle in 2-3 years of working out and really improved my face along the way. the results have been clear. everything is easier with women. i get a lot more attention. back in the day i would write up those intelligent online dating messages talking about their interests etc...now it doesn't matter what i say. i actually think in a lot of ways my personality got worse but it has had zero negative effect with women. now i have a great girlfriend. that said, no amount o… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 01:55 PM |
| 11 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?i got a few hookers in mexico as a young man, and i recommend it to every young unconfident man now. really gets the monkey off your back and lets you understand sex, how to do it etc. no pressure cause you're paying the person and will never see them again. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?you are 23. you are still a kid. and you clearly have a victim complex. think about the way you view the world and try to become a man. a lot of us have been there. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?and being fit is better than not | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?what's the point in making money? eventually you're going to spend it. what's the point in being smart? eventually your mind will start failing. what's the point in anything? eventually you're going to die. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?dude, you're 23 with a victim complex. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?no but they matter a lot | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I learn "adulting" as a 25M that has never been taught important life skills/lessonswell that's the best way to grow yourself up | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:03 PM |
| 2 | How do I learn "adulting" as a 25M that has never been taught important life skills/lessonsdo you live on your own? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?go to my profile and scroll down to my progress pic. at 27 i looked like a short incel. at 30 i look better than ever and women have never been easier. you can improve yourself. but you need to change your mentality. all you seem to want to do is make excuses for yourself and wallow in depression. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?i just dont think you know what you're talking about. once i get old ill lose all that mass? like...late 50s? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?you're not going to get anywhere with your mentality | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?you have no idea what you're talking about. you should be able to put on 10 pounds of muscle a year if you're dedicated, at least for the first few years. and that's not even a lot. your SMV as a man will only go up in your late 20s so long as you stay in shape etc. your biggest problem is your defeated mentality. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?you're 23. lol. i only started putting on muscle at 27. start now and you will reap the rewards. or don't if you have no dedication. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Does being jacked really make that much of a difference? Are looks really that significant to women?i wouldn't call myself jacked but i have put on about 30+ pounds of muscle on a relatively short frame in the last few years, and it has had an undeniable effect on female attention | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | When to stop bulking and cut?as said go by the mirror and how you want to look. when i start to lose my lower abs and don't feel as good with my shirt off, i cut. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Craziest red flags you ignored?still talking to her ex (all the time) as "friends" | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think tattoos make a girl look like trailer trash?not necessarily trailer trash but i don't like tattoos on women. they are basically clothes to me, covering up their skin. tattoos in general are lame imo. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Afroid of missing out on doing something "meaningful" in my healthy yearspursue your career to the fullest | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 01:40 AM |
| 14 | What if only looks matter?Looks are definitely the vast majority of it. I experienced this first hand lifting and taking care of myself. Looking better and being stronger also contributes to confidence and all that. But I noticed on tinder and whatnot, it didn't matter what I said at all. If a girl was interested, she'd meet up. Didn't need to come up with anything witty or even literate, lol. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Cons of going out with an ugly girl?idk if i agree man. i think the problem for a lot of guys, me included, is putting hotter girls on a pedestal, whereas we are naturally more alpha with uglier girls because we don't care. i think it's good experience, and if you treated a hotter girl like you treat an uglier one, you'd probably seem more attractive. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Cons of going out with an ugly girl?if you've never gone on a date, i say go and get experience. i got experience in my younger years with ugly girls. just don't risk pregnancy. i wouldn't have sex period unless she seems super pro abortion/on birth control/condom etc. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumi recommend quitting weed entirely. i was a stoner from 18-24 or so and it just made me less confident and successful. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 03:54 PM |
| 9 | What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?Well my discovery of the red pill gave me the courage to move away for a job. Up until that point I was under the impression even working 1 hour away would be a dealbreaker. I felt very trapped. But taking my life into my own hands and doing what I wanted only seemed to make her want me more. That was some clear early evidence of how this stuff works. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Disrespectful plate snaps me a pic of another guys bedsheetsi am grossed about having sex with someone who's having sex with other people at the same time so i wouldnt care if its a joke, that's a no from me bro. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Why were you originally Blue-Pilled?only in retrospect man. we grow up learning all sorts of this stuff and then find out how untrue some of it is. the bluepill is saturated in mainstream western society. all the stuff about the incompetent husband, happy wife happy life, personality over looks, girls want a nice guy etc. a whole generation of men got bluepilled. imo it's a lot like economics/human action and incentives. i had a similar realization about that when i became an adult. just the truths about supply and demand, market … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 03:12 PM |
| 2 | How to handle situations where people hate on you?i do find i am generally treated worse in public the better i look/better i dress/better i'm kept etc. i think women definitely want to be with a good looking man, tho it might intimidate them/make them feel insecure about themselves. either way i'd just take it as a compliment man. most people would kill for your problem here. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How to handle situations where people hate on you?you got me questioning myself now. do girls not randomly insult me at coffee shops because im not exceptionally handsome? lol. i got no relevant experience here but it sounds to me like they're showing interest/shit testing. they wouldnt even look your way if they werent interested. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to handle situations where people hate on you?i meant do you say anything to them? do you hit on them and then they insult you? or are you just standing there and some girl comes up and calls you weak and gay? cause that would be weird... | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Dog women vs cat woman?word man i just got burned by that whole experience and completely turned off dogs for good. no hate on em tho. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How to handle situations where people hate on you?do you do anything to prompt girls telling you how gay you are, or is it unsolicited? lol. i would take it as a compliment anyway...girls won't even insult a guy they don't have any interest in. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Making yourself the prizeit's not about strategizing dates and all this...you have to focus on yourself, be proud of who you are, proud of your career, progress, etc...and you will naturally be the prize in your own mind, without having to manufacture it. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have less sex drive after moving in with an LTR?the longer i stay with someone, the less crazy about sex i am with them. i would just spend more time apart. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Why were you originally Blue-Pilled?just how we grew up in liberal vancouver. it was what i and all my peers assumed was the truth and state of things. took some bad relationships and hard times in our early 20s to figure out something was wrong. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Not resentful that women are corrupt BUT jealous that they have easier lives..it may seem that way when you first swallow the pill but i think all human experiences are somewhat equal in the end. rich people have "easier" lives but look at high-profile suicides etc. your base changes and everything becomes relative to that...so even though women may have an easier time finding dates in general, i wouldn't say they have easier lives than men. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Dog women vs cat woman?i think dog women are much worse. they get a lot of their emotional validation from dogs. and dogs are pathetic creatures. not their fault and i'll pet a dog if it comes up to me...but they are basically all the worst traits of a human. my ex had three dogs and it completely turned me off the relationship and dogs period. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a rock hard penis?eating lots of fat/sleeping/building muscle are all good for testosterone. i notice a difference just in the amount of fat i eat on a daily basis. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Does the true nature of women turn you off?agree with this comment...at the same time, i want marriage and kids and have to learn to reconcile these issues. nothing in life is perfect, and neither am i. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | What social improvements have you seen from lifting?it really changed first impressions with girls. but it took a couple years and 20-30 pounds of muscle to start seeing real reactions. here's what i've found: women initiate conversation with me more. i go to a lot of public events and way more women come up to me and talk than ever used to. eye contact, staring and attention. when i was less attractive (not saying im god over here now but relatively) hot girls never seemed to look at me for more than a split second. now i notice them directly st… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Recovering Bluepiller. Need help starting with rough sex.Sounds bad but for me after I stopped putting women on the pedestal it was more natural to view them as sex toys or whatever. This can be taken so wrongly but I think a lot of girls get off on that and taking charge became more natural when I stopped viewing them as above me. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 01:24 PM |
| 2 | LTR lied about attending a part while I was out-of-town. Need advice.Tough to read man. I generally agree with the replies on here. At the same time I wonder if any woman will act perfectly and not make these mistakes. I’m 30 now and doubtful such a thing exists. I had an experience like this but not as bad with current gf. Ultimately went against my brain and gave her another chance but have made it clear it’s over if more happens. In my case she didn’t outright lie like your gf, more was slow to tell me what happened. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Game with Amateur PhotographyWell I know what you mean for sure but the time analogy just isn’t the right one lol - I wouldn’t be able to lift what I do now no matter how long I spent. Anyway, learning photography is cool and we agree on that. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Game with Amateur PhotographyIf we’re talking straight up photography as a hobby, I’m with you. Takes long to learn like any skill (but I spend longer in the gym now than when I started). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Game with Amateur PhotographyEh I don’t even agree with the photography advice. You don’t need to spend a whole day to get one tinder photo. A good photographer doesn’t take that much work unless you’re actually shooting model shots for a magazine. I also wouldn’t recommend buying cheap cameras. Spend like 5-6 full working days over the course of weeks to get enough pics for a tinder profile? Unless you’re a male model that’s crazy try hard, and I think the try-hardness of it would ooze out of your profile. I guess I’d say … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Game with Amateur PhotographyI love photography but imo it’s pretty irrelevant to the subject of this forum. Learning photography to get better tinder pics makes no sense to me. All for promoting the hobby though. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/18 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Game with Amateur PhotographyLifting >>>>>>>> photography. I’m a professional photographer but being attractive in the first place will go way further for girls than photography. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why I am cynical towards the readership in TRP, and I don't think I'm aloneI think there is an inherent part about The Red Pill that you don't need to keep following it after swallowing it. I don't read much TRP stuff anymore, but initially getting into it sure changed my life for the better. I'm not interested in game or flirting or whatever. It just taught me to put myself first and that's all I needed from it. I find a large amount of people who post about it are in the angry/not understand it phase so it's not really my cup of tea. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 01:12 PM |
| 3 | The Reddit Administration RecantsThey don't tend to understand economics. Not surprising a supply/demand issue wouldn't be on their radar. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The Reddit Administration RecantsI just browse most of these subs and don't post much, but I value freedom of expression and these actions by reddit only push me to be more vocally on the side they don't like. Posting in this forum is my small way of saying I believe in the freedom to express and have conversations even if they're on "controversial" subjects. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 12:59 PM |
| 6 | This community is quarantined: It is dedicated to shocking or highly offensive content. For information on positive masculinity, please see the resources available at Stony Brook University's Center for the Study of Men and MasculinitiesAlmost never posted in this sub but what a disgrace to reddit. Reading Red Pill stuff significantly improved my life and yanked me out of depression a few years ago. I became a better person for myself, my family and in my relationships. What a shame. This was actually helping people. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys particularly my friends think it’s creepy to hook up, plate or LTR an 18-19 year old? How do I deal with this?Age seems like a much bigger deal when you’re younger. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How did YOU get your dopamine levels in control?Maybe diff subject but in terms of general happiness and depression, getting a sun lamp changed my life. Never been depressed since. The world always feels clear, sunny and full of potential. Use it every day. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:22 PM |
| 5 | Say whatever the F you wantJust adding on to thread here, had a situation last week at a conference where a girl I had met 2.5 years ago and had a vague crush on at the time saw me again. That was right when I got into working out and I've put on about 40 pounds since, and she commented on how she didn't recognize me and I "look different somehow...but in a good way." She had denied my FB friend request before and then after she saw me again added me. I'm not Mr. Muscle and I'm always going to be 5'7" but just having a mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 05:36 PM |
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