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| 1 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterI really wish people wouldn't conflate that with sickos who go after children. It really does a disservice to muddy the waters like that. There's a reason manslaughter and murder are different charges you know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterWell, what if you're a 35 year old woman and those 20 year old girls are dating the 35 year old men you want to date? Seems to matter a lot then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadit’s not fair, why did other guys get to do stuff with MY wife that I’m not allowed to? Remember that Simpsons where list showed bart how maggie didn't want the ball, then picked it up and maggie tried to get it back? Get what you want out of life. It's an absurd idea to go after something you don't want, just because of some weird scoreboard in a game you don't even like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe's not shooting for fairness, she's playing a power game. At that point they should just split and find other people who are willing to engage in each others fantasies (or lack of) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExactly. She could dump him and find another man. Do them both a favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's crazy to see some people in good faith dealing with people that are clearly weaponizing the subreddit and admin functions in order to remove people from the platform. I don't envy the mods for having to deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Red pill guides men towards transactional relationships with women. Reciprocal attraction requires a different approach.if your goal is access to women. But it will be disappointing if the goal is reciprocal attraction. I've yet to have 'access to women' which I assume you mean as sex (a strange phrasing, I wonder how one could unpack it) which wasn't reciprocal. Perhaps your premise is flawed. Talk to someone who has had sex with women and see how they describe it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | People are always talking about men and locker room talk. Is there anything to this that is specific to men?I'll mock you horrifically because we are comfortable enough around each other to realize it isn't a challenge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.I've found learning the piano was far harder. Spanish and French fleuncy as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Chivalry: what is it? Who killed it?It's where I agree not to kill you before you put your armor on, and not to murder peasants for no good reason. It was killed by the industrial revolution and specifically WW1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?Define 'fair' because you seemed to describe difficult, which isn't the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 2 | If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor?Mothers can't be a good dad any more than people in PPD can argue in good faith :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Hypothesis: If Tinder and the other OLD apps made a 5 match-at-a-time limitation that would greatly enhance OLD for the majority of users. (And greatly diminish the profit from the apps)ltr dating app and designed as such. Bars give the same gimmick in their sales pitch lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 12:53 PM |
| 10 | If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor?A girls father is the only man in her life who gives her validation for something other than sex. Chances are the lack of a father figure in over half the population is what leads to a complete lack of girls able to even understand a table exists ... instead of simply a mattress on the floor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Hypothesis: If Tinder and the other OLD apps made a 5 match-at-a-time limitation that would greatly enhance OLD for the majority of users. (And greatly diminish the profit from the apps)is it weird I'm talking about a hookup app in terms of hooking up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Hypothesis: If Tinder and the other OLD apps made a 5 match-at-a-time limitation that would greatly enhance OLD for the majority of users. (And greatly diminish the profit from the apps)I'm talking about the how, not the what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.Looks aren't hard, stop looking at gay standards for male beauty and applying them to women dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Women need to give men more chances for a while before ghosting them out forever...Women don't have to do anything, and there is 0 punishment for doing whatever they want... act accordingly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Hypothesis: If Tinder and the other OLD apps made a 5 match-at-a-time limitation that would greatly enhance OLD for the majority of users. (And greatly diminish the profit from the apps)I think what Online dating needs is MORE benefit for women and LESS benefit for men. I mean, OLD is designed for women to get anonymous sex without friends finding out, not for men to get laid, so it would probably happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | On the flip side, is cold-approaching men acceptable pretty much anywhere?Yeah, but isn't the point to find people who are already potentially attracted to? Your analogy assumes it's someone who isn't into you, until you say some magic words. I highly doubt you're going to be mingling at a christmas party and acting suspicious when someone is engaging, pleasant and charming. That makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractSome bitter bessy's... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Women ‘initiate’ 70% of divorces because women do most of the households admin tasksI've seen guys who would rather have a life of quiet misery than give up the family structure. Methinks it's more that women don't give two shits about anything but their short term happiness, or that guys get off on being punished | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | The idea that red pillers are some fringe minority of basement dwellers commiserating in back alley forums is a huge misconception. Most red pillers are attractive, desirable men who have some degree of success with women.So, great football team, horrible, ugly cheerleaders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | On the flip side, is cold-approaching men acceptable pretty much anywhere?As a man, I'm going to generally assume that you're trying to sell me something. That said, you're welcome to approach. Fun fact. If you check into something like the 'opinion opener' the first thing out of your mouth is meant to deal with that concern. Some line like 'I have to get back to my friends in a sec, I was wondering what your opinion is of x' start some banter, then leave. It establishes a more natural way of talking to people that doesn't involve selling them something or dancing aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 2 | On the flip side, is cold-approaching men acceptable pretty much anywhere?This used to be called mingling, or talking to strangers. the pick up guys threw a term around it and quantified the elements to a good one, but it's not some new thing that needs acceptance dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Having women as friends is basedhow is turning women into a monolithic group, then collecting as many of them platonically as you can a categorical imperative? And trust me You know what this subreddit is, thats the least persuasive thing you could say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:53 PM |
| 14 | Jan 6th Hearing Mega-ThreadWhat does this have to do with a pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree/disagree with this discussion that women should not fuck around till their 30's in finding a husband?I wonder if that internal monologue makes a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree/disagree with this discussion that women should not fuck around till their 30's in finding a husband?I came here because you were spiraling and figured you had an ounce of sense to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:51 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree/disagree with this discussion that women should not fuck around till their 30's in finding a husband?I'm a different person, put the claws away. Though this is kind of an answer, so it sounds like you got it, but wanted to fight instead of work with a very basic metaphor (which I got) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMods should ban anyone speaking about men, women, or sex in the abstract. This place would clean uip overnight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:29 PM |
| 14 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.Dude, if I was redpill and you were my cheerleader I'd be pissed at you RN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.For 80% men and 20% women dating market is brutal Where's not a single heirarchy of men and women you know. There's tons of different groups of people, tons of groups that I am part of, and each one has it's own 'top tier guys'. is brutal I find when I suck at something, it looks brutal. I find when I don't suck at something, it's not brutal anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree/disagree with this discussion that women should not fuck around till their 30's in finding a husband?I have to ask, and this question is sincere: Is it that you don't understand what a metaphor is and why it's used, or that you did, and just want to fight on the internet? I see this so often here, and I simply cannot understand what the commenters intentions are. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree/disagree with this discussion that women should not fuck around till their 30's in finding a husband?What gets me: Why is everyone using these type of threads to talk about what kind of values and life script they should adopt? Are people really going to change how they live life, based on if everyone disagrees or agrees with you in a subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | If a guy says, “What more do women bring to the table than looks and pussy?” he means he loves worthless women.I like your posts, they got real LOLCOW energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?So you actively avoid being a person that others want to be around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 02:18 PM |
| 5 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?I've made it far further by being fun, engaging, emotionally exciting than I ever did with a muscle, a dollar etc. I've also never seen a girl leave because she needed a bigger dick in her life. I've heard a lot of guys insecure that girls will be, but never from a girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?I don't know what that means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | If a husband claims “Ever since we had a kid, my wife cares less about me”, he’s automatically the problem in the relationship.oh, so you're NOT OK with disingenuous stereotyping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.Dangerous, but in a bubble wrapped way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 08:14 PM |
| 6 | People of PPD. What are your strong dating opinions that you are willing to share that you are thoroughly convinced on?Staving off a womans Boredom is a stronger aphrodesiac than 6 pack abs, a 6 figure salary, or a 6 inch dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | If a husband claims “Ever since we had a kid, my wife cares less about me”, he’s automatically the problem in the relationship.Man bad, woman good. got it. I would make a case that moms who become sacraficial martyrs for their children are some of the worst people out there, but they would nail themselves to the cross while accusing me of misogyny or something. Of course, their children don't respect all those sacrafices, because, they are kids. A lot of moms get pretty bitter when that happens. I'm pretty sure thats how you create a Karen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What are the keys to maximizing relationship satisfaction?Investment, and aligned interests. Happiness is a choice. Self interest is the fuel that makes the choice an easy one. Generally speaking, one person in the relationship gravitates towards the interests values etc. of the stronger person. In all the good 'happy' ones I've seen they are lead by the man. The ones lead by the wife tend to be more acrimonious, and with a lot of public critiques of each other (I hate my wife, and my husband is an idiot etc.) The couples among my friends and family we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Humans Aren't Monogamous And Relationships Let Women Have Their Cake And Eat It So Men Should Stop Entering Into ThemSo I got two questions: How do you know this will work? I know you think it will, but have you anything you've done that make it more valuable than a shower thought? If you think it's what people should do, what values do you want them to have, and why can't anyone incentivize people to have them in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Humans Aren't Monogamous And Relationships Let Women Have Their Cake And Eat It So Men Should Stop Entering Into ThemDo you honestly think people make decisions based on navel gazing leaps of logic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?Know, yes. Care, no. Until she does, then she does. Until she doesn't. Such is life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.then you probably know asking people is the worst way to find that out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:55 AM |
| 2 | If you want to attract a woman, you need to have income.You typed this like you read it in a book | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | The three date rule exists for a reason.Ha! I wish you luck, becuase the way things are, the only men who will do that are the ones you likely won't want. I married my girl and she put out on the first date, so have most of my friends. Sex really has no bearing on a relationship to anyone younger than 50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.So ya I too wonder what other people think of this phenomena as I’m still confused about it all. this sounds like that Dark Triad thing they always talk about in the TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.The entire thread is justifying being extremely difficult in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 01:46 AM |
| 3 | What are some apparently contradicting claims espoused by the same people, that you want to point out?There was a girl in here that used to tell everyone that she was the exception. She was a sex worker or something. She married the 'beta bux' or whatever you call it. Then she got divorced and everyone just forgot she existed. She went from 'Not like the other girls' to 'exactly like the other girls' in less than a year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanI'm not talking about you personally, and I don't find your made up hypothetical examples very compelling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 01:38 AM |
| 6 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDI used to think women got kinder as they get older. This place has taught me they really do get way more bitter. Also, guys who don't have sex tend to become just as bitter. so 3 cheers for young women and sexually adept men! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanI beg to differ. I've dated women over the years who got off on being treated in very dehumanizing ways. Was some of the most fun I've had casually dating If everyone just treated each other like human beings People want what they want. Are they attracted to people who offer what they want? Are they valuable enough to those people in order to get it from those people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it?no room for the nuance of the human condition. I'm sure if you want to find exceptions and outliers the people here will be more than happy to look for them. do you have any theories? How many men are in the home? How many men teach elementary school or high school? How far do so many men get in life without a single male authority figure in their lives? And of the ones they find, how many of them are effeminite to the point of being useless for male mentorship anyways? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Which group are the real winners: Men who have sex, or men who have children?What game are we playing? I wasn't drafted into any league so you'll have to show me your rulebook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men (Red Pill): At what point in a girl's life does 'AWALT' start to apply?I assume if I stop being valuable she will move on. I assume if she's nearing her baby rabis years she will be more neurotic and push harder for a family than if she is 23 and just up for fun times. I assume if she acts like a bratty child to flirt with me and I take it in stride and not too seriously she's more likely to want to fuck me instead of being creeped out. It kind of applied the moment I first said hello. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 11:06 AM |
| 0 | Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it?People get angry for two reasons: Some sort of pain some sort of social grievance As for the hypergamy thing specifically, it's projection. A guy learned the world worked a certain way and it's not(or the outcomes don't match expectations). He's not getting what he wants. And because our egos are a bitch, they cope by projecting that anger onto something externally, instead of changing how we percieve the world works. Thats anger. It has the effect of making us more likely to do things and chang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | TIL that men are totally and completely disposable in American Society today.I have seen that same argument before, which is refreshing to see it in such a real world example. A lot of argument about more women needing to be in STEM, but when anyone argues it, not a single champion of the concept is even interested in joining the fields | /r/MensRights | 23/11/13 03:00 AM |
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