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I once lived a mile or so from a bar and would tell women, "I'd like to drink some more but not here. I've got a cool place and fridge full of beer if you're down." (if she was drinking something other than beer like Rum and coke I'd say something more like, "...I've got a cool place and a bar where the drinks are free.") To be NEXT DOOR to a bar - that would be fun.
/r/seduction08/02/18 01:23 AM
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She probably liked you. And of course, the fact you walked in, sat down and played the piano (I'm assuming you were good) instantly gave you social status, which is of course attractive to women. Plus you offered utility (your piano talents).
/r/seduction07/02/18 06:46 PM
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Yad's stuff is pretty good. I believe it's Daygame.com
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:52 AM
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You should have divorced your wife with the inception of Tinder. Bonus points for using the word 'diddle'.
/r/seduction28/06/17 04:43 AM
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Start an online business. Or get another job. Get an internship. Read books and learn.
/r/seduction28/06/17 04:40 AM
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She got back to me to meet up roughly a week later and I was busy. I totally forgot about her until I saw this. Women come and women go - but there are a lot of them so it makes it fun.
/r/seduction29/07/15 05:54 PM
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high-five Now that's what I like to hear!
/r/seduction06/07/15 03:30 AM
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Awesome! I'm going to check those out. Many thanks for the leads, bro!
/r/seduction05/07/15 05:07 PM
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Awesome. I'll check it out. Most of the Armani colognes I've tested have smelled good.
/r/seduction05/07/15 05:05 PM
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I haven't tried pheromones in ages. I had one I bought from eBay in the early-2000s. The smell wasn't bad but I don't think it worked! It's cool the brand you use replicates the fragrance. Have you noticed a difference with woman-attention when you wear it?
/r/seduction05/07/15 04:58 AM
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I have that one and agree - I like it a lot.
/r/seduction05/07/15 04:55 AM
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Awesome. I'll try out this one as well. Many thanks, bro!
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:40 AM
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Not familiar with that one. I'll try it out when I do Daygameapproach's idea below. :-D
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:39 AM
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"Go to a busy Sephora, put one cologne on each wrist...and open all the hotties to see which one they prefer (on you)." Excellent advice. That's a great idea for all the Reddit seduction guys - whether shy or not this is very solid.
/r/seduction04/07/15 07:08 PM
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You're not limited. Most high schoolers aren't comfortable in their own skin (I sure wasn't!) and if you develop your confidence you will stand out to women.
/r/seduction04/07/15 04:57 PM
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I can usually one-hand a woman's bra when she's a A,B and sometimes a C-cup but for women C and up it tends to be tougher as there's zero slack on their bra strap.
/r/seduction04/07/15 04:55 PM
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Sounds like when she feels lonely/bad about herself she hits you up for attention. Tell her you're not looking for a penpal....
/r/seduction04/07/15 04:52 PM
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You very well could have been merely missing the chemistry. I've been with a lot of attractive women who on paper were near perfect but I didn't feel for them. And I think of my last few girlfriends - especially my last one - she and I had insane chemistry - amazing stuff. Wasn't with her long enough to love her (she graduated college and moved to another country for her graduate work) but I digress.
/r/seduction04/07/15 04:51 PM
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If you have trouble with holding eye contact you can go from looking at a spot on her forehead as you move closer and when she's within ten or so feet make direct eye contact. This trick makes it easier for the guys out there who are afraid to maintain eye contact from far away until close up. She'll think you're holding the eye contact (despite the fact you're looking at her forehead).
/r/seduction04/07/15 04:48 PM
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A few gurus go by the trick of approaching every women you're interested in within two seconds; they do this so quickly so 'that voice in their head' doesn't have a chance to talk them out of it.
/r/seduction04/07/15 04:46 PM
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You need to know the difference between genuine, real confidence and fake cockiness. Confident guys don't put people down in hopes of looking good to get women because confident men don't feel inadequate. The men you view as 'confident' are suffering from low self-esteem.
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:37 PM
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You don't get it and you're wrong. Any guy who has to put others down in an attempt to look cool does it because they're NOT confident. Only inadequate guys do this.
/r/seduction02/07/15 06:48 PM
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I love Tinder. It's been great for me. Have dated a few women, made platonic some friends I still hang out with and have hooked up with more women than most would believe. So definitely keep using it. Regarding your question, I would put that in your profile. Something like, "Let's meet up for a drink and see what happens." That statement sums up the idea of wanting to meet up but not having an agenda or specific expectation. That way if she isn't right you can leave after 30 and if you're inter…
/r/seduction02/07/15 03:42 PM
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I've had this conversation with a few friends. When you're the one sober at the bar/club one you realize a few things: drunk people are dumb & annoying, you get bored quickly, the stimulation of the sounds, lights, etc. is overwhelming, etc. If you happened to find a sober chick and it wasn't too loud I'm willing to bet you could have had a nice interaction with her but dealing with drunk women when you're sober gets old quickly. I agree with the day game comment already made. But if you're stil…
/r/seduction02/07/15 03:35 PM
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You should master creating a strong connection with a woman in a short amount of time. Also, read up on female body language. Doing things such as meditation will also help as I think it will help you be more relaxed which will help you in all facets of your life including interacting with women.
/r/seduction02/07/15 03:29 PM
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Totally depends. I always hug a chick when I meet her for a date. Her hug will tell you everything (and how much she's desiring your touch or if you need to build on the attraction).
/r/seduction02/07/15 03:25 PM
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Cool. It sounds like you're a respectful guy who doesn't want to offend his friends by possibly being disrespectful to the friends of his friends. It sounds like you're being super conservative though. If a chick rests her head on her shoulders she's into you or comfortable with you at the very least. Since you are being conservative I would bring it up a notch and see how it goes. If she doesn't resist and likes it bring it up another notch. You can flirt and still be respectful - and of course…
/r/seduction02/07/15 03:22 PM
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Sounds like your friend is a beta who feels he has to belittle you so others think less. He sees you as competition. Beta. Any guy who puts others down - whether best friend, family member or some stranger on Reddit is an insecure beta who's miserable. If you still want him as a friend then have a talk with him. Tell him you respect him yet you don't feel the respect is mutual and that's unacceptable. He'll either agree and apologize or get defensive. In the event he's defensive or laughs it off…
/r/seduction02/07/15 03:18 PM
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You're too hard on yourself. Keep enjoying your time with her and being you. So many guys worry about the first kiss and the stress makes some of them act weird. There's no set time and it's best not to plan a specific time to kiss her. Just do it when you really want to do it. Though You should have told her she's beautiful in person and not over text.
/r/seduction02/07/15 03:12 PM
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Many thanks. Get back to music and do the affirmations daily. It will get better. Let us know how it goes.
/r/seduction01/07/15 07:50 PM
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While in college I had a professor who was adamant one scores better on tests when they're dressed nice. Perhaps one scores better with women when dressed nice as well....
/r/seduction01/07/15 06:28 PM
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Instead of memorizing jokes take a stand-up comedy class or a comedy writing class (I've done both) - you'll learn how to construct jokes, lots about humor (tons of tricks such as the call-back), etc.
/r/seduction01/07/15 03:20 PM
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When I was a teenager I would take chicks to Spencer's Gifts and we would laugh our asses off at half the stuff in that store.
/r/seduction01/07/15 03:18 PM
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Tell her it will grow when she kisses it.
/r/seduction01/07/15 03:16 PM
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I would ask them some questions naturally in the conversation that cause them to think & invoke feelings within them: examples: what did you want to be when you grew up, what are you passionate about, what scares you the most, etc? Then just sit back and listen. Don't interrupt. This is how you begin to build real connection....
/r/seduction01/07/15 03:15 PM
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Join any interesting meetup group, reconnect with any old friends you have fond memories of, going for walks/hikes makes me feel good and start doing affirmations if you already don't (one form that works really well is to think of all the things you're thankful for and concentrate on each until you feel a feeling of thankfulness/gratitude). The universe will bring you more good things when you do this. Our thoughts manifest real things into our life (I used to think it was bogus but have experi…
/r/seduction01/07/15 03:10 PM
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I freestyle rap. Started doing it when I was drunk on a karaoke machine. It is fun and makes for great entertainment. Last instrumental I freestyled to was All Me (Drake, 2 Chainz).
/r/seduction01/07/15 03:07 PM
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Be social, say hi to strangers. The first few days are HUGE - I still remember the super social guys finding and approaching the hot girls at our first freshman orientation meeting in the gym. I had success in college but would have been even more successful had I not been shy from the start. I joined a fraternity my freshman year and that got me access to lots of women - you meet a lot of women at events/parties and there's social status involved - totally changes the dynamics of things. Have f…
/r/seduction01/07/15 03:04 PM
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That is important also - good point. The guy in the video definitely ignored her resistance and continued and it worked out.
/r/seduction01/07/15 03:38 AM
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Have good positive energy, good body language, introduce yourself, and enjoy yourself - talk about the music, see if she's cool. Concerts are a place where people are looking to be social so it's pretty easy to initiate conversation. Be genuine and real and a lot of your interaction will take care of itself.
/r/seduction30/06/15 09:34 PM
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Sounds like she likes you as a person and wants you as a friend. So be her friend, meet her friends and enjoy her treasure chest of single female friends....
/r/seduction30/06/15 09:31 PM
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The biggest thing guys need to take from infield videos - JUST APPROACH!
/r/seduction30/06/15 07:57 PM
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Talk dirty to him over auto-tune - at least that would sound pretty cool.
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:18 PM
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The last thing you want to do is get pissed/annoyed to the point where your girlfriend can tell it bothers you. Because she'll wonder why you feel threatened. You're the guy with the girl. You have won until you do things that mess it up for yourself like act jealous. If this guy's feelings grow stronger chances are, this guy will sabotage himself and screw it up for himself by bad-mouthing you or trying to escalate with your girlfriend. Not trying to scare you - attractive women get hit on ever…
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:15 PM
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Great post. Your positivity is awesome & refreshing. Do your thing and what makes you happy.
/r/seduction29/06/15 04:49 PM
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My pleasure! Glad you found it to be useful.
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:38 PM
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Look at Cory Skyy's videos. He sometimes talks about one of his students who is in a wheelchair who has become a rockstar with women. You need to show the woman you're fun all while still being masculine and having a bold edge.
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:40 PM
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Good job, brotha! Keep it up!
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:39 PM
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Be comfortable in your own skin and enjoy yourself. Worst thing you can do is be nervous or self-conscious.
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:38 PM
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I would have turned to the girl I had my arm around and said, "What do you think about what just happened?" Doing this puts the spotlight on her to tell her friend it was stupid and they can argue it out. That way if it happens again you can say something and it's not just YOU VS.THE JEALOUS FRIEND.
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:37 PM
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This is great advice.
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:34 PM
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The beach, Tinder, a local college campus, anywhere public. When I was under-21 I had this illusion any guy who walked in a bar would be getting laid by a hot chick that very night. Bars = a lot of women who have their bitch shield up because they're getting approached by creeps and betas all night.
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:33 PM
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There are tons of places to meet women: the beach, malls, Tinder... you need to work on your confidence/inner-game first.
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:31 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I would ask any friends or family members if they can pinpoint what you're doing wrong that might be causing people to respond to you in such a manner. Tell them you want to know the truth so you can improve yourself.
/r/seduction27/06/15 09:00 PM
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Be outgoing and don't listen to that nagging voice in your brain. If you want to make new friends just approach and say "Hey, how are y'all doing?" It can be scary but it's going to turn out well. They're not going to tell you to f-off. They'll invite you into their conversation and the more people the better in that you can talk with one person and have your own convo. Get social and meet people. As women see you being social and having fun they will approach or if you approach them they will b…
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:27 PM
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It's best to make things appear natural to initiate conversation. Women are very good at this. If interested in a man they want to speak with they'll often ask for something - directions or perhaps a lighter - and you smoke. If you see a woman smoking ask for a light. There seems to be a smoker's bond and she'll comply. Then thank her and go from there - she's standing outside smoking and will be until she gets her fix - nowhere to go until then. Talk with her - the hardest part is the approach …
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:24 PM
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Of course, don't brag. Be genuine. Tell stories about things you're passionate about - especially if it involves helping others. But don't make stories up merely to gain a favorable response - be real.
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:19 PM
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A lot of it deals with body language. If she smiles and shows teeth it's a good sign and if her smile is pursing her lips and doesn't show teeth it's forced. Research and get to know women's body language and what it means. I would also say something like, "You're so sweet - are you this nice to everyone?" and listen to her response. If she says something like, "No - only to you" even if she's joking it's a good thing. Have fun.
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:17 PM
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Rip a huge fart. Then blame her.
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:14 PM
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Tell her you're busy but you want to schedule a time to hang out with her. If she agrees and you schedule don't blow up her phone afterwards - do your thing and meet up with her.
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:14 PM
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Some dating gurus tell guys to ask a woman for directions - I think it's beneficial to do this to get over one's fear of approach. Other variations I've heard are going into a clothing store and asking a female employee what clothes might look good on you, small-talk, etc. It can increase a guy's confidence and help him realize most women aren't going to be mean if he's making friendly small-talk or asking for assistance. I believe Andy from Daygame does this prior to approach and he calls it pr…
/r/seduction27/06/15 07:12 PM
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I could say 30% of the Tinder chicks I meet are when I go to her place or she comes to mine. This USUALLY happens late at night - a woman is only going to come to my place (or vice-versa) late at night for sex. Some of these chicks I've only talked with for under an hour and some are chicks I'd been talking with for a while and I caught them at a time when they're ultra-horny. Sometimes I go for that window of opportunity - especially when I'm ravenous. ;-)
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:20 AM
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Props for being a gentleman and not taking advantage of her being drunk. Don't worry about her and just have fun. It sounds like she's talking to other guys at the bar (which is fine - she's single) so go and talk with other people - including other women. Don't put too much of your attention on her.
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:15 AM
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Join an intramural league - great way to meet cool people. Meetup groups are always mentioned - they can be cool as well.
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:12 AM
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You did it! Keep being social and talking to others - it gets easier. Expand your social circle and it will get VERY EASY as people will be introduced to you. Good job!
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:10 AM
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Bwahahahaha! That's hilarious.
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:08 AM
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Go with your gut - if you and she have chemistry and you want to kiss her you go for it. If you're feeling nothing there's no point in doing it - especially if you think the chick is bananas.
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:07 AM
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Have fun and enjoy the chicks. Hopefully they're interesting and can hold a conversation. Just go with the flow.
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:06 AM
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That sucks. Well, you've done the first big step - to man up and not blame others. As mentioned by some other guys, try Meetup.com and go to some groups with things you're interested in. Also, get on Tinder and make some female friends - chicks are social and will bring you into their circle.
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:04 AM
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If you only do it once in a while as you've mentioned it's a good thing - it shows you can laugh at yourself and don't take yourself too seriously. Of course, doing it too often wouldn't be good as people will think you're too hard on yourself and might have self-esteem issues.
/r/seduction27/06/15 04:02 AM
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I tend to put my shoulders back first, then I raise my head (similar to the rope trick mentioned in the video). You just need to keep reminding yourself to make certain you continue to keep your shoulders back and head up (it can be easy to slouch... especially if you're tired). Hope this helps!
/r/seduction25/06/15 05:56 PM
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No - don't change anything. Hot women are like any other person. Just enjoy the time you spend getting to know her and have fun. I treat beautiful women like any other friend and they're always saying I'm fun because most guys are beta, kiss their ass, put them on a pedestal and are boring. Sounds like you're not getting overly-attached and you're doing well with it so keep it up.
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:55 AM
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Doing that would be weak. Don't be phony & manipulative - guys with confidence don't play little games to seem cool.
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:48 AM
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That's how it's done - the world rewards the bold!
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:45 AM
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Awesome. Yes - I sometimes need to tell myself to slow down and do the right things. I also found the video at the bottom of the page (the Josh Pellicer video) to be super useful. People see me coming and seriously get out of the way!
/r/seduction25/06/15 02:46 AM
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Go to her place or go somewhere like the woods. Though one time this chick gave me head in the woods and I got bit by mosquitoes (not on my d but my arms, legs and neck). lol And if the chick is picky and you can't go to her place and there are no options get a cheap hotel room if it's that important to you.
/r/seduction25/06/15 02:21 AM
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Depends on your age. If you're 17 and it's a beater it's not a big deal. If you're 35 some women will be repulsed. As long as the car drives and isn't primer-colored and you take care of it you should be fine with most ladies.
/r/seduction25/06/15 02:19 AM
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Yep! During my wussy days long ago I stood up to my ex and left her place and she called me, begging me to return. I did and she was in her bed and we had sex. At the time it made no sense and was confusing but now it makes 100% sense - women want a man they respect.
/r/seduction25/06/15 02:18 AM
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Why the hell did you buy food for her and her friends? You were smart to delete her. If she hits you up again tell her to bring you food. If she says no, tell her to f-off and find some other sucker.
/r/seduction07/05/15 11:11 PM
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Ask how they know one another. They'll open up. Say to one chick, "You're the super outgoing one" tell another "You're the one who's trouble" to another "You're the one who takes care of her friends" etc. Whatever I feel is correct. Women love to see how they're perceived. Move in for the kill? ha ha. I'm not going to interrupt a guy to steal the chick. That's weak as hell. I look for some cool-looking people, talk with them, find some others, talk with them. Soon, my social proof will be seen b…
/r/seduction07/05/15 11:09 PM
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It's not going to crush you necessarily. It depends on the woman and her personal beliefs about friendship.
/r/seduction07/05/15 11:01 PM
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Talk to her but see other women in the meantime.
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:53 AM
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You're awesome. There was a dating guru - I forget who - and he and his friends would go out and use the dumbest lines on women - things they agreed would mean failure - and they experienced success. Another guru - Adam Lyons - had a coach have him act a fool on an approach and after Adam did the line ("I'm the kissing bandit - you owe me a kiss") the guru asked him if he was afraid to approach now - and Adam wasn't - he made an ass out of himself and didn't die - and so from then on he did what…
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:52 AM
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I tell my buddies THEY ALWAYS COME BACK. She's either bored or she's realized you're over her and she wants attention from you.
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:49 AM
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Don't EVER buy a woman's affection. So many guys do this and wonder why they fail. Also, lots of guys think acting super nice will get the woman to like him - this is being manipulative and a wuss-bag.
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:48 AM
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It takes much more than 10 second for that! But it's the advice I would give any guy as it achieves contentment and success in every aspect.
/r/seduction06/05/15 09:12 PM
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My pleasure. I posted a My Moments 'cheat sheet' on the bodybuilding.com Tinder thread a while back (basically a few photos that chicks responded well to that other dudes could use). I would make a larger sheet if there was interest (maybe a dozen photos a dude could save to his phone and what he should add, text-wise to the moment).
/r/seduction06/05/15 09:11 PM
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Most definitely. When it's genuine (some guys who don't have it but attempt to not give a f go overboard and come off as rude) women truly do sense it and it's POWERFUL. It's a hugely masculine trait.
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:59 PM
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I also recommend posting 'My Moments' from time to time. It's a great way to reconnect with chicks who you've lost touch with on Tinder.
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:37 PM
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Work on yourself, clear the negative self-beliefs, get ultra-confident, embrace who you are, and as a result, you won't care what others think; you'll do what you want and do what you're passionate about.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:42 PM
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I meet up with Tinder chicks all the time. Most initiate the meeting as well - but if they don't, personally, I now almost exclusively recommend we go for a hike or a beach boardwalk walk together. If a chick seems like a catfish or is hesitant I'll tell her to call me when she's free to meet up. It's a good way to end the time investment with her and put the ball in her court.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:34 PM
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Having female friends is epic awesome in many ways - my female friends are cool to spend time with, they're very social and invite me to events, I meet new women thanks to them, they cook for me, they amuse me with their dating stories and offer a lot of good insight, and I learn a lot from them as far as our common hobbies and interests. In short, they build your social circle much faster than most guys can and they offer a lot of cool benefits.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:29 PM
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Good job! You kept the attraction strong and put her in a great environment!
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:23 PM
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This one chick used to ask me this question all the time to the point where it annoyed me and so I had the gull to respond, "I want a girl to say "tell me a secret" and directly afterwards she gives me the best bj of my life...." It worked. But it wasn't the best of my life.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:22 PM
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This is weak. Just go out and have fun. Do whatever you want. But don't do it because you think it will make her jealous....
/r/seduction04/05/15 02:18 AM
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Do it. Even if she says no you can live your life knowing you tried. Not doing anything = wondering what would have happened.
/r/seduction04/05/15 02:17 AM
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Awesome. I'm half-Swedish - still have family in Linköping. Most sites aren't too segrigated but Badoo in the US isn't very fun. Never met a chick from the site - met close to 100 chicks using POF, probably 30-40 on Okcupid and probably 50 on Tinder.
/r/seduction02/05/15 05:48 PM
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It's the opposite here. In L.A. Baddo is mainly Mexican chicks who only speak Spanish or ratchets. Where in Sweden are you from?
/r/seduction02/05/15 06:20 AM
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Tell her you're too tall for her couch....
/r/seduction30/04/15 03:45 AM
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Interesting stuff. I am familiar with the Adam Lyons stuff (Hot Girl In 7 Days) and it's some good stuff.
/r/seduction29/04/15 09:05 PM
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This chick would annoy me a great deal. If she interrupts, get the random chick's contact info prior to helping your friend. Seriously - if she and her friend were getting bothered by guys they could have come to you and joined in on the conversation. For her to keep pulling you away/interrupting you is a sign of disrespect if it happens at a high frequency.
/r/seduction29/04/15 02:47 PM
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Hi, Match.com is that way, yes.
/r/seduction29/04/15 02:39 PM
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Badoo is pretty awful. Plentyoffish is bad in that attractive women get messaged 100+ times a day when they join and they tend to get overwhelmed and quit. Okcupid is a bit better - Tinder is my favorite though Match.com isn't half bad.
/r/seduction28/04/15 04:04 PM
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Try to go to their place. I have some friends who moved back home and their game suffered badly. It's not a problem when you're in your teens or early-20s but once you hit your mid-20s it goes downhill fast!
/r/seduction28/04/15 04:51 AM
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How old are you? My answer depends on your age.
/r/seduction28/04/15 03:45 AM
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Comfort is a big part of it as is not having an agenda as well as enjoying the moment. Chicks like things to happen organically and not forced.
/r/seduction28/04/15 03:43 AM
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I live in Los Angeles so we're hiking in parks/reserves and not the woods. They're rather populated so there are typically people around I've never ever had a problem with a chick not wanting to go.
/r/seduction28/04/15 03:41 AM
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Body language is very important but if you're wearing beat up shoes and smell like French onion dip you're going to freak her out. If you're wondering which is more important it's how he acts/how he talks (and not so much what he says - it's how he says it).
/r/seduction26/04/15 03:49 PM
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I have been good at attracting 'prudes' for a long time. First off, you need to make them feel comfortable being alone with you and you can't have an apparent-looking agenda with them. Most guys are going to try to escalate in an obvious way. It's organic for me so it happens naturally. I think a lot of guys mess up and either do the obvious escalation (even prior to there being chemistry) or they try to be the nice guy without being an alpha.
/r/seduction26/04/15 03:35 PM
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I have answered this question on here before. I take a chick to something I want to do - lately it's been going to the beach or hiking. When we go to the beach we go for a nice long walk and chat - the same with hiking. I'm getting some exercise, having good conversation. It's fun, there are plenty of things to comment on, and there are endorphins involved.
/r/seduction26/04/15 03:29 PM
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Approach the group with a smile, tell them they look like fun, introduce yourself, ask them how they know one another, chat, then talk with who you're interested in, make jokes about her to the group, have fun....
/r/seduction26/04/15 01:59 AM
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She might talk too much because she likes you. That or she finds silence to be super uncomfortable. She can be your science experiment. See if touching her will shut her up - see if she even responds to it. If it doesn't phase her then escalate it. Get closer. I totally imagined this chick rambling on and a dude kissing her and she's making out with the guy and is still trying to talk. ha ha.
/r/seduction25/04/15 03:35 PM
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That dude's body language sucks.
/r/seduction25/04/15 03:31 PM
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Chat her up AFTER she's actively exercising. This is what I've done. Never bug someone during their exercise - it's annoying as hell. One chick told me a story how she was exercising and some dirtbag pulled her Ipod buds out of her ears. She told him to buzz off and he did it once more. She went ballistic on the guy and he sulked off like the creeper he is. It's amazing how clueless and narcissistic some guys are. Definitely try and talk to her after - people tend to be in a better mood once the…
/r/seduction25/04/15 03:28 PM
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POF is pretty bad. Yes - there are some decent-looking women on there but the quality is typically low. Okcupid isn't much better. If you're looking for higher-quality chicks pay to use Match.com It's superior to OkC & POF in that people have to pay to use Match. That simple. Due to this, women receive less messages from guys and the guys are of a higher quality as they have to be able to afford to pay for Match. Also, you'll be dealing with a higher quality of woman on Match as they have to pay…
/r/seduction25/04/15 03:21 PM
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Of which? What to say to everyone, how her friends will help you, etc?
/r/seduction25/04/15 03:16 PM
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Chat up her friends also. If you merely approach the chick you like and talk with her, ignoring her friends it's typically an uphill battle as it's obvious what you're there for. Talk with everyone, show you're a cool guy; when you do this you'll sometimes even have her friends HELP YOU GET HER.
/r/seduction24/04/15 02:49 AM
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If I meet up with a chick on a first date I buy the first round. If she buys the second round I offer to buy her the next round (rarely does she accept). If a chick doesn't offer to buy me a drink after I buy the first round she can kick rocks. I never buy a random chick a drink.
/r/seduction24/04/15 02:48 AM
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Have a great time, be social, get to know her friends.
/r/seduction24/04/15 02:45 AM
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"Hey, silly. Guess who?" The chick will ask for clues which you give. Give her clues. Or make up absurd stories. I have fun making up stories about how she and I robbed a bank. As she's spending time trying to figure out who you are she's becoming invested in you.
/r/seduction24/04/15 12:46 AM
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Later on I'd ask her how the scissoring went. When she giggles and laughs and tells you it was good you tell her you're surprised she wasn't in the mood for a D as well. Her response will tell you everything you need to know....
/r/seduction24/04/15 12:39 AM
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You dudes should check out Greg Greenway's stuff. He teaches how to crush it in social situations - fascinating stuff. http://socialcircletraining.com
/r/seduction23/04/15 05:24 PM
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"Hey, I wanted to come over and say hello" Yes, it's really that easy. No lines, no gimmicks.
/r/seduction23/04/15 05:15 PM
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If this is how you feel MAKE CERTAIN you spend your time working on yourself and your confidence. There's nothing wrong with stepping away from women but make certain you're doing things to improve yourself/learn what you truly want/enjoy yourself
/r/seduction23/04/15 05:14 PM
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Having a lot of women in your life makes it not matter. Had a chick flake on me Monday (she claims her roommate's car got towed and she had to take her to the towing place) - whether it's true or not it doesn't matter. I don't care. I'll get back to her when I feel like it. And she'll realize I'm not like most other guys because I don't care; and she'll find it to be very attractive.
/r/seduction23/04/15 02:59 AM
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Hi, what activities are they?
/r/seduction22/04/15 06:03 PM
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Agreed. You have access to her friends and a social circle to enjoy.
/r/seduction21/04/15 09:03 PM
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I take chicks to the beach. We walk the boardwalk. What's important is to take her somewhere YOU WANT TO GO. I used to meet chicks for a drink at the bar and had good success but it was boring to me. I much more enjoy walking near the beach as we can talk/people watch/enjoy the sun.
/r/seduction20/04/15 08:02 PM
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I usually meet a chick in public the first date (been going for a walk on the beach often). Second date usually consists of her coming over to watch a movie or I go to her place and she cooks dinner for me. Good times.
/r/seduction20/04/15 05:35 PM
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I despise strip clubs. I simply don't like the energy. Never dated a stripper but I did screw a contortionist (she referred to herself as a performance artist) I met on a film set.
/r/seduction20/04/15 03:09 AM
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Awesome. It's also cool the random dudes were cool and not hating on the fact a dude was experiencing success. It sounds like you made a memory that will last forever!
/r/seduction19/04/15 03:20 PM
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Interesting stuff. From personal experience, when I had no game and was a lonely wuss-bag I had no interest in being friends with a chick when she would say, "Let's be friends." Now I'm totally excited when a woman just wants to be friends. Also, I read one source years ago that stated women do their mourning in a bad relationship prior to the breakup and men do it after the breakup. I disagreed with this point based on personal experience but it depends on who was the alpha in the relationship …
/r/seduction19/04/15 03:16 PM
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Get used to talking with attractive women. The more you do it, the less you care.
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:29 PM
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Keep approaching. It gets easier. If the chick says something about your boner say, "I think he likes you. Wanna pet him?" :-D
/r/seduction18/04/15 06:08 PM
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Start by asking how her day is going. If she's receptive and smiles dig further. If she's short and merely appears to want her sub ask her if she wants dick hairs in it (kidding, kinda).
/r/seduction18/04/15 05:59 PM
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You have a good base - hobbies that make you happy and you understand the truth of self-happiness. Hang out with other positive people - avoid downers - and to meet women try online dating but more importantly -go out and meet women.
/r/seduction18/04/15 05:51 PM
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This free eBook is much better: http://www.guycodeacademy.com/free-ebook/
/r/seduction02/04/15 07:58 PM
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