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A lot of hotter women won’t have casual sex. Uglier more desperate women will
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:57 AM
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It’s all depends on how much Doubling your weight? Losing 90 percent of libido? Ignoring partner ? Probably same for women Pretty common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:45 AM
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If you have money but don’t use it, then it doesn’t really matter that you have it as far as she’s concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:14 AM
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Skinny men will be less attractive to women that in shape men. Short guy will be less attractive than tall guys. Ugly faced people will be less attractive than handsome or beautiful people. Physical appearance matters for sexual attraction. We all know this. It’s in our nature to prefer it. Being angry about someone’s preference is like telling them it’s wrong to prefer delicious food Vs bland food. The question I always have though is this - for most of these things people can’t really do much …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:18 PM
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Yes unless I was young enough to possibly want kids with someone else if we were to divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:36 AM
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Some guys probably don’t care about blow jobs and would feel that it’s fine then if they don’t go down on you. Not a real necessity in a relationship. Seems like a problem to do it early when inevitably you will stop later (since you don’t enjoy it)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:56 AM
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Why do you not normally give blow jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:39 AM
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Were you into all three women? You’re just focusing on whether they liked you. Did you like them? Is this just three that you liked and didn’t want to continue but there’s also 10 more you’re not mentioning that liked you and you cut it off? Hard to get a sense of the overall picture but it matters in speculating an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:32 AM
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It doesn’t ? If a girl likes you she might be horny af And want to have sex with you more than you even want to with her. Your argument more like “would you fuck random people “ and since guys will more readily than women will , they must be hornier. It’s not the same Maybe the first sentence was not well written
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:12 AM
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It’s funny that you mention the guy is a doctor or lawyer. Since there’s no relationship future and it’s just physical attractiveness would it matter if they were the garbage man? And the second example is not a ONS it’s a FWB with someone who hopes to get accidentally pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:50 PM
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It’s the same for men!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:47 PM
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Women can be just as horny or hornier than men. However it’s targeted towards a specific partner for whom they have an emotional attachment. For men, the emotion is a lesser requirement. So for each of a man and woman’s preferred partner, their hornyness might be comparable. But for a bunch of random people, mens will be way higher, since they aren’t super partner specific (and actually it might be the inverse, they actually crave variety vs monogamy). That being said in general even in a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:42 PM
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18-25 is a massive age range and people 18 shouldn’t be trying to form a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:23 AM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:03 PM
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So if you’re going to change in a relationship then you shouldn’t be in that relationship? That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:20 AM
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Derrrrrrrrrr….. kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:40 AM
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I’m confused, what stops the person from giving the appropriate number of blowjobs and then the same outcome happens anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:37 PM
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She’s probably less patient with men that dont know how to please them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:49 AM
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Absolute age matters not just relative age. You wouldn’t expect a 27 year old man to marry a 17 year old woman. But a 47 year old man might easily marry a 37 year old woman. Both are 10 years difference. Since most men get married closer to 27 than 47 , the age gaps (of married people) tend to be close. It just depends on the man’s age for the gap, since the women (like in Leo’s case) will always skew toward 20s/30s if the guy can get them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:44 PM
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People don’t tend to do that. No girl will tell other girls publicly how great a guy is in bed. She would just end up creating competition for herself . What’s the incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:13 AM
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But you agree the only purpose is to post negative info about someone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:29 PM
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Start with a woman with a high sex drive and who is attracted to you. A woman that enjoys sex and can have multiple orgasms. You will still see a drop in interest but what's left may still be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:25 PM
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Apparently not after 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:23 PM
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New study shows eating a high calorie diet containing sugar and saturated fat while not exercising can lead to obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:23 PM
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Agreed. Late 30s is a bit late to be confident they are viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:50 AM
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We also don’t know what these girls look like. They could be very mediocre/ unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:49 PM
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Agreed. If you pay attention and listen to women, you realize that an attractive guy that’s in shape and can make a women come easily will be much more desirable than a mediocre dude with money. Yes at some point a woman might compromise on attraction for security, but she is fantasizing about other guys and has a higher risk of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:20 PM
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Maybe the sex wasn’t good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:45 PM
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orrrrrrr The men are more experienced and can hold out longer, instead of lasting less than 5 minutes due to no self-control and over-sensitivity Wouldn't a woman rather have a guy go 20-30 minutes at which point she's like babe I've had 10 orgasms, your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:31 AM
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Maybe it boils down to statistics and selection bias. Aka Who’s left/single. A successful man in their 30s who wants a partner might desire to find an amazing woman in her 30s but most of those women are taken. The good ones have had 10 years to date and had a multitude of options, and most likely will have settled down by then. So the only pool to draw from that isn’t picked clean is younger women who are still dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:20 AM
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For yourself, you’ve never actually experienced it. You don’t know for sure what you would do. The example with you dad is not on point because people with cancer usually die or go into remission and have more good years. They aren’t permanently impaired like the example the OP gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:57 PM
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Exactly. Or better yet everyone says they’ll stay cause it makes them feel morally righteous and it feels good. People act like they wouldn’t make a particular decision until they’re walking that path. And there’s no cost to say it now when it’s not happening. However the cost to someone in that situation is maybe the rest of their life being miserable. That might change their certainty a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:16 PM
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But the husband knew she was terminal. Not exactly the same as your OP question. What if she would have been in that state for 30 more years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:11 PM
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Most girls don’t know either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:22 AM
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Probably the super models can’t find a gorgeous man to take care of their needs like you can. So they have to settle for Leo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:03 PM
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It lowers because of the Coolidge effect for males. Newness is a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:08 AM
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Im sorry to hear that. I didn’t mean to imply it’s ok if she is sleeping with someone else. It you’re investing time into her, after a week or so she should break it off with other guys if she’s serious. I wouldn’t want to be having more than a couple dates with a girl if she’s going to continue to sleep with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:48 AM
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It seems like you’re making it black and white. Is there room in your model for a woman to want to enthusiastically hang out with you for a few weeks or months and ramp up the physical intimacy over time, but ultimately you may not have sex for a month or two. In the meantime you’re doing other intimate and physical things. That’s quite different than a “friend” but also not someone who sleeps with you on the first or second date. To me this seems more traditional and there’s a lot of value to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:26 PM
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You can spend time with someone without having sex. It can be enthusiastic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:22 PM
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So it takes a few weeks instead of one date. If she’s amazing enough it’s worth it. Plus the payoff is better. She will be more excited about the sex than if she had just done it the first night. Quality (of sex) does matter. A woman sleeping with a guy in a ONS maybe be less gratifying for her than masturbating. If she’s into you, and you develop a connection, she will enjoy it 10x more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:18 PM
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But women know you will judge them for sleeping with them early. So if they want any sort of relationship with you, they are smart to hold off. This also serves to create excitement. Tension. The chase. And ultimately makes the sex better anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:43 PM
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Nope She’s easy for the loser hot guy. Hard for the amazing hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:36 PM
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Where does it fall if you’re straight forward about being ambiguous. Because in reality how can anyone really know how they feel about a person when they just start going out, so its actually naive to think you can know if you would want a relationship with someone or definitely not want one (with 100 percent certainty). Ambiguity is a part of meeting new people and frankly a high percent of first dates don’t turn into a relationship anyways even when both people might think they intend it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:13 PM
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Women want security and relationships, men want sexual variety and youthful partners. Let’s not confuse what men want but don’t have access to with what women don’t want but have access to. It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:46 AM
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Yet since for women things are more dynamic, what if the fetish would be to be dominated … by a guy who’s in love with her … on a yacht Will she find that? Or just some horny mediocre looking guy with no feelings for her willing to fuck her roughly. Not quite the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:44 AM
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Maybe she’s right though. Lots of guys go into a situation thinking it will be a hook up but later he does in fact get feelings for her. Your comments presume the guy can be 100 percent sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:41 AM
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Good point. Assume if a guy approaches you he wants sex / aka is attracted to you (which is ok and healthy - Would you want a guy to approach that would never be interested in sex??) If the concern is that they ONLY want sex and nothing more, and you want more, then wait some period of time like a few weeks before having sex and get to know them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:00 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CiIy5Jmvqgy/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Couldn’t disagree more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:08 PM
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Notice you’re using comedians for the average. Might as well add Adam Sandler. Amy Shumer. Sarah Silverman. Jim Carrey. Bill Hader. Mindy Kaling. Etc etc with the comedian people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:28 AM
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John Legend? Matt Damon? Both “sexiest man alive”. If they weren’t famous but instead worked at a gas station you wouldn’t notice them. People are blinded by fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:26 AM
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They didn’t say casual sex, OP said causal sex. Presumably sex with a cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:20 AM
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Yes. I’ve had girls tell me this multiple times. And they have said their friends have had crushes on attractive older guys too. Even in a lot of books targeted toward younger women the love interest is quite a bit older … successful, hot, maybe a widower. So, it’s not “ewww” for everyone apparently. To each his own. That being said it doesn’t make the example you provided appropriate. There are certainly boundaries people should be aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:11 PM
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Maybe Abby isn’t sure the new guy will like her enough to be exclusive so she’s getting to know him and his intentions better. That means, waiting on sex, and, not getting rid of other valuable relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:45 AM
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Women in early 20s have higher value than women in late 20s. Men in late 20s have higher value than men in early 20s. It’s a double whammy. You are benefiting from that “flip” now that you are a man in your late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:13 PM
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Ever had a crush on any of your dads friends ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:09 PM
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From reading these responses it becomes clear that what men look for is just physical and for women it’s security. The “ultimate” part for men is when the physical is amazing aka a beautiful woman. For women the “ultimate” part is when the security is from marriage with a high value partner (wealth, fame, royalty etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:36 AM
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So it seems like this is way bigger and impossibly rare achievement than the op description of “having sex with a beautiful woman” for a man. Is there anything statistically equivalent for women I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:28 AM
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What is a complimentary sense of humor ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:24 AM
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Gotcha so you feel like they get cheated on or dumped for way more reasons. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:29 PM
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I thought the post was about having Daddy vibes. Not that some relationships just end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:20 PM
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Good point. If she doesn’t ever date then that would change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:05 PM
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The whole title of the post is “men get cheated on /dumped “. That didn’t happen to Bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:03 PM
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Who cheated on Jeff Bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:04 PM
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I guess it depends on how well the date went. If it was a B+ and shes down to have sex, she's probably less picky about who she has sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:27 PM
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Bayesian mathematics She either had sex with you because she (1) is loose about who she has sex with so she’s had lots of sex (2) is picky about who she has sex with and just happens to think you’re exceptional It boils down to probabilities. If you’ve only had one date, then the odds that you are exceptional enough to overcome her generally prudish nature seems unlikely. Especially when most women that have a low number of partners will still choose to wait with an exceptional partner. So, yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:38 PM
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They both sound bad. In both cases you will be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:18 AM
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It’s very bad manners. I think it’s just immaturity / insecurity / laziness. Not a good look. If you went on a legit date it seems like the least she could do is it write “hey sorry but I don’t want to go out again”. Disappointing but more decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:45 AM
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Which is ironic because how can you lump into the statistics (of failure) of the pullout method if you don’t actually pull out. Then you didn’t use the method …..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:08 AM
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She’s had a looooooot of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:51 AM
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Showing interest isn’t a scheme. The point is he knew you would return to health.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:31 AM
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Male pattern baldness is often a sign of high testosterone. Also, hairy chests. A man with tons of hair on his head and no hair on his chest might look great to a teenage girl but for an older mature guy, both are less masculine and more “boyish”. Not necessarily a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:39 PM
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Maybe it’s 45 year old men lying about their age
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:33 PM
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Isn’t it obvious that this is meant to be facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:29 PM
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Yes. He’s always liked you. And yes you’re correct it was a way to get brownie points and salvage a failed attempt to hook up. And just because he told you went from an 8.5 to a 4 doesn’t change anything. My point was - he couldn’t get you as an 8 (he tried). So, this way he could get you as a 4 that would hopefully get back to being an 8 at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:47 AM
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But they do pine and ache for those people. People steal their friends wives , hook up with married coworkers etc all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:01 AM
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Wanting to mate is not nefarious it’s human.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:59 PM
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It’s just logical. Her male friend could recognize that she was attractive or had been but that she was just in a bad place. He assumed there was a chance she would return to attractiveness. He was stuck in the friend zone when she was hot. He capitalized on the situation when she was down and out, and demonstrated value, and “got with her”. Now they are together, something he couldn’t achieve before. As she returns to hotness he gets the payoff. Sadly she will probably dump him eventually thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:58 PM
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People can control their behavior but not their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:06 AM
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And most likely he saw your health issue as a way to increase his odds of having sex with you. As you said people are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:04 AM
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Why didn’t you go on the dates. Did they just no show/flake? Or did you back out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:03 PM
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Maybe as a man is older he doesn’t care about status since he has no need to leverage it for sexual advantage. Thus no new car. Wasted money. If he got divorced he would get the new car.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:06 AM
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Or actually wanted but they pretended that it was “unwanted” (the husband/ bf didn’t want it but the woman did)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:37 AM
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Women don’t go for a guy just based on looks. It’s just one factor and isn’t weighted as highly as men rate it. Confidence. Intelligence. Status. Wealth. Smell. Etc are as or more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:51 AM
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So you’re saying that no one’s behavior is influenced by their partners behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:13 PM
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It’s a numbers game. She might have chatted with other guys too. Or something about your interaction she didn’t like, something that was revealed when she talked to you. Or maybe she just wanted to flirt with someone but didn’t want more. Or maybe you showed too much interest by texting her the next day and you should have waited a bit longer to get her to sense you have higher value (texting the next day seems desperate). Maybe she actually liked you and is having something today going on such …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:12 PM
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Disagree. Very few people can fuck 10/10 women. Those women have all the options. And they could easily get some who is physically attractive AND wealthy/status etc If your point is that money can increase your attractiveness then yes it’s true, but only to a point. It’s a factor but not the only factor and it can only get you so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:04 AM
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You're simply saying there should be full transparency into everything your partner has ever done. How about everything they ever thought too? No one has that sort of relationship not even best friends. A healthy amount of ignorance keeps all relationships better, and the past is the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:06 PM
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Saying “well men do this” doesn’t make it a desirable quality. Yes, some men do this. And yes, clearly some women do too. Neither are desirable. It’s telling when you haven’t been in any decent length committed relationships for your whole life and you’re 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:13 AM
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Lots of women will have a problem with it because they want someone confident and in control. It may benefit you to find someone that’s interested in you even if you don’t have a perfect connection but someone that you can experiment with. You may have to lower your standards. However getting that monkey off your back will help you later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:53 AM
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In addition, the waiting can create a build up and tension and excitement that makes the sex better when it happens. Plus you know each other better, so it would be more intense. Delayed gratification has a good payoff. The reason the same woman might have a ONS with another guy may be because of the situation where there’s no true probability of a LTR, either due to logistics, or ironically cause he’s not suitable, so maybe just something fun now is better than nothing. But with someone who’s h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:04 AM
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It may not be a red flag but it’s not desirable at any age, if the woman herself isn’t also a virgin. Most women don’t want to have to teach a guy how to have sex. They want someone who can be dominant and confident - and that’s difficult if the guy is inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:07 AM
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It depends on the college. If someone goes to a college with a lot of unattractive people (like an MIT for instance) the lack of good options could cause someone through being slightly picky to delay. Or, a college with mostly or all one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:02 AM
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Anecdote?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:03 AM
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