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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Recovering nice guys: Small acts of self respect My biggest takeaway from this book is I was doing things to please others and in doing so I would expect some kind of gratitude. When I realized I was actually doing this I started questioning myself any time someone would ask me to help them with something. If in my mind I knew I was doing it for some sort of gratification I would decline or if I knew I was doing it because I truly wanted to help I would help. This really helped me get away from being the "nice guy".	/r/seduction	28/10/20 01:53 PM
3	I'm a woman and I don't know how to flirt AHHHH okay well yah follow my first advice then! Some people fake it so much it becomes their new self so maybe it'll be beneficial!	/r/seduction	29/03/18 03:35 PM
5	I'm a woman and I don't know how to flirt If you are wondering how to flirt you can watch those videos that are directed to men about how to tell if a girl is into you, then you can literally just do those things and men SHOULD get the picture. I can be very self-conscious and insecure at times though I think the best thing you can do to learn how to flirt and be yourself is to be a bit more confident in your own skin. You literally start your post by saying you are unattractive and that's what you need to change.You have to exude confi…	/r/seduction	29/03/18 02:41 PM
2	Hooking up with a co-worker Dating people at your work can be bad if things don't turn out as well as you'd hope... Dating an underling is probably the worst thing you can do unless you plan on leaving the company. I would not recommend it.	/r/seduction	29/11/16 05:34 AM
1	I'm a fucking joke. And I want to change. Hey, I think before you even attempt to have a serious relationship with anyone, you need to check your attitude towards yourself. In order to land anyone you must first have confidence in yourself. I would say first thing to do is get rid of your negative attitude and start being positive. When I say start being positive I mean stop saying things like "I'm annoying as fuck," You keep saying things like that and you will project that to others. Unfortunately you can't do anything about being sho…	/r/seduction	27/08/15 04:54 PM
1	I took a shy girl to the limit. Did I fucked up things? This is probably going to get downvoted, but just be careful because I'm not sure if its our culture now a days but RAPE gets thrown around a lot pretty easily now, so just make sure she really wants it before pushing to far.	/r/seduction	05/06/15 05:16 PM
12	[IG] Nice Guys Listen Up I used to be really bad in terms of being the "nice guy". I couldn't understand why girls always said I was such a nice guy, yet I couldn't get any girls. I read the book No More mr. Nice Guy and it really put things into perspective. It's basically what this guy wrote but in more detail. I really suggest any "nice guy" who wants to change and get out of that mind set, read it. It's a good intro book to getting better.	/r/seduction	06/08/14 02:24 PM
9	I'm a girl who wants to go out, but I need help getting over my approach anxiety! I'd say do what guys do when they wanna overcome AA, just talk to everyone. Eventually you'll just think it's natural to talk to people and your AA should go away.	/r/seduction	08/04/14 09:12 PM
2	Girls avoid me Maybe it's because you are a drow...	/r/seduction	23/04/13 04:27 PM
18	I feel like I've made a lot of progress and yet, none at all. Think of yourself like a bamboo tree... you are creating strong roots to be able to flourish at a later day. You are doing things to change yourself, you probably arent used to being this new person yet, once you get comfortable with all these changes you will see a difference.	/r/seduction	05/04/13 04:17 PM