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12	Can’t believe this is happening. I need advice on what the next move should be. Move fast before she demands half of your business. Then you won't get rid of her, or she'll ruin your hard work. Either way, she'd end up profiting from your work. Cut the cord, do it yesterday. And there is no way she hasn't already cheated, she wouldn't have come clean if she wasn't sure she has a fallback plan.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/22 02:28 PM
19	Men have checked out. Amazing how many self proclaimed feminists I meet that they can go back to a traditional gender relationship if everything falls apart. Men aren’t going to be there. Get over it. Women and children first.	/r/MensRights	24/10/21 02:01 AM
2	So this happened today… One of the Harry Potters, don't remember which.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/21 09:40 PM
70	today my friend was rejected from a job at a coffee shop because he’s a man It's not defamation if it's true, they have no chance on this one.	/r/MensRights	24/05/21 07:08 AM
173	today my friend was rejected from a job at a coffee shop because he’s a man lol they’ll just start rejecting you and say it was for other reasons. Then expose them on social media. They'll care more about that.	/r/MensRights	24/05/21 05:44 AM
2	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system Only yesterday you were saying they divorced for three years. As I said, changing facts around you as they suit you best in the moment. Now go away, I am tired of you, and my wife deserves my attention, not a little feminist troll.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 05:53 AM
3	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system We are talking about straight out times when men are paid more than women for the same job. Learn to negotiate a better salary, then. As a business owner, I don't have to pay you more than the absolute minimum I can, if that's what you think you are worth. That is what we are talking about. No, that's not what we are talking about. If you are a salaried employee, you negotiate your salary. If you are an hourly employee, the payment is standard for anyone, for the same job, at the same cmpany, us…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 05:52 AM
2	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system No it doesn't. It literally doesn't. Because in previous posts you had here you said USA. Also, the wage gap is a USA issue. Other countries don't have this nonsense debate. So why would you care about the nonsense in the USA if you lived in Bulgaria, for example? So, you're a troll. Or an insane little feminist that changes the facts as she goes to fit her narrative as it suits her best, ignoring the facts around her or the things she already said.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 05:47 AM
2	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system You don't know, that's the point. Financial settlements are part of the divorce, and divorces are not finished until this is completed. Sure, you can go back to court and demand more, afterwards, but that rarely works. Which I suspect is what is happening in your case. Your mom got the shaft in the divorce settlement, and now she is looking for more, but it's not quite working. I knew this was the case ever since you said your dad was not paying child support. The moment the divorce proceedings …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 05:41 AM
3	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system Dude, women in the US earn more degrees than men. Yes, useless degrees. Feminist literature is not a degree of importance. Nor is gender studies. Or a degree in literature. And so on. So your statement may be true in some fields but overall women are more qualified than the vast majority of men. Ha, not by far. Any technical field is ran by men. That's where money is made. Any financial field is ran by men. That's where money is made. Any engineering field is ran by men. That's where money is ma…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 05:39 AM
2	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system Money made during the marriage, is the marriages money. It’s definitely not always fair but that is the precedent. Yeah, that's why your mother hasn't received anything in the divorce, right? You have much to learn, and one of those things is that money made during the marriage is not always split 50/50. If your father is smart, which I have a feeling he is, the money is tied in his business. Which doesn't mean it is a marital asset. Money can be tied in trusts, can be from an inheritance, and t…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 05:23 AM
3	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system LOL. So you're saying men have interesting hobbies and like to spend their free time wisely, enriching their lives, while women like to waste their free time on social media? Yep, nice one. Or were you trying to say a man is usually the breadwinner, works far more hours, a lot of them have a second job, they work long stressful hours, have to spend a lot of time commuting, while a lot of women are stay at homes... I don't know, one makes more sense than the other. I like my version better, becau…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 04:57 AM
3	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system I am not going to call you stupid, but naive. That is an old article that doesn't even take into account that women work less, so they can't be paid the same, they work a lot of part time jobs, they are less educated for the same job, they lack seniority for the same job, they leave their jobs once they get pregnant and when they return to the same job they are behind and can't be paid the same, most don't even return to the same job because they want something easier to allow them to focus on t…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 04:52 AM
3	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system If women have more time to spend on social media than men, by definition they have more free time. Which means they work less. Look, kid, go find an anime forum and argue these issues there, you will have more success.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 04:39 AM
2	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system this whole idea that there is a bias against men. Has been proven to be bullshit. The next thing you're going to tell me is that the wage gap is real.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 04:35 AM
4	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system It's a troll, don't engage. Check their history, all nonsense.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 04:19 AM
9	Dispelling the myth of gender bias in the family court system You're a troll. Just yesterday you posted here that you are a 19 year old girl and you were begging for your millionaire father to give money to your lazy mother, even though they were divorced for 3 years. Here is the post. Now you've become an expert in bias in divorce courts? Be gone, troll. Can the mods please ban this account?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/21 04:18 AM
4	Dad, please just give Mum the money I am doing this more so for my younger siblings who are still minors and need their mother. And your father's money should not be the deciding factor in how good a mother she can be. That is just an excuse, a ploy. Your mother sounds manipulative. Most households in America don't earn 80k and they make it just fine. Your mother should be more than capable of doing the same. Also, a divorce, with children, and no child support? I don't believe you. She would have received child support even befor…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/21 12:07 AM
2	Dad, please just give Mum the money So, the mother that locked herself in her room to watch Netflix when you had a breakdown, the same mother that said "it's normal for your brother to touch your breasts" is the one you're crying over right now and here? You are a liar. Your mother, if that is true, at 80 grand a year, should live more than comfortably, on her own. The problem is she is used to living above her means, and now she thinks she should get the money your father earned with hard work. Why do you care? She sounds like sh…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/21 11:53 PM
6	Dad, please just give Mum the money She worked 4 days a week? How many days a week has your dad been working? How many hours? Seems like she had to compensate, regardless, so I don't see the issue. And if she had her own income, tough luck, it will make it VERY difficult for her to get a good settlement, no matter how hard she tries. And why is she struggling to pay her own bills if she is working? Not a lot of things make sense. Plus, you know, looking at your posting history, I am highly suspicious you are honest with us. Did mo…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/21 11:42 PM
6	Dad, please just give Mum the money And why is your mom allergic to getting a job? Your dad should only "give her some money" after the court measures and decides how much. Otherwise... your dad would set up a precedent that would not be in his favor. If your mother is entitled to alimony, the court would decide so. But since they've been going at this for three years, and no court has made a temporary order, which is usual in these cases, I would assume she doesn't qualify. Yeah, your father shouldn't have turned you into his the…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/21 11:33 PM
19	Need to vent Usually, when they say "I'm done with he marriage" and/or "I have no feelings for you" it means they have another dude. At least that's the common denominator on posts like this. Good luck to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/21 04:23 PM
4	Wife’s company and income for support Ask your lawyer. If your ex becomes hostile, nuke her world, hire the forensic accountant. Again, her brother cooked the taxes such way it looks like she is poorer than dirt. That is her looking for herself and years of support from you. Shut that down! Let your lawyer do the speaking, just pretend you have no clue what all this means.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/21 11:37 AM
10	Wife’s company and income for support Don't sign taxes cooked by her brother, what is this, amateur hour? She's not making 12k a year, she is setting you up. You are not friends, you don't need to be a nice guy. Listen to your lawyer, be smart, think with the "me first" mindset. On average she makes more than 80k a year. Not 12k. Don't set yourself up for years of spousal support she doesn't need. She can work, she has a business, let her figure out her finances after the divorce. Divorce is not a "and we remained best friends" type…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/21 11:11 AM
5	HELP... "family trust" = walk away empty handed? Tell your friend not to worry, and anything he does, even taking a piss, should not be done without a lawyer holding his hand. Any dollar she has right now, and earned during their marriage, is a marital asset. And she can't use it as a "family trust" no matter how much she insists. Want to know the good news? She might even end up paying alimony. But no, no matter what she does with the money, he will own half of it. She is just puffing her chest to seem bigger than she is. At worst she is comm…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/01/21 08:43 AM
14	STBX has been sleeping with his/her lawyer throughout our divorce process. What are my options? Not sure there's much you can do. If he was sleeping with your lawyer, sure, major issues. But his own? Nothing you can do... Why exactly does it bother you, you're getting a divorce anyway.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/20 11:53 AM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? There's a minority of women like your wife, and you're acting like it's the norm. Whatever problems you may have, it would serve you best if you don't generalize. You are the one making assumptions here, not me. Your assumption is that everyone has the same relationship like you did.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/20 12:28 AM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? You... have issues.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/20 07:56 PM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? I would not say that the OP isn't deserving of anything, I simply disagree that she is worth as much as you claim. Luckily, your opinion doesn't matter, and OP has received all the proper advice she needs to ensure she will get what she is worth and she is deserved. And, hopefully, if you ever manage to get a girlfriend, big if, you will undress of all these sexist ideologies. You can only grow from here.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/20 07:41 PM
3	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? Don't listen to what this kid has to say. Looking at his profile, I doublt he is more than 18-19 years old.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/20 11:50 PM
2	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? Yeah, you're still wrong. What you do while you are single is your business. How you juggle having a full-time job and keeping yourself fed, and your clothes clean, and your house dusted, that is all your business. You hire a maid, you do it yourself, you have your mom do it, that's your business. And it is strictly your business, as a single person. When you start a relationship with a woman, she doesn't do those things for you from the day you met her. She still has her own job, she has to cle…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/20 11:44 PM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? How is one person doing chores somehow accountable for someone else getting promotions through hard work? That someone has time to rest, and be stress-free, because instead of coming home and having to cook, clean, do chores, they can rest and focus on work. This isn't brain surgery, Chad. It's not. See above. There is no reason to believe that this man who was previously only supporting himself could not have got to where he is now without taking on the responsibility of providing for two more …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/20 11:28 PM
2	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? You have a very unhealthy idea of what fair means, then.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/20 08:28 PM
2	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? Her husband goes to work, comes home, and that's all he does. He does no chores or anything. On the other hand, she is at home all the time, she doesn't work just 8 hours each day, she works all day every day. She cleans, she cooks, she washes, she goes shopping, she irons his clothes, she does everything. His contributions are also being abusive. Do you think being abusive is a full-time job? It might be, considering what OP has shared about her husband. Where you came up with that idea he work…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/20 03:09 PM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? Is half of everything he worked for "fair"? No, it is not "fair," it is absolutely fair. She worked to make a home without worries for her abusive husband (read OP's history, the guy was a douche).	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 11:23 AM
2	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? No worries. Good luck!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 05:42 AM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? All you need is enough for a retainer. The rest can be paid as divorce settlement. Usually, with divorce lawyers, the consultation is free. So you can ask them this stuff.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 05:09 AM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? This makes sense although I have no idea what kind of a person does any of that (bottom part). A petty person, a person that has been hurt and wants to retaliate. A bad person, a person that doesn't want to divorce and tries to make it as difficult as possible. There is no specific person that would do that, men and women act like that during a divorce. It's just more popular to think women alone are responsible for that behavior. Men are equally as bad. As for access to my kid he made it very c…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 04:18 AM
2	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? No worries, hope it was helpful. As for what "divorce rape" means, here's an idea. Normally, you would want your fair share, meaning 50%. Sometimes, as is your case, on top of that 50% you will get alimony, which can be for a few years or the rest of your life, depending on the length of your relationship (not just marriage, but entire relationship), the income of your husband, and other variables that your lawyer will know about. If you have children, or if he took a fatherly role for your chil…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 03:53 AM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? Don't listen to that nonsense, just a bitter awful little guy on a soaked cardboard soap box, trying to sound like he knows what he is talking about.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 03:40 AM
7	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? It is absolutely irrelevant what he thinks and wants. It stopped being his money when the two of you married. The law is pretty cut and dry on this one, and like it or not, he has no choice here. Plus, you will more than likely be entitled to alimony, since you have been a homemaker your entire relationship. This, again, is something he has no choice about, as the law is once again pretty clear upon. All you need to do is get a lawyer. And listen to me when I say it, GET A LAWYER. The man you're…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 03:39 AM
42	Yet another movie that portrays men as lazy and immature and women as the responsable and adults ones. Can you imagine if the roles where reversed? You clearly haven't watched the movie. She is far worse than he is. The movie is about the two of them working over their differences and building a family together. There's a lot of growing up, for both of them, and the message of the movie is not sexist in the least. The drinking beer and laying around in his underwear is his persona before meeting her. The running after the baby clueless about what she is doing is her persona before meeting him. You guys should actually watch the movie. It's …	/r/MensRights	29/03/20 03:44 AM
6	Did anyone here divorce over a sexless marriage? Go and talk with a divorce lawyer, before you do anything else, and at his advice, do the following: take half of your money from the joint account, and transfer it into your own, private account, she has no access to move out to either a hotel or rent your own apartment move out your own things, so she doesn't destroy them if you're afraid of that That's it, you should now be free. If you're so unhappy, if she straight told you she isn't interested in what you have to offer, if she shames you a…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/19 12:33 AM
3	I officially left. About to go through a divorce. Left my wife everything and now she won't even bring my son around to see me. So I have to catch Uber there and back just to see him. Breaks my heart. Pray for me and my son guys 🙏🙏 Good luck, then!	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/19 10:40 AM
9	I officially left. About to go through a divorce. Left my wife everything and now she won't even bring my son around to see me. So I have to catch Uber there and back just to see him. Breaks my heart. Pray for me and my son guys 🙏🙏 You left her "everything" implying you have nothing she needs right now, except for the court-mandated child support she will receive in due time. And you're surprised she doesn't put forward any effort to bring your son to you? Good luck to you, but you may have made a bad move. Did you talk with a lawyer first? Always talk with a laywer before any decision.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/19 10:36 AM
5	[rant] Wife is lying and saying she is a DV victim to get free stuff. Your lawyer can send her a cease and desist letter. You can also send a similar letter to her school. Inform them you will be seeking legal action for defamation, because by declaring her an abuse victim they are defamating you. I don't know, ask your lawyer. At the very least, send it to your wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/19 12:16 AM
4	Immigrant wife blindsided me with divorce You either tell the truth, and let her suffer the consequences, or lie, and you both suffer the consequences, because the people who will look into this are not idiots. I can tell you a continent over she used you, and that's all you were to he, a ticket. You're beating yourself over nothing, you did nothing wrong, you were used. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/19 02:01 PM
16	Advice on Dealing with STBXW Her problem is she is no longer your problem, and that's a problem. She will do her best to get a reaction from you, don't you worry about that. But you have to understand, this is an opportunistic behavior, this is not specifically designed for you. You've mentioned how sexy her swimsuit was, how her breasts were "out there." You see, she didn't "dress" like that for you or your attention. That was for other guys that might have been around at the pool. That was the goal. The opportunity showed…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/19 12:39 AM
10	ex may have remarried. First of all, your ex is the last person you want to ask this question to. Facebook wise, you need to check what other people see on her profile. She may hide wedding photos or anything like that from you, but not from others. Find a friend or another you have in common, that has access to her profile, and see what their view is like. Second, look at her mother's profile, her father's profile, sister, brother, anyone who is related to her. Same trick as above, looks for photos, comments, anythin…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/19 05:26 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I wonder if it is even possible to still love someone you haven’t physically seen or spoken to in 2 1/2 years. And if he still loves her, what on earth would his reason be for turning his back on her when she has cancer and cutting off communication. Go to the /r/breakups subreddit. There's people there saying their miss their ex ... years after they broke up. So it isn't far fetched, it happens more than you think. I told you before, I still think about my first girlfriend from time to time. I …	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/18 01:30 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? So how does he deal with the knowledge that he basically left her to get a better life for himself. I don't have an answer to that. Therapy, something like that might help. You won't be able to fix him, because that is an internal struggle. And he is not talking with anyone about it, so there is no opportunity to release pressure. At the very least, you are bouncing ideas of off me, and you able to see other perspective. What is he doing about things? Nothing, really, he is doing nothing. He is …	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/18 12:00 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I don't think he feels "stuck" with me. But I do think he's not completely letting go of his marriage and it's not clear why. He doesn't feel stuck here. He really likes his life here. Early on he told me how much he hated his life with her. He hated his job, he hated where they lived. Yes, but he hate her? He didn't like his work, he didn't like his car, he may not have liked his house. But did he like his wife? There are many things that frustrate us in our day to day lives, but there are reas…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/18 10:44 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I guess my concern is that the lady in your story loved two people but she really didn’t have a choice because her husband died. If her husband had not died, she would never have remarried or allowed herself to love the new husband. So she loved two people that she didn’t have any reason to feel guilty about it. Yes, but it made her husband unease nevertheless. That's why he posted the story in the first place, to get feedback. They had kids together, and he was still feeling insecure, is what I…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/18 08:01 PM
2	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? No, the people looking at his page don't know it's an old picture. But he does. He is choosing to present a picture from when he was still her husband, so does that mean he still thinks of himself as her husband in some way? Well, he still is her husband. Legally, he still is. And for some people, that means a lot. There are couples out there that are so toxic to one another, but they still remain married. There are couples that would kill one another, but they still remain married. There are a …	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/18 05:58 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? And then he’s choosing to use that picture that reminds him of a different life to represent him on social media. That is what our social media public account photos are. They are how we present ourselves to the rest of the world. I am fine with this interpretation. But I don't think the audience has any clue as to what the picture represents, or when it was taken, or when. So unless you are hinting it might be a "message" of sorts for the eyes of his ex(wife), I don't see if it necessarily what…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/18 03:45 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Well, it is clear to me he can't go back, even if he wanted. You described all the damage he's done to his ex(wife) when he left. There is no way he can say "honey, I'm home" and she will open her arms and take him back. Doesn't matter how nice she is, how devastated she was, and how much she loved him or still does. What he did was essentially break her, and I don't see any way to come back from that. I don't want to use the word "stuck", but that is what he is right now. You can read him bette…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/18 12:37 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? As far as her still being hurt, I can imagine that having the person you were closest to for so long turn away from you completely while you battle cancer is a very hurtful thing. That behavior is what brought me to start this thread in the first place. I was baffled by why he would do this to her. And even if she was in a new relationship, which she is not, I believe that she would still be very hurt by his avoidance of her during this time in her life. Yes, but she had time to heal before the …	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 11:21 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? That's what I meant by missing his old life. material things are easy to replace. Job, house, car ... most of us go through several of those during our life times. I was hinting that he might be missing her, because that is something you can't replace. You should not be a replacement, you should be the next part of his life. But he is not letting go of the previous part of his life.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 10:33 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I feel like he is still in someways behaving like a man having an illicit affair and hiding his activities from his spouse. Which means he still thinks of her as his spouse. Yes. I didn't want to say this, this definitely crossed my mind, but I wanted to avoid being cruel. But I definitely thought the exact same thing. He behaves as if you are still the other woman. If she doesn’t want to see anything about us because it will hurt her, she doesn’t have to look. Which I believe she’s doing becaus…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 10:21 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? So, then, he is treating you differently than she did her, or at least it sounds like that to me. I don't know what he is thinking, or what his thought pattern is like. Doesn't sound like his behavior has been triggered by the news about the cancer, sounds like it is something that existed from the beginning. If you're not happy now, you're not going to be happy later. If you are happy now, it doesn't matter. I think a fix to everything will be him getting through the divorce, and ending things.…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 10:02 PM
2	Thinking about leaving everyone Eh, I am going to against the grain that is in the comments, and tell you to do what makes you happy. Most likely, they are influenced by their mom. After the divorce, they will most likely live with their mom. Even if you manage to get some sort of custody, they will mostly live with their mom. Their mom will shape their opinion on you, and based on their behavior right now, you can see where that will go. Not even a "happy birthday?" You can stay around until the youngest turns 18, and be mise…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 09:26 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? No picture with you in 3 years? That is ... weird. I barely have any social media, and still posted pictures with my then girlfriend / now wife all over the place. Sent messages to friends with her pictures, still do today on whatsapp. What about his ex(wife)? Did he post pictures with her on his social media?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 09:12 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Hey, just a thought... what stuff does he usually post on social media? What sort of pictures, overall? How often does he include you in those pictures, the place where you live, etc? Because, if you are usually included in his posts, then the whole dog stuff is not really a concern. If he never includes you, then I can see your point of view. I don’t know but I appreciate you talking it out with me. Hey, I'll be here for as long as you need me.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 07:50 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Well, I don't have an answer to this one. It probably has nothing to do with this picture specifically, because otherwise it would be a picture he would have readily available. Maybe he was just looking at pictures overall, and just uploaded this one on impulse.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 06:31 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? But since the ex(wife) is not in the picture, is it really a walk down memory lane?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 05:34 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Maybe the picture was already uploaded to his facebook gallery? And he just selected it from there? She could be looking at his facebook, but I personally would get no satisfaction knowing the changes I am doing don't really mean anything. I think you are reading more into these changes he is making than she would if she would see them. The only question is what he thinks when he does them. If I were the ex(wife) I may not even notice the subtle nuances of the images (when it was taken, where, e…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 05:33 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Again, you might be overthinking the issue. maybe he didn't have other pictures on the device he changed the picture from.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 04:23 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? That's what I meant by posting a picture with your ex. A token of the past, for a specific reason, not a walk down memory lane. Ask him "Why didn't you use a better picture of [name of dog]?" That's an innocent enough question.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 04:21 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I think you are reading too much into this one. My wife and I have a cat. It's superb Turkish Angora, and she is 7 years old. Yet, I have my avatar recently changed to a picture of hers since she was 6 months old. She was so cute back then, always chewing my fingers, ha ha. The fact that he cropped the picture to just the dog means he was more interested in the dog than the rest of the image. I don't think there is a secret language at work here, something that only him and his ex(wife) understa…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 11:11 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Yeah, we are in sync on the nick name thing. If he didn't care, he would have used her name, and that would have been it. Feels like he tested the waters, to see how reacts, knowing she didn't want him to use her pet name. And while I agree with the divorce not being appropriate right now, the man didn't lack time to go through with it prior to the chemo.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 12:32 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Well, we’re both in our 40s so kids isn’t an issue. I don’t necessarily need to get married again, but having a partner legally tied to another as we get older is not ideal. They are also legally each other’s next of kin. Plus, getting the divorce would show you he is all in. At the very least it would provide some reassurance. I just want to know that his heart is not still with her. And I don’t know if he can tell me that because I’m not sure it’s entirely conscious on his part. How can it not…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 11:40 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Ok, let me put another perspective on this. What does your future with this man looks like? Do you see yourself getting married with him? Do you see yourself having kids with him? You've mentioned he had no kids before, does he want any? So you see any growth with him? Or do you want to maintain the status quo, and that's it? If you want any growth in your relationship, the divorce has to go through. And you want growth, otherwise we wouldn't have had such a long conversation, and you wouldn't h…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 09:11 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? This pretty much confirms a statement of mine from earlier (which you refuted), that he still has feelings for her. That he might regret how things turned out. You said no, because his life here is better. But success is not always everything, and maybe he is missing something he is not getting over here. There has to be a motive behind his behavior. He doesn't want a divorce, but keeps himself away from the ex(wife). He acts as she is not a factor, but he refuses to engage any discussion about …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 08:27 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I have really thought about it and wondered why she did not contact him again when he didn’t send the dogs collar. The only explanation I can come up with is that he usually not responsive and she probably feels that it would not do her any good to ask again. Reasonable assumption. But you also need to think about it from her perspective. He left her almost 4 years ago. That is a lot of time. Feelings aside, she is not the one with built up guilt and remorse. She is hurt, but time heals. She is …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 08:22 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? But as far as excuses go, this one was a low effort excuse, one that anyone could easily see through. It's not like he didn't have a phone for a year, and that's why he didn't maintain contact. It is a ridiculous excuse. I am not saying he doesn't care, but I am saying you are reading too much into this particular case. What you should care about is the overall problem. Why are you avoiding confronting him? It does you no good bouncing ideas off of me, although I don't have an issue with it. I j…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 07:03 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? No, no no no no no. I completely disagree with this assessment. She also wants a divorce and he is not allowing for it. If she was hell bent on getting the collar, there would have been more messages from her. Again, she has no hesitance in messaging him, he is the one that avoids messaging her. If she really wanted the collar, there would have been more messages from her end, asking for it. It would have been a good way to engage him further, since he was responsive when they first talked about…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 06:54 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? No, the collar is not a token of their connection. It would be if he sent the collar to his ex(wife), because she would have something tangible that united the both of them, through their pet. But as it stands, it signifies nothing.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 06:26 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Eh, stupid people make stupid things all the time. With all the arrogance attached to this statements, I consider myself a reasonable smart individual, and I still take stupid decision on the regular. Maybe he is not good at avoiding confrontation. Well, not maybe, he clearly is not good at it, since all the decisions he has taken around his ex(wife) are questionable from an outside perspective. His excuse is ridiculous, but is expected from someone who is avoiding the situation at hand. There i…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 06:25 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Well, his behavior is in line with what he has been doing so far. As far as that goes, he's been pretty consistent. How did you find out they had contact about the dog passing away?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 05:37 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I don't think the comparison between the son's reaction and your boyfriend's reaction is fair. Your son acted because at the time, you essentially broke the family. It is a natural reaction. It doesn't come from hate, it comes from being upset, insecure about the future without both parents together, and so on. Your boyfriend has none of the above excuses. I don’t think most people think it’s a problem that he doesn’t talk to his ex. But I worry because if he can treat her this way after such a …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/18 04:28 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Is it possible for the fog to last over three years? The fog lasts until there is reason for it to lift. Traditionally, it happens when the infidelity is exposed. But that is not the case here since your ituation is not hidden, it is a well known fact. Something else will trigger it, or has already done so. His behavior is weird. If he is not doing it maliciously, hurting his ex like this, you have to think there is a thought process behind his decisions. Even when there is hate between ex partn…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/18 04:45 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I don’t know why he would be prolonging the divorce intentionally. What do you mean by that? What purpose would it serve for him. I don't know that either. By all accounts, he should have moved on a while ago. So, apart from an emotional attachment, I don't see what is holding him back. Nothing else makes sense. What that emotional attachment is, I can't say. Is it guilt and regret? Is it love? Anyone's guess. But it has to be an emotional link that holds him back. I really don’t know what to th…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/18 02:54 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Guilt doesn't necessarily change your behavior. I am sure you've also done things that you felt guilty about, but they haven't changed your day to day behavior.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/18 12:40 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? In the beginning, she would not have been awarded alimony. But now she can show that he was not responsive when she was working towards the divorce previously and then she got cancer and her income has greatly suffered while his income has been increasing. So I think now she would be awarded alimony. Well, it depends. Was she a stay at home wife, or did she have a job? Did she lose her home after he moved out because she couldn't pay for it alone, or not? What determines alimony and how much of …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/18 12:40 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? See my other comment, but I guarantee you he is feeling guilt. There is no way he is not feeling guilt, and that may be his coping mechanism, by ignoring the problem.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/18 11:23 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? You know, another odd thing is that he’s working so hard and getting success. But he’s not divorced, and she could very well cite abandonment because he left her and she doesn’t even know his phone number - isn’t he worried that once he does go for divorce, or if she finds the means to divorce him, he will have to pay her some alimony or something now that he is doing well and she has gone through such a hardship with her cancer? My wife and I have actually discussed this. In the case of a divor…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/18 11:22 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? It is not uncommon to work long hours and days seeking success. But here's the two ingredients that make it not normal: he is not divorced, he shuts down any talk related to his ex. So all this extra work he is doing sounds more like a coping mechanism, a way to set his worries aside. I don't doubt that he wants to be successful, but at the same time there are numerous red flags around him that makes one wonder. If he works that much, where exactly is your relationship on his priority list? Do y…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/18 08:16 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? That is a reasonable explanation, unless you are trying to justify his behavior and define it as normal. But I think you know him better, and you would be able to tell if he is just avoiding his problems, or he is genuinely aiming for success.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/18 06:34 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Right? You wouldn't remove someone completely from your life unless they've been horrible and toxic to you, or they wronged you in a manner that you can't recover from. His reaction is a little extreme. Time should have desensitized his feelings towards his ex wife and open him up a little. Instead, what you're describing is even more isolation as time goes by.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/18 06:33 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Thanks for the update. It is weird how extreme are the lengths he goes at to avoid talking about the ex. Not even calling his mom back out of fear she might address the issue? How did you find out his mom called in the first place? Did he tell you, or did you overhear the voicemail? He is more successful in his job here than he ever was with his ex. I think he feels walking away from his past is the trade off for his current success. I guess he’s willing to accept that on his journey to success …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/18 04:42 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I really can't tel you what his thought process is. Maybe we are completely over thinking the situation. I doubt that, based on what you have told me here, but it is a possibility.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/18 10:11 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I don't know. He could have used any of the pictures you've mentioned, but he didn't. He chose something from his past. I have no idea what that means, but I have a general feeling of what it might mean. You have that feeling as well. I wish I could tell you differently, but you've revealed too many pieces of a puzzle that once put together for a picture of the past, not the present. No chance of getting him in therapy? Is he resisting the idea?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/18 08:16 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Ouch. Yeah, there's more than just that. He probably got the dog while still with his ex(wife), they both had it since he was a puppy, raised him and loved him. More or less, it was like a child in their relationship, since they didn't have kids. I imagine the emotional impact was heavy. There's a reason why the "man and his dog" motif is so popular in media and books. The picture with the landscape is probably where his dog used to play a lot. That could be the significance of the change of pic…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/18 07:53 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? He left her 3 1/2 years ago and just two months ago he changed his picture to a picture of the pond behind their old home. Am I wrong to think that his weird? No, you are not wrong. I think your concerns are valid. And him doing these tiny changes after that much time is a good indicator where his state of mind is. Them not being friends on social media has no real value here, because you can still look at someone's profile even if you are not online friends. You can just bookmark their profile,…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/18 07:00 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Sounds like a plan is forming. Write the letter, take your time to put your thoughts into words. Make a list with items you'd like to address before starting to write the letter, so it flows more naturally. I understand he uprooted his old life to start the new one, but there is a point where you go from "this is the healthy way of doing it" to "this is the wrong way of doing it", and he sounds like a champion of the second. I hope you do find a resolution. I am not sure if you are aware, but yo…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/18 03:41 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Ugh, sounds like whatever step forward he makes, karma answers him in kind. I imagine he thought he made a significant step forward when he took her off his insurance, and then karma came back with cancer. If that doesn't hit him hard, I don't know what does. Honestly, I think he hates himself. You've provided a lot of info about the situation overall, some of it because Is tumbled into it (cheating, insurance). Works too much, isolated himself from the old life, doesn't want to talk about anyth…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/18 02:50 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Is she on his insurance? Maybe he is helping her that way, not being involved, but allowing her to draw some benefits out of it. Otherwise, I am drawing a blank. But, since he is unwilling to talk about it, it is clear something is up, and he is keeping something "hidden" or "obscured" from view. Also, you can simply say "you don't want to talk about it, but I do, so we are talking about it!" Put your foot down and deal with the issue.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/18 01:56 AM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I certainly understand your fears and concerns. The honeymoon period of the relationship is wearing off, and instead of leaving you on solid ground, it looks like there is a solid fog ahead, and none of the next steps are certain to fall on said solid ground. I completely understand that fear. Plus, not going forward with the divorce, if he has doubts at some point, it leaves the concern he could just pick his suitcase up and return to his old life. I however doubt returning to the old life is a…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/18 11:43 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? It's a team effort, I write the replies, but both my wife and I contribute to their content.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/18 09:31 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? How long can a person busy themselves to avoid facing something? I am assuming it cannot go on for much longer. Otherwise he would burn out. Unfortunately, there is no expiration date here. Some people do it their entire lives. In your boyfriend's case, if he gets comfortable, it will be just part of his routine. The problem is the effort he puts into ignoring his issues will take time away from something else. The more he works, the less time he spends with you. Work helps him forget, you may b…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/18 09:30 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I’m fairly certain he’s not in contact with his acts because I came across an email from her to him right after she was diagnosed in which she tells him but she is scared but that she knows she will be OK in the end. In that email she references the fact that she has tried to communicate with him about the divorce over the previous year and he has not responded. And I did not see a response from him to her, so he did not reply to that email. And in the 18 months since she was diagnosed, he has c…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/18 08:34 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? You'd be surprised how many men or women leave their married life for someone else, without being over their spouse. The excitement of the new thing overpowers the feelings for the spouse, but that euphoria is temporary. Many, however, don't return to their previous life, no matter how much they'd like to, due to shame. Shame at themselves, shame of being confronted by their previous life. And by previous life I don't mean the spouse alone, but both his and her families as well as friends / rela…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/18 07:00 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? This is why I think the two of you need to sit down and talk about what is happening. When I realized my wife is the one, there were no secrets between us. It took her less time to figure out she will spend the rest of her life with me, than it took me to realize I will do the same with her. She opened up towards me far sooner than I have towards her. But, once I crossed that critical point, she was aware of everything. All my fears, all my hopes, if something was wrong I would tell her. She is …	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/18 06:20 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I was definitely aware of it. It was a conscious decision to not act on those feelings. That didn't stop me from being affectionate with the new girlfriends, or care for them, but it was definitely a hindrance. But I was also aware I was not in a relationship with them for the long run. So I am not sure if it is fair to draw parallels between myself and your boyfriend. It was many years ago, I might have done things differently if college years me knew what married me knows.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/18 03:42 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I "burned" through two more girlfriends before I moved on. Yeah, took a while. I was honestly in love, and she loved me as well. However, we could not see eye to eye on two topics. We tried, and never managed to move past those issues. However, I didn't ignore her. We still interacted, even slept together randomly, but I never expressed feelings towards her any more.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/18 11:37 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? My second girlfriend was the biggest heart break I ever went through. We've been together a little at the end of high school, and by coincidence went to the same college. So we continued the relationship a year and a half through college. Then, we couldn't see eye to eye on several things regarding our future, and we had to break up. Constant fights on the subject were unbearable. I was madly in love with her, and she loved me as well. For the rest of our college life, we had to see each other r…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/18 10:24 PM
2	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Of course he would have to admit it. He may very well be doing it right now, and his actions are an effort to suffocate those feelings. That's how mutant thoughts and feelings are born, though, and they feed on healthy relationships. As I said before, unless you stop enabling his current behavior, who knows what the result might be. Just talk with him.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/18 08:49 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? Resentment will make it's ugly face present ONLY IF you allow it. And the only way you will allow it is by enabling his current behavior. Confront him, and he won't be able to blame it on you at some point. If you tell him it is doing you no service if he cuts contact out of fear you might be bothered, then he has no excuse later on, if continues on the current path. 1000 miles is a long distance. he may want to visit her, but dares not mention it out of fear how you might react. You have two ch…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/18 08:47 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? What I see here is two things, from my perspective: pride and shame. He is most definitely ashamed of what she put her through. If she is a decent person, and you only wrote nice things about her, so I have no reason to think otherwise, he is probably tormented about what he did to her. And, he probably still loves her. Pride, however, is unfortunately a flaw many men have. And in this situation it is definitely a flaw. He is too prideful to accept that he maybe did her wrong, and he is escalati…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/18 07:53 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? I just don’t understand why he find it so hard to talk to her when she has been nice to him and done all the legwork for him. Shame is probably a big factor. But could also be remorse. Gong forward with the divorce cuts all ties to her. And add the cancer on top of that, which could very much be fatal, so he is trying to hold on whatever connection he has to her. I know it sounds backwards, but us men are capable of weird thought patterns as well. Whatever is happening, I would push him from beh…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/18 06:31 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? If I were you, I'd ask him what's up, and if he thinks his behavior is justified. Speak your fears out, and unless you feel threatened by hi ex(wife), push him to reach out to her and see if there is anything he can help with. If she is as you described her, I don't see why she should be punished. Also, if he is kind to her now, she might answer the same come divorce time. If he is an asshole now, expect his divorce to be an absolute mess, and a huge strain on your relationship. I am by no means…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/18 05:54 PM
1	What would you do if your ex or STBX got cancer? One of my uncles left his wife for another woman. A few years later, his ex wife gets sick. Not cancer, but it was pretty serious. He wanted to reach out, see if she needs help, but was too afraid of what the new woman would think about it, so he distanced himself. Well, the new woman turned out to be an upstanding individual, and as soon as she found out his ex wife was sick, she took action. This was about 6 years ago. To this day, they are still great friends, all three of them, and there is …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/18 01:56 PM
2	Should I save it? Hey, good luck. Hope it all works out.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/18 11:31 PM
2	Should I save it? I like your style, ha ha. Though, you have to be real here, that car only affords you a limited time of sex, until she decides you were rewarded enough, then things will return to business as usual. As for an open marriage, there is no better and faster way to end a marriage than by opening a marriage. Don't give in into the bullshit reddit likes to spread about open marriages. The truth of the matter is there is a very small percentage of marriages that work when being opened, as in less than 1…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/18 08:03 PM
2	Should I save it? You said you know she wants a divorce. And now she is all lovey-dovey. Well, what prompted this change in her behavior? Have you been more cold and distant lately? She may have noticed this change in behavior, and is reacting to it to get the upper hand. You can't know for sure what her thought process is. A dead bedroom doesn't come back to life all of a sudden, on its own. Something must have happened. Knowledge is power, but the more you hold onto that knowledge without using it, the less pow…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/18 11:13 PM
2	Paternity question Talk to a lawyer. Have him write her a letter that will tell her to leave you the hell alone. He will know what to do. Don't engage her yourself, you never know what traps she may be laying.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/18 09:11 AM
3	Should I save it? Eh. Sit her down and have a discussion with her. No ultimatums, but a very clear cut throat message. She either respects you, or not. You don't have to live with her disrespect. And if what the message from her parent's perspective is true, she is receiving a lot of fuel to behave the way she currently is from them. Put your foot down. If she doesn't correct her attitude, you can simply move on. Don't go the infidelity route, better to divorce her and have a clear conscience than raise up a stor…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/18 09:08 AM
1	Who Would Win? Vidcon edition: answered You sure typed a whole lot for something you don't care about and hasn't offended you. Teenage girl hormones are not something to mess with, eh?	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/06/17 05:27 AM
3	Who Would Win? Vidcon edition: answered Ok, teenage girl. You'll figure it out when you grow up.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/06/17 04:25 AM
9	Who Would Win? Vidcon edition: answered Sounds to me like Sargon didn't go bat crazy in public just because someone sat in a chair somewhere. Until that moment, they both made bullshit videos, so they were on equal ground. After that, well ..... And after that, she went and yelled at that morbidly obese guy... yeah, lady is insane.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/06/17 11:54 PM
7	Who Would Win? Vidcon edition: answered Eh, if you're a fan of that kind of bullshit. Teenage girls seem like their target audience.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/06/17 11:51 PM
1	Greatest Big Brother fight ever. This is justice at its finest. Ah, fuck me, I am arguing with a 16 year old. Go ... outside, kid, have some time away from TV. It melts your brain. Also, you are still a moron. Don't message me again, I banned you.	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/05/17 12:04 AM
1	Greatest Big Brother fight ever. This is justice at its finest. Well, Mr Intelligent, I am not the one watching Big Brother and defending it online, to the extent you dug out a post from 1 month ago in your desperation. Also, all the details for any prerecorded shows are usually leaked before they even air This is where I was sure you are mentally challenged. The show is pre-recorded, and they "leak" details. Ok. From an already recorded show. Pre-recorded means it was recorded at a previous time, and they are not live. Fucking moron.	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/05/17 12:04 AM
1	Greatest Big Brother fight ever. This is justice at its finest. First of all, fuck you. Second, I can't even imagine what kind of pathetic sorry life you have, to convince yourself that Big Brother is not scripted. I recommend you start digesting other type of media, as "reality" shows seem to be too "real" for you. You need to do two things moving forward: consult a specialist, and get yourself some treatment, as it seems your mind is not at home, and second, audition for the show yourself, as it seems you're eating it so well, you'd definitely feel right a…	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/05/17 10:02 PM
2	Greatest Big Brother fight ever. This is justice at its finest. We had the same exact thing over here. Needless to say, the 24 / 7 are not 24 / 7, you are watching a lot of recordings, and the show is still scripted. But I am not here to change your already made up mind. The show is aimed at people with your mindset anyway, so I suppose it works.	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/04/17 05:26 PM
3	Greatest Big Brother fight ever. This is justice at its finest. Please, those reactions are forced and fake. Their expressions are forced. The "spectators" around them look like paid stand ins. But, the good news, this show is created for audiences exactly like you. people who are eating the drama. But it is all fake.	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/04/17 04:54 PM
6	Greatest Big Brother fight ever. This is justice at its finest. Staged, my man, all is staged.	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/03/17 11:36 PM
12	This woman is literally a psycho One of the realest /r/thatHappened ever to exist.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/09/16 01:24 AM
41	Mom admits to killing 3 young sons so that her daughter could have more attention - despite the previous deaths, a judge had returned the third son to her custody just 6 days before he was killed What was the judge supposed to do, deny a loving mother her right to care for her children? /s	/r/MensRights	19/08/15 08:45 AM
3	Quasi-feminism at its finest. "micro-aggressively"	/r/MensRights	08/04/15 06:39 PM
1	SERIOUS QUESTION: On cooking for a woman. All I did was say most of the guys I know cannot cook That could as well be true, but how many men do you know? Are they relevant a sample for all men? You could be members of a "Men against cooking" group or have been raised with nannies and maids and all that for all i know. Also, you are posting in a thread where people are offended by the fact i said an average men knows how to cook for himself. You seem sensitive on the subject too, since you decided to correct me based on your narrow sampl…	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/14 05:12 PM
2	SERIOUS QUESTION: On cooking for a woman. Really? When I was in college, most of the guys were capable of putting something to eat together. There was a lot of cooking going around because unless you are a millionaire, I don't see you going out to eat each day. More like once a week, if you're lucky. I know a handful of guys who can cook Well, yes, a few men actually have a talent cooking, either as a hobby or professionally. But most of us can sustain ourselves on our own cooking no problem. It tastes better when you make it anyway :) …	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/14 04:53 PM
5	SERIOUS QUESTION: On cooking for a woman. That is not an average man. The average man knows how to make a meal from time to time. The "average" man that only knows how to make a sandwich is the type of man that still lives with his mom in his 30s and 40s. That may as well be the average for this subreddit. If you'd put 50% of the energy you put into hating women and would focus that towards a cooking class, you'd be a well fed man, single or not.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 08:26 PM
1	SERIOUS QUESTION: On cooking for a woman. This is fucking stupid. If that's all you are looking for in a relationship, a maid, you're a fucking asshole. What kind of man are you if you are unable to cook something from time to time. A relationship should be mutual respect and involvement, not an asshole and a slave.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 06:17 PM
1	Dads not implicitly assumed to be part of the "Family"? I think it was a joke. Thanks for the grammar tip. Since English is not my main language (or secondary for the matter), mistakes are bound to happen.	/r/MensRights	20/12/13 12:02 AM
3	Dads not implicitly assumed to be part of the "Family"? NO! It means that the husband is not necessarily the father. So the dad, if not the husband, may not be part of the family. So the sign reads "Family and whoever is the dad, welcome.", though not in so many words.	/r/MensRights	19/12/13 11:54 AM
1	Interesting thread about "first time as a prostitute" with women glowing about how easy it is. Ok, buddy, whatever you say. Are you from the UK?	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 02:31 PM
1	Interesting thread about "first time as a prostitute" with women glowing about how easy it is. They have a fair wage, which is the the minimum wage set by government. If people don't like it, they should look for a better job, but not complain their jobs are "stolen", since they never intended to accept that job anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/13 12:01 AM
0	Interesting thread about "first time as a prostitute" with women glowing about how easy it is. Please shut the fuck up, alright? All the emigrants that wanted to be in your shitty country are already there. They could come up until now and they didn't need a special permit to do so. Stop spreading your lazy ass agenda. If you wanted to work, you would have went and took a job that is available. Instead you think it's easier to just burn through some welfare while your fat ass sits at home. You're like a fat lady in a candy shop, crying to anyone that has an ear that it's the shop's fault …	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/13 09:42 AM
2	Interesting thread about "first time as a prostitute" with women glowing about how easy it is. So what is your point? If you don't want "your jobs" to be taken by emigrants, either accept a lower wage or demand it to be higher. I don't see how that job is stolen from you since you are not willing to do it because it is either demeaning to your condition or it is paid too low for your salary expectations.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/13 05:20 PM
2	Interesting thread about "first time as a prostitute" with women glowing about how easy it is. And taking jobs you bastards wouldn't touch anyway. So stop whining.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/13 03:38 PM
4	Interesting thread about "first time as a prostitute" with women glowing about how easy it is. "...Except my mother and my sister! Yet, they too are women!"	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/13 03:37 PM
10	Man Finds Sex Video of Sexually Reserved Wife Getting Gang-Banged from her College Days. /r/Sex predictably sides with the wife and tries to shame him for wanting to leave her and for resenting her for giving them the sex he never had. And yet, the moment the shit hit the fan, she offers any sex act he wants, just be a good boy and close your eyes. So let me get this straight, she spent years becoming who she is now, a person that loathes sex, hates it, does it as a chore, but she immediately offers to have anal if her husband says "oh, honey, yes, i was wrong to be upset you took it up your ass from 5 guys at once". Yeah, she's a keeper. The simple fact she allowed herself to be videotaped in that situation speaks miles about…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 04:50 PM
59	Man Finds Sex Video of Sexually Reserved Wife Getting Gang-Banged from her College Days. /r/Sex predictably sides with the wife and tries to shame him for wanting to leave her and for resenting her for giving them the sex he never had. The kid might not even be his.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 02:50 PM
14	Man Finds Sex Video of Sexually Reserved Wife Getting Gang-Banged from her College Days. /r/Sex predictably sides with the wife and tries to shame him for wanting to leave her and for resenting her for giving them the sex he never had. HA! Except she is not that awesome person that you love. She pretends to be it. In reality she is the same as she was in college, hence she keeping that tape. You know, as a reminder of what she had and lost.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 02:38 PM
13	Man Finds Sex Video of Sexually Reserved Wife Getting Gang-Banged from her College Days. /r/Sex predictably sides with the wife and tries to shame him for wanting to leave her and for resenting her for giving them the sex he never had. I think the point was that they go fuck a truck of guys and then pretend that they would never-ever have sex before marriage. I'm fine with a woman that is straight forward with me. Because we can go forward from that point. But lying will lead to situations like our story here.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 02:23 PM
11	NZ woman rapes 13 year old boy: Cries in court, avoids jail, avoids a fine, can't be charged with rape Well, yes, but did the man cry in court?	/r/MensRights	28/06/13 10:08 AM
-11	Kickstarter removes seduction guide project, grovels "We were wrong" Down, boy, down!	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/13 08:41 PM
5	Dad accidentally films his girlfriend, getting intimate with his underage son That's why women are terrible drivers, they start giving you a driving lesson and end up fucking you.	/r/MensRights	21/05/13 01:30 PM
91	What makes an average looking guy instantly become “hot”? 10-15 times a day, over 3500 times a year. That seems like a perfectly plausible number pulled out of someone's ass.	/r/seduction	01/08/12 10:33 AM