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1	How to embody the ghost [Ghost & Flame] mindset when having to regularly interact with someone who has severely disrespected you? It is tempting but think thats like to create more trouble than it's worth like someone else was saying. I don't want to create an image for myself as someone who spreads gossip or can't resolve thier own problems. Also it's likely some of the people I tell are her confidants and will tip her off or turn when it comes time to front up to HR. Power over your job is big motivator for people. I watched a video from Owen Cook about biological responses to an RAS flip basically says people see it and…	/r/seduction	17/05/20 02:26 AM
1	How to embody the ghost [Ghost & Flame] mindset when having to regularly interact with someone who has severely disrespected you? It would be good to make peace with her, like we were work friends before hand, but I feel like her lack of accountability is a serious road block. Like I would have to buy into the frame she did nothing wrong which inherently undermines any chance of mutual respect. And having an 'adult conversation' about it with her is something she's shown not to be capable of.	/r/seduction	16/05/20 07:07 AM
1	How to embody the ghost [Ghost & Flame] mindset when having to regularly interact with someone who has severely disrespected you? I like this idea of distraction through growth. Im definately aware I need to develop my flame more, like my ability to spread positive vibes. This is something I've already been doing in a small way to help myself feel human again. Socialising more with the people I trust on shift. I'm not a loud extroverted guy naturally, but I am tall and I notice just having my head up and good posture adds alot to presence, and makes my interaction radius a lot larger. Like people will start conversations f…	/r/seduction	16/05/20 07:02 AM
1	How to embody the ghost [Ghost & Flame] mindset when having to regularly interact with someone who has severely disrespected you? This is my thinking. Taking it any further is an unnecessary risk, the power dynamic is broken she's no longer directly controlling my job. Pushing it any further is opening myself up to false allegations etc etc	/r/seduction	16/05/20 06:39 AM
1	How to embody the ghost [Ghost & Flame] mindset when having to regularly interact with someone who has severely disrespected you? It's not about getting even, plus the companies HR is only interested in legal liability. Moral right and wrong is just for those who want to participate.	/r/seduction	16/05/20 05:56 AM
1	"I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality." Good to see you welcoming change and growth keep up the positivity!!	/r/seduction	13/05/20 06:18 AM
1	The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you. So thing I get caught up with her is the objective value of 'things'. Like cooking food is objectively less than getting laid. So are you saying that objective value is irrelevant and it's only the value it holds for ME that matters? Like if cooking food means more to me than whether this girl gives me her number or not, that's all it needs to do to have value? And like I have some hobbies/projects already but they all become secondary when the opportunity to get laid comes up. How do you shift …	/r/seduction	12/05/20 01:31 AM
1	"I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality." When someone approaches you and you remember it for months/years/centuries later, what kinda interactions are those? Is it when the other person was weird/low value? Or was it memorable because they were higher value and you did something weird when they approached?	/r/seduction	09/05/20 09:13 AM
4	"I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality." Maybe you just need to blow those sets out to get past that barrier, go give the inauthentic compliment cringe crawl into a ball and go do it again till you realise nobody really cares that much about one random interaction in thier day. If you are going to brute force tho do it somewhere away from where you would usually interact with people.	/r/seduction	08/05/20 01:38 AM
2	3 months since starting "game". Some highs and lows Good field report man. liked the bit at the start where you were disappointed you were getting laid more than 90% ppl starting out. What do you talk to them about once you've opened, like do you use certian routines or bring up specific topics?	/r/seduction	16/01/20 08:54 AM
2	How to get my boyfriend interested in sex again Deadlifts. Depression medication can restrict the vascular flow reducing sensitivity, make it harder to keep it up or finish. Deadlifts increase vascular flow as well as release a shit ton of endorphins and has the side benefit of building muscle mass. The psychological issues of not feeling wanted/worthy whatever he may have you sound like you are invested in overcoming already.	/r/seduction	15/01/20 06:38 AM
3	Tips for Crushing Social Anxiety What the dude said sounds harsh but it's good advice. I did a similar thing in my early 20's trying to break out of social anxiety and made good progress but later got out of the habit of being as social. Now in my 30's the social anxiety is back even tho I understand alot more about being social. Just remember you are always learning, it might feel like sometimes you take 1 step forward 100 steps back but in those times you just focus on the basics, posture, making eye contact, etc and you'll n…	/r/seduction	03/01/20 05:50 AM
9	Holy shit she said yes Is there a law against dating 18yr Olds in your country? Sure most people would think 18 is too immature but if you have already been talking to her plenty and like her what's the harm 6-7 year age difference is pretty normal	/r/seduction	25/11/19 12:15 AM