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Field Reportreddunt3/r/seduction16/04/22 11:03 AM
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First of all: move to a city. It might be hard and scary but do it. Waaaaay more chances for you there. Second: stock standard advice but are you hitting the gym? Sounds like your average in terms of looks like I am (facial) I guarantee you looking fit will help. I was in your exactl situation. Getting fit gave me confidence and even online dating started to work way more. Work hard, you can do it!
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:42 PM
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I know most of the time the reason she ghosted you is simple: she wasn't attracted enough. However, in some cases, it's due to real life stuff you don't know about. My now gf for example: she kind of ghosted me or replied extremely slow for a long time. Turns out, she went through a very rough patch in life and simply wasn't ready to date me. After she had her stuff sorted out, it was very smooth sailing for me. So overall: give her a shot. But don't overinvest. Ask her to hang out. If no: tell …
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:44 PM
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Maybe you dodged a bullet then, yea. Did she say why she didn't order? Maybe she had some real fucked up opinions like you should invite her, tell her, "hey I'll pay everything, order now" in advance or something Also if the kiss felt off... It's whatever honestly. She might come around the block again when she's bored or lacks options - then you have a free lay on your hands
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:26 AM
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Kinda sounds like you did nothing for 2 dates. Also pretty bland dates (standard coffee lunch) which isn't very interesting in itself. But adding that you didn't escalate (at least sounds like it), she simply lost interest. The ordering part doesn't even matter. She was probably broke or simply didn't wanna spend money If you let the second date pass without kissing her, it's very likely she'll move on
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:08 AM
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Highly agree. Also nice guys need to understand that being is the bare minimum requirement when dating. It's not that nice men don't have success with women. It's that they think women should bang them for simply being nice which should be standard anyway. What else do you have going for yourself as a man? Fit, healthy, nice style, career, hobbies, skills...?? Nothing? Your simply a nice guy in mom's basement? That's not attractive.
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:27 AM
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It's not ineffective. You just suck at it if you can't get dates
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:29 AM
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It's up to your profile, obviously. The buff gym rat will tell you that the gym is best in the world. Simply because this person resonates confidence and has high value in that environment.
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:39 AM
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Best advice by far is: ACTUALLY get over her. Because you clearly aren't. Date other women. She will notice you moved on sooner or later. If she has the slightest of interest, this WILL bother her. Your best shot is to move on. If she comes back, great. If not, well, you have your real answer then
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:46 AM
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Well you need to combat your demons and start approaching women. What other answer did you expect? Life's no pony ranch. Work on yourself. Looks, job, body, mind, hobbies, personality. I was a virgin til 26. It's not too late. You think you try but you really don't
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:06 PM
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My ass it's better.. None of my great relationships started as "friends" But hey have fun getting friendzoned for months to achieve nothing. Or you could grow balls and just play your cards, try to escalate? If she doesn't want? Who cares? Congrats, you saved your time.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:06 PM
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Hit the gym, get huge and shredded and become an arrogant (still average looking but muscular) fuck. Worked for me
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:10 PM
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Well that kind of sucks. Get a new job? Move into a big city? I don't know man , life is what we make of it. There's always a way right
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:20 PM
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Too old?! BS. You're 28 not old! I just got to know my new gf at 27 after having a lot of (good and bad) dates. Honestly this is a lot of blaming and whining. I get your point but you can do things about it! No chance of interaction?! Of course, just put yourself out there. Join a gym or sports club for example, I do beach volleyball, it's not that hard to meet women if you are active
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:49 AM
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Forget it bro. I know it hurts. Move on. Don't expose yourself to even more pain. Hit the gym and find some new, better girl
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:41 PM
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There could be thousands of reasons, things happening in her life that have nothing to do with you. You don't know. If you are still in early stages, best thing is to simply train patience and wait , if you were the last one to text. If she is actually interested she will aaaaalways come back when she's ready.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:04 PM
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Simple: you don't overinvest into one woman, that instantly makes you less needy and more attractive to women.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:22 PM
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Then start leaving the house! Your acting like a real crybaby for sure. Got an excuse for everything right? What do you expect? The success with woman didn't come easy for 99% of us. I busted my arse in the gym for four years to stop being skinny, practiced socialising, got new hobbys, clothes, hairstyle... The tips you got are good. If you don't start somewhere, it won't ever change, be sure of it.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:23 PM
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Just bang her in her room at parent's place or the other way around who cares haha
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:08 PM
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It surely helps if you have a flat, if you wanna smash. If she still lives at home too, your kinda fucked. Other than that, attraction is what you need for hookups. If she wants you, you'll bang her no matter what. If relationship is the goal - it is a deal breaker for some people. Doesn't have to tho
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:06 PM
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The thing is there's online dating and social media and it will keep dominating the dating world. Of course cold approach will always be an option but I think it will be even less prominent in years to come. I'm even afraid it will be stigmatized in negative ways even further until we approach fully digitalised dating (for initial contact). Not to say I want to see that happen, I don't. But look at the upcoming generation.. half of their lives is already happening online, social competence and m…
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:42 AM
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Incredible as another living doormat in her friend zone, yes.
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:01 AM
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If she plays a string instrument like guitar or is into fitness (lifting) , have a light talk about it. I then like to tell her about how I have crazy callusses on my hands from lifting heavy and playing guitar (show them). Then I'll simply ask her to show her hands (often does that on her own) and I'll touch them. I found it's a great opener to touch a girls hands while being natural. Obviously need to meet some requirements to do it.
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:51 PM
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Models. Nothing else
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:17 PM
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Yes there are, in Germany at least. We have a lot of fields for that purpose, no beaches close haha Don't know about the US
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:16 PM
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For me: join a group that plays beach volleyball if that is a thing where you live. It's literally a cheat for me especially cause I'm also in good physical shape. It's normal to play shirtless and not creepy. Also an abundance of hot, in shape girls there. The hot ones will also play in light clothing which doesn't hurt either haha Also it's simply fun and very good to meet people. Highly recommend
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:36 PM
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You act like you really don't care yet you're here posting about her on Reddit. It doesn't make sense. Just move on and don't just talk
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:17 PM
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It's just about looks honestly. Use one close up while smiling, some full body ones while doing interesting things, hobbies etc. For a later pic, you can use group pictures, maybe even with women, for social proof. But NEVER start off with group pictures. Honestly you just need good looking, high quality pics and you need to be good looking, well -groomed, fashionable yourself. Good physical shape is a big bonus. Dating apps are basically: "don't be ugly or good luck" As cruel as it sounds, it's…
/r/seduction25/05/22 03:02 PM
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Man did you read Models by Mark Manson? Or get the audio book. I guarantee you it's perfect for you. It will show you how to be vulnerable in an attractive way. You need to get rid of your insecurities and search for validation. It is a good first step.
/r/seduction25/05/22 11:16 AM
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Sure. Not like the first sentence. Start with some light, fun banter, then just ask her out like it is the most natural thing in the world. If she says "see you around" she is at the least comfortable talking to you . I don't think it will benefit you to wait longer. Probably will make it harder to ask
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:56 PM
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You did something good by walking away actually. You don't want to show too much interest on first approach. Perfect situation to ask her out next time straight away. But don't chit chat too much next time. Just ask confidently!
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:10 PM
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Wanna hangout sometime? Grab a drink at x? Don't make it rocket science. It's not like the exact wording will decide the outcome most of the time it won't
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:55 PM
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The thing is some board games take forever. You wanna chat and get to know each other not explain rules for 30 minutes Go for something you both know (explaining rules sucks). Just test the waters beforehand - ask if she likes boardgames and if she has a favorite one (Bonus). If she's really into it, it might be a huge win to pull that game out as a surprise - otherwise it could be really cringy.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:04 AM
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Thing is it was about time you took a clear stance. Asking her 3 times was already a mistake. Always ask one time only no matter what, then the ball is in her court. She has to initiate back, you don't offer twice Show your value
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:05 AM
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If you make huge bank you already have high social status no matter what... No you would have no problems at all lmao Even if it's just for the gold diggers
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:01 AM
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DUDE your 19. RELAX! You didn't miss anything. You might think your adult or grown now but actually, your still a teen. You will realize later in life. Many guys lose their virginity in their mid 20s including me. Relax, you got life ahead of you!
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:20 AM
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Like everyone says in this sub.. you're probably out looking for attractive women yourself. So what are women looking for? Exactly, attractive men. So FOCUS ON YOURSELF and your outer/inner game first, then just get out there ahd collect experience. So things to focus on first appearance: would you like a smelly woman with sluggish clothes and terrible hair? Right. get groomed, nice haircut, smell good, look stylish and clean, add a unique personal flavor (if your the surfer style type, maybe Ta…
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:20 AM
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Guys appreciate you, she made it hard in the beginning. But like I said, it was perfect since we met in person. She actually made it easy for me since then, no problems. It was just the initial phase where we met online that was shitty. I'm only worried about giving too much attention because of my bad experiences in the past. It's not her fault. I think (or hope) she actually likes me. I'm just skeptical by nature nowadays but it's not her fault really
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:55 PM
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Uhm I think you need to re-read my comment or learn to read, no hard feelings.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:53 AM
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You will be in control when you have options. It sounds kinda cruel but it's what dating is like nowadays. And I don't make the rules. I hate it that women tend to be turned off by guys that give them too much validation in the initial stages. So yea, I hate to say it but if you have a real crush, the best thing is to meet someone besides her, get the pressure off your shoulders and naturally give less attention to your crush. It will drive her crazy and eventually she'll be upset as hell that y…
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:24 AM
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Might just be lack of interest then. Really try to move on, actually try to close it in your head. The person WILL eventually come back to you if it is to be.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:06 AM
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It's nothing new. Women seek attention and validation like a lot of guys seek for easy sex (not to say women don't do that, you get my point). I've been after my dream girl for quite some time, she kept me interested but the date just never came to be. So I distracted myself and managed to give her very low amounts of attention on Snapchat, etc. Stopped giving fucks, nearly forgot about. Some days later, she stops snapping me meaningless bullshit and suddenly asks when I'm free this week for our…
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:03 AM
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Yes that's a perfect date pretty much. You can be active and touchy but still relax at times
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:07 PM
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Well.. what do you know about her friend? Might he be interested in dating her too? Then it could be a tricky situation. I'd try to catch a few moments with her alone and simply ask for her number/a single date. If you already have her contact, just try to be flirty and text her up afterwards. Tell her you had fun and would like to meet her alone.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:56 PM
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I won't argue with that as you clearly know a lot about it and I'm more of a casual in climbing. Didn't want to downplay it for sure! I think climbing is extremely hard
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:27 PM
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That's what I meant to be honest. They are of course muscular but it's more about mastering your body than building muscle
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:20 PM
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Exactly. Why I pretty much never go for walks, coffee or bars anymore, except there's something exciting about the place. I swear, it connects you so much more to do something special together, more than any conversation in the world. And sports is great for that. The rest just develops naturally
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:10 PM
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DAMN. Okay, I wouldn't pay that either. I swear, in Halle (Germany) it's 12 euros including shoes
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:56 PM
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Well a lot of the best guys in bouldering don't have a lot of muscle, they are simply athletic and do lots of bodyweight training. If you've never done any fitness, it will of course be harder for you. But it's a lot about technique. If you have a date that is also new to it, you can both try it together it will still be fun
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:41 PM
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I 100% agree, I'd always offer that and it's a win for both sides ;)
/r/seduction16/04/22 03:07 PM
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Well damn. That sucks. You always have a certain risk in sports activities tho
/r/seduction16/04/22 03:03 PM
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10 bucks where I live, not much difference for coffee, restaurant, at least here
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:46 PM
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Actually great idea. Might get some for my dating apps
/r/seduction16/04/22 12:12 PM
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Yes man I love it. It's underrated
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:58 AM
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