redfeather99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	Indirect opener examples	Fundamentals	redfeather99	/r/seduction	01/05/24 02:10 AM
4	[FR] Blowout after blowout after blowout	Field Report	redfeather99	/r/seduction	15/03/15 03:36 PM
2	These guys helped me a ton!		redfeather99	/r/seduction	07/01/18 03:55 PM

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3	How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women? “Hey, I really like hanging out with you and our time together. Just wanted to be clear that I’m dating and not looking for anything serious. If that’s okay with you, I’d like to keep seeing you.”	/r/seduction	31/12/24 10:36 PM
1	I lost the will for the game, what's wrong with me? If you are feeling lack of energy, and you have lost interest in other activities (like gym), and you have a need to drink more than to hangout with girls, it could be that you are mildly depressed. Alcohol is soothing but it also makes the low feelings worse. Some options to consider - taking a mental health break from dating (the emotional energy that goes game and dating can be hard sometimes), doing self-care stuff, talking to a therapist, joining a self-help group, etc.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 02:39 PM
1	Indirect opener examples Direct openers expresses your intention right away, eg - hey, you look great in that dress. I like your style. My name is xyz, what’s yours? Indirect openers does not show that intent right away, by asking something simple like “do you know the nearest restroom,” Both types have advantages and disadvantages.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 08:24 PM
1	This is how I make getting rejected extremely easy I like it! I’ll give it a try	/r/seduction	16/12/23 04:55 PM
124	Grocery store pickup attempt Nice!!! And you gave her a story she’ll be sharing for the rest of the year!	/r/seduction	26/06/23 11:01 PM
1	Went on a date for the first time in over 2 years. What did I do wrong? It's your first date in 2 years, you are bound to make some mistakes. No biggie. Go on more dates. Go on 10 dates and you'll nail this stuff. Sounds like your game is pretty decent.	/r/seduction	07/09/18 07:24 PM
2	What are you go-to conversation topics when approaching girls? I open with you look like you are from XYZ. Then some logistics about what they are upto, some conversation threading, some push-pull teasing, some qualifying, then go for the number or instadate close.	/r/seduction	22/08/18 06:13 PM
1	A year of approaching women - This is what I learnt Your insights are very helpful and I could relate. Doing stuff that one enjoys, helps us become more congruent, more authentic, more positive which always helps with game. However, I don't think, you need to stop gaming altogether. It's possible to strike a balance. Yes, a lot of action is needed in the beginning, but once you have some success, it's a matter of finding balance - you do fun stuff AND you game. Anyways, a very thought-provoking post. Thanks for sharing.	/r/seduction	21/08/18 10:35 PM
1	Much teasing, little sexual tension I find that chat and txt is good for building initial interest towards a first date. If you guys are in different cities, keep her warm by sending a value txt every 3-4 weeks. When you are in town, setup a date and close.	/r/seduction	21/08/18 09:52 PM
2	Moved to NYC a year ago - these guys have changed my game Yah, I took this bootcamp a few years ago. It's been very helpful. The best part is the accountability and the community. Maybe, I'll do it again... trying to get back into gamin...	/r/seduction	21/08/18 09:21 PM
1	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? Yeah, maybe try reducing the investment a bit. Respond to texts after a day or several hours. If she wants to see you on a tuesday, say you are not available.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 06:43 PM
1	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? Like what kind of coupley stuff?	/r/seduction	07/01/18 06:21 PM
1	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? Where do you think the problem lies? EDIT: Just read your comment that she thinks you are too nice. Then it's likely that you are getting needy or investing too much. Do you qualify them? Also, do you want a relationship or FWB?	/r/seduction	07/01/18 06:11 PM
1	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? This used to happen to me too. You probably are not escalating. The good news is that if a girl goes out with you 3 times, she really, really likes you. My problem was that I was too afraid to do escalation. I solved it by at first holding hands during the date. Then I would hang out for a bit. Then change venue. Then I would go for the kiss. I used to think that I needed the perfect movie-like moment to go for the kiss. But I've gone for the kiss in awkward ways in restaurants, in my car, in pa…	/r/seduction	07/01/18 05:14 PM
2	Full Infield Breakdown: How To Pull A Cute American Girl This is one of the best videos I've seen on the full pickup cycle. Great explanations! Thanks man! Great vid!	/r/seduction	25/06/16 06:57 PM
124	I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it. U have rejected yourself even before the girl did. Think about that for a min...	/r/seduction	21/06/16 12:53 PM
3	How To Take a girl home from a club Great vid! That part of the guy interrupting was funny. So got some questions: what time do u usually head to the club? how do u stay engaged and energetic after 1am? I usually go at 10pm so start feeling tired by 1am and struggle... looking forward to the next vid about the after club game	/r/seduction	13/06/16 11:40 AM
2	this is what rock bottom feels like After you've read models, take action over at /r/100sets	/r/seduction	07/05/16 12:46 PM
1	The 15 Cognitive Distortions That Are Killing Your Game What did it do?	/r/seduction	05/01/16 04:32 AM
2	My experience with Tinder vs. DayGame Thanks! I was starting to fall into the tinder trap and spending more time there than daygaming. Timely post.	/r/seduction	27/12/15 03:29 PM