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To be fair, men have always done this to women and that didn't castrate our entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:50 AM
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Referring to LTR's. You're about to be married, right? If your future husband isn't into polygamy, you're risking your marriage if you decide to cheat on him, and if you think you can just as casually and easily find another marriage as you can find another guy to sleep with, again, good luck. I can also be completely faithful and discover my husband cheated on me. My marriage will still have ended, I will still have to start over, and I would have that same problem. Since I have easily avoided …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:51 AM
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Lol acting off of pure self interest isn't a biological urge. Finding an attractive and resourceful male to procreate with is the female biological imperative. That is socially conditioned selfishness normalized by a society that doesn't understand the power of the collective. If I want to be a dad before I am too old to be active with whatever future children I end up having, age is definitely a factor. I mean, sure, men can have kids into old age, but have you seen the effects of that on child…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:33 AM
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Yes, it is. It is shaky. Unstable. You're risking your potential relationships by trying to "get some on the side as well." If that's fine and you think you can just pick up another guy like food at a grocery store, you might be in for a rude awakening. I see a high potential for desperation in your future. Considering the abundance of men interested in casual sex and the fact that I am not caged in a hole, this assertion confuses me. Then you might be doomed to make the same mistakes over and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:07 AM
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"Secure a partner" doesn't simply mean "find a gf/bf." It implies LTR. You can find a gf/bf and break up in a week. That's not securing a partner. Maybe you didn't see my response on this elsewhere in this thread but I've said a few times now that I'm engaged and about to get married. If you want to follow what TRP says women do verbatim already, then that's fine. This doesn't have much to do with "being smart," though. This is the biological default position, according to TRP, and women acting …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:59 PM
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Lol and we’re supposed to convince you thats wrong? You don't need to participate in my CMV if you don't want to so what purpose does this response serve?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:48 PM
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I 100% made a trade off on age that I myself am ok with. That is an option that women do not have. Your visceral disgust ignores the female imperative and what we have to work with for a limited time. You get to be romantic and find fulfillment. Women still have biological realities to account for. That is why my op is a strong strategy for the female sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:44 PM
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That could be the outcome of some women's lives, but there's more than one way to get to the same destination. Why should I gamble my guaranteed satisfaction for this? So women should act like men to secure partners? Yes. I did and I was able to secure a partner. Considering that most young men aren't trying to secure LTR's with a "cheat anyway" and "get some on the side as well" mentality, I have a feeling that this is only going to backfire on you. I guess time will tell. A lot of young men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:16 PM
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Most of the time, the people I've encountered who think this way have some deep issues that they need to come to terms with. Running away from insecurity by living a hard-and-fast lifestyle on shaky ground is not the sign of a secure, "smart" person. This is not an argument that explains why this strategy isn't smart for women. I don't share your moral outlook and if there are deep issues, I'm not aware of what they are but that certainly doesn't make me so different from everyone else. A woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:08 PM
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I saw your comment about me to that guy and I didn't say anything because this comment doesn't tackle my op. It discusses your morality in a nice way. The moral argument doesn't do much for men because I think being smart is better than being naive. As a man, you don't have age to consider but women do. Your strategy would work just fine for men because they have time to recover if a woman lets them down. Women have biological realities to consider and need to get it right as early as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:45 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:36 PM
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Because I have witnessed far more examples of devastation in the lives of jilted women and I find that to be more powerful than your anecdote as a stranger. In managing risk to an acceptable level in my life, I don't find your faith in loyal men sufficient. I am still open to any evidence you can provide. I consider faithful men the exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:31 PM
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This is something men tell themselves to assuage the guilt they feel for treating the women in their lives the way they would never want to be treated. I don't ascribe to the double standards of men and I look out for number one so I consider myself exactly as bad as men who cheat and I don't suffer any guilt for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:28 PM
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I'm about to get married and he is well off. The women who end up perpetually single well into old age are the ones who get their hearts broken a few times finding out they were plates or some variation of that. I think it is smarter to consider that this is common behavior from men and secure the best partner you can while you are young and attractive. When all is settled, you can always find whatever you missed out on by getting hitched early somewhere else. Do you disagree with anything I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:26 PM
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No, but I won't get into it with you. Go ahead and believe I'm a man if that is what you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:05 PM
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Better sex is a good and common reason for why women cheat. Boredom, variety, attention are all reasons. She could love her husband and be satisfied with her life otherwise. Sex is not enough of a reason to blow her life up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:03 PM
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Except, I'm a woman. You're not the only woman on Reddit who can casually red pill in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:57 PM
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How do you know? Honest question. The current dating pool is pretty pitiful. I was there. I also wonder why you don't just give your man a hall pass to cheat if you feel this way. He will probably take it and then be less pissed off if/when he finds out about you cheating. Men have the ability to cheat and still be inconsolable with rage when they find out you have stepped out on them. I am securing my future, keeping him happy, and allowing myself the room to be happy too. He doesn't need a hal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:54 PM
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Would you have come to the same conclusions under the evidence that "most men will not cheat"? I would consider it if you have any evidence to show me that most men are faithful, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:28 PM
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If you CARE about such things, then don't cheat yourself... if you don't care about such things why choose monogamy to begin with? I wanted to marry an attractive man who could offer financial security and give me a family. The man I found and offers me these things cares about monogamy and how he appears like most men do. Do you really care if your partner is monogamous? Honestly. I care about other things more. There are some open/poly guys out there who will be thrilled to have a slutty hotwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:27 PM
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We are getting married in less than 2 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:15 PM
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Both things can happen even if I were loyal. They happen to women who got shafted with nothing to show for it all the time. At least I have secured the resources I wanted and will be having the children I want in a few years. It is safe to say I am ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:12 PM
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How would it blow in my face?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:09 PM
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Start off faithful and retaliate only if you're sure he's cheating. I should also mention that this is also a bad strategy because this tends to happen when women have lower smv. For example, all the men who cheat on their pregnant wives or their sick wives don't have to worry that she can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:06 PM
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Perhaps. Too many women are made victims of this hopeful thinking and I am not a fan of powerlessness. Of course I respect your right to your own opinion but I have not seen any arguments that show how my strategy is not the most beneficial to young women today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:04 PM
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Real life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:00 PM
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If I am incorrect, even better for me. He will never know so it will never hurt him and I wasn't screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:58 PM
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I prefer the relationship I have with the man that is everything I want. Guys who are into open relationships don't tend to be high value men and sex is not the only thing on my agenda. I am sure there are high value men who may be into it but I have never seen them and I'm not going to miss out on the good life for a little sex with a transient man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:56 PM
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I just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:50 PM
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Society has always acted like it was much worse if a woman cheated because it offends men and men run the world. That is why women are usually better at getting away with it. When men cheat, it is usually unsurprising for those who hear the story and up until these feminist times, working things out was pretty much expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:50 PM
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Yes, I would. Loyalty to his wife is his obligation, not mine. I don't know her. I can't really picture a scenario right now where I would be picking a married guy to hookup when so many guys are single but if I found him really attractive and the situation presented itself, I would do as I'd like without guilt. I speak from experience. I've done this once and I still pleasure myself at the memory of taking what wasn't mine. I felt really powerful and the sex was incredible. He had everything to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:48 PM
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Just because you disagree with the way I see things doesn't make me a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:22 PM
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Alright, I accept your point of view on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:21 PM
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I think this saves time and heartbreak as well as allows a woman to focus on the other attributes that are important to her. I think most women want the romantic fairy tale so they overlook their best interests with the belief that at least their love is perfect. When these women get cheated on, some of them never recover. The rose colored glasses are lifted and she realizes she is now older, uglier, in a lifestyle that she may not have wanted for herself. She might be in need of sexual release …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:20 PM
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This very specific scenario represents a large demographic of women. Are you arguing that most married women are sexually satisfied and have faithful, attentive husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:13 PM
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No, I don't think most women want this. I think they should because women continue to be the losers in this situation being blue pilled and ignoring their imperative, depending on their partners to play fair. So long as the man is taken care of and he doesn't find out, he will probably be happier than the husbands of disappointed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:08 PM
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I don't know what percentage of women are in those relationships. I just know they are far more common than happily married women with satisfying sex lives. I take this very specific scenario because its so common and I think women ought to do more than whisper about how they are coping. Here is a quick read https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/relationships/article-women-are-closing-the-infidelity-gap-new-book-explores-why-wives/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:05 PM
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I don't think I am a maverick edgelord and you just said your reply to me was not for me but for the audience. I am open to having my view changed. I just don't see any convincing arguments as to why this is bad for me or for women. Since you are not interested in the debate and just more personal attacks, I will leave you to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:47 PM
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I didn't. I was actually looking for it considering it was long but it's gone so I replied to you again
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:37 PM
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It is a debate sub and it's fun to see how people discuss this topic. I have not seen a convincing argument against my strategy yet. Just plenty of comments from people such as yourself hoping that some sort of moral shaming will do me some good. I'd be much more interested in comments that put some thought into my question but I did expect all this finger wagging. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:36 PM
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We can debate all sorts of things in this sub but being open about something I know is unpopular but true means I don't have a clear conscience? Suppose you're right and I had a guilty conscience. That doesn't change the fact that this is what I have been doing and will continue doing. I rather a guilty conscience than losing out on life like so many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:32 PM
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Having one or two on the side hardly constitutes a harem. Besides, when you don't expect a man to be all things, you don't end up being as disappointed and you treat him better because there is less resentment. What do you think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:31 PM
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Those women end up as rightfully bitter divorcees or unwanted spinsters that men like you openly mock. As a self declared misogynist, you sudden interest in smart women does not seem authentic. It just riles you up to see a girl act like one of you because you know many of us do this and we tend to be better off than the poor women who continue with their blind faith in men. I accept the nature of men and I look out for myself. If you allowed women to be more open, some of you wouldn't be so eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:29 PM
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What is with all the venom in your reply? My friends tell me when they have their hearts broken. Women who get cheated on are not a rare demo? You comment has not changed my view. It reinforces my belief in it. Men openly discuss strategies that benefit them yet as a woman, your only words for me is to chase a blue pilled fairy tale and a lashing because I recognize that cheating is very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:26 PM
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I'm not a troll. This has been going on for generations so what makes me sound like a troll? My openness as an anonymous poster?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:23 PM
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Alright by me. Do you have an answer for my op to CMV or are you going to continue replying to me with nothing but personal attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:17 PM
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This isn't my sample group. When I was dating, I came across a surprising amount of married men. Most women I know have been cheating on. Plate spinning is basically a tenet in here. Most older women will talk about the cheating ways of men. I don't villainize men for it. I get it and I decided to look out for number 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:14 PM
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You're a criminal. Oh well. I guess I'll just be a criminal like every unfaithful man out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:12 PM
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Finding a partner who brings "enough" to the table is probably hard if you're expending so much energy on side dick and covering your tracks. Honestly, side dick and covering one's tracks does not take much energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:08 PM
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What if your guy isn't cheating on you the way you use "most guys are cheating" to justify your own behavior I don't need to justify my behavior. I consider having my cake and eating it too my core reason for this strategy. If he isn't cheating, that's fine. It isn't as if I would be telling him about it. But my fiance is a desirable man. Women have certainly tried before and if it ever happens, my world won't suddenly end. All of my needs are met unlike women who paired with low value men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:02 PM
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I would love to have an open discussion about this without people like that Lord Bolton guy offering little more than personal attacks. I know it's not popular to say but it happens very often and is very red pilled. Why is this sub in denial about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:50 PM
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Interesting take. What would you say to all the women who believed that their boyfriends and spouses would be faithful and lost years of youth or never knew sexual satisfaction just to learn the man had always been unfaithful? Considering how common this is, why wouldn't it be smarter to not only change one's priorities in choosing a mate but also account for personal satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:43 PM
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What is there to be ashamed about? You're just some guy on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:38 PM
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I don't tell my fiance because I get far more out of the situation with him feeling secure. Isn't this always the case with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:06 PM
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You have to be. Men never played fair so I think women who don't calculate the odds are silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:05 PM
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Most men cheat anyway. If he didn't already, he eventually will. I have other priorities and we are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:55 PM
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Do you find that being this bitter accurately reflects the lives of happily married and successful women? Say hello to the 1950's for me, old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:54 PM
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You see how proud you are of having a younger girlfriend? This ego is how we as women get away with it and always will. My fiance is a very happy man and I am enjoying my life. It doesn't bother me that you have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:51 PM
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You don't sound convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:43 PM
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Behind his back, of course. Most guys can't handle open relationships anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:35 PM
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Yes. The man gets to have his young woman and the young woman gets to have her fun just like he had time to. It is only rational and it is better for relationships and for men when the woman is satisfied anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:31 PM
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It means the same thing it meant when you wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:25 PM
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Well sure, I did just that because that is the smart play but in turn, I will continue having my fun. You're only young once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:19 PM
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It's strange that you believe this when even porn stars and prostitutes marry with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 02:37 PM
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They usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 02:22 PM
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