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redgoldgreenblue/r/askMRP07/06/18 05:47 PM
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I don't feel angry other than being tired of her poor attitude. I'm usually in a good mood when I get home. Don't think I'm enervating, certainly don't dump my shit on her. Even if i have bad day it stays at work. I could be more fun, will work on it. I'm not compliant. She doesn't tell me to do things, doesn't nag because everything is usually done before she notices. But she finds fault in anything to create conflict. I do AA/AM but when she's acting like a child I do get angry and lose frame …
/r/askMRP07/06/18 08:10 PM
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I didn't explain that well. I did tell her I did not agree with and was not going to yell at my child. She responded by saying something like: "well then you can just handle all his meals then", to which I said "No Problem", then she stormed off. Funny thing is I already do most breakfast and dinner, so yeah... no problem.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:30 PM
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This is a problem but she refuses to take time to herself. I've always got things under control, she could leave for a couple hours almost anytime without issue. I've even go so far as forcing her to go out with her friends. But thats the thing, I have to force her. It's almost as if she'd prefer to be a martyr so she has something to resent me for.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:01 PM
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noted
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:56 PM
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You're probably right about this. Things have not been fun for awhile. I haven't been gaming her much and I need to address that. Her attitude is so shitty that I don't really want to pursue her at all. When I have she's not really responded well. Additionally hard no's have taken a hostile turn recently from, no honey not tonight, to more of a get the fuck out of my face attitude. It's hard to game her because just under the surface, at all times, she bubbling with resentment for me.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:55 PM
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Maybe it is the the 1000 foot rope, didnt think of it like this before. I don't need her income so I gave her the choice. She choose to stay at home now and will return to work when the kids are a little older. She can go back to work tomorrow and I'd hire a nanny. She's not forced to do anything.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:47 PM
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I'm trying to avoid the domestic violence charge, but thanks bro
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:44 PM
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In regards to the shit test, I laughed as in how absurd it was to be mad about something so trivial. Definitely no embarrassment. It's not my problem, it's her feels. I do call her out. I'm not scared for her to be pissed, she's pissed off most of the time it seems. Past me danced around her emotions but for the last 10 months I call her out and proceed ahead not allowing her emotions to change my direction. The result has been ongoing passive aggressive behavior, silent treatment, cold shoulder…
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:42 PM
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I've tried setting boundaries with her, verbal boundaries don't seem to work. Even tried to force her to see a therapist with the threat of leaving (pre MAP)... fucking stupid. I'm at the point where I think i might just need to file for divorce but I feel like its a last resort and I'm not 100% there yet. Also part of me recognizes a covert contract in that I'm hoping the reality of me filing will be enough to snap her out of this shit, probably not though. In regards to sex, she is submissive.…
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:27 PM
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As the current situation stands, she could leave tomorrow and it wouldn't have much impact. She my passenger certainly not an FO and never has been. Married 4 years prior to starting my MAP.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:13 PM
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I've always controlled the finances, homes and pretty much everything. 100% correct about her resentment but I don't think it's cause shes forced to lead at all. She actually doesn't do all that much. The past issue was that I owned everything, all aspects of our relationship including her shitty emotions. I would not say she's DTF. Sex is once or twice a week. It's just that given the way things are I've not been that interested in fucking her.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:08 PM
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