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| 51 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriages | Discussion | redguard_crime_stats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 09:52 PM |
| 38 | purplepilldebate banned | Off-Topic | redguard_crime_stats | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 11:13 PM |
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| 1 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?but it's certainly the only practical way to get the whole country to learn what they need. Most people don't "need" to know most of the things they are taught in high school, and to an extent middle school as well. If you asked 100 people on the street how often they used algebra what do you think the responses would be? I notice you avoided the question. Only the first one because it's not relevant. The things I'm saying are true for virtually all schools, with the exception of a select few pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?You do need those skills for a living, it's kind of necessary to be literate and numerate to perform basic tasks. Modern K-12 education goes well beyond literacy. And everyday tasks and chores require little to no academic knowledge of math, science, history, literature, etc. where links to knowledge application haven't been made clear Because there aren't many, if any, applications. Since I dropped out when I was 15 I have never needed to use high-school level math, history, science, literature… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?I'm still learning, but on my own terms through on online degree program I chose, which will open doors for me in my career. The strict, regimented, structure of K-12 schooling is not the only way to learn. And the vast majority of things you learn there will not be practically utilized in your career or your personal life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?Have you considered that brainwashing kids into being obedient may not be necessary or desirable? Being ingrained with the idea that you must always obey authority figures in the public education system enables exploitation and tyranny. And most workplaces aren't anywhere near as strict and controlling as schools, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:21 AM |
| 5 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?but learning to take information from them is a necessary skill and you need it to actually complete homework "You need to learn this useless skill to perform a useless task" People don't do homework for a living and the overwhelming majority of jobs don't involve sitting still and listening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:20 AM |
| 6 | Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college?It rewards being compliant and doing what you're told, for little to no reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Whats the biggest mistake you did NOT make as a teenager? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICI didn't stay in school 😎. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 08:52 PM |
| 7 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?It's pretty dumb but I can tolerate it. I expect most women to be kinda dumb tbh 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:27 AM |
| 2 | “don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them”You wrote a whole lot of words without actually saying much or addressing my point. well….. no, not exactly, its partly appearance, sure, but also vibe - ie. how you’re dressed, how you carry yourself, how you interact with the world around you… which, sure, all could be an act, but some semblance of this can be communicated within minutes. Right, as I said behavior does play a role. You're just rephrasing it. Also that’s kinda the thing with game - it heavily relies on duping women, frankly, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 09:17 PM |
| 5 | “don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them”you can’t get someone “to be interested in the first place”, if she isn’t attracted to you that isn’t gonna change unless she becomes attracted to you in time The only way you could come to this conclusion is if you think attraction is purely appearance based. I'm pretty blackpilled and even I don't think that. How you act around women, and how you interact with them, can play a role in attraction. That's where "game" comes in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope?Canada? How common is spousal support here? And why did they decide you owe spousal support? What she a stay-at-home mom? | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 05:23 PM |
| 20 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipNot being interested in platonic friendship doesn't mean they don't view you as human. You're not entitled to male friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesYeah I feel like people would be far more likely to feel threatened by black men than black women, because women are pretty much universally regarded as harmless irrespective of race. Are you black? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesI agree with this take tbh, but still this just goes to show that marriage is increasingly a bad deal for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesOf course life is usually easier for both parties in a two income household compared to a single individual household, but the lower earning partner stands to gain substantially more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesI think in most places a person earning 60k would be able to afford a substantially better lifestyle than a person earning 40k, assuming both have the same number of dependent children🤷♂️. You're telling me that if a person earning low/mid 5 figures got a 50% raise it wouldn't be a significant boon? It's not huge disparity but when the higher earner earns 50% more than the lower earner the disparity is arguably significant. If household expenses are split according to income, that means the low… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks?Many incels go to great lengths to try and do just that but there's only so much you can improve. Most aren't fat and tell fat dudes to fuck off and weight first, that's like the baseline. As for muscle, I think when men get ripped to try and pull women they're looking at things through the male gaze. Women don't value muscle that much IMO, you're more likely to get attention and admiration from other men if you get ripped. Height, face, frame, race, etc, matter a lot more to women, and tons of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsI feel like my T-levels might be low rn. No bro you're mostly speaking facts. Why be treated like a servant when you can be treated like a king 👑. If I was cute enough I would definitely date a mid woman like Margot Robbie this part is wack. margot robbie, mid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commitOn the other hand, I’ve dated women for months The million dollar question here is, were you fucking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:00 AM |
| 6 | purplepilldebate bannedjust 12 days short of the 10th anniversary rip | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesHow about mentioning that women’s financial contributions have tripled in the last couple of decades. Source? According to that Pew article, in 1992, 66% of marriages had husbands as the sole/primary earner compared to 55% today. That's a pretty small decrease for 30 years. even when they earn equal pay or are the primary earner still spend more time on housework and caregiving In "egalitarian" marriages men on average report spending about 3 hours more on paid work per week than women, and wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesThe other problem with education is a lot of degrees require more money than they produce so you wind up with a lot of debt but not much earning power. Yeah, I find it really irksome when some women with unmarketable degrees tout their education as a bonus and status symbol, almost as if it makes them superior and men without a degree are unworthy of dating them. All power to you if you wanted that that degree, but a lot of debt without increased earning power is simply going to be a burden on y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesBy being born into a society where men have been providers for multiple centuries. Ok? How does this "set up" you into seeking a male provider? The fact that people lived a certain way in the past doesn't mean you're "set up" into living that way today. What's forcing you to seek male providers? Are men today "set up" to hit their partners because that has been common for centuries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesHow have women, especially childless women, been "set up" into seeking male providers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesI think a statistic that applies to 48% of all childless marriages is quite noteworthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesI am incapable of reading a statistic and drawing the conclusion that women get into relationships solely to be provided for. And neither am I, because I never said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesAlso perhaps one of the spouses is in school? This doesn't really change much, if they're supporting you throughout your education you're still being provided for. And there's no guarantee they will benefit from your education since divorce is so easy and common now, especially if the couple doesn't have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesThe man is often contributing significantly more, that's the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriages60 / 40 = 1.5 1.5 - 1 = 0.5 0.5 * 100% = 50% Are you incapable of doing basic math? But the women are contributing 40%. So how are they being provided for? They would be contributing 20% less than if it was egalitarian. Also, in marriages classified as being "husband primary earner", the median income for husbands was 96k whereas the median income for wives was only 30k (page 10) Earning 60% of the household income is the bare minimum to fall into this category but in most cases the disparity is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesAt least 60% to be considered "primary", 100% to be considered "sole". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:08 PM |
| 6 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesA further 30% of childless marriages are classified as "egalitarian", with another 20% where the wife is classified as the sole/primary earner. You clearly didn't read the post, or at least, not all of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriagesDoesn't really seem that big of a difference. It means you're earning at least 50% more than the other spouse, so yeah, that is a pretty big difference. If most people got a 50% raise for their job they would be over the moon. What do you think is? Women seeking men that outearn them, because they want a provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:05 PM |
| 4 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?And? That doesn't mean he's willing to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 04:01 AM |
| 14 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?I don't think those phrases implies that you're willing to pay, except maybe the first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Game is just harnessing the anxiety of insecure women to make them chase your for validation for a bitI doubt most women are interested in being validated by men they aren't attracted to. What, you think if a 5'5" balding Indian janitor starts roasting every woman he sees they're going to want to fuck him to feel better about themselves? You think all the hot girls on TikTok crave validation from the bitter dudes calling them "ugly" or "mid" in the comments? Hell no, they just brush it off because it's obviously coping. Merely getting some form of male attention is no achievement at all for wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:18 PM |
| 5 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?If they really didn't want you to pay/split they would have insisted on paying, there's nothing wrong with accepting that offer. The problem is that many if not most women don't even offer to pay for their own food, and expect men to cover them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:11 PM |
| 29 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?Coworkers invite each other to go out to lunch all the time and it's expected that everyone will pay their own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:07 PM |
| 3 | A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stabilityI don't know many men in their 30s and 40s 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 01:02 PM |
| 15 | A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stabilityHaving money enables you to have cool experiences and hobbies, like going on nice vacations, or having an cool and expensive motorcycle, or something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 12:43 PM |
| 10 | A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stabilityPrimarily to show it off, I'm not sure how they feel about spending a lot of money on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 12:42 PM |
| 57 | A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stabilityBeing successful enables you to have an exciting and adventurous lifestyle that can help attract women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriagebut being decent looking There's not much you can do to change your facial structure, apart from expensive and possibly debilitating surgical procedures. having a good career "Poor people should just stop being poor" and not being porn sick Porn is often used as a surrogate for sexual activity, by men who are either single and involuntarily celibate or men in dead bedroom marriages. If you don't want to have sex with your partner regularly then you have no right to complain if they turn to other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:41 AM |
| 2 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageMen on those apps are quite thirsty for initial dates. Of all the matches women get chances are at least some of them would be interested in a relationship. And it's not just dating apps, most women get approached in any contexts where it's considered "normal" to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:32 AM |
| 16 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?So, when IS it appropriate for a man to ask out a woman? If you're hot, anywhere and anytime. If you're ugly, never. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:20 AM |
| 5 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageNah fuck that, the entitlement displayed here is insane. You don't have a right to a perfect prince charming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:18 AM |
| 11 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriagemen have a long list of expectations from women Dating app statistics and parental investment theory says otherwise lmao. Most women will get interest from men merely by putting themselves in situations where men approach them, such as dating apps, bars, nightclubs, social groups with men, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenSure but ultimately I think cheating is a bigger red flag than promiscuity. I highly doubt anyone disagrees with that. We're not talking about past infidelity though, we're talking about past promiscuity. It's not one or the other. What counts as promiscuous? A woman with 10 partners? 5 partners? There's no need to draw a line anywhere. It's just that, odds are, more partners/more casual sex = less satisfaction/more likely to cheat. Men would do well to keep that in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat kind of scars were they? Just discoloration or was there pitting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women get heat for dating career-oriented men and then complaining about how the man works long hours and is rarely at home?It wouldn't be a problem if women didn't expect their husbands to earn so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women get heat for dating career-oriented men and then complaining about how the man works long hours and is rarely at home?Men like that have a unique ability to make time when they're highly interested and still in the courtship phase and then magically lose that ability once the wife and children are secured. Because once you have a wife and kids you need more money...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:07 PM |
| – | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenA burqa الله أكبر | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 05:27 AM |
| 2 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenThe common denominator is sexual variety. If someone has pursued that in the past it casts doubt on their ability to remain sexually exclusive with one partner going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 05:26 AM |
| 3 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenYou're missing the point. This post isn't defending Jonah Hill, he's using the drama to make an argument. If it's not reasonable for him to except a woman to change, then why would it be reasonable for men to believe that they can turn a hoe into a housewife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityWhat about in the US? Who gives a shit about the phillipines/mexico/brazil etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuitywhy do they fund sexual trafficking to the tune of $180 billion dollars annually? How many men have ever visited a prostitute? How many men visit prostitutes regularly? why are they not interested in determining and eradicating any contributing factors such as incest Incest is gross but it can very well be consensual, in which case I have no interest in interfering. and child abuse? Most people care about combatting child abuse. If men are disgusted by female sexual promiscuity, why are they act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:43 AM |
| 5 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityRegardless, if so many women are bitching about "slut-shaming" then it shows that they very much do care about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:40 AM |
| – | CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry.If men did not feel entitled to women’s bodies If you're paying for it then it's not entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:31 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're letting good meat go to waste? Shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 11:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Some"? These chadfishes are getting more and better matches than most men on Tinder. Really does say something about female preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 11:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you did those girls would probably end up being burger flippers or cashiers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 11:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost women settle as well. I said "PEOPLE". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 10:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf he's only there because he has nothing better to do I wouldn't consider him "committed". This is ridiculous, most people settle to some extent. If your favorite male celebrity crush wanted to marry you, would you pick a normal guy over him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:36 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi respect the honesty. better than lying to save face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf a girl bitches about how guys are fuckboys and won't commit she's almost certainly chadsexual. Most guys don't have that many options, and would be happy to have a committed relationship because they wouldn't be giving up all that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Appearance and/or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Will men be shamed in the future for bit wanting to date "soft" sex workers? (OF models, sugar babes etc.)Sugar babies are really just thinly-veiled prostitutes, if your girlfriend is currently a sugar baby that's gigacucked. If it was in the past it's less bad. OF isn't really a big deal IMO, if she's successful you can be her photographer or something and get a cut of the earnings lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Does the red pill really teach guys to manipulate women into sex, if they don't want it?Well, people's boundaries can change in the same encounter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:45 AM |
| 0 | Does the red pill really teach guys to manipulate women into sex, if they don't want it?That doesn't sound really far-fetched to me considering that slut-shaming is still pretty widespread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can find a man objectively attractive by the standards of society Why would guys care about that. It's irrelevant to the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think guys are talking about post-menopausal women, they're talking about women in their 30s and 40s who are still "in the game" but not as desirable as they once were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwhere exactly is the “social shaming” coming from? No such thing, unless you're either in college or you're an idiot and tell guys your sexual history. "mEn WoN't WaNt YoU iF yOu'Re A sLuT" is pure, unadultered, tradCOPE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:31 AM |
| 15 | The Hot Useless MatrixAlpha fucks..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesand then there are a lot of spergs who are above the average IQ. There really aren't. Most spergs are considered intellectually disabled, the lucky ones aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Do men really struggle with dating? Every guy I know has a girlfriend or wife.I live in Eastern Europe There you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 11:18 PM |
| -1 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeThere are far more risks in terms of physical safety hooking up with a near stranger. If the guy gets aggressive or coercive, there is far less a woman can do to protect herself than vice versa. Unless he's literally holding you down or stopping you from leaving, there's no reason you can't just dip. Social stigma. After college, people have no way of knowing your sexual history. Mediocre sex. Most women require more attention to detail to really enjoy sex You should probably speak for yourself.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.When the vast majority of people say "gaming" they are referring to video games. At the end of the day, many people aren't going to bother doing some hobby they aren't even interested in just to meet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Men who don’t want to date overweight women know it has nothing to do with healthDespite what they say, you can absolutely be overweight and be healthy. Carrying excess body fat in of itself is harmful, regardless of what you eat or how much you exercise. Being a successful rower, or any kind of athlete for that matter, doesn't necessarily mean you're healthy. It means you're strong/fast/skilled etc. You can be fat and still be a successful rower if you're strong enough. But regardless of how good you are at rowing that excess body fat is still going to harm you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 10:01 PM |
| 25 | Making women feel safe around you is apparently the biggest factor in attraction?I have never met a thug that doesn't get bitches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesI will use the high functioning autistic (aspergers) person's experience as an anecdote. You arent intellectually disabled (in fact alot of spergs have an IQ above the average range), but you are socially disabled Most spergs perform poorly on cognitive tests and are labelled as "intellectually disabled". Many barely even talk. Regardless of whether they are inherently intellectually deficient or not, social skills are a necessity for learning. It's weird how most people think spergs are geniuse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.One person cannot fix your loneliness. You just can't expect anyone to be there for you at all times. You don't need someone to be there for you 24/7 to not feel lonely. If you like gaming, try joining a game night at your local game store I can tell you're not a gamer. Everything in gaming is digital/online now, no one does LAN parties and physical game stores are all going out of business. If you like computers, check out if there's a local programmers or computer engineers group. I'm a CS maj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 5 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?Bro the whole afbb thing came from tinder saying 10 percent got 90 percent matches. No, AF/BB is from TRP and I think it even predates Tinder. It's really just a rephrase of "nice guys finish last". I don’t believe this theory that these 10 percent are getting with all these girls and messing the market. I think probably more than 10% of men can be considered highly sexually successful. Also, why not? Not to mention most women don’t even use online dating. How would you know this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:33 AM |
| 8 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?Who said anything about 5%? are seeing all these women and leading them on Do you live under a rock? Do you not see how much women are bitching about guys refusing to commit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:24 AM |
| 11 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?Generally women don’t sleep with men they wouldn’t otherwise commit to. That's not what AF/BB is suggesting. The theory, at least, is that they want to be in exclusive relationships with these men, but highly desirable men are less willing to commit because they have options. So the women settle for casual sex/situationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:44 AM |
| 4 | "A new law puts an end to permanent alimony in Florida "On paper I think women absolutely deserve permanent alimony. Least parasitic woman be like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:08 AM |
| 2 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"The complaints the guys on here make about their difficulties in approaching women and all that. Maybe they're just short and/or ugly. They don't matter more than social incompetence. "x to doubt". Attractive men who are painfully shy won't get far. Attractive men are unlikely to be "painfully shy" because they are more confident owing to their looks. Excessive 'niceness' is not a virtue Couldn't agree more. Moderately douchey guys do the best, all else being equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:27 AM |
| 5 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"You said "financial and economic data". ACS includes data on income, rent, and mortgages. And economic research would scrutinize the sampling methods and describe the methodology, which as I said, is absent here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:58 AM |
| 17 | I think “shy / anxious / socially awkward” traits are common in society. I think they affect men’s dating prospects vastly more than women’s. With this in mind, are women too often dismissive of men’s dating struggles?Acknowledge it instead of deflecting by telling struggling guys that they're single because they're disgusting misogynistic pigs with horrible personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:39 AM |
| 3 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I don't know, economic research? The census? The American Community Survey? There's plenty of data far better than some random survey done by a bank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:33 AM |
| 7 | I think “shy / anxious / socially awkward” traits are common in society. I think they affect men’s dating prospects vastly more than women’s. With this in mind, are women too often dismissive of men’s dating struggles?Real life--through work, friends, family, hobbies, is a far better way to meet people, including potential partners Stanford Research from 2019 indicates that the majority of new couples in committed relationships met online. For younger people and/or less serious sexual relationships it could very well be the vast majority. And of course the pandemic pushed everything online even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:29 AM |
| 6 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"A financial survey encouraging Americans to save more money Yep, completely impartial. And it's from a bank no less. Absolutely no information on methodology either. Into the trash can it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:27 AM |
| 10 | I think “shy / anxious / socially awkward” traits are common in society. I think they affect men’s dating prospects vastly more than women’s. With this in mind, are women too often dismissive of men’s dating struggles?I think people in general are getting less socialized Saying it's "people in general" is such a dumb cop-out. Getting relationships and casual sex is still as easy as ever for women. That and relying on OLD, which has terrible ratios of men-to-women You're missing the point, WHY do OLD apps have the ratios that they do? Because it's far easier for women to find a relationship or casual sex, so they're not stuck on apps. Why? Because women are far more selective than men. That's ultimately what i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:12 AM |
| 4 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Most women and men (in the US) are one paycheck away from homelessnes Where are you getting this from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:03 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Why should we stop when the problem actually is social ineptitude? What makes you so sure of that? In the context of dating, a good personality is one that is highly brash, confident, dominant, assertive and outgoing. While a bad personality is one that is timid, shy, anxious and neurotic I don't disagree but looks matter more. I've already pointed out previously that the term 'nice guy' is a misnomer. Timid, shy, anxious, neurotic, socially awkward guys would be the correct description. People … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Beta bucks doesn't exist, women aren't settling and choosing single life with casual datingShe earns $170,000 per year Do you have idea how few women earn this much money? My perspective might be skewed by living in high COL areas The median household income is only 100k in Santa Monica: https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/losangelescitycalifornia,santamonicacitycalifornia,losangelescountycalifornia/BZA010221 She rents a 140 sq ft home Not very many people would be satisfied in living in a home as tiny as that for the rest of their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 07:10 AM |
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