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1	I think boyfriend/husband material is more validating I find it very amusing that whenever women are put into a corner about why a man who meets all these "standards" they have should ever actually pick them. The only thing they can ever say is some vague meaningless bullshit like "love", "connection", "partnership" (prob the most bs one of all), "companionship"... miss me on that bs. Women gain nothing from casual sex and it causes them a host of potential issues. Men gain nothing from relationships except burdens and restrictions in their life fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 09:31 AM
1	Why must girls nights and / or girls trips (ie excluding and disconnected from your partner) include places that are known for flirting, hooking up, etc? The first funeral is the wedding, the second one is the 1st borne, and the third is their burial lmao...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 05:19 AM
2	The arguments on here are so circular And to dispel another redpill myth, them being sexually experienced can be a positive. I wouldn't quite call it a myth, more like an exception to the rule. RP says "women with high body count = bad, because she offered access to her body for free during the prime years of her life (the period she's most desireable) yet she expects you to commit resources for access to the same thing she gave other men for free when she was more desireable". Alternatively "A woman with a high body count either sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 05:03 AM
5	The arguments on here are so circular You can give 1,000 people equal access to equipment, information, and time with a competitive game. 500 of those those people will suck at the game because they refuse/are unable to utilize 2/3rds of the opportunities given to them (info and time). About 300 of those people will obtain a basic to intermediate understanding of the game, and improve as new information is given to them. Around 150 people will possess an advanced enough understanding of the information given to them in order to anal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 04:06 AM
–	Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory. conservative women out there who want conservative men. but they're not at bars soliciting casual sex, and that confuses men into thinking they don't exist. Idk bout that one... women tend to be more what I refer to as "lifestyle conservative" and men tend to be "politically conservative". The old liberal v. conservative paradigm, to the extent it was ever legitimate is completely outdated in modern culture. The political landscape is almost cleanly divided by men (R) and women (D), anyone who d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 03:48 AM
–	Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory. Go offline and watch the guy's these women hook up with or marry... That blue haired college educated "strong and independent" self-described feminist ends up exclusively having sex with MAGA or "blue thin line" men who think women shouldn't vote or some shit.. Like it's beyond parody how often this is the case. Then they pretend they were unaware of his political stances or lifestyle when a situation forces the elephant in the room named hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 03:16 AM
18	I think boyfriend/husband material is more validating Except the way it's always said, always comes off as a backhanded compliment. Because it is backhanded, I wouldn't even include the "compliment" part because it's outright insulting. "Husband material" is the female version of that side piece men keep around for easy sex but never want to be seen by their friends or family with because they'd find it shameful. Then instead of just saying it how it is, the guy goes "of course you're beautiful, I'm sure some guy would love to introduce you to thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 03:06 AM
1	What have you tried in your life that was actually deeply transformative? One day some decent chick was passing by wearing your typical curve hugging outfit. She looked at me as I was checking her out. Normally I was very shy and uncomfortable with sexual tension, normally I would have quickly turned away and walk off in embarrasment. For whatever reason at that moment, with that random woman, on a total whim I did something different as an experiment. As she looked at me I briefly looked in her the eye, smiled and waved at her then continued checking her out like I w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 02:26 AM
0	If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it. Why is this sub even still up when it'd been completely taken over by blue-pills and feminist who're just gonna downvote everything that doesn't conform to mainstream opinion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 01:40 AM
-2	If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it. An unbalanced dynamic A person's definition of "balanced" will vary the meaning of that statement into abstraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 01:37 AM
7	The arguments on here are so circular most of the issues you see here come from a desire for a sure-fire dating strategy or simple definitions of gender and sexuallity Rule 1: Be attractive Rule 2: See Rule 1 It's really that simple. However simplicity does not mean it is easy. The open-ended nature of attraction is freedom, most people do not like freedom because it means uncertainty. Enter the void, embrace enlightnment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 01:27 AM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition Slander laws still apply for men accused of rape if the woman is sharing this baseless The burden of proof against the man is lopsided as hell, having to show documentation to prove he's innocent as well as proving the woman not only lied but did so maliciously. That's very difficult to prove in court. Then even if the man wins the case, the damage to his reputation, finances, and relationships is already done.. I'll admit society is very slowly, incrementally getting better about this in some a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 10:35 PM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition Rape accussatiins circumvent courts by targeting men in the workplace, media, or civil court where there is a much lower burden of proof than criminal. So really it's "only 2% of rape cases have enough evidence for criminal conviction" and I'm sure 98% of the time it's against seriel rapist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 07:02 PM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition If you're a man with something to lose you can never fully trust a woman no matter how close you are, and need to have protections in place should they ever decide to weaponize these laws against you. In my personal opinion if a marriage is in shambles to the point rape is even crossing either person's mind at all, you needed to get those divorce papers signed years ago. If you don't agree, idgaf tbh. You're not going to convince me otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 03:27 AM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition Way to move the goal post. My whole point is that a woman's consent is a legal weapon, men have no protection against a woman who weaponizes these laws in bad faith. That's a large reason why men don't approach women anymore. You can pretend this isn't an issue, I really don't give a fuck. Have a nice day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 03:13 AM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition To correct some small mistakes the other guy made. If someone accuses you of having stole their car, first they have to convince an officer that their car was stolen. Then they have to provide evidence to support their claim that you stole it. The officer explains to you the situation and the crimes you have been accused, but you say "wait officer, it's impossible for me to have stolen this guy's car because at xxx time, I was getting lit at the club, I have receipts from being there and you can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 07:48 PM
1	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. You are so fucking close to the actual issue at play, it's almost infuriating how you fail to see it. This might sound crazy, but hear me out. Maybe lower class people should still be paid liveable wages since they are contributing to society...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 03:28 PM
1	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. If it's really just conservative women who are marrying young and those young marriages are the most likely to fail, perhaps men should avoid these young conservative women looking to settle down. You're not wrong on about that one, although I'm personally not trynna aid the enemy. Let them filter the dating pool for the rest of us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 03:23 PM
2	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition Sex crimes and domestic violence accusations have been written to bypass a lot of legal rights we othereise have. Men don't need to be formally charged or prosecuted for a false allegation to negatively impact their life. Meanwhile women face no legal conseauences for abusing the legal system in these ways. Your GF/wife/booty call calls the cops during an argument and says you punched her. You will definitely be removed from your home, and likely could end up spending the night in jail until bai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 03:18 PM
3	Women gaslight men cause women gain nothing from admitting truth to men, and it would cost them many simps/orbiters. Young men are not into even younger women. Age of consent is 14 where i live. Women select their sex partners so what men prefer doesn't matter much. Men of all ages are universally mainly attracted to women 18-22, but settle for whatever they can get. You also have to factor in the fact that a 13-18 boy is in closest proximity to respective 13-18 girls because of the artificial enclosed groupings of grade school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 03:02 PM
1	Women gaslight men cause women gain nothing from admitting truth to men, and it would cost them many simps/orbiters. are you really complaining the law prevents adults from dating 11 year olds? you’re cooked Society is constantly arguing that people aren't "full adults" at 21, so I hardly see an issue in bringing up how our arbitrary laws have a net harm on young people. You act as if I'm saying a 50 year old man should be able to marry a 16 year old, at which point you're just arguing with yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 02:54 PM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition You fundamentally misunderstand my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 02:50 PM
1	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. You're never getting through to feminist man. They'll gladly let society collapse for their perceived self-interest that truthfully makes them bitter and miserable. They are creatures of ego and hubris. People are terrible at choosing spouses. That's why up until 60 years ago elder relatives arranged marriages for their children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 02:46 PM
1	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. Lack of education and birth control. More broke low level workers doesn't make for a better society. We don't need more unskilled workers. This is such a classist take, yet you've perfectly summed up the fundamental problem with modern western culture. What collapses civilizations is a growing number of people seeking the same/declining number of highly prestigious jobs and lifestyles. Low skilled work is and has been the highest sector of job growth in this country (likely world) for decades an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 02:32 PM
6	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. women who are looking for relationships care about much more than height or former modeling “careers” when it comes to the men they choose to date. Not really. If a man is somewhat physically attractive, makes about $60k or more, and is reasonably emotionally/mentally stable then he's batting in the upper 20% at worst among men. Being a model would push him well into the upper 10%. Most women would throw themselves and/or baby trap a guy like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 02:24 PM
1	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. I live in NYC and plenty of my friends (generally in the 26-28 age range) live with their gfs. Bruh. You live in one of the best areas for dating in the country while in the peak dating age in a man's lifetime. Nvm me being jealous asf, but your anecdote is so removed from the norm it's funny. I'm legit considering moving there just to take advantage of the dating sphere cause it's so bad everywhere else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 02:16 PM
-1	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. Half of American women are legally married or living with a partner by 26. That means most women meet a man they settle down with by their early 20s. Since when was half "most women"? The bulk of that half of women are likely white or hispanic conservative women with very particular politics. That other 50% of women you're leaving out live in urban cities, are more liberal, college educated, and aren't marrying until their 30's. Those conservative women are spread out in smaller counties through…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 02:11 PM
1	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. Okay. What are your experiences like? How have the women you’ve chosen as a 6’3” model worked out for you? Surely you’ve had hundreds of options throughout your life? People have absolutely 0 clue what dating dynamics are like for attractive men. Attractive men usually end up sleeping with a couple older women while young, then by their mid twenties marry a woman their age that has similar social status. Their body counts are average, if not below average... The guys who go around sleeping with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 01:50 PM
4	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. Women would rather have casual hookups with attractive guys and never be in a relationship over being in a relationship (or forced to be in it) with a guy they don’t like. You're 90% correct. Women would ideally have casual hookups with attractive guys while in a relationship with a stable provider who they don't have to love, respect, or have sex with beyond conceiving for children. A mule. In modern times, being called "husband/boyfriend material" is insulting as fuck. A very high number of wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 01:36 PM
1	Q4M: when was the last time you were too intimidated by a woman's beauty to approach? Sounds like my type of woman..	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 01:25 PM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition The problem with consent is that women pushed the government to overstep its authority and begin aggressively policing our sex lives. ~90% of consent is body language so it can be complicated for some. Because there is no way to objectively measure or document "consent", men find themselves trapped by the whims of women and the state. There is no legal leeway or defense for making innocent mistakes with making sexual advances on a woman, the punishment is prison and a irrecoverably damage to the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 01:02 PM
4	Women gaslight men cause women gain nothing from admitting truth to men, and it would cost them many simps/orbiters. Evolution wroks on variability. Niches exist. Different mating strategies and preferences exist. We are diverse because that is what works. For the bulk of human history, undesireable men reproduced via rape and prostitution. It still happens to this day, and will until the end of humanity. Another problem is that the modern western world has basically outlawed 90% of young men's dating pool. Women desire older men (3-7 years older than them), this is a problem for men 18-22 because it's illegal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 12:31 PM
1	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. What laws are those? The literal legal definition of rape. Secondly, the "almost 50/50" is controversial at best due to differences in what is considered domestic violence and the fact that it does not account for things like severity "That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it." Your experience and your suggestion of changing the way we talk about i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 12:08 AM
2	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. this is a very feminist position. The feminist position is that men have all the power and are inherent oppressors, women have no power and are inherent victims. Therefore the state must intervene on behalf of women to protect them from "patriarchy"... Under feminist doctrine, it is definitively impossible for a man to be violated, coerced, subdued, or threatened by a woman. It is literally enshrined in law in countries like the UK, and certain areas within the US (although increasingly being re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 11:12 PM
1	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. I mean you do have to be desireable in some capacity to be SA'd by someone... I would say, unlike women for the past decade, men gain absolutely no clout for talking about being victims of sex crimes.. If anything we are ridiculed or shunned for it, look at Terry Crews. As men we're like 100 years behind women on those issues in terms of acceptibility from broader society, people literally believe (and is hotly debated in western law) that men cannot be raped by women... (but they'll readily tel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 10:56 PM
4	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. Women will make a huge deal out of it. Go to HR. Have meetings. Send emails. Even get the police involved depending on what’s happening. The laws are written for women. HR will cater to women so they don't sue the company. HR will tell men to fuck off, or give a flick on the wrist to a woman if they're super "progressive" and the evidence is damning enough. Women have rights and resources men do not have in this country. A white woman has a legally lower burden of proof to show sex discriminatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 03:30 PM
0	A lot of "successful" redpilled men are going to end up with a terrible partner The other guy is mostly right, however there is a certain level among men where even the women who approach you (thus are of lower status) are decent enough to where you can select for different traits than "is she hot?". I could put a lot of time, money, and effort to court a 8 or 9 out of 10 woman, they're within my level. However if a 7 or even 6 approached me and had traits I highly desire but struggle to find in more attractive women, I'd gladly settle for her. This truth is the fundamental…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 11:27 AM
6	A lot of "successful" redpilled men are going to end up with a terrible partner Being single isn’t risk-free. Loneliness, weaker social support, no affection. worse mental/physical health, and risky coping behaviours are real harms that also affect life outcomes. So “no partner = automatically better” is also false. This is the first I've seen someone make that argument on here and it's absolutely true. I'm very sick of these terminally online bots glorifying being single, you look at any of these people irl and it's 100% cope. We physiologically as humans cannot be happy s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 11:05 AM
4	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. So this whole time, these 80% of men have been being groped and harassed and creeped on and have never once mentioned it? My boy, who I hung out with damn near everyday since we were middle school didn't tell me until over decade of knowing him how he was raped when he was a child... A part of me died a bit when he told me, I was so angry I was ready to go stomp out whoever did it... I felt pity and absolute shock, but as a man the last thing you want is the pity from another man - especially a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 10:38 AM
3	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. Boys and men are sexually assaulted, harrassed, raped far more often than anyone is willing to admit - I'd wager somewhere between 30-45%. One of the biggest issues I experienced myself going through these things was the fact I as a male was never educated or conditioned to believe these things can happen to me. I didn't have the language to conceptualize what I experienced or felt, let alone see or articulate how I was violated by women around me. Any sort of training or education on these matt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 10:22 AM
1	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. A girl groped me in front of 30+ coworkers and 3 managers during a meeting. Nobody said a word. This idea that men can't feel violated or humiliated by these things I find only comes from really shitty women, and men who'll never have to worry about women SAing them... I've been sexually harrassed numerous times by female coworkers, it's a very disarming and disorienting experience. You feel violated yet your body doesn't know how to react because it's not a life threatening attack. You feel ema…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 10:10 AM
3	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. she was rubbing men on the back and telling them they "seem like they could use a nice blow job." Wow... I've worked with 3 women who's done similar things, but they at least refrained from saying explicit sexual innuendos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 09:52 AM
13	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. I've met several women who's advances weren't just "creepy" they were outright crimes. If they were men they'd at best be socially shunned/lost their jobs, or at worst legally prosecuted for their actions and registered as sex offenders. Because they were women, their actions were rewarded and overlooked instead...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 09:45 AM
1	It’s a good thing that women are being more selective and choosing less men to be in relationships with Women have easier time, as they aren't expected to approach, A lot of women 18-27 have no social skills whatsoever. Even if I initiated small talk they can't handle those situations, it's a major "ick" (I say that ironically). Dating is one-sided enough against men. If I can't even get the mild pleasure of small talk/light flirting after approaching a woman I might as well stay inside and play video games...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 09:35 AM