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redhorndog/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:16 PM
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redhorndog/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 11:01 AM
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redhorndog/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 04:49 PM
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Well I guess you can say she's pretty toxic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 01:12 PM
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Who cares where you live. If youre going to work in Manchester live in Manchester. Similarly if you have work in London live in London. Live where you have the better opportunity. This woman may or may not be in your life at that moment.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 07:12 AM
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Dating app and marriage goal. Surely someone must have told her the two are mutually exclusive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 04:32 PM
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True. If we reverse the roles then the man will be termed a predator who is looking to groom a young one or only using her for sex. She very well knows, what she is doing and probably realized if his father can afford to put him up in the same complex she is renting in then he must have $$$ compared to her. "In a relationship where she uses his resources but doesnt give him any benefits."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 07:22 AM
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You can go ahead and cross post if required. My bad. But unfortunately for our boy he's going to learn the hard way. Didnt really mean to shame him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 11:15 AM
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Yes, I have posted it there. "plausible deniability" about her being a ho but she is a single mother and unless the father is dead, she choose him. Considering she stays in an apartment where our boy stays, it can't be all that $$$. Unless his father is extremely wealthy but then he would not be freelancing to day to day expenses. Beta helps her groom (shaves her pits) so she can look good for chad when he pumps her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 01:46 PM
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Dates = fvcked. Why dont women realise that if they dont like sharing underwear no matter how many times it has been washed. Men dont like women who have "dated" multiple other men. Chubby face means she's become fat at best 5/10
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:40 PM
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Dates = fvcked. Why dont women realise that if they dont like sharing underwear no matter how many times it has been washed. Men dont like women who have "dated" multiple other men. Chubby face means she's become fat at best 5/10
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 06:31 PM
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As he said Prostitutes will tend to be safer. Cause if they are with some STD and are out of action theyre out of $$$. GS Elevator said it best "If you want to die rich, abide by The 3 F's. If it Flys, Floats or Fucks, rent it, don't buy it" Free ones tend to be more expensive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 10:47 AM
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"Your past doesnt matter" but it does matter for jobs/employment, financial institutions whether its for a loan or credit cards, forecasting raw material requirements, hell the past matters of their BB. If he is stingy previously, she probably will skip him. Actions have consequences, some positive some negative. Men learn this at an early age. Feminism unfortunately enables women to think there will be no repercussions. Would men share underwear? Assuming its washed and completely clean. Would …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 07:36 AM
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First though that came to my mind. Glad to see it high up. Also its similar to the workplace, an experienced leader guides the young team that can be molded and is not set in their ways. If only more women were aware that men are not equal to women. Ying and yang. I like Ducati for their passion in making bikes, Ducati likes me as a paying customer not for my passion in bikes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 06:40 PM
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Bad times create strong men phase. Who knows when the strong men create good times phase will begin but if I have to bet it will be closer to the end of my lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/22 07:30 AM
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Classic FDS advice'men like competing with other men for the village bike, they all w The world's fastest car is a rental, but you never treat your own car like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 07:27 AM
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Learn something new everyday. No idea it was so old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 07:14 AM
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The far cry quote is handy here. "insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting a different result" She doesnt get Chad and Tyrone anymore but behaves the same way thinking she can. She thinks men want to pay full price for used goods.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 06:51 PM
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What is the equivalent of a crazy cat lady? A happy man? Why is it that males do not go mental. Some guys have really inflated not just her ego but also her weight. Human beings vs human doings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 06:44 PM
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She liked your text. Which means she is waiting for you to lead her. Her : 'It will be complicated for friday because i have my friends coming this week end, but we can meet again next week, monday?" Fixed for you Me : "Fine, don't drink too much vodka this week end to be in a good shape on Monday. Dinner. My place at 7pm" Go ahead and double text. But next time when she or any woman offers to reschedule, use that as an opportunity for logistics.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:38 PM
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2-3 years back I swear my experiences in India line up with with TRP. Albeit it was the more modern and larger cities. So they already have the western influence.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:19 PM
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Because this is not for LTR. For plates you want raw attraction. No one wants to pair bond with a plate. Also n-count 2-4 is 60% chances of a successful marriage/LTR. Only virgins have a 85-90% successful rate. So assume all women are whores just as we tell you to assume attraction. LTR automatically leans towards beta bucks unless you live outside the western world.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:16 PM
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Also OPs bitch sucked more than 12 dudes but OP rationalizes that it doesnt count. OP include this in the red flags. It always counts. This alone would discount her from being an LTR attractive/has a great body does everything for me: cooks, always wants to “please me” and fucks 9/10 times I’m in the mood, buys gifts She is supposed to do those things. This isnt a positive its a mandatory must have for a relationship. has a nose ring and septum piercing claims she was raped (alcohol poisoning, f…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 08:37 AM
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And when he finishes the windows shutdown music? When he has ED: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DsDesmCjjJo
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:21 PM
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9 hour shift. 1 hour drive there and back. Stuck in office. Most likely too tired after work to do anything like gym. Just no time. Stop being a f4g. I used to leave work at 8am and be home around 10pm. And I still made sure 2 gym days on weekends and All SAT+SUN. Suck it up. Gym in the morning before work. Trust me on this. You just have to make sure you sleep early. I could would try for 7.5 hours of sleep. My gym was 5mins from my place so that is easy. House chores on the weekend. I didnt co…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:19 PM
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As others have said I never understood what's people's obsessions with validation from others. Would you rather click a pic of some watch/supercar and get likes or actually own it. Reminds me of a question asked once. Would you rather let the world know you spent a night with 5 of the hottest supermodels but cant fuck them. While the world thinks you did. Or actually fuck them but most people wont believe you.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:26 AM
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how she mentioned she turned him down and dated other employees before marrying him Betabux. Even when he had the highest status she still went for alpha tingles. Because she knew she had him and could go back once she was done with her CC ride. She stayed with him while all her spawn got through college and now wants to ride the CC again. The Mackenzie Bezoz divorce subconsciously influenced her.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:22 AM
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Or manipulation. Might not be conscious but its her way of getting you to invest. Men have a subconscious protector instinct.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:52 PM
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'I really don't like being called a slut it's degrading and turns me off, I prefer you being romantic No she likes it. Just ASD and trying to show you she isnt that type of girl. Go a little slower into it. Sex god method has it. your daddy's little slut bitch Start a little slower then amp up.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:17 PM
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If she agrees to whatever you say. Good. If she doesnt like being alone with you. Bad.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:11 PM
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I texted her saying I want to see her again Wrong. Dont you guys read the sidebar. Rollo's 7th Rule. Dont go back to these hoes. Unless you dumped her which we both know isnt the case. Even mutual breakups always let the other reach out first. And in the case she does reach out you should only message "get kneepads", then she'll ask why and you reply "cause youre going to have to suck a lot of dick".
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:10 PM
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My gf has a girl friend that hates my guts If she is single. Just use that covertly. Youre on the backfoot anyways. She'll poison your gf eitherway. Might as well become toxic and do what you want. Birds of a feather flock together. Reach vaz's post on "her friends not yours"
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:30 PM
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Professional. She is dead to you. But that doesnt mean to ignore her when you have to work together if you do. Dont acknowledge her unless she does. If you actually need her help and she is the only person who can solve whatever task you require assistance on goodluck because women are vindictive.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:18 PM
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The only pro to it was we didn’t knock any girls up early because we were too shite with female interaction to get their pants off. I completely agree with this. Guess youre a Brit. All boys school from 1-9. 10-12 was coed and there it took time for us to get into the groove. But luckily there were also girls from all girls schools so we had inexperienced girls as well. Sure some of the guys who were in mixed crowds were not as shy but they lacked the raw savagery some of the only boys school ha…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 09:22 AM
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Dont house wife a ho. LTR there is evidence of women with few cocks in them being happier. For sex doesnt really matter. Some are of the opinion "when Im sick I visit a Dr, a professional. Likewise when horny visit an escort, a professional"
/r/askTRP25/04/21 05:59 PM
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Reconnected with an old plate Better hope it was her who reached out. Next week I text her to meet me again, Why are you chasing her. She is a former plate, which means that she has already fucked you and sucked you. She isnt a first date where this is acceptable. If she isnt fucking or sucking you dont reach out ever. A week later (so today), I text her to meet me Monday evening at her place STOP CHASING. Also get the hint. You should never text her unless she messages you first. And if she doe…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:06 AM
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The fatties.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:18 AM
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Whores in this house - Frank Ski
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:13 PM
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Since she isnt your plate and and LTR you should know certain boundaries. Exes are exes for a reason. Tbf how you you feel if the positions were reversed. Would you like her talking to get ex at a party for 30 mins. During our conversation I told her she should be able to control her anger enough that she doesn’t need to strike especially before she’s clarified that I’ve done anything. I also told her I haven’t forgiven just yet and if we are to go forward this could never happen again or I will…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:32 AM
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Superman - Eminem
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:27 AM
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Her mouth normal or does it also have some issues? Look you know it that without sex there is no point in hanging out with her.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:33 PM
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3 weeks. A mathematician has shown that the dumper’s loneliness and nostalgia for the broken relationship peak at about 3 weeks after the breakup, unless she has found another man in the interim.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:03 PM
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No clue. But I read on heartiste that 3 weeks is scientifically proven to be when a chick misses the guy the most. No matter who broke up with whom.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:46 PM
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Not with her. Do anything else. Even if youre not doing anything dont reach out to her. When she text you for whatever then get to the logistics. If she again is busy or whatever drop her. She died and doesnt exist to you.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:46 PM
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I mean who hits up a person at 12 am and ask them for a favor? Dont try to understand women. Just laugh at her attempts to get you. any ways I get a text last night asking for another favor Just set up logistics. "Sure come join me at xxx tomorrow at <time> and I'll see if its possible" You could be doing anything a walk for fresh air in the park or round your block or while you shop for groceries. Dont think too much. ​ I needed some head from my sneaky link in a joking way Dont be so direct up…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:43 PM
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Ego. They want to but they wont. The ones who dumped/ghosted you perceived themselves to have power over you. Every chick that dumped or ghosted me has came back at some point. Quite high having 100% coming back. Curious did they come back within the first 3 months or after a year?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:12 PM
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Only if she hits you up.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:06 PM
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Women fuck guys behind dumpsters. Women fuck drug dealers who probably smell worse. Dont make excuses. Game was weak, she was looking for a relationship instead of casual, you didnt escalate properly, she matched a chad few minutes before. Whatever the reason, dont dwell on it. Be the employer not the employee.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:47 PM
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Yup. Theres a post on the main sub. So that's what we doing now. OP should basically fight fire with fire since she can never be LTR material.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:41 PM
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The Key Logger: A Forbidden Glimpse into the True Nature of Women - by Jack, Nicholas This should be a read for everyone.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:47 PM
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If you were wearing the jacket, then yes.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:44 PM
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She is a strong independent successful woman that doesnt need no man for comfort. Did you tell her upfront to keep things casual?? She probably doesnt see you as marriage material. In the future just give them some scraps. A little beta after sex. Or cuddle for a bit. Every 6-7 dates you might have to schedule a short (<1 hr) non-sexual date. Just schedule plans with another plate after the non-sexual date. There is another guy who is committing to her rn, that's why she is avoiding you. She is …
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:07 PM
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Yes. And replace her after. But you wont be able to. But since you'll tend to get attached and try being loyal. So you'll probably shoot yourself. Dont LTR. First go fuck her.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:00 PM
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Somewhere cheap in public for, new girls. If you dont drink, think of froyo, ice cream or some patisserie. Hell you can even take them out to the supermarket while you shop. I've taken one shopping got a $8 rotisserie chicken and then picked up some cookies from a bakery (2 locations and then my place). Cant just call them over (unless youre specifically their type and theyre super attracted to you) if there is no rapport, some will comply but there is a higher chance of ASD, LMR etc. If youve m…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:29 PM
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I agree with what you said about OP. He should have just sent a low effort come over xx day, (bring xx). generally I wouldn't give a second chance Flaking for not wanting to meet is throwing away easy pussy. As AMS says "youre going to have to suck a whole lot of dick" or "youre going to lick my ass" My favourite is to tell them to get kneepads.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:32 AM
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her: you should wanna help a nice girl like me workout for free because you’re a nice guy me: am i? her: well i thought so me: u thought wrong lets find out, <set up logistics> ​ me: i give people respect when it’s earned but i have very high standards as to who i let in my life, people have to show me they’re worth it Boring. You made her drier than the sahara.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 06:14 AM
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2 hours of his life. He has to return too.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:49 AM
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The fact that she even sent it anything more than a "I know" means she still views the ex as a potential backup. Why do girls think its ok to be friends with someone theyve fucked or sucked. They try to rationalize its ok to be friends there are no feelings. They can do what they want but guys like OP should know these hoes are not LTR material.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:48 AM
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Urban areas are as depraved as the west just not on the same scale. I think the only reason you find them being a bit more traditional is because a lot of people live with parents till they get married. There's also those that live separately but that is because theyve migrated. From my experiences a few years back, the only difference is like you said the slut shaming and girls tend to be want things discreet if youre not dating them. But dont think these are some angels. Just because there is …
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:51 AM
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You kids need to stop interfering in other's business. Lol junior in college so you have nothing better, wait till you reach the real world.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 12:43 PM
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Note. It's only girls 25+ who do this epiphany phase. These hoes want to show you theyre capable of being good wives. So theyre not that kind of girl to suck dick.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 12:39 PM
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Good to know I wasnt the only one.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:13 PM
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STDs Once you fuck raw its hard using a wrapper.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:49 PM
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Most BP guys think you need a relationship for sex. Years back this was the predominant though "Sex is the price women pay for marriage Marriage is the price men pay for sex" Thanks to these hoes it's no longer true
/r/askTRP04/04/21 04:49 PM
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Be gone thot. LTRs and relationships are different from plates. For this guy every n>2 is closer to failure. Being close to someone she sucked off and wanted no matter how many years ago speaks volumes about her.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:32 PM
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a dude who she apparently used to date a very long time ago (she says this was middle school so it shouldn’t matter) Grounds for dumping. Not LTR material if youre friends with someone you were remotely sexual. Idk what people say even if its it was only school we were kids or he is my oldest friend of xx years. Well I dont fuck my friends. I felt like she probably genuinely didn’t think that was dumb as fuck to do. Dont be so naive. These bitches know what's up. They just think they can get awa…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:05 PM
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I think autismo meant having the talk. I guess not enough comfort or hinting at the possibility of future commitment makes them realise he aint going to be a beta provider for them.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:54 AM
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As long as youre fucking youre winning. The guy who gets friendzoned/beta orbiters would kill to be in your place. Your SMV is high enough for a fuck. But you probably have some other shortcomings. As others have said, improve yourself.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:52 AM
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hoop earings Bigger the hoop bigger the ho Disney fantasy that women are wonderful creatures than can do no harm.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:31 PM
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Use from the following post asktrp/comments/m7ujp1/how_can_i_take_my_tinder_opener_to_the_next_level/grdsb4s/
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:25 PM
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ONS (one night stand) - Fuck one time generally within hours of meeting and move on FWB/FB/Plate - Fuck multiple times with no commitment from the male GF/LTR/Wife - Fuck if not beta with commitment from the male.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:16 PM
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Her-im not in a good place rn so id rather not "Im thinking of the chad who pumped me and wont answer. Obsessed more likely" No response. Dont chase these bitches. She knows she can get you. If you do have to wait a week or two and try again. If you get the same results. Then dont contact her and let her reach out.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:14 PM
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Yes and no. Depends on the country you are in. Some have laws where after 2 years of being together she is entitled to alimony.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:53 AM
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Masculine traits. Career woman who only works as HR is ok but those who are gunning for CXO and heading departments are the red flag. Most career driven women especially lawyers are shit test galore. As long as you treat everything they say as a joke or in 1 ear and out the other its fine. This is my experience. May differ for others.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:44 AM
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She wants xxx and is willing to walk away (towards someone like billy) when it's clear it's not on the table Not a red flag in itself since it shows she values herself but it is likely that she is the type who if you dont give her a car she'll walk away to the next beta Very confident and career driven. Bad Little to no social media presence Good Overall from what youve said she seems balanced but be warned have solid frame because if things dont go her way she will walk over to the next billy b…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:08 AM
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Go fuck a hooker. Seriously. It will help get the virgin stigma off your back. lost about 13kg in 6 months - now instead of fat im skinny fat, a lot of people I used to know were impressed by my weight loss Nice job you did something. But youre still far off. Aim for 1/2/3/4 lifting goals Hopefully youll get a high paying or decent paying job with your degree and then things will fall into place. Keep doing what youre doing. You have ugly duckling syndrome. Remind me of a friend. Literally you e…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:29 PM
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You still have oneitis for her simply because she didnt want you 4 years back and now while the wall has come she wants a nice beta bucks. A: Ultimately it didn’t work. She didn’t want to admit it but she was seeing someone and it was easy to identify via social media posts. Turns out she was just another guy’s plate. B: This weekend she started talking about exclusivity and how she will introduce me to her parents You are the beta bucks. I wouldnt LTR her. Attraction cant be negotiated and she …
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:24 PM
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Once you see the fuck me eyes you'll understand it.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:35 AM
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even when i feel like i should kiss her I think pook said when you feel you should kiss her, that means you could have kissed her 10 minutes ago. Dont kiss at the end of a date. Try it while emotions are high. Just go for it from another point, it helps weed out interest (high and low). The girl has to make a decision and low Interest will move away etc but not always the case.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:49 PM
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Even if she doesnt have FOMO yet, her single (and even taken) friends will convince her that she "deserves better". I know this sounds cynical, but its the truth and other guys here will back me up. Truer words were spoken before. Even if it last and her friends for whatever reason dont like you. Its pretty much game over. Not now not in a few weeks or months but over time theyll have poisoned her enough. Like a river that cuts through rocks over decades, their poison will erode her attraction b…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:46 PM
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I wish I could send you a bottle of vodka. Thanks. Saw some new ones. Hopefully you can add these too Stop sitting on your phone. Cause that ass is calling me Are you a washing machine cause I want to drop my load in you Did you sit in a puddle or just happy to see me? Youre like homework. Im not doing you rn but I should Youre like my dirty dishes. Ill get you wet and do you at night Help me decide my hands on your ass or round your neck I got a new bed, help me break it in The FBI is looking f…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:54 PM
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Why did you write a god damn book about a girl. Generally when people write so much its because they have oneitis and the generic advice here is to find another. You found 1 you can find another. I also may have "love" feelings for this girl, but I'm not "in love" with the girl Lie all you want but shit you have oneitis. Just become a female. Find a better and dump this one.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:47 AM
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Your next move is nothing. She doesnt exist. Im sure you have another. If you can get this you can definitely get another. Your next move if you truly have abundance when she reaches out type out "Youre going to have to suck a lot of dick". This will activate her ASD but as long as you hold frame it will work since youve fucked her a couple of times.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:40 PM
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Even better he got a ppt about why she is great. Some other guy got a ppt of all the previous dick his plate got and how he compares to them
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:01 PM
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I dont know why he deleted that but I kind of agree completely. Every company is like this. Ive seen it happen to my dad too. While his patrons were running things and on good terms with the board, the boss lifted them all up. After all the boss needs people to back him up. I saw it during a short stint in a <20 person finance firm. And its the same at a larger consulting firm. Having a patrol is what will boost your career or stagnate it. Pick them wisely since once you pick them, your patron's…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 05:58 PM
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She is fucking someone else. That person had an STD scare or has an STD. Her way of hamstering that she is clean and so you shouldnt blame her in the future. Or she sent it to you by mistake or because you must have slipped up about her not being clean. Women are fickle. I asked when she was free. No response, leaves me on read. Medium is the message. Unless she actively reaches out to set a date, you dont respond. Not to anything whether it is some bullshit holiday greeting or whatever. That is…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 12:20 PM
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Jonah hill can pull better bitches than you and he is 5x your size. The fact that he cheated on her shows he has options. Women dont think rationally.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:26 PM
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She is alpha widowed by him. Odds are against you that you can topple the image she has of him. Goodluck I suggest you treat her a test subject. oN the main forum there is a post by Dr_warlock.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:17 PM
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Do nothing. Seems counter intuitive but it is a win-win. If you do nothing and she comes back good. But if she doesnt, good. Because she isnt that into you and you now have more time to fuck someone else. You have a situation similar to one I faced. I suspect she wants more warmth and attention. She feels invincible and not cared for. She thinks you wont commit to her. More often that not its bitchy friends who will tell her she deserves better and a BB to commit to her and bending over backward…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 08:39 PM
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"you get what you pay for" I assume youre in the US. 100 wont get you a decent hooker. Take a trip to Germany/Croatio/Hungary/Bulgaria/Czech and blow a wad of cash and your load on those hookers.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:53 PM
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I think what OP meant by untraceable is that as long as people dont know your address it is untraceable. Like what people assume with swiss bank accounts that only have an acc no and password.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 01:44 PM
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Lastly, lose the “illusion of action.” This is the irrational fear that if you don’t somehow “make something happen” between yourself and a woman, that nothing will happen. This fear will burrow itself into your brain until you’re trapped in state of mind where you have to do something, anything, to bring about a desired outcome. It leads to overreacting, overestimating, overthinking, and just doing way too goddamn much. In your desperate race against time you’ll end up playing her right out of …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 01:26 PM
3

Just fuck a few escorts.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:14 PM
12

women/girls just humiliate me and abuse me all the time. How. Why do you let them. Ghost all the bitches youre simping/orbiting. When they reach out asking for your attention etc ignore it. I've youve got balls say "Youre going to have slob on my knob like corn on a cob"
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:11 PM
3

So yeah, invading her private conversations is not nice, it's scarcity mentality, neuroticism and incel bullshit - but boy oh boy is it informative and eye opening. Whats the fastest way to get redpilled. Get access to a girls messages.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 07:57 AM
3

Assume the plate is broken. 1) Its a power play. Trying to get commitment. Youre better off waiting for her to respond to you 2) She is angry you didnt fuck her You can wait a week and hit her up if she doesnt send you any message or call you.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:45 AM
5

Exiting the group chat is stupidity. It shows he is affected. Better to mute the chat and not read it. Or read the chat and not respond to her.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:43 AM
12

and she puts her phone down and I just hung up. Then she text me. Her: “goodnight” You should have ignored her or just sent a goodnight text. Your verbal intercourse was just a waste. Agree and amplify when in doubt. Not so hard. "Yeah im the cheapest mofo around" The problem is you expect women to be like you. That wont happen till she's in her 50s. When a dog barks you dont bark back. Well sometimes you do but thats for fun. Similarly when you wrestle with a pig in mud you both will get dirty …
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:58 AM
1

Based on what guys would consider high. But as per the research reports on marriage etc. After 1 theres a massive drop then more than 3 theres a lot differences till n-count of 6-10.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:46 PM
2

Looking at the research reports on marriage etc. After 1 theres a massive drop then more than 3 theres a lot differences till n-count of 6-10. For something stable less than 4 including you.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:45 PM
1

Guys get friendzoned. Girls get fuckzoned.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:25 AM
14

Give her a bag of skittles.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:22 AM
1

But I can’t help feel that because she’s the only girl I’ve ever been with when I’m 30 I’ll regret not being a young lad and fucking around so to speak. Grass is greener. Some guys want the girl you have. The only question you should ask yourself is this. Will you be able be able to attract another like her in 10 years?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:30 PM
11

as the title suggests, how does one demote LTR in good terms and if its okay one can again promote her. Nope. Once demoted she cant be promoted again.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:28 PM
1

But isnt that going against the research. Was just thinking for the plates on a pill wouldnt it make sense to be a little more beta for them? Or offer more comfort since that would atleast keep them spinning longer?
/r/askTRP29/01/21 03:30 PM
9

She talks of how women are attracted to different behaviours at different points in their cycle (more "beta" when menstruating; more "alpha" when ovulating). Rollo explains this in schedules of mating. So basically with plates on the pill better to be more beta? And chase them a bit? Currently they may consider me too aloof.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 03:16 PM
1

So to keep a plate on the pill its better to be beta? Any other behavioural changes like they require more comfort so more maintenance contact? Means I got to stop being so aloof and only hit them up when I want to fuck?
/r/askTRP29/01/21 03:16 PM
1

That still doesnt change much. Women have no impulse control. So meeting with an ex means she has more red flags than the soviet union. ​ Ask yourself this. If you had a kid and you had to explain who exbf was would you be comfortable saying "well child, before you mommy and daddy got together and made you, your mommy had to practice with chad so she was perfect for me"
/r/askTRP20/01/21 06:04 AM
3

The same "sweet pure loving girl" had multiple changes to build a future with but she relegated those simps to the friendzone. If women can friendzone nothing wrong with fuckzone. You sound like you;ve hit the wall. Or maybe youre on your period.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 06:00 AM
6

i said oh sweet and kissed her. You lost whatever power you had here. Never agree so quickly. Dont be a cuck. She is a fling cant ever be an LTR. Its basically disrespectful and women know this but they purposely do it to see how much they can get away with. Swap the roles and she how she creates drama and cries etc. Ask yourself this. If you had a kid and you had to explain who exbf was would you be comfortable saying "well child, before you mommy and daddy got together and made you, your mommy…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 09:05 AM
5

Damn. Yeah I didnt think this through. Women love aloof guys. Its sad because I know its one of the autismos here. She showed me the messages and he strictly follows "text for logistics". Is she a lost cause? I ask because she got alpha widowed by a guy "she only blew". (More like fucked a few times before he got bored) Now she thinks the new chad will commit while she still pines for old chad. Its sad to see her on the path to becoming a crazy cat lady/where have all the good men gone.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:35 PM
3

I cant go about it logically because she wont get it. Im trying to find a way she understands. I went directly but she is all like he is different not like others doesnt text or call except to come over and fuck. She thinks it is something more potentially.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:16 PM
1

She may be a ho but she is family. Practically a sister considering we spent much time growing up together.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:12 PM
1

Experienced it once. Youre attractive enough to fuck but she doesnt know whether you'll be a good provider. Or she is just enjoying her time on the CC enjoying a new alpha while she can before she decides its time to settle down. I see a few possibilities. But its a woman so who the fuck knows what's going on in her head. She thinks youre not going to commit to her so she doesnt bring it up. She pines for another alpha and hopes he comes back to pump (and dump) her again. Its weird. Or she knows…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:44 PM
6

She messaged me back 2 hours after the breakup text saying she doesn't want to leave on bad terms, which I agreed too (essentially friendzoning her, possibly mistake on my part?) Nope. This is her wanting closure. She is incredibly good looking and she's never experienced a guy leaving her. Good. You made her experience the first time someone had the balls to do it. I treat them as if they dont exist for me. For some I pretend like I dont even know them/wont acknowledge them. Gets them angry af.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 01:54 PM
1

Yes.... People will tell you no. But you know you want her so go get her champ.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:51 PM
2

If you want to absolutely mog him, dump her, make it seem like you are trying to push it to him, like encourage her to go with him, compliment his beta traits, make it seem like you are trying to get rid of him and trying to set him up with her. she will of course do the woman thing and reject him/ This is good stuff. Should probably be a post of its own on the main sub. Reminds me a bit of what vaz wrote in his how to date models post.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:50 PM
7

Lead her and suggest back to hers unless her logistics are also shit. In which case women will fuck in any secluded spot "just not with you". My own example. An ex fucked some guy in a car but when I was trying it she claims she isnt that type of girl. Just level up, sooner or later these bitches will be jumping for you. For a car I know you dont have a license yet but Octavias are crazy goood with how big the boot is once you fold down the rear seat. Just remember that unless its a sports suspe…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:41 PM
1

Because your friends are jealous that a guy can literally go around and has the same options/abundance they can dream of. So they simp and white knight, thinking theyll get laid. Sidenote: I spent two years in Mumbai. To say bollywood is big is an understatement. huge history of boyfriends I am curious so I googled it and shit she has like 8 exes. Not too high for western standards but quite high for India, no? And her current husband has like 4-5exes. Not sure. Why would he settle with her when…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:42 PM
2

First of all don't ever expect your girl friends to take your side even if You are right. They are HER friends so they will stick with her and hamster her from everything. And most of your guy friends too. Only the real bros will have your back. The simps will always white knight.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:35 PM
3

Treat it as a shit test. She is gauding you to double text. Logistics texts? Then withdraw attention. If she takes more than a couple of hours when she does just be "Nope, something came up" or "too late slowpoke, have other plans"
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:54 PM
1

she said " great, lets holla tomorrow then". I said ok Uh, Yeah. Unless holla means something other than speak/call.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:52 PM
1

Chad wouldnt give a fuck. Chad has replacements. OP evidently isnt Chad. But to spin longer OP should let her reach out. Or if he is horny just call her over, I guess she;ll fuck him but also feel that he will become someone she can get. Because he has become predictable/attainable.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:50 PM
5

Make enough money to own 3 cars, worth more than 500k combined without sweating. Yup. I agree with this. M3 well M4 since its a 2 door, a McLaren and Lambo. People who say money isnt everything are those that have enough money. Money is a conduit to help achieve goals.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:48 PM
2

Then handled well. Good job.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 01:37 PM
2

I took responsibility to tell her about it, cancelled and offered to meet another time. Well I hope you didnt tell her about your itch, too much info if you did. A simple your feeling under the weather works. Its different if you slept with her when you had the itch. In a way, I feel I did wrong because I ‘validated’ her too much by explaining my absence Sort of. Relax you learn I guess. Try being a bit more private with your life.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 01:04 PM
2

Less so. But thats a sign of her wanting more in my experience. Might be different for others. But her inviting you is less of a chance of them causing drama in your main friend group as long as her friends really arent close to people you know. But if theres mutual friends the girl tries to play a victim card and then taints your image if you dont commit to her and the f4gs begin to leave you out. So better to cut out any chances of drama.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:58 PM
3

You want to fuck an 8-10 without exhausting hours of your time doing various mating jigs, hookers are the way to go. Hookers are fun. But you cant be too careless and somethings are no gos for me with hookers. Finding quality escorts is difficult though. All sex is transactional. Eitherway youre paying for the sex. Resources or time+attention. But hookers lack an aspect that you can get from plates. Some hookers may be cleaner than plates because its their livelihood but you still have a high ch…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:48 AM
3

Not really. But plates + your friends means drama. She can spin it against you and your friends being BP whiteknights will always try to defend her. Its more of keeping it separate. Also meeting friends sets the precedent that it might be more than sexual.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:40 AM
1

If you care about whether she has cum or you did a good job youre in her frame.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:15 AM
4

Not so easy. He is from India which means visa issues. Not to mention the financials. Supporting himself in India is one thing but in EU/US its another ball game. Earnings need to be in sync with the CoL
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:22 AM
7

She never cummed As long as you did doesnt matter whether she does or not.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:20 AM
5

There are people that you know and hang out with, but they're not your friends This hits close to home.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:01 AM
3

Well two ways. First the easy way. Ex-LTR Second. "So thats what we doing now. We going on dates with others?" and set up something with a chick in front of her, better if it is someone she hates. You can even pretend. An LTR alone with another guy obviously knows its wrong and is waiting for you to grow a pair. If she brings up the oh but I know him since I was in school or since I was 5, you better not tolerate anything she says.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:50 AM
2

https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/4349/talking_with_women_always_dare_never_deer ​ But overall its good you didnt try to accommodate her the same day like her simps/orbiters.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:40 AM
1

I’m just curious as to her past Goodluck. You can probably find out. Question is if it exceeds expectations, you wont see her the same. Which ironically will cause you to resent her and not place her on a pedestal, which will cause her to chase you more.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:37 AM
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Also should I refrain from introducing girls to my friends until we’re at a certain stage Yes. No shit sherlock. They have to earn that. Women have a way to breakup friendships. Good on your friend for standing his ground. I know others who would be shamed into inviting the girl. She thinks if she hangs out with your friends and you she can get their attention and also try and push/shame you into a relationship. Thats one. Im sure there are other hypothesis.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:30 AM
1

When she breaks and talks to you, say, "I have enough friends." Or he can invite her over for drinks and probably spin her as a plate. Its possible. But OP needs to escalate early and hard. He doesnt have to acknowledge her LJBF shit.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:25 AM
4

I ignored the text and proceeded to ignore the girl in real life too. Well played. You've read the sidebar. Its beta bait to try and get you in an orbiter position. But it can also be her thinking maybe she misjudged you for a beta when you can be an alpha. You can probably smash if she hits you up again.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:23 AM
1

No. Wait a bit more closer to 2 weeks. Ideally you shouldnt hit her up after that. Think of it as a final chance. You need to ruthlessly cut her off from your life.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:21 AM
8

Not sure who is really at fault. Once I make a plan I dont cancel them. There are better ways to confirm plans on the day. Also try making plans 2-3days in advance at most. A week just increases flaking chances. ​ Earlier this week we made plans for me to get her at 6:30 tonight. Stick to your plans. to a text that I sent at noon today which was "I cant wait to taste you again tonight." Putting her on a pedestal. Too much validation. There are better ways to confirm plans. "how was i supposed to…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:19 AM
2

Sure. Im sure everyone is wrong and only the exceptional case is correct. "If everywhere you go it smells like shit, maybe it's time to check your own shoes." - Anon
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:53 AM
2

Well then OP should take heed of " Family and friends thinks she is trashy "
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:58 AM
8

N count > 50 Stopped reading after this. Might as well go to a cheap EU country and get a hooker. They'll leave on command. More loyal than this one. ​ EDIT: I see OP is just out trolling.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:05 AM
3

Fair enough. I didnt consider STCG taxes as more than 15% but assuming its a major pullback and you feel the market will rise more than ~17.7% then it makes sense. Im not familiar with US taxation. Fuck US STCG are 37%. That's fucked up. Yeah I can see why dollar cost averaging is better than exiting and reentering. Daddy USGov needs to send the gibs to all ...
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 05:53 PM
1

Yeah, why not book profits at the very least and wait it out.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 04:28 PM
1

Read about dread game. She is using that on you and its working. Dont hit her up. Let her contact you. If youre so invested wait a week and hit her up for logistics.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:43 PM
1

This is the best response or heartise mentions use any one of "gay" or "8====D~" or "nah" Actions say she cant make time for OP.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:48 PM
7

Not much, if I really want to watch a movie to the end. Otherwise I couldnt care because less than 20mins in its time to head out to pound town. Give them the illusion of choice. Pick up three movies and let them select one. Or tell them youre in the mood for xx genre.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:31 PM
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Make enough money and you wont need a family to survive. I know theres a lot of old bitter and lonely guys but at the other end of the spectrum theres the rare cases like Hefner. He told me that I need children so that they’d take care of me when I grow old. This is a very Indian though? Are you Indian by any chance. I was there for a bit and colleagues always mentioned how Indian parents found them a good girl but they were blind to the supposed good girls "AWALT" tendencies. A compromise since…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:29 PM
0

You have the right idea. Pull back dont text or anything. This is a method they use to see whether you're going to be committed to her and turn the tables. If you think she is different and want to burn your hands with an LTR go for it but nudge her to bring up the talk. Its not your duty.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:24 PM
2

Most girls do this. Its a subconscious manipulation tactic to regain power or get you to chase. They think they have secured you. Or you provided her with too much comfort. Think of it like a shit test. Do nothing. That being said you have to lead her. I saw her last night for the first time and we didn’t even kiss. Did you initiate or expect her to initiate? TL;DR - She is pulling back. You pull back harder.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:52 PM
1

Btw I really want to make it clear that one mistake and I’m done. I want her to know this. No joke, I’ll be out the door second that happens. How to convey this message best? You dont. She should know it by the point of LTR. How the hell do I do this setting up boundaries like a boss/without seeming needy or beta? Do I sit her down and literally go through items? Sounds a bit stupid but completely necessary. Is this showing low value? I used to be like you. Let them know upfront that I dont talk…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:05 PM
3

I find her wet hole attractive as a hotel for my dick. To be fair I dont really like most girls, find their basic bitch nature annoying. But to answer your question of course not. I dont like people disturbing me like that. Nor do I like negotiating with terrorist especially when Im naked.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:02 PM
1

Do you stay with her? If not text for logistic? Also Heartiste has an article best way to revive a flagging relationship or something. The answer is to do nothing. If she cares she will reach out.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:59 PM
2

but I had to make her understand that we "might" become exclusive. Curious. What specifically did you say. I feed crumbs like "right now I have xxx on my plate and career blah blah busy but in a bit once thing clear up ...."
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:45 PM
1

Does it really work? Or only on the post wall ones who are looking to lock down $$$.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:43 PM
2

hahah never. Cant have such a liability. I painted her face white. She was spewing her BS and I didnt know how to respond so I followed the sidebar, STFU. Let her go on and on about her crap and continued plowing her. She forgot all about it later on.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:42 PM
8

Im not a fan of going down on these hoes. Dont know who has drunk rum and blasted them with cum. Not saying I havent but no longer go down on bitches.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:54 AM
1

Never understood this. Sluts do all sorts of depraved shit and then save their anal or oral "virginity" for their future husband. That beta wont even get her pussy. Its funny how no anal except for my bf is accepted, but if you say no gf unless anal its wrong.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:52 AM
2

Keep banging Thats what I did. Just felt weird.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:50 AM
1

Will try this next time such a situation arises. This time I just ignored and continued plowing. "I dont negotiate with terrorists"
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:50 AM
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LOL. They are cute, aren't they? Only a woman could tell you that she will only fuck her boyfriend while getting railed by someone who won't commit to her and think that it's totally congruent. So fucking weird. I was bit turned off. I didnt respond. Just kept quiet and continued plowing her. I have no doubt she'll be back. Just felt it odd to bring it up mid sex. I used to be one of the beta fuckers chasing these hoes and committing to them asking them to be my gf. I see through them now.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:37 PM
23

Yeah mid sex was really ironic. I get the post sex while lying down for a bit. This was really weird.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:33 PM
3

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-54275986 they'd stopped talking to their exes, deleted them from their friends' list AWALT. Nothing different from the west. Then when the guy grows some balls and dumps her because deep down he knows this isnt relationship behaviour she calls him abusive etc.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:07 AM
2

It's sad. But as u/RedEyeBlackEye1 says You becoming more redpill aware and acting to improve yourself becomes "you've changed man, blah blah blah". Then they stop inviting you to events,then they stop contacting you altogether.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:04 AM
1

I though that too. But I found out she asks why Im not invited. Old plate still think she can change my mind. Then he told her that "Redhorndog is a loser". It's sad cause I though there was still some loyalty among men.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:17 PM
1

The will keep their man away as it robs them their possibilities if he sees what you do. I dont think yout got it. But basically my friend is skipping me out and white knighting for plate. Example he stopped our monthly bike ride. Instead he took the plate as his pillion.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:29 PM
12

You read my mind was going to post this. Asians are racist af when it comes to skin tone. OP needs to read about the largest markets for fairness/whitening skin creams.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:24 AM
28

You're alone, till you're not: Friends will come and go. You would think that friends of 2 decades would be there but then one day they start simping for a wet hole. Next thing you know they decide the wet hole is worth everything else.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 09:10 AM
3

Because guys are insecure and lack confidence that they can get more women into the future. Society conditions us to believe this. Also people generally have are around the same people for a long time and dont realised their value. When I went into my second job I had shit tons of IoIs from HB7+. Though they were being nice till some other jealous chick said Pam should contain herself near you.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:14 AM
5

Nuclear level Shit test. Isolate and escalate. She she's you as a beta right now. Someone she can easily get. Probably a backup option after she's done being pumped and dumped.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 08:21 AM
3

she'll play the girlfriend game and pretend she's not a slut. That was the old me. That signals that you're a guy who's in on the casual sex game. Guys who aren't in on the game will try to make nice and act like a boyfriend because they don't know that women have casual sex for fun. Sadly how this took me so much time to realise. Girls inherently know the casual game. Guys dont know it exists but once they do its like riding a bike. You dont forget. So many BP guys still try acting nice and doi…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/20 09:47 AM
1

Its not a question of whether she is a slut. Its whether she isnt.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:27 AM
2

If she tells you the reason she broke then that’s likely not the actual reason anyway. e.g. ”I want a boyfriend” can be translated to: you don’t give me enough tingles to fuck you without providing for me as well, someone else with higher SMV wants to be my boyfriend, I’m fucking too many other guys right now to fit you in etc etc. It’s not worth even thinking about, let alone trying to get an answer from her. Even if OP gave her enough tingles to fuck her without providing for her. After some t…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:18 AM
11

Women have a backward situation where if she is attracted to you, but she likes you or thinks you like her, she will be less sexual with you than she would with a guy she is attracted to that she doesn't like and isn't worried likes her. Attracted to a beta. For chad she'll do anything. Fuck him behind a dumster "wow so exciting and hot, he really cant control himself" For Billy "Ew gross, how can you be so sex obsessed"
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 04:26 PM
2

When the red river flows, Take the dirt road home.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:24 PM
1

Betteridge's law of headlines Your correct its low attraction. Or your gut feel about her pushing for LTR is why she declined. She wants to seem like a "good girl" and not a slut like stacy. Wait a week or two then hit her up. Escalate if you get the bang string her along or LTR or whatever you want to do.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 05:26 PM
13

I though it was a comfort test too but then figured its a shit test. Comfort tests are about herself. This was "do YOU even want me in YOUR life"
/r/askTRP01/09/20 05:24 PM
1

I don't like my gf very much. I mean she's fine, but I'm with her because it's convenient for the time being. There's absolutely no future with her. I don't care if it ends. I had this same issue. Let her go meet her "friend". It is your ego. You admitted she's more of a plate for you. Let it be get easy pussy. Line up her multiple replacements then ease her off.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:12 PM
1

I have cut off "close" friends who have done shitty things. Some examples for entertainment value:- My former best friend hit up an ex at 4am (she told me but he denied it)- Two friends who choose to continue to be around my cheating ex after witnessing what it put me through- A friend who chose some pussy over me when I needed help I see nothing wrong. Question though did your friends know your ex before you? Some people believing in not burning bridges. You believe "May the bridges I burn ligh…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:09 PM
1

The friends see your girl being strung along as themselves being strung along in some weird way. https://i.imgur.com/dO26hGo.jpeg
/r/askTRP27/08/20 06:22 PM
2

meh. But this seems to be the only way to get them off my back. I like to avoid meeting plate friends. In the past is sends out potential bf vibes. And right now that is now my scene.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:44 PM
3

I hate it when they do this. They get the ASD unnecessarily up. And then its a next. Wouldnt mind in usual times but with lockdown again, plates dropping faster than I can replace.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:43 PM
10

Yes. Women say these words to their orbiters. Make her your orbiter.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:41 PM
10

she’s not my type and I didn’t want to ruin the friendship Are you a woman? Just say she's an uggo no need to sugar coat it. Unless she's a fatty then definitely don't sugar coat it cause she'll eat that too. ​ Use their regular words they give oribters against them. "I dont think we should spoil what we have. Our friendship is too valuable and I would be devastated to lose you" Either way she isnt going to stick around much.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:07 PM
3

Girl came over she texted dont expect anything shit test. Plausible deniability for her ASD. She's fickle. Most women are. Probably should not have asked her again the next day.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:55 AM
3

As long as OP doesnt open his mouth to say any gay shit or apologize. In fact I once teased a girl saying she needs a refresher course.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:29 PM
1

Yeah, that's why I'm amazing at doggy style The only A&A that works.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:12 PM
3

But then she always said that her family, and herself too will always end up settling for an indian guy and Reason for her liking me: Meets her future needs and stable future. You answered yourself twice. Because youre a special case of stupid. FIND A REPLACEMENT and DUMP HER.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:06 PM
10

You'll always be compared to someone who can do no wrong. If youre ok with the emotional baggage. Go ahead no one can stop you. Find another girl without the baggage. Think of buying a house in a neighbourhood. Everything's perfect except there was some murder or some random shit (which will affect the future resale). You wait it out and buy another house in the same neighbourhood or another good neighbourhood.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:51 AM
3

https://heartiste.org/2013/10/30/alpha-of-the-month-porfirio-rubirosa/ I have contemplated this strategy. Use the woman for expenses and keep investing my money. But I dont think I would pull it off.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:40 AM
34

An autist who learnt his lesson.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 05:45 PM
6

Yes. Hit her up after her exams. Your mindset is wrong. "Is she attracted to me" NOPE it should BE "AM I ATTRACTED TO HER?"
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:59 PM
24

Pull back. Give her less attention. Uni exam is legit, dont add to her stress. No Contact doesnt work after just two days.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:00 PM
2

Any advice on how I should proceed if I want to keep the relationship? Stop being a bitch. Your relationship is over. Also your friend isnt really your friend. You fucking hookers gave her the excuse to fuck someone else. The advise her of a "break" is permanent. Or give her enough space that she lands on mars. I don't just wanna throw it all away Sunk Cost Fallacy Any advice on how I should proceed if I want to keep the relationship? If she contacts you use her for sex. You'll have the best 2-3…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:08 PM
9

She's too lazy to delete your number.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:05 PM
15

So marry for money. Sound awfully similar to Dowry. But yeah I agree with this post. I agree if I were getting married I rather have the HB7 with a larger inheritance than the HB8. Do you think with dowry coming into play fathers would be more controlling of daughters assuming a larger dowry for higher n-count women?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 05:28 PM
56

" After quarantine I think I got too comfortable and I just started overeating and not doing any exercise. I gain weight terribly fast so I’ve easily gained about +44 pounds. " When she stepped on the weighting scale it said "keep social distancing, one person at a time" Props to the guy for following through. I agree he should have stopped her earlier.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 05:18 PM
14

Much much harder than being seen as an alpha by a new girl. You said what I wanted to. I tried it in the past but the amount of shit test and disrespect is not worth the wet hole.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 06:09 PM
1

she thinks you're badass becuz you don't need her, so she wants your attention and validation Well I had to pull her back. Was too horny to let her stew in her BS. The verbal abuse was push or more likely shove I thought I needed a pull. So went a bit beta when setting up the date. "...of course your daddy's girl..."
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:07 PM
1

So I understand that I made her insecure because telling a girl to piss off is not something done by everyone. But her coming back is something difficult to wrap my mind around. Do their emotional highs only register in magnitude. I was a bit beta to get her spinning again. And surprisingly it worked
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:04 PM
1

Now could you have been kinda emotional by telling a girl to piss off that flaked on you twice, yea. But you're still sticking up for yourself which is what women want. Yeah thats why the dissonance. She had messaged "you cant treat me like this, blah blah so can I." And I knew I lost frame and it was over. But whatever I hit her up 3 days later cause other plate was shark week. Cant wrap my mind around my being emotional (verbally assaulting) and she still stuck around.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:00 PM
1

Di Carlo Escalation Ladder. Dont try straight for the pussy. You need to moisten it first. Faggot Dont apologize. Good riddance. You dont need female friends like her. Did you get what you wanted from her, NO so how does it matter if she is your friend or not.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:55 AM
4

Arent all girls damaged nowadays? Interesting that she is attracted to verbal abuse. Never got that impression.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:22 AM
1

Anyway, I've got other girls so I just say 'no worries' etc... and focus on not looking needy. Best to sometimes not reply. Really gets the hamster spinning.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:33 AM
1

Like legit why would she want to hangout again if the first time we hungout she saw my advances and didnt reciprocate? Last time this happened with a girl i just assumed she was down and i tried it again but it didnt work out Like you mentioned her actions show otherwise. Look a girl wont be alone with you if she doenst want you to make a move. First time you showed intent but she didnt want to be someone who puts out on the first date. Just go for it.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:32 AM
1

Red Flag. If so many guys were there but none lasted what does that mean. Unrealistic standards or she was the issue.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:10 AM
3

Main obstacle: "what will guys at the gym think of me ??" Yup exactly how I felt when I first joined my gym. Unsure and felt everyone with previous experience was laughing/judging me. I never pushed myself hard enough in the beginning. But then hired a trainer for a bit. The difference that made removed my fear. Expensive but the progress I made in the year post that was amazing. Next year I was friendly with all the trainers and even made some friends some young some old. Also most people at th…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 04:34 PM
1

I meant more for a day visit. If youre spending 2/3 days should be sufficient. But sooner or later the distance will have problems.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:09 PM
1

I was literally thinking handcuffs and ice cubes. Also fuck with the curtains open. Women have a weird fetish of being exhibitionists.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:47 PM
1

I’d never stay on the phone more than 15/20 minutes. Aim for under 10minutes. being flirty over text because I think it just ruins things for me and sets off ASD, thoughts? After fucking a few times up the sexual banter. Before fucking insinuate.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:45 PM
12

Do what you want to do. Seems counter intuitive to get her sad/angry or emo but it works. Just radio silence then hit her up like nothing happened. She wont drop just yet. But sooner or later she will.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:43 PM
4

That is direct. Women are indirect. If you can show indirectly.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:42 PM
4

May be moving 2 hours away Yeah too far. Thats a 4 hour round trip. LDRs are where you spend more time travelling than together.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:42 PM
2

she was just using me for sex I wish more women were like her. You arent her first choice. ​ Is it because it lowers their RMV and ruins their entire game? Winner Winner Chicken Dinner.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 04:40 PM
3

Both. Hey what's up, come jam with me sometime Be more definite next time. Like a specific date/time. Also sometimes women fake interest to get a guy to disappear. What you said doesnt seem like this. Wait a week then invite her out.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 04:38 PM
4

Going against the grain. But you said LTR. Youre supposed to lead. Its good being spontaneous and changing plans sometimes. Being unpredictable but she mentioned she was tired. she told me that she wants to leave in one hour or so and I agreed that we can go then. Technically you should keep your word. However, I was enjoying the party so hard that I decided to stay for another two hours and she got visuably pissed. Soft next.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:59 AM
5

I thought so you may assume foreigner but I could pass off as a north Indian or for some reason Iranian. Sure. PM me.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:08 PM
7

You dont. You're supposed to be disgusted. Enjoy them for what they are. Clearly most girls won’t tell you how many people they’ve been with, so you can never truely know. But how do you work out in your head being with a girl who has had plenty of other guys sexually? Be non-judgmental. Shit they tell you here works. A plate once brought up so much shit all because I told her having sex in a car is nothing wild. She tried to qualify her self by revealing ll her slutty qualities. Enjoy your turn…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:59 PM
20

I beg to differ. I've been to there worked for some time in Mumbai and used to visit Pune and Bangalore. N-counts may be lower but not by much. Most average between 5-10. Its the same that's why AWALT. Girls here love to suck dick as much as the US. Only difference is they do it on the sly and guard their reputations. Slut shaming is rightfully a thing here. Girls here too dont count BJs and HJs. A so called nice girl got into a ONS at a wedding. How many people know about that just her inner gr…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:55 PM
2

Reminds me of gaylubeoil
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 04:38 PM
1

All that matters is whether she is fucking him. If she isnt he is an orbiter. She doesnt want to fuck him but will enjoy his attention maybe even use him as a backup provider if she cant get your commitment. Depending on her age, if she doesnt get commitment from you or some other chad who is spinning her she may just hamster that billy beta is a good guy and make him her Beta Bucks. ​ She showed me messages her friends drafted to reject him nicely and tell him he wasnt what she was looking for.…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:28 AM
3

I let her sit in her mood for a while then messaged her back 45 min later stating I'm on my way and what her address is, she replies with it and tells me the door is open. I arrive and we chat, get into bed. Needy af. Next time minimum 2-3days to let her stew. I arrive and we chat, get into bed. All she has is a thong on and a top, yeah cool we're all green here and we're cuddling in bed. Did you try to initiate too directly? How did she tell you not to touch her? Was she shouting or stern or a …
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:24 AM
15

The wall bothers all women, once they realise it exists. Girl thinks she is hot shit cause multiple chads message her. At 28 billy beta messages her but she wants chad. At 30 she realises she needs to find another billy beta. Hell I was joking with my cousin that if I get married it will be to someone 10 years younger. My cousin got upset and she said that Im a perv and young women wont be as mature and will be boring etc. Indirectly bringing it up also affects them.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:15 AM
4

tldr; inexperience with women is fucking up my game, unable to have sex or even finger a girl because i’m scared to fuck up so I instead run away from the opportunity. How do I overcome this? Get a hooker. A really good looking one. Hope youre in europe. You've built up sex to be this magical thing and because youve never fucked its hyped up. More experience helps. It's difficult to be escalating cause social conditioning says the opposite. First plate I was scared to escalate while making out. …
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:12 AM
5

Dont bring it up. Dont give a fuck and keep frame, she'll fuck you again. I once couldnt get it up so blamed the plate for hitting my balls. She kept messaging apologizing and was submissive kitten the next time. Woman are retarded and if she is as insecure as most women she'll probably think it was her not being attractive enough for you or her fault. If you bring it up or say this never happens etc she'll shift the blame to you.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:06 AM
2

HYPERGAMY.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:47 PM
1

Go radio silent for a week or three, then invite her over again Doing that. Your plate wasn't born yesterday. They wouldn't give a fuck if you were a nobody. Women know jealousy when they smell that shit. Her friends will try to push some nice guy provider. But dont women tend to respect friends opinions since its their reputation they try to guard most. So she would rather comply with them that reach out. Ex I know of a chick who;s friends forced her to breakup. She did it. Thats what annoys me…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:32 AM
1

Yeah. I can do a something small as a last ditch attempt when she reaches out. But for all practical purposes this is a broken plate.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 10:27 AM
1

You ask her to hang out, but she says she’s busy with her friends. Instead of just being like “okay baby, have fun.” She secretly wants you to throw her over your shoulders and take her away from her friends like some caveman. It’s like they are testing how possessive you are of them each time, if you let them do whatever they want ​ Which is why I found this part weird. I always felt pulling away is good. Ideally you should be pulling away. Of course one in a while its fine to tell her to tell …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 01:31 PM
0

You ask her to hang out, but she says she’s busy with her friends. Instead of just being like “okay baby, have fun.” She secretly wants you to throw her over your shoulders and take her away from her friends like some caveman. It’s like they are testing how possessive you are of them each time, if you let them do whatever they want Really. I thought pulling away was the move when she is busy. Or its like "fuck them, youre coming to my place"
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 01:28 PM
1

Even after her friends poisoned her she posted random memes on her wall about me. But she has to take her friends side. I mean, she was right but way to ruin a good thing cunt. Not long after, plate started pushing hard for relationship status so it fizzled out. Bleh Mine is trying to ghost me and be done with it. I dont think she will reach out.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:25 PM
1

Girls still talk to all their bitch and beta gay friends. I followed HumanSockPuppets guide but sometimes shit doesnt go as planned.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:32 AM
1

Its the first flake in weeks. Not going to give in to her friends. I'll pullback and try after a week or two. If she's spinning then good.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:30 AM
2

Not clear. I mean not like I've met them at most its the light switch effect. But then she would have killed the puppy. Do they just hate me cause Im fucking without commitment? And she wants it?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:25 AM
5

I'm not sure anymore whether she's LTR material as I've found out she still in contact with her ex This answers your question. She can never be LTR material at most a plate. Remember the opposite of love is not hate but indifference. If she truly was over her ex she would have ignored him.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:05 PM
1

At one point she told me she's not into me (or not in love...w/e) and that i'm only a fuckbuddy to her. Later she said nvm another dude is her fb and i'm nothing to her...she still came over so ye... Good. Now you have a reason not to LTR. Just get what you need from the cum dumpster. As long as she is fucking youre still a brad on your way to chad. So youre rights things. With some time you;ll become a chad bitches wants commitment from.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:18 PM
1

IDK if I'd buy it when she tells you her friends said that. She showed a screenshot. That single hoe hates my guts cause I havent thrown exclusivity at her friend.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 07:17 PM
1

You sound like youre in Asia. then heard people coming and she quickly sat up and was a bit embarrassed Find a more secluded spot or go at odd hours. Car in a secluded spot works but you gotta get her really wet. Try a the parking garage, of your building, behind a car in a corner. Sneak her in at night. Rent a cheap hotel.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:15 PM
1

Earlier it was a question of whether she is a hoe. Now its a question of whether she is NOT a hoe.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 04:33 AM
1

Women don't care/mind if you're fucking other women, as long as they're getting their needs met as well. I thought this was a joke when I first read "women will share an alpha" or it was only for the giga chads. But recently I didnt provide a plate exclusivity and her friends told her to stop sleeping with me. But she still initiates, maybe is trying for commitment. Until it happens to you, you wont believe it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 04:31 AM
5

I have observed that it is a trend to use this term by women nowadays to cover up any relationship they have. Especially the asshole boyfriend whom she hates. The guy who plated her and she desperately wanted commitment. You want to fuck that guy? Just make him your boyfriend and fuck as much as you want with no consequences! It used to be married or single. Then it moved on to single, dating, married. Now women made up a bunch of terms to hoe around. "Seeing someone, Single but committed etc" J…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 07:05 PM
1

"Be worried when I dont"
/r/askTRP21/07/20 05:59 AM
1

She is too old for you. ​ She asked me to marry her and I've just been positive with the idea because I want to have kids of my own and she adds so much value to my life Yeah She's in the epiphany/entrapment phase. Look youre not comfortable with her past now means you wont be comfortable in the future. You'll always have that resentment. Also a lot of times girls will say they only made out but its actually mouth to south. They'll tell their best friends they only made out and nothing happened …
/r/askTRP21/07/20 05:54 AM
12

You’re only gonna have 1-2 people you can consider real friends in your life. These are the people you trust and connect with. Yup. Childhood friends (group of 10-15 boys) will be there for most but there's less than 3 of them that actually understand and see things from the same perspective. The rest will stab you in the back/fuck your girl the first chance they get. Yeah. Hell some of them went way worse. One guy went and married his close friends ex-fiance. He literally broke up his friendshi…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/20 09:43 AM
3

Just repeat yourself. Dont explain. DARE dont DEER. ​ https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/4349/talking_with_women_always_dare_never_deer
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:20 AM
2

If youre looking a fuck, doesnt matter. For an LTR 0-5 including BJ, Poophole Loophole etc.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 08:28 AM
2

Yes. Women emulate the guy they like. So you know she starts liking shit you do, starts adapting her taste to seem more in sync with you.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:54 PM
2

Not a movie. But watch Narcos. Amado and Pacho have a solid frame. In fact most of the RP guys survive longer.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:44 PM
1

I'd fucking care who the fuck is driving the car that I fucking bought. Of course you would. But laws prevent you from selling 5+ year old cars without major costs so you just leave it be and let others go about vandalizing it and enjoy your newer leased cars. Though I get the point about you buying something that others are getting for free.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:57 AM
1

"Oh, because I like to get rust on my clothes every time I make my way to my Lambo, and I also like to let random people use it" Fair point about possessiveness but what if selling that car would cost me 40% of my net worth so I just leave it be. Let some kids vandalize it and enjoy my Lambos or newer leased BMW.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:54 AM
9

Dont get married. He's not divorcing because of $$$. Smart move. Even if its an open marriage, how can one deal with thoughts of someone fucking your wife/gf You bought a BMW/Merc. A great car. After a few years you lease a Lambo. Maybe after that or during you Lambo lease you get Porsche. You dont really use the BMW/Merc, do you really car who uses it. Sure there is nostalgia and attachment but you have other cars.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:29 PM
3

She should next you. Stop digging through the trash. While good for dread reverse the genders and the advice here would be to next the girl. My gf is mad because my ex, who I stayed friends with after the breakup, is mentored by me in MMA
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:00 PM
0

Yeah. That or look good.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:55 PM
3

Use their phone to take pics. That way they can delete pics with revealing characteristics.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:54 PM
4

"Fake it till you make it" Its more of positive visualization. But you cant sit idle waiting for it to fall into your lap. On a bike/car if you're gonna crash and you try hard focusing to not crash into a tree. Ironically you tend to crash into that tree because youre subconsciously thinking of the tree.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:39 PM
1

I was gonna say its not whether she is a hoe its whether she is NOT.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:26 AM
3

Definitely don’t wife up a girl who has fucked or sucked 10 plus guys lol So many women will fuck only 3 guys but have become better than a dyson at sucking cock.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:24 AM
1

https://heartiste.org/2011/08/16/chicks-dig-jerks-more-scientific-evidence/ https://heartiste.org/2011/09/28/chicks-dig-jerks-norwegian-terrorist-gets-love-letters-in-jail/ https://heartiste.org/2012/10/26/chicks-dig-serial-killers/ https://heartiste.org/2014/11/18/freelance-comment-of-the-week-chicks-dig-charlie-manson/ Like seriously. in the pdf search for jerk/psychopath and just read a few.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:33 PM
1

Treat is as a shit test. Withdraw your attention if she is annoying you. Also most girls havent been told NO. You doing it may get her angry but subconsciously she becomes more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:25 PM
3

a huge entourage of these losers Yeah the way women are treated there made me scared. Women can do no wrong. Showing her the middle finger is jailable. In a way the simps make it easier, always hitting her up but never escalating.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:20 PM
5

She doesnt like to with YOU. She wont say that to some chad.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:17 PM
16

Youre right Dont ask her. It puts the decision on her. Tell her. But obviously not like a sperglord. Also most girls love sucking cock.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:46 AM
1

https://theredarchive.com/Heartiste.pdf Search for jerk and read the articles.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:44 AM
13

AWALT. Its the same in the larger cities. Girls will suck you off on the first date. "It just happened". "Technically a virgin". Its just because of culture they arent as open about it. But isolate them and there is no difference. How do you think the population got so big. IVF? lol Dont really bother marrying them unless theyre rich af. Having said that Indian males are quite beta. They simp a lot.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:44 AM
1

Depends on your friends. I preferred not letting them meet friends unless essential. Keeps some mystery. My so called best friend from childhood decided to exclude me from the group and call an ex. I was disappointed at first. But then I was like fuck it he's also her friend, but at least I know where I stand now.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:49 AM
1

Girls like psychopaths. Check out the jail mail guys on death row get.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:41 AM
1

Yeah too bad most people learn this too late. Wasted soo much time being lead on and dragged around by bitches just wanting validation. "im not in the right head space now" "maybe in a week"
/r/askTRP28/06/20 02:44 PM
2

As others have said her mouths not bleeding is it? I generally try and avoid them during that time.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 02:42 PM
28

Perfectly done. At least she offered to reschedule.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 02:41 PM
8

"Sure" "ok" "youre right" then ghost her for a few weeks. She'll come back, message you etc. Escalate then.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:30 AM
2

Coming to the entrapment, being an amateur bodybuilder I have thorough knowledge with regards to nutrition,hormones and supplementation along with fitness. I meant entrapment phase where they pretend to be something they are not to get a beta bux. ​ Also, are you from India as well? I'm from one of the bigger cities, Pune. I have shut down any chick with a notch count above 5 for LTR. Ive been to India, worked for a long time. I was a few hours away in Mumbai. But Pune isnt too different from my…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:54 AM
1

Back to the friend I find is still talking to and hanging out with her. Is it wrong for me to be disappointed with this and not want to talk to him anymore since he knows as well as I do how shitty of a person she is? Well he is her friend too. Even if he is your best friend. So dissociate when she is present, he'll get the message. Of course him wanting to fuck her is different. Youre not asking him to choose sides you just dont want to be involved with her. Fortunately you know where he stands…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:42 AM
1

She worships me(cooks for me, washes my clothes, massages me post workout...etc) and me being the tech savvy(engineer), I know for a fact that she shuts down orbiters and likewise since she met me and had absolutely no guy "friends" apart from family. This can also be the entrapment phase. ​ This ain't much to the western culture but I'm from India where it's above the norm. Im assuming she is also Indian? If that's the case then you're mistaken. It is the norm in larger cities. She's probably s…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:35 AM
2

Yeah. Do people like these oldies cause once they remove their dentures its like a vacuum
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:54 PM
10

Yeah But why a 60 year hag when theres enough of post wall single moms for these "guys". Does she even get wet. Her bones must be brittle.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:29 PM
-23

Its disgusting and funny at the same time.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:26 PM
27

I tell every guy who doesn't believe it: Crack that IPhone or email acct and meet your girl. Its mindblowing what shit they discuss. Your entire perspective on women changes post this. Years ago I remember bringing up a name of a friend of mine and a funny incident and ex thought it was someone she knew turns out they only shared the same first name. She claimed the guy she knew was a dick for doing something to "her friend". Turns out he was a dick to her. Few weeks later while reading her mess…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 06:58 AM
1

2 words. DAMAGED GOODS. Do not LTR. Her dead bf will always be on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:34 PM
2

A week later she gets back to me and asks to hang out again. Now, I don’t like it when people don’t respect my time and I don’t need this type of behaviour in a girl I’m seeing. Positive reinforcement. So fuck her then go silent till you want to fuck her again. You held frame well not responding to her flake. She knows it. They all do. Calling her out may make you seem needy if not done properly.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:31 PM
2

Lying to gain trust. Reformed slut. Bornagain virgin etc. Technically virgin. Anal or oral was her go to. Gargled enough cum to fill an Olympic pool Fuck must be something wrong. Here they start hoing in middle school and im in a 3rd world country.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:30 PM
1

Theres a post by u/vasilyzaitsev on dating models search for it.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:24 PM
1

Higher than you'd like.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:44 PM
4

​ Like this guy? https://heartiste.org/2013/10/30/alpha-of-the-month-porfirio-rubirosa/ You probably need global status.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:42 PM
1

She should be worried that you grow tired of her bullshit and nagging one day and just look for a younger, better looking version of her.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:37 PM
1

once a week. If youre in an LTR twice a week is probably alright Whats the boundary. Im assuming she doesnt know its a boundary for you. Bring it up covertly. "I cant believe watermelons bitch did xyz. If I were watermelon I would break up on the spot/wouldnt tolerate it etc" Or if she is asking some shit like can I go for a coffee with my ex, you know Chad or some common sense bullshit which she knows isnt ok "You can do what you want but my gf doesnt do xyz" or "I dont date girls who xyz" if s…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:33 PM
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How do you guys deal with the fact they never cared for you in their golden days and now that there are no better options left, they are finally giving you a shot? You dont. Best revenge - get with a younger girl that is more than enough. It conveys she doesnt meet your standards. ​ Having said that feel free to pump and dump them. But actions have consequences one of them might be beyond batshit crazy,
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:28 PM
5

slipped up along the way (body count 2) lol. "The others dont count, Ass doesnt count, it was only a BJ" REFORMED SLUT. read the entire rational male. "Wait for it" "Saving the best" and "Quality Women" come to mind.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 10:23 AM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/23/schedules-of-mating/ Avoid them for a few days before shark week cause they get too emotional/sensitive.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:43 PM
1

True. The only rare exceptions are the ones that say we should hang out and she is free whenever convenient for me.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:41 PM
2

https://media.giphy.com/media/NSRhIltQb6QyQ/giphy.gif Bewares she's a thot. Push through her LMR in the car. Generally only girls you've already fucked are so direct ie sometimes a girl is really horny and if you've fucked her she'll just say it out loud so you get the hint to escalate.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:35 PM
1

Never text her again if she doesn't offer to reschedule respond/text Some women will never initiate a hangout for whatever reason. Ive had a chick who would keep hovering in my inbox thats like a hint for me to call her over.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:15 PM
3

Lol no. AWALT. They hide it. How do you think the population got to over a billion? Fucking is their no one sport not cricket. The women in India will definitely blow anyone hot enough. Typical girl in a large city has blown at least 10 guys and they'll give anal to preserve their virginity. Hell first date you wont get the pussy but you'll get her mouth. But once you fuck them they become super clingy.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:38 PM
1

I've been talking to this girl over quarantine She isnt even your LTR. Less than 2/3 months and youre so deep in her frame. Youre a fucking faggot bitch. No girl wants to just talk to you. That being said. Hit her up again to hang out. If she accepts then good and fuck her and leave. If not there is always another younger, tighter. Maybe she is stressed out too and didnt want to talk to you. Women live in the moment. Assuming that was your only weakness then wait a week or two and hit her up.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:13 PM
9

If you want to fish you don't ask a fish for advice on how to catch them. You ask the fisherman.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:57 PM
6

By showing her you can walk away easily. If its a boundary which you think she wont know then during the promotion itself. Cause that is when she wants your commitment but you dont give it for free. Obviously you cant have a list of things. But maybe 3 really important "values". I read somewhere here how a guy said "no baby you dont want that, you wont like it... That would involve you not xyz." Other just say "no gf of mine does xyz. You can do what you want but my gf does not do xyz"
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:43 PM
4

I agree I think funerals are stupid. I dont attend funerals since they wont attend mine. /s
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 02:04 PM
4

A powerful dominant alpha would continue to go after his prize and a beta would fold under the pressure. Whats the difference between going after a girl as an alpha and a simp? At some point isnt it chasing the girl a lot? I get that its the pull. But wheres the line where you'd know when to cut your losses short and stop chasing?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 01:18 PM
1

Focusing on new girls right now, and have 2 dates lined up. Are you really? I mean youre still focused on her. The dynamics change for a (low n-count) girl after sex. So you can still hit her up next week. Sometimes they are genuinely busy and wont reschedule but will hit you up again. Thats when you know if she agrees to meet up again or using you for validation. No contact applies to anyone and everyone.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:59 PM
5

She says she has to sort this stuff out and she can't go out with me because of all this. Medium is the message: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/ On one hand he shows beta mate guarding tendencies but on the other he took her through one hell of an emotional rollercoaster. If he is as violent as he claims do you really want to die over a wet hole?
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:56 PM
1

Buy you shit. Doesnt even have to be expensive. Or do things you want to and she tags along. She will rationalize that even though she doesnt care for xyz the fact that she accompanied you with it means she must see you as something not to lose.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:41 PM
8

This is you: "I cant trust you, You like me and I dont even like myself" Stop being a bitch. They like you, just go fuck them good. Maybe, just maybe youre scared of the sluts? IDK
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:40 PM
3

https://i.imgur.com/3USgt2g.jpg?fb First, babies SUCK. They cry and poop a lot. Your marital satisfaction will drop through the fucking floor. Second, you don’t want “children”, what you want is adults who are your genetic progeny who are “cool” by which I mean: have not turned out to be defective in some way – retarded, meth heads, criminals, assholes, etc. Dont forget vomit. Second point is spot on for most people. Also people want a child so they can live their dreams through the child. Plus …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 12:33 PM
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https://i.ytimg.com/vi/HsgqEFbt8mA/hqdefault.jpg
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:13 PM
3

STFU. This is you being a bitch trying to rationalize a reason to contact her.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:12 PM
12

To get you to post here, so we tell you to next uninterested women. Makes life easier.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:57 PM
1

You did good. Dont say it. Hold frame if you dont think youre wrong. Hold steady. Eg. plate got sensitive on something I said. She kept insisting I apologize. I ignored it and went my way. She got pissed. 5 days later she reached out. She still called me a jerk etc for not apologizing but few days later wanted to hang out.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:55 PM
3

Define uglier. A 5 or 6. Will work better with a 7. To 9 this may backfire as she will assume that is all your capable of. You'll have social proof but the less of a difference in beauty the more in your favour.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:51 PM
1

There are probably people drawing up plans for it right now. Probably something like the humans in wall-e. How long will it be before being an absolute slag is the norm Looks like the norm currently. They just hide it. Few years back a family friend introduced me to a nice girl. Shit she was as depraved as the others. Her friends are even worse and their behaviour confirmed lot us shit I've read since then. Weirdly there is one chick in their group who is a virgin because she is actually saving …
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:13 PM
2

Current and maybe next few gens wont. But once them cat ladies realise they were given weak promises then a few gens post that might change.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:55 PM
1

Also, dont want to be that guy but social media fucked up allot x2. Fucking simps inflating the average fatties. If they werent already fat they now have matching fat ego. A friend I know sadly simps so hard for a 6. Unbelievable how his "goodnight cutie", "I wnt to grab those tits" or "what you up to princess" and other faggot ass shit that makes her think she is a 9.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:54 PM
1

I actually got my question from there. In the update he said that even though we are past the peak the bubble still hasnt popped. I assume a generation or two of riding the CC before the new gen wisens up? Also if marriage requires 80% of male participation but the blog said maybe feminist will shame (already done) guys to "Man up and marry that slut" or coerce with Uncle Sam's help.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:50 PM
2

I asked a few of them out during quarantine and they said yes, tho there is a possibility of them flaking. Nice. I don't get part about inviting them out, then isolating. What's the difference between the two? Isn't inviting them out itself isolating, since we're not in a group anymore? My bad. I thought you might invite them in a group. ​ Yeah they arent as innocent as they seem, especially in the large cities.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:41 PM
1

I guess ONS doesnt matter but plate/FWB/LTR
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:38 PM
1

Ignore her.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:31 PM
2

I told her we’re gonna take a break over quarantine this led to her crying and blowing up my phone for about a week. Lol. You broke up with her. You shouldnt have said this. Just maybe message a or two during that month. Dont be so overt with women.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:07 PM
3

facetime and texting) and know that both of us are cool with a no-strings-attached setup Or maybe she wasnt cool and her friend is an excuse to break it off. You got her ASD up. Youre agreeing to her frame btw.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:05 PM
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I've had some female friends mostly the last 4 years Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Some of them show choosing signals Man the fuck up. Invite …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:03 PM
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Nope. Live with it. At least you've learnt something. Read the other sidebar for the other iron rules. Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:59 PM
1

How will your apartments know? Also if you know its gonna open up in 2 weeks. Im sure you can wait it out.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:58 PM
9

take that away and you take away any power and relevance they have to you. Well said. Had a similar situation but difference was I was simping she gave the ljbf something inside me broke. I snapped said ok smiled and then proceeded to ignore her. Maybe a text or two for every 10 she sent. She was trying to hang with mutual friends to gather my attention etc but I always made other plans. Friends told me I dropped her like a hot potato. Finally fucked her.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 07:49 PM
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Absolute Madlad. Its not wrong. Its not revenge porn because technically he bought a product but then again he cant redistribute. Probably illegal depending on cybercrime laws. If their father is a beta cuck he probably thinks they are not doing anything wrong.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:30 AM
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Me: “im sure we will have fun later” Wrong. You just activated her ASD. You could have just said something like "only if you play your cards badly" or someshit.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:27 AM
10

After TRP I dont look at it as lying blatantly to their face. http://archive.is/L3Jas Sex for men is the same as attention for women. Women dont understand that. If women keep orbiters for attention you can keep a harem for sex.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:33 AM
1

Is it attention seeking? She’s just bored when she texts me? Should I just keep playing the waiting game and see if she texts first? Cause at this point if she doesn’t text first she’s never hearing from me again lmao I don’t play games. Yes. She just wants validation. If it doesnt interest you keep her on read. Invite her post the quarantine.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 08:16 AM
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Not give a fuck if she leaves or not. Less thinking on your part which leaves you more energy for more productive work. Beyond that lifting. Shit the difference is massive. Initially a cougar or two would compliment me then it progressed to young ones. I swear on days after I deadlift it's like my confidence skyrockets and I feel like I'm taller even though my posture is the same.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 08:02 AM
1

I wouldnt say nobody. Hugh Hefner. Hell theres a director in my old organization who snagged a hot tight 25yo. But yeah LTR makes it easier than going out finding plates etc.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:53 PM
9

Whats wrong with her mouth? Also whats wrong with having sex on a period? I mean she may say no but thats just ASD.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:51 PM
1

Because she is the only pussy you have. On a subconscious level you are disgusted thatswhy you posted here. But youre rationalizing that she's changed and youre captain save a hoe.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:02 AM
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So theres a genuine reason that she actually didnt know that male guy would be there. Happens sometimes but most often not. I think that no matter how 'Red Pilled' somebody can become, something like this can bring the BP out in them (issuing ultimatums, losing frame etc). Red Pilled guys dont do LTRs. LTR is BP.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:48 AM
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No. Cause women need to get a clear picture which a single meeting cant but they do get swayed. If youre not swole they say they get intimidated sometimes it could be because they think they dont have a chance with you. Dont bother wasting time on what they think. What they do is more telling. Ex a plate's friend told her to stop fucking me. Plate agreed iwth that friend but then still came over because apparently another friend said something else. She can say she is intimidated but actually be…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:45 AM
3

I constantly have to initiate meeting up (before covid) Thats normal. You have to lead. Generally a plate wont go out and suggest a meetup but she may message or some shit. Thats your cue. ​ It's a pain I can't shake. HOWEVER, I still decide to stay on because of the good things, the nice conversations, her nice voice, her nice body. While its good you know she is a hoe. How are you not disgusted by the town bike being your LTR. You have a scarcity mindset. Just ghost her. It wont be easy especi…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:40 AM
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Doesnt matter what kind. As long as she finds you attractive she'll be humoured. If a girl is interested she'll do anything to keep you.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:35 AM
1

Yup. Plus after he fucks her she still has doubts etc and shit tests. Its not the same as a chick who has high interest from the beginning. OPs chick would still have doubts over OP and shit test him hard and expect not to break frame before she becomes a HI chick.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:35 AM
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If she didn’t fuck you the first time what makes you think this time will be any different Eh. Possible. Ive done it a couple of times. Was it worth it no but back then I didnt know better. Assuming he went complete no contact and didnt even reply. He can invite her over escalate and fuck. Looking back it wasnt worth it because changing her impression of beta to alpha was such a headache. Thefuckton of shittests, wasnt worth it. Theres a reason they say to move on and Iron Rule #7. Main issue is…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:49 PM
7

A phone call lasting hours every night. Are you her girlfriend?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:24 AM
1

"Tell me something new, something I dont already know"
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:02 AM
1

Yeah but if he states it she tests the it to faze our boy and he drops her then she becomes his slut puppy. She will try everything to get back but he keeps dangling the carrot.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:01 AM
1

This is said enough of times here. Find somone who shares the same values or how does it bother you on your turn. Most women think its normal. You need to work on your frame and then lead. Ideally when she pushes for commitment thats when you can set the boundary. Otherwise like others said youre gonna seem insecure. "I dont date girls who communicate with their ex" Its easier to find someone younger and with less baggage, than trying to get it to work. You cant control her actions only yours. I…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:59 AM
2

You sexualize the conversation so that you dont become her girlfriend. But you dont become a simp and say "oh wow youre so hot". Keeping things sexualized doesnt overly state youre attracted to her and thats what keeps her hamster spinning and giving her feelz. "is he funny or does he like me" When you tell her overly/directly you kill the mystery and attraction.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 08:42 PM
1

Only text her something if it is relevant and/or reminds you of something shared in a conversation with her. Honestly not sure how quarantine texting should be for someone you got the # but couldnt meet up. keep the messages to max once or twice a week.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:21 PM
1

Yeah. Get the meetup ASAP. Might be difficult if youre under restrictions etc. Its better to let her think about you than trying to stay in her mind by messaging.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:03 PM
6

Saying hey Amanda, hope you have a fun and productive week Faggot. Might as well chop off your balls. Let her reach out. Reach out only if you have something interesting to say or to initiate a date. OP can you confirm that you fucked this chick because I dont think you have.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:08 PM
0

Let them talk. Sometimes its random shit and you find it annoying. Othertimes there i's a nugget or two which helps. Years before I started lifting some old guy family friend (45-50+) advised me to join the gym and broaden my shoulders.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:05 PM
2

Interesting way to put it. I always viewed platonic --> sexual as quite impossible or not worth the trouble.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 05:59 PM
0

You needy bitch. Stop asking so much. Maybe her family problems are genuine. Someone could possibly be really vulnerable. Maybe she cant cross over to come near you with quarantine. I know I cant get out barely 30mins. Stop giving her so much attention. Once you do her hamster will make her want to meet you.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:56 PM
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Lol. I used to think conservative societies are different but AWALT. I was in an Asian country which is supposedly conservation. The girls there are no less. And Im talking the ones who appear to be innocent. But the fact that you are in a rural area means more emphasis is placed on traditional family values. So they may not want too much PDA. While walking you can guide her with by placing your hand on the small of her back or just grab her hand as you would to a child while crossing a street. …
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:46 AM
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True. But subconsciously wouldnt she feel that maybe he took so much time means he isnt a real chad who only took 2 nights. Plate is gonna crash quickly and its better to find a new chick. Also what about Rollos rule. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighb…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 09:33 AM
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But if she is a friend assuming you've known her for a few years at least and you didn't escalate earlier then havent you in essence become part of her non sexual friends. Its been said that you should always try to bed a girl asap.Your time horizon for sleeping with her gets chopped. Now knowing her for so long you'll probably the one who took the most time to get her to bed. Would she not have a doubt that more along the lines of he was too scared to make a move earlier rather than her think m…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 08:16 AM
1

Unfortunately women get more attention from men simps. Thats just the way it is. You had a perfect opportunity to show you dont give a flying fuck. In fact so much so that you could have teased her about going on a date with him ect. Agree and Amplify. Or tease her about everyone having feelings for her. The guy had to go get drunk to even hit on her. Imagine the confidence he has made her drier than the sahara. You lost frame. Dont confront him, forbidden fruit is always sweeter.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:48 AM
2

Weaponised autism ftw.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:56 PM
2

in anxiety of finding someone who I enjoy being with Lack of abundance. You were born alone and you're gonna die alone. Let that sink in. Once you realise that most women just put up a facade of innocence you'll probably not have many emotions except getting off.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:51 PM
0

Are you a lesbian? If not stick you dick in her and tell her to rub herself.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:48 PM
1

Supposed good girl exchange student from a poorer country, religious, extremely family oriented, etc. AWALT Dont LTR her. Double standards or not women when having casual sex should do it only with one person if they ever want the upgrade otherwise its all fair game for plates.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:43 PM
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There's a lot of anger buried inside of me and it's making me resent all women Only advice I can give is channel that in the gym. Or rage fuck a plate or two. Look most guys have gone through what you went through. Hell I went through it too. So much for the shit we are taught. Im not really angry just disappointed that I see things differently now. Its like a child being told santa clause isnt real.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:41 PM
2

You can do it. Is it worth it. Personal experience once the rose tinted glasses come off I was disgusted by what I found out. Funny how once we fuck a girl we tend to see more red flags and feel disgusted but its the opposite for them. Go get your victory fuck and I can guarantee you'll be disgusted with her after learning more once the glasses come off. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting t…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:39 PM
1

You know what to do. Are you hoping someone tells you otherwise. Also for the record she isnt over him. If you can handle it just use her for sex.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:35 PM
3

As long as you give her tingles she'll stay when youre broke. If you become wealthy she'll stay because you have $$$ but might cheat or might not if you still give her tingles.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:20 PM
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Anywhere. Her place the stairwell etc. Women will fuck a guy anywhere. Bringing women to my parents house is not possible. Why not. Cant you sneak them in?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:18 PM
1

Women want a winner. So she is shit testing to see whether youre worthy secretly she hopes you pass it. She doesn't want to win she wants you to win. go to r seduction and comments/dekr1t/she_is_rooting_for_you
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:58 PM
2

She wouldn’t do the car sex though, I tried. Too worried about “privacy”. She wanted my house or a room. My house is a no rn; and I don’t trust rooms with covid going on Yeah thats what they say. They want things to just happen.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:45 PM
1

Yup. She realises maybe her value isnt as high as it used to be and all this is a facade for her to entrap OP as her beta bux.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:44 PM
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"These hoes aint loyal" If you dont fuck her someone else will. You arent responsible for her guy and sooner or later he's going to find out. Now of course depending on where you live its more than a moral issue. Some guys will kill the other person and believe their hoe is loyal.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:09 PM
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Go with both. The worse # of women to have is ONE not NONE. As Zoidberg says "why not both" i replied that I felt the same but this could not work. Stop being a fag. Youre her orbiter. Look only after youve had your PENIS inside a girl do things change a bit. Until then youre an orbiter. As for your plate maybe she wants the upgrade. Read the sidebar about the talk. Helps you prolong before plate breaks if you dont want to give her the upgrade.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:07 PM
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Its only awkward if you think its awkward. The girl wants you to escalate. Although she may fight you she wants you to win. ​ feeling distant and out of the conversation This is ok. But listen and dont try to one up. Ex if someone says theyve gone to the maldives and youve been there before. Dont drop in that you have. People dont like the spotlight taken away from them. Instead actively ask a question or two. Ask maybe what was their favourite experience or if they mentioned some activity probe…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:59 PM
0

Earlier I would condemn this post as cheating is wrong blah blah. But I completely agree with it now and wish I knew earlier that sex for men is the same as attention for women.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:53 PM
1

Agree and Amplify. Seriously two things always work. Agree & Amplify and Silence.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:49 AM
12

Not as long as you do it at a high point. Her ASD will kick in if you kiss at the end especially if youre dropping her off. Always create that vibe you dont want to her to think of you to be as sexual as a lamp.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:48 AM
9

You realize when girl like you you wont have to entertain her she'll enjoy your company and even a shitty joke is hilarious to her. WHen a girl laughs at shitty jokes its mainly that she is attracted to him and trying to qualify herself. Basically you can be witty or serious doesnt matter as long as she enjoys herself. Do what you want to and if you enjoy it she will too.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:44 AM
1

Is it possible that women dont sap the male fire and passion and the BP males change their fire/passion to making the woman their number 1 priority?
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:34 PM
1

She'll choose him all the damn time, and will never initiate anything with me unless I force it. Medium is the message. She already chose him. You already know what to do.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:33 PM
1

Miscommunication. I didnt correlate working enough with her happy. I meant I work long hours it sucks but its what Im happy doing since it helps fund my passions. But some men work because their goal in life is "to make/keep this woman happy" Do you mean BP men who bend over backwards for every little thing? Those are men who dont have any goals for themselves. Precisely. I have a friend who is quite successful with his own business, he is viewed as a typical beta bux but has some RP characteris…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:32 PM
1

Yeah whats the deal with them. If youre working hard for something might as well enjoy the fruits of your labour right? People can argue that money doesnt buy happiness but it buys me my Ducati and that puts a smile on my face so yeah if given the opportunity I'll place my job over any girl. Sure I understand working hard for kids etc but like you said why do they work hard for someone else. My boss is BP as hell, he was gonna buy an Aston as his fun car but his wife said no because its too diff…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:22 PM
3

haha. I'm actually disgusted by women's behaviour but that's their nature and the price I have to pay for my relentless biological compulsion to mate with them.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:57 PM
7

Yeah but shouldnt people think like "If I get paid, I get laid" I mean Ive noticed the plate may get pissed etc try to get me to apologize for keeping my work a higher priority than her. Whats weird is people dont notice that it actually builds attraction or an effective way for dread if in an LTR cause those hamsters think its an affair or the guys gonna leave them etc.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:48 PM
4

Having a pussy. All women are walking red flags. More than the girl find out about the 5 people she chills with the most. And bitchy/slutty friends. Most telling sign of red flags
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:24 PM
3

"relax we just met and youre already telling me about your problems. Im not your therapist" "So do I" "I have a gold fish" Her confused or what??. "I though we were listing things that were irrelevant in our lives" "Thats ok. Ill be your manfriend" Just google there's like so many good ones.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:31 PM
1

My LTR is implying that I am small, This and body dysmorphia. At one time I had a friend who had the best physique out of all of us and I felt fuck Im working hard but cant see progress. Funnily enough one day his girl made a few of us measure arms, chest etc. Ironically he had one of the smallest arm sizes but all of us felt they looked large cause he had low bodyfat. You probably feel small because you dont have definition. You dont have definition because you still have a thin layer of fat co…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:39 PM
1

True. But I feel it depends on the context.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:01 PM
1

stress in work for example Youre expected to handle that. She isnt supposed to be a therapist. On the other hand if you lost a job because of this whole lockdown and are stressed because you know its gonna take some time before you find something and they leave then they arent worth it.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 07:57 PM
1

Been A&A all the time and just had fun with it. Well done. but if it's a girl you would like to try more with I think a little betaness and comfort is necessary? One that works is a "dont ask dont tell policy" I think if she knows I'm sleeping with others while seeing her now she would run to the hills since she strikes me as a LTR type of girl Lol no. She'll return or before she runs she'll ask you to drop the others. Read the talk. LTRs are fucked up. Sex for men is attention for women. She ex…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:00 PM
2

Hindsight is 20-20. Remember she isnt your therapist. Well not sure what you spewed out to her but from my understanding if you said xxx was dark etc and ended like you overcame xxx or whatever issue or made peace with it. They wont bother too much but if you didnt and said something along the lines xxx affected me and thats why I am affect and havent made some improvement. Thats bad. I think youre in the safe zone. It came out like you said the former, you had some issues but you faced them and…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:48 PM
1

Still props for the age comment.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:38 PM
2

before I ask her to be my girl but she basically already is. Better to let her bring it up. You continue as is. I do have other girls I talk to but I’m kind of more interested in her. Then you dont have other girls you have only her. If everyones a superhero no one is. Basically ensure all your plates/fwb's are of the same level so you dont get too into one chick. Everything has been going well since last month, we’ve fucked, and I can kind of tell she’s in love me and she like always does stuff…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 12:37 PM
1

MILF who is far past the wall All mothers are past the wall even the 18 year olds. So I said to her for a woman your age it's a little premature to play text games and she lost it Quite direct sounds butthurt. But I laughed. A neg would have been better "you look good... for a woman your age"
/r/askTRP27/04/20 08:49 AM
1

Fuck off with that negative mindset. She wants you to kiss her like a man not asking like a faggot. Laugh it off. If you feel weird so will she. If you laugh it off she will be intrigued and maybe youll get the bang. Assume attraction. Fake it that she wants to suck you dry and she will.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 08:43 AM
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She is a reformed slut. https://therationalmale.com/2013/03/19/quality-women/ Also Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
/r/askTRP27/04/20 08:42 AM
1

No dummy. There is no right moment. She wont care about it being perfect. Look I was once in your place before TRP. Girl called me over alone at her place she ordered a pizza and we were eating it. I fucked up. She gave me two other chances like that to escalate and everytime I said its not the right time. Finally when I did make a move a whole 6 months later she told "me glad you did it because I was thinking you werent attracted and I would never make the first move" Now if I'm in the same pos…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 10:02 AM
1

"judge what she does not what she says" When she is sober she is trying to save face, in the unlikely event you reject her. Women dont make the move because they cant handle rejection. You sort of kissed she isnt sure and from her point of view its like youre letting her down easy. When she was drunk that was her true intention. Grow a pair with hair and isolate and escalate if you want to fuck or she will forever view you as sexually as she views a lamp.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 08:01 PM
14

Being genuinely nice without any expectations = You Being nice to fuck = Most beta bucks conditioned by society that girls like nice guys.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:44 PM
1

Oneitis. Bro she cant be more direct than that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKT4f_u7sNQ I mean technically you can get your victory fuck but you'll become too attached to her. Isolate and escalate. There's enough material here and on seddit. "A starving man will eat whatever's put in front of him" You feel like she is your best option because she is your only option.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:42 PM
4

I saw early on red flags bigger than the URSS flag but I kept lying to myself. Lol As we have friends in common, how should I act in case she begins talking shit about me? Smile and wave.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:24 PM
1

There was this movie I watched some time back. Fight Club. Pretty interesting one. There was a rule in the movie about this fictional club. It goes something like "The first rule of fight club is we do not talk about fight club"
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:20 PM
1

We both established that we'll still continue talking to other people a few weeks ago. Ok. She kept telling my group about the guys messaging her and getting food from them. Was very open about it. I see no problem. Women do this to try and qualify themselves as desirable. I told her to stop toying with them as a joke. Hold up .... Not sure how you said it. She could see this as a 180 from what youll previously agreed. She reveals she really likes me and is confused with what I want, etc. Pretty…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:17 PM
5

Holy fuck. I was just gonna say this. Women have an inflated ego. With all the simps around they think they deserve gigachads. Hardly few girls think the guy has higher SMV until they hit their epiphany phase.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:46 PM
5

Isolate and Escalate. Dont be a bitch. Since youre such good friends just call her over to watch something. She'll know whats up and you'll get your answer.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:10 PM
1

I really feel disrespected Why. Looks like you have oneitis. Maybe you got played because you became a beta cuck. Her saying your fwb was testing the waters to see whether youre open to a relationship or not. You were literally Alpha fucks. Fucking without commitment. Good job you blew that. She said she has a male friend that he is like a brother to her. In most cases she will never sleep with the guy but thrives on his attention especially if she knows him from school or from kindergarten. I d…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:09 PM
5

Yeah he's not gonna face too bad a problem as long as he keeps fit and doesnt give in to all her demands. But in 10 years when he lets go of himself she's gonna think of all the shit she "missed out" on. Are her friends slutty? That is a bigger indicator. They'll create unnecessary drama.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:00 PM
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Vet your plates better. Wrap it before you tap it. Dont go down on her. Have a shower with her. I should be the only one with a circle. She'll expect the same unless youre really high value. Technology has inflated these hoes ego. But otherwise listen to my man Gandhi.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:53 PM
1

"Youre right you should be asking me out." Set a day/time. Give her the illusion of choosing a place. (either chads pub or brads bar). "You're buying my first round."
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:48 PM
2

Is he the first she ever slept with? If not. After he gets divorce raped. Send him a few books.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:44 PM
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if I wanna do something, I do it, I’ve always been unpredictable Well good for Peter this allowed him to get his turn, but sadly he missed the point and went so sappy it gave me cancer. Well OP you did the right move by not telling her to shut it down/block her. It would increase his value in her eyes because it made you "insecure" . Next time some shit like that happens you should say "he sounds fun why dont you invite him over for dinner. I might even become his best bro since we already are e…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:41 PM
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Texting her ex is a hard next tho. Completely agree. Maybe OP didnt set the gauntlet down early on and she continues thinking its normal. Unfortunately so many guys go silent or when they broach the topic the girl says youre controlling and then they backpedal not realising its a shit test and if not better to walk away. But she is fucking him good.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:21 PM
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Well for starters your sister thinks her "gf" just cheated on her with you. Unfortunately for you its not gonna play out like a porno.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:19 PM
1

Im not 9. Im 9 and a half.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:40 PM
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I keep wanting them to come back and reverse the power dynamics in my favor once and for all. Everyone wants this or has thought of this. But realistically sometimes you just cant. If tomorrow elon musk did some shit to you and you wanted revenge you'd have to become better than him at whatever you wanted to extract revenge on. Good motivator. But the best way is to think they dont exist. Somewhere on trp I read the opposite of love isnt hate. Its indifference. Be indifferent. Go do what you wan…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 08:15 AM
1

They hate you cause they aint you.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:13 PM
2

Read Sex God Method. Theres a way to get a girl emotionally invested in you.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:10 PM
8

the fact she hasn't blocked his number and wished him happy birthday means you're already fucked. Its annoying that women think its acceptable behaviour.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:03 PM
2

Firstly, I wouldnt tolerate an LTR being friendly or communicating with any ex. Women these days think its alright to be friendly and gain their exes validation because simps allow it and social media. Next time before you become exclusive set some boundaries. Better to soft next and see or demote her and find someone better for an LTR.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:02 PM
3

Sex is like a fork at a restaurant. It's not special, but it is essential. Amazing!
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:58 PM
5

Hahaha. As soon as I saw "run" I immediately though of the Jalas and this song.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:54 PM
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Tell her when you have a car you expect the engine to work. Sex hold your relationship together. She is trying to make you enter her frame by controlling the sex. GF: No pussy for you tonight ME: No pussy from YOU tonight. Unfortunately she knows you dont have other options and wont actually dump her. Go ahead tell her it isnt working and move on. No contact and I guarantee in 2 weeks she'll fuck you. But by then you need to actually drop her and find someone else. ​ Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any …
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:10 PM
1

Time and attention. If she does something you dont like withdraw your attention. Or in certain cases call her out on it.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:02 PM
1

No they dont. They see you as beta bucks. Stop showing the potential. Fuck them first. She wants you to provide. They'll fuck chad without blinking an eye. Get a more sexual frame and be vague about your job. These hoes aint loyal. ​ Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:01 PM
1

I agree too many simps and men actually allow girls to be friends with exes and normalize that shit. Its quite disgusting.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:58 AM
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I even text less girls. Not a bad thing. close female friend which I had since I was 11 ( I'm 18 now ) Dont stop replying but use positive reinforcement. If she is a bitch either ignore her for a day or two or call the bitch out. Probably no one has called her out so if you do she will respect you more. Do what you want to. Existing people dont like change and youre changing for the better so they dont like it. Crabs in a bucket.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:16 PM
1

Well silent downgrade. Trust your gut. Use her while you can. Or break up with her
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:11 PM
1

someone were to call you stupid, insult your mom, or other shit like that Shit in school we all used to do this. It was more endearment but I assume the way these people are saying it like putting you down. Ignore or agree and amplify if you cant handle them by teasing/using wit.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:31 PM
1

Dont pay her shit. Tell her you'll use a condom but if she really wants pills she can get them herself. Also at most I would agree to split the cost provided I know what she got so I can make sure Im not being scammed. Or I would get them myself for her. ​ I'm definitely not gonna pay it though, even if it means we stop hooking up. Yes. Abundance mentality. These girls havent heard no in a long time.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:22 PM
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Why do you want to stop it. Youre dreading her perfectly. She is mate guarding which means she really values you. She wants to know you wont dump her for the others. Its better she see's you have options and is jealous than her trying to make you jealous and then claiming one thing led to another.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:18 PM
2

Well listen to her and treat her like the filthy whore she is. I assume she isnt your gf so keep her as a plate and use extra precaution.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:15 PM
1

Marriage without a prenup. I dont have a $100 million but Im sure the guys who do will secure it well enough to not really lose much if they get married and divorce raped. But generally able to fuck them casually shows some sort of interest/attraction from the girl. I dont think pre-wall girls fuck a guy they arent interested in.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:12 PM
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live fast die young attitude. Good for a race car driver not so much for thots. Who anyways realise their pussy is only valuable till their late 20s then the guys dont want them or their baggage.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:51 AM
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Yep. Ranging from being friends with exes, getting plastered on girls nights out while having a boyfriend, having ex fuck buddies in their friend circles, etc. Again, what you can actually do about their behaviour is close to nil so don't let it occupy your thoughts I guess. Actually you can. Either walk off or set a strong frame from the beginning about what is tolerable/acceptable behaviour. But yeah with the options these girls have and the attention they have they think they can control a RP…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:50 AM
1

Dont let them know. Your actions should speak for you. When she texts respond less enthusiastically, fewer words etc. But if youre asking about dropping then go a bit beta and theyll avoid you like the plague. Otherwise be honest say abc has come up and your focus is on that currently.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:50 PM
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Just because its said to add on right now after whatever a girl says doesnt mean its accaptable to go back. 4 years back she wasnt into you (right now) Presently she see's you as a provider. Get your victory fuck and get rid of the rose tinted glasses but looks like you might get oneitis again. What happened in the 4 year period she rode the CC. Now maybe you really improved but OP you can always find a younger better version of her with less baggage. Go ahead with her. Respond to her text, she'…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:46 PM
2

Absence makes the heart grow fonder or some bullshit. Dont really text her during the corona lockdown. Not texting wont make her hate you, but texting might make you an orbiter. Woman want what they cant have. Meetup post and escalate. Goodluck. But prepare to take the L.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:15 PM
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Wow. You know the situation better. Not wishing her may make her upset. Next time dont involve kids when youre chasing pussy. Since the kid unblocked you and the voice not, not wishing her will send make her harbour negative thoughts. Wishing doesnt really take effort. Your call to make.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:12 PM
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Sure depends how well you know her. Dont message if youre doing it just so the daughter tells your ex that you messaged. Better question is are you as friendly with the daughter as your son is. Be prepared if your ex tries to spin it as you being a predator if she is the vindictive type.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:32 AM
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- How would you describe a girl who: ...... ..... My take on it is that she lost interest for some reason and still wants validation/to make me an orbiter She likes the validation and is seeing whether you will chase her. Or she doesnt want to seem to eager. Did you escalate on the date? Sometimes women get upset and think its a rejection if you dont go and kiss her during a date. You might think youre being respectful but they perceive it as a rejection. I had a situation where she did it and k…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:00 AM
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Looks like someone didnt read the sidebar. The Talk
/r/askTRP08/04/20 08:55 AM
3

Indifference. Hating shows she got to you.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:04 PM
1

It is the result of lack of abundance mentality and desperation. Also putting the oneitis on a pedestal. Sometimes the only way to see red flags is after fucking them. Spinning plates wont always help. But yeah options help make it easier to move on.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:49 PM
1

I just saw a post on seddit of a girl who has oneitis for a guy she sent a nude and didnt even fuck and reading that was quite pathetic. I guess the guy was turned off by her nude cause he blocked her lol. I really wanna learn what that guy did cause he alpha widowed her without fucking even once. I did have a oneitis some time back and I think its the though of having them more than the person itself. I actually managed to get this one. And after fucking her a couple of times my rose tinted gla…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:46 PM
1

I know. Every thirst guy tries to slide into their dm's and they keep exes as friends for backup dick.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:48 AM
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Life is a lot like a video game. The side missions are always going to be there to kill time. They instruct you to go do something and be rewarded. Eventually, you do them enough and realize they’re all the same but just with a little twist. You don’t progress through the main story by playing side missions. You progress by doing the main missions. That’s how you level up, unlock new abilities and get access to new areas. Damn thats a good analogy.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:46 AM
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I've only had 1 girlfriend and no girl seems the same. Get another and see if you feel the same about her. You currently have a scarcity mindset. She has far too many negatives. I can understand the dressing but dont settle for her. You value is only set to increase. Sometimes it's better to have someone you can relate with but not that hot. Keep this one as a plate/practice. Dont gamble your life on her.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:38 AM
1

Has she been there. You can playfully say she didnt know what to order and now she has you or tell her another time for that new place but you want to check out this venue. It seems small but dont try accommodating her too much. Generally if she agrees previously and then on the day wants to change venues treat it like a shit test.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:35 AM
1

Sexual innuendos. Shows interest but isnt too direct. Also the way you express matters. A confident but fat guy can be charming but someone else saying the same shit might be creepy.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:33 AM
1

Did you ask her out and she said no? Then ignore. Otherwise sounds like she giving you an opening.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 10:16 AM
1

Im kind of indifferent about making her an alpha widow. But I feel its a self fulfilling prophecy. If she is and they care then they fuck up their frame.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 09:52 AM
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Well there's genuine attraction but that can be faked. Sometimes by women who are 25ish. Joe Rogan has a small piece on how women might try to manipulate you with sex/bj's etc so you can settle down and become their beta bucks. How does one truly know they arent being settled for. Easy spin plates. Plus in this day and age most women are some sort of alpha widow. Women near the wall will demand commitment upfront and not fuck a lot or bring up the talk really soon.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 09:13 AM
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You held frame well. How was your none of your business response. I sounds direct and curt to me. A&A also wouldve worked. ​ She says no cuz she doesnt like to do those things in public. next time say something like "but I do". Common shit test of im not that kind of girl.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 09:01 PM
1

By all means go ahead. Stop thinking what others think. Use it your advantage is you want some easy gold digger to smash.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:57 PM
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Time. Beyond that perceptions stay. Unless its something drastic. ​ Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:54 PM
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Ignore. Responding is her way to know she still has you in orbit.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:51 PM
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You mention you want to make her an alpha widow, so have you fucked her? Dont think too much about selfies videos. We have way too much storage nowadays. No contact. Indifference. Find activities and hobbies to keep busy. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your ne…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:46 PM
1

Interesting. But this is beta bait prior to banging. What about bait post banging. Sometimes a girl may throw affection and try to bait someone into a beta bucks position by making him think he's getting the same as the alpha. Do they do that subconsciously because they realise the wall is near and they require a provider. At times it can be genuine but Im more curious about the times when its a show to try and snag some beta into committing to her.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 07:45 PM
2

Bitches be crazy. Maybe you were on the path to a breakup and this gave her the perfect opportunity. But you could have handled it better. The fact that you brought it up later made her doubt you. You paid everything was fine she was happy then you asked her to pay. Probably could have told her after paying the fine that dinner/drinks or some shit is on her since you got them out of whatever. I know its different but if youre both drunk and you drive her and get a DUI she doesnt pay half. Here y…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:31 PM
1

She gained weight and he still looks same. She probably thinks he is the best she can do.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:05 AM
1

Sunk cost theory. She's invested so much in him. The fact that he can tell her no so she perceives him to be higher SMV than her. Maybe he packs a punch when he takes her to pound town.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:47 AM
0

Yeah but give them an inch they take a mile. Women think kindness is weakness. Also whether he can or cannot afford it there are many girls who run after and pay for the broke boys.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:55 PM
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Bitches care a LOT more when they have to spend money ON YOU. Learnt to let a girl pay from girls who ran after broke "bad boys". I guess at a subconscious level they must be like well I paid for him obviously he isnt bad. Can you elaborate more though.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:53 PM
1

Yeah but this is doomed before it can even start.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:20 PM
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Not really block but ignores them/shuts it down. Boundary and enforce it. And then trust her if she crosses it leave. I think married red pill would have a better answer. When she wants the upgrade thats when you barter. Dont tell her to do it. Let her hamser it. "I dont LTR/date girls who xyz...." "When in a relationship I xxx and I expect the same from my girl" I used the I dont date one before but then she messaged some meme to an ex because she was reminded of him. I figured a hard next was …
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:18 PM
1

As far as guarding her, that's something you can't do. Betas guard their woman. You're afraid to lose her. Alphas don't care. If she cheats, then she's gone, and she loses him. I mean he cant guard but he could have established a boundary or some shit but damn same social circle. Yeah he's gonna be AMOG'd hard.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:10 PM
1

Yup. Set that up from the beginning and even is she messages a "Merry Christmas" thats hard next.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:08 PM
1

Her exbf is also the leader of our social group. Interesting. For something serious/LTR its best to establish no contact with any ex/fling. Be firm/stoic. Better to drop them if they give excuses of but we are bother over and are just friends. Doesnt end well. I prefer the exes cant be friends camp. Less drama
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:07 PM
1

Hmm. I had just under 1k FB friends but that means shit. Also at my time it was less upload pics daily for validation. Currently in quarantine some guy on group chat keeps posting his lunch/dinner pics for everyone. Nothing fancy but he thinks the more he texts some chick the if she keeps replying his chances are higher. IDGAF about social media. I look at it from another angle would you post your lunch and typical pic of hooters girl or rather fuck the girl. But even to some AWs when I said I d…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:56 PM
1

Not under 25 but got of all except whatsapp when in High School. I deleted FB to make it easier to ghost a chick. Then I realised it was a fucking waste of time. Nothing really changed, that was also because I wasnt really the popular chad or brad. I mean surfing FB to keep in touch with people once a week is whatever but then you go down the rabbit hole of those games etc.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:17 PM
1

Force a move. Make her explicitly reject you or you can do the easier step and confuse her by ghosting her. Look its not easy initially but its better than being confused. Also most girls will be some sort of alpha widow so you'll have to be tougher than the previous guy. Actions not words. I mean she can proclaim on FB she wants you or send nudes etc but is she actually fucking or sucking you.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:15 PM
1

All of her friends told me that when her relationships end she becomes a massive hoe. Yeah. Im sure you can go better.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:12 PM
1

She is your friend so send what you would to another friend. If you dont and she asks say you didnt want to remind her that she is getting older.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:52 PM
1

Yeah. But think of it like a trapeze artist when swinging from one to the next if they held on to both they wouldnt move and just get stuck. To go somewhere they would either have to let go of one.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:45 PM
1

Forget who he is but see the difference in attitude/confidence levels. Bald Man
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:41 PM
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She has done it before and i got mad, she accepted it and deleted the guys. Dont mate guard. Next time have a stonger frame and create a boundary. There is something about boundaries here, just search for it. Instead of dont abc etc say my gf doesnt abc. She'll test you stay firm. And if she crosses it drop her. It would just eat you up in the long term. I think youve lost this one but you can use her as practice for the future ones. Also I remember a comment here about someone's plate being obs…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:08 PM
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No. I cant really see the point. Waste of time. FOMO doesnt mean you capture and document every step of your life. Live that moment. Look at concerts now. So many people try to get videos and pics but lose out on that moment.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:49 PM
3

Yeah. I agree with you depends on the social/cultural setting and group. 90% of my school has tried it. But they wont go hard everyweek more like a try it and once in a few months. Beware of the coke addicts though. “It’s in the past. I just wanted to try it” Not enough info. Find out more. Trickle truth.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:47 PM
2

Yeah so. Once a girl was sick but she didnt tell me because earlier she tried to give a non committal answer to meet and I told her another time since I prefer confirmed plans. Post that she was sick didnt tell me and tried to see if she was better but she fell asleep instead and flaked. I ignored her for about 5 days. Post that she jumped at a chance. And she brought it up herself about why she flaked and even showed me proof. But thats a High Interest girl. Also same girl was to meet but she d…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:52 AM
1

Eh. She could generally have been sick and tried to keep her options open because she is anxious. Strike 1. Assuming she did respond on sunday that she was up. Correct response for OP in that case should be reply later saying he was busy. But yeah OP soft next her for a 3-4 days. and then initiate again like nothing. She'll know.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:50 PM
3

Man I love how he just doesnt care. Also great way to cause an emotional rollercoaster.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:32 PM
2

You can just say good and leave it at that. Honestly currently I would probably ignore her. If you do message then keep it short like "Doing well, quite busy actually" or "Im fine, lots to do." And leave it at that. If she replies, which she wont, no need to message back.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:27 PM
3

You should edit your post so people know she is 300km away because of the coronavirus lockdowns. And that its short term.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:22 PM
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Yeah
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:21 PM
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While I completely agree with you. Intentionally not chasing her is still better.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:21 PM
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You'll do well. Better than most here since you found RP in your teens. Follow all the advice in this thread and be dominant. Pull her hair a bit (gently from the base) to tilt her head back and then kiss her neck.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:18 PM
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Dont ever say youre bored. Just say youre good. Dont become an orbiter. Youre already showing signs. Trust me not texting is better than texting especially if it isnt for logistics plus you havent fucked her. Also she replied after 1 fucking day. Now I know people can be busy especially medical professionals and people forget but the fact remains it you were important she would wait and play games but message you the same day. If she was really important she would message instantaneously (if awa…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:06 PM
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Although, she used to initiate the texting once in a month or so. But, last night I initiated the texting and we kept on chatting for 3-4 hours. Bro dont give them digital attention. They have enough. Stand your ground. Ignore her messages dont reply to all. Become busy. 9 years is a long time. Has she seen you with other girls. Jealousy is a great motivator. Helps women make up their minds quickly. ​ Now to answer your question. How many other girls do you message or message you? And how many a…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:01 PM
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Yup. But post fucking her the rose tinted glasses will come off.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:52 PM
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Few days isnt much. But she is attracted just close her or it gets harder and harder to close and she keeps you as an orbiter. ​ So guys there has been this girl Ive known for quite sometime now. We never banged. I had some oneitis before, I overcame that and left her ass. Good job mate. I know how hard it is, I had a similar situation. Only made out but she wanted to keep me as an orbiter/backup. I literally agreed and ignored her for 5/6weeks. She went hysterical she lost her orbiter was compl…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:50 PM
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For making friends youve been given enough advice. But learn to cut losses with them. I had one group who would invite me out and were nice to my face. But they would warn any new introductions that I was weird etc. behind my back. One or two of the new intro's randomly brought it up while drunk that they kept observing me and noticing what was weird but just couldnt make out and finally thought that the others were fucking with them. Since youre an employer cant recommend colleagues. But you ca…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:42 PM
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Do you think they play games subconsciously? Ive was saw a girl who would always wait for me to initiate. She was really scared I would say no for that day/thing. Also sometimes their friends try to influence them that so and so is a bad person. Maybe this coronavirus has made her shift her priorities from a good dicking.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:52 AM
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Arent you supposed to be in lockdown. BBC Link If youre scared that she is BPD and revenge shit then Just become beta and needy. She'll breakup with you. Become a "good boyfriend". You wont alpha widow her and she wont give a fuck about you unless you took her virginity.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:49 AM
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"Okay I'll come see you don't worry" - Doesn't come, doesn't reschedule Message is the medium. If youve already fucked then maybe she is flakey in general or she finds it needy behaviour thats why the reassuring "dont worry" ​ "He's just a friend, I won't talk to him again" - Continues to talk with same guy. "I blocked him" - didn't block him Self fulfilling prophecy. If you dont lay down strict boundaries or let her know you dont need her and can walk away she would probably comply. But it all …
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:42 AM
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Or she is hedging her bets. Girls hate rejection she might be scared in case OP doesnt like her.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 10:24 AM
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Ability to walk away. Brings pussy off the pedestal. Women would be scared. One plate of mine found out I paid for sex. She was intrigued. She wanted to know what the value of pussy is and I told her not much in Europe. Her single friend hates me as that gives men the balls to actually leave them. Its unbelievable dread. Same friend tried to break the plate since she doesnt approve of her hooking up with me (as paying for sex is not approved) and trying to get her to settle with beta billy. (Tha…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 09:19 AM
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we're in a relationship Yeah seems difficult if you've caught feelings for her. For non relationship oneitis no contact generally works wonders. Or think of the negatives about her if its a plate. I know there will be some.
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