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Honestly this is what I’m leaning towards but it seems like everyone is saying I’m disrespecting myself if I don’t completely ghost. If I do decide to plate, should I make it literally sex only? I usually like to chill with my plates, and even go out in public sometimes, but obviously things are different with this girl.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:00 AM
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You think I should ignore her for a week too, or just respond and become less available?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:19 PM
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Yeah. No matter what I’m bringing my time commitment to her way back, but you think I should just hard next at this point?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 08:23 PM
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True. It’s just that me and this plate have been talking about a relationship and I’ve kind of acted like a bitch during that time. You’d say soft next?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:31 PM
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Oh yeah we’ve been fucking for a couple months
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:29 PM
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I truly want to cut off my other plates and start an ltr with this girl but the friend comment really fucked me up because it gave me a realistic idea of what I actually come off as, and if her friends see me that way, I don’t see how she can’t. I guess after losing frame with her a lot recently I’m more comfortable with tearing it all down than trying to start an ltr when it feels like she has the power. This is the first time I’ve brought up the idea of a relationship rather than the girl.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:07 PM
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Imma give up on the LTR thing but I kinda wanna let her know and I won’t see her till next week. Would a text ever be ok or should I just wait?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:49 PM
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This is what I was looking for. I’m just trying to be realistic because know I’m no where I need to be. With that said should I just next this girl and start from scratch since I’ve caught feelings? Or just start seeing her for exclusively sex? Cuz I feel like I’ve kinda fucked it up and I’m surprised she’s still about it tbh.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:07 PM
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What makes you say that? Just curious. She’s one of three girls I’m seeing but is my favorite.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 02:05 PM
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This is really helpful advice, thanks dude
/r/askTRP14/09/18 03:03 AM
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Almost right away which seems like part of the problem. Granted most of these girls are from tinder. But I’ve found it’s the easiest way to get them to agree to the idea of hanging out, it’s just rarer they actually agree to the place and time or if they agree to it, show up. Here’s the tinder messages for every girl: Me: Anna Her: Joe Me: You’re cute, let’s grab a drink Her: Ok! Me: #? Her: gives number Then once I get the number I usually text the next day and go to straight to logistics. I th…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:54 PM
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For tinder girls I've kept to logistics only to not come off as needy or as an orbiter. Is actual text conversation necessary? If it is I'm not sure how fine the line between being playful and beta.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:34 PM
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Thing is, I purely stick to logistics with these girls. Though nearly all of them are off tinder. It seems like there's a fine line between not showing any personality and coming off as needy over text before actually meeting her.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:33 PM
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I think this it a lot of it. For the one's I've met online, I've found they're more likely to actually agree to a date if I keep it simple and stick to logistics, but at that point I think I might be coming off as boring. Is there a way to be seem playful/interesting through text without coming off as beta or something? I think it's a fine line but I'm beginning to think it's necessary to establish some rapport with tinder girls.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:29 PM
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When I do approach should I try to actually get her number/suggest to hang or just make it known that I knows she exists? It’s unknown territory for me because everyone is trying to get to know everyone for networking purposes
/r/askTRP09/09/18 08:39 PM
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I could feel my mistakes happen, but this really helps explain them. Thanks for taking the time. >6- "Do you not like kissing?" Stop talking about anything sexual. Puts her on the defensive about her behavior and forces her to respond. Overt communication is not how women work. If you're not getting the response you think you should, don't blame her. Your escalation didn't work. Push/pull, change it up, anything but talking about it. And don't "stop trying to escalate" Makes you a butthurt littl…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:37 PM
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Thanks for the input. I’ve been strictly sticking to logistics over text, then once they confirm I’ve gone silent until right before the date. Obviously it isn’t working, so imma try this. When you text to warm up/confirm the night before, you usually ask “We still on for tomorrow?” or something?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:57 PM
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It’s just frustrating that these past few times my (digital) SMV has been high enough to get a match, get her number, have her agree to a place and time, but not high enough so she doesn’t flake with no remorse. But I guess raising SMV is the only sure answer without knowing what they’re thinking.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:08 PM
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Tinder gold and boosts are really worth it IMO. Tinder gold is a yearly subscription that allows you to see who swipes on you (so you don’t have to waste time swiping) and boosts boost your profile to the front of the line for 30 minutes. They both cost, but it’s been an solid investment and they work great together. As far as messaging goes, don’t waste your time with a pickup line or any of that bs. Over half the girls on tinder are there for validation, so you want to weed out the ones who wo…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:41 PM
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In those situations did you chase? Cuz everything I’ve read on here says not to. I went on a tinder date and brought her back to my place. We ended up only making out. When I was dropping her off at her car she interrogated me about my previous relationships and how many Tinder dates I’ve been on. I just left it at “I don’t kiss and tell.” I text her a couple days later to see if she wants to help me make dinner. She responds “I’ll let you know tomorrow if I can make it” then never hit me up. So…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:42 PM
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Yeah this is basically what I was asking. I know it’s either tingles/no tingles, but you don’t think not seeing a future has any effect at all?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 01:06 PM
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This helps me make sense of it. I really was drained by the end. She might have not been into me but it was a chore just to sit there for an hour. If something like that happens again imma just leave
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:53 PM
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She definitely wasn’t feeling me. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and she was very serious. I guess I’m asking if girls would wanna fuck an alpha regardless of his personality or if they just don’t like certain kinds of guys.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:52 PM
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Good point, I’m going with this. Thanks
/r/askTRP20/01/18 01:53 PM
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I never said anything about characteristics. Political beliefs on the other hand aren’t inherently “alpha” or “beta.” If you think populism is beta, I disagree.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:15 PM
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Nah he has a right to believe whatever he wants—even if it’s wrong. As others in the thread have mentioned, being red pill is more about owning your beliefs than having the “right” ones.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:10 PM
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I’m a liberal and I follow TRP. The ideologies can definitely coexist, you just need to keep your priorities straight. Nowadays, most liberals are more concerned with correct pronoun use than economic equality, so it’s no wonder why they get a bad rap on here. It’s ok to be a liberal, just don’t be a pussy about it. SJWs are as detrimental to the left as racists and bigots are to the right.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:41 PM
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This makes sense. Thanks for the insight
/r/askTRP18/12/17 06:32 PM
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That’s what I figure. You think it’s worth replying to this text or should I just ask again when the time comes?
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:37 AM
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FWIW weed (THC) makes me more anxious. CBD however, the non-psychoactive part of weed, is the best anti-anxiety med I’ve tried besides xanax. You can order it online. Other than that, it never hurts to have a beer before a date to take the edge off.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:23 AM
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This makes a lot of sense thank you
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:25 PM
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For sure. We talked about meeting up in the future, and I actually enjoyed spending time with her, but it is what it is. On to the next one. Thanks for the insight
/r/askTRP29/10/17 10:11 PM
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Fair enough. I posted late last night intoxicated
/r/askTRP29/10/17 09:23 PM
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She doesn't matter. I have other plates. But she really isn't a plate yet, we only hung out and hooked up once. Should I bother responding if she texts me?
/r/askTRP29/10/17 07:19 PM
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So wait till she hits me up? Should I even respond
/r/askTRP29/10/17 01:56 PM
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Is it ok to know you are her plate too?
/r/askTRP29/10/17 12:39 PM
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I have other plates. Just wondering if it's ok to be a plate for her as well
/r/askTRP29/10/17 12:20 PM
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Cool thanks for the insight
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:03 PM
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God I hope there's only one. I've got peanut butter on like 10 traps so hopefully that does it. You think it'd be cool to still have her over?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:54 PM
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This is my 2nd so, that's my b
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:08 PM
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It took a while to get hard and when I did, she wasn't wet so I busted her hymen and it was bloody lol. Fair to say I want another shot
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:51 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/78ed3f/all_women_are_whores/
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:55 AM
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You're saying ghost after she hits me up or wait a couple days to text her?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:59 AM
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That's reasonable. You think I should wait for her to ask me to hang out?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 03:42 AM
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I live in a college town and she goes to college so I usually like to make it seem like I have plans on the weekend regardless if I actually do. I'm just worried I need to actually fuck her right before she would contact me first, despite if the rest went well.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:54 AM
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Well I eventually got hard but by that time she was no longer wet so I ended up tearing her hymen lol. She said she wanted to have sex the next morning but she was still bleeding. Also said I'm "sexy" "super attractive" and "smart" the night before but idk if that means anything. She said we should hang again that next morning. Is soft next the play?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:52 AM
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Right then you think I should wait a while before asking her to come over? We met last Thursday and I was planning to text Wednesday and insinuate I'm unavailable during the weekend. Or could wait a while longer to let her hamster
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:46 AM
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What could I do to lead her to the conclusion?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:41 AM
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How would you break it to her? I just met one of the first plates I actually like, so while I want to let her know I'm seeing other girls, I don't wanna alienate her for no reason.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:35 AM
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Just checked after tonight but I guess you're right lol. You think it's best to wait until she initiates the next meet up?
/r/askTRP21/10/17 02:42 AM
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Thanks for the insight. You think a simple "Why?" would do? I already looked her up on FB using her school and work credentials on tinder, so I already know her last name.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:05 PM
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Like days of the week? As in "I'm usually free on thursdays and sundays. Or specific dates? Always gotta keep looking tho
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:03 PM
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