redisthecoldestcolor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Should I lift? Your actions are a reflection of yourself. Trolling makes a statement about your quality as a person, and no one else.	/r/askTRP	20/12/16 05:21 PM
3	Question about hypergamy Most women aren't into having multiple partners. They're into vetting multiple potential partners to find the best genes and best provider (preferably from, but not limited to, the same man). "Hyper" in Latin means "up" or "above" - women are trying to reach up or above themselves to get the best man they can to commit to them.	/r/askTRP	19/12/16 06:49 PM
1	How important really is communication in a (dedicated) relationship? Communication is the relationship. A relationship is two people communicating their dreams, fears, hopes, needs, and desires, and acting upon that communication. Where RP/BP might differ is the type of communication. For example, if I have a long hard day at work, I'll explain that it tired me out, and that I want some relaxing time, and perhaps ask for a bath and a beer. I won't complain about work, I won't vent about coworkers, I won't take out any problems on my SO. I maintain the frame that …	/r/askTRP	19/12/16 06:01 PM
29	Lost girlfriend to hotter/bigger guy. She finally admitted my penis was a factor. And my looks. I dragged this out of her. She at least didn't volunteer it. Because it wasn't actually a factor. You projected your own fears so strongly that she just said whatever you would believe. Listen, attraction is all about perception. And their perception comes from your frame/attitude. You aren't beta because you aren't tall or hung or fit, you're beta because you have a beta attitude. You need to accept that your attitude up to this point ha…	/r/askTRP	19/12/16 05:42 PM
5	LTR takes too long and makes us late I end up sitting there in my car for 20 minutes First, I would have walked right up to the door the moment I got there, before even pulling out my phone. Before I can open my mouth she says "Can I help you?" I would have told her that I wanted a beer and a comfy seat for while she was getting ready. If my LTR is not making any effort to be caring or respectful to me, I would leave her immediately. And I always put my own happiness first. I would still put my LTR second and let her take her time …	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 09:23 PM
1	How do I do a better job of "selling" myself? Nervous about sex? Don't be afraid of rejection. Every rejection teaches you what doesn't work. Each rejection brings you closer to success. Don't be afraid of 'underperforming'. You're inexperienced, you're going to suck in bed the first few times. Everyone does. You're a perfectionist, attaching your value to your ability to do things "right". Fuck up a little. Sex, relationships, and social interactions take practice to master. You can learn some stuff here, but you'll learn most from doing. Confidence isn't ab…	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 08:56 PM
1	Advice on this situation Attraction is maintained if there is no contact - drops if you get beta over text. Keep text mostly for logistics.	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 07:52 PM
1	Advice on this situation From reading TRP, it was my understanding that a valid strategy women use sometimes is to withhold sex to gain some form of commitment. If you've been seeing/fucking her for a while and you're the best she's ever had, she'll want to lock you down. and all the PDA/kino, it was like she couldn't get enough Then why aren't you fucking her? Are you escalating? Are you getting LMR?	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 07:31 PM
2	Advice on this situation You already fucked this up. Girls don't want commitment from someone they haven't thoroughly vetted, especially in bed. They want to be fucked well without feeling like sluts. Don't play beta games, just escalate and fuck.	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 07:00 PM
1	Can't Read My Ex Girlfriend Whatever you need to do to get over her.	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 06:29 PM
6	Can't Read My Ex Girlfriend Obviously you're dead the fuck on - her biological programming tells her to be with you, her religious programming tells her to be with a religious man, and she's conflicted between the two. The real question is why the fuck are you bothering with one girl when you have abundance. Did you somehow get oneitis for her? Also, check FAQ and see rule 3.	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 05:55 PM
1	NYE Choice, what would YOU do? Bingo. She wants to feel like she's dating up, like you're the hottest shit on the planet, and that she is special and lucky to be with you.	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 04:16 PM
14	Define the red pill mentality The Red Pill: You and you alone are responsible for your happiness, success, and fulfillment in life.	/r/askTRP	16/12/16 10:47 AM
6	Is it possible to redpill a feminist? How to redpill a feminist in 3 easy steps: Lift Escalate Sex Don't be a beta dumshit that thinks he can turn a women on by debating her philosophically with some points he read off reddit. The knowledge here is a tool for men. Your job is to put it into action.	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 08:27 PM
1	Love from the past, should I go back? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4ol0ij/the_15_most_common_mistakes_i_see_day_in_and_day/ See #3	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 08:17 PM
66	31yo mom with 8yo son as a plate 8yo son as a plate ಠ_ಠ	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 08:08 PM
2	NYE Choice, what would YOU do? Burning curious tho, what about this situation means the plate should never become more than a plate? If she continues to exhibit favorable behavior and I don't catch any big red flags, why not upgrade? Around the 3-6 month mark so obviously not yet but in the coming months that could be a strong option. I don't mean any plate, I mean this plate, because she's also your Mistress. The situation is less that she's getting an upgrade, and more that you're swinging branches. I think it could work if…	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 06:46 PM
4	NYE Choice, what would YOU do? You're using the labels of 'plate' and 'girlfriend' but not treating them each as such. Your girlfriend should be getting priority on relationship-y type stuff, like NYE, so she remains comfortable with you seeing other women. Your plate should know her place as a plate. Your plate right now is getting a thrill pursuing knowing that you are attached, but that pedestal is real. She's hinted that she wants more, and giving her more is basically submitting yourself into her frame. The more you give…	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 06:05 PM
2	I've noticed that girls who see another guy as alpha have no issues throwing shit at me when he's in the room, is this normal? There will always be white knights ready to jump at you as the 'bad guy'. The thing to keep in mind is that white knighting isn't attractive.	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 04:56 PM
2	Help me save my LTR. Long post ahead. Last tip: remember to take care you yourself too, emotionally, mentally, and physically. You can't take good care of her unless you make sure you're in a healthy place too. Work out, meditate, read books, and remember that there isn't much in your control, and as long as you do the best you can do, you can be proud of yourself for that, no matter what the outcome.	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 02:56 PM
11	Is being in a good relationship with a 6/10 something I should appreciate or turn my nose up at? Two choices: you could spend your life wondering if you made a mistake by settling, or you could spend your life wondering if you made a mistake by letting her go. -- Or -- Two choices: you spend your life confident and satisfied that you found the right person, or you spend your life confident and satisfied that you moved on to freedom of options. Your issue here is not your choice, but how you frame your choice. You're indecisive and prone to regrets. There is no right choice, only the choice …	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 02:29 PM
6	I've noticed that girls who see another guy as alpha have no issues throwing shit at me when he's in the room, is this normal? The thing is, when it's a guy doing this, I banter back and let it go. Normal competition for alpha status among males. When a girl suddenly does this because she feels entitled and authorized by her alpha buddy, something hits me and I don't like it one bit. Because she's implicitly saying that she's submissive to the alpha, and you're down at her level. It puts you in a tough place because if you banter back, you are implicitly agreeing to be at her level - below the alpha. If you don't banter…	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 02:11 PM
16	How do i handle coming to quick the first time How does it work? You're the man, decide how it works. Lead. If you come in 2 seconds and get embarrassed, she's going to tell her friends you were a disappointment in bed. But if you come in 2 seconds, right on top of her like you own her, then hold her down while you finger her and eat her out until you're hard again, and then fuck her and come all over her again, you're gonna be the sex god she's always been looking for.	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 01:55 PM
3	Help me save my LTR. Long post ahead. I've seen quite a lot comments here that are along the lines of just leaving. According to Rollo Tomassi, women love opportunistically, and men love for the sake of love. I think TRP tries to combat this by programming men to love opportunistically instead. I rather appreciate that you're still trying for her, especially because most of the problems seem to be with the situation, not the person. How can I bring more of my alpha side into the relationship? In particular, you want to get in touch …	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 01:48 PM
4	Guys who go out regularly: How often do you have to deal with aggressive guys or get into confrontations with other men? Fights are incredibly rare. I lived over a store in the center of the nightlife and only saw a few fights in the two years I lived there. In one fight, a man apparently punched a girl and knocked her out cold, and there were about 8 guys surrounding him yelling shit, but no one made a move until he turned his back and someone sucker punched him in the back of the head. Cops were quickly on hand to break it up. It's 2016, cops and beta males everywhere. To out and have fun - no one is going to tr…	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 11:57 AM
1	I Think I'm ugly as fuck how do i get this shit out of my head when it doesn't matter how many women i run through, i still feel this issue? By not looking for validation from other people. Especially since it doesn't matter how physically attractive you are, your beta frame is pussy repellent.	/r/askTRP	14/12/16 06:58 PM
3	RP/Sex crosspost - Penis vs Breast sucking question Depends - on her motivation in that sexual encounter. If he's an AF and she's having sex because she's attracted and he gives her the tingles, in everything she'll be focused on her pleasure. If he's a BB and she's having sex as an exchange for attention and resources without having the tingles, in everything she'll be focused on his pleasure. For an alpha boyfriend she'll focus on both.	/r/askTRP	14/12/16 01:38 PM
2	Someone punch me back on track... Stop fucking buying the delicious adult beverages.	/r/askTRP	14/12/16 12:58 PM
1	Swiped a girl on tinder who turns out to be an escort. Says she uses tinder to screen all of her customers. She uses Backpage for business, and Tinder for personal. If she screened through Tinder, there would be no point to having a Backpage. And she wouldn't have denied the Backpage listing. She lied to you out of embarrassment. Edit: Looks like OP finally figured it out.	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 11:46 PM
1	Lack of success with women bearing down on me more as I get older, leaves me unmotivated to improve other areas of my life. My experience? It changed my life, from the inside out. I have never been so successful and happy, in life and work and relationships, and every day gets better and better. I work hard and continue to work hard to get there. Nothing in life is easy. My other piece of advice is to stop seeking the end result. Life is a journey, experience the trip. Live in the present. The past exists only in your memory, the future only in your imagination. Step away from the hypothetical, bring your focus back …	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 11:24 PM
1	Why veganism should be a topic on TRP. About the myth that you need meat protein to be swole.	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 11:07 PM
1	Lack of success with women bearing down on me more as I get older, leaves me unmotivated to improve other areas of my life. There's the facts about me, my question is, how can I escape this rut when in my head I believe that no matter what I do, be it get ripped, get a good well paying career, or attempt to learn more pick up techniques, that I will always deep down be seeking validation from these women, and the respect of other men. How do I stop caring about these things, so I can actually get these things? Any one else here thought the same, but proved themselves wrong? I would recommend daily meditation. There a…	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 11:01 PM
2	Why veganism should be a topic on TRP. Barny du Plessis might have something to say about that.	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 10:37 PM
5	Is my friend's LTR doomed? Unless he asks for help, it's not your place to worry about him or his relationship.	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 09:57 PM
1	Girlfriend has male roommate that appears very sexual. Should I be worried? Another time, when I was over there, I was calling my gf out on a decision she made that was wrong, and this male roommate supported me on it. She ended up getting pissed off at both of us, but moreso at me because she thought I should be on her side or something. You should have told him to stay the fuck out of it. Part of being dominant means making her feel protected. Women like guys who are assholes to other people for them. I disagree with all the "spin plates" comments here. There is a pla…	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 04:13 PM
1	Asking LTR of 6 months to sleep over I prefer slow escalation. Live in the moment. Don't ask her for a large time investment all at once. I.E. Ask her out (as you obviously already do). While driving back, ask her over for a bit to watch a movie, drink some wine, or do something or just relax. Then escalate to the bedroom. Then ask her to stay in bed with you. Don't make her feel pressured with some future time commitment. Live in the present and make it fun.	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 03:20 PM
3	Trp Hypocrisy and feedback loop ? TRP creates nothing with women, it's the women making their own choices to be "sexually free"/non-monogamous/plates. TRP is simply helping men turn women's choices into the best opportunity for themselves.	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 02:39 PM
1	How do you internalize narcissistism, masculinity and project an aura of self respect? You're programming your subconscious mind, which means repetition and persistence. You are making a habit out of your thoughts and self-perception. There's a lot of reading material in the sidebar that will continue to help with this. Especially look into daily meditation.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 11:58 PM
3	Got put on hold for a legitimate reason You already fucked up. You should have been her adventure, fun, distraction, and release. Instead she thinks of you as more potential stress on top of an already stressful situation. Time to just move on for now.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 11:11 PM
3	How to dance to the crap nowadays ? lewronggeneration Don't over-think things, just go out and have fun.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 10:44 PM
1	Contacting her first? Yes. It might feel like you need something from her, even a conversation or a goodbye, to get that closure. But the one who gives you closure is you. Allow her influence in your life to close without needing anything from her. She obviously doesn't seem to need anything from you.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 10:21 PM
3	Contacting her first? thinking how she is spending time with that person just wants me to go full beta mode and contact her so she doesnt focus on him as much Self-destructive behavior that is going to only make him look better and you look worse. You need to allow yourself closure. It's over. Start focusing your energy into yourself and what you can do for yourself.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 09:51 PM
1	Do some girls have open relationships when doing long distance without the intention of cheating ? here is my story. Yes, but I don't want to just take your word for it, I want to base it on something logical, factual with a solid foundation. I can't just say "this experienced guy said so, I better just do it".. I want to "know" and "understand" it so it will be ingrained in me, so I can master it and be in a place and explain it to others. Read the fucking sidebar. ---->	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 08:34 PM
1	Do some girls have open relationships when doing long distance without the intention of cheating ? here is my story. You have a chance with a supermodel, you're telling me because you'll get another chance with another one, highly unlikely, you'll treat her like the average girl you next as if she'll come running after you? The average girl may not worth a second shot, but a supermodel I think is worth it. You're putting the pussy on a pedestal. Supermodels are still ordinary people, with ordinary feelings, ordinary needs, and ordinary insecurities. Keep in mind I am not trying to prove you wrong or convince y…	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 08:22 PM
2	Awkward/shitty roommate situation Women don't speak the same language we do when confronted. Complete bullshit. Of course she's going to be surprised and offended when her exceptions - that she is treated as a entitled princesses - are going to be disappointed. You are not responsible for her expectations or behavior, only your own. Be polite, be kind, but don't be a doormat. You held up your part of the agreement and paid her the money. She is responsible for holding up her end.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 05:34 PM
1	Is TRP geared towards betas? What about other males? Guys, are there people out there who TRP can't help because they are screwed too much? No. TRP is not geared toward helping men have sex with top attractive women. It's simply for helping a man be the best, happiest man he can be. I don't even speak about alpha, because it is hard to become beta, i.e. normal. Alpha/beta isn't a status, it's a mindset. he still can't be accepted to society as human and not some outcast? Stop blaming other people for your state of unhappiness. Become responsible a…	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 05:13 PM
3	Awkward/shitty roommate situation She should hold up to her end of the agreement. The fact that she's "pretty hot" should have nothing to do with it, except that she's probably an entitled princess who is used to having men bend over backwards for her. Don't be one of those pushovers.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 05:09 PM
1	Do some girls have open relationships when doing long distance without the intention of cheating ? here is my story. But is it really different than the orbiter guy? Both guys are rejected, it's just that the other guy moves on immediately. The point is not to get rejected in the first place. Is there a difference between one inventor who stays committed to a fundamentally flawed design because he refuses to accept failure, vs the inventor who learns from his mistakes, improves, and moves on to increasingly better designs? Maybe she wanted a bit of a chase instead though. If that's true, then she'll pursue bac…	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 04:25 PM
1	Do some girls have open relationships when doing long distance without the intention of cheating ? here is my story. There are millions of attractive women out there. Invest in yourself, raise your SMV, make your opportunities work for you. No single girl out there is worth oneitis. The more you internalize this attitude, the more success you're gonna have.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 02:03 PM
3	Do some girls have open relationships when doing long distance without the intention of cheating ? here is my story. Not ambiguous at all. She wants to ride the CC but is afraid of the consequences. There is nothing for you here, unless you're really desperate, in which case there is still nothing for you here.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 01:33 PM
1	Do some girls have open relationships when doing long distance without the intention of cheating ? here is my story. I am just saying, it's not like she's average and can be easily replaced. If you say have a 10% chance with women generally, this percentage goes down when you're talking about just the 1%. Some men don't have lots of chances with one of the 1%. Prime example of scarcity mentality. With this attitude you'll forever be a beta orbiter to some girl hoping that all you need to do is put enough effort in and she will eventually 'bless you with the glorious gift of pussy'.	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 01:29 PM
2	I'm having issues overcoming last minute resistance Chances are, you're rushing it. She feels like she's about to have sex. Women want sex to "just happen". Exactly this. Don't try to go right from kissing to sex. Escalate from kissing to more intimate actions that are specifically not sex. Give her the excitement of pushing her boundaries, while making her feel safe that she isn't obligated into sex. She should keep thinking, "Should I be doing this right now? It feels so good though. And it's not like I'm having sex so it's okay." Focus on some…	/r/askTRP	09/12/16 06:50 PM
6	I'm 13, does the red pill work? If the red pill isn't working, you didn't swallow it. Red pill doesn't get you women, doesn't make you popular, doesn't make you strong, doesn't make you successful. In a nutshell, the red pill is: you yourself alone are responsible for your own happiness. Once you truly internalize that philosophy, you have swallowed the red pill and you can begin pursuing happiness with all your focus and energy. Now why do red pillers talk so much about women, popularity, strength, and success? Because a lot …	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 07:52 PM
6	Best response "Sure, another time maybe" No need to overthink the text game. You can be polite and straight-forward without being needy.	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 07:15 PM
2	[FR] Closing Reddit's #1 upvoted pornstar of all time, Alice White/Penny Brooks Men biologically correlate attractiveness with physical appearance, not status, so whether or not she's a CEO is in no way relevant.	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/16 11:09 PM
2	False interest Flirty dominant - she leads, decides when she touches you, directs the flow of the conversation. Flirty submissive - she is receptive to your lead. She lets you touch her, hug her, when you talk about sex she talks about sex, she laughs at your jokes.	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 07:27 PM
1	False interest If she sees you as an orbiter she'll be flirty dominant; if she sees you as an alpha mate she'll be flirty submissive.	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 06:42 PM
7	I want a plate to take me with a strapon Is to possible to do it without "losing my masculinity" ? Yes. Be blunt and unapologetic about it. Masculinity isn't a set of behaviors, it's a set of frames. You are fully secure in your sexual interests and desires. You know what you want - you get what you want. If one plate won't do it for you, another will. Women should be competing to do stuff for you, so you shouldn't have any problems.	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 05:30 PM
4	How to deal with the inherent imbalance of power in relationships? Just remember, your order of priorities is: You, yourself Your partner/relationship Everything else A common mistake, beta frame, is to focus first on her and the relationship out of fear that she will leave you if you don't. The alpha frame, the most fulfilling and successful, is that you make yourself happy and successful to enable you to be a desirable and capable partner.	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 05:05 PM
9	She says "you aren't sleeping with me" advice on what to do? Advice: Work on fixing your scarcity mentality and neediness on your ex for sex.	/r/askTRP	05/12/16 08:31 PM
4	FR - Reminder: She is (VERY) likely spinning you too... It sounds like you're hamstering away some sexual insecurities, while lamenting that you won't find a girl who will make the relationship what you want. Being the dominant masculine polarity means you are the one who needs to be proactive, lead the relationship, and shape it into what you want.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/16 03:43 PM
6	FR - Reminder: She is (VERY) likely spinning you too... Don't be so sensitive - he's right. If you can't handle your jealousy, then don't do business in an open sexual market. If you need exclusivity/commitment, then state it outright.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/16 01:41 PM
78	FR - Reminder: She is (VERY) likely spinning you too... If you never started the conversation of exclusivity or commitment, then this one is on you. You let your tingles take over before you got your head back. Unless loyalty and boundaries have been clearly established, ALWAYS assume she is seeing other people too.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/16 01:32 PM
13	The Cock Carousel™ and Bitch Face™ When a woman gets strong frame and strong dick, then no shit she's happy. The rest of this reads out like a blue pill fantasy: "I'm making you happy by saving you from having sex with other guys". If attractive women are out there racking up n-counts, that's because that's the best option available to them. They're getting better frame and dick from the alpha's who won't commit than the beta's who will.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/16 06:42 PM
13	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol You know very well that I'm referring to the "I have psychopathic tendencies". But hey, it's your life, and your story. If it makes you happy then own it.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:44 PM
38	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol All I want is a field report that doesn't have something im14andthisisedgy.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:32 PM
4	What if a girl knows about The Red Pill? Does it still work? In my opinion and experience, PUA techniques are bullshit because at their root, they are actually blue-pill. They assume that you only need to 'say the right words' or 'do the right things' for a girl to date you or have sex with you. Even negging is gynocentric because it's still all about the girl. Stop doing things for girls. Do what makes you happy. Your happiness should come first to you. Be the best, smartest, more attractive, most successful you that you can be. Be genuine, authentic, an…	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/16 06:24 PM
7	How to deal with pseudo successful women and the attitude they bring? Just observe all the details you posted about these women. You sound kind of obsessed. Even if it's obsessed with disdain or disgust. The things you think about and talk about should reflect what's important to you. If these women aren't important to you, and they shouldn't be, then don't think about them or talk about them. Yes, due to your business life, you might still be required to interact with them. But keep it professional and minimal. There's no need to call them out, no need to worry a…	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/16 04:36 PM
4	Wanted some feedback Don't see why youre calling these females whores cause Im fucking em....I'm the one being called a hoe here if you read it right...since when is a woman allowed to ride the "cock carousel" and a man cant ride the pussy one? Goddamn you sound whiny. Stop looking for validation from other people, even other red-pillers. Find out what makes you happy, and do it. If you want advice from other people, expect their honest opinions. And remember that in the end, you shouldn't be trying to make them hap…	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/16 04:19 PM
2	Girls don't find smart guys sexually attractive Exactly, this is the only way to become intelligent -- devote "much time" to improving your intelligence, neglecting something else. At max, you could be intelligent and healthy, but you won't have any time for social life. Still, not the worst case, I'd say. iamverysmart Even Einstein was getting on his kink on the reg. There are no excuses.	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/16 02:31 PM
25	Girls don't find smart guys sexually attractive Six days ago you were "has been lifting for 5 years". If you're not honest with TRP you probably aren't honest with yourself and that only impeding your own progress.	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/16 01:59 PM
2	[FR] Actions speak louder than words. Align your actions with your story. No close. Good luck with your journey man, just remember, this shit's all a game. There are no real goals, not a relationship, not sex, there isn't any way to actually 'lose'. Just have fun with it, do things that make yourself feel good, don't give a fuck about what makes anyone else feel good, and have a good time playing around with girls and finding out what crazy kinky stuff they'll do for you.	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/16 01:43 PM
1	The place for "relationships" in your toolbox You misunderstood him - he was pointing out that you are hypergamous and questioning the value of the LTR as a tool for sexual conquest when there are much better tools out there. I tend to agree. If your primary goal is sex, then a LTR is a bad place to be.	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/16 07:50 PM
3	Why you shouldn't be upset about not getting laid in your teens. Sex will never be as exalting as it would if you had sex at 13/16 years old. As someone who sent from excited virgin to easily-bored sex god in just one year during my late 20's, I think it's more about novelty than age. Nothing feels quite like the first time.	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/16 07:14 PM
2	Why you shouldn't be upset about not getting laid in your teens. Hell, I've had a 16yo be the one to lie to me about her age before. If you approach with an abundance mentality, you will find abundance.	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/16 06:59 PM
8	Different personalities with different people. You have no control over how other people act or how they treat you. Your only control is over your own thoughts and decisions. You if have a group of friends who do not benefit you, respect you, or treat you the way you want to be treated, then why are they your friends? Leave them. Don't give them any more time, attention, or energy. Focus instead on yourself and the people who really care about you.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 07:36 PM
15	After being with my GF for 6 months, I realized that AWALT is really true. And it's not a bad thing Your home is not a safe harbor. Home is a throne. You offer leadship and protection, and in return you get respect and adoration. The cost of wearing the crown is bearing its weight.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 03:57 PM
11	After being with my GF for 6 months, I realized that AWALT is really true. And it's not a bad thing Talk blue pill; act red pill.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 03:43 PM
7	After being with my GF for 6 months, I realized that AWALT is really true. And it's not a bad thing Ninja-Edit: We have sex, because she fears me cheating on her, if I don't get to fuck her. Why does she do that? Because women can be hypergamous and still insecure about their own value. And because she's insecure in the relationship she's trying to control it with sex, even though she doesn't enjoy it. She's making it an exchange for your time and attention. I would check out nofap and add no-sex, no-fap to your self improvement goals for a bit. Make her earn time, attention, and sex from you.…	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 03:37 PM
14	After being with my GF for 6 months, I realized that AWALT is really true. And it's not a bad thing No problem man, I've gone through literally the same thing in a relationship, even down to us not having sex because of that exact same body line (AWALT). My suggestion is that you stop seeing her/going out with her for a bit. You don't necessarily need to break up with her, but she doesn't appreciate you or your time right now. You can explain that you need some space to for self-improvement. Then you can spend that time working out, reading good books, hobbies, developing skills, making yourse…	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 02:37 PM
18	After being with my GF for 6 months, I realized that AWALT is really true. And it's not a bad thing In general, while you're starting out and getting a feel for your inner Alpha, don't pay for anything - ever. Opening that wallet sets an opportunity for them to see you as a living wallet. In the long run, you want to work on breaking yourself of the idea that you are pursuing the women. You are the alpha, they pursue you. You deserve your money and most importantly your time, and if they want your time and attention then they need to earn it from you.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 02:20 PM
41	After being with my GF for 6 months, I realized that AWALT is really true. And it's not a bad thing Beta provider - you have the resources to keep her safe and comfortable. It's the contradiction central to a lot of red pill theory: women want to feel safe and comfortable, but it doesn't make them horny, and it doesn't lead to good sex, and women also want good sex. Those older guys around her might not be attractive relationship material, because they don't have resources, but if they know how to fuck her and make her feel like a woman then she's going to lust after them.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/16 02:00 PM