redisthetruth Archive

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0	Best female qualities/behaviors/actions in a LTR? Cooking delicious meals, cleaning, doing laundry, buying everything, helping me get organized, treating me like a king in every way...my current relationship is like this. It’s fun. She was a marketing director for big corporation so she helps me with work too.	/r/askTRP	14/08/18 05:31 AM
1	Men that don't seem to care about sex after TRP We just realize our mission in life is way bigger than any woman or relationship. We use our creative drive and sexual energy to be the best version of ourselves and do whatever we came on earth to do. Chasing women is so unimportant in the grand scheme of things — takes time and energy away from being directed in our mission —unless that mission is to sleep with a bunch of women, which I find quite boring and pointless. This is not to say we don’t have sex...it means our perspective on life and…	/r/askTRP	09/08/18 04:44 AM
3	Plate reached out only to ghost. When you have abundance mentality, stuff like this doesn’t even register on your radar. Things happen. People have lives. Women are emotional. She wanted a response, she got one, but then she had something better to do than have a conversation. Just let it go and focus on your mission. Once your mission is strong, women start becoming less and less attractive an option to spend your time on.	/r/askTRP	08/08/18 06:50 AM
1	What words mean: I find the more my smv rises, the more girls I automatically friend zone for one reason or another. It’s awesome to have female orbiters who do favors for you.	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/18 05:30 AM
1	What is your relationship with your mother like, as a red piller? Wtf. Your mom...she carried you for 9 months and fed you and sheltered you for your whole life. Don’t be an idiot. Apologize and tell her you love her more than anything in the world.	/r/askTRP	05/08/18 01:14 PM
1	Increasing the size of your male friends circle when you're ready, the teacher will appear. really, you are your own teacher. true masters will point you back to yourself. what you really want is to love yourself. So practice.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 09:02 PM
5	Best responses when she says she has a boyfriend "nice, I have a girlfriend. we should set them up on a blind date." if she laughs, you just continue teasing and making observations and escalating. go until she actually says no or pulls back.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 09:00 PM
12	Dude, what is the deal with the response timing!? attention is your currency. if your attention is rare and "special" and valued and wanted by many women, then it's like a diamond. all girls want diamonds and they will do many things to get a diamond. if you give your attention easily, and are actually looking for women to give your attention to, then it's not worth much. then you're like a rock. women don't care for rocks. when you are focused on your mission, you seem busy and unavailable. there's nothing more desired by women in their prime …	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:58 PM
2	What do you when you lose passion for what you once loved doing? lol...3 weeks dude. that's such an incredibly short time. you have to keep going even when you don't feel like doing it. no pain, no gain. just keep going regardless of how you feel.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:54 PM
1	Increasing the size of your male friends circle ya "normal" adult life is literally nothing like high school or college or the military. everybody is doing their own thing. everybody is hustling. you either bring value to people or you don't. The more value you give, the more people will like you and want to be your friend. But is this "real" friendship, or just transactional? Go to spiritual teachers if you want true friends. It takes courage, but they are the best friends you'll ever find. They aren't people you "hang out" with. They are pe…	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:51 PM
6	Dude, what is the deal with the response timing!? lol...find something better to do than women. then, they literally line up wanting your attention.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:48 PM
2	Vocal projection psychedelics can help tremendously. most of it's just blocked energy in the body and years of unsaid things. the throat is a major energetic centre and it takes time to clear it. but seriously. good shrooms will make you cry and laugh and you'll find your voice again.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:47 PM
2	Steps to rebuild a damaged reputation? the best way is just to disappear for a while and focus on your own health and happiness. exercise, eat well, find enjoyment in the small things. traveling is eye opening. you'll see how you can just create whatever persona you want. but a hurt reputation takes time to heal if it can ever be healed completely. you can volunteer, find ways to help other people. thinking about other people's happiness automatically makes you a happier person and more people will want to be around you.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:45 PM
1	Increasing the size of your male friends circle friends come and go. enjoy people but don't hold onto them. being lonely is a part of a man's life. especially as you become more successful, less and less people will be able to keep up. people will be jealous. "friends" will want to keep you small and comfortable. wake up dude. if you find one true friend in this life, consider yourself lucky.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:42 PM
2	Trying to get younger sister to stop smoking pot? you can't control people. work on yourself, be successful, and either people follow or they don't.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:40 PM
2	Implementing red pill lift. do things that make you feel confident, a sense of growth/wonder/inspiration/awe. Step by step. its a lifelong journey.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:39 PM
14	The begging months are confusing... takes time dude, be patient. you can't change a lifetime of wrong thinking and laziness and blue pill conditioning in a couple months. do what you like to do. create and experience joy. everything flows from that.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:38 PM
2	How to stop wishing I never existed because of beta male shaming? Grow up. Lift. Make money. Gain status. Shame is deep. Psychedelics, meditation can help tremendously.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:36 PM
0	How Do I Address the Subjects of Hypergamy and 80/20 Rules? look with your own eyes. watch people. watch couples. see how many desperate unhappy women are with "boyfriends." Watch how their eyes are consistently looking for something better. This is hypergamy. being intellectual is good to a point, and then it becomes an obstacle to actually acting and being successful in the world. the best way to see hypergamy in action is to lift, make money, gain status. Then see how women's behaviours change toward you. See how they start doing things just to get yo…	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:33 PM
1	Increasing the size of your male friends circle Find a mission. Friends will come and go. Your path is your path. Why do you want friends to party with? You're 28...partying and going to bars is a pretty big waste of time when alcohol/drugs/cigarettes are involved. Brings no long-term benefit to your life. Also, if you are good with women, men will naturally gravitate toward you to be your friend. Be seen as high status and surrounded by women, and everybody will want to be close to you. But by then, you'll probably be keeping people at a dis…	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:27 PM
8	what do you consider to be the most important factor in SMV? Everyone says confidence. I like it. I would also add, actually looking at and treating women like children. They love it.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 08:20 PM
1	Im ill and its mentally destroying me have you ever tried it? I've done two relatively long fasts and they were both transformative. one friend I met there, he's worth more money than you can imagine, came with extremely high blood pressure and fasting was his last resort. after 18 days, his blood pressure dropped to completely normal. I met people doing 40 day fasts for diabetes. most spiritual teachers go through periods of fasting. many animals hide and fast when they are injured. it's not as far-fetched as you might think.	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 06:27 PM
2	The surprising science of alpha male primates alpha means power and people want to be around you for some reason. charisma helps. being attractive helps. money helps. the way you walk, the way you talk, the way you look at people. it's all part of it. being politically savvy helps. but doing it all because it's what you naturally are. there are different types of people, different types of leaders, different personality. George Clooney is not the same as Ronaldo is not the same as Obama is not the same as the best dancer in the room. all of…	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/18 09:24 PM
2	How you deal with fapping and porn? don't do it. exercise a lot. I've gone many months at a time several times without ejaculating. feels amazing. porn is the worst.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 09:17 PM
2	Girlfriend is upset because I nearly made other plans Lol, just ignore her dude. if she wants to see you, she'll see you. do what you're going to do. don't let a girl dictate the direction of your life.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 09:15 PM
1	what skills like learning excel would you recommend if you want to improve your prospects of obtaining a good job ? what kind of job do you want? what are you passionate about? what's your past work history?	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 09:12 PM
4	How to stand out? learn from him? go out by yourself? raise your smv? be more confident? be a rock and girls will flock.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 09:11 PM
2	Does not being super invested in a chick increase attraction? yes...but you have to dangle the carrot of investment in front of girls to keep them interested usually. push, pull. be interested one moment but if she starts getting boring, just do your own thing.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 09:09 PM
2	Favorite plate broke down crying after sex everyone has emotions. there's nothing you can do. just relax and don't say too much. everyone's lives are filled with suffering. there's nothing much we can do except listen if we feel called to.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 09:08 PM
1	The only reason I want an LTR is to have a companion to go on adventures with. Friends are flakey af. How common is this? Learn to enjoy doing things yourself. Learn to make new acquaintances and invite people to stuff if you want to get to know them better. Making close friends as we age is quite difficult. Everybody has their own lives, their own work, families, kids. Everybody has their own issues. Life isn't all about having fun and going out and chasing pleasure after a certain point. We have to learn to be independent and solitary and content. This is especially true in the western world where individualism a…	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 09:05 PM
0	Im ill and its mentally destroying me consider looking into water fasting...can help with lots of stuff, especially inflammatory issues. There are several fasting centres around the world that will supervise medically. One is true north in Santa Rosa, ca.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 09:00 PM
1	Is it too late for me? You are literally still a baby at the start of your journey. Take time to take care of your body and mind and love yourself. All good things come from wanting the best for yourself.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 02:27 PM
1	Why does it seem like a fight to talk to a girl. I am the prize is the motto to keep. Then you are screening girls to see if they are worth your time. Girls can sense unavailability in a man and they want to catch you. Let them be the ones who chase.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 02:24 PM
1	Overtly explain why to come back to yours? Yup this. Sometimes the girl is just going to get too scared, uncomfortable. Remember, op, girls have the risk of becoming pregnant and having the father disappear from their lives. It historically was the case that women had to be extremely selective or else their genetics were rooted out of existence due to the inability to survive because they chose the wrong father for their child.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 02:21 PM
1	How to enjoy life? Create your own purpose and meaning and mission in life. Even though it’s ultimately pointless, you don’t have any other choice if you want some sense of happiness and direction in life. Prepare for death. Die everyday and do things that bring a genuine smile and/or sense of openness/joy/wonder/lightness to your face.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 02:17 PM
1	Girls out of your league In daily life, hot women intimidate most men. Most men are much more comfortable approaching an average looking girl.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 04:39 AM
0	Girls out of your league Not every 8/9/10 goes to nightclubs or parties where men are actively looking to hit on people.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 04:36 AM
1	I'm an Incel and I will follow all TRP's teachings if only you could answer one question Lift weights, exercise, feel good about yourself. Your attitude toward yourself is what matters most.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 02:29 PM
1	How to get rid of lazy part of my brain telling me not to lift weights, & to just jerk off & surf the Internet all day? Get out of the house. That’ll show the voice who’s boss.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 02:27 PM
2	Which countries are the best to visit for sex as a good looking white guy? Lol anywhere...women are literally everywhere. Just go say hi to ones you find attractive. But I’m sure you’d do well in Japan, Vietnam, Korea, Thailand, taiwan, China. Don’t pay for sex dude. Work on your game and women will be wanting to pay you....	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 01:36 AM
3	I don't understand how to assert boundaries with women When your smv is high enough and you’re overloaded with options and you have girls looking at you everywhere you go, you literally just walk away from women who disrespect. They aren’t worth your time.... Every single time, they will come crawling back. You don’t even have to say anything most of the time. You just pretend like nothing is the matter and they will be so in awe at your ability to walk away and disappear from their lives. They will never disrespect you again.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 01:34 AM
2	How do I help raise my brother to be an alpha? Lead by example. He’ll follow. That’s what little brothers do.	/r/askTRP	02/08/18 01:31 AM
1	It's been months and i'm still not over my ex, help? I get it. Literally just get out of the house, away from the computer. It’s always the first but seemingly impossible step. Do it over and over and your life will change. Also consider your environment is stronger than you. Create a life for yourself where access to nature and your favorite activities comes easily and life seems to flow. I prefer places where I don’t have to drive and can either walk or bike or use public transit.	/r/askTRP	01/08/18 02:40 PM
1	If you want some semblance of loyality, wouldn't a near-wall woman be the best option for LTR? Lol seek no loyalty in women. They’re literally always looking for the highest branch to swing to. They don’t always have good judgement of what is a higher branch. The best you can do is be the best version of yourself and love yourself. Then you won’t be dependent on a woman’s nonexistent loyalty for anything.	/r/askTRP	01/08/18 02:31 PM
24	Girls out of your league Some of the hottest girls get approached the least. The fact that you approached her sets you way above other men. Plus lots of sexy girls are super insecure about their looks. You’d be shocked how desperate some of them are for guys who can hold a normal conversation without getting all anxious around them. Shoot for the hottest ones and the good looking ones become so much easier to game. Seriously, a girl is just a girl regardless of what you think. Also it helps to be at the top of your game…	/r/askTRP	01/08/18 02:21 PM
1	My new mechanic is asking me to fuck his girl That you’re even considering this is a sign your mind is not right. Just say no and keep it professional. What are you even thinking? Don’t be so desperate.	/r/askTRP	01/08/18 05:57 AM
1	Fat loss supplements Stop trying to take shortcuts and take responsibility for your diet, exercise, and sleep. Warriors through the ages did fine without any fat loss supplements.	/r/askTRP	01/08/18 05:49 AM
1	What do you do when reading books? Nowadays I mostly just want one or two ideas I can contemplate from whatever I’m reading. I don’t take too many notes any more unless I’m planning on writing something up. Being able to quickly glance over an article, non fiction book and get a feel for the main thesis or few core concepts has become my natural state of reading. Sometimes I’ll read details if I’m really interested but scanning first is good to see if the writing is worth a closer look. So much to read and our time is limited. Be…	/r/askTRP	01/08/18 05:43 AM
1	skinnyfat: how2raise smv Exactly. Enjoy yourself. That’s the key to basically everything.	/r/askTRP	31/07/18 05:07 PM
1	How can I stop a defeat attitude stop reading. lift heavy things. challenge yourself. try cryotherapy. going into the cold will build frame like no other. put yourself in situations where you're going to fail. then failure becomes normal and you won't be fazed. life as a man is a grind. get used to it. negative emotions are going to be there. either meditate and watch them come and go, or channel them into some passion/hobby or lifting/sports. you don't go from caring about everyone's opinion, to not caring at all. it's a gradu…	/r/askTRP	31/07/18 12:12 AM
1	Meditation ideas just sit and relax and be aware you are breathing. it's simple, but not easy for the western mind. there's no goal to attain. the idea is to practice being present with whatever is, regardless of what you think about it. what is, is.	/r/askTRP	31/07/18 12:06 AM
2	Dating advice Youtubers,is their advice sound at all? try it and see what works. discard the rest. you don't need a hundred techniques. just focus on getting smooth with one or three and you'll do fine.	/r/askTRP	31/07/18 12:05 AM
5	Girl at work - addicted to her for no reason then why are you asking the question?	/r/askTRP	31/07/18 12:04 AM
2	High n counts and desire to have sex with "old plates" They've done studies where they show that when people are shopping, their happiness and excitement is the highest literally the moment before the transaction is complete. Then these positive emotions drop dramatically. It's like that. Also, there's something to getting to know a girl and deepening a connection. It adds to the sex and gets her to open up and be more adventurous. That's part of the fun for me. It's like, "how much can I get her to surrender." also, monk mode does wonders. gets you…	/r/askTRP	31/07/18 12:01 AM
1	How can I stop a defeat attitude lol, "I want it to come easily." Unless you have top 5% genetics, it's not going to be easy coming from your background. takes time. gotta keep doing what you're doing and sooner or later the results will show. your frame is super weak right now. practice meditating, dancing, dong yoga. you don't have to talk to be a great conversationalist. in fact, you barely have to say anything. the best conversationalist I know, he's super wealthy (100mm+), asks the best questions and gets to know people we…	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 11:57 PM
2	How do I actually get plates? yoga classes, barre classes (literally ALL girls), dance. only go if you like doing these things. Also, just focus on yourself and achieving your goals. have direction in life. lift. I've never been in the club scene. it's not a positive vibe that adds benefit to anyone's life. but seriously, girls are EVERYWHERE. you just build momentum, talk with some girls, touch girls, play with them, tease them, and sooner or later you'll find girls who vibe with you and they'll make it quite clear that the…	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 11:49 PM
2	Applying what i learn takes time. mostly, just relax. pause. breathe. it's all good. you're on a good path. patience.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 11:46 PM
4	New school and feel like I'm already screwing things up again how old are you? just put your head down, study hard, join some clubs, keep playing your sports. you're not going to be friends with everyone you meet.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 11:45 PM
5	Girl at work - addicted to her for no reason don't be an idiot. sometimes you have to let your hormones rage for the sake of something more important. your work and stream of income, unless you are financially independent, is probably one of, if not the most important things in your life. Don't take an unnecessary risk for some wet hole. There are millions of other wet holes at your disposal everyday. Find one.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 11:43 PM
12	skinnyfat: how2raise smv you are way overthinking this. Just lift heavy things, eat right, sleep well, play some sports when you can, do well in school, have a social life with bright people who have a future. There's no rush. Life is a journey and there will be ups and downs. Early 20's is time to build a foundation. Chasing pussy at that age is pretty much a waste of time. I'm almost 30 now and the looks I get from women are literally 100x what they were when I was 20.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 11:38 PM
1	It's been months and i'm still not over my ex, help? Takes time my friend. I was depressed and in a bad state for almost 3 years after my first sex-fueled relationship. Time heals everything. Channel all those emotions into something that will make you more confident. Also, dancing will do wonders for your confidence. Ecstatic dance is my favourite. Gets you out of your head and into your body, which is basically a cure for any mental/emotional blockages.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 11:34 PM
1	What did you do that made girls chase you? Sorry, sounds like you’re full of excuses. No girl likes a guy who complains about everything. Do what you can to get out of your country because it sounds like that’s really keeping you back. But still, what skills do you have? How old are you? Are you ambitious, driven, athletic? Do you lift heavy things?	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 01:47 PM
1	How should a 19yr old manage his money At your age, strongly consider creating a side project/business. You can put your extra money into growing it. It’s the best experience to learn how to build something from scratch, and it might end up a success.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 04:31 AM
1	How did you handle/go through the anger phase? Takes time my friend. Put all that emotion into raising your smv. Fuck bitches, get money is the main idea. Money can be replaced with “big” or “a hobby” or “a passion” most of the time.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 04:28 AM
1	What did you do that made girls chase you? Well I forgot to mention you sort of have to be good at a sport, if that’s your hobby, for it to have a positive impact on your smv. Wanting to leave the country isn’t a passion. It’s more just anger. I get it, I’ve been in and out of the us for many years and I wouldn’t go back unless something happened to my mom. But girls don’t get turned off by that.... Girls want a master of something. They don’t want desperation. You’re desperate now. Meditation, lifting, developing a real skill, having in…	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 04:20 AM
1	Girl getting mate guarded, good idea to try to move forward? Sure.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 04:14 AM
1	I have an issue I want fixed. I find flaws in very attractive women that makes me lose interest once they show they want me as a boyfriend. First accept that you do it. Then relax around the idea that you do it. Don’t force yourself to change. What you resist persists. What you allow dissolves. Also meditation, dancing helps. Anything that gets you out of your mind and into your body feeling feelings is the key. Then you see things aren’t as rigid as you think, and you can either accept things as they are or you can resist them and want them to change.	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 04:13 AM
5	Does TRP work in high school? It works but there’s less you can do about your smv. In general, if you want girls swarming, you most likely have to be a very good athlete, have 7/10+ looks, be very popular otherwise, somehow be a natural, or be a combination of two or more of the above. Your career is playing a sport or being a popular kid or maybe being in student leadership or at the top of an important club. That said, the principles still apply. Dgaf attitude, preselection (popularity, especially among other women), abund…	/r/askTRP	30/07/18 04:07 AM
2	Girl getting mate guarded, good idea to try to move forward? As your smv rises, you’re going to be seen as a threat by almost all men in relationships especially if they are clinging to their gfs (like 95% of boyfriends). It’s instinctual. Men know women are attracted to strong confident men, and most men are far from that. They know their girls will be attracted to you. But why are you trying to contact a girl you’re not really into? Why waste your time? I think you better look deeply into your own heart and see what your motivation is. Smells of small m…	/r/askTRP	29/07/18 09:23 PM
4	I have an issue I want fixed. I find flaws in very attractive women that makes me lose interest once they show they want me as a boyfriend. Nothing wrong with you. Your seeing tiny imperfections in people reflects your own judgements about yourself. Learning to love ourselves as we are is a long journey. Also, there could be a fear of commitment or intimacy, but that’s definitely not uncommon among men, especially as we learn and experience awalt. Most girls nowadays have very little to offer...better in my opinion to keep emotional distance until they really prove their loyalty over a relatively long period of time. Even then, I wo…	/r/askTRP	29/07/18 09:19 PM
15	I saw gf on a date with some guy. Did i handle this correctly? AWALT.	/r/askTRP	29/07/18 07:04 PM
2	What did you do that made girls chase you? Develop a passion, a hobby. What kind of exercise do you do? Focus on things other than women, and he women will swarm.	/r/askTRP	29/07/18 02:15 PM
2	How do I lower my physical standards? Having a number in your head is a sign of some insecurity. Why does it matter that it’s new girls? I get that the chase is fun and it’s a game and new fresh pussy feels good, but what’s the end? Are you following up with any of your former lays? Making any meaningful connections? Empty sex doesn’t lead to any fulfillment.	/r/askTRP	29/07/18 12:31 AM
5	Should you initiate dread at any sign of disrespect in an LTR? Dread is something a girl should naturally feel because you have other options...you don’t have to say anything. Just always be sure you can walk away in an instant. This is dread.	/r/askTRP	29/07/18 12:26 AM
9	Why do we care about another's hobbies? Passion is contagious. When you’re really into something, you can’t wait to share with people your new discoveries/insights/adventures. Women get turned on by passion. It shows you have better things to do than chase women, and they all wanta man who has better things to do than them.	/r/askTRP	29/07/18 12:24 AM
1	Should I be worried about her social media orbiters? Sounds like you have oneitis. instead of worrying about some other man, why not just go approach new women and keep your options open. You’re already losing frame here.	/r/askTRP	28/07/18 11:56 PM
2	How do I lower my physical standards? I think there’s this underlying psychological need to conquer that messes men’s minds up, if taken too far. You’re having sex with 2 or 3 new good looking girls a month and you still want more? I think it’s time to be alone and let all that emptiness and sadness and anger come to the surface instead of trying to fill it with empty sex with average looking girls....	/r/askTRP	28/07/18 11:53 PM
5	A married chick is kind of into me. There are so many single girls out there...why do people insist on wasting their time with married women? I have no idea. Just go find a young fresh girl who’s into you. Why flirt with unnecessary stress and drama and potential danger? It’s pretty dumb.	/r/askTRP	28/07/18 11:48 PM
6	How to prevent being a Beta Provider? Also just don’t buy a bunch of stuff. A couple of cheap meals/desserts/drinks, cheesy gifts, here and there is ok if you realize you’re doing it because you want to and it makes you feel good as a man to have disposable income. But if there’s any sense of “I’m doing this for her approval” you’re already being used.	/r/askTRP	28/07/18 11:45 PM
1	Young man looking for hobbies, nerdy shit encouraged Lol this is bad advice. Casinos are the cesspool of human beings. Doesn’t lead to any purpose or fulfillment or friendships. Source: I used to be a professional.	/r/askTRP	28/07/18 11:41 PM
2	Young man looking for hobbies, nerdy shit encouraged Highly recommended. Amazing way to learn how to escalate without words. Also you learn about human relationships and what drives a girl crazy sexually (read: preselection, confidence, height, good looks, smoothness).	/r/askTRP	28/07/18 11:40 PM
1	My Gf gets hit on a lot at her waitress job, a lot of dudes are giving her their numbers how do I respond “Nice.” Then go back to what you’re doing. The less your react, the higher your perceived value. Whoever is more willing to walk has the power.	/r/askTRP	26/07/18 03:53 AM
2	Should I confront them? So they are not really your friends. Use them for as long as they are useful, but know they don’t have your best interests at heart. Sometimes people are going to disappoint you. Learn your lesson and move on.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:21 PM
2	Women on social media - question about their behaviour You’re being thirsty my man. Work on yourself...stop chasing women when your value is low.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:17 PM
1	Should I go to see my oneitis that dumped me? Lol, what? Have you read a single word of the sidebar? You’re pining over this girl and you’ve already lost the game. Next. There are billions of women on this planet. Start talking to some of them.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:14 PM
2	Texting a Girlfriend Ldr is really dumb if what you want is a gf and sex. You basically just have a female friend that takes your time and attention. Out of sight, out of mind is the way to go with girls. Don’t waste your precious time.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:10 PM
1	New plate sends me casual selfie out of the blue. How to (not) respond? I wouldn’t even respond. If she’s into you, keep her thirsty for your attention.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:07 PM
1	What do you do if you make an honest mistake that minorly inconveinices a girl? Sounds like you don’t really had your life together right now. You could probably benefit from monk mode and working on your confidence, physique and frame.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:05 PM
1	Why is it considered being an incel if you’re maxing out your fitness/fashion, finances, and social presence to get women? You are really confused. Incel is involuntary celibate. Somebody who can’t get laid. Are you getting laid? If not can you if you put effort into it? Who cares what anybody else thinks. What do you think about yourself and your life?	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:03 PM
9	How to stop being the guy that gets stuck with the fat friend? If you’re always stuck with the fat girl, your smv needs work. Keep lifting and building that confidence. Takes time. Patience.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 09:01 PM
3	I have lots of women interested in me, but im failing at initiating a kiss, let alone sex Kino. It takes practice. Flirt a bunch. Touch girls just for the fun of it because you want to. Light at first and if they are receptive, you can escalate further. Please read sidebar.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 08:58 PM
10	Friends are way too thirsty for girls. Focus on yourself. If you’re not enjoying your friends’ company, just do your own thing. Monk mode is the best thing a man can do anyway for the most part. You don’t always need to be around people to have fun and fill the empty hole in your life. Learn to spend time with yourself. Going to bars is a waste of time. What are your goals in life?	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 08:57 PM
2	Girl [18] who is a solid 9 randomly messaged me [18] and told me I’m hot, did I approach this the right way? Talk with other women...they’re all the same. As soon as you think a girl is special, you’re already headed in the wrong way emotionally and mentally.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 08:55 PM
2	Living with my ex whose to attached Sounds like you know what you want deep down. Take a risk and do what’s best for your life. Also, getting shitfaced is going to keep you from moving forward with your goals.	/r/askTRP	22/07/18 08:54 PM
2	I have a extreme case of oneitis and I can’t get this fucking girl out of my mind. It’s difficult. But the thing is they want to invest more than you. They want you to have options. They want to chase. Let them. Always be talking to new women and be ready to leave at a seconds notice.	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 11:56 PM
1	Coming off as needy Lol, talk with other girls! This is the only way to get over oneitis. Abundance. The world is full of women.	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 03:33 PM
3	No motivation. You have to keep going even when you have no motivation. This is what separates winners from average people. It’s easy to get started but to carry a vision out fully is a grind. This is a mans life.	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 03:32 PM
2	You know I'm genuinely not interested in you I just want to get this group project done Lol just laugh it off. I like saying, “silly girl” with a smirk at lots of shit tests. Gets their panties mad wet.	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 03:31 PM
2	Can't understand what's my problem You’re young. You are on a good path. We all have to go through myriad failures to achieve success. Any hobbies? Are you exercising? Keep your head up. Keep working on yourself and the results will come. Don’t try to be anything other than what you already are....	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 03:29 PM
0	Shit test: "What do you do for a work?" "How much money did you make" I like going with “I run a business....” if she asks what type, you can say real estate. Youre not lying, but it’s also vague enough that she has no idea what you actually do....not sure why everyone thinks you have to make up something outrageous. You don’t have to talk about your work or reveal anything about your income, but you don’t have to make something up either. Just know its not worth your time to delve into it beyond a one or two word answer. Change the subject immediately.	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 03:25 PM
3	Should I just next my LTR Sounds like she’s nexting you. Time to move on.	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 03:21 PM
4	I have a extreme case of oneitis and I can’t get this fucking girl out of my mind. This is why you keep emotional investment to a minimum with women. If you give them your thoughts and heart, you’ve already lost the game.	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 03:20 PM
12	Why are girls attracted to guys who are aloof towards them? It means you don’t care whether she likes you or not, which infers you have sex and have options, which is why females are attracted in the first place. It signals high status and makes her feel she has to chase you for attention. That’s what they want. All of them....	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 08:14 AM
2	Friendzoned chick is taking me to salsa classes tomorrow It’s possible if you have good genetics and work ethic and focus on getting in shape....have you tried it?	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 08:11 AM
3	Why are women so careful NOT to give men attention or validation, but it's the exact opposite with men? Stop with the mental masturbation and work on yourself. All the thinking in the world isn’t going to make you more attractive. Take action. Work on your physique and strength.	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 08:09 AM
1	What is up with girls looking at guys out of the corner of their eye? Yup I get this literally all the time. Women tend to be more subtle, in general. Don’t overthink it. If you find her attractive, and feel like approaching, do it. You’ll find out if she’s interested quite quickly. Stop trying to figure things out so much and go for it. Just assume all women are attracted to you. It’s a life changing state of mind to practice.	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 08:07 AM
6	Is it best to be given women direct eye contact and smile. Or no attention at all? Don’t overthink it dude. Be natural. If you’re high smv it doesn’t really matter. If you look at them, think “I could fuck you right now.” Don’t forcibly ignore them for too long if they are attractive. You have to strike when the iron is hot. Don’t hesitate to escape and isolate.	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 08:05 AM
1	First gf dumped me then slept with another guy the next night Yup it’s gonna be a rough few months, but it’s your responsibility to change your life. Decide that you want to improve yourself, take action, and the results will follow. Patience, my friend.	/r/askTRP	19/07/18 06:47 AM
2	Fine china plate.... Take it as far as you can sexually. Forget the she’s too proper idea. Girls get wild for the right guy. If you can get her alone and feeling horny, sex is on the table....	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 11:06 PM
1	LTR mad at me for menial action, how long does it take for them to get over it? Sounds like you need to learn how to escape quickly. Nowadays girls get bored and disinterested quite quickly. Please read sidebar and practice flirting, kino, etc. it’s a journey that’s going to require lots of failure. Sounds like you need to drop this girl. Sex is the value a woman offers. Find girls who want to have sex.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 11:04 PM
2	Fine china plate.... Use simple language. Maybe google translate. Touch her. Grab her hand and lead her back to the bedroom. Have you had sex with this girl? Oh say she’s orbiting you...if she wants sex and you want sex, it should be pretty straight forward no?	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:44 PM
2	LTR mad at me for menial action, how long does it take for them to get over it? Lol what? Sounds like you’re just a friend to her. Have you kissed her? How old are you? Have you had sex before?	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:40 PM
1	Non-sugary drinks besides water? Lol, what a mess society has become...people getting addicted to energy drinks and soda and “hating” water. All that sugar is warping your mind. Cut it out cold turkey and learn to love water, the most important resource next to air. Seriously, this question is a symptom of some mental issues. Rejecting water is rejecting life.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:36 PM
3	As a single guy is it at all worth hanging with married friends? If you derive pleasure/benefit, why not? The question is really vague and nobody is going to know who these friends are. Make your own decisions based on gut feelings and observations and opportunity costs. It’s part of being a grown up.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:32 PM
2	"I've never met someone like you" I usually go with a short sound like “humph” or “hmm” and a smirk, then change the subject. The less affected you are by compliment, the higher value you come across.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:30 PM
-1	Told a girl to come on a date with me and she said "if you ask like that you're, no we're not" Seems like she’s not into you. I would just ignore it and move on...lots of fishies in the sea. Never put too much thought and energy into one girl.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:27 PM
1	Fine china plate.... Sounds like you’re just starting to date women...learning to escalate physically and verbally takes practice. Please read the sidebar and ask for clarification if necessary. Put in the work, don’t ask for shortcuts.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:25 PM
1	Questioning whether it is all worth it You’re 23...you’re just getting started. It takes time to become a man. Usually lots of failure. Keep your head up, weather the ups and downs of life, and good things will come sooner or later.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:20 PM
1	Any exercises to build stronger frame Dancing and approaching women on the dance floor without words has helped my frame tremendously. I’ve always been extremely conversational, but the dancing has allowed me to practice calibration and kino like no other.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:17 PM
1	Are girls often testing your social-skills? The key is frame. Who’s controlling the conversation? Who cares less about the outcome? The less you care, the more attractive you are. Caring less usually comes from putting yourself in uncomfortable situations over and over again, experiencing failure and bouncing back, and having options re: sex. Also, if you’re just starting out, go with real life conversations. Tinder/bumble is really a bubble and you’re much better off having to fail in person than being able to think for minutes/hours bef…	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:15 PM
1	I know it's the dumbest post you'll ever see but I don't know how to speak properly It takes practice. Keep putting yourself in uncomfortable situations. Literally you just have to start conversations with people. Comment on something they are wearing without expecting anything in return. Try some meet ups if possible. What are you passionate about? How old are you?	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:11 PM
3	First gf dumped me then slept with another guy the next night Transform this anger into a rockin’ physique and within a couple months you’ll have more female attention than you could have ever imagined. It’s painful: Almost all men go through it at one point or another, especially if we’ve been brought up to be nice to women. Never contact her. Seriously. It’s tempting but you’re way better off talking with other girls. Once you sleep with a couple more women, you’ll realize it’s all part of becoming a man. Be strong. Lift weights.	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 10:08 PM
1	Do What You truly Want to do, because Regret is what keeps you up at night. If not approaching one woman is keeping you up at night, you clearly have not dealt with enough women...some days/weeks/months I’d rather be with myself than with women. Being by yourself and dealing with life’s suffering in silence builds character. You don’t need to approach every hot girl you see...that’s just being distracted and living a purposeless life.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 06:21 PM
4	Confidence is about owning it. As someone who grew up loving video and computer games and spending lots of time thinking about and playing them, I’d say it’s a pretty big waste of time...it dulls your edge while you live in a fantasy world. We can come up with all kinds of rationalizations for why we should continue a suboptimal way of thinking or behavior, but that’s just our resistance to change.... I say this as someone who played (not a video) a game for a living....	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 06:13 PM
9	Do not even try reconnecting with your oneitis Lol, dude, relax. There are plenty of other fish in the sea...talk with some new girls and your oneitis will fade away without even your noticing.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 06:07 PM
2	Do What You truly Want to do, because Regret is what keeps you up at night. After a while doing what you want also becomes a bit old and childish...I understand approaching and gaming and laying women can be fun, but what’s the end? All the sex in the world will not satisfy us.... Every new relationship is already broken to begin with. Why get so excited about broken plates? We can’t always chase pleasure and expect it to last forever...sometimes we have to do things we don’t necessarily want to do (wash dishes, do laundry, shop for groceries).	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 06:03 PM
5	Do not even try reconnecting with your oneitis It’s all about frame. Who’s directing the conversation and the flow of the relationship?	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 06:00 PM
9	Despite massive societal gains, are women any happier? Nothing of this world will satisfy a person....the more our desires are met, the more we desire. The more we expect from life, the more we are inevitably let down as our bodies age. That’s why most of the major religions teach contentment and peace, not consumerism and unlimited sex. It’s not to say we shouldn’t have goals or ambitions or sleep with beautiful women — it’s simply understanding the difference between pleasure and contentment....there’s no contentment in sensual pleasures. Women th…	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/18 05:34 PM
1	I know I'm having oneitis but can you here me out. Seriously, talk with other girls. Whenever you’re thinking about one girl, you’ve already lost the game....	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 02:24 PM
4	A man's ultimate guide to smelling good. I don’t use soap or shampoo (I keep my hair extremely short). Never wear cologne. The other day a girl was shocked after I told her I don’t put anything on. She said I smell like perfume. I think a good diet, regular exercise, and being happy in general helps a person smell good. Probably genetics as well.	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/18 10:55 PM
1	In urgent need of work advice. Work life is never going to be perfect, but most of need work to live. So you have to deal with it while you’re there. Also probably best to start looking for other work in your free time if the situation is really stressing you out....	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:56 PM
1	Where do I find women if I am over 40? There are women EVERYWHERE! You just have to work up the courage to approach them....any colleges nearby? Yoga classes? Barre classes? Also just keep working on your physique and other parts of smv. You’ll start noticing women looking at you. Then you say hi and take it from there....	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:53 PM
4	Girl acting strange around me.. bad vibe. If you have plates, why are you even giving this girl any of your precious energy and time? Just move on. Find girls who are into you.	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:50 PM
1	Problem She’s inviting you to Netflix and chill? Just tell her ”okay, come over and bring some [chocolate/wine/whatever].” Seriously don’t overthink things. When a girl invites you to do something, you basically just have to show up....	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:48 PM
3	Messaging girls I know on Facebook? Sounds like you need to approach more women. You sound pretty desperate from your post...like you don’t have many options. The key is simply to put yourself in situations where you’re highly likely to be rejected. It build character.	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:45 PM
2	"Don't call me babe. Try again." That’s a really bad opener...it shows absolutely no creativity and makes you sound like 95% of other desperate men. You know how many guys send basically the same exact message? Dont use babe in your first message, most girls don’t like it. I’d just completely ignore and move on.	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:43 PM
1	''To do what?'' Shit test? Lack of interest? How old are you? What was the interaction before you asked this question? I wouldn’t ask a question if you are going the hang out route. Use the word “let’s.” Let’s get coffee something. Let’s grab a bite sometime. There are so many ways to go about it but basically you have to be high value for her to want to spend time with you. Come from a position of strength. This is why approaching many women and having options is important. Then you won’t care so much and you’re not seeking approval. You …	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:38 PM
1	Basic attraction help request. Lol say whatever you want. Don’t think about it. It’s just a conversation with another human being. Were you attracted to her? Stay positive and practice dgaf attitude. Sounds like you could use practice socializing with people. Start random conversations about anything!	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:34 PM
3	Advice: Shit test or low value? You’re way overthinking. Talk with other girls! And/or actually meetup in person and see if there’s chemistry. If there is and you want sex, escalate and isolate. Stop sending long emails to girls you are interested in. It doesn’t really work nowadays with all the social media and instant gratification. It’s your job to decide what you want. What is it you want from this girl?	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:31 PM
1	When a girl wants to know my past? Stay mysterious. Give her little bits of information if you want, but you don’t have to reveal anything you don’t want to. You can frame your past however way you want. Lift. Be a winner. It takes practice. Talk with lots of girls so you have a sense of abundance in your life. It’s mostly mindset and physical training helps create positive vibes.	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:27 PM
1	2 complex social tests. Find new friends. Why would you want to try convincing people to like you? You’re changing your thoughts and habits. The increase in positive energy can be threatening to your old friend groups. Making new friends and acquaintances is a good skill to build, it will open many doors for you. Re hb4: just ignore her? Nobody can make you do anything unless you are working for them or something....but it’s helpful if you give a specific example.	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:24 PM
4	So you get betrayed. You have all these bitter angry feelings. You kind of feel like a fool. Where do you put this energy? You're just stuck with it right? I find that I'm walking around tense and pissed off and I don't know how to get out of it. I work out everyday but it isn't enough. Wanting to get rid of a feeling is normal. But sometimes life doesn’t work the way you want it to. Just be with the feeling and sooner or later it will pass or transform. Below anger, there’s always sadness so you have to let yourself feel that and maybe even cry. Life can be sad in many situations. It’s ok to feel it fully.	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 04:19 PM
9	why is it that getting laid comes so easily to some of you guys? Judging by your comments, you clearly don’t have your shit together. You’re not in shape, probably have low testosterone, and are generally dismissive of anybody who offers advice or shares their experiences. You can attract women if you learn how to approach and escalate sexually. How much rejection have you been putting yourself through? How many women do you approach per week/month? Sounds like you’re playing the victim and blaming your looks when it’s really your attitude that needs the most…	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 11:15 PM
1	What have you experienced first-hand sicne taking the red pill that has shocked you? The cold transactional nature of intersexual relationships.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 11:10 PM
2	Besides lifting weights/physical exercise, what are the activities/hobbies/habits that you've been able to draw continuous and tangible benefits from over a long-term period of time? Dancing, meditating, cryotherapy, yoga, learning the start conversations with anybody about anything, escalating sexually with women I find attractive.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 11:07 PM
4	What's your opinion on mother's love? A good mother’s love is the realest care you’ll ever feel in your life, unless you somehow have the karma to spend significant time around a true spiritual master. Cherish it. She won’t be around forever.	/r/askTRP	15/07/18 11:06 PM
3	[field report] deepthroat and anal fingering on the first date, but cold afterwards... don't double text! that's like rule number one. now you seem needy/clingy and the game is essentially over. move on. sometimes relationships don't work out for one reason or the other.	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/18 04:15 AM
7	On what makes a man attractive DGAF is ACTUALLY DGAF. Like, "I don't really care what anybody thinks of me. I don't need to try because women want a man and I am a man. The true man is the limited resource; new pretty girls are born everyday." It's a mindset shift of you do whatever you want, even if it's looking at the girl and paying her a little attention. You do whatever you want to do regardless of what people may think of you. It's not something you do as much as it's a vibe that you give off once you mature and grow as…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 09:56 AM
34	On what makes a man attractive DGAF attitude and the I-don't-need-you attitude is what gets girls chasing you. Looks are important to a certain degree, but even ugly men can pull good-looking girls if they have other things going for them.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/18 09:00 PM
11	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 30 listening to people tell stories is the best way to gain trust and become popular. everybody will want to be around you.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/18 07:37 PM
-9	[FR] Be as hot as possible. in 6 months, people can do all kinds of stuff with their bodies, if they are dedicated to transformation. you can go from an average lazy joe to super ripped in 6 months of good diet and hardcore training.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/18 07:35 PM
9	Game basics; the reframe Good post. Essentially, don't take anything a woman says seriously. Smirk. Laugh at the silly games they try to play.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 06:10 PM
15	How to better approach higher-tiered women lol, what? is this a level?	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 03:51 PM
1	New here, have a question about my “girl” so just fuck her and keep your options open. women are always looking for the strongest, most successful man their looks can get. as soon as they know they have you on the hook, it's game over. they start looking elsewhere. your attitude must be dgaf if you want to succeed. you can't start liking one TOO much or you'll easily return to a clingy lack mindset.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 10:10 AM
6	Interview at a tech company Don't blame other people. You have to play certain roles to get work. Play those roles if you want the job. It's mostly about presentation and making friends with the interviewer. Build rapport. Don't be egotistical in job interviews if you don't need to be. But sometimes, it's not meant to be. Just move on and pursue other opportunities.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 09:20 AM
2	New here, have a question about my “girl” the fact that you are thinking about this shows you've got a long way to go. never get stuck on one girl. always have backups/choices.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 09:14 AM
6	Where did I go wrong? [Advice][Long] Sounds like you had her chasing you, until you let her feel she caught you, and the power of her pussy could make you go thousands of miles to visit her. Then, she realizes you're not the alpha she thought you were, so she rejects you. Stop treating girls like princesses. Stop doing things for them. Stop buying them stuff. It dries them up. Be hard to get. Always. Especially the hotter girls, they are used to guys bending over backwards for them. You have to switch it to where they feel like YOU…	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 02:01 AM
118	Finally nuked the Hamster Nice! Very happy for you. What a weird world we live in. The colder we become, the hotter they chase us.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/18 01:56 AM
26	Eye contact yep. i avoid unnecessary eye contact with people who don't matter to me, especially if i can feel they are trying to get some kind of emotional arousal out of me. the attitude i have is, "you're not worth my time or energy." this vibe is so utterly powerful and commanding, and then people somehow compete for the limited resources that are clearly not just given away freely.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 11:45 PM
2	Don't Give Women Validation For A Superficial Aspect lol, every woman -- "no! i'm not like that. im different than all the other women out there. look at me please." at the core, women are all the same.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 10:38 PM
2	Don't Give Women Validation For A Superficial Aspect women will be women. they are nice to have around when they are in their fun-loving, good, sexy moods, and terrible to be around when they are in their bitchy moods. Solipsistic is the one of the best words to describe women. women will never know what it's like to be a man. they have never tried to "get" women. only men who have failed over and over and have painfully mastered the game really understand the true nature of women. we see what women are actually after. we see the cunning and the m…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 10:30 PM
1	Don't Give Women Validation For A Superficial Aspect huh, you sound like a post-wall woman with some kind of issue with not being able to get men to commit to you. or you're a white knight "protecting women." im guessing the former. i'll keep going with my life, not waiting for any one woman. you keep doing your thing, whatever it is.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 09:35 PM
1	Don't Give Women Validation For A Superficial Aspect huh, i dunno. something doesn't add up. i dont know how you can say you were ugly for most of your youth and also say you hit the lottery. everyone has an agenda. your agenda is to persuade people to your way of looking at things and to get a little attention from internet strangers. there's no shame in having an agenda.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 09:07 PM
3	Ubermensch Mode - The Animated Video - (Combined With IM's Monk Mode) then you are a slave to your "smv position." it comes down to values. what do you value more? your smv? or taking care of your body/mind with silence/solitude/recovery time?	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 08:37 PM
0	Don't Give Women Validation For A Superficial Aspect ive been with plenty of "fun" girls, but ive seen enough of them where it's not enough. the longer im with a girl, the more she has to be able to match me intellectually. otherwise, it's just sex. i don't like shallow conversations for the most part. every man looks for different things in girls. you look for yours, i'll look for mine.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 08:08 PM
6	Don't Give Women Validation For A Superficial Aspect some girls like to play games to see how much they can get away with before they have sex with a guy. once they have sex, they've given up lots of their power. for men with choice, we usually dont need to wait. we have choice. if a girl wants to play games, i'll entertain it for a bit if she's hot enough, but i'm going to move on pretty quickly because i don't like wasting my time. i don't know how many times ive been the one the "good girls" who havent had sex in many months/more than a year ha…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 08:02 PM
2	Don't Give Women Validation For A Superficial Aspect just for chuckles, i respond, because i like putting thoughts on paper. nothing i say will change your mind obviously since you come into this sub with an agenda. the most attractive women in their prime love to be looked down on by valuable men. it's what gets them off. they literally cant get wet from being around men who think they are "goddesses." hence, "don't pedestalize." i don't think you've ever experienced this. you were ugly during your youth. Deep at the biological core, for one-time…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 07:54 PM
1	[Rant] I don’t know anymore .... if you are serious about being successful, college should be spent making friends with intelligent people who are bound to be successful. connections are one of the biggest keys to success. also, get involved in some organizations and take up leadership roles whenever you can. college isn't going to be the way you accumulate wealth. it's just a basic prerequisite to getting in the door in basically any industry.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 02:00 PM
19	Friend Gains the Interest of a Bitch We Both Found Hot, Promptly Fucks it All Up yes, thanks for the added nuance. I should say, "don't over invest in women emotionally." fwiw, i think once they are invested enough, it's ok to be a bit warmer and lose some of the standoffish-ness that comes with testing women. im quite aloof until they show themselves to be worth the energy, and then i'll slowly reveal different aspects of myself.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 04:34 AM
1	[Rant] I don’t know anymore .... also, just fyi, if you want to be taken at all seriously, i'd highly recommend you learn/use proper punctuation. you're not going to get promoted to any position of any significance with the way you type/text. just the fact that you're defensive about your way of typing reveals a bit of inflexibility and propensity not to listen to good advice.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 04:23 AM
1	[Rant] I don’t know anymore .... fwiw, i think you need some mentors/role models. Find some successful people and learn from them, absorb what they have to teach. Find positive people. Be around them. You have to change your mindset first if you want any chance to be happy/successful. Also, by most people's standards, having slept with 9 women by the time your 21 is nothing to scoff at. By the time I was 21, I had only slept with two (although one was a crazy nympho and we fucked like rabbits for a year and a half).	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 04:20 AM
3	[Rant] I don’t know anymore .... Please work on your punctuation. You don't need a space before a period or a comma. I would say, stop complaining and go get that money. Save it. Don't buy stuff. Work on your social skills. Find a hobby that you like and work to master it. Mastering something makes a man feel good.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 04:11 AM
55	Friend Gains the Interest of a Bitch We Both Found Hot, Promptly Fucks it All Up TL;DR Don't invest emotionally in women. Never wait for sex, ever. If you're waiting, you've already lost.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 04:06 AM
3	How the inner voices have changed. Glad you're waking up. 21 is super young to know this stuff. Good luck on your journey.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 04:03 AM
7	Don't Give Women Validation For A Superficial Aspect People will use and accentuate whatever assets they have to improve their ability to get what they want and need in life. Attractive women get what they want, more or less, as a direct effect of their beauty and ability to manipulate. They don't need to earn their praise. They've been handed the genetic lottery. Why would they ever work on themselves when hordes of thirsty men give them whatever they want regardless of their personalities? Nobody is responsible for helping others grow as human b…	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 03:56 AM
2	April 20 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread psychedelics? inner change takes years/decades. also, it seems like spending time by yourself is important. sometimes too much of our self-esteem is based on our social circle(s). what happens when all that is stripped from us? who are we? what are the feelings we've been suppressing with social activities? the loneliness, the frustration, the emptiness, the unworthiness...all these have to come to the surface in silent solitude.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/18 03:23 AM
2	April 20 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread you sound very self-aware. i think it's time to put yourself first. find something you're passionate about and let it consume you. lose yourself to mastering whatever art/science/hobby you find. feeling empty is a normal part of life. life is inherently substance less. There is no meaning other than the one we give it. this feeling of emptiness is not going to go away any time soon. if you let it humble you (which it sounds like you're already letting), it will make you into a very wise percepti…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:38 PM
2	The Hamster is Strong with this One; or How I Alpha Widowed a Poly Woman (long) I was traveling and she let me stay at her place for a couple weeks before my flight. She'll probably just be a fond memory. Unattractive women love attractive men, but they hate how the latter don't pay them any attention, so they have to channel their rage in one direction or the other. And yes, I feel bad for the bottom 80-85% of men out there. They are really hurting. I see some men and realize the ONLY women who will sleep with them are prostitutes and ugly angry gold-diggers. Like, WOW, wh…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:21 PM
5	Hot quality college professor cheated on her husband with me - a life lesson lol, yeah, i tend to trust people at first sight, because i don't know why people would lie, but then the more i think about it, the more it seems completely far-fetched. like something out of a fantasy movie.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:11 PM
5	Hot quality college professor cheated on her husband with me - a life lesson After class, I wait until everyone leaves and approach her all smooth and to the point and say "I got time, lets go to your car". Lol, that's a pretty baller line. Is that really how it came out? Like no small talk or anything?	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:00 PM
8	The Hamster is Strong with this One; or How I Alpha Widowed a Poly Woman (long) Ah, I see. I've been with a few intellectual girls, and I always like reading their writing. It's like they put so much thought and passion and emotion into it. Yep, the one foot out the door thing is key. As soon as a man gets comfortable, starts lazing around, the woman gets bored and starts looking elsewhere. It's like a woman literally cringes when she realizes her man is attracting less women. Her self-worth is DIRECTLY tied to the number/quality of women her man is able to attract. And RE:…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 10:50 PM
9	The Hamster is Strong with this One; or How I Alpha Widowed a Poly Woman (long) not every woman openly tells her main LTR she's screwing around.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 10:42 PM
5	The Hamster is Strong with this One; or How I Alpha Widowed a Poly Woman (long) a woman who is openly in several sexual relationships.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 09:11 PM
12	The Hamster is Strong with this One; or How I Alpha Widowed a Poly Woman (long) Thank you for sharing. You're an excellent writer, and the woman is as well. It really shows how relationships form the core of a woman's life and her self-worth, self-perception. I've experienced this, too. When you ghost women, they all think about you, because you're unlike the other desperate droolers they have in their lives. "The grass is always greener on the other side." "We pursue that which retreats from us." This is why I tend usually to be the "retreating" party. I'm always testing w…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 09:04 PM
2	askTRP Megathread April 25 Oh yeah, in Ubud, there are a bunch of yoga studios, the Yoga Barn (for ecstatic dance, wed evenings, sun mornings), Sayuri's vegan cafe (where a bunch of people hang out; I spent so much time there). In Canggu as well, there's the Practice (yoga studio). What kind of work do you do? What country are you in currently?	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 07:03 PM
3	The Other Red Pills "The government is a racket of people trying to live at the expenses of the productive members of society;" I'm mostly against government, but I'm quite sure absolute anarchy would be a disaster. There are some good people in governmental agencies who want to serve the public. Shit would hit the fan if there weren't police, firefighters, paramedics, VA (even though it's a mess), EPA, consumer protection, etc. Not everyone working in the government is parasitic. Some of them are actually passiona…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 06:54 PM
2	askTRP Megathread April 25 HA! Everywhere dude. Literally everywhere. You just have to pick your scene. Personally, I like clean girls who dance and do yoga and are into being healthy. So Ubud is perfect for that. There is quite a scene in Canggu as well, and it's bigger, so you'll have your choice. In Ubud, too, there's all kinds of people. There are many bars on the main strip.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 06:35 PM
2	askTRP Megathread April 25 I was in Ubud the entire time. Good yoga/dance/vegan scene.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 05:30 PM
2	askTRP Megathread April 25 ha. in the circles im in (yoga, dance, vegan food), it's relatively easy to find girls who don't have major substance issues. they feel clean. they smell nice. my first gf in high school had an absent alcoholic dad, and she herself loved to drink. upon reflection, she was a messed up broken girl and wanted to lose herself to the drink. she was a crazy nympho, too....	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 04:29 PM
9	Managing social time I find it best to not commit to anything I'm not 100% about. Once a person reaches a high enough status in his community/social circle, he's going to be invited to all kinds of events and parties. It's so important to say "no" or "sorry, I have other plans" often. We have to remember everybody is selfish. Everybody invites us to certain events for their own reasons. Everybody wants to be associated with popular people. Personally, I never go anywhere unless I absolutely want to now. Literally no…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:25 AM
8	The Art of “Sprezzatura” DGAF is the best attitude to have. But it's something that has to be practiced and cultivated. It usually comes from overcoming many challenges and much pain. We've been through what we've been through and we DGAF about what anybody thinks about us. We are what we are. There's no image of a man we have to fit into.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:19 AM
6	When Is It 'OK' To Be Satisfied With Your Life? It's ok to push yourself when you need to, but also to accept how life is and be happy with what you have. Gratitude is something to be cultivated. It creates an aura around us that other people want to be around. It makes people want to help us and be part of our lives. "Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth" -- Buddha In the end, we're all going to end up as dust, just like we started. It's not like we don't or shouldn't make the best out of our lives and strive to be he…	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:12 AM
2	askTRP Megathread April 25 practice having conversations with people. there really isn't any other way to learn how to talk with people.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:02 AM
2	askTRP Megathread April 25 people are social creatures. we like to communicate with others about ideas we have on our mind. saying, "just reading is fine" is completely negating op's desire to have conversation about these topics. maybe fleshing out these ideas and putting jumbled thoughts/words into coherent sentences while enjoying the camaraderie of other men IS making the most of one's time, to a certain extent. op, the comments section is a place where you can "talk" with other people about ideas and experiences.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 11:01 AM
6	askTRP Megathread April 25 watch for the girls who like to drink. there are usually MANY psychological issues lurking behind the scenes. personally, i completely avoid getting involved with any woman who smokes anything. I also avoid women who drink often. just doesn't lift me up to be with these girls.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 10:57 AM
2	askTRP Megathread April 25 Spent two months in Bali. There are LOTS of cheap clothes in all the major towns. Buy when you get there if you want to travel light. Or just carry one or two dressy shirts/pants from home. I spent a year out of the US, just having fun mostly. You'll meet many traveling girls. The local girls may be a bit tough, especially in Bali because of religion/societal pressures.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/18 10:54 AM
2	1st time at the bars and already ran into trouble Seems like she's looking for another branch to swing to.... Start hitting up other women. You don't owe women anything. Cut it off anytime you feel like it. Also, I think you did overreact. I would have just walked away, and been done with the girl for the most part. I'm not investing any more emotion than I need to, when the girl clearly doesn't respect me.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 08:10 PM
1	Wake Up and Take Massive Action! Excellent post. I find most of us need to stop thinking so much and analyzing. Just do it.	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 08:47 AM
2	Feminism is CANCER “Misogynist: A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.” ― H.L. Mencken Women are mostly catty with each other. They understand each other better than we men understand their sex, and they know they are all just competing for the attention of the top men. They derive their self-worth by how attractive they are to these men. Basically, they know looks and femininity are their only real asset. They know the tricks they play to gain status amongst each other. They act all nice and fri…	/r/TheRedPill	25/04/18 07:56 AM
11	Men's brains and women's brains - the quirks I dunno. It seems most bp men are completely led by emotions and lack the ability to see reality from a logical point of view whereas many women are master puppeteers and manipulators. The logical thing to do when a woman is withholding sex is to look elsewhere. But how many men try to “work things out”? Women are always looking for a better branch to swing on whereas many men seem to be blind to their women’s true intentions. Maybe the logic of many men is faulty even if they do use it more tha…	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 09:54 PM
1	TRP is not about preventing you from making mistakes. It’s about telling you what to expect Fear of failure keeps most people from reaching their full potential. If we can see mistakes as learning lessons and associate positive feelings with hearing "no", we can see amazing results in our lives. "Fail faster" or "Shoot, then aim" are sayings that come to mind.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 02:00 PM
58	Feminism is CANCER Don't argue with women. In general, don't talk numbers or logic or analysis or politics or religion or gender relations. Forget being right. Smirk at them. You have to actually practice feeling as if they are quite below you and are not worthy of logical big idea discussions (unless they are the rare intellectual type, and even then, they are ruled by emotions). If they feel you have nothing to prove to them, and that conversely, they have to prove to you that they are worth your attention, you …	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 03:00 AM
1	The Heroic Man That was long and it's clear you've thought quite a bit about this subject. I'd also add that it's perfectly normal to have periods where you don't know what you want, you don't know the direction of your life, you feel confused, etc. The spiritual path is not linear. The greatest masters doubt themselves. "The best lack all conviction, while the worst Are full of passionate intensity." -- William B. Yeats "The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool." -- Shakespe…	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/18 01:22 AM
16	The 4Fs: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn (The Causes of Oneitis, Approach Anxiety, and Procrastination) Very well organized and written. Reminds me to have compassion for the people I don't get along with. Everybody is going through his own shit and reacting/responding to the world in the only way he knows how. The willingness to delve into and witness our own psyches so we can be brutally honest with ourselves about how we actually are, regardless of how it will disrupt the shiny image we have of ourselves in our minds, is the sign of true maturity. Write more!	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/18 01:09 AM
1	askTRP Megathread April 18 lol, i know right? I long to have these kind of problems again...oh, the joys of being a teenager.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/18 12:46 AM
3	askTRP Megathread April 18 if you're sleeping with women just to raise your n-count, you're missing the point. no number will ever be enough. sleep with girls you find attractive and who are into you. chasing average lays just to add to your n count is a colossal waste of time.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 08:44 PM
12	askTRP Megathread April 18 Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 "NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover." The whole obsession with n count screws people up mentally. Raising your n count will not stop making you feel insecure. In fact, it might make you feel more insecure as you'll realize all the empty lays mean nothing and that you've wasted time and energy chasing a nonexistent mirage. By all mean…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 08:39 PM
8	[FR] My Blackout-Blind Date "Don't stick your dick in crazy." I know this is cliche on this forum, but it's really important to digest the full implications of having sex with crazy girls. They don't add any benefit to your life. They are emotional parasites. I avoid them like a plague.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 08:24 PM
8	ENCOUNTERS WITH A BP These kind of people will only drain you. Being alone is way better than spending significant time with people who clearly are going to create stress and drama in your life.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 08:18 PM
4	askTRP Megathread April 18 I like the lifting at school idea. Some other posters are recommending monk mode, which I also like. But I know what high school is like. I experienced a similar fall -- I went from being very popular my junior year to nearly an outcast my senior year. It was depressing. Young kids -- all you know is high school, so it doesn't feel good to feel like an outsider. We all want friends. I'd say focus on your studies and lifting. Quality of friends is better than quantity. Trust me. Find one or two p…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 08:07 PM
13	askTRP Megathread April 18 What grade are you in? How was your reputation attacked? Do you play sports? Are you involved in any clubs? What type of friends do you have (what do they do/what clique are they in?) Reputation is not an easy thing to rebuild once it takes a hit. In high school, the harder you try to be cool, the harder it actually is to be considered cool. The more friends you have, the easier it is to make new ones. If you are popular, it's easy to become more popular. The best way to build your social standi…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 02:33 PM
73	Non-Neediness Destroys Her Frame...Even If It Takes A While Relax dude. She's just a girl. Abundance mentality, DGAF frame, outcome independence -- when you really have these things, you won't get as excited about a girl texting you first as you are now. Sure, it's still fun, and it'll make you feel good, but it won't be as big of an event as you think it is now and it won't be consuming your mind. So keep working on game. You're just at the very beginning.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 01:56 PM
27	Unattainbles - A Core Element of Masculinity "If you shoot for the stars, you might hit the moon." -- a wise man	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 01:13 PM
2	Internalizing TRP Principles will potentially take you years. Dude dump her. What are you waiting for? Don’t buy girls shit. They will take advantage of you.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/18 04:26 AM
3	Chicago Dating Scene: A Critical Look Seems like you have great potential, actually, and have had significant success in the past. I'm happy you're seeing progress at the new fitness spots. I think when somewhat practical things like school and work come up, the key is to answer in a way and with a vibe that makes it seem like it doesn't define how you perceive yourself. Make it seem so inconsequential that makes her feel shallow if she were to judge you by these things. You might be hitting a rough patch now where you're perhaps a …	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 11:13 PM
11	Weak parents breed weak and irresponsible children yes, clearly this is the logical way to go about things. But the fact that the middle-aged child is still throwing tantrums shows that it's essentially too late for anybody to try to change him or his parents. the world is full of dysfunctional people and families and groups. we as individual men just focus on ourselves and our immediate circles and let everything and everybody else live as they wish. trying to change people is a waste of time.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 10:49 PM
1	Chicago Dating Scene: A Critical Look what kind of women do you like? what kind of women like you? know your target audience and market. In my personal experience, the yoga/dance scene is full of young bunnies waiting to get picked up. You can also volunteer, join meetup groups, etc. Shoot, you can even start your own meetup groups to do exactly the things you want to do and to meet exactly the kind of people you want to meet. I don't know about you, but I never talk about where I went to school or what I studied unless I want to. I…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 10:41 PM
0	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") this is the way i see it. I'm the prize and they want the challenge of trying to hook the prize. if you make it too easy for them, the value of the prize diminishes in their eyes. If you make it too hard for them, some girls give up because the prize seems unreachable. The key is to make them work for it. Push/pull. Give them a little validation after a bit, and then pull it back and make her feel a little beneath you. It's this constant anxiety they are in that keeps them wanting to please you.…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 09:30 PM
1	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") as long as you're aware of your thought processes and feelings, you're on the right path. we're not perfect creatures. we're complex. we have divergent desires struggling to best one another within the mind. keep it up, friend.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 09:26 PM
1	Frame is EVERYTHING O, trump is definitely a disaster. People outside the US think America is absolutely nuts to have elected him. But I'd say Trump's frame is strong enough (OR his supporter's frames are weak enough) to make it a good example of how people can be duped by a seemingly strong frame. I mean, he just says random illogical, unnuanced stuff, but he says it with such conviction that some people believe it wholeheartedly. Some crazies think he's the best president ever and they "pray for him" because he's…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 09:08 PM
1	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") sounds like you take what other people do really seriously. i write to get thoughts down on paper. you seem to write to drag other people down. i feel sorry for ya.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:36 PM
-1	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") haha, you have no idea who i am or what i do. larping? carding? what are you talking about.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:32 PM
5	Weak parents breed weak and irresponsible children very few people are ready. as a natural teacher, i can feel it immediately if someone is receptive enough and is desperate for a solution. and then, all i can do is point them in a certain way. they have to walk the walk themselves.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:27 PM
5	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") Well, I'm lucky because I felt like I was born a killer. But it's probably better to have muscles than not, regardless of whether you are "beta" or "alpha." Look at the recent transformation of that 40-some year old guy. Of course, he's taking testosterone, but he went from chubby beta to complete beast. If it's possible for him, it's possible for anyone.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:26 PM
4	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") dude, what? anybody can train their killer instincts with enough work and dedication.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:15 PM
-2	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") I'd rather not say what I do, but let's just say very few are able to do what I do.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:13 PM
48	Weak parents breed weak and irresponsible children We can barely change ourselves, let alone change other people. I've stopped trying to change people's thinking and behaviors unless they are really, really ready.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:12 PM
2	Several questions. Dude, do whatever makes you happy. It's a natural desire to want kids and to run your own little kingdom. Although it doesn't hurt to consider different perspectives, don't let some internet strangers tell you what you should do with your life. You're a man. You lead your life in the direction you want.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:10 PM
4	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") Approaching attractive women. Grinding out fast cash. Dominating social scenes. Going after whatever it is I'm going after. Making a series of quick decisions.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 08:04 PM
8	Sex and violence, the two non fungible measures of a man A true rite of passage includes separation, transition, and re-incorporation. We live in a world where community doesn't really exist like it used to. We need to create our own rites of passages for ourselves because nobody is going to hold our hands and walk us through the process of becoming a man. We need to go off on our own and see what it's like to be a man on his own: the pain and the existential angst and rage and the frustration along with the joy and bliss and lightness. We need to lea…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 07:35 PM
4	Frame is EVERYTHING Frame = Centeredness It's that feeling that your perception of the world, your actions in the world, your words are all the most perfect and righteous and correct things the universe has ever seen. Then, you can literally say the dumbest things and people will be in awe. Look at someone in the White House now -- some of the things that comes out of his mouth are completely nonsensical, yet a not insignificant portion of the US hangs on his every word as if the words are coming out of God's mouth…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 07:14 PM
5	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") Do something that makes you fight and compete. Do something that makes you feel like a hunter, a predator looking for its kill.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:56 PM
1	The 2 week concept Yep, no matter how hot they are, girls who smoke are immediately cast out of my mind as prospects. I don't want to be around them.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:54 PM
1	The 2 week concept Yup, don't buy it, stay away from people who smoke. That's the key. If it's not around, it'll leave your mind sooner or later.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:53 PM
1	The 2 week concept yes, excellent. great encouragement.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:51 PM
1	The 2 week concept yup, grayscale really works.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:50 PM
2	The 2 week concept Practice leaving it at home sometimes if you go on short errands, and start lengthening the time here and there. I agree, it's SUPER difficult at first, but it gets easier. Humans survived for tens of thousands of years without carrying a phone with them. We can survive, too. We're just so conditioned to get our self-esteem from external objects. We live in a materialistic world. We see everyone else on their phones. But once we catch a glimpse of how crazy our minds go without having this const…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:47 PM
9	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 16 In my experience, women just want adventure and fun times. They want to laugh and cry and get angry and feel completely feminine and safe to express these feelings without having any effect on the man. The less the man is affected, the stronger his psychological frame, and the more attractive he is. It's the frame they lack that they so desire in a man. It's the non-needy, non-anxious way of being. It's that amused mastery that is so sexy, because girls know the games they play and they want to …	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 09:50 AM
6	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 16 In my experience, a lot of it is vibe and the way you say it, and your body language, your tone of voice, and the way you look at her. The words aren't AS important as the value you are portraying and feeling when you say certain things. Of course, words do matter to a certain extent, but if the psychological frame isn't there, the best pick-up lines will fall flat. Whereas when you are coming from high value, women feel that and you get more leeway with words. I find saying things with passion …	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 09:42 AM
10	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") Interesting insight. I've witnessed what you mention in your last paragraph several times in various social circles. It's not primarily about the physical when it comes to rising in most dominance hierarchies (unless the hierarchy is based on physical feats). It's frame. It's psychological and social dominance. Although, obviously, being physically fit generally leads to more solid frame, I've seen somewhat athletic/big guys who suffer from pretty weak, needy frame, and also some leaner/skinnier…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 07:33 AM
35	The Actual Science of Sexual Attraction. (Spoiler Alert: Stop Being "Mr. Nice Guy") Nice concise reminders. It really is insane to see how 90% (or more) of Western men are completely feminized. Even the good-looking ones who might be working on themselves at the gym -- most of them lack that masculine "killer" feel. I was at Marshall's today and I saw this super fat chick and this tiny skinny Indian guy walking out the store. The girl was leading and the guy was following. It reminded me how backwards some relationships are nowadays. I've honed my inner killer and predator in v…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 07:13 AM
83	Get to average first Good reminders. Learn how to crawl before trying to walk, and definitely before trying to run.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 07:06 AM
8	The 2 week concept the best way to practice socializing is to go to an event/place where people gather who have the same/similar interests as you do. Then, you can carry conversations and feel more passionate and natural about the interactions. You'll form bonds and make friends quicker. the best way to make friends is to be genuinely curious about others. ask questions that allow the other person to speak about him/herself. the most successful person I know asks insanely good questions and is so interested in lea…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 07:04 AM
81	The 2 week concept Another one: Stop wasting time on your phone and on random social media. Those dopamine hits fry your mind like no other. It throws you off center, off your purpose. I've spent many months in a row on several occasions without a phone. It makes a world of difference. We see how crazy it is to carry a phone and act like it's part of one's arm. We also see women in a different light -- we realize most of them are completely addicted to validation and have the attention span of a 3-year old. We rea…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 07:00 AM
1	Pulling It Out: Imposing Your Will on The World Seems like we're going to have to agree to disagree on many points, even though we actually agree on more than you think. I don't find it particularly a good use of my time to argue on an internet forum when it's clear the there's no changing each other's minds. Sometimes, I'll do it for shi** and giggles, but this thread is clearly going down the path of tone policing and ad hominem attacks. As the saying goes, "there are more ways than one to skin a cat." If your mindset brings you some sort o…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:53 AM
3	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 16 I tend to like a girl more if she's willing to do anal. Dunno, maybe everybody reacts differently.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:30 AM
1	Pulling It Out: Imposing Your Will on The World Yep. Soft power is where it's at.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 06:13 AM
2	Pulling It Out: Imposing Your Will on The World Sounds like you get a kick out of projecting "cuck" on anybody who doesn't agree with your narrow perspective of the world. I'm an internet stranger to you, and immediately you start low-level name-calling and shaming because my views threaten yours? Not sure what your idea of being a man is, but usually mature men don't find the need to make personal attacks when we're talking high philosophy and ideas. Have you ever trained in martial arts? Martial artists train for war, but most of them don't…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 05:32 AM
1	The Art of Plausible Deniability when i was out of the US for a year traveling, I was overloaded with options. I was in certain scenes which were essentially mostly women looking to fuck. I turned down countless women. After having taken temporary monastic ordination more than once and spending almost a year and half (a few months here and there) in silent retreat, I have a different perspective on women and sex than most. I know I can live for long periods without it and I have an inkling of the karmic consequences of casual s…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 08:56 PM
4	Pulling It Out: Imposing Your Will on The World OK, so I overgeneralized. There are many different philosophies even within one tradition and even further within one school of one tradition. I trained in Kung Fu, which is rooted in Taoist thinking. Taoist teachings are grounded in being centered, unaffected by seemingly external events, being soft like water, living in harmony with people and nature, being humble, having compassion. Similarly, aikido means "the way of harmonious spirit." Judo means "the gentle way." This doesn't mean there is…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 07:55 PM
1	Field report - AWALT, but be careful to not be a dick. i have faith in you. you have great potential with the way you look at things already. to be less than 20 years old with the knowledge is extremely fortunate.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 03:47 PM
0	The Art of Plausible Deniability ha, nah. i definitely wasn't waiting for her; she was one i knew i had in the bag. i was chasing a couple other girls. i like the challenge, ya know? RE: plausible deniability. The day before this happened, I thought to myself, "fine, I'll let her in." I asked her out to this spa that has a sauna/steam/pool/cold dip where you can stay for 4 hours for like 10 bucks. Amazing place, she'd never been there before. Of course, while we're there things heat up, and we're basically doing it with our clo…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 03:44 PM
8	Pulling It Out: Imposing Your Will on The World not taking things seriously is a sign of true strength and confidence. women love it when very little affects your joy. also, there's a sense of humility that comes from understanding that life ends in death and that nothing a man does in this life really matters in the grand scheme of things. of course, we still go about our lives and achieve what we set out to achieve, but the ability to let go and be flexible in the face of failure, changing circumstances, and the realities of aging, sickness…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 04:36 AM
37	Field report - AWALT, but be careful to not be a dick. Congrats on the weight loss. You can be dickish to women if it's coming from a place of abundance and truly not caring about whether something happens or not. But it can't be forced or be from a defensive mental state. It has to come from a deeply internalized amused mastery -- just making her know subconsciously that you've seen all this shit before and it's nothing new to you and she's just a little girl in your eyes. But this takes time. You're still young. Go out there and approach women and…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 04:31 AM
1	Problem Theory Nice. And a key aspect to game is continually trying to solve harder and harder problems (spinning plates, approaching the most attractive women, facing competition from stronger men as the quality of women you're attracting rises, increasing one's perceived SMV as much as possible as quickly as possible). Maybe some people's perception and/or results might improve if they saw gaming as opportunity to learn about themselves and other human beings. I'm so much happier when I see opportunities ins…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 04:07 AM
82	MUST READ recent scientific research on male bodily attractiveness (Importance of strength, height, and weight) TL;DR Be a physically strong man. And be tall. And lean.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 04:00 AM
5	Pulling It Out: Imposing Your Will on The World right -- the buddha taught that winning the battle against one's own defilements is way more powerful and difficult than winning battles against external enemies. Chapter 33 of the Tao: Knowing others is wisdom; Knowing the self is enlightenment. Mastering others requires force; Mastering the self needs strength. He who knows he has enough is rich. Perseverance is a sign of will power. He who stays where he is endures. To die but not to perish is to be eternally present.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 03:56 AM
7	Pulling It Out: Imposing Your Will on The World I disagree with the whole "conflict is good" idea. Many martial arts' core philosophies center around not entering battle unless completely necessary. Why fight when relative peace can be had? The ability to fight is different than wanting to fight. Yes, train to be a killer, but you don't kill if you don't have to. You don't fight just to fight. The violent tone of this OP is an extremely modern Western way of looking at what being masculine is. This is not to say conflict won't sharpen one's s…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 03:35 AM
1	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! I dunno...surgeons usually see lots of shit (both real and metaphorical). Their frame is rock solid most of the time. Not much fazes them. I'm still not sure what we're arguing about, though. The OP said he's a short Asian trauma surgeon who keeps in good shape and gets mad pussy...whatever he's doing is working. I'm sure being a surgeon, making a few hundred g's a year, driving a nice sports car, staying in shape helps. Dunno why people have to try to drag other people down when respecting peop…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 03:07 AM
9	The Art of Plausible Deniability haha, ya. she came like 5 times when I went down on her, and several more when I was inside her. I woke her up in the middle of the night, and in the morning, too. It was fun.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 03:03 AM
3	Who is that guy? Well-written, beautiful details and insights, and I like the bragging (because your experience is something to be proud of). I like this post because it discusses what it's like to enter and dominate social hierarchies off the bat. This is a skill that can be strengthened with time and experience. If you watch all the socially dominant men, they always seem comfortable, no matter what social setting they are in. They know how to be the center. They know how to attract people naturally with grace…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 02:59 AM
58	The Art of Plausible Deniability Very nice post. A few months ago, this busty German model give me HUGE LMR when it was clear she wanted to fuck the entire time we were together. She couldn't keep her speech straight, the look in her eyes was alternating between the animalistic "I want to fuck right now" look and the "can barely keep my eyes open and my eyes are rolling to the back of my head cause this feels so good" look. It was about 11 PM, we had just come from a high-vibe dance event, and she parked the motorbike (I was ri…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 02:29 AM
1	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! yes, most women actually love sharp-looking asian men. too many asian-americans have the nice guy, try hard look going. if asian men just walked around with confidence smirking at girls when he feels like it, the world opens up. a lot of it is psychological/mental/emotional. it's getting over the conditioning that we are somehow less than others in the sexual department. the best way is to have crazy good sex and have women pining for you. but this conditioning is deep. it very easily seeps back…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 02:01 AM
-1	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! our biology has evolved to have sex with beautiful women. there's nothing wrong with making sure you have sex taken care of so you don't have to try as hard. this is not to say women should be a man's purpose in life, but what's wrong with going to places where gaming is going to be easy? So much less stress in this department leads to lots of good things in the rest of life. are you asian-american? in general, we grow up with the idea that we are basically below other men in terms of sexual att…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 01:57 AM
2	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! Most physicians don't become surgeons, especially brain/heart surgeons. There's a reason why lots of parents still want their children to become doctors. The pay is extremely high relative to other careers, and the world will always need people to take care of sick people. In terms of respect, surgeons are basically at the top. Might not get supermodels chasing them around, but can essentially have pick of the litter when it comes to attractive "normal" girls/women. What sexy college girl wouldn…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 01:50 AM
2	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! Yup, most of American culture/society is quite shallow when it comes to other cultures. It's uneducated in that sense. It's also this superiority thing Americans have. They have to create outside (or inside?) enemies or laughingstocks to keep up this facade of dominance. Just as an aside, I've never been directly teased by a girl for a small penis. I just assume they all want the D. Especially because I've spent months on end in solitude and meditation, I can live for quite a while without a wom…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 01:11 AM
11	Be the hero in your own story, not the cuck waiting at home Don't get emotionally attached. It's easier said than done. If you know they are going to be temporary, why get too close? Sure, share your fun moments, fuck like a king, but always be flirting with other women. Most women are directionless. It's how the feminine is. Even most of the ones with strong masculine sides deep down are anxious about their path. They are fighting nature to go in this analytical logical way that society encourages. Deep down, they know beauty is their only asset. They'd…	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/18 11:24 PM
9	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! Any place can be good if you know how to smirk at girls, look down on them a little, and give them the "I could fuck you any time I want, but I don't need you at all in my life" look. Abundance mentality. Be around places with lots of women. When I was traveling in places with lots of yoga/vegan food/dancing, the women outnumber the men maybe 60/40 or even 70/30 sometimes. Game becomes so easy when the odds are stacked in your favor. That's why I never understood the whole get a career and work …	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/18 11:15 PM
5	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! Yup, it's all about those social skills. When a man is psychologically dominant in most/all the social settings he is in, all the women want him. He's the high status one. He's the one everybody says hi to. Women just want to be the chosen sidekick of the top man. I agree with the whole over-focusing on academics thing. I think that might have worked in the past when a man with a high-paying job was considered cream of the crop. But now, when women can make their own money, they really just want…	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/18 11:05 PM
3	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! Look at pictures of people who swim a lot. Some of these guys have the most attractive natural physique in all sports. I can attest to the fact that girls absolutely swoon over guys with broad shoulders, nice pecs, and nice abs that look natural and not built up in the gym. I never received as much female attention than when I was swimming at least once a day.	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/18 10:50 PM
27	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! You are a surgeon making more money in a year than the normal guy makes in a decade or two. You drive fancy cars. You have mad status. Of course, the women are going to be all over you. This is not to diminish any work you've done to get where you are. You're in the top percentile of intelligence and work ethic. You've made it to the literal top of society. You're playing on easy mode now, and I congratulate you and am happy for you and the unlimited pussy you get.	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/18 10:40 PM
4	To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT! Can confirm. I'm Asian. I was out of the US for a year traveling around the world. It's quite amazing how skewed the general American perception is of Asian-American males. I received nearly unlimited female attention when I was living on an island in Thailand and didn't wear a shirt or shoes most days. Lots of German, Russian, French, Australian girls hit on me. They considered me exotic. Most Asian-Americans, if they want a reality check of just how attractive they can be to the other sex, nee…	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/18 10:30 PM