reditmethis101 Archive

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10	How do bad people get the beautiful girls? Because even pretty girls can be idiots and want the reputation of dating a turd because they think he’s “cool”. Never mind being treated with decency and respect. Believe me that falls off after college when people start maturing and know what a healthy partner looks like. And if it doesn’t, honey you don’t want that sort of crazy in your life.	/r/seduction	09/05/20 07:31 PM
1	Weird breakthrough on rejection That’s a great way to look at it. If it was meant to be, it will be. If she was right for you, she WOULD be interested. But she wasn’t so she just saved you a lot of wasted time and possible heartache. But basing your own self esteem off the rejections of others serves no one. Least of all yourself. You’re not gonna be everyone’s cup of tea. Period. And.that.is.ok.	/r/seduction	24/03/20 06:01 PM
4	Got ghosted online dating constantly? I do dating apps and let me tell you...women are hounded. I try not to ghost but it still happens. You’re not going to connect with every girl you contact and vice versa. It’s just the nature of the beast that women will have a lot more people contacting her than the other way around in general. So do a little chat, see if there’s a spark and move on when there isn’t. Some people suck at giving bad news so they just ignore the situation. It’s selfish and rude but it’s also human nature and you s…	/r/seduction	23/03/20 06:52 PM
6	What are signs that people view you as a high-value person? They respect you. They’re considerate of you. They trust you. They hold you in high esteem. If you try to downplay something awesome about yourself, they straight up tell you to your face that that shit don’t fly. Lol	/r/seduction	28/05/19 12:34 AM
11	Unpopular opinion - all these posts about girls giving you “the look” are BS As a woman, I disagree. I check out guys all the time and sometimes I let them notice. Everyone likes a little ego boost now and then. Gives me a little rush and I hope it does them too. And I usually notice the guys who aren’t traditionally gorgeous..just genuinely attractive to me. Why not let them see a random woman finds them attractive? It’s just one moment in a day of moments. I will also say that gorgeous guys are the ones I usually avoid eyeballing because 1.) they rarely need the boost,…	/r/seduction	27/05/19 03:01 AM
3	How can I be more sexual with women while interacting with them and give off more of a sexual/ masculine vibe instead of a lets just be friends vibe? I’m a little old school and from the south so I’ve always enjoyed it myself, but not every girl will. Play to your audience! Pet names may not be the way to go if your lady love is more formal. Def not something to pull out upon first meeting regardless.	/r/seduction	15/05/19 09:22 PM
45	How can I be more sexual with women while interacting with them and give off more of a sexual/ masculine vibe instead of a lets just be friends vibe? Smile into her eyes, don’t be afraid to flirt or “go there” if it’s not offensive. Tease her gently. Call her pet names (cutie, sexy, babe, etc, those alone can let her know you’re attracted). Small touches on nonsexual places...hands, shoulder, the back. Girls want to be pursued, BUT if they give the clear no thank you signal, drop it and don’t keep trying to pursue because you’ll just alienate her. Always respect their boundaries or you’ll go from sexy to creepy pretty quick.	/r/seduction	15/05/19 04:11 PM
2	SHOULD YOU MENTION THAT YOU HAVE OTHER DATES PLANNED?? Can I ask the reverse for guys? I’m actively dating and guys ask me all the time what I’m up to. Do I say I have another date lined up or downplay it?	/r/seduction	11/05/19 03:17 PM
2	Self loathing made got me into the friendzone and it made me realize i have no idea how to properly talk with girls. From someone who used to self hate...you have to train your brain to stop thinking that way. Every time you start the cycle, cut it off and tell yourself your not a creep and to stop being a jerk to yourself. Once you kill that mentality taking to girls will become easier and more natural. They aren’t a different species, just treat them like you would any human. Talk, joke, laugh...you are a great guy I’m sure, you just got to get comfortable being yourself.	/r/seduction	11/05/19 03:10 PM
1	How do you guys give compliments to women without coming off as a beta How is giving a compliment to a women a beta move? Just say something nice you think about her. And girls should be doing that back. Giving compliments is a way to show interest without pressure.	/r/seduction	11/05/19 06:54 AM
1	is part of being a man, in game, rocking your own imperfections? Many women instinctively look for confidence. So rock it! Don’t worry about game, be real. And leverage that manhood! It’s a dying art.	/r/seduction	11/05/19 06:48 AM
16	Woman who lowers her interest level when other women are around. She might be insecure around other girls? It might not have anything to do with you.	/r/seduction	11/05/19 06:39 AM
9	How do I find girls other than clubs? Well anywhere. Work, school, online. The grocery store.	/r/seduction	11/05/19 06:36 AM
17	How do I lose feelings for my FWB? You have two choices. Stop seeing her because you want more and she’s unwilling. Or enjoy it while it lasts, but hurt more when she leaves. There’s not a way to lose feelings for someone once they’ve grown unless the person you have feelings for proves to be a jerk of some sort. And even then...	/r/seduction	09/05/19 05:29 PM
2	Feel like I'm never gonna get a girl I like Just give it time. I know it’s frustrating, and lonely. But you’re only 19!! I’m 38 and happier than I’ve ever been in my life! And getting all the attention I could want and no I’m not “hot”. Focus on you and the right girl will come along and see you, the real you, and go gaga. You’re playing it right in not letting the lack of getting a girl you like yet it discourage you. And sometimes you’ll put yourself out there and get shot down. Just keep on keeping on, and keep building yourself. Also,…	/r/seduction	19/04/19 03:29 AM
1	Rejected a girl and now I feel like an asshole You didn’t do a thing wrong and you’re not an asshole for saying what you did. It needed to be said, honesty is always the best policy. It’s not like you called her ugly names or raged at her about it. If you’re interested, then reach out to her and let her know and go slowly. If you still have resentment, then don’t. But hopefully her hearing the impact of her words will be a lesson she’ll carry forever and if anything, you did her a favor.	/r/seduction	15/04/19 01:16 AM
2	[FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus. Lol, are you following up on any of these numbers? Going on dates? You do NOT want to be that guy that collects numbers and doesn’t do anything with them, you’ll stop getting numbers pretty quick. Focus on your “favorites” for a bit, see if there’s anything there and put a pause on the number getting. If nothing pans out, then you can resume. But know it’s not the amount of numbers you get, but getting the right number from the right girl. And if you’re looking to play the field instead, then do…	/r/seduction	15/04/19 01:11 AM
1	[FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus. Yes I do, just keep being you. Women are attracted to confidence and someone being genuine. Don’t lie, don’t exaggerate. Use humor. No ones perfect and if a guy can downplay his own flaws with humor, women will typically open up. There are some evil b*tches out there. So be wary. And when you find a cute girl you really like, focus on her alone. If she gets the feeling you’re just trying to get her into bed, she’ll be gone before you know what’s happened. Good luck and congrats on manning up and…	/r/seduction	15/04/19 12:08 AM
0	How do I go from FWB to relationship? Well if sex is more important then real connection, what’s the question?	/r/seduction	13/04/19 05:03 AM
2	[FR] first date after breaking up with my gf Next time you see her, lay one on her. Wait for a good moment, and just go for it. Not tongue first though. Go for sweet open kiss on the lips. See how she likes that. 😉	/r/seduction	13/04/19 04:30 AM
4	I heard the greatest things you can do when talking to women is keep the talk about yourself to a minimum. How true is this? Talk about yourself, but ask about her too. And then listen. Or if she’s a talker, let her ask a question. And then answer with at least a sentence lol. Girls like to talk, so be willing to talk! The last thing you should do is let it get too quiet. Be real! And most women respond to humor, so don’t be afraid to go for a laugh.	/r/seduction	13/04/19 04:21 AM
3	How do I go from FWB to relationship? I’m a girl, so I say tell her you’d be interested in more, if she was. Say you’d like to take her on a real date. And she’ll either say yay or nay. If it’s nay, no more fun, unless she’s a jerk. If it’s yay, then yay! You gotta decide.	/r/seduction	13/04/19 04:14 AM
1	[FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus. As a woman, yes! You put it out there, well they’ll either like it or not, but doing nothing gets you nowhere. Be assertive, make contact. You have the numbers to prove you’re doing something right. But focus on the quality girls, mmkay?	/r/seduction	13/04/19 04:09 AM