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| 10 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?I had that same feeling one time. I was just crushing this bar having fun, and randomly some dude touches my hair and compliments my curls. I don’t even have curls. Confidence shot up though. Hey ladies, come check out these curls. Gay dude said they’re good. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 05:01 PM |
| 6 | Worth joining salsa class to meet more women?I’d imagine. If you can work a meetup orgy with 5 women though, please write a book. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | So if you want to get dates then you have to not be interested or looking for dates/ already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, but if you aren't interested or looking for dates/ are already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, then how would you get dates?No worries man. Hope you find what you’re looking for. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 05:39 PM |
| 2 | So if you want to get dates then you have to not be interested or looking for dates/ already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, but if you aren't interested or looking for dates/ are already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, then how would you get dates?I just read the headline sorry man. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 04:27 PM |
| 3 | So if you want to get dates then you have to not be interested or looking for dates/ already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, but if you aren't interested or looking for dates/ are already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, then how would you get dates?You need to have a mission of some sort. Something important to you. And sex is a nice distraction. If you’re running around with nothing seemingly going on but a desire to cum, you’re not going to display the qualities that make women think you’re a good protector and provider. Whether or not you have any intention to protect or provide, those things catch their attention. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 03:46 AM |
| 31 | What’s considered being boring to women and how could not being boring long term?Women are more emotional and light up when dealing with emotional things. Don’t talk about the sordid details of how a computer works. Talk to them about things that have emotional content and show you in a positive light. A story about the time you saw a puppy on the freeway and you pulled over, and saw the puppy was about to be hit, and even though the car was close, you took the chance and just barley pulled it to safety. His name is max and he lives at your house now and is your best friend.… | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Just got a rude wake up call today, and not sure what to do.Just go talk to her. Plan a few quick conversations to have just to get some approaches under your belt. You just need to get over the hump. | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 12:41 AM |
| 1 | First ever cold approachWay to go, bud. You two are adorable. | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Most Men Will Never Get It, And It’s Their Own FaultI had to get burned so much before I accepted it. Life is better this way. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 03:25 AM |
| 3 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreWord. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 12:22 AM |
| 122 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreShit man. Where the fuck were you 25 years ago. Great advice. I learned most the hard way. Probably still learning some of it. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Shot my shot at a lifeguard,Took an L. Do I look bad now?Just keep shooting. You’re doing it. You’ll hit your groove. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:24 PM |
| 8 | I wish I could date a guy like you, but not you | Reality checkDamn. You should change your name to the Pussy Sage. You’ve got a ton of good stuff. Do you have a recommended book list on this stuff. I imagine you picked up way more than what you could manage to share on redit. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 02:39 AM |
| 3 | I wish I could date a guy like you, but not you | Reality checkThis was very well written. Also, I see far too much of myself in this. What tips do you have for creating and releasing that tension? I’m sure there’s a good book on it or something. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to approach a girl that has a boyfriend if she’s not married?I’d do it if I hated her boyfriend and liked her. Otherwise I’m generally respectful of whatever people have going on. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 02:47 AM |
| 1 | 15 phrases that reveal your insecurity and turn women offI’m so happy to see I was never this pathetic. Not talking at all site, but I never came out and asked if I could prove myself to her. Plenty of other fuck ups, but damn this shit is bad. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?If your goal is to get laid and just have a good time I am in total agreement. I may have missed something. My point is that while that does cut down on investment, it makes it so he is likely to always date and extroverted woman who is a bit aggressive. Perhaps, that’s not the type of woman that is most compatible with OP. I don’t know. If so, this strategy selects for a quality that may not be a great indicator of compatibility. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?Not talking about convincing anyone. Just being the primary instigator of the relationship. Have whatever values you want, ultimately what you actually value is a good relationship with a lady that compliments you in some way. If you keep having less than stellar luck letting the women self select, might be time to switch something up. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?It strikes me that that means your dates are always self selected. So while you save yourself the potential of chatting someone up that isn’t interested, you also don’t choose any of your dates. It’s like American democracy. You get to pick but only between these particular candidates. Perhaps you would have more success if the woman you dated you saw as interesting before she chose you. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?This is great advice. Also, I’d add, read the book she cums first, by some dude I can’t remember. It’ll give you significantly more knowledge than most of us have for our first time. But, a word of caution. I had a friend do this, but he did not consider the place experience plays. So don’t roll in like I read a book. Just get an idea of how women’s bodies work and develop our skill. You’re gonnna do shit that makes her uncomfortable lean on her hair or some shit. Just be cool and relaxed, and l… | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?I bet if you put that on some dating profile, you’d end up getting picked up by some cougars and shown the ropes and a good time. Women for the most part have to be very cautious with dating. Dudes are bigger stronger, and dates can be quite intimate depending where and what you do. The fact that you will seem not threatening at all, and being a virgin will be a novelty. You should try to auction it off? Not sure what you’re bringing to the table, but take a few months and eat well and work out … | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 02:36 AM |
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