| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | I’m a work pick-me | STRATEGY | redmothhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 11:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I’m a work pick-meThank you! I’ll post there instead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | I’m a work pick-meThank you! I’ll delete and post there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a pickme mother and her conditioning?https://www.bethanywebster.com/blog/mothers-pain/ Read this article today and thought I’d share! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!Definitely have fallen into the trap of black and white thinking. And hearing you lay it out this way, god I love your writing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:27 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-InIs there still a PDF version of the handbook? I remember there being one with a pink background, although having trouble finding it again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 4 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?The touting of what makes a male a male rings so true. A former boss went on about how men are supposed to protect women blah blah during my interview process. He ended up being really touchy and a bully. I’m smarter now and would run from that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | LVM find women so easily and it’s infuriatingThe Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Braden expands on self-esteem and it’s development. I’ll look into Andrea Dworkin- thanks for the recommendation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 1 | LVM find women so easily and it’s infuriatingYes! I’m finishing Communion now. It’s about the female search for love. It’s deeply affirming. Her first book in the trilogy was All About Love (I read it in two days it was so good). Next I’m going to read Salvation, which is about Black love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:36 PM |
| 5 | LVM find women so easily and it’s infuriatingI was in a similar situation. The end of that relationship felt like an exorcism and unleashed unresolved past trauma. It took time to work through. Lately I’ve been reading bell hooks. In her book Communion she says the most feminist thing you can do is have self-esteem. She references The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem multiple times in her trilogy on love. I ordered this book and am 80 pages in. So far, I highly recommend it. I didn’t even know what self-esteem was, much less how to cultivate it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Dream Girl Training: Boys hug, men shake.Oh I like that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Dream Girl Training: Boys hug, men shake.Interesting, I didn’t know that. What should replace a handshake? A wave? Or head nod? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:46 PM |
| 17 | Dream Girl Training: Boys hug, men shake.My friend’s boyfriend is from France. The first time we met I began to reach my hand out and he proceeded to kiss me on each cheek. The stunned look on my face had my friend cracking up Are handshakes going to survive COVID? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Someone compiled a list of the FDS approved ebooks, online, freeGo to the FDS reddit home page, then click on the menu tab, then handbook tab. Then “FDS Wiki and Book List.” That’s where all the recommendations are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:54 PM |
| 22 | Never put yourself down for your past choice in menI was feeling shame today. Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 26 | How do I get off of this crazy train?Do you have a third party that could be with you while you pack/move out? I needed to move mid semester in college. I only lived with the guy for two months and had enough. My mom helped me get out of that situation. Her being there kept him away while I got out ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:05 AM |
| 3 | For when you start to doubt yourselfI LOVE this - thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Thinking about a person you know isn't worth your time? Here are some great distractions:Yes, I LOVE it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | My parents had a traditional marriage. Everything was in her name. My uncles give their salary to their wives who do the family finances. I feel like most ‘traditional men’ nowadays don’t intent to stay with their SAH wives ‘till death do us part’ considering how they react to such a proposal.Please be careful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Feeling guilty when men (people) are nice and treat me decent?Yes, I think it has to do with my mindset and healing/leveling up to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:21 PM |
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