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Basic Questionredninja77/r/askMRP11/07/19 07:20 PM
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Basic Questionredninja77/r/askMRP18/07/19 02:16 PM
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redninja77/r/askMRP25/06/19 12:31 AM
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Late 30s - gotcha makes sense
/r/askMRP19/08/19 03:37 PM
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Thanks man much appreciated
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/19 03:36 PM
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OYS #5 Weight loss has been somewhat plateaued even though my BF% is still high (26%). I'm at 1800 calories - I went down to 1500 to try to speed things up but I think that was too low. Hopefully I'm still losing at least 1 pound a week but it's a little hard to say. Lifts continuing to go up as I'm doing SL 5x5 3x / week. Squat 225 - starting to get some lower back pain so I think I'm going to ease up on squats. OH 115. Dead 255. Chinups 7/7/6. Dips 3x5 BW+20lb. Bench 200. Relationship is meh -…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/19 03:56 PM
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When you say to get hormones checked, which ones specifically? Testosterone? I'm trying to figure out exactly which tests to take - checking out letsgetchecked dot com. I'm working on losing weight and it's going slowly even though I'm at 1800 calories/day very consistent, pretty active between walking/bjj and lifting 3x per week (lifts are going up consistently).
/r/askMRP16/08/19 03:38 PM
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I've been doing the same thing lately after starting mrp and trying to be more alpha. In the past I pretty much always let her win these things. Part of being a nice guy I think. I've been combining with STFU and more careful not to lose frame so I think I've been "winning' more of them. But I think I've been also going Rambo with it a lot of the time and probably hurting things. I decided recently I'm going to just purely STFU until I reach my next weight goal. Today she said something pretty r…
/r/askMRP28/07/19 12:48 AM
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Nah not reasonable stuff. I'm holding all that down as far as chores go.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/19 03:09 PM
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What's the best way to get your form checked to make sure you don't screw up your joints? Personal trainer?
/r/askMRP27/07/19 03:04 PM
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Makes sense. Thanks man.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 10:05 PM
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Yeah I need to level up my frame and fitness before doing ultimatums. Good call.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 10:04 PM
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But here you are again requesting cheat codes, the same casual way that you'd ask for extra dip on the fully loaded nachos you eat between snacks legit laughing out loud.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 12:28 AM
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thanks man I think I'm starting to get it
/r/askMRP22/07/19 12:27 AM
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you probably should cuddle with your wife because otherwise she doesn't even recognize you because you're acting like an actor in a movie who just read his lines and is spitting them back with vim and vigor Legitimately laughing out loud - you're a funny ass motherfucker. Fucker I stopped eating the donuts already! I'm on a solid program right now with nutrition and weight lifting. Anyways, I appreciate you taking the time to write that long ass reply even though half of it was inaccurate bullsh…
/r/askMRP22/07/19 12:26 AM
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haha "Fat, but working on it" hell yeah I'll take it. I'm burning this fat faster than a motherfucker right now and I'll see you assholes in the 15% club in a few months
/r/askMRP22/07/19 12:22 AM
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thanks I think I'm starting to get the idea
/r/askMRP22/07/19 12:21 AM
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It's like you motherfuckers think it's not possible to take 15 minutes to post a question while also putting in work. Whatever - I'll stop asking questions since you assholes can't seem to handle that. I've been putting in work every since starting MRP. Granted, 4-5 weeks isn't a long period of time, but I'm gonna keep this shit up and make you motherfuckers eat your words.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 12:19 AM
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OYS #4 Lifting: Started stronglifts about a week ago - previously I was doing random lifting not on a program. Goal is to hit the beginner goals listed here currently (https://stronglifts.com/5x5/#Strength_Goals). Row, OP, Bench I've basically met - squat/dead I'm pretty far off on - I want to take those slowly to be careful on the joints. Squat 155lb. Bench 175lb. Row 135lb. Dead 185, OP 95. Read: NMMNG, Rational Male, TWOSM Reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG Weight: Got blasted on a question on askmrp la…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/19 12:14 AM
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I've already read Steel's guide. I'm resetting every morning and I'm working on being more attractive physically and emotionally - lifting, losing weight (nutrition is dialed in), doing bjj, going hiking, doing more activities with the kids. I know it will take time and I'm fine with that - I'm putting in the time. My question is what to do in the meanwhile. You say "continue to game and initiate" - I'm doing exactly that but I'm asking for specifics on how to do so. I'm also reading MMSLP right…
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:23 PM
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I've seen that shit over and over on this sub - don't have the time to pull it up right now.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:20 PM
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So why the hell do I keep reading everywhere on this sub that you shouldn't ever stop initiating? Is that only for people who's body fat is under a certain %? I'm confused as hell. Like I said, I'm 100% working on lifting, nutrition, frame, becoming fuckable - that shit is dialed in hard. My question is what to do meanwhile while those things are improving. Do I just stop initiating altogether?
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:20 PM
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No I haven't heard of responsive desire - is there one of the books in the sidebar that covers it? > Sometimes my wife is catching up with me in bed and I just stare at her tits or ass and growl and say enough I can’t take it anymore This is actually pretty much exactly what I'm talking about - having some time to catch up in bed and then initiating somewhere in there. I just didn't describe it as passionately as you did so everyone is telling me I'm a fucking robot.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:19 PM
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You're not answering the question at all. I said "Still have a ways to go on my SMV but making steady progress" let's just say I'm not attractive for the assholes that can't read. I'm working on that actively right now. My question is what to do in the meanwhile while I'm working on that.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:17 PM
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Thanks for the details that's helpful. Again it's not that the sex is transacitonally related to talking. It's that I think we need some time each day to talk to eachother. Helps her to connect. If I jump right in without that it feels really weird to her. Again this has a lot to do with my smv not being great right now. I Know that will change as I build muscle and reduce fat. Initiating - like last night I just moved in for a kiss after there was a pause in the conversation and put my hand on …
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:15 PM
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Thanks for the reply. We do have kids. Actually dinner was generally pretty annoying it was basically arguing with them to finish eating. We have much more quality time now that I take them out to the pool every night and do bed time routine. I know it's a bit weird not to have a dinner routine but I think it's working fine for us. Is it really that big of a deal to spend time talking together after the kids are asleep at night? I'm not sure I get it. > It helps when you develop a body that she …
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:11 PM
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Thanks RPeed - so I'm hearing a lot that maybe I just shut up and work on my smv. Does that mean I stop initiating for now? If that's the move then I have no problem with it. ​ The confusion I have is that I keep seeing people say that you never stop initiating no matter what.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:09 PM
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fuck it - flair me - I'm hitting the nutrition and gym hard right now so I'll be out of 25% range within a week or two and on my way to some dope ass flair.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:08 PM
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mother fucking commando over here does his research. Yeah like I said assholes SMV needs work and is ACTIVELY being worked on 100% right now. The question is, given where I'm at there, how to handle initiation or whether to initiate at all.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:06 PM
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this motherfucker nailed it although I don't know what the fuck you mean by spunk and spine.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:05 PM
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For fuck sake, retard, I said in the OP that my SMV *needs work* and I'm working on it right now as much as humanly possible. Body fat is not great - I already got lambasted in another thread for that. So like I said, I understand that I'm probably not attractive to her right now. Does that mean I simply stop initiating altogether until SMV improves? I keep seeing motherfuckers on here say DON'T STOP INITIATING EVER so I've been going with that.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:05 PM
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Like I said, I'm actively working on improving SMV 100% - I got that dialed in. Are you saying don't initiate at all until SMV improves?
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:04 PM
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Like I said, I'm actively working on improving SMV 100% - I got that dialed in. It sounds like you're saying I shouldn't initiate at all until my SMV goes up? If that's the best way to go, I have no problem with that. I can put my head down and just grind it out until my smv improves. But I keep seeing people say on this sub that you *shouldn't* stop initiating. So what the hell is the deal?
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:03 PM
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Can you flesh that out for me? I'm working on being less beta - sftu, dngaf, lifting, gym, bjj, etc.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:01 PM
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haha nice
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:00 PM
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Initiating every day - I've seen over and over on this sub people saying to keep initiating. I'm getting very mixed signals now. Also noticing you don't have any flair so not sure whether to take this with a grain of salt. > HOW you initiate in bed is also important In the case of last night, I just moved right in for a kiss with my hand on her face. > get her in the mood by touching her arm and moving around to her boobs This is what I mean by not combining cuddling with initiating sex - I've s…
/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:00 PM
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Not sure how serious this is? Can you flesh this out a little for me?
/r/askMRP18/07/19 08:58 PM
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Initiating after cuddling - I've seen that repeatedly on this sub. Fat - 28% body fat - I know, I know I already got hammered on another thread about this. Like I said, SMV needs work and I'm actively working on it. I'm assuming my wife doesn't find me very attractive right now but I want to work on the rest of my game while I improve smv. Dinner - the IF window works well for me and I have more quality time with the kids now after dinner taking them out to the pool and doing night time routine.…
/r/askMRP18/07/19 08:57 PM
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Thanks man! So I'm actually down 5 lbs in the last week. Based on the MyFitnessPal calculator I'm only supposed to be losing 1.5 per week but maybe that's not factoring in all my activity levels, sauna, lifting etc. Goal is 1900 cals per day but many days I'm coming in at like 1600. I read that post you linked to. Didn't completely understand exactly what the program is.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 12:50 AM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:19 PM
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Thanks. Makes a lot of sense and that's what I'm leaning towards.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:18 PM
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Started stronglifts a few days ago. Only concern is that I think I'd like to spend more time in the gym - I have the time and need to fill my day. I was spending more time in the gym (6 days a week for an hour) before starting stronglifts.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:18 PM
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Thanks man I appreciate it! The tough love has been working - started tracking my eating in myfitnesspal 4 days ago - I'm on track to lose 1.5 pounds/week and going strong. ​ I'm already down from 217 to 214 in like 4 days (probably some water weight stuff in there too).
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:17 PM
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Why have A1C checked? Btw I found some good online tests for things like checking testosterone, etc. Any recs on those? Would rather go that route than going to the dr. I started tracking my eating in myfitnesspal 4 days ago - I'm on track to lose 1.5 pounds/week and going strong.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:15 PM
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Damn. Thanks for taking the time to reply. The tough love is working - started tracking my eating in myfitnesspal 4 days ago - I'm on track to lose 1.5 pounds/week and going strong.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:14 PM
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haha nice
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:13 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:13 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:12 PM
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Thanks. Yeah I was working out about 6 days a week until starting stronglifts. Now that I'm on stronglifts I'm only lifting 3 days a week as per the program. The other 2 days a week I'm doing BJJ. I sort of want to find a lifting program that can allow me to be in the gym more often because I do have time to fill.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:12 PM
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So I think the way that I worded my post was a bit confusing because I mention the body fat and that she doesn't want me to touch her. I skimmed over the fact that she's been mad the past 3-4 weeks, but I think that's the much more significant issue. She's still getting used to my new behavior - not being as beta, DGAF, etc. I think that was the main reason she's been upset and cold with me. I do agree that the reason she's not having more enthusiastic sex more often is in big part because of my…
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:10 PM
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> Don't just continue, get better at it Yeah that's kind of what I was trying to figure out if I should work on. Most people seem to be saying that it doesn't really matter - I still think it's probably worth working on. ​ Internet filter - so I don't have a problem with porn - last time was a couple of months ago and since starting MRP about a month ago I'm totally solid in that department. The reason for the filter is that at the time that the porn thing came up we were both conservative chris…
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:07 PM
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Started tracking my eating in myfitnesspal 4 days ago - I'm on track to lose 1.5 pounds/week and going strong.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:04 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:03 PM
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Thanks that's helpful man. Started tracking my eating in myfitnesspal 4 days ago - I'm on track to lose 1.5 pounds/week and going strong.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:03 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP15/07/19 09:02 PM
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The other day after getting blasted on this thread I decided to start tracking my eating on myfitnesspal. was doing IF for about 4 weeks before that but not tracking - now I'm tracking and on track to lose 1.5 pounds per week and I'm down 3 pounds already. Why cut out BJJ?
/r/askMRP15/07/19 08:59 PM
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Nice thanks. Yeah the other day after getting blasted on this thread I decided to start tracking my eating on myfitnesspal. was doing IF for about 4 weeks before that but not tracking - now I'm tracking and on track to lose 1.5 pounds per week and I'm down 3 pounds already. Down from 217 to 214.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 08:58 PM
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Nice thanks. Yeah the other day after getting blasted on this thread I decided to start tracking my eating on myfitnesspal. was doing IF for about 4 weeks before that but not tracking - now I'm tracking and on track to lose 1.5 pounds per week and I'm down 3 pounds already. Down from 217 to 214.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 08:58 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 08:56 PM
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Lifting regularly since starting mrp the last 4 weeks. Hadn't done deadlifts though until yesterday I started steonglifts 5x5. I had been initiating sex more often but she's been very hostile lately so I'm slowing my roll and trying to avoid ramboing. She had been pushing me away if I tried to touch her or hug. Now if I hig her she doesn't pish away but doesn't reciprocate. So I'm working on escalating gradually. Been together 16 years so I'm keeping the month per year rule in mind. I also stopp…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 07:13 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 07:08 PM
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Got it thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 11:12 PM
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Makes sense. Is there a good reference on handling comfort tests vs shit tests?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 11:12 PM
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OYS #3 I want to share my stats (age, weight, height, # kids, years married, etc.) but worry a little bit that might make it easy for someone to reverse engineer my identity. I'm curious what others' thoughts are on that? I saw someone mention OPSEC related to posting here once…? Reading Have read NMMNG, Rational Male, TWOSM I'm reading MMSLP and listening to WISNIFG audio book right now. Fitness Continuing to go to the gym and lift daily. Bench press 1RM is 215. Dead lifts and squats not very g…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 11:31 PM
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What's OI? I've read the acronyms list a few times but can't find that one. Understood on initiating at night. I'm starting to do exactly that. I stopped sleeping in the other room. Thanks for the feedback!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 11:16 PM
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Yeah I agreed to it when I disclosed to my wife that I'd been watching porn for many years. We were both conservative christian so that was a big deal. I'm thinking maybe in a few months about telling her that I'm not going to use it any more. I've actually been doing better than ever lately with staying off of porn, mostly related to what I'm learning here on married rp. Sleeping in other room - I put the kabash on that and been sleeping in our room. She's been very cold with me lately but I'm …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 11:15 PM
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OYS #2 Reading. Going through rational male and mmslp. I've been a little hesitant to pick up certain books like commandments of poon because I have an internet tracker for porn stuff that my wife watches. Not sure if it will pick that up Fitness Hitting the gym every day. Intermittent fasting 16:8. Starting to realize that when I flex my stomach I look/feel a lot less fat and more confident. It also makes me feel more stable when I walk and confident so I've been doing it more often. I probably…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 11:57 PM
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OYS #1 READING Finished NMMNG. Listening to Rational Male and The Way of the Superior Man on audio book. Tried to access married man sex life primer but my internet tracker blocked it. Any alternate options? EXERCISE Been doing somewhat irregular lifting the past year or so at local community gym, but it has limited access to free weights, so I got an actual gym membership 3 days ago. Need to do more focused, regular lifting. Also has a sauna which I've been wanting to hit for a while now. I've …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/19 10:43 PM
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