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I totally agree on casual dating. But nothing about this is casual dating. She’s just a hookup option and texting buddy. I doubt she was anything more than that given he just up and left to another country. That’s all this particular brand of men is looking for; sexual convenience and emotional availability without having to be emotionally available (or really sexually gratifying) in return. I guess the differentiator is casual relationships have a single stage whereas casual dating is a first s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:09 PM
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They’ve convinced us it’s taboo and too forward, skilled scammers lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:14 PM
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Men who are empty inside invented ‘casual’ relationships. If it looks and smells like a relationship, a normal human will be enthralled to call it a relationship. But if you’re a bit emotionally void, you offer this limbo nonsense. They make it seem like you’re weird for getting emotional attached because they’re a bit dead inside lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:05 PM
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I feel bad for her too. Easy to end up like that given how most cultures are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:19 PM
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He has the same energy as an awful 11 year old boy but in an adult’s body. If women as a whole accept that we’re better off alone than with most men in our vicinity, it will benefit everyone. It not only prevents lvm from procreating, but shifts dating culture dramatically. Many men today are not only lv, but egregious. We should teach women to revoke access. At the very least lv men will feel forced to behave and not flagrantly subject women to bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:06 PM
8

Women fetishizing assault of women… how did we get here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:15 PM
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You can’t analyze them through a logical lens. Analyze them through the lens of a sociopath. Someone who desires to subjugate others for a sense of control, lies compulsively, uses violence to attain a sense of power, lacks empathy, brought up on hateful/prejudice ideology etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:12 PM
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I don’t agree. If they don’t want responsibility they can just leave. They k-ll women because they hate them, I think it’s that simple. Maybe responsibility and less attention aggravate their hate, but they k-ll us because they hate us. When they’re beating a woman up, they’re usually calling her a stupid b*tch who doesn’t listen and had it coming. We don’t see that hate so explicitly until they’re beating us up. They’re pretending to be loving until that point so they can occupy our space and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:03 PM
10

Our half of society is psychologically and financially imprisoned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:08 PM
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Yes, we’re looking for emotional intimacy in all the wrong places. Tolerating abuse for even a pinch of it. And so much of our identities center around being more desirable than the next woman, ruining our ability to form communities that would likely benefit us more than most romantic relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:39 AM
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Can you imagine calling yourself a news outlet and having a full segment regarding some woman on tiktok not wanting to get coffee on a date? There’s a famine in Yemen, the Amazon is being deforested, endless other underreported crises going on at any given time, but they have a heightened focus on a woman who doesn’t want to go on coffee dates. This is why leftists need not embrace every other self described leftist. So many of them are full of shit; misogynistic, racist, narcissistic, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:52 AM
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Never liked bumble. Calling it feminist to make women start the conversation was always so stupid in my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:20 AM
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WHY do so many men seem to ENJOY making women miserable? They hate us even though they want to consume us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:06 AM
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If he’s not giving you money he’s not giving you any of the other things either. Gaslighting herself into thinking money is a vice, as if it doesn’t afford basic necessities and things that make you happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:03 AM
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Women are not taught to dream about anything other than romantic relationships because we do shit like this. Waste our lives with men who hate us. And then we’re conditioned to tolerate abuse. The perfect life draining combo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:50 AM
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Aka men are parasites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:25 AM
147

He is definitely referring to himself, she doesn’t have any weight to lose. Praying for the day we stop enabling these assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:22 PM
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He’s clearly a narc, ie. worthless and a value drain. Not her loss at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:21 PM
14

Oh my god, they are the ultimate narcissists. They have the biggest falsified victim complex in the world, it’s just incomprehensible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:48 PM
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I just tried to understand his actions from his perspective. He believes that men have a right to rape women, women bring it upon themselves. He knows that it hurts women, but he doesn’t believe men should be accountable for doing it, women are accountable for inviting it. This is psychopathic behavior, but simultaneously how so many of them think. We need to get serious about isolating these men, not allowing them to live as parasites on any women at all. This way of thinking does not need to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:13 PM
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Sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:39 AM
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Oh wow I hope she’s able to sue the fuck out of this person. This is definitely another level of depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:37 AM
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Yup this is it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:36 AM
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They’re so fking narcissistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:35 AM
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This is exactly what the world needs. Women need to see more exemplary behavior from other men, and if not that they need women-communities to knock sense into them. Let these parasites die lonely. Congratulations ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:20 PM
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If women were actually interested in him, he wouldn’t spend time harassing one who rejects him. He’d just move on. Desperate and entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:14 PM
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If he hits you he’ll k-ll you. Women acclimate to being miserable at best and dead at worse in the name of having a man. Codependency is what helps them k-ll us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:35 AM
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So they’ve been lying to get sex for centuries lmfao. ‘He’s gonna die if you don’t let him fuck’ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:26 AM
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Women are so accustomed to being miserable and being made miserable. They don’t want better for themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:57 AM
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Yup, they just want to manipulate women into giving them what they want. They use money like cheese in a mouse trap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:48 AM
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Imagine having all the opportunities in the world in this one life of yours to spend it like this. Surgically altering your body and catering your entire days to satisfy a man, and a sick one at that. There is so much to life and women are spending it like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:18 PM
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I think women stay with men like this because of their empathy for other humans. But this story is just showing how truly subhuman and worthless people can be. Hope he d*es honestly, a waste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:14 PM
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Our culture has emboldened them to ask questions like that. If women revoked access to men they’d start chaining us up and forcing us to partner with them. They are sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:04 PM
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I feel so bad for her. Women need stronger communities amongst each other so we don’t become codependent on such egregious abusers. I’m sure if she had girlfriends and a better support system she’d leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:02 PM
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We need to focus more on getting women not to procreate with these men so they can go extinct in the next few decades
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:59 PM
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We need a feminist hall of fame to frame this in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:58 PM
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Lmao, I want to be friends with him. He’s got it down 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:56 PM
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I feel like this shouldn’t even be a discussion anymore. Men are usually not a value-add, they’re instead the opposite. Money is insurance against possible damage likely to be incurred partnering with them. Also reparations for patriarchy. If they don’t like it, who gives af lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:01 PM
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This is self hate at the highest level. The climate towards women right now is awful given how states are trying to turn over abortion rights. Women have not stopped being harmed and killed at alarming rates by male partners or fucking randos. With that, how could you possibly have a bone to pick with women gearing up to protect themselves? To actually mock women for responding to threat of harm? It’s sick and psychological abuse frankly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:02 AM
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I think we underestimate how many men are raised by pickmes. Women of past generations were psychologically beat, and with their husbands, raised most of the current male generation to be emotionally degenerate. I find the home environment dictates a child’s disposition much more than the societal. You run into issues if coparenting with a crappy ex, but otherwise men whose mothers have the privilege of mental fortitude in patriarchy, come out fine. You don’t hear from them because they’re not c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:45 AM
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Huge, actually incompetent, misogynistic narcissist usually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:40 AM
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She’s got time and she’s ready to let a man waste it lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:35 AM
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I absolutely hate the ‘men won’t go to therapy’ jokes. Since when do abusers care to stop hurting others? Of course they don’t go to therapy, they’re having a perfectly good time thriving in patriarchy. They’re overgrown, horrible kids. They whip up victim narratives as needed when they’re the fking perpetrators. No one excels at outrageous bullshit like they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:25 AM
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Thank you, it’s awful and psychological abuse in itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:15 AM
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Does reactive abuse mean self defense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:41 PM
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I really want this brand of men to go extinct, I would give an arm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:39 PM
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The twelfth rule omg.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:37 PM
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This is inspiring. I need to develop a post break up plan lol, it sounds perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:36 PM
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Society hates women and we’re not only forced to emotionally develop as normal, but quicker as no one coddles us and we have to navigate abuse early on. Society, being driven by insecure, hateful men, conversely coddles the fuck out of men and never encourages them to become emotionally developed adults. Rather, they become overgrown, horrible children and get to abuse others freely to satiate their sociopathic needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:34 PM
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Yeah we need to get into this. It’s either codependency or financial abuse that makes us completely reject reality for plain abuse. This makes zero sense otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:27 PM
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That’s a great tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:17 PM
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Just sick. It sounds psychopathic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:59 PM
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You were not an idiot! We can’t blame ourselves for accidentally dealing with dheads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:57 PM
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Imagine wanting something and having to do something to get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:45 PM
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Yup, their world view is so incredibly warped. The self-congratulatory ones are always the exact opposite of what they claim. They were raised by women who were basically mules, so their reference for ‘equality’ in relationships is totally fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:44 PM
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Biggest psyops campaign ever. Marriage is seen as something for women when it’s 99% being financially trapped, being overworked, mothering your children +1, lost earnings and skills, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, emotional neglect, and shitty divorce regardless of whether or not you do or don’t have money. And then coparenting with a degenerate : ).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:29 PM
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Yup, processing shared trauma is one thing. BONDING over it makes zero sense. The self hatred you need to accept subhuman status is scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:19 PM
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Yup. ‘Why shouldn’t she be miserable like us?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:13 PM
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Or, is he good with his mother, but both he and her are estranged from his sister? Many men have enabler, pick-me mothers who hate their daughters / coddle their sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:32 AM
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He’s so clearly obsessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:27 AM
1

Isn’t this just narcissism/sociopathy? Total lack of empathy and thus heighten self centereness? So a belief that anything you do is justifiable and others are valueless/unworthy of respect, kindness, care, safety, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:47 AM
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Jesus, the last therapist lol. Glad to hear some are on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:46 PM
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This is so empty. Imagine spending your life with someone so unloving and just empty. I hate this kind of stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:50 AM
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This is why the name of this subreddit needs to change. There is literally no hope lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:33 AM
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So the small dog behavior transcends lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:31 AM
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Yup 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:30 AM
2

I think the sad thing, aside from men being sociopaths, is that women are totally unable to comprehend them. We do not teach children about cluster B personalities; that there are people who have fundamentally different logic systems from ourselves. We keep assuming our partners are like us, crying in hope they understand how they hurt us, because we don’t realize what their headspace is. Some women here commented on how their ex partners would abuse them and then lament how much it affected the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:51 PM
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My ex would do something similar. Do something awful and then try to spin it as something I did, or say we were equally to blame. I think this is the highest level of acting. They know how wrong they were. I think this is behavior they’ve gotten away with as children. Behave absolutely horribly and then cry victim to lessen or completely avoid punishment. Just a completely disingenuous act coupled with a complete void of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:22 AM
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Imagine how much of a loser and degenerate you have to be to do this. And at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:24 PM
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I hate to say it, but this is why I wasn’t the biggest fan of Beyonce growing up. And fortunately I always hated most male rap music for being misogynistic, definitely my mom’s influence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:23 PM
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Children deserve better. They shouldn’t lead abysmal lives because adults feel they’re entitled to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:21 PM
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This just highlights how fragile we can be, how much damage and parasitism we can endure. Her husband has certainly shown other signs, but she doesn’t know those were signs. It’s scary how many of us love sociopaths and are totally oblivious to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:17 PM
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Too often we partner ourselves up with an overgrown, awful child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:09 PM
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Stories of men who aren’t fucked up are so needed, congratulations ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:07 PM
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So many women have no concept of the abuse they’re opening themselves up to, and it’s the same every generation. It’s so fucking disturbing. This is why men put us against each other and dominate the media. We’d be so much better off if we could freely communicate as we do on FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:04 PM
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This is my ex to a t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:44 PM
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My recent ex boyfriend would behave like an asshole and then cry how much he loved me whenever I told him I was leaving over it. I didn’t understand why, but now I see this is probably it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:47 PM
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I love the level she’s on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:15 AM
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Anyone who feels porn is wrong would feel sick engaging in the content daily, especially as a 9-5 job. Also not sure any normal person would want ‘Marketing at Pornhub’ on their resume. If he cares about you he’ll definitely switch industries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:05 AM
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That’s so sad. This is why women need to keep a 10 foot distance from men. We have a high threshold for misery and will gaslight ourselves into accepting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:52 AM
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The longer you engage and let all of the wonderful perspectives on here sit on your brain, the harder it will be to accept bs. Since 2016 I’ve followed women on Twitter who are basically OGs of the feminist internet era and now am on FDS. The constant reinforcement has helped a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:40 AM
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The general public lacks so much context that patriarchy essentially doesn’t exist in their heads and they’d open their mouths to call something like this toxic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:16 PM
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Absolute truth. Your destiny being in your control sets something off in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:47 PM
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His name is familiar. Looking at his ig, he seems disturbed. So weird to interact w women in that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:30 AM
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Can’t argue w this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:37 PM
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Yeah there are definitely situations where you should let it out when someone has upset you. I can understand this view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:35 PM
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Not at all because men actually owe us shit lol. The world we’ve inherited has been defined in their favor at our expense. We should be measuring their value. There are a variety of risks they pose to our well being that doesn’t happen in reverse. We see over and over again how including men in our lives drains us at best and kills us at worse. We actually need to assess their value where as rarely do we pose a threat to men in any way. And I can see that way of looking at it, but it will defini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:41 PM
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Value is pretty explicitly concerning what you offer to others. If we want to call them self defeating, pickme’s, toxic, abusive, collusive with patriarchy, sure, but I don’t agree with finding another way to define women as having less or more intrinsic value. It rubs me the wrong way although I understand the sentiment. It’s like calling a minority a ‘low value minority’ for upholding or succumbing to white supremacy. It’s strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:27 PM
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I 100% agree that some women are just awful. But I feel we can just call them assholes. I don’t like that we’re finding another way to rank women’s desirability to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:51 PM
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Washing themselves properly and emotional control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:31 PM
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Lvw is an awful term to begin with. This sub could definitely offer a bit more room to be vulnerable, everyone is going to slip up at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:27 PM
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Preach it. If he appreciates your labor and time, why hasn’t he suggested equity in your name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:37 PM
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She doesn’t know him and he’s probably trying to lift her up as a joke since she’s bigger. So you’re invading someone’s boundaries and trying to make a joke out of them. She did the right thing for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:35 PM
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This is why women need to read PUA books and content. You don’t realize the shit they’re up to otherwise. True sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:30 PM
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He sounds incredibly degenerate and incapable of love as a result. You’ll see that he wasn’t worth the turmoil in time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:35 AM
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Thank you for this comment, this is an excellent way to look at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:03 AM
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Lol I know the most about Portnoy so I’m most disgusted by him. I don’t keep up with them, but from what I do know, they’re all awful lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:02 AM
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Sounds like he’s admitting guilt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:41 PM
4

Nothing says ‘you’re just property to him’ like a husband audacious enough to casually treat you like one of many, followed by him limiting your freedoms when you start feeling empowered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:39 PM
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Good guys know how much shit women get when we go into male dominated fields that center on intelligence, science, math etc., so they’ll be intentionally encouraging and actively avoid ostracizing you. Otherwise it’s just another insecure and probably not too bright beta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:27 PM
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This is sick. It’s like war propaganda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:57 PM
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It’s so crazy how often we never think about reversing the situation. ‘What would my intentions be if I were doing the same and how would he feel?’ And when we actually do, most of the time we excuse them anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:38 PM
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They’re raised to have no sense of self and prob get into relationships with narc men who want to be the center of attention. When you have no real goals or interests of your own, his life becomes the only thing on your horizon. Sadly they’re directionless enough not to object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:05 PM
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Weird how both of them just worked all day and one has to continue working. You can take care of their children and they’ll pretend like that amounts to nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:12 AM
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When people have 4+ kids you know they are not really present as a parent. Each kid is like a toy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:28 PM
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It’s silly to even say wealthy men should be worried because the basis of almost all their relationships is money. Men are constantly flexing around women. Showing off watches, talking about deals, growth, or something financial, spending hella money on bottles and tables. Wealthy relationships are very transactional often times, and intentionally on the man’s part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:05 PM
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Wow, I felt the first part but this: Too many husbands are being allowed to drag out marriages that offer nothing to the wife but the excitement of trying to figure out which lies were him intentionally gaslighting you and which lies were him being in denial of his own sadism. Was something else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:11 AM
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They don’t want to be held accountable so they make something up to take attention away from themselves and pretend you’re equally as bad. Demented losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:39 PM
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Lots of narcissists all along the political spectrum. Many ‘left wing’ men are full of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:52 AM
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This is spot on. There’s so much anxiety involved in vigilantly searching. All of that energy going towards finding a needle in a haystack, when you can be happy and thriving as an individual. We also have endless, potential blind spots. Sometimes you end up in a poor relationship, struggling to let go, because you didn’t register a few initial pink flags. And really, the more you’re thriving - building your own confidence, creating the life you want for yourself financially, having control over…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:00 PM
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Men with sociopathic tendencies (most of them) are all about power. When women don’t give af about men, it makes them powerful and intimidating, ie desirable to the typical male. The typical man doesn’t experience love, he experiences conquest. Being admired by a girl most other men can’t have brings pride and a sense of conquering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:49 PM
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Weird to say but so happy for her and excited to read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:52 PM
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Yup preach it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:23 PM
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