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redout9122/r/seduction15/02/17 10:08 PM
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I use it as a leading phrase to open a more narrow question naturally.
/r/seduction24/11/17 01:59 PM
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I actually like opening with “tell me about yourself,” because it feels natural, but before I leave the floor open to answer, I add in a question like one of the ones in the list to clarify where I'd like to start hearing about my date.
/r/seduction23/11/17 04:42 PM
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LOVE the Netflix comparison. Totally puts some things in a different light for me. Hadn't really thought of it like that.
/r/seduction05/08/17 02:59 PM
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Oh certainly, I totally agree.
/r/seduction21/03/17 02:59 PM
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I think OP isn't trying to tell guys to just avoid responsibility, he's just saying, the numbers game, as it were, works differently in 2017 than it did in 1997. In a sense, it was easier for guys too in 1997—if you were a quality man, approaches were more likely to work, because there was that feeling that maybe (as a woman) your chances of finding another really great guy weren't so hot. But now, due to social media, that risk, while still there, is ignored by a lot of women. So now, you have …
/r/seduction21/03/17 02:48 PM
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It's like Mark says, the adage is true. If it feels like a good time to kiss her, it was the right time ten minutes ago.
/r/seduction13/03/17 04:43 AM
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I guess.
/r/seduction17/02/17 03:44 AM
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The ultimate guide on dating and relationships. It's a book by Mark Manson. Check the sidebar for info on it.
/r/seduction16/02/17 04:08 AM
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Yeah. It was a good start to me all things considered. I'll take what I got and I already have a chance lined up for improving my form. I think I'll have better luck next time.
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:02 AM
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This. Don't get too invested too fast, just take it one step at a time.
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:42 PM
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It's like Mark wrote in Models…the original dynamic is “man pursues woman” and then becomes “woman tries to convince man to commit.” So the dynamic is going to favor the women at first, it's much easier to feel in control/put on a vision of being in control when you are literally in control.
/r/seduction26/01/17 08:06 AM
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Short hand for “kinesthetics” or flirtatious or sexual touching.
/r/seduction06/01/17 01:32 PM
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Demographics essentially meaning personalities. Interests. If going to a particular kind of bar, for instance, is something that interests you, and interests certain women, that's a demographic that you would want to invest in more frequently. It means the same as the typical definition, but applied in the context of “what kind of woman are you looking to attract?”
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:45 AM
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This was something that happened to me before I was taking myself seriously enough. I landed a date with no problem with a woman most of my guy friends said was a 9/10 all because of demographics and having the confidence to approach after we met. We first met from her approaching me but I took it from there. Referring back to the beginning, I realize in retrospect I fucked it up but the lessons, positive and negative, stick with me now. Even "dorks" can pull extremely attractive women through t…
/r/seduction12/09/16 07:10 PM
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This is honestly the best post I've ever read in this sub. So much to learn from this, totally worth the read.
/r/seduction27/08/16 10:00 AM
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The big lesson is, if she is still standing there, that is you IOI. Speaking as an introvert, especially true if she's an introvert. That's something that transcends the sexes when it comes to introverted people, if we're interested, we stick around.
/r/seduction21/08/16 12:43 AM
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The intentional physical approaches (touch etc.) are what really get my attention more easily than anything else. Doesn't have to be extreme, just very obviously on purpose.
/r/seduction19/08/16 06:13 PM
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This I can mostly agree with. Though I think Mark was stating it idealistically on purpose, as that on its own would be a polarizing writing technique. But I do agree with his premise when he says this: You cannot be an attractive and life-changing presence to some women without being a joke or an embarrassment to others.
/r/seduction19/08/16 06:06 PM
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I live in South Carolina now, in one of the largest cities in the state. Used to live in northeast Georgia and would visit Atlanta periodically (still do). Holy shit. It's like two different planets. You nailed it on the fat bubbas/beautiful women combo. That said, if you can handle some old-school Southern rock, “Keep Your Hands To Yourself” by the Georgia Satellites, in my experience, is basically a documentary song about dating in Georgia. And what's stunning is that song came out thirty year…
/r/seduction19/08/16 07:50 AM
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If you live in Mormon town full of bible thumpers, you obviously know that's a problem and aren't going to be 'picking up chicks' there, and no advice given here besides "move" is going to help that. That goes back to the subject of demographics in Models, if you are in an area where compatible-demographic women are short in number, move, or find a way to go to/visit an area where you will find more women who fit your target demographic.
/r/seduction19/08/16 07:41 AM
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Nice guys are absolutely disrespectful. Mark Manson talks about it a LOT in the early chapters of Models. Benevolent sexist behavior is just as much a turnoff to anyone as hostile sexist behavior, in all reality.
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:51 PM
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If the situation changes, you can go for the hotter one, but I definitely agree, stick to the more receptive party, it's not worth the effort.
/r/seduction12/08/16 04:52 PM
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I want to give you like, four upvotes. But I can only give one. I have for a long time been socially awkward. But whenever I show my male friends photos of women I have dated they frequently don't believe. My dating history is hardly extensive, but when it comes to looks (and I would argue, more), it is definitely “quality.” If a guy whose physical appearance can best be characterized as “at least he's not uglier than an old man's balls” can land dates with women who his friends are labeling “an…
/r/seduction11/08/16 05:23 PM
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Confidence is attractive in anyone, not just males. Can confirm, am a male, find confident women very attractive.
/r/seduction11/08/16 05:15 PM
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http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/ They repost it every year on the anniversary of its initial publication due to the popularity.
/r/seduction21/05/16 10:29 AM
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The key I think is you demonstrated value, whilst most nice guys™ take away value which is why they're not successful. Exactly, and the fact that they don't demonstrate value. There was an article on Cracked probably four years ago that illustrates this concept absolutely beautifully, and it's one of the most-viewed articles on the site—it was life-changing for me. tl;dr of the illustration: you have a loved one who is a gunshot victim. A man comes up and says he is a really nice guy, he always …
/r/seduction21/05/16 07:35 AM
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First time I've saved an OP from this sub.
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:34 PM
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In all fairness, that's just appealing on a social level to anyone, forget seduction.
/r/seduction15/03/16 01:19 AM
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“Keep Your Hands To Yourself” by Georgia Satellites, aside from being a great song, is pretty much documentary audio of life in Georgia. It is extremely hard to get any action, even in a relatively liberal town like Athens. EDIT: The fact that you're Hispanic doesn't have anything to do with it. The “bitch shield” is not your imagination, that's totally normal in Georgia. Glad I left the place honestly.
/r/seduction11/03/16 07:39 AM
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