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Women just want to be seen as valuable. Great point. Thats why they were so easily convinced to give up family in exchange for prestigious job titles, even when they're not particularly interested in the job.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 12:33 PM
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This is the best trick Ive found to avoid engaging too deeply with highly damaged girls. I appreciate the deep analysis of your writing, and would like to see more posts like this, but I think many people will overlook it because you display a lack of effort towards clarity and parsimony.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/20 03:18 PM
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I disagree somewhat that shitty people know that they do shitty things. At the very least we must acknowledge that good people can do shitty things without thinking it's shitty when they have enough positive reinforcement. Especially people with leadership roles and responsibilities. They can justify taking advantage of their position--putting people to work for them through charm or selfishly given advice--because it benefits their goals, and most people around them are submissive and uncritica…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/20 07:27 PM
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I saw 'legalizing abortion,' and I was like where the fuck do you live? Then I was like, right, the US is a hell hole.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/20 06:54 PM
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Tribalism is too innate to eschew. Its the pretending to be above it while engaging with it that is unproductive.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 04:07 PM
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So many girls I know are lesbian. I think most of them are just defaulting to a woman for companionship, but they'd go for a hot guy in a jiffy. For some it's that they're misandrist or don't trust men, but a lot are cool with guys, they just can't find one who with a stronger frame.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 10:22 PM
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'Your Mom's a Whore and so is Mine'
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 02:11 PM
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Women listen to messengers, not messages. That's a great way to put it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 02:24 PM
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It sucks that a positive approach to rehumanizing betas comes with the negativity and oppression of the 'toxic masculinity' seal of approval, but this appears to be a positive thing despite that.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 09:44 PM
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It is important to develop our ability to set boundaries, but also practice befriending people. This is a necessary self-education in frame control, but it can very easily get out of control if it's not well systematized.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 06:28 PM
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Women hold most of the power in society, but it comes from men. Most men wouldn't dare challenge a woman's frame, because it could trigger a dramatic reactions, drawing in white knights to kick your ass. Women have no idea how to use or wield their power, all you have to do is recognize that women don't want to lead, then lead them. As long as you understand subtlety and social dynamics, you won't trigger a dramatic reaction. For the redpill to be common knowledge, there would be no choice but t…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 12:52 AM
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I agree with most everything you said, and will defend to the death your right to say it. This is an important idea not often discussed here. But editing for length and clarity would have made this 10 times better. Quite repetitive. It's also worth noting that this is how it must be. Either hypergamy or male competitiveness must be largely oppressed for any level of stability in a society. If all men knew that they have to fight for their lives from the start, or how to avoid submitting all thei…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 10:40 PM
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Thanks for the tldr. I've noticed hot girls dress very conservatively, at least in my progressive city. I think partly it is to avoid unwanted attention, but I think that it has also become faux pas to dress sexy most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 04:26 PM
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GLO really follows that Oscar Wilde advice: "if you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you."
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 05:45 PM
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Divide and conquer is a well known tactic. Why wouldn't those in control of the government and media use (and perhaps intentionally bastardize) prevailing attitudes. A fundamental aspect of the blue pill is that the world is a peaceful place.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 12:07 PM
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How effective is disabling mic permissions? How effective are container tabs?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 11:56 AM
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In a demasculinized society the smart girls are realizing that relaxed happy men are rare. If they want the high status guy, they must actively get his attention. This presents differently for different age groups. Younger girls will simply stand near you or somewhere unguarded, because to them this already feels bold and vulnerable. Mid 20s girls will give eye contact and smile, a much riskier and obvious sign to any guy who isn't oblivious to female communication. Nearing and post wall girls w…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 01:50 PM
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This gives quite a different perspective and has more credibility than the video posted earlier. These guys aren't great at what they, but they're trying. What this article illuminates for me is the one-sidedness of pick up that makes a guy seem predatory, and how the red pill addresses this. The red pill espouses getting your shit together and becoming actually attractive. So many guys are incel/blackpill because they don't have any understanding of women. The truth must be eased into because i…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 08:12 PM
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It's really interesting to pick apart the techniques that are used in propaganda. It can seem so obvious if you notice it, but these are the kinds of videos that get shared and convince regular girls and guys to be fearful and en guarde. They struggle to find anything damning in their undercover filming, so they focus on the reporter's emotional reaction to two things: approaching a younger girl, and worrying about getting caught. He confronts them at the end, no longer undercover, and receives …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 03:46 PM
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"As it turns out, women abhor consequences for their actions. "Pick" "Up" "Artists" exploit this by learning by obtaining legally valid consent."
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 03:36 PM
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Both feminists and Karens are middle and upper middle class white women, exercising their privilege in different ways. Karens through authoritative commands, feminists through victimhood manipulation. Criticizing Karen memes means displaying their similarities, making their privilege (which must be hidden) more visible.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 12:10 PM
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It's not 'everything matters' either. Women want your guidance. They shit test you and your lack of reaction tells them it's not important. If something is important, you should still be unreactive but you listen and address the problem.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 01:27 PM
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Even if a girl is short, if she is hot most guys wouldn't risk lifting her. Simply going in for a hug and squeezing a bit just to get her feet off the ground can turn her from indifferent to interested, or from friendly to pursuing you.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:04 PM
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Yes, they're definitely still bargaining
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 04:15 AM
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In order to avoid feelings of guilt, they continually have to deceive themselves about their own motives and find moral explanations for feelings and actions that in reality have a nonmoral origin. We use the term “oversocialized” to describe such people. Any analytical thinker can tell that feminism or any other social justice endeavor do not hold themselves to a set of rules/morals. I would suggest that each and every sjw has had an experience in which they came dangerously close to the revela…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 08:26 PM
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the panel said Doe pressured and cajoled Roe into having sex with him through flattery, flirting and complimentary text messages. Jesus fuck his inability to cite specific details “led the panel to believe that the respondent may have been more intoxicated than he had indicated, thus harming his credibility,” so he was technically the rapee
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 12:35 PM
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Racism isn't about race. Misogyny isn't about women. They're both about being lied to.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 06:29 PM
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I read the first couple chapters and the most salient point so far is that comparing lovers and providers, providers try to exert control over a woman by material or physical means, whereas lovers do not exert any control, but elicit attraction and don't make her feel judged. Taking on responsibility tends to inspire one to also take control, which she no likey.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 06:13 PM
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Everyone's a desperate snake who can be bewitched with token deference.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 01:20 PM
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I'm not going to read those any time soon, can you give a summary? It may depend where you are. And of course how you employ language. If you're trying to show off, some girls might fall for it and some guys will think you're a douche; but if the 'most accurate words you use to verbalize your thoughts' include more sophisticated words, that's a DHV. Just be careful to cater your words to your audience. I once used 'akimbo' in scrabble with some blue collar family. I respect them, they're good pe…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 01:17 PM
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Of course! Psychologists don't care about you, they care about your submissive functionality. They're the HR of society.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 01:03 PM
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I mean, it's my azaleas that really throw them into a frenzy of alpha widowhood
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 12:46 PM
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Shit tests are not obstacles, they're the way. I want this stitched on a throw pillow.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 03:16 PM
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Women wield incredible power and don't handle pressure as well as men. For the women under our personal sphere of influence WE must decide to what extent we hold them accountable. WE must acknowledge their shortcomings, as well as how these shortcomings are exacerbated by our culture of bad parenting, then train women to take on responsibility little by little. It's a tough situation, women have learned about their incredible power and those in control of the media have decided that encouraging …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 01:22 PM
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I thought everyone knew about this
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 11:49 AM
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I think part of waking up is seeing that you must always help people on your own terms. "Leave her better than you found her" is a good place to start. The important thing is to never let someone else dictate how to help them, because very few people are conscientious, they put their own selfish needs first. They're entire worldview is predicated around their immediate needs, so all its forthcoming assumptions must be ignored. It can seem like one must always be ready for confrontation in order …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 09:55 PM
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That's awesome. I've started to see this dynamic myself, trying to get better at it. My comment was more about the exceptions to the rule, really fucked up people: John Lennon was killed by a fan wasn't he. Could you make an outline or point me in the direction of some resources for wielding charisma for business purposes?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 09:13 PM
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if you work hard and get better at frame control, learn game and improve yourself overall, some people will hate you very much for it. I'm like a 7, and people are still like this. No one is happy to see other's succeed. Definitely not if you're ugly/fat (I was fat). They think they work as hard and are as smart as you (though they probably don't) and see injustice that you've somehow bypassed the class structure. You must be unethical. This is a huge part of what I'm trying to figure out these …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 01:22 PM
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Now a man must be very blind nowadays not to see that there is a danger of a sort of amateur science or pseudo-science being made the excuse for every trick of tyranny and interference. Women see men the way men see the oceans and rivers. They utilize power cultivated by men, just as men build ships and hydro-electric dams. They have the gall to call men powerful because they objectify us: all they see is waves of power to ride, directional energy to harness, and how disoriented they get when a …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 02:54 PM
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It seems like there are tonnes of guys who wouldn't dare vote (or at least share the fact) for the non-sanctioned 'dehumanizing' 'racist' 'sexist' candidate. In many circles there's only one acceptable thing to say when asked for whom you voted: {the womyn/womyn-supporting one}.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 05:01 PM
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prolonged high secretion can also have suppressive effects on female reproductive physiology and behaviour I'm starting to think "I'm asexual" means the same as "I'm a lesbian" for many girls. It's they're identity after living a life mostly devoid of alphas. It really means "I'm asexual/lesbian, unless..." Women are focusing on learning what it feels like to avoid compromise. Fair enough, but they don't stop. And it's completely transforming our social and economic landscape. They're more infor…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 04:52 PM
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"43% of rape cases in 2018 found false during investigation." Wow. I have no idea how much this film will permeate North America, but it could have some impact.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 03:44 PM
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Woman respect the male hierarchy. Men act as entitled and in command as other men allow; women read your level of status through your actions/reactions and act accordingly. Your experience of women is binary: respected or used, this is determined by whether you are a top man or not.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 04:45 PM
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I didn't get more than a few minutes in, but I do think it's worthwhile to take a look at the rhetoric of well-spoken feminists. Though it's hard to take it seriously when it is mentioned several times: "I'm biologically female," it's good to remember that logically-presenting people espouse such thought-bending manipulations as fact, and to think about how to deconstruct their rhetoric. But yea, op is super fuckin lazy. No analysis? Post a link to trp.red.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 02:52 PM
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Historically, women have been conditioned to believe that heterosexuality is natural or innate, just as they have been conditioned to believe that their main purpose is to make babies. Just like gender is a social construct. Let's all focus on our true nature, which is to gather as much power as we can and rub our nubs till they're nothing but stubs. Then die and be eaten by our cats in the tub.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 02:54 PM
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I'm speaking in a more general sense. In this particular case, it sounds like she's fabricating. There is something called freezing behaviour or freezing response. Google it. And it "is observed to occur before or after a fight or flight response." Consider that someone is raping you, and they're big enough to really hurt you, maybe kill you. It is actually quite reasonable to stop fighting if you think that the rapist just wants sex and will leave. Especially if you're first raped as a child. F…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 01:38 PM
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Conversation makes it more civilized. But if someone catches your eye for more than 1 or 2 seconds, the one who looks away is ceding ground. You can recover from this, but you can avoid a lot of frame-testing by never being the first to look away. The best way to make friends is to do things you enjoy, be in a good mood, and say hello to people who make eye contact. I don't do bars or clubs much because it's hard to talk. I met many people through arts events (go to a show, step outside for some…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 01:16 AM
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Maybe in time I can make a post, but the main factors which come to mind are: Always be willing to leave. So that you are in touch with your intuition and sense of fun. If you feel obligated to stay somewhere you are losing frame and life drive. Be understanding, be light hearted, and joke around with everyone. People are constantly stressed by social factors. Absorb some of this (on your own terms, do not accept it being put on you) and they will like you. (someone bumps you accidentally while …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 12:34 AM
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Maybe not in this case, but people do freeze up when they're in stressful situations. Especially when they have a past of abuse. That's why enthusiastic consent is a thing. It's totally incongruent for most sexual encounters, but provides protection for people who have been raped before and who have learned helplessness.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 11:20 PM
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I've noticed less boldness by feminists in the last half year. Slightly encouraging.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 10:34 PM
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Yes, a gentle reminder for people to actually think critically. Even if it's only effective 2% of the time, it's something.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 10:31 PM
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Maybe not necessary. I really try to understand what's going on. I find when I don't understand, girls are pretty good at manipulating me.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 10:09 PM
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I'm gonna work on my FR writing.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 10:08 PM
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Your insecureness in yourself gets picked up by girls and that’s why you don’t get laid. Be the man, man. Of course. That's what I'm trying to figure out. I've noticed that being bold can create haters, so it's important to understand that dynamics. The Boyfriend of my friend in this FR became much less friendly over the night, probably because of the attention I was getting, including from his gf. It is important for me to learn to be subtle so I can avoid alienating guys in my social group.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 10:07 PM
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I honestly thought that showing all the details of the interaction would be helpful for 'autists.' I'm displaying my learning process. I recognize that I need to get better at both editing and displaying credibility.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:59 PM
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2.5ish. I was trying to make it clear that I was being exceedingly cautious given that I was trying something very new in a rather redpill unfriendly group. I often aim to verify boundaries when learning new aspects of game, focusing more on understanding what's going on. Leaning more towards a scientific/understanding approach than a technological/pragmatic approach.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:55 PM
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Yes, reading IOIs is a DHV. I find the DLV of missing IOIs can be compensated for with preselection.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 08:49 AM
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Yes, in a place like this, it's helpful to avoid sounding like a white knight. Even if you feel confident that you're not, there's plenty of them here.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 03:48 PM
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That's the reason it's not working for you. Your status isn't high enough. This isn't something unchangeable.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 03:37 PM
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If you think it sounds true, it is worth pointing out. But be very critical of supporting other people's causes. Someone might be convincing you something is your idea when really you're in their frame. It's quite difficult to listen to people and sift the facts from the opinions.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 03:36 PM
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You're totally wrong. You're saying that TRP is useless. (You need to learn how to suss out people's credibility better. Morgan Freeman isn't a solipsistic idiot, he can tell from his speech and facial gestures that he has intelligence and perspective.) He was outlining a fundamental RP truth: let women enter your frame. His advice is only useless to most people, blue pilled people. On TRP we acknowledge that you have to become a top 10% guy to elicit a girl's passions. It's as simple as he says…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 03:22 PM
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Women don't talk to guys they consider alpha, they just wanna fuck them. This idea has been percolating in my mind for a few months. I've noticed that when girls are heavy on the iois, they're less friendly or talkative. Thanks for helping solidify this lesson. Don't think it really clicked till now.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 03:10 PM
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she will create drama. That's all they know. Women are designed to be sensitive, not strong. They are thus indelibly insecure. Their drama is real until they find someone strong and smart enough to tell them it isn't. If a new man comes along, there is a possibility he is more alpha than her man. If she didn't force these two men to sort out their hierarchy, she can't be sure that she's safe.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 12:50 PM
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I've mostly only seen it used in rollo's posts. I've been employing feminine imperative, but yes, gynocentrism should become more common. A lot of people trying to unplug get caught up on the idea of fairness. Gynocentrism reinforces the knowledge that women are meant to be favoured from an evolutionary perspective, and we must remember that taking care of the women does not entail doing what they want.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 07:25 PM
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Why do guys get suckered into oneitis? They believe there is someone for everyone, which means it is ignoble to pursue a woman just for attractiveness, you must first verify that you like like her. Once you jump the gun and care for a girl more than she cares for you, there is a real possibility of making a fool of yourself. If you don't have much confidence, this can obliterate it. If you live somewhere violent, you could get beat up. If you've gone and assessed her compatibility privately, she…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 05:27 PM
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Yes, you'll never be great at holding frame until you hold frame while failing in front of people.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 05:21 PM
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Men are only as mentally and emotionally healthy as their ability to say no to a woman. Hypergamy is the innate tendency in women to reduce men to mere utilitarian value, to extract as much value from men as possible and to continue to do so until the man's energy and resources are exhausted. This year would have went much more smoothly if I had known this. Either way, I know now that this is true.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 05:17 PM
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I am working with the idea that I can pick and choose, and it seems to work. If a man is stronger than you, but you will become more motivated and ultimately stronger by bedding the girl, why wouldn't you employ all available tactics. And I compliment this (which is more for strangers) by cultivating more masculine friendships in my inner circle.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:50 PM
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Mine says it does. But I don't see how it's any better than using a pan. Just that you don't need oil?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:24 PM
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Yes, it is good to avoid the relational vicissitudes involved with a woman seeing you lose. If two men can 'settle their differences' (which essentially means define the hierarchy) respectfully, things will end up the same, just with less mess. I live in a very feminized city, hinting at violence is very faux pas. Because of this I can stare down guys twice my size, because the dominance struggle is most often relegated to eye contact. This is one benefit to the takeover of the feminine imperati…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:23 PM
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If you encounter a man who impresses you, your best route is to befriend him and learn. Banter and humour can work well for this. You want to learn as much as you can from him. Try to act as equals as long as you can, but if he really outclasses you, you can annoy him by acting equal, and he won't want to interact with you anymore; you've made it more work than it's worth. So sometimes acknowledging his superiority will allow a mentorship situation. You must at this point be diligent to enforce …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:16 PM
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I am a proponent of correcting mistakes and moving on. Correct other's mistakes privately so that there is a culture of fixing, not blaming. When you make a mistake, you correct it quickly, and allow people to remember that you do not need to apologize, because they are already benefiting from your leadership. I believe ignoring an issue or pretending it didn't happen only works in terms of: "it has been corrected, and there is no need to discuss." If you're actually pretending something didn't …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:02 PM
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If she doesn't have too many past guys to measure you against, she might actually be content. That's when she has babies and when the boys grow up they will fight for dominance.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 02:55 PM
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I have been struggling for years with the idea of 'ruining' girls. More recently, after intense monk mode which has accelerated my smv faster than I can habituate, I have been getting more haters and I've been wondering how it is fair that so many guys get nothing and some guys live a dream life. She can’t tell reality from fantasy and that is why she needs to cling so hard to her only reality, me. I will leave her better than she was when I found her. I have done it many times, that’s why they …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 02:41 PM
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Meanwhile if there is truce in place of confrontation, the power balance is ambiguous, and both men profit. Women will always push the men to compete until it is clear who is higher status. She HAS to know.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 07:27 PM
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I have a nice panini press. Seems similar to a george foreman grill. I never use it though. What's the benefit? I was gonna get rid of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 07:12 PM
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This fits with my current thinking that we are not making any progress towards peace in the world because hypergamy. As societies gain dominance and stability, less powerful women argue for measures which allow them to bypass their local class. If she couldn't get a top 10% guy from her in-band options, she's wired to try desperately to find opportunities to rectify the tragedy of not becoming a princess. Open borders, open legs. Open possibilities for a better future. Worst case get an abortion…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 07:03 PM
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Because they have been taught female tactics and hold onto the idea that good things come to those who deserve it. BP men will guilt-trip, shame, and elicit sympathy--when they can-- because it sometimes works. When assessing new ideas one's subconscious will look ahead. It discovers elements which contradict current benefits/privileges, and there's the feeling that something is wrong and they will be repulsed before ever allowing their mind to logically register the unacceptable truth. They can…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 01:03 PM
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It's a transference of responsibility. A woman wants you to take responsibility for everything. Redpill men know that she could say no 900 times, but if she's not de-escalating things or disengaging she still wants more. The 'no' could mean that she wants to be sure you have assessed the entire situation well enough--including all her worries: being caught, how she'll get home, can you stop if it hurts her, etc--that you know nothing will go wrong. If she does get caught by her boyfriend, or get…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 01:41 AM
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Surely much more complex that that. What about women flooding the workforce causing stagnant wages and higher dating standards and rampant misandry and female power-mongering causing less and less cooperation between the sexes (in the lower classes)? What about housing affordability? I'd say that incentivizing divorce is one of many great plays by the oligarchs to keep the population politically and economically effete.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 01:09 AM
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Asking her to go home with you for sex is literally calling her a slut to her face. It demonstrates poor social skills, on top of all of the other ramifications. It's unattractive. The red pill journey includes a tough balancing act of learning to understand the female social matrix and its delicate considerations, without allowing yourself to be a sucker to its built in slave-driving-funnel. The delicate considerations of having a dependent creature in your presence are inextricable from the bo…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 02:34 PM
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Yes. Even someone like me, who is more than skeptical about equality between men and women and knows logically that women think and use language differently, I still haven't relieved myself of a certain PC politeness in giving credibility to the words certain more successful, educated, or socially savvy girls. I forget that when they speak, they do not have any sense of responsibility to speak accurately, with consistency, or with consideration for others.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 02:28 PM
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If you think of it this way, that's almost a legitimate reason to keep it illegal, from a government spending perspective. Just like laws which force men to provide for children so the state doesn't have to, perhaps there need to be laws to force men to provide for women, lest they become further drains on the system.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 02:07 PM
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I've hard more encounters with guys being annoying, but perhaps both can be addressed with proper eye contact. Both butthurt guys and low smv girls will try to stare you down; one for dominance the other for seduction. I believe a decent way to deflate both situations is during said staredown: your attention gets grabbed by something else. Let them know that they don't really register to you, even if they're standing right in front of you. If they continue staring, look at them quickly again wit…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 06:48 PM
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Fuckboy: a man with choices, employing a more typically female sexual strategy. see: How Too Much Choice for Women Oppresses Women but also Too Much Choice for Men Oppresses Women Why Can't I Just Marry a BDE Prince by Jade McCollough-Hugh-Espinoza-Stien PhD
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 05:13 PM
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I mean, that's how I've thought of it for so long. But I'm pretty sure that's not actually a good system. You hear so many bad things about foster care children's experiences.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 05:05 PM
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This is the hardest part so far for me with my unplugging: because of hypergamy, you can't have functional conversations with men or women without employing different conversational styles and mental models with each. The black community has a real benefit in that their music constantly reminds them that women are different by calling them bitches. But they also have less stable families. It seems that being a redpill man requires a certain degree of either lying or isolation. Because men who do…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 04:56 PM
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Yes, but try to pivot into less and less lying if you want to have more fulfilling connections. Some of what you outline in your post could be accomplished by, instead of lying, refusing to discuss certain things. Improve your frame. Lying is an admission of inferiority (luckily only to yourself). Try telling an embarrassing truth, then let her react. Then do it again with another girl, and another; until their reactions just make you laugh. Then, surprise, you've turned a weakness into a dhv.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 04:12 PM
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pro-cooperative or pro-selfish This is a great way to think about different philosophies/moralities. All societies seem to end up as oligarchies, the differences are in how the population interacts with each other. The whole world is on a roll with its ideation of cooperation, but it's fairly evident that there are plenty of cultures or at least (wealthy) subcultures that value selfishness and individuality; because when the dust settles there are always winners and losers in the game of hyperga…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 03:56 PM
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Withdrawal of attention is negative (taking away something) punishment (making the situation aversive).
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 12:29 PM
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Depends how you engage. I find it quite useful to get into conversations, ironing out details and hashing out new ideas. Also, come on, there's always newbies. Let them learn. It takes a while to pass from conscious competence to unconscious competence.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 11:21 AM
1

good luck man. I'm not jealous of the all the shit you gotta put up with.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 11:12 AM
1

I've been finding myself having a fourth meal or larger meals as my metabolism increases. I lost 60 lbs in about 4 months and have been stagnating on the last 15ish lbs for a while now. My nutritionist had me eating more carbs to activate the metabolism.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 02:30 PM
1

There's still black guys who are bitches, just less because you know it matters. The whole 'good times create weak men' hasn't come around for you guys in quite some time. It's like you're perpetually stuck in the 'hard times create strong men.'
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 06:11 PM
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Is there a good way to guide her so that she doesn't, in the heat of the moment, perform a shit test that's actually a deal breaker? Some girls aren't smart enough or haven't been socialized well enough to avoid completely writing themselves off with an irredeemable boundary crossing, but with some guidance and subtly laid-out expectations they still have the self-control to avoid losing you.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 04:47 PM
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chase a check, never chase a bitch The whole rap genre and a lot of black culture is pretty red pill. I think they get away with it because they're written off as childish.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 06:11 PM
2

It's possible I misread. Building up your self esteem is a long rough business. You really do need to be careful about what you identify yourself with though. Saying, 'I'm just that way' is how most people avoid improving. For real. That's their motto. Maybe you have already, but I want to make sure you actually try not being 'that way' before you cling to it as part of yourself. You should get used to such straight talk here. It truly is a gift to have, as most of the world is too nice to give …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 06:05 PM
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I wrote it like that because it’s how I write. I like writing. That statement shows an unhealthy level of ego investment in who you think you are. By all means, write how you like, but this doesn't excuse being inconsiderate of your audience. Having said that, don't be afraid to try things and do things your way. Just learn to consider criticism if you want to have any allies and friends.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 03:44 PM
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Honestly, it takes years of work to have the skills to even sometimes get yourself to an adequate well-thought-out conclusion about something. And even then each problem takes time. Most people are either too stressed or blessed to take on such focused delayed-gratification. So they just feel out who they should listen to. Most people's level of empiricism is: "am I better off (treated better, higher status) in this tribe or the other?"
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 03:08 PM
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dehumanizing language I believe the fallacy is called equivocation, or perhaps begging the question (inserting a conclusion as the premise). It's what they're attempting to do with the word racism: redefine it so that it still carries its pejorative, but only serves their exclusive purposes. A word is employed with the intention to evoke the emotional reaction of the original term, but it is then used with a completely different, self-serving definition. Calling a tranny not a real man has no re…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 02:33 PM
1

This is true. I live in an incredibly safe place (small girls normally walk home alone after bars close), and frame is quite easy. Even with guys much bigger than me. I would have a lot to learn to survive in a favella.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 02:22 PM
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The higher profile you get, the more you are a target for unstable people. All they know is that you excite them. They don't realize it's that they wish they could be like you. They see your joy, dignity and freedom and it doesn't make sense to them. The emotional aggravation gets filtered through their silly in-group fantasies that have been established just so that they can stop hyperventilating. What they really want is guidance, but our media is incessant on divide-and-conquer so anyone who …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 02:19 PM
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It's not just distracting the population from the real issues, it's also weakening men (by making strength faux pas) and taking the most basic form of building power and contentment (nuclear family) and turning everyone against each other. And they believe it's for their own good! "Don't listen to the only practical thinker in your family, listen to what we've told you is your heart (princess fantasies)." Princess fantasies have take advantage of woman's drive for power, to be seen as unique and…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 02:37 PM
3

I'm interested in winning radically Don't forget, feminism is amoral.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 07:12 PM
3

Yea, most people categorize and get categorized as above or below, want their attention or want their service. Even if you hate most people you can pretend to want neither their attention nor service, and they will offer both.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 05:14 PM
2

And when you cross your technical, analytical skills to social skills you realize you actually can find a way to some something impossible like remember the name of everyone and their step-kids. Just realizing that (in some small, professional way) you are interested can be enough to remember.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 05:08 PM
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But part of me realizes that with the state of the sexual market today there will have to be losers to some degree. How could there ever not be? Enforced monogamy makes top men and most women losers. Hypergamous freedom means most men are losers. But I guess not everybody has the same drive for success. If there was somehow an equal drive for success, there would be pressure placed by female selection to keep competing until there was an established hierarchy. Maybe we need to start using langua…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 10:19 PM
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people go the extra mile in helping you once you treat them as someone on an equal level. You don't need to be superior to anyone to be the one they all turn to. So many people, just treating them as an equal while kindly enforcing boundaries will feel like 'special treatment' to them. They'll love you for it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 10:25 PM
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I know. I have been working on this, but it's taking some time to recalibrate my expectations for so many circumstances. For example, I ran into some acquaintances, including this girl who I used to think of as out of my league. We hung out for a while and I felt she was being rude and I failed a shit test so I kind of ignored her. I kept cordial conversation with her while having a much more engaged conversation with another girl. When we were doing goodbyes she did the girl version of asking o…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 02:34 PM
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I went to a fashion show which included some guests dressing up too. I saw this beautiful girl in this beautiful lingerie. She looked like an angel, but in a thong. It's not often, but sometimes I'll see girl who's so hot and graceful that I feel I do not have the energy to deal with my excitement for her. I was exhausted and had to be careful about aggravating an injury I had been working on the day before, so I chose to avoid this girl. Then I caught my zipper on her panty hoes as I walked by …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 02:17 PM
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I struggle with this type of thinking too. Then I realized that not everyone wants the same thing. 'Treat everyone how you want to be treated' does not apply to preferences. Yes, if you don't want to be lied to, don't lie. But just because you don't wanna share a girl doesn't mean she wouldn't prefer sharing you over not seeing you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 02:10 PM
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That's why I want more philosophical discussion here. Some major paradigms are shifting for me, I just can't believe how easy even high quality girls are. It just doesn't make sense to my intuition yet.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 04:50 PM
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I imagine more men having access to women through prostitution would cause too much deprogramming. Seeing women and having sex, men will start to question the covert contracts keeping them harnessed to the societal plow. I think it would help for reducing rape, depression for men and women, and a lot of pressures. But it would be a real regressive move, good for no one but the bottom 99%. To me no other society in history has pressure its men as much as America society does today. I doubt that. …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 04:42 PM
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Slow...the...fuck...down. Attraction takes time. It’s a process. Red Pill tactics can be revealed step by step. Slow release. Start at step 1, not 1 through 100 in five minutes. I have been struggling with this, as with city girls you do need to gain attraction in 5 min, that's all you have before they're never seen from again (or for a year). But you're still right. We just need to organize our approaches into sales funnels. Spark interest, enough that she is chasing. Then let steps 21-100 happ…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 05:39 PM
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Honestly, I always thought I could be quite happy without any girls. The problem is that for women to suss out the attractive men, they need to see the unattractive ones. Unattractive men can enjoy friendship, science, sports, music, and much more. They become miserable when they are forced to encounter desirable girls who are off limits to them. Through social proximity and through abusive media. You can be in a great mood and have it ruined by being shown the beautiful sensuous presence of a h…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 11:13 AM
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I don't understand why you said to look away after. That could be misread that you should look away first. That could work if you're trying to portray abundance through disinterest or if you don't have the ability to approach immediately, but it's usually better to engage as soon as possible. Let her look away or give some sort of reaction before you think of looking away yourself. When you do look away, look sideways. Down is bad, up can work but might look weird. Try to have your attention pul…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 12:54 PM
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Well he lost a lot of credibility with his associations with 21 convention. Perhaps he lost clout with 21 con by trying to be diplomatic. I didn't notice that he is being bashed here. I'll still read his articles when they're posted here and seem relevant to me.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 06:50 PM
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And somehow trying to enforce the double standard with facial recognition will produce some very transphobic algorithms!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:31 PM
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Lol, I just read the title and thought: DIY Facial Recognition for Porn Is a Dystopian Disaster "is this vice?" scroll "yep."
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:29 PM
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she has more power than she actually wants to have. This is why feminism will not stop of its own volition. It tries to solve the problem of too much power, because all the concomitant responsibility is overwhelming. So they garner for more power, thinking that those in power were negligent, and that their sjw endorsed victimhood credentials allow them to be effective to change that one more thing which will straighten out their paths, and fix their nihilism and loneliness. But they're creating …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:22 PM
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I agree. But I find that it requires you to be in a certain state. You can't optimally focus and get things done when you are being shit tested. It is distraction. Men know how to 'get to work,' this allows certain types of friendships that foster productivity and self-improvement. Most women easily forget how distracting their communication style is to a man, so it is difficult to include them in any serious discussion.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:39 PM
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Divide and conquer the middle class. Women are separated and pitted against men. They are sheep to be guided. Men are pitted against men for superficial reasons (ideologically supported racism). Less ingroup support. Divide and conquer.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 01:03 PM
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I've only seen the video with J Peterson, and liked her. What are some other good ones?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 12:56 PM
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Shit tests increase only until they see that you are stronger than them. They now have determined you have value to them so they will try to please you to keep you around. If you never convincingly pass shit tests you need to work on yourself. You can't just keep pretending that you don't care; that only works some of the time with lower status guys and girls. You need to actually build power. You are correct TRP knowledge is largely useless: IF you do not have confidence to command people. It w…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 12:52 PM
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I for one find value in the philosophical discussion. I have digested a good chuck so far of the red pill and now see first hand the clusterfuck of sexual dynamics. I never realized it was so easy to attract girls. I also didn't realize how utterly desolate is the situation of the majority of men. I know good people literally turning gay, pretending to be women, or who listen to women as if they use straight talk. Honestly, maybe these are solution for men who will never win. But it is hard to i…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 06:38 PM
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Women hate the feeling of someone having power over them. They actually hate bad feelings. If you have power over her but fail to make her feel good, then she will hate you. However, if you're powerful and she is submissive and you give her attention, she will feel like happily ever after. It's when happily ever after is revoked that the world seems horrible again and she feels as lost and lonely as a child locked in a basement. Women feel fully entitled to the full extent of good feelings. To g…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 11:57 AM
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When you have enough positive people around you you start to feel compassion or at least pity for those who are drowning in negativity. You look at a feminist as a poor misguided girl without a (good) father. Her tantrum is really just her saying "I need someone stronger than me to hold me and tell me it's going to be okay." You can't effectively do this until you have escaped oppression to some extent. You need enough power over your own life that you don't live in fear of being admonished by a…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 11:59 AM
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You argued with a 5 year old girl having a tantrum, parroting what she heard on the TV. Yes! When the outburst starts people don't know what to think. It is your reaction that will help everyone realize what is going on. When someone is not emotionally composed you have the advantage of being able to disregard them, because by staying composed yourself you have the more attractive frame (no one really wants to engage with negativity). As soon as you engage with someone who is being uncivil, you …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 11:51 AM
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This is so off base. The fundamental aspect of gaming women, or people in general, is frame. If you act out of the social standing people think you are in, they will shit test you to determine whether you're out of line or not. If you hold frame, they accept it. You need to realize, if you never succeed in doing this, that means you do not feel entitled to approval. Perhaps you've been raised to believe you're a piece of shit. Perhaps no one ever listens to you when you speak. These can be fixed…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 02:47 AM
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This is how women get their cues, and why confidence is so attractive because essentially by displaying it, you are projecting to her that you believe yourself to be of higher value. YOU are the one who decides if you are good enough for a girl because they are subjective thinkers. Remember that retarded idea that there are millions of truths because each person has their own truth? Well, girls are inclined to respect that. If you show that you think you're worthy of a girl, she will ask you to …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 04:07 PM
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Nice. Very small scale though.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 03:02 PM
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Woah. thanks for that. I've been stuck on how to deal with betas in my social circles. They don't like their girls looking at me like that. Turns out I need to become one of the lizard people! Baby talk and power talk!
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 01:03 AM
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Women can feel secure under the purvey of a strong man. But there aren't enough of them. A woman without a strong man is a child lost in the supermarket. Some of them are cute enough to talk their way into head of security so they can instigate profiling of every non-white and non-wealthy person who enters, because they think that's what makes them safe. Turns out one of those black guys that got kicked out was her dad.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 03:02 PM
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This is a new problem I've noticed. I'd made huge improvements and more girls are giving me unsolicited attention. When they have a bf and he sees how she talks to me, he starts acting weird and unfriendly. I worry about it destabilizing my social circles, because it's something never talked about: how to deal with haters. I don't have many ideas of how to approach it. My current attempt is to keep things formal with girls in relationships, but this is hard. The more I learn to appreciate women …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 02:50 PM
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I'd say this kind of advice functions the same way as yes means yes. It doesn't apply to the men women want to have sex with. It is meant to keep 'gross' men in their place; which is: out of the way. Men who understand women know that women do not care about fairness for others. They set the rules for their women, and, if they're attractive enough, she follows the rules. She's not concerned about emotional labor for an attractive man, because being with an attractive man is a huge benefit to her…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 01:13 PM
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About your points of advice: 2 and 3 follow from point 1. 2 and 3 are true only when addressing women logically. You cannot please a woman by believing what she says. You cannot win with a woman by doing what she asks. But you can please and win with a woman by ignoring her bullshit and letting her relax into your calm, happy, secure frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 12:52 PM
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Thanks for pointing this out, I didn't have the patience to do more than skim the article and missed that part.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 12:44 PM
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I agree that this issue deserves addressing. Perhaps it's a good thing to force everyone to be more discerning, but all who engage with him should reconsider the cost to their perceived integrity. If I hadn't already read a lot of Rollo, I would be quite reluctant to start reading him after seeing that silly 21 convention ad.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 03:33 PM
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I have just recently learned the very lessons discussed in your article. And I agree, it is a very motivating and inspiring perspective. This is a great quote: Most women have never felt they met someone who knows them deeper than they know themselves. Because the third-stage man is vulnerable consciousness, he feels her deeper than she could feel herself. He feels her yearning heart and meets her at a deeper place than she could feel herself, deeper than she expected – that is ravishment. — Dav…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 12:52 PM
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Don't be so judgemental. We're on the internet, you should acknowledge that most content is not worth the read. You cannot blame anyone for making snap judgements. There's no time to properly assess each post. You could make a shorter version and make the same points. You could get better at writing in a way that hooks more readers. And most guys aren't even at stage 1, let alone beyond it. This is very true. People are pretty resistant to nuanced ideas while they're still unplugging or in the a…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 12:50 PM
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He sounds like he understands women but isn't very attractive or good at game. That second article has some good insights: she becomes addicted to the shame (identifies herself as being a bad person) and seeks out that type of partner more and more. but the rarity he professes to find a 'live one' seems exaggerated. In my experience (in party atmospheres at least) it's more like 1/20 or 1/10. He sounds like a black pill or MGTOW kinda guy: understands women beyond blue pill conditioning, but isn…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 11:23 AM
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It's true TRP is going somewhat mainstream. But no one cares about men as much as women. I care, but that's more based off the principle of inclusion and equality. We all get sad looking at losers, we have to repress our disgust to help them.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 11:44 AM
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I just read a handful of his articles. I found some useful insights but also found "there is no pattern in womans attraction" to be a dud. You gotta suss it out yourself, though. Anyone can get arrogant and speak about things they know little about, just pay attention to when he actually makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 08:19 PM
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I don't like having to avoid speaking the truth, it means I am playing into others' frames. At the same time, I must acknowledge my limitations, and if I do not have the extreme credibility to get away with saying anything, I must either avoid ignorant people (pretty much everyone) or discriminate when it is better to speak the truth and when to step lightly. The solution seems to be what is outlined inthe sidebar powertalk resources, which is to categorize people, so you can enjoy the cooperati…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 04:39 PM
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It's crazy how good girls are at convincing guys that they owe her time/dates/attention/deference. Women are born with value, and it goes to their head. They truly believe they deserve everything handed to them. They live in an economy of attention. She is the only source of hugs for a guy and he drives her to work. She kisses him on the cheek he does her homework. She sucks your beta dick you buy her a house. Women respect a man who refuses to barter for anything from her simply because it show…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 01:44 PM
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Even if you become a value giving man, you as a person are still disposable should your circumstances drastically change. Don't fall for the same trap as post wall women who think that because they were valuable before they are always valuable.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 12:13 PM
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I mean, it's good to know where I can improve on making my writing accessible to more people. I could have tied things back to well-known concepts so people can follow easier. I know if I'm skimming comment threads I will skip any that seem like understanding their meaning is more effort than it's worth, and "What the hell are you talking about" runs through my mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 12:07 PM
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Do not allow her to think that you want only her, or are devoted to her, or that she is the best you can do. This will turn her off like a switch. Supposedly a good technique for dumping a psycho bitch, though. Make her lose attraction with beta behaviors.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 12:02 PM
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Snakes is a great analogy, because many people are scared of them, but you occasionally see some chill ass dude with one around his neck. It's a good metaphor for understanding women. When you have enough knowledge and experience, you can spend time with them, feeling safe, knowing that you've selected a relatively benevolent one, and that you have the skills and precautions to handle it if it gets out of hand.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:59 AM
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Hm, I did not intend for it to be read that way. I will be wary and determine whether that could be the case. My frame is: I take care of those around me. It's really more about dominance than service, though perhaps I'm following a covert contract: that if you fall into my frame you will be taken care of. Perhaps this is what Rollo would call 'old set of books,' and maybe I should be more self-focused. But I am trying to develop an ethic in which I can have sexual abundance while also developin…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:49 AM
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Yes! It's funny, because despite being metood before it was even a thing, I have yet to see the real dangers of women, but I have read enough about them to take it seriously. That's why I'm advocating for complete non-neediness. It's a fundamental part of retaining your mental point of origin and a sexual vibe. But there is not so much discussion about how to actually deepen or broaden your enjoyment of women; it's taken for granted. I'm simply presenting a seduction technique (really just an an…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:27 AM
3

How women interact with the world, how you can be valuable to them, and how to appreciate them for what they are.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 06:58 PM
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It's because they don't actually want this. They want to have their fears quelled by a strong presence that calms then. When she doesn't have that she is without a map or compass of life, she desperately wants to find where the ground really stands so she can feel secure and not fearful. She has had her ground collapse beneath her before, because she works with what's functional now, not necessarily fully truthful. She pushes hard in all directions to find some sort of guidance. When she hits no…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 04:26 PM
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A lot of girls are surprised when you hold frame. It's not normal. They don't know how to react. They truly believe they are in the right because their feelings have been validated for YEARS by guys and girls who see them as a social authority simply because they are hot and get lots of attention. Girls are so fucking skilled at making it difficult to say no to them. They're masters of framing their momentary whims as fundamental entitlements. The best thing to do is to err on the side of uncari…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 01:47 PM
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They reference each other for almost every decision they make because they're very unsure and lack decisiveness. Remember that you wouldn't change this if you could. When you have enough options to be choosey, you realize that an independent girl is most likely repressing certain aspects of her femininity. If it's not that, well, she's unlikely to be cooperative and affectionate the way you want anyway. I've been thinking about this lately. You don't become good at gaming a certain woman, you si…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 12:49 AM
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I wouldn't say I'm done. It really feels like a secret society, and it's exciting, because I'm really starting to connect more with girls in a sane, positive way, but I don't know how to deal with the betas in general, or the ones I would like to call my friends, because they get jealous of the way their girls talk to me, the twist in her foot, the sway as she stands. Many notice and get jealous. Many don't notice and I still kinda feel bad for them. But I do wanna fuck their girl. And sometimes…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 09:31 PM
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What u/Plutonac said. Also preselection. I.e. you must have some female company if you can tell apart real distress from bitching.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 09:16 PM
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Women do not have a truth drive, it seems to me. I think even a man with a high IQ might never become unplugged because how one thinks of women can go back to the most fundamental basis of one's philosophical perspective. To many pathetic men, women are saints Imagine living such a pathetic life that years and years of disrespect, drudgery, loneliness, and pointlessness are excused for the prospect of love of a good woman. Most of us don't even have to imagine that; we've been there. I am also a…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 05:24 PM
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To give women the benefit of the doubt, we could say that they're trying things out. They are so ignorant of how things work, and pop psychology veers them further from truth when it comes to sexual dynamics. It's understandable that they believe sexuality can just be oppressed. Really though, there will always be the pareto principle. If we want to talk solutions to the resentment caused by mass failure of a group's sexual strategy (in modern society, beta males) the two most feasible seem to b…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 05:03 PM
1

Correct. If you have eye contact and hold frame you will be fine. A boner is bad only if you're just staring at a girl and you're trying to hide your attraction.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 04:52 PM
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No sleep for me that night, but Sunday is the day of rest anyway. So many people ask if they can be vulnerable and tell girls about their struggles. Yes, if it's downplayed like this^
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 01:25 PM
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A man will withhold comfort if he's a good negotiator. A great way to DHV is to avoid sympathizing when she is complaining.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 01:14 PM
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Yea, it's one of those things that gets repeated so much that people who don't know better think it's useless advice for beginners, kinda like the common "just get abundance" advice. You can talk to a girl about her studies, but if you're eye-fucking her you don't need no verbal escalation.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 01:09 PM
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This is a great test of your frame. You should not be ashamed of your boner. Just don't wave it around or grind it on an unsuspecting girl, make eye contact first. If someone gawks at it, "Yes, it's an erection. Make a joke about it or ignore it." If you really think about it, there's no reason to be ashamed of having a boner in public, it's just a control tactic to keep unattractive men from grossing people out.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 01:03 PM
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Yes! I've been picking up on this in the last few months. Words are a stupid way to escalate. Girls want to feel wanted, not needed. You need to be confident and show some affection. Whatever you are feeling, she will feel. If you're feeling turned on and you're not hiding it, then she is feeling it too. If you're turned on and she doesn't want that, you will feel her shutting it down. You can have a boner, even. Don't be ashamed. Hold strong eye contact with a positive vibe. It works almost too…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 12:56 PM
2

Pretty sure that if you're not being voyeuristic, you will only get a boner if she wants you to.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 12:49 PM
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make life so hard for men that most kill themselves. or renounce their 'masculinity.'
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 02:42 PM
3

There needs to be so much more discussion about dealing with insecure betas. I've been improving my game and I was surprised to see how many chill and cool guys go cold after seeing their gf talk to you. This is a big problem if you want to be good at networking, or are extroverted. The issue stems from the fact that no one reigns in their women anymore. I've grinded with a girl meters away from her bf. She knows she can get away with it. So if you want to keep your allies, you are the one respo…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 03:56 PM
3

Good point. She doesn't want any alphas to think that she's low status enough to actually love this guy. She dances the line well and proclaims as best she can that she has the status to date a high status man and that she is looking for better with decent plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 06:43 PM
12

It's all about familiarity and comfort. You can do any other thing that a man would do when in a relationship if you are calibrated enough and can hold the frame. Babe is an easier one. You can feel the material of her clothes. I once drunkenly went up to a girl from behind and starting massaging her shoulders like a total creep, but she loved it and started doing it to me in the future. A really good one is picking them up. There have been girls who had written me off, but we hugged and I lifte…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 06:35 PM
36

More often than when they fake anger they will actually get angry and fake like it was a joke when your frame doesn't cave.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 06:16 PM
1

I mean, it's good advice to learn to read cues, but the whole point of game is to become the selector, not the selected. Learn frame, DHVs, how to pass shit tests and your percentage can go way up, to like 50% or more.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 11:23 AM
9

I'd say he outlined how you can give girls what they want without being completely anti-social.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 07:04 PM
2

it’s easy to win a race no one is running Most are told directly or get a vague impression that it is a faux pas to run the race. All you have to do when someone tries to shame you is say "sure, whatever'" or wait for the girl they wish they had/were to come back with your drink.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 02:09 PM
1

it is truly foolish of us to reject marriage and sexual morality and expect young men to never take this rejection seriously, or even get distracted along the way. Our current society does the equivalent of tying up the losers and making them watch as their wife/oneitis is fucked. They are devalued in every way possible in hopes that they'll hole themselves off or kill themselves because no one wants to look at them and be sad. They try to stand up for themselves, and because there is so much co…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 01:43 PM
5

His thumb is always on the screen during conversations. You'll know it's snapchat when suddenly there's audio coming from his phone. During a conversation. If someone is looking at their phone I stop talking. Just like lmr, do a freeze out haha
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 01:05 PM
3

Acquaintances too. Social groups are a big part of my game.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:53 PM
3

I'd rather not have my friends notice it. They'll likely get jealous and could become an enemy.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:42 PM
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We’ve pandered to the security needs of women for so long they feel entitled to their being met. We’ve developed a social order that’s prime directive is to insure against women’s Existential Fear of ever having to worry about a bad Hypergamous decision. Women do not have judgement. It's why she'll date an alpha loser. It's also why they do not know justice. To her, justice is defined merely by good feelings. There is no incentive to be fair. All she knows is that fairness = being a princess. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 01:32 PM
14

The gender studies department wastes 4 of your prime years on useless degree, after which even if 10% don't realize the ineffectiveness and lack of truth and they double down into the Church of the Victomhood of the Vagina or Inverted Penis, over time, we have really significant portions of the population who are propagandized into aggressive power-mongers whose meaning in life is tied to how destructive they can be. It seems likely that there will be a turning point in which women will stop bei…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 09:55 PM
3

I agree with most of your supporting points, and that men have a better chance of becoming something, but people in the age range 5-25 are flocking towards that sweet sweet female victimhood privilege. Many who won't go full inverted-penis are still turning into they/thems. To be included you must be not a man. To gain some control, you must be a man.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 09:31 PM
5

Well hopefully you can digest some of the TRP content, you'll see that isn't fully true, it's only one half of hypergamy that you mention. Girls also want a transcendental man for sex. A man who has some control over his own life. They can tell the difference between real confidence and someone who thinks being an asshole is high status.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 01:45 PM
5

You're totally missing the point. Women are attracted to confidence and frame. When you realize you are the prize and act like it they will be attracted to you. They don't trust their own judgement, so they judge you on how you see yourself. A shit test is her asking "are you better than me?" Edit: You actually have to learn how to succeed. The feeling that you are the prize must be genuine.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:46 PM
1

This isn’t to say you’re better than women, but it is to say that you have more to offer women than you have to take from them. Even if it's not yet true, if you know that you are going to work long and hard to become an ubermensch there's nothing wrong with getting a little sexual healing to speed up your process. One way to fake it till you make it is to lock into your future abundance. When you have true abundance you won't have time for all these bitches. So fuck this 7 or 8 before you're ou…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:44 PM
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I have a lot of respect for people who call girls bitches. We all should do it. It reminds us they are different. Women know they're bitches and if you use that word with a strong frame she will love it, but it is discouraged just like male libido is, to keep the weaklings under control.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:02 PM
2

Oh, shit. If I feel flattered I am being controlled probably! That article explains dangerous incels very neatly: The shame-honor worldview seeks an "honor balance" and can lead to revenge dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 07:22 PM
16

If you feel guilt or shame, you are being controlled.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 12:47 PM
1

If a guy has not done the casual sex thing with women, first-hand, he just plain doesn't know women and can't make an intelligent decision about anything. There are aspects of the red pill which come naturally, which I discovered before this subreddit, but this is the kind of ideaa that will drastically change the trajectory of your life.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 09:25 PM
10

We should make a scavenger hunt. -Skinny Black Girl -Tall Athletic Girl -Japanese Girl -Curvy Redhead -Virgin -Rich Girl -A Girl Who Doesn't Speak English -Model -Alpha Female -Dancer -Married Girl -An enemy's hot mom -Scar Jo Who am I missing?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 07:20 PM
5

capital of damaged women I was skeptical until I saw the name: Toronto. Everyone I meet from there is so worried about offending everyone. And it's the land of independent non-binary fat-positive womyn who don't need no man, but do need medication and therapy for their depression.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 04:31 PM
7

Why do you believe a single male tax is a real possibility?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 07:37 PM
3

Get in touch with your feelings, you then realize that you often need catharsis to feel grounded. You can try sharing your feelings with women or friends-- and women will encourage you to because it works for them-- but you will notice that you are burning bridges every time. Then you realize you can get catharsis through your hobbies or exercise, and everyone starts putting their shit on you because you got a carefree vibe and it gives them some stress relief. Then comes enforcing boundaries an…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 03:52 PM
2

As marauders of truth it is useful to find and discuss the implications of science that goes against accepted untruths.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 04:47 PM
1

I already had that bookmarked but such a good resource is worth a re read.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 12:50 PM
6

wow, I never thought of it that way.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 11:39 AM
3

Love the detail you give. A girl on vacation is easy mode, would like to see a FR in a more difficult setting, too.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 02:40 PM
1

Without its social constructionism, without its presumption of coequal agency, the Gynocentric power base is replaced with conventional, evolved gender norms that would favor men’s influence in the global SMP. Gynocentrism needs Blank-Slate Equalism to disguise its authority and influence. Women's power relies on facsimiles of logic which themselves work only insofar as a woman controls what is known by the manipulated. All she needs is a reason to feel justified (as simple as "I feel bad, must …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 09:56 PM
84

I know a few 'lesbians' who are feminine and submissive, but they just couldn't find a guy dominant enough to make them feel like a girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:47 PM
21

fuck her mind then you fuck her pussy One of those helpful mantras that doesn't get repeated enough.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 12:24 PM
12

That's an interesting way to put it. With their desire to be submissive, I guess being degraded by an alpha is exactly what will rid her of her ego bullshit and allow her to be free and in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 12:23 PM
5

In my eyes they are much more of a burden than an asset. I've been thinking this way, and it helps with holding frame and your mental point of origin. I do however hope to cultivate the mindset that I have the skills to keep a well-raised and well-behaved girl by my side and that she is more of an asset than a burden (as long as I am ready to cut her loose for misbehavior).
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 03:01 PM
1

Go to the ayahuasca and ayaretreats subreddits I believe they have resources. Personally, it took me four years after learning about it before I found somewhere local to do it. A lot of westernized countries have ceremonies but it's hard to find. And if you want to do it in the jungle, look for reviews. There are many tourist-based ones which are not run by proper shamans.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 04:34 PM
1

I agree aya is good to learn to control intense experiences. I also find it perfect for establishing and maintaining your mental point of origin. Was a little concerned when you said you fucked mini me, as that nick name sounds like what you would call your child. I've been wanting to try sex with psychedelics. I read an account of Terrence Mckenna doing so and it sounds great. edit: Just read the article about effects of aya on the brain. The increased cognitive abilities rings true. My memory,…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 03:45 PM
5

Yes, of course, when you can. I'm more talking about when you're broken up and she wants to hurt you or your reputation.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 11:38 PM
38

Information is like money to women. That's they're currency, that's how they get their power. I've been buying into the idea that it's okay to open up to a girl about your struggles as long as it's from a frame that you have them under control, but I must remember that sharing info about my weakest points may be used against me.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 08:24 PM
3

To varying degrees, comedians like Bill Burr, Jim Jeffries, Chris Rock, Dave Chappelle, even Louis CK. Joe Rogan gives small tasters of the redpill but I remember there was a post about Jordan Peterson mentioning hypergamy and Joe shied away from the topic.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:37 PM
1

What themes, other than will to power? Why are they essential?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 03:53 PM
4

Feminism is what comes after a society-wide failed shit test. Women tested the boundaries, saw that there were none, and institutionalized the idea that there is more to be gained by abusing men than by submitting to them. It's all just will to power, and women seem to have less of the hardware required to wield power with any degree of conscientiousness.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 01:50 AM
8

Compelling arguments, but what the fuck is this: Did you know that Albert Einstein did much of the groundwork for the Theory of Relativity not while at a university, but rather while working at a patent office? He also got mediocre grades when he was in school. Einstein did very well in school.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 11:47 PM
1

Subjugate men by taking advantage of their propensity to take responsibility. Subjugate women by taking advantage of their propensity to be submissive. Both are subjugable.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 05:03 PM
2

It is exploitable, and that is an issue. But let's look at responsibility as a capability and an expectation. We agree that men are the ones capable of being responsible, and because most people see that, even if they don't acknowledge it, they naturally don't expect as much responsibility from women. Look at any time a woman fails to be responsible, she is more often forgiven or there is some excuse to put the blame on someone else.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:54 PM
1

Whether or not a trait is good for a man is a different thing. Responsibility is not a feminine trait. You're right that it is a trait that can be exploited by the feminine.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:30 PM
3

So you mean to say that responsibility in a man is a quality which serves the feminine imperative. It's still a masculine trait. Responsibility is not a feminine trait at all.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:28 PM
3

Haha I just started being able to do actual pull ups. I've been working hard on fixing huge physical issues with my body for almost 2 years. I also have started to be able to do sit ups without a weight on my feet. Feels great.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 03:34 PM
-7

Obama's a decent role model and he's squandering it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 03:17 PM
8

Responsibility is a masculine descriptor.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 03:16 PM
2

yes, focus, depth of thought, better memory too. It's probably the getting fit more than the losing weight though, but they're tied together.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 06:15 PM
4

I found when I was losing weight girls were looking at me less until I started putting on muscle. It's like I was an imposing figure when fat, and that was more attractive than skinny and weak. Just the other day I had a girl check out my chest. First time in like ten years.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 01:30 AM
2

Yea I was drinking like 10 L a day when I started seeing my dietician, and she said 3-4L is correct, but you adjust obviously for high heat/activity.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 01:27 AM
9

I only lost 60 but the I can still vouch for the brain power improvement! Also, you shouldn't drink much more than a gallon of water, either, or you'll be leaching nutrients.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 12:13 AM
1

That's what I was thinking at first. He mentioned in a comment that she was unattractive in other ways, and he really just wanted her gone. He should have included that in the post, because it changes the whole situation from a 'failed shit test,' to 'this girl is not worth my time.'
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:06 PM
-1

Men are protection-objects (if you're alpha fucks, provider-object if beta bux), stop crying about it. Also, please put some work into editing and coherence. Your 2nd and 3rd takeaways are things you didn't address at all in the post.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 04:04 PM
3

The thing is that most women are not misandrist, they are merely under the influence of misandrists. I am trying to work on my rhetoric so that I can be open about my anti-feminism in ways that don't alienate the good, caring, feminine girls I know who speak misan-deutsche only because they're natural followers, and not because they think the future is 90% female.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 06:49 PM
7

I have Avatar of Brodin envy. How do I sublimate?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 06:40 PM
1

I too am wary of the right wing supremacism. I try to temper against it, but because there're so few comments from a liberal perspective, I find myself thinking: 'well feminism provides a great argument against allowing women to have power' and 'social safety nets are very vulnerable to abuse by single mothers.' I still consider myself a liberal, but I'm becoming skeptical of the efficacy of social programs, because so many people will just leech and not do anything, which is unfair to anyone wh…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 05:50 PM
2

I think there's room for it but there is almost no discussion. The inclination at first would be to identify how your relationship could be better by following a more red pill dynamic. It would surely be suggested that your relationship cannot be stable with the role reversal you have at play, and that you may not see it but you are likely to branch swing. There may not be a lot of support for you, but I for one would be interested in updates, because it could help me fine tune my understand of …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 05:32 PM
1

For me, self-enjoyment. Not sufficient in itself to be great, but a prerequisite to being engaging enough to really laugh hard. I saw elsewhere you don't like Seinfeld. I like him, but I don't consider him great because he has contempt in his demeanor (at least modern Jerry, in t he era of his tv show he may have been less bitter or better at hiding it.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 03:35 AM
2

When you realize that even though feminism is morally wrong that the most effective way to getting what you want in this world is through taking responsibility for the happiness and ethics of those around you, you will let things go so that you can make things better. Don't let things go in terms of accountability, but let them go emotionally. If you're unable to avoid hating someone/something, that means you are under its power. Fix that.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:24 PM
2

Men are considered to be either subhuman or superhuman.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:10 PM
-1

Jesus, it's too easy to read AFC as alpha-fucks chad. It's been a while since I've seen average fucking chump
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:59 PM
3

Remember, her morality does not come from her, it comes from whatever she feels is right at the moment. This really is hard to remember, because we can't understand what it's like to think this way.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:50 PM
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Feminism is a FAILED shit test. Women tested the boundaries and men failed to enforce them. No one thinks it's innocuous.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:14 PM
1

I reread your original comment. I like what you say about Peterson ( and maybe Rollo) wanting to revert to an earlier stage in the decline. I had a small worry about Rollo's participation in that silly promo, but you see the ethic outlined or displayed often enough by endorsed contributors here: there is no leader here, you learn from other men and think for yourself. My point still stands. The red pill is not a value system. By the way, I agree with your ethic that something should be aimed at …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:03 PM
1

I never said sex defines manhood, it is a physiological prerequisite to free thinking, and free thinking is a fundamental component of manhood. Unless you really don't have a sex drive, there is no ignoring it. You master it, or you are a slave to it. It would be an extremely rare case that you can guard against your impulses, thoughts and even philosophy being affected by an unfulfilled basic need. The red pill is not a moral philosophy, which is what you are seeking. It is tool to help you be …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:15 PM
1

The red pill is not about hedonism. I've even been seeing much less 'enjoy the decline' in the last half a year. It's a focus on sexual strategy because trying to be a man without having sex, is like trying to become a coach without ever playing pro: who the fuck wants to listen to someone who doesn't know what they're talking about. The first step to being an empowered man is freeing yourself from your slavery to pussy, which like money or nourishment, can only be done by having sufficient supp…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:08 PM
1

I looked up yugas and Dvapara Yuga seems more appropriate for current times, as water and food are not yet scarce and families have only just started to disappear.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 03:32 PM
2

I'm just starting to watch his stuff really, but he's the only comedian I've seen talk about the bullshit of trans children and dig so unapologetically at feminism.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 02:50 PM
1

I think I remember him having some good material, but can't really say. His atheist know-it-all arrogance prevented me from ever watching very much. But I should give him another shot. I mean, Jim Jefferies can get annoying about religion, but is otherwise good.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 02:46 PM
16

Slightly off topic but I recently discovered a new red pill comedian. Owen Benjamin. And if you don't already know, Bill Burr, Patrice O Niel, most black comedians.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 04:50 PM
2

Improv is a good starting point, you won't feel lack of approval from the audience so personally. There are positive and negative aspects to waiting to start stand up. The only reason you shouldn't start right away is if you think that when you fail, it will prevent you from coming again. If you take your time to learn the rules watching the pros, there is a very real danger that you will become in intellectual about it. You can always work on technical skills, but it is a common trap for artist…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 04:43 PM
1

Good point. Could be a well-calculated decision.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 04:10 PM
8

This makes me rethink the credibility I give to Rollo.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 04:58 PM
1

Haha yea, I just saw a linked video of the soap, on which it says 'Durden,' and I was like, are they just straight up copying RSD tactics and symbols?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 04:57 PM
1

I'm wanting to get back into running. Is there a good outline somewhere to properly adapt for it?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 11:23 PM
1

Lol, the NFL is gonna become touch football.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 06:59 PM
1

It can come off that way, but when you've been around the sub for years, you get tired of the same old discussions. It makes sense to delve further into things, and doing so you risk being wrong and sounding crazy.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 02:01 PM
1

Is there a good guide to non feminized countries?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 01:57 PM
14

Hanlon's razor: Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. Women aren't trying to break your spirit. They do no have the physiology to feel safe and comfortable on their own. They shittest to determine reliability: only when a man is strong enough that he gives no weight to her problems will she start to feel safe. There aren't enough strong men to make women feel safe, individually. Feminism is what happens when women go long periods without an adequate protector…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 03:09 PM
2

I think it is good that you are trying. I take issue with asking for contributions without offering a solid outline. It will turn off many potential donors now, who will not give a second look even when you have more information. Right now you are simply asking people to support a pro-male religion, but no one will donate without having a mandate and plan of action. It's like you're saying "I want to start some sort of tech company, give me funding."
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 12:19 AM
6

The idea is out there, but perhaps worth pursuing. The fact that you're fundraising before you have any sort of outline for this makes it look like you're having a manic episode more than there being any real plan here.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 02:13 PM
3

grilling is a shameful "masculine indulgence"
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 04:48 AM
1

I wonder how they get away with claiming to be oppressed/counter-culture/underdog. It goes against the observable situation, but so many accept it. Is it really as simple as groupthink? Is it masterful rhetoric?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 11:40 AM
3

Yea, but my point was resting on the assumption that a perfect society has everyone happy. Perhaps the only possible perfect society has a drastic minority of men to women, like 1:10. Or I think all male would work too, until death.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 09:58 PM
6

Some are straight up fascists. Segregation is what they want. You ask a university student what we should do about all the people who don't want to live in a socialist PC world, and they talk about them as if they're hobbled livestock. 'We just need them gone.'
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 09:49 PM
1

It's comforting seeing the backlash. As they say, follow the money. And men's true priorities will prove to be a strong barrier for hopefully some time, until there's a spreading social movement for men to virtue signal with the products they buy.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 09:46 PM
2

Do cops get kick backs? I thought it was judges.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 06:16 PM
2

When talking about hypergamy's effect on society, we should remember that the only reason our competition/other men is weak is because they live a pathetic hateful existence. If we really had the healthy society, with everyone loving themselves, it would mean all men feel valued, and that probably means they get sex. If we laid it all out, would we agree that all men deserve love, if it means all men deserve sex; hypergamy would not fit and would have to be heavily controlled. Perhaps this is a …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 05:54 PM
1

Yes! Girls think they need to be independent because that's what society wants. It seems like Anti-Dependence-Defense comes into play almost more than Anti-Slut-Defense. In my city fuck buddies are more normal than relationships, women talk more openly about their sex lives than men.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 05:54 PM
2

Yes, but what if the truth were known. Would we find ourselves just going through a cycle of increased competition to segregate again into winners and self-deceivers? If men knew their only chance at being a proper person was to fight and win, there would be a lot more fighting, at least for a while. It honestly feels like the enjoy-the-decline sentiment actually is not cynical at all, we are lucky that men are weakened. Some of us are only able to make it into the top 20% or men because of the …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 05:44 PM
3

her feelings of superiority are purely to satisfy her own egotistical self-image. Women strive for ego gratification because they have no one to lead them. There will never be enough men to lead the women, so to solve the modern crisis of womanhood, perhaps a cult is necessary; many small ones or perhaps a resurgence of religion. That seems to be the only way that the few strong men can provide the comfort necessary for each woman to be feminine and submissive. It's pretty much how people are fu…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 04:23 PM
5

I believe that there are plenty of rich guys that employ unseen tactics to weaken and divide the populous because they believe an oligarchy must be established for their own security.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 02:51 PM
57

I had a buddy say to me once, "it's a party man, girls don't come here to be hit on."
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 02:46 PM
11

Wow. Just watched this. It's easy to notice that society is not doing as badly as the media portrays, but I have seen good friends in the last two years start to talk about things like 'rape culture,' 'pay gap,' 'toxic masculinity,' etc. We're not as compromised as the media because the media represents a few steps ahead into our future. But we do tend to fall into line, in time, with the philosophy of the media. It begs the question of how to fight on the media battlefield. There are some right…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 02:44 PM
1

They know they're mad and want to figure out why. The majority of women grab onto the in vogue ideas not knowing many of the ideas come from a drive for power and have no intention of fairness and no merit as solutions to real problems. I don't think most women could be blamed for any of it other than for being easily led sheep. Most women who get married get more reasonable (if with a strong man). In their quest for 'equality,' they do such a good job at showing that they do not handle power be…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 09:25 PM
1

It's like in STEM fields. You study beyond practical applications so that you understand why and have reasoning for your actions. I don't find reading his blogs regularly as a necessity. Partially for the reasons you state: repetition and verbosity. But sometimes there are new ideas, and it's good to think philosophically/sociologically about it once in a while.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:03 PM
2

Yes, it is a good way to frame it. They hate men for not fulfilling their role. Woman's solipsism prevents them from having a moral compass or truth drive. They think because they're not being corrected with a show of power (logical arguments are ineffectual) that what they're doing it right.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:56 PM
1

I agree except for the very fact that a girl has sex with you makes her believe that you are a beast and earned the pussy This benefit is gone as soon as the sex is over. It provides little security against loss of frame. It's called spinning plates because it's a constant challenge to keep them spinning, but you can drop it and in a second it's gone for good.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 06:43 PM
3

You framed it as such when you called it a favour: When you sleep with a girl on the first date, you make a big Alpha impression just by virtue of the fact that you fucked her. It’s a quirk of human psychology that we like other people because we do favors for them and when you say that she let you nail her. If she wants validational sex- that is to say that you've successfully sold her your dick- she's getting what she wants from you, she's not giving anything up.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 06:38 PM
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Good post up until you frame sex as a favour to you. Sex with an alpha is a blessing for her. The reason she thinks you're alpha is because you made it happen and took what you wanted. If you don't, not only does she have time to think it over, she also has good reason to think you're not the strong willful man she thought you were.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 02:25 PM
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SMV is emphasized because pick up techniques aren't as reliable, because they are all about faking high-value behaviours. Everything comes down to frame, and if you focus only on technical you might just fake it and forget about the till-you-make-it part. I agree that there is a lack of step by step guides, as they are very helpful for beginners/intermediates. I don't think I can link, but look up vin dicarlo escalation ladder, it's pretty straightforward and all about kino. Reddit posts I sugge…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 02:21 PM
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I do wish there were quotes included which explain their reasoning beyond "the consequences of this false position are sufficiently clear." But I do believe it is not hard to see the implication as to the reasoning. Women's solipsism does not allow for truth drive, and is an anti-social force, especially when they have power. I'm actually curious, are there any good examples of a woman dying for a cause?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 04:49 PM
1

I'd love to see someone make a guide on here for dealing with entitled, purely-emotion-based women on acquaintances, colleagues etc, girls on whom the commonly discussed tactics of withdrawal of attention, and dread game will not work.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 01:59 PM
12

I wish I made my trp username alfalfa_sprout
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 05:11 PM
11

I live in sort of a big city, about 1.5 million, and here it is very easy to lose her attention. On the other hand, girls have their defenses up more for the constant inundation of thirsty guys, which means that if you approach with a value-giving attitude, they are pleasantly surprised. Oftentimes they can be almost hostile at first (some will be straight up hostile), but if you show that you don't need their validation they will open up (sometimes now, sometimes you need to reapproach). It's a…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 12:36 AM
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Yeah, I get the impression from people I meet and news that places like Netherlands, Scandinavia and Germany are doing just as bad as north america, or even worse, when it comes to thought policing.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 04:52 PM
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One curious thing about female authority and the rhetoric surrounding it is that most women are ignorant of their power. This prevents them from acknowledging the power they wield which, supported by their solipsistic thinking, prevents them from a certain type of power that cannot be granted: confidence or the ability to take on the unknown. Because women are told they do not have power, they still feel powerless, and often do not exercise their incredible authority to outcast men from a social…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 02:43 PM
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The F scale targets an authoritarian, anti-democratic personality profile that makes a person susceptible to Fascist propaganda. Using this scale, feminism would tick 6 of 9 boxes: Authoritarian Submission: Towards ingroup authority figures. Superstition and Stereotypy: Belief in individual fate; thinking in rigid categories. Power and Toughness: Concerned with submission and domination; assertion of strength. Destructiveness and Cynicism: hostility against human nature Projectivity: Perception …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 01:50 PM
1

This is called monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/18 02:08 PM
11

You sound like you get way into your head. It doesn't matter how you approach as long as you are not value-taking. You'll make more progress with 20 embarrassing opens than you will with a successful one.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 08:02 PM
2

I'm trying to save this comment on http://archive.is but it keeps getting stuck on the quarantine wall. Does anyone know how to archive despite the quarantine?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 11:45 AM
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APALT Just focus on your mission.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 01:53 PM
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Yeah, they're busy unplugging. They figured they would easily find something to refute our ideas and the more they work on that, the more they're starting to see red.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 08:11 PM
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They do have power. They developed advanced social perception and rhetorical skills which allow them to manipulate the reality of men who are not powerful enough to perceive power talk. Frame. Men with abundance and superior ability are able to be in touch with reality. Men with lower status are lured into a women's frame with the promise that another type of truth exists- forget your low stature in the male hierarchy- just listen to women's stated needs and they'll love you!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 03:06 PM
2

Wow. Very simple and comprehensive. A great way to conceptualize things for good escalation. And it isn't mentioned enough: be entitled. KNOW that she will be missing out if she doesn't get to have sex with you.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 12:58 PM
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Lol you joke but that would totally help.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 12:17 PM
4

I do this myself. Dow do you change that?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 11:32 AM
1

Will the distortions in the market really be noticeable? We know that one of the reasons male priviledge is perceived to be real is because women do not even see most men who are below them socially/economically. More men checking out will simply thin out the population of men in the sexual marketplace. The women will still be going for the top 20% of those men unless there is something constantly reminding them of all the low value men who are barely present in society.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 02:43 PM
1

I think more nuanced definitions are required. In general, I think we consider multi-tasking to be doing more than one task demanding a certain amount of attention. It sounds like cutting down trees, for you, is more a meditative action that actually helps you think, just like it's a cliche/truism that going for a walk helps us think.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 02:21 PM
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This is really heartwarming to hear
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 10:48 AM
4

I couldn't find this when someone mentioned before. Such a great resource.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 08:24 PM
3

Good anecdote about frame, but this shouldn't be flaired as Science.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 12:48 PM
1

I agree that utilizing anima can help you understand girls' reactions, but this can be misapplied in a way that neglects your masculine polarity and you end up being manupulative instead of genuine. Perhaps this works, but the current consensus on pick-up is to become attractive, not to pretend to be. Breaking from this consensus should include some reasoning for doing so. Also, stating there is no objective reality reeks of solipsism. It makes all this sound like you're rationalizing your curre…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 03:46 PM
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Why differentiate sigma and alpha? I identify with your description of sigma, but it is all too alluring to my ego. It feels like rationalization. We should just say extraverted alpha and introverted alpha. We know that alpha is situational. Your definition of sigma is just an alpha by way of creativity. And saying that sigmas just don't give a fuck sounds like a defense mechanism to rationalize your alternative means to being alpha. I've literally never heard someone say "I don't give a fuck" w…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 03:04 PM
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Don't often see manipilation tactics to elicit compliance on here. Such a good way to boost cold-approach game. I still prefer to do cold reads of people. If you tell a girl something you perceive about herself you can get to social hook fast. It may be awkward, especially if you're wrong, so it's important to come in with a light-hearted talking-to-everyone frame. If you're wrong, don't lose frame and apologize. Let her know that you're surprised. Use the fact that you were wrong about her to b…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 11:40 PM
5

I want in.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 02:21 PM
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Hadn't thought of it like that. True. And they ensure to keep their conversations so full of power rhetoric that the words of any racial person- who according to them should be heard- who is reasonable falls on deaf ears, merely by way of speaking a different language: the language of rationality. Or is written off as having 'internalized racism.'
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 07:55 PM
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Can't fully tell, but it sounds like you might have been uncalibrated. Maybe she was doing things light-heartedly and if you did "snap back" and if there was any malice or even poor delivery its understandable that she got angry. The fact that you put quotation marks around "shit test" makes me think you don't really understand what they are. If she was shit testing you, that's an IOI and you should be focusing on the fact that you failed it. If she was just mad you were being uncalibrated. If s…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 07:47 PM
4

"Naturals" have only indifference game, and no control game. Explicitly punish her for minor misbehaviours. The normal redpill teachings for punishment are withdrawl of attention, which is indifference game. But I get the feeling that to explicitly punish in the context of an LTR involves verbal castigation?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 02:25 PM
2

I haven't seen any NLP stuff on here except occasional comments saying a mentioned technique is essentially NLP. What are some good online in-depth resources?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 11:21 PM
1

I like the detail you're going into. I look forward to the article.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 11:20 PM
2

When they respond with a silliness, you give them silliness back. Useful way to conceptualize shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 02:22 PM
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Remember: you are the vessel in which love blooms, and this love can bloom with anyone. Without you, there is no relationship. Quit giving the media such blatant misogynistic quotes that make us look bad.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 04:26 PM
3

untill we stop valuing the dollar above all else, productivity inducing homogenization will continue. Is this something you believe to be possible? There is no Feminine imperative. Only in the way that there is no partriarchy. It's useful to name it even if it is a naturally arising phenomenon. I do agree we should clarify that its way too big to be considered a conspiracy or intentional. No one chooses to favour women, it's just natural.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 06:11 PM
1

Slightly tangential but worth clarifying: vulnerability is only beneficial to women seeking comfort and security in a long term partner. Is it true that there really is no self-awareness among these women? I think that just like our standard woman, who doesn't fully believe everything that feminist rhetoric espouses, there must be plenty of women who recognize that vulnerability and its advantage that she can dominate the relationship are not wholly desirable nor should they be her sole consider…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 06:04 PM
3

We should be more specific about when is good to lie. Lying is completely unnecessary among people who respect you and over whom you have some control; it's much better to be witholding of information ("I'm not going to answer that" etc) than to keep track of lies while constantly being in your head because of it. How could you possibly enjoy other people's company? It should be calculated when you lie. Each lie is an admission of weakness to yourself. A last resort self-preservation technique. …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 09:23 PM
6

I'm confused about the section on Price. What is the metric? The SMV of girl you will accept?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 09:07 PM
7

I understand this problem. I used to confuse it as well. The key is to be indifferent to to any particular girl, not to sex. Like choosing an apple at the grocery store. You find one with a bruise you put it down without a thought. But you're still gonna eat an apple. Indifferent =/= ignoring.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 04:36 AM
1

While it's not really stated directly, there is certainly an ethic in the manosphere to help our weaker brothers to not be losers. I'm really not sure now is any different than the past, however. And how can we go against the pareto distribution?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 04:59 PM
2

Are you suggesting that raising your T is easier than understanding situations and learning social skills? What do you suggest to raise T?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 06:06 AM
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Sounds like a good approach. There is a possibility of coming across as butthurt if you don't speak with sufficient authority, though. And if you're uncalibrated, or castigate her in front of others, she might consider it worthwhile to attack back. I'm gonna remember this approach and use it when the situation arises.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 04:37 AM
2

What are these situations where aggressive physical game is the only way? Vacationing in Jamaica?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 06:18 PM
6

That seems easier said than done. Maybe you're just putting into different words the same approach I'm learning to implement: identify a need, its importance, and its parameters, so that you know you are in the right; do not allow this need to be negociated or compromised when addressing it, and treat arguments against its full actualization as a small child's tantrum. Hear them out- let them vent their frustration- and reaffirm what you need without making any concessions.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 04:59 PM
6

It's so often the case that each sex realy doesn't understand what the other is doing. When I have not closed on a girl who was making things easy, it was usually from confusion due to BP paradigm. If she was touchy from the start I might think "Oh she's just like this with everyone." If she was making innuendo I might think "she's into me too fast," instead of manning up and entertaining her advances while I decide if I want her or not. I've had girls come up to me so close that my arm is aroun…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 04:45 PM
1

Yeah, I definitely feel at a disadvantage that I've never had to defend myself. Leaves me feeling unprepared.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 06:47 PM
4

Personally, I've had way more success in real-life situations. Online dating is harder to demonstrate social value and man-to-woman vibe. It sounds like you could use some time focusing on pick-up. You already have systems for self-improvement and have set up a good life, but you lack social skills. You also definitely have some work to do swallowing the pill if you still hold resentment towards women for their natural way of being. Sure, be mad at the society which exacerbates women's bad behav…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 06:40 PM
1

Wow. Those last two points are somewhat novel, though definitely not beginner-level. "Celebrate being a horny male that desires women" is a really great way to hold frame amid accusations. I wish I'd had the confidence to do that when I was under fire myself. Though, it seems that if you're a sexually active male, it's bound to recur.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 06:23 PM
2

Thanks. Learning how to manage people seems to be an important aspect of becoming a self-sufficient man. And there aren't many posts about it. Your outline makes a lot of sense, and its good to have a base structure. Also, the point about being concise with criticism is a very relevent tip for me. Do you have any books/sources you recommend?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 08:55 PM
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Wow. That's a scary situation. I've seen that dissociated look in a girls eyes before. I mistook it for her getting lost in the moment. Before we got naked I realized she was freezing up, and she really gave me the impression that her SJW hamster actually wanted me to fuck her without verbal consent so that she could prove correct her ideology and view of men. I stopped. It could have gone much worse. I'm glad you sorted it out in her mind, because it seems like this kind of situation is a predo…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 08:46 PM
2

Yes, I'm very interested if you go into how to manage these 20-something motivated workhorses.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:30 PM
1

Yeah, it seems that way. Perhaps not so much in France.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:07 PM
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Totally. He's being a good leader by having frame as well as following the truth of what is best for everyone. It's not very alpha to be short-sightedly selfish. I think u/mgtowPatience has some good analysis, but some ideas need more thinking through. As for pointing out the MetaFrame. I think that's valuable. This video is the strongest display of frame I've seen in the past year.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 05:34 PM
1

The point about nazi identity being above the self is interesting. Was it feminine solipsism to want all that lebensraum for themselves? Or was it dominance. The fact that they were inclined to kill off enemies instead of take control of them implies a solipsism. Although it's worthy to note that they may have considered the Jewish people to be indominable. There was a video posted in a comment recently in which a rabbi explains the resentment towards jewish culture stemming from its unwillingne…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 05:24 PM
1

Interesting. Am I right assuming females are more easily manipulated by advertising? Is it just different approaches? Are they just most important because they're the biggest purchasers?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 06:04 PM
1

I'm trying to find a way to leave no man behind without forcing some unnatural change in the pareto distribution of sex. The current system of blue pills already has them as slaves, manipulated through sex. Perhaps the priviledge of man is how meaningful it is that he has to take his own freedom despite the odds being against him at least 4:1.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 02:58 PM
2

You seem to always bring it back to capitalism. So far, I'm buying it. I wonder why it's not more often mentioned in discussions on this sub. It's obvious that marketing works by bypassing people's reasoning and playing to thier vulnerabilities. With decreasing accessibility to headstrong male leaders (of families, of communities) women's drive to feel special/one-of-a-kind lacks both a satisfying father figure (the attention from which could validate her) and the guidance not to submit to the c…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 02:53 AM
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Wow, I never thought of it in the context of capitalizing interactions. I think it could relate to cultural marxism in the way that feminism relates to class struggle. Both are so isolating and weakening of their proponents, they seem like auspicious movements to support if you're a powerful, upperclass person looking to retain power.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 09:02 AM
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"The Red Pill really ought to dedicate some focus toward identifying women who are lonely or horny and willing to drop their normal standards for a night." This addresses how to observe when she's horny: https://therationalmale.com/2014/12/17/estrus/
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 08:43 PM
1

I think Woujo's refutations are worthwhile. They help anyone who might be considering these blue-pill responses to realize he knows what he's talking about. Woujo's attentiveness to this post shows the community is productive and worthwhile amid blue-pill derailing.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 01:37 PM
1

The best way is to read theory and field reports while practising on people and failing. Reference experience. That's the name RSD uses. It's one of the basic tenets. Go out an interact A LOT. Some guys do it everyday. None of the tips provided here are fully usefull until they've become part of your practice. So consciously try things and speed it up. Unless you're a sociopath you won't keep any disingenuous technique. But you should give a technique a fair try first because occasionally there …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 01:19 PM
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