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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Ill gotten confidence - advice needed | Ask Red Pill | redpill_ | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 01:59 PM |
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| 4 | Ill gotten confidence - advice neededTeam sports (men-only) I play hockey a couple times per week. I'm the goalie and I'm pretty damn good. Nothing like being the man who the whole team relies on. She comes to watch often and says it turns her on. Game and flirt with women who are not drunk This probably needs to happen. Just have to tread carefully with trust issues that are the biggest lingering issue from the affair. Game her friends Ha, I've done this a few times. Usually when buzzed/drunk I'll find myself teasing the shit out … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Ill gotten confidence - advice neededThanks for the reply. Unfortunately, this: Perhaps you were more attractive to her because you figured it was over between you, and you were pretty much free from dependence on outcome? Then you decided you wanted to save the marriage and so you became emotionally invested in outcomes again, maybe you became needy and responsive to her moods as you tried to fix the damage and apologize for what you did? seems to be likely. Too much swing to the beta. Inner game is in order. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Ill gotten confidence - advice neededYes, preselection and dread definitely figure into the mix. (I should have mentioned that shortly after the affair I stumbled into the writings of Roissy, Roosh, Athol, etc, so these concepts are quite familiar. I was happy to see the TRP sub be established and hear about others figuring out how shit really works.) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Ill gotten confidence - advice neededYou idiot. Haha The guilt would have crushed me. I do believe that if you want out (which I did), you owe it to the other person to just leave. Simple. Run game. Flirt, flirt, flirt. Create attraction with women. Waitresses, cashiers, co-workers, women at the gym, etc. Just don't fuck them. I'm working on getting back to the levels of trust we had before the incident, so this is complicated. While she enjoys seeing me flirt with other women (which I've done in front of her), her insecurities ten… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 03:31 PM |
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