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| 2 | Not making any progress in the gym. What am I doing wrong?Just typed in your stats in a tdee Calc and it says your base level is 2800 calories. You won't get stronger or build muscles without a surplus, so eat 300-500 calories more every day. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Girls go from laughing to being pissed real quickWhat are the jokes that are going well about? What are the ones about that don't go well? | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 11:26 PM |
| 36 | Why do you think girls are so prone to block people?Women live for attention and validation. When blocking someone you're cutting of the chance for any validation/attention completely. Imagine how big of a weapon that must seem for a woman. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Was there a tipping point in attracting women for you?What were those hobbies? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Was there a tipping point in attracting women for you?What were your lifts and body fat at 220 lbs+? What's your height? Are you natty? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 02:40 AM |
| 14 | Was there a tipping point in attracting women for you?I'm not doubting my game. In fact I'd say I have much better game than my model face friend, but girls are so into him that all he has to do is having a nice, light-hearted, fun conversation with them. The other friend and me once played a game where we tested how beta he could answer and still have girls interested in meeting him. The horrific answer is "a lot". So yeah, I do agree that game helps a lot. In fact it made the most attractive girl that me and my model face friend both interacted w… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Why aren't girls interested in me?Read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Why aren't girls interested in me?That dude said "you bring [...] not being fat to the table". Read properly before getting angry. You don't understand that not being fat isn't a positive feature on its own. Being muscular and lean is a positive feature. But also in general: Getting angry because someone calls you fat is very weak frame. You don't seem very confident and girls smell that shit. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Why aren't girls interested in me?You're being a pussy. The first guy just stated that the things you have listed aren't positive features a girl is into but rather just the absence of negative features girls get repelled by. So yeah, you're not fat and not too short. Why should girls be into you and not a guy thats actually muscular and lean + tall? What do you bring to the table? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't girls interested in me?Have to burst your bubble, but when I was out with the hottest chick from my semester she called the socially retarded shy guy with the body of a child cute because he's always nice to her. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 11:37 PM |
| 11 | Why aren't girls interested in me?You ask strangers on the internet why girls are not interested in you. Someone gives an answer based on your own description and then you insult him because you feel personally attacked. We don't know you. I don't know your face, your body, your style, your hair, the way you talk. Maybe you're ugly. Maybe you're just skinny and mistake it for being "in shape". Maybe you're boring to talk to (too nice/doesn't make the vagina tingle). Maybe you're a pussy with weak frame. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 11:36 PM |
| 2 | I told a girl I would hit her up to hangout on Friday or Saturday. So which day should I choose?You're overthinking. Pick the day that fits you better. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Can't understand some shit testsContext is important Hold my bag for me! Did she just spill her drink in a crowded bar and wants you to watch her bag while cleaning it up? Then it's perfectly fine to hold her bag for that. Otherwise you're just her servant. Will you go and get me a coffee? Are you her servant? Do you believe in love at first sight?! Are you needy and desperate that you would settle for a girl just by looking at her? Often girls just ask these things in a situation where it's fine to actually do it. If you're a… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Does this mean I dont have enough confidence in myself ?When working on something it's often smart to get in some different opinions on it because you can easily be stuck in a mindset where you can't objectively judge your work anymore. You can ask friends and family what they think of your design before releasing the banner. if a girl likes me I feel that something is wrong with her This comes from very low confidence though. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 11:29 PM |
| 6 | “you are talking to many girls” “not worth my time” she saysHow would your response to this look like when you don't want to drop her? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Can being cocky be unattractive?That's a given. Always with a huge shit eating grin. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Easy fucks disgust me and make me paranoidEven with a condom I'm so paranoid with these girls. I mean I don't want a kid right now at all, but I especially don't want a kid with someone I see as nothing more than someone to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Am I going crazy?I have absolutely no clue how the "emotional waste" of someone else makes you cry when watching the news. Maybe watch a lot of sad films, cry yourself out and then you're done? Or go to therapy idk | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 11:00 AM |
| 5 | Need advice, broke frame hard with GF of 2 monthsShe's young and naive. You just fucked her and she slept at your place, nothing is lost. Stop being so paranoid and get some self esteem. She's not leaving you for that and if you really think she can easily find a better male then you should start working on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | WANT TO GET MY HANDS BIGGER OR LARGERHey man, just wanna congratulate you on your way of getting alpha. You really don't let anyone on the internet bother you with a small joke. I want to be as stoic, witty and calm as you are one day. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:39 AM |
| 5 | New hot coworker actively avoids me in the office. IOI or IOD?Some people are so delusional you think they have to be trolling. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Am I going crazy?It's not that weird. Every little girl is a bit lost with her emotions sometimes. You'll surely find a man that is a rock for you in these complicated situations. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:24 AM |
| 15 | Need advice, broke frame hard with GF of 2 monthsDefinitely oneitis, no abundance and low self esteem. Like another user already wrote, chill the fuck out. Never let her know you tracked her cycle, it's completely creepy. You're fucking her everytime she comes over but when she wants to sleep at your place after a party you ask her if she's using you? Are you a woman? She then does what you want (not using you for your place) and you still cry about it. Make up your mind, relax and be a man. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:17 AM |
| 3 | “We’re just friends right?”This usually happens when you spent too much time not escalating and then suddenly decide you want to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 12:35 PM |
| 9 | The Correct Way to Ask a Girl OutWhy does it matter what the girl tells herself what it is? Isn't it even more exciting for her to not know? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/19 02:06 AM |
| 10 | Help with "treat women like children"How do you think you should treat children? Show them boundaries, what to do and what not to do. If they start crying and calling you names you act reserved. Why should it bother you? You wouldn't start argueing with a toddler either. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with "Let me know"?Text her when you're both in said vacation spot. Either you meet and fuck or you next her then. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Best TDEE calculator?When my goal is to gain 1 pound per week, my weight should increase 1 pound in a week of bulking no? It didn't increase at all and I don't get why it should suddenly jump by 2 pounds until next week if I eat the same amount of calories. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Best TDEE calculator?I know, but I'm not talking about my lifts. My weight literally didn't go up after a week of what should have been a surplus of 500 calories a day. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Best TDEE calculator?Just did that. Tells me a whopping 3k calories a day to gain 0,5 kg per week. I just had a week of 3500 calories and didn't really gain anything, so that's very very far off. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | I went to the club with a chad male model friendNope, being attractive is a cheat code for life in general. Also having a long term goal that keeps me busy every day with working out and eating well is nice to have. Feels especially great when you see your hard work pay off. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | TFW you read the sidebar on shit tests...What were the ones you didn't recognize as shit tests? What did you respond with? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Was it a shit test or were they just not interested?Seems to me like you have been that one weirdo on the dance floor that had a bit too much alcohol and "dOeSnt cAre whAT pEOpLe tHiNk". Guys find it funny that you're embarrassing yourself and want to get you high. Girls look at you for two reasons: you're either weird or attractive. If they thought you were attractive they would have been more responsive to your moves. So you probably were just weird. It's one thing to actually not care what people think and another to noticeably dance alone in … | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | I went to the club with a chad male model friendExactly. A friend of mine has a similar attractive face like me, but for us it's exactly like op described. The difference is that he's jacked and shredded while I just began bulking last year. In 1-2 years I'm going to experience what these "Chads" do. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 11:28 AM |
| 5 | So just so were on the same page what are you expecting?"Wanted to show you my stamp collection" | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 11:56 PM |
| 3 | What's the deal with feelings/emotions?Emotions are okay. Just don't be weak in front of a woman you're trying to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Whenever I ask my friends or my family if I can get a girl they just reply with "we can't get a girl as we are too ugly, have no money", plus they bring me downStraight up you look nice and boring, but nothing you can't fix. Lift and get bigger and buy contacts or more stylish glasses. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:58 PM |
| 16 | How true is it that women don't care about you, they only care about how you make them feel?Girl I was seeing had a boyfriend and was almost ready to branch swing, telling me how important I have become to her in such a short time. She was always seeking my attention and was quite into me. For personal reasons I didn't escalate before she left her bf and it seemed like she might do that to be with me... Until I did some massive bp shit and she thought I had feelings for her (I didn't, but I see why she thought so). She immediately went stone cold, took hours to respond to me and finish… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Being a misfitBoth | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | How to reply to this behaviorNah, she would be pissed too if I ignored her. We're quite close but texting with her is a nightmare. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to this behaviorFeels like that would be obviously intentional and silly to text each other every other day | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 11:20 AM |
| 2 | I now see why spinning plates is the most desirable outcome but shit it feels lonelyDon't you just sometimes feel like a girl you're seeing is fun to be around? She's improving your life because time with her is time well spent? Why wouldn't you want to commit to such a girl as long as it stays this way? Why wouldn't you want to wake up next to her as long as you enjoy doing it? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 08:05 AM |
| 4 | Plate saying she’s leaving doesn’t like being FWBCould even say something like "That's unfortunate. Anyway, I wish you the best". Shows her you care on some level, but have no problem with her leaving. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | What/Where Is The Fine Line Between Being An Emotional Tampon and Being Empathetic?How come people preach "A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on", but still you shouldn't be an emotional tampon? Where's the difference? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What to do for two?Could be problematic as this is actually just a friend. I'm currently on vacation and have some time to kill, but I don't know what to do for two that isn't aiming to fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 02:28 PM |
| 3 | AutistsBecause autists often lack social skills and some of the stuff people ask is just borderline socially stupid. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Big belly when bulkingIt's not like I'm too fat, I just feel my stomach is too big, everything else is fine. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Big belly when bulkingAnd when do you decide its time to cut? | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Big belly when bulkingHow long should these 2-3 cycles be? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Big belly when bulkingI was really really skinny before (155 lbs) so while 200 lbs is probably a good weight for my height I think I have more fat than your regular 6'3 guy. Thus the problem of me having too much of a belly right now, but also still being too skinny when I completely cut down now. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Big belly when bulkingI posted my stats in another comment | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Big belly when bulking6'3, 200 lbs Bench press 190 lbs 5x5 Squats 190 lbs 3x8 Macros differ, roughly 60g fat, 220g protein and 400+g carbs to get to 3500 kcal daily | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl stood up .. what would trp do?Just ask yourself "what would I do if 5 other girls were ready to fuck?" I'd propose another day, exact time and place. If she rejects soft next her. It's her turn to offer something. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Girl I had amazing sex with asks when we can hangout then says she doesn’t want sexDon't listen to what they say. The last girl that told me I was way too sure I'd fuck her almost teared my clothes off after I threw her on my bed | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:29 AM |
| 6 | GF broke up with me over text, what happened?Your whole story screams clingy and needy. She likes you as a person and probably would have been your gf if you played it right, but now she has lost sexual attraction. Cue bullshit rejection story. Don't try to win her back and learn from it. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Squats hurt my backI'm having problems to correctly squat and deadlift due to bad mobility. Do you have any recommendations to increase my mobility? Just recently my hip started to hurt on the left side as soon as I make bigger movements (getting my knees close to my chest on the leg press for example) | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 10:07 PM |
| 9 | Girls don’t have boyfriendsB is so true it hurts. When I went out partying in my first week of college with people who knew each other for 3 days I heard one of the awkward dudes make a sexual innuendo with the girl I've been flirting with for 3 days. She said "I told you I have a boyfriend!". A few minutes later when I was alone with her I asked: "So you have a boyfriend?", to which she just said "Well it's kinda complicated and an on/off thing ...currently rather off". We then went to the bar, got some shots and made ou… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Question regarding bulking/cuttingWhen and why did you decide to finally cut? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 09:50 PM |
| 3 | What if a girl you just approached sees you approaching another girl after a few seconds?Club / party / social event: If she sees you just chatting with some girls you could be a cool guy that knows a lot of people. In the streets: You're probably out and approaching dozens of women. "Why is he approaching every other women? Is he so thirsty/needy?" | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Question regarding bulking/cuttingNo one is argueing that muscles completely make up for game - they don't. Yet they do a lot of work in regards of getting you on a girls radar in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Question regarding bulking/cuttingNo, but big arms/chest, wide shoulders/back and low body fat (flat belly and defined face) are always recognized immediately. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | why does the red pill say that looks matter so much?The girls that do approach him aren't that good looking most of the times. He is literally swimming in average pussy and never has to worry about fucking a fattie or not fucking at all, but the girls that approach him aren't all that great. They're alright when they literally throw themselves at you, but I wouldn't approach them on my own, you know? I know I will always have to do the work and probably won't be approached as often as he is, but guess who got with the hottest girls of our group? … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 12:50 PM |
| 2 | why does the red pill say that looks matter so much?Attractiveness gets you attention. Frame and game keep it. Getting girls to notice you is much easier when you're handsome. I'm quite attractive and have my fair share of success with women I talk to, but my model level friend is constantly being approached by girls. They're so stunned by his looks that just "not fucking it up" would be enough for a fuck. He doesn't even need to prove himself with game and frame. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 09:41 AM |
| 10 | Has anyone actually had success with kegals/reverse kegals?How does that work for you? I cum even quicker the longer I didn't cum before. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 09:27 AM |
| 5 | So I lost a bunch of weight and started using tinder againWhat pictures are you using for tinder? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 09:26 AM |
| 7 | Never talk about TRP, but how to act?But how can you be that guy not go insane? Why fake empathy for a problem when the solution is obvious? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Never talk about TRP, but how to act?I see that with random people. Probably a bad example and shouldn't have mentioned that. My main focus is on that one friend though. He knows I get with women and asks me how it's going with them. When he rarely gets a number, he proudly tells me and a few days later complains how he got ghosted again. So he values my input on that topic, but he isn't directly asking for advice like "What can I do to change this?" but rather tells me "I don't know why she won't reply..." | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 06:31 PM |
| 16 | Never talk about TRP, but how to act?Of course I don't have all the answers and there is a lot of stuff where I just shut the fuck up. That example with the random kids in the gym might be a bit extreme, but that's not my biggest problem. My biggest problem are friends that actually complain to me about stuff that needs hard work to fix, but what do they expect me to say? If said virgin friend just complains over and over again why he is getting ghosted am I expected to just kindly tell him to be patient and he will find the right … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Personality more attractive than looksI feel like it's not only my body fat, but a lot of it is just being bloated. I have a mostly flat belly after 2 days of cutting down/losing water. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Personality more attractive than looksWhen you're in a caloric surplus it's inevitable to gain some fat. Even the healthiest and cleanest food will end up as fat when your body doesn't completely need the amount of food you eat. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Personality more attractive than looksI currently have a problem with looks-maxing as I'm bulking. I know it's the right thing to do and will make me more attractive in the long run, but until I finally cut again I feel like I'm getting less attractive because my face is getting rounder and I get a bit of a belly. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 10:58 PM |
| 15 | Girl teasingThat's why redpill isn't always black and white. Usually I'd say to leave her place and one of two things will happen: She will either realize she might "lose" you and actually fuck you to keep you there or you will leave without sex, but that's fine because staying resulted in no sex anyway. Now for you it seems to might have been easier to just stay and get some sleep. Don't overthink this. She's not teasing, you just failed her LMR. She's really into you and afraid you leave after one fuck. T… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 12:11 PM |
| 16 | Girl teasingDid you try to disengage and go home? Not in a butthurt way, but why would you sleep over when there's no sex? After two dates you're on full on boyfriend mode. I've never slept over without fucking at a girls place. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 11:57 AM |
| 40 | I litreally don't know how to think or act anymoreExactly this. When going out I'm just having fun and I have always been teasing the people I talk to. Girls like that. Just recently I blew it by trying to force being entertaining instead of being natural and just asking her out. Be confident, take the lead, don't put women on a pedestal and have fun. That's basically all you need to know. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 02:33 PM |
| 3 | I have oneitis and idk how to deal with thisI would agree that I tend to be needy, but how do I stop that? It's a vicious cycle - I'm needy because I'm currently not seeing any girl I really wanna see and I'm not seeing any quality girl because I'm needy. Even getting with less attractive girls doesn't help. I literally have a girl drive over just to make me cum and leave, but she's so low quality that I'm still needy as fuck because I don't want her and she's just "what I currently get". | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I have oneitis and idk how to deal with thisSo what about this one: Made out with a girl of my close group of friends, she denied anything further. A year passes, we get with other people in the meantime, but then when we're both single again, we make out again. Again she denies anything further. Her reasoning? She really, really likes me, but I tend to annoy her immensly with some of my characteristics, so she's afraid that after maybe 2 years of relationship we will hate each other so she rather wants to stay friends for "the next 50-60… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on fucking 3s,4s and 5s?Just fucked a 3. It's nice in the moment and I thought "why not do this more often?" while doing it, but post-nut-clarity made me realize I should probably rather fap and spend my time better. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 09:12 PM |
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