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Well I asked, and now I know (partially). How do you get over the images of her sucking 10 people's dick or getting jizzed in every whole possible. This shit is burned in my mind now and make me feel sick. And that's only cause I like her. If I didn't I wouldn't give a single fuck about it.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:42 PM
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I'm afraid that you are right. It sucks. My prio should be getting more experience than thinking of LTRing a high n-count girl. Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:38 PM
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What you say is 100% true but it requires much more effort to become a top per center in a small city than being average in a larger city. I'm not saying it's unfixable, it just would make it 5 times easier if I just moved to a bigger city.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:34 PM
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I agree. I've yet to see a red-pilled man not be bothered by a girl's n-count. Unless you're a famous person or something and you associate with another famous girl (who should have very high n-count too) and are both top SMV.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:46 PM
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You're right. But in her case even if it was in search for relationship (as she claims) it still shows that she gave it to 3 guys without getting commit from her. Her vetting process is shit and she might have been alpha widowed already. And that's the best case. I'm afraid if I ask her, her real n-count I think I'll get an even worse answer. I'm not either looking for marriage or hookup. Just an LTR for now. If it was a hookup I wouldn't care in the slightest.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:41 PM
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Yes you're right my man but the question still stands. Does her past disqualify her or am I overreacting due to inexperience?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:34 PM
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Do you REALLY lack options? Or are you just “disqualifying” chicks way too easily? Mainly I lack options. Small city with high male/female population ratio. I'm considering on moving out in the future but for now I have to suck it up due to work.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:30 PM
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Yes I agree, but I've fallen into the talking for hours trap before even getting physical with her. So on one hand my blue pill side enjoys this fantasy of finally meeting a person I genuinely like, while my red pill side feels disgust. I should probably stop talking to her for my own good.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:19 PM
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You're right, the question is more like "SHOULD I get over an LTR's past" not HOW. From my research so far guys here say that you should care only if it's too high and be happy if it's bellow 10 or something. However in my mind (conservative country) 5 guys MINIMUM (possibly much more due to her lying) for early twenties is too much. I'm asking if my disgust is valid or it's just a natural reflex due to my upbringing / biology.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:16 PM
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In the west sure, but in my country is not THAT hard to find low count girls. Hopefully it will get better after I increase my n count too.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:12 PM
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Sure, just gotta cut myself from catching feelings in the meanwhile
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:10 PM
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U already know how to get over it, bang more chicks Not easy where I'm from but I guess there is no other way There u go u learnt and important lesson, there is no such thing as a good or bad girls, they act based on what they're after I knew there are no bad girls. I'm actually ok with a really low count (1-2 and in relationships), I'm not looking for a virgin. But her past starts getting out of my comfort zone and I'm worried the truth might be even worse from what I think. So if I happen to L…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:48 PM
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You're spot on. I needed this. I feel like I'm giving her all the emotional attention while getting nothing back. The lack of options really can turn a man blue-pill.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:44 PM
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I guess one is wealthier. But appearance wise depends on if the girl like foreigners or local people more.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:33 PM
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Well it's not only for the girls, just wanna break out of my small environment. I just see girls as a plus. Or should I wait to move to a better city?
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:14 PM
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My social life here is pretty much non existent but not because of me but because I live in the middle of nowhere.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:12 PM
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Funsize Hmm I see! Seem odd though to just get ONE breast implant. Unless the one boob was a lot smaller so she did it to make it even with the bigger one. You're right about the last sentence tho!
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:55 PM
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While very possible true, even if we never meet I still wanna know what's up, since this could happen with another girl in the future.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:51 PM
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So this is a reduction surgery on one breast, but the boob still ends up looking bigger than the other?
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:48 PM
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Guys guys, wait, listen to the other side. AMS, a pretty redpill guy actually advocates not going for the kiss on the first date (unless you're in your home or something) because sex won't happen and you have given validation to her that you like, thus leaving the mystery off. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ldK82geFeFM What do you repsond to that?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:45 PM
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Why won't recommend nightgame? You already suggested a few clubs above.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:17 PM
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Cause mobile here costs a ton and none texts through convential SMS. It's mostly messenger. I didn't add her ofcourse just a DM. Lesson learned I guess for not escalating. I just had in my mind that advice I heard from rsd stuff that sometimes it's better not to makeout in club if the logistics for pulling aren't there cause next morning she might have slut regrets/ got her validation. That way you may have better chances if you suggest a meetup.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:20 PM
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Ouch. You're probably right. I don't think that last line would work cause she goes out with friends etc but probably should have been more adamant with the response of the date and not go back and forth. Anyway now what?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:52 PM
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Do not answer the text, your response was ok maybe a little try-hard. If you leave it like that it shows that she's overeacted and makes her look like the dumb one
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:30 AM
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The initial target that ignored me once or the girl that grinded?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:40 PM
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You're right. I think I don't feel confident enough to escalate. I've done it tons of time in the past but now due to crappy life circumstances I don't feel a lot like the prize. Like I deserve her. And I can't fake it.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:21 PM
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You're right. Going for the kiss on club is hard for me. I'm also thinking that it might lower my future chances as the girl will have slut regrets. But this right here was a lost chance. In your opinion does it matter who I text now or it's a lost battle?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:17 PM
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Big upvote. I was watching yesterday how Raj caught his to-be wife hugging and greeting her ex and he was the jackass for doing that and he had to apologize in the end. Or Stuart from the comic book store who didn't want to move with his gf and his was the jackass for not wanting. The most alpha character might as well be Sheldon whose harsh behaviors towards women are labeled as autism. Utter display of the female imperative.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:55 AM
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I sleep with earplugs but it doesn't cut all sounds, like the barking. The neighbor also has his kitchen next to my bed wall and I keep hearing shelf doors closing banging and microwave door banging, wich are all vibration sounds that earplugs don't cut. I'm thinking of confronting him but I'm thinking it's very awkward plus I don't think how fixable the situation is like "Hey bro close the shelfs more lightly please they keep waking me up"
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:48 PM
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Hey man, I also truly believe that sleep is the no1 thing you have to sort out if you want to have any kind of success in life. I'm dealing with a bad situation right now, as I live in a noisy complex and have my house has very bad soundproof and the neighbor or a dog barking from outside will sometimes wake me up at irregular times. It's not extremely bad to the point it forces me to move out because some days I will sleep ok but on the days I don't it makes my mood very bad and It's all downhi…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:32 PM
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Yes I'll try meeting more women. Deleting her from FB seems awkward and implausible, plus none talks with SMS in my area anyway. Giving the FB was giving up the mystery that's why I think it was bad. Anyway what's done is done now I'll just not contact her.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:30 PM
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Yes exactly, that's why I don't want to go direct and create an awkward situation for the rest of the year. On the other hand I don't want to discard it completely but keep testing the waters, that's why I'm asking how should I gracefully handle this.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:26 PM
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Well I haven't given her all my life details, just a few interesting ones to show high SMV. I think she wants to know more so she can be more sure if I'm worth going out with. That's why I went for the date because revealing more = bye bye mystery, but she doesn't get that smh.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:47 PM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/ToMjGpKniGqRNLGBrhu/giphy.gif Jokes aside, solid post. She's most likely a social retard like you said.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:17 PM
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Thanks for the response while what you say is probably the truth I'm also thinking the possibility of her needing more comfort before meeting. In that case maybe saying something might be more appropriate no?
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:04 PM
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G Eazy - Achievement G Eazy - Me, Myself and I G Eazy - Been On G Eazy - The Plan You get it. Playing G eazy over and over the last year literally changed my mentality, mood, and attitude to more IDGAF and go-getter. Strong recommend.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:16 AM
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In my experience 70-80% of girls (early twenties) go to club at least once or twice a month. The same girl you met on the supermarket you might meet her on a club but act different to you. Maybe how a girl treats you depends a lot on the context you met her, i.e if you approach her on a club she will categorize you as player, little thirsty, and not long term material and you ll have to go through a lot of shit tests to make her a consistent plate when otherwise you wouldn't have too.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 08:20 AM
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Why no career woman though?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:42 PM
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Dude I'm in the same spot as you (just not yet bald but getting there since I'm younger) One solution is to wax your back only, and then just lift and try to pull that macho hairy style If you go the wax your whole body route, then I'd like to know what the professional told you as well. Waxing your arm hair seems cumbersome to me aswell.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:33 AM
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I use melatonin, makes me drowsy. Recentely have a problem of waking up like 3-4 times and I haven't had a good sleep in the last 3 or so months. I don't think I have sleep apnea, I'm quite young. Should I cut down on melatonin?
/r/askTRP02/06/18 01:31 PM
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ah ML and TRP jokes. I see you're a man of culture as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 10:40 AM
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Nationalist Party = Stigma from most people(not worth it IMO) Libertarian = Stigma from leftheads, might worth it connection wise cause these people are more likely to succeed in life.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:38 PM
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I thought he lost me too, but what he means is probably that you can't change your genetic lottery too much. True. Luck and genetics sometimes are too strong to become successful. You can always try your best though, what else can you do anyway?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 09:57 AM
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This is a catch-22. In order to have abundance experience, you have to first have abundance mentality, or else you are appearing needy and will not attract the other person. But if what you say is also true then you are stuck. How do you get out of it?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 08:28 AM
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To be honest this is her second time saying she can't make it. The first one was 100% legit tho.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:03 PM
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No she said she has made plans yesterday for today with friends from her uni.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:00 PM
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Well truth is I don't. If I had 5 other girls I wouldn't even make this thread. Since redpill is all about maximizing your potential, throwing away potential confidence boosters early on your journey for free seems suboptimal. But I might be wrong and acting as if I had 5 other girls might be better. Hence the post.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:25 PM
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Most of G-Eazy songs. The guy is lit.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 12:52 PM
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I did stronglifts for 3 months and even though it's great one complain I have is the "powerlifter gut" these exercises leave you. Pushing air out of your stomach push your abs outwards and make you look fat even though you might have abs. And I don't think there's a way around this.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 09:40 AM
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Awesome reply man! I agree 100% . That's how I'll handle asking out from now on. Truth is I don't have a lot of options that's why I went needy. Gotta act as if though. Now do I consider this case burned and let her reach to me if she wants? (remember I left it to "read" (messenger) after "We'll talk later"). I've listened to Corry's wayne book on audio a while ago. Great book. I guess that's why he recommends reading it more than once :)
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:24 PM
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Yea I agree with that afterall. I believe I'm just afraid that girls despise taking lead but it's better than the back and forth right? I did this (as I wrote) on the second time before I ask her out and she replied "I'm not sure, tomorrow I can't for sure blah blah", so I suggested the day after tomorrow and got the "We'll see". This I believe was the fuckup where I showed too much availability etc. I think a better response would be "Alright, hit me up when you're free so we can figure somethi…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 10:39 AM
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I believe your post has value beside a valid criticism of others. Met a girl before 2 week holidays, texted her after one week (during holidays) - very receptive. Texted again after 1 week after I come back. Again very receptive, so I suggest a meetup. She says sure but might not be available that day we'll have to text again. Text her again that day and I tell her to reschedule (I smelled a flake so I tried to reschedule first). I ask her when she's free, she says "I'm not sure". I suggest anot…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 02:20 PM
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Read my post history bro, same situation. Escalation is the problem here but even if you made out you could have been on the same boat. Solution: Escalate harder and try to lay on the second date instead of third (hell even first if you can make it)
/r/askTRP25/01/18 03:38 PM
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V-A-L-I-D-A-T-I-O-N
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:57 PM
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r/ihavesex
/r/askTRP22/01/18 12:56 PM
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I'd say the guy if he has a TRP mindset and lifestyle. Simply because he has more power to make things happen, to choose. The girl sure has a ton of attention from guys but might not be from guys of the caliber of the former man. So she's stuck in her big but limited and uncontrollable male pool.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 11:19 AM
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I did kiss close on first date, heavy makeout on second (we were in public though so nothing special), third date at my home she knows I would try to go for more but she still came. Why do she even bother coming lol. Stupid bitch
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:35 PM
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I agree man but I couldn't lie when asked when I'm leaving (I'm an exchange student she knows I'm leaving at somepoint). Not my thing. I was hoping she was down for the short term, guess not. The distance between first and second date was also a bad thing but it wasn't in my control tbh. I should have pushed maybe harder for a second date before she left. (She told me back then she didn't have time)
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:47 PM
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It's ok this is asktrp I'd be dissappointed if they weren't harsh. It's funny because variants of these thoughts actually popped to my head but was too pussy to act them out. My frame isn't there yet. I have to release that Tyler Durden personality.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:41 PM
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Thanks dude I like your style! Subscribed. Funny thing is I did exactly what you said. Third date cooking and movie at my place. Only to get grounded to the floor. That's some next level cruelness I think. Well know I know to treat each woman as a hole in the beginning and reevaluate only after sex. No more wasted time, no more hurt feelings.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:05 PM
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Thanks for the response and the further reading. I fail to see how is that the best connection you've had with any girl if you didn't fuck during the first date. I mean that mindset, interests, humor and generally conversation wise. I would like ideally the girls I fuck to stand well on these regards. The previous girl I was dating were very low on these so I ditched her, even though I fucked her. We start chatting a little bit more Well in retrospect the alpha think to do is to kick her out but…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:59 PM
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Why girls go out with guys they are not attracted to? I did it to a girl just because I wanted to lay her. It doesn't make much sense from a girl's perspective though.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:40 PM
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Maybe it's a comfort make out? I can't even explain it seriously. She also suggested at some point we saw a movie she has on her laptop. I think of inviting myself back to her place and try to escalate there as a hail marry. Being sexual at her after all these happen might make me seem like a loser though
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:38 PM
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I think you nailed the situation here. I presented myself as a boyfriend material when it doesn't really make sense in my time-short situation (when it's already a bad idea to do so as you said). The only way to get a lay from her would be to be overtly sexual from the beginning and escalate HARD. I took the wrong path. I'm having another date tomorrow with another girl from Tinder. Will try to be more aggressive. I don't see though how she can find out without me telling her (which will display…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:36 PM
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I went with a date with another girl. Didn't really enjoyed it. She started talking about feminism at some point. Ofcourse when the waiter asked for split or together pay I said split :) . Anyway even if I had other girls I still want to see where this can go..
/r/askTRP01/01/18 10:59 PM
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