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No worries. You in the UK? Yeah that's a brilliant post to read, and read the top comments as well, which are all pretty helpful. Read around on monk mode too - learn more about it before you dive in. Just like, search through trp for stuff about it
/r/askTRP17/12/15 02:47 AM
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I'm not gonna analyse everything there or focus on the whole rp woman thing, just because its so rare and I honestly don't know how that should be handled. But, as for moving forward, two words; monk mode. Monk mode monk mode monk mode. Simple as can be. Focus on yourself, cut out some vices, be independent. The only way to get over being codependent is to jump in at the deep end, and you'll be glad you did a couple of months down the line. Build yourself, when you feel you're independent and ha…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:25 AM
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Ah, are you talking about using it on yourself? as in programming yourself?
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:18 AM
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Could have been a poor shit test. Either that or she's already friendzoned you
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:16 AM
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I haven't done it myself because I consider it to be pretty high level game - like, expert level, and no way am I at that stage. ... But, I did have a friend who was pretty masterful at game in general - like, incredible. And he started implementing it into his game. I haven't spoken to him for a while, think he's in a LTR now, but at the time it really worked nice for him. But seriously, don't even bother trying that until your standard game techniques, including red pill game, are absolutely o…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:08 AM
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The five stages apply to more than just red pill - it was originally a model of people mourning or grieving, but its now used as a model for a lot of things. At the end of the day, its just psychology, which is never fact, its social science and is based on theory - just like red pill itself. I think people often go back and forth through these stages and sometimes experience multiple stages at once, but that's just my anecdotal knowledge. If you haven't been through some form of trauma that mos…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:45 AM
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The five stages apply to more than just red pill - it was originally a model of people mourning or grieving, but its now used as a model for a lot of things. At the end of the day, its just psychology, which is never fact, its social science and is based on theory - just like red pill itself. I think people often go back and forth through these stages and sometimes experience multiple stages at once, but that's just my anecdotal knowledge. If you haven't been through some form of trauma that mos…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:45 AM
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What University are you at? fellow third year here. I know how you feel - and I'm not just saying that, I really do. I've had these periods of my life and its easy to slip into at University because it emulates the real world i.e. no one gives a fuck, its your degree. You don't have some teacher breathing down your neck to give you a reason to show up and get shit done. Honestly, the only answer to that is, get it done. Sounds much simpler than it is, I know. But its true. You just have to force…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:26 PM
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IDGAF attitude. Who cares what some over-the-wall, probably sexually dissatisfied bitch stuck in a dead end job thinks, really? not an alpha, that's for sure
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:05 PM
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Sexual strategy being amoral is speaking in terms of cheating, acting in your own best interests etc. - amoral is not synonymous with immoral. The point there, is that if someone chooses to fuck a girl with a boyfriend, it is inherently morally ambiguous. It's meant to mean that, in dating/sex, you're always playing a game. Just like any game, the ambition is to win. If you're playing soccer, you don't deliberately miss the opponents goal because you don't want to hurt their feelings or make the…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:01 PM
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This is kind of what I think is the biggest draw in for men. Not that they are all particularly interested in fucking multiple girls at once, but that this kind of behaviour in girls doesn't only happen, but is actually fairly standard if you know what you're doing. Hell, I'm pretty new here and at the moment I only have two plates with a potential third, but I feel I've implemented the theory into my life really well. Not seeking validation, goal setting etc. And I still think that, perhaps one…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:46 PM
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Agree with the other comments. There is no 'going about it'. It's done and dusted. You fucked up, now just learn from it and avoid doing it again. It's unlikely she'll suddenly see you as being beta/cheat on you/leave your ass etc. because of a single question a month into the relationship. Forget it and move on. One point though - if you really knew it would be nothing, didn't feel that you needed to worry about it etc. why did you call her out on it? I feel there's an underlying issue somewher…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:21 AM
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And there, my son, is your problem. You haven't perfected your game, your body, your frame or your fucking yet. So forget her, and until you can spin at least 2-3 plates at once and consistently replace them when needed/when you want to, remember yee this: You are not ready for a LTR - that's like level 70 endgame shit
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:11 AM
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Glad to have been of help.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:06 AM
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Ha, brilliant. Halo effect and pre-selection, right? What I find the most interesting, is that this shit actually happens. The instinctive view of a blue pill orbiter would be that she'd realise how much of a 'massive dick' you are, and fall into the arms of her white knight, forever loving him after finally realising he is the one. It's just impossible to account for this kind of behaviour without acknowledging red pill principles, but still, people refuse to accept it and would rather live a s…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:25 AM
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Ha, probably. The usual blue pill bullshit, "be yourself and the right girl will come along and your sex drive will be back!". Yeah, people go through phases, nothing can be done about that. You just have to maintain your frame throughout the transition I think. Use the excess time, money, energy and drive to build whatever it is you want from life, and when the switch flips again, put yourself on the market again and fuck the shit out of everything. Or start testing for an LTR, whatever it is y…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:03 AM
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Nice username. Strange post.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:42 AM
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You probably won't always feel that way. Likely there will come a point where you suddenly change and want to fuck everything with a pulse, or not. But whilst it lasts, fuck it, use it to your advantage. You're already in an MGTOW monk mode mentality, might as well make the most of it
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:37 AM
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By any chance did you provide the weed? because I think I can see what happened here and it looks as though you got punk'd
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:36 AM
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For fucks sake man, listen to what people are saying here! You're trying to run the race when you don't even know how to walk yet! Have you read any red pill theory at all? honestly? You are basing your self respect on what this woman thinks of you! You are looking for validation to from external sources to feel good - this is literally like the starting point of TRP. STOP LOOKING FOR VALIDATION BASED ON WHAT SHE THINKS OF YOU! If you go into the office, with the intention of making a point of i…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:28 AM
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That's like a competitive effect, right?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:42 AM
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My plan is to work on my physique for a month and then go to her office (My previous office), talk to everyone and ignore her. Go to the main sub and look at the post on the front page about specifically not igniting old flames. I know that's not what you're proposing but the principal is the same. If you think going back, deliberately ignoring her and making a point of how alpha you are is a good idea, you need to read more red pill theory. C'mon, you're a man not a teenage girl!
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:39 AM
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What I like about your comments on this sub is that they are very consistent across multiple threads. (Not sarcasm)
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:36 AM
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Golden advice, but do you really think its impossible to go full red pill without 'saving' another bloke?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:26 AM
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Abundance mentality and cold hearted bastardry. She's just one pussy amongst literally billions, and you're getting precisely zero return on investment from the effort your investment. It's a simple business decision; stop investing, you can put your efforts elsewhere and get a decent return.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:20 AM
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C'mon mate, women are just getting into their ride on the old CC in college. A paraplegic man-bear-pig could get laid if he wanted to. At the end of the day, being in the top 20% is relevant to the community you're in. If they're all in their physical prime and built like brick shithouses, then it'll be ideal for you to be at least on prime, but only half of the benefit in lifting is the way it changes your body - the rest is the increased confidence, assertiveness, esteem, motivation etc. and n…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:18 AM
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I'd say its A) standard shit testing B) trying to up her SMV to level with you by making a point of being desired/catered for by other males and/or C) trying to get you to commit by making it appear she has other options on the table, just like when you view a flat or take a test drive in a car or what have you and the seller always says something along the lines of "well I have had quite a bit of interest on this so you'd better act fast if you like it" - creating urgency and false scarcity On …
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:24 AM
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Hmm, Like I said before, fucking someone else is generally a good way to get oneitis out of your mind in any form that it comes in. But, above all else, having sex with or just generally gaming some new girl should give you enough of a buzz to kill it completely. But, this also shows that somewhere, there is still a part of you that wants to believe in the disneyfied blue pill world imo. I'd say you need to kill that part of you because sooner of later it'll just manifest again. I don't know you…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:14 AM
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Experience trumps anything else. You can have an eidetic memory and know every single word every written on red pill, but if you have never tried to use it you're likely to fall flat on your face the first time. You also might be trying to take it all on at once. Start simple, read it, digest it, organise it, use it, store it, repeat, then move on to the next piece of information. Red pill is not only pretty huge outside of the basic theory, but it's constantly changing. This whole thing started…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:27 AM
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Why can't it spell?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:24 AM
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That's good, stick with that then try again. Well, a few things to remember here from general trp theory: 1) Cognitive dissonance - hamstering occurs in males as well. There's a fairly good chance that these friends of yours are well aware of the pitfalls of being in a relationship, wish they were single and free to fuck like you are yourself - but they still live in the blue pill world, they believe that a LTR is the favourable option even if they don't feel it, and one of the ways they deflect…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:10 AM
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That's good, stick with that then try again. Well, a few things to remember here from general trp theory: 1) Cognitive dissonance - hamstering occurs in males as well. There's a fairly good chance that these friends of yours are well aware of the pitfalls of being in a relationship, wish they were single and free to fuck like you are yourself - but they still live in the blue pill world, they believe that a LTR is the favourable option even if they don't feel it, and one of the ways they deflect…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:10 AM
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Granted, there is a risk involved, and it could have been avoided quite easily. Also granted, it was fairly childish. But, I didn't want to back down to some skinhead tool because he was pissed that he didn't get what he wanted from me - and why should I?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:40 AM
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Doesn't matter what she's up to, you don't care. She's done and finished, if she doesn't want to see you on the streets that's her problem and you really shouldn't give a flying fuck as to why
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:17 AM
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Sorry, which part did you fail to understand?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:15 AM
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I think your whole mentality and approach to it is vastly incorrect. Stop thinking about "getting rid of it". It's just something that is there at the moment, that will be gone sometime soon. If you worry about it and think of it as something hideously challenging, you're gonna empower it in your mind and make it 10x harder to deal with. Its just a little fetish man, nothing you can't deal with. Secondly, its also about your mindset. Freudian psychology (don't take my word for it, that's a half-…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 12:31 AM
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I think first and foremost you need to calm the fuck down - you sound like your making things worse by stressing out and overthinking. The situation isn't that complex, and you haven't majorly fucked anything up or made any huge mistakes. You've had a little worse performance at the gym, a bit less sleep and decreased appetite - not cancer, so don't panic. The world isn't coming to an end man. The annoying thing here, and I know it's annoying because I've been where you are, is that you know the…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 12:15 AM
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Just wanna thank you for posting this, it's great to have it all laid out in a slightly more step-by-step format
/r/askTRP16/12/15 12:05 AM
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You see, I disagree with you on that, because I don't think you can control that either. She probably will crush on someone else at some point - there are other men in the world that she will attempt to game her, and will succeed to an extent. There isn't anything you can do about it. However, all that's important is that she's crushing on you harder. An extension of hypergamy is the idea that a woman will not only aim upwards, but as upwards as she believes she can - as long as you are higher u…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 12:00 AM
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This is fairly reassuring
/r/askTRP15/12/15 11:51 PM
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Ok, I'm just saying to be careful. The warning post specifically says do not post anything along the lines of "I'm (insert race here), what do I do"? I just thought I'd share it so you know.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:45 PM
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But also I multiple alphas that look more Indian than you
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:29 PM
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Careful: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3u05gs/you_are_not_a_special_fucking_snowflake/
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:28 PM
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You ain't seen nothing yet. Give it a few years when 70% of the 'men' of our generation can't get wood because they've been relentlessly backing the pork sword for the last ten years, then it'll be an epidemic.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:23 PM
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What this guy said ^ I'm 22, was 21 when I first found trp. I had this kind of reaction when I first stumbled upon this place. You have so so much time. You're not even an adult yet for Christ's sake. I think at least half of your problem is down to overthinking and worrying. Calm the fuck down, and realise that you haven't even began your life yet. Abstain from red pill for a bit - not the mindset, but the sub. Don't read any new theory. Take some time to gather your thoughts and figure out wha…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:21 PM
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This is awesome, thank you! I will definitely work my way through your list - I've already started one of those two computer folders and they do work wonders. Writing does also help me think it all through and figure out what I want to take away from this place. I definitely agree with what you say about working this all out for yourself. It's difficult but I agree its part of the process. I was actually thinking exactly the same thing as I was writing the post. I think I just get somewhat stres…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 10:10 PM
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Jesus, he got a real bashing. I'm not sure how I feel after reading through that. I think the whole point of trp is acknowledging that women are not the prefect, non-shallow, trustworthy, glitter-shitting, perfume-farting disney princesses that we've been raised to see them as, and part of coming to terms with that is accepting that any woman will sooner or later fancy another guy. The aim of spinning plates strategy is to always be that other guy, the AF rather than the BB. I'm not married or i…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:50 PM
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Completely forgot about porn. Definitely pay attention to this OP - porn is an addictive substance and using it can lead to an escalation of sexual fantasies and desires. Cut that shit out for a while and see if you feel any different
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:32 PM
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Hmm, I'm not sure its a good idea to indulge in it though, personally. Maybe if the woman decides to do that of her own volition it could work out, if its something that the two of you enjoy i.e. if she just has a natural tendency toward being dominant in bed. But I think its a dangerous game to play. We all know that women pick up on things a subtle as body language, is it not possible that submissive behaviour in the bedroom could have effects on how she views you and the rest of your relation…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:31 PM
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I've literally just done this - I sent him a link to the post on the front page of trp right now about alpha widowing, explaining that because he kept his frame, he has the satisfaction of knowing she'll always compare future potential mates to him as an absolute 100% alpha regardless of how alpha he actually is, and she'll likely always be disappointed. Hopefully he'll kind of snowball from there on his own. Thanks for the comment!
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:19 PM
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1) Ideally, you wanna get rid of that. I think its bullshit that that's a 'part' of you. I think it'd change as you change yourself and you see yourself in a different way. Its the same as having a cuckolding fetish. People actually want their girlfriends and wives to cheat on them and make them feel inadequate - its just a defence mechanism because they have little value in themselves and think this is inevitable, so to avoid pain they subconsciously 'fetishize' it and turn that humiliation and…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 09:14 PM
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Yeah sounds like its just LMR. I think that was a kinda shitty pressure flip by the sounds of it, but fair play for trying. ASD and LMR are usually more common in girls your age in my experience.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:41 PM
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I think, like a lot of similar beliefs, karma is something people who feel underachieved or unhappy use to make themselves better about their lives. Someone who feels unfulfilled might tell themselves "oh its ok, as long as I'm nice to people, my life will be good", the same as people who feel that they aren't achieving what they want to in this life convince themselves that everything will be better in heaven afterwards.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:28 PM
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She sounds a bit shaky at the moment, like you haven't quite 100% drawn her in. I'd say call and do not text - and keep it strictly professional again. That way, it doesn't give any kind of chasing position or put her on a pedestal, you're just chasing the position you want. Then if/when you arrange somewhere to meet up, work your usual magic.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:12 PM
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Difficult to say without actually seeing the reaction in real life. At a guess, I'd say yes - girls are usually cruel as fuck in situations like that. If you were a beta orbiter or friend zoned they'd usually deflect that kind of comment with a flirtatious response to whoever said it, or play it off with the usual "eww no we're just friends!" Kind of thing. That's only in my admittedly limited experience though
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:46 PM
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I agree with /u/v1000 - cut any porn out and just don't jerk it for a while. Porn induced erectile dysfunction is a soon-to-be epidemic.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:42 PM
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I'd definitely get behind this, OP if you experimented with it and shared the results that'd be awesome. Only thing is to bear in mind there are a lot of variables to account for, so it'd be difficult to come out with a solid statement like "Telling a woman that I have a daughter has X effect etc."
/r/askTRP15/12/15 06:29 PM
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If you consider the whole paternal/maternal love system that is discussed on trp quite frequently and subscribe to the idea that women want a father figure, not a son, then surely this would encourage a woman to consider you in that light. For reference, given that your username (much like my own) suggests you're relatively new, here is a good post about the mother/son father/daughter dynamics of sexual relationships: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/15q8vw/a_very_insightful_analysis…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:13 PM
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Disagree. There is always power in any situation, its just a game of knowing who really has it. If it's not you, you're gonna be the one that gets screwed.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:33 PM
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Bear with me as I have read an absolute ton of this stuff in a pretty short space of time, but I'll try and give some examples from memory. So the post linked on the main TRP sub "one key step to not giving a fuck" is all about gaining irrational levels of confidence and increasing your perceived sexual market value by acknowledging, more or less that, absolutely nothing you do in this world actually means anything, at all. If you walk up to a girl tomorrow night in a bar and tell her you're the…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:31 PM
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Yeah I get what you're saying - bear in mind, this isn't what was going through my head at the time. This is retrospective, talking about two girls from the past. It just popped into my head because I was reading red pill theory and applying it to my experience is all
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:18 PM
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Thanks. As a senior endorsed member, any thing you'd suggest for a relative newcomer? struggling to marry up some of the different concepts from the sidebar material. Some of it seems to contradict other pieces.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:12 PM
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Right. I'm not sure either. I think I've bitten off a little more than I can chew with all the different concepts and now I'm confusing myself. Maybe need to go back and focus on depth of knowledge in each area, rather than breadth of knowledge over all of redpill. Thanks for your help!
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:08 PM
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Sweet. Thanks, that's helpful.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:43 PM
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Right, you know what, you are about the fifth person to tell me to forget the terms alpha and beta, and understand that they are just terms used for opposite ends of the spectrum. What I meant was, was I the one in power in the situation? was it a good position to be in?
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:43 PM
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I'm not actually interested in marriage. But a serious, mutually beneficial long term relationship, yes. Cohabitation, maybe. See, I get this. From the heart of the red pill perspective (or what I have come to learn of it so far), any man opting for a long term relationship might as well sign a warrant to be fucked over and feel miserable. But I assumed there was some sort of, I dunno, way around this? I thought the point was that, in learning that women don't love unconditionally, and accepting…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 11:07 PM
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22 so I wasn't looking at the immediate future. Just in general like
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:01 AM
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It's changed my preference on having children ever. No thank you
/r/askTRP06/12/15 09:14 PM
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No, I'm 22. As above, I'm extremely anti drama and therefore I hate playing these shitty little games. It annoys me because he isn't genuinely asking out of interest, he's trying to shit stir and cause problems. And I guess I just naturally feel like the best way to deal with someone who bitches and plays games is to be absolutely direct with them because that generally tends to make them extremely uncomfortable. But I came here for advice from a community that's done pretty well by me so far, s…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:15 AM
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Man, I just wanna say it was helpful to read your comments. It goes without saying that people explaining their take on the theory really puts it into a framework that can be understood properly, but its nice to hear from someone who can see the benefits and positives to LTR's whilst maintaining an understanding of the challenges and the reasons that so many men fail with them. You're right - men go through the phase of spinning plates, which biologically is spreading seed, and the LTR, which is…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 03:52 AM
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Yeah I guess you're right, and I really hear you on the gay guy thing. Ok, what do I do if he brings this thing up in a group setting? he has done that before I told him to quit shit stirring, which did work. But obviously not permanently. Do I just ignore it then? or maybe just stare him down or something?
/r/askTRP05/12/15 03:44 AM
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I get that - I have been ignoring it for some time, and that worked for a while, but it disturbs my sex routine with the plate in question, which is why it's a problem. I don't care about this whatsoever - if his life is so fucking boring that he has to occupy his time with my sex life, that's his bad. I'm not trying to impress anyone - I really honestly don't give a shit what he or the others think about me or this situation. I just want him to shut up and mind his own business
/r/askTRP05/12/15 03:16 AM
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I'm not an expert - far from it. But from what I've read and learnt so far, I think worrying about what other people label you as is probably the most beta thing you can ever do. So addressing that would be good. I think the best way to go about adopting a red-pill lens is bit by bit. You take one concept, start working it in until it becomes second nature. Then you do that over and over, steadily improving your game, your mindset and yourself. I think the best place for you to start would be wi…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 03:11 AM
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That sounds like kinda like you're talking from experience?
/r/askTRP05/12/15 02:23 AM
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I can't blame you for that, I sorta want to punch myself in the face
/r/askTRP04/12/15 04:09 PM
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I Had to read that all a couple of times to really digest it. The thing is, I do actually already know that what you're saying is true. I know that when it comes down to it, life is what you make of it and that the only real purpose you can derive from it is one that you make for yourself. But I think that's the problem - as much as narcissism and nihilism have actually been brilliant tools for me in terms of risk taking, confidence and believing in my own ability, they have their dark sides too…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:34 AM
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I guess so. That's the intimidating part though - the rest of my entire life. Like fuck, that's a long time.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:02 AM
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This is an aspiration that I have always had in the back of my head. It just takes a lot of time to get to a stage where you are reputable enough to do it
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:01 AM
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Well I guess that's probably a more accurate way of looking at things
/r/askTRP29/11/15 07:57 PM
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Ok, I guess a better way to have explained what I meant there would be to say "you're either the leader or the follower" or "you're either attracting other guy's girlfriends and wives, or your girlfriend/wife is being attracted to other guys".
/r/askTRP29/11/15 07:49 PM
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"Learn this now, you will never achieve contentment or emotional fulfillment in a blue pill context with red pill awareness". Well, I guess that answers that then
/r/askTRP29/11/15 06:54 PM
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