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redpillromp/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:12 PM
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Great answer, spot on.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 09:42 PM
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I think most posters here are seeing it as a straight up shit test, and I see it as more of a comfort test. She's testing him to see if he will give a shit about her emotions. If she had said something like, "I'm sorry, I forgot I had plans" I wouldn't reply. But this shit is her saying, "I'm vulnerable, am I safe with you?" By replying "k" you not only pass you, also get her hamster going. She will wonder why he doesn't care enough to be upset that he's missing out on dating her special princes…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 09:36 PM
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This. A one or two word reply is enough to sow the seeds for a future plate. Maybe you'll get to harvest this one later, maybe not. If you're on your game you're sowing seeds every day, abundance won't just be a mentality, it will be your reality.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 06:15 PM
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I think what you are describing, re: shopping, budgeting, supporting herself, etc. are learned behaviors. You are in the position to teach her how you like these things to be done, which is one of the perks of dating a 21 year old. But I think expecting her to be any more mature than the oldest teenager in the room is unrealistic. She's 21. She's impressed with an older, stable man who has his shit together. Be that guy, but don't expect her to to just know how to be a good woman. She'll want to…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:49 PM
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I feel you. I used redpill techniques long before I heard of this place. I had a plan, I'd keep casually dating until I was in my mid thirties, then settle down with a nice girl and have a family. I was spinning plates and setting myself for a giant shit sandwich of bluepill oneitis marriage without even knowing it. I think the bitterest pill to swallow was realizing that any "amazing" LTR was only as amazing as I made her. Part of it was feeling that I was smarter, stronger, more "special" that…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 06:43 PM
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We're about the same age, and I'm in to process of creating a very similar relationship for myself. My LT goal is to find such a woman I can marry and have children with, so with that in mind I think being very clear about your expectations is key. It sounds like you haven't decided yet what the end goal is here, which makes it hard to tell her what you expect. It also sounds like you are looking for things from a woman that she likely isn't capable of giving. I ended them as it just got too bor…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 06:22 PM
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I told her I will break up with her if she goes and I don't want to stop her but that's the way I am. Bluepill as fuck. Tell you're looking forward to spend time with some of your friends too, maybe Vegas or whatever den of iniquity is nearest to you. Call the sleaziest people you know in front of her, guys she knows take their lunch breaks at strip clubs and snort blow off of stripper's tits, and "make plans." She'll be so worried you're going to be knee deep in pussy she'll spend the entire ti…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 06:10 PM
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I like your attitude. Being redpill is a choice. Sure theres a lot of shit you can't unseen about how women function, but ultimately rejecting the role of beta provider to a CC riding trollop so women can have a carefree existence is a choice society does not want you to make. It's easy to hold frame when no one is against you. Holding frame when you are challenged is when it counts. I actually do plan on getting married because I want children. I recently closed on a condo in an area that has m…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:15 PM
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This sounds like a cop out. Each one of us faces unique challenges to to finding our redpill selves. Some guys are shorter, some guys are fatter, some guys are seen as effeminate because of their race. This guy has challenges too, but rather focus on it and use it as an excuse to wallow in blue pillism, he embraces what works and built on that. You think there aren't feminists in the Balkans? You think there aren't social pressures to be a 'nice guy' so women will like you for who you are?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:04 AM
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LOL no, you fail AP history. Seriously though, there's a lot of great information in the sidebar of the main sub with a more accurate perspective on history.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 05:52 AM
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Plus when your motorcycle breaks down every time you want a ride, or constantly requires expensive replacement parts you can trade it in for a new one without being tied into a 20 year court ordered maintenance program.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 05:43 AM
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The typical middle class sexual life-cycle throughout most of history looked like this There wasn't a 'middle class' throughout most of history, I'm curious what time frame you're talking about?
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:13 AM
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I always answer that with, "Well recently I've had a dry spell" even if I was fucking some chick last night. It sounds desperate/counter to redpill teachings, but I've had a lot of success with it, and I think that is because a) It explains to her hamster why I'm escalating quickly and b) it doesn't answer her question but sounds like I'm trying to dodge because I'm embarrassed to admit I have a low partner count, making me seem more pure, inviting her to get kinky and teach me (lol). If she pus…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:08 AM
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Sorry, my bad - I meant your sister.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:39 PM
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I started reading over there yesterday. Great sub, thanks!
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:38 PM
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Yeah, honestly part of what I like about SLC was the community because it seemed like a wholesome place for children. Here's my sitch: My SMV is high (white, 6' work out, good job, early 30's) and I have several FWB/plate situations. I could keep doing that. Don't get me wrong, it's a great life. But I do want to get married and have kids, and I want to do it before I get too much older. I regularly meet new women who are good on paper and interested: under 25, low partner count, 7's and above -…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:38 PM
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No shit men are more than the pussy we fuck, and as I've said before - that isn't my issue. I have higher standards for the pussy that gives birth to my children. Religion is the opiate of the masses - it's fine for dumbfucks or women, because it defines morality for them in a non-negotiable way. For men who want more from life, religion is a tool.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:51 PM
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Cool, I'll remember you while I'm swooping in and stealing your women.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:39 PM
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I would like to add my personal view on this, its that if you think the women around you aren't up to standard, then you aren't either. And that is what irks me about men going overseas and marrying foreign women; they aren't that much better than the local women they disparage yet they go overseas and spread the same Western culture that formed these substandard women. OK, so aside from Mormon ≠ Amish, Salt Lake City ≠ overseas and Mormon ≠ foreign - it honestly sounds like you are projecting h…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:30 PM
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It sounds like you're on the right path. Stay strong and remember that this is a temporary situation, no matter how awful it feels now. Next time she does something positive, give her a hug (10 seconds +) and tell her it's going to be OK. Doesn't matter what "it" is - this will calm her hamster down and make your life easier.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 06:04 PM
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Right now I do OK in a large market (LA) with mostly day game. I'm pulling 6 - 8's in the right age group for marriage, but TBH I'm not interested in anything more with those girls. Maybe it's the culture in LA, but it seems like even the "good" girls have shitty friends who encourage risky, CC behavior. I'm honestly looking to settle down with one woman, but knowing AWALT, the fact that Mormon culture discourages women from that kind of behavior makes them attractive to me. Most of the guys who…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:53 PM
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Thank you! I'll read that after work. Mind if I PM you additional questions?
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:45 PM
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I'm seeing this scenario play out where I "let" her convert me - women love projects. If I slip up occasionally, she'll need to work harder to convert me back. I travel a fair amount for business now, I could probably keep the non mormon approved stuff out of town.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:42 PM
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I admit I'm leaning heavily to the "do it" side. But it's because of AWALT that I think this plan has merit. The social control the community exerts keeps the worst female behaviors in check. As long as I do my part as a good 'mormon" husband, she will do hers. That's more than a typical American woman offers.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:38 PM
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I don't think it's cool to have the idea that you can just swoop in and steal away a mormon girl without converting to the religion I didn't say I wouldn't convert, I just don't actually believe in God. If I'm baptized and it makes my future wife happy, I don't see how it matters. Those girls live a certain lifestyle in the face of enormous pressure from our cesspool of a society and they deserve someone with the same beliefs as them. Oh, I get it - White knighting. Carry on, then.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:35 PM
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I don't really want to leave the country - and honestly, what's the difference between traveling to wife shop vs. converting? They're both essentially the same, so if one is beta, then they both are.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:33 PM
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I'm sorry your dad passed away. It's important for a young man to have role models. At the same time, it sounds like your mom is having a rough time, too. As her son living in her house your options are limited. If silent/disengaging is working when she's negative, go with that. Pepper in some reward/positive comments for good behavior, to try and keep busy until you can afford to move. Above all, remember that even though you don't get along right now (and thats normal) she's your mom. She is t…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:16 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:40 AM
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Great reply, thanks. Your friends who have dated mormon girls who aren't as traditional as I described, are they still more conservative than say, the average American girl? 4 Yes, but to be honest I also am attracted to the community that continues to shelter them. I like the family structure and security I saw in SLC, and right now I'm at a good age, my business fairly mobile, house prices are much lower than in my current area, SLC looks very attractive.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:37 AM
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I have that relationship now with several women, none of whom I want to procreate with. Along with finding mormon women attractive, I also like the community that reinforces redpill ideals. Even if my relationship is perfectly redpill, it will not be the 'norm' in my present area, and will always be subject to negative external forces. a word
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:14 AM
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That sub is a treasure trove, thanks. It looks like a pretty mixed bag, TBH. Top comment is a one-way ticket to starfishville, but further down it gets better. I'm not going to just go and marry any mormon girl, but in terms of hunting grounds for wife material, SLC looks pretty promising.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:03 AM
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I wonder if it would be different with mormons because they place such a premium on converting you. I will definitely consider this though, I don't want a marriage with me, her and her God in it.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:55 PM
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How onerous is converting? I can give up coffee, and I don't mind not having alcohol in the house (although I may want to go out for a beer occasionally) Is your cousin happy with his choice? Are there any huge red flags I should know about?
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:51 PM
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Yeah, this is a great point. I'm considering living in SLC, because I definitely agree that you take any woman out of her environment she'll start adapting to the hypergamous western influences around her. I will definitely convert on paper, because as an atheist it really doesn't matter to me which invisible man in the sky you believe in.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:49 PM
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The married ones, absolutely. From what I gather, they do missionary type work when they're young instead of riding the CC. Then when they get married they devote themselves to their husbands and family. The older married women I saw looked more like Anne Romney than Clan Duggard.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:33 PM
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You're going to get a lot of "TRP is amoral" answers, and yes, that is true. But you as a person are not amoral, and part of embracing TRP is about becoming the best man you can be. I personally won't step on someone else relationship because I think it's shitty behavior, and ultimately not the kind of man I want to be.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 09:57 PM
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This. If dancing isn't your thing, try something else to add variety. She's telling you she's bored.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 09:14 PM
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Maybe try /r/marriedredpill? at least those guys have kids and might have some insight.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 09:07 PM
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You may be bouncing too quickly. Number after-care is setting the stage for your next move, and you want to leave her anticipating more.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 07:31 PM
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I'm going to go against the tide and say go for it. Yes, I know, don't shit where your eat, don't succumb to oneitis - but OP knows that too. The thing is, you went through the hell-and-back of a break-up, and this chick has your interest. Right now, in that hesitant, post divorce funk, getting your dick wet and feeling like a man again is THE most important thing you can do for your well being. Prequalify any move you make by telling her you went through a painful break-up, and that you might n…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 07:16 PM
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Gordon MacCreagh - I read him in college. IIRC, he was the inspiration for Indian Jones. Great redpill inspiration. Thanks, man.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 07:07 PM
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Depends. If we're talking back hair or unibrow, get it done because going full wookie will tank your SMV, especially with younger women.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 10:09 PM
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If the girls where you live don't do it for you, change your geography. You'll be graduating in May, figure out what part of the country has the most amateur astronomers cartologists, and look for jobs there.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 12:03 AM
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If a LTR suggests a MMF, I'd mentally demote her and then go ahead and invite a buddy over to have fun with a rag doll. I'm saying this as someone who has had threesomes and enjoys them - with a disposable plate. I require more from a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 11:44 PM
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I think you're way, way too concerned about what people say online. I doubt this chick is obsessed with you, she just wanted too tell a story to get attention, and this is the one she chose. I assume this is the post you're talking about - honestly man, ouch, but don't obsess. Most guys here have had some pretty cringe worthy moments in our bluepill pasts, the key is to let it go and learn.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 11:31 PM
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"I wouldn't have to if you stopped making childish decisions." Watch her hamster go off the rails, but you've flipped the conversation from your behavior to hers. Maintain frame, walk away as she behaves like a screeching infant.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 09:13 PM
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I agree with this. They key is having great text game. If that isn't your strength, stick to logistics, but if you're good at it, text game is an easy way to demonstrates value.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 09:03 PM
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I don't think this is really stringing her along. He's stated clearly he's not ready ...Yet. Sure, the "yet" gives her hamster space to run, but that's on her for interpreting what he's said into what she wants to hear. He should absolutely stay away from anything that implies that even if he was ready, it would be with her, but otherwise I don't see an issue. Ultimately he's going to need to extract himself from this, and being careful with his language now will make that easier later.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 07:59 PM
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Treat it like a training exercise, and don't let her get under your skin. She sounds extremely young and immature, but you dealing with situations like these is just part of life. Does she call everyone before work outs, or just you?
/r/askTRP18/02/15 09:16 PM
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"I'm not ready for that ....yet" and change the topic. She'll hamster herself into believing you will be ready, eventually, up the sexual intensity to 'convince' you. This plate will break hard, and when that happens, it will be ugly. Lay the foundation for a "It's not you, it's me" exit to minimize the fallout when she goes full bunny-boiler, and keep her away from your friends, family and colleagues to minimize the blast radius.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 09:01 PM
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It means you should probably read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 01:06 AM
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Besides that I’m still curious as to what she is trying to convey. She probably was dumped and is reaching out for emotional support. Fuck that noise. Ignore her, ignore the messages, and keep doing what you're doing. I'd also ask your mutual friend why the fuck he's giving your ex your new number. That's pretty disrespectful.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 12:16 AM
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Probably #3, and possibly your coming across as self absorbed to mask insecurity. I swear to god chicks can smell that on you. People have already pointed you to the sidebar, personally what helped me was to remember my ABCs.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:12 PM
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Yeah, I'm sorry man. You should probably hard next her until you're past that because right now a woman with questionable empathy has her emotional hooks in you. That is the road to heartache, my friend.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:00 PM
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we were having a good time, having sex four times a week and sleeping together everytime. Then out of the blue she says we're going too fast, doesn't want to hang out valentines day and goes home this weekend. she didn't want the commitment She was fine with you guys fucking like bunnies, claims she doesn't want a commitment (maybe to be a 'cool chick'), then she says you're moving to fast and want to make you an orbiter. Most women don't know what they want, AWALT etc. etc. BUT she's jerking yo…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:43 PM
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Red flags all over the place. Drinking heavily, walking home alone at 2 am over a fight, getting physical - this woman is a train wreck. Count yourself lucky that you got away relatively unscathed, and stop putting your dick in crazy. Next!
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:27 PM
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She sounds broken, you should next her.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:21 PM
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Because sea turtles are cool.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:18 PM
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The only long term game for you is to hard next her until you're over your one-itis.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:54 PM
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I'm almost the same age as you, I'm also skewing towards younger women, and my game is 100% day game. When I started on redpill almost a year ago, my biggest take-home was that working out was key to improving my SMV. I wasn't in great shape, my life revolved around my job and was intimidated by approaching women. I was on track to be a beta bux to some lucky CC rider, and I probably would have considered myself lucky. After RP, I forced myself to go out and just approach women, and honestly, my…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 06:45 PM
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No man, don't text her. If she did get it, she's ignoring you and you look desperate. If she didn't get it, sending a text asking if she got the text shows that you care that she didn't respond, and again you look desperate. Wait a few days, text about something completely unrelated. If she doesn't respond, soft next her. Edit: a word
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:24 PM
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You're looking for IOIs; maybe she smiles at you, or you catch her doing elevator eyes, whatever. Then your game comes into play. I've been working on my cold / semi cold approach game a lot recently, and for me the more I just do it, the better I am at it. My success rate went from pretty dismal to OK in the last 8 months, and a big part of that has been working on myself, taking the redpill and projecting confidence when I start my approach.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 06:11 PM
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Why bother? She already the best sex you've ever had, she's crazy so there will be no upgrade to LTR, so what's the upside of risking her going full bunny boil on you?
/r/askTRP05/02/15 05:58 PM
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