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This one hit me. I didn't go back through your other posts but I'm going to give this a shot. You obviously have addictive tendencies and likely repressed emotional issues. Alcohol, porn, whatever - these are simply coping tools you're using to avoid going into the dark forest that is your soul and confronting the monsters deep within. You lack self confidence and don't have a winning track record, so you don't really believe you can be something. Are you stuck, destined to be this loser forever…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 04:14 AM
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It seems forced and inauthentic. That can be ok up front as you learn but the end goal is something more integrated. IMO. I think the same general idea came up a few weeks ago with the WhatsApp thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 10:00 PM
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You keep being really weird about your sex sessions. You autistically plan them out, the fuck is that? Chill on that, live in the moment. Be a man who fucks. Quit larping like one.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 04:12 PM
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"oh baby, was doing that anyway...you're easy though"
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/22 03:21 AM
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Here it is. Rings even more true today.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/22 03:22 AM
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I appreciate your mindset in trying to work out this dissonance. The feminine grows through praise, bratty behavior requires strong boundaries. Threading that needle is very difficult. I'll keep following along your journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/22 02:43 AM
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Fuck A Brat And Find Out.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/22 03:01 AM
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Persimmon's scenario will give me nightmares tonight because I went through this exact play by play an infinite number of times. I'd write off constant disrespect and boundary crosses as flirty games. And with rose-colored glasses, it's just playful games. But when the edge is always on the brat's side, the games always hinge on disrespect, boundaries are constantly being trampled... You won't understand until you see your value and see why it's a waste of time. Brats exist for the chaos of it a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/22 02:53 AM
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Find me a better mission than knowing yourself.
/r/askMRP18/10/22 07:24 PM
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Good luck taming the brat, bro. I gave up. Brats are exhausting. Remember that she actually enjoys being difficult and disagreeable. As much as she wants you to draw a boundary, it only exists for her to cross, misinterpret, and test you on over and over again. I wouldn't wish life with a brat on my enemy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 06:13 PM
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You're in here doing the Lord's work week after week. I think you could also relate the trying/not trying edge to flow state or Mind Palace. My best opens and interactions happen when there is no space between self and ego. I'm one. Everything is genuine, I'm not trying to "be" someone, I just am me. And I desire to connect with the person in front of me. Takes a few cold opens and the right mindset and vibe. It's almost like a meditation state that you invite others to join. Frame Evangelism. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/22 08:14 AM
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Fuck ya blarg
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/22 07:21 PM
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Excellent perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 01:49 AM
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with the mods away, the tards will play!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 12:11 AM
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What do you recommend as an acceptable OYS post?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 05:16 PM
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Damn it's fun to read my old posts from 2020. Thanks for linking them. You can see that my mission has evolved since then, ultimately my mission is to know myself. Fuck the rest. I get that you don't see the connection for what I'm talking about. Look, I might be crazy... either way, I see a bigger picture here. The actual basis of MRP isn't unique to MRP, it's existed since forever, and that's what I'm trying to convey. I don't want to be any type of leader. What I'm actually proposing is that …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/22 01:30 PM
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No disrespect, I can never quite tell if you're agreeing or disagreeing in comments, and if you mean to do that. I find your OODA concept interesting and I think it aligns with what I'm suggesting here. I don't want to read another same-old-shit OYS post either. I get why it happens, because "post in OYS" is the first test of commitment we give new recruits, but I think guys are better off taking time to reflect themselves as much as they can. Morpheus can only help Neo once he's ready to accept…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/22 04:05 PM
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I do miss the anger sometimes
/r/askMRP30/07/22 01:20 AM
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Back at ya.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/22 11:37 PM
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I'll PM you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/22 01:09 PM
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Hey man, we might just be on different pages here. Your idea of being in MRP's frame is an interesting idea. Taking that idea to its max, aren't we all in somethings frame - whatever we learned up to this point? Are we in higher education's frame if we use that as a basis for our worldview? How about our parents - are we in their frame if we credit them for raising us? I don't exist in a vacuum. Saying "it's all my fault" yes ... but come on. It's a pedantic 1.0 argument. It's to get guys to und…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/22 02:54 AM
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Seems pedantic but interesting idea
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 06:43 PM
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I think I get your basic point but I don't know what any of this post means. It's total jargon. You can't have MRP without a program to work. It exists because guys like us need it. I will continue to praise the approach this place provides.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 06:32 PM
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Thanks for the rec - I downloaded that book. Just from the chapter titles - it's going to be right in line with my interests. I think of spirituality as solving for "the question that science can't answer" which is - how should I behave? This place (MRP) espouses greek ideals like self-control, body as a temple, stoicism. Again, it's a cycle... Different names, same thought process. Same results.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 01:36 PM
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This place made me.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 12:58 PM
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Sex acts like a force multiplier for dominance because it ties in massive amounts of emotion. Im not sure what you mean play to win though. Who are you playing against? I'm playing against myself always, to be better than I was yesterday. that statement conflicts with this: Maybe that is my role to play in the world. This is an interesting angle. I do learn about myself in these interactions, though I find myself wanting "more" from them. I need to reframe, but there's still a root issue. Maybe …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 12:56 PM
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5'3" - 136 - 15% - Squat 295 - TBD 395 - Bench 175 It's been a while. I don't know where to start. Here is some shit I've learned in the last 6-12 months. During sex is the time to establish dominance in your relationship. Fucking is about way more than the nut. Once you're not sex starved, it becomes a different game that you must play to win. My mission in life is at a way higher level than I ever thought possible. My mission is to know myself. Once I got in that state of mind, I can now view …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 08:20 PM
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Dios mio
/r/askMRP29/04/22 06:22 PM
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DEER
/r/askMRP28/04/22 12:10 AM
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/u/HornsOfApathy had an exercise that was extremely helpful to me. Maybe he can link to it or share it here (I can't find it in comment form). "A man without purpose is like a ship without a rudder." You might find a different purpose than I did, but it's probably even more macro than you think is possible right now. It was for me. "Failure is often expected." We always reserve the right to fine tune our position over time.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/22 12:28 AM
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"The mind leaps from one known to another known and in so doing traverses certain distances, metaphorically speaking; it is like a traveller in the desert who knows the situation of two oases and makes a forced march between them. He would never have dared to push out into the desert from the first oasis if he had not known the location of the second; but at the end of his journey he not only knows much more about the characteristics of the second oasis, but he has also observed the country lyin…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 06:46 PM
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Right out the gate with a 738 credit score. Panty dropper. EDIT: fuck it I'll go in on this one. The thing you did with your wife's bikini, it's diabolical given her history. Your claim that you know how to handle women. That claim doesn't hold up. OYS 1 or 2, You have to jump in. I'm saying this to get you to think about being honest. Your whole post is ego and ego protection. We fucking get it, you're a PHD with AMAZING JOB and SAVINGS and GOOD CREDIT. you got married but your wife is DIFFEREN…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/22 01:42 AM
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very good
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 02:19 PM
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Nadu gets me hard. I would benefit from a post on aftercare too. Field report: held eyes open yesterday. It was fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 01:54 PM
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What a thread. Thanks for linking it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 02:53 AM
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I stopped a forest fire, and nobody cared. You should have ended the story there. No one else gave a shit (except for the few people that did). What, you want us to call you a hero in here, since nobody else did? You took control and handled the situation the best you could. Doesn't make you a hero. Validation seeking behavior like this will turn off the spigot of thank-you/compliments from other people, because they will sense how badly you want it. I felt good about the whole thing. Look for w…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 07:28 PM
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Definitely..
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 09:16 PM
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Sesame oil hits different
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 08:53 PM
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I am picturing Red's shed ... Do tell, eventually.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 08:52 PM
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Yes, you're right. And the rabbit hole is deep. What I'll appreciate a year from now, I probably haven't even learned yet. That said, veggies in ramen is a pro move!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 08:28 PM
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TWOTSM talks about enjoying different types of feminine energy at different times...cool, hot, soothing, etc. Sometimes even being in the presence of young 20-something women, lights a fire in me. Not even sexual energy, just ... radiance. It's a really beautiful part of being alive, and owning masculine energy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 07:52 PM
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A Master Craftsman chooses his tools wisely, he sees value and understands utility in ways that amateurs could never really understand. That's why many seek your advice. Apprentices often learn with sub-par tools, but sometimes those tools make their way into a learned Master Craftsman's toolbox. Every old guy I know cherishes some old tool of his, even if it's not "the best." Why? It has personal value and he has learned how to maximize its utility. Sometimes he'll even drone on about how his t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 07:33 PM
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To do this, I’ve had to become and truly start believing that I AM THE PRIZE. This all had to come after the hard, but opportunistically significant realization that I am alone. There's no one else The thead in that link is gold. Thanks for taking the time to track it down. I've come back to this post a few times since you posted it. Congratulations dude. There is a lightness in this that brings a smile to my face: It’s also worth noting that this has been so much fucking fun! Every single week …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/22 06:14 PM
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Watch every Craig Ferguson interview you can find.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 03:59 PM
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this is good shit
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/21 02:01 PM
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I stand by the points I made here. You might not agree, that's ok.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 03:08 PM
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I do love a good divorce fantasy. Koan is a masterclass in overthinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 04:59 PM
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I can...and will! ha
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 02:53 PM
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I really doubt he's playing 4D chess with ego games. But maybe I'm just a cynical asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 02:18 PM
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I don't agree here. It's not fine to change your mind and instead enter couples counseling following dropping papers. If you drop papers, you better be real damn sure about it. It would have been ok if he said "listen here's what I want, and if I don't get it, I will need to leave to live out my life without you." You hint at papers, in this case. You don't serve divorce papers and then pull back when she queues up the water works.... Changing your mind is ok, but there are consequences to makin…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 02:13 PM
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Damn. Someone who has been through this should be able to help more, but my gut feeling is that you should have planned for this. lol. Instead, you said "I want a divorce" and she replied back "no, let's try counseling instead" and you say "sure, honey, whatever you say." You can't redpill your wife, Koan. She doesn't give a fuck about your aligned lifestyles or whatever you're trying to explain. All she sees is her beta bux walking away. Why did you not have this speech prepared? "I understand …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 01:44 PM
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DEER much? Find a 3x per week plan and make it happen. I hate excuses. If you're not going to work out, at least own that shit instead of being a bitch about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 08:30 PM
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Liking this, lol. Tonight: "does this shirt look too slutty?" "you know, if you're going to dress like a whore I'm going to treat you like one." after: "so you take cash right? worth every penny." good shit!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/21 11:38 PM
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Jerry at dinner: "will someone please pass the fucking asparagus"
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 08:43 PM
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Jesus christ. Whatever jobs you're applying for, keep doing that. In the meantime, walk to Home Depot, Wawa, whatever the fuck is going to pay you $10-15 an hour as a cashier. Walk in decently dressed, ask for a manager. Tell them you want to work there. Wow, now you have a job, Jerry! Good for you! Then you work on applying for better jobs and work your way back up. You are the epitome of the 40 year old unemployed dude who is too good for jobs beneath them. When you really need start at zero a…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 01:55 PM
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Mommy if I'm good will you let me go to sleep?
/r/askMRP26/07/21 02:26 PM
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I am being hard on you because looking back I see how much time I wasted fucking around. Some of it is useful but for the most part you have to start making moves to really see what you care about.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/21 07:28 PM
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Stop thinking about shit and do something with your life man. It gives me anxiety to see you fucking around and I don't even know you. You don't seem in a rush at all. How many more weeks do you have on this earth that you want to waste fucking around like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 04:57 PM
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Then I think you're playing out a Beta Revenge Fantasy at the idea of destroying her so she feels a 10th of what she's done to you. Right? I'll say it again, that's not how a captain acts. He doesn't watch his ship burn while shrugging it off. I can say this with certainty because I've been the heady guy in my time here too... you're thinking everything through from every angle but ultimately being paralyzed by fear - at not being good enough, at scarcity, at whatever. You're mentally masterbati…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 02:25 PM
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I ran BBB for a year and a half with good results. If you get bored, there are all kinds of variations I found enjoyable here: https://blackironbeast.com/5/3/1/calculator
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 09:42 PM
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Are you initiating and getting hard no's? Or waiting to see if she will?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 06:29 PM
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Yeah, good call. I agree. u/Red_Koan are you getting laid, at all?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 05:56 PM
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AA and AM are only tricks when you're LARPING and haven't internalized that mindset yet. STFU is good but at some point, you have to move beyond it and find out how to incorporate that in your own way. The point is, you're still worried about the storm that comes from it. Instead, work on getting your balls back and the confidence to say it with conviction. Keep reading, keep incorporating everything. Good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 05:32 PM
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I like you dude, because you don't fuck around. There were posts and comments stating how Red doesn't do comfort tests either. This reminds me of it. You can be that guy that nukes comfort tests like shit tests but it's hard as fuck to succeed long term doing that. It creates tremendous anxiety and you don't channel it like a captain should. It's like learning game but skipping the section on kino. Sure, but why not just learn how to be better? What did she do to earn it? Nothing. But OP didn't …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 05:18 PM
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Her comments to you reek of shitty comfort testing. If you nuke them like a shit test, you technically fail, although you do gain some amount of personal power - but by crushing her. Is that what you want? She is having a lot of feelz and lashing out - she wants you to fix it. A kiss on the forehead usually solves that shit, but my question to you is: do you actually want her in your life? You need to answer this question (like I did). Do you like her? You're floating in this space where your wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 03:12 PM
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Good thought process here. Admitting that you're scared of your wife is a good first step. I was too. You have to get on the right path to make progress. Like you said, once you know the playbook, none of her reactions should actually move you, at all. You know they're coming, and you're ready. STFU and WISNIFG can help build up your confidence and frame. I don't know your story so I'm not sure how far along you are. But at some point, once you've mastered those, you have to move on to more domi…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 02:58 PM
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If you saw me in person, you have no idea how accurate it is lol
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/21 03:07 AM
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I took my wife out to dinner after my last OYS and all the comments. And that night, I just watched her. I watched her interrupt me a bunch, do all this "look how smart I am" bullshit. And I just kind of chuckled to myself and thought, you know what, I'm not putting up with this any longer. If it's my fault or not, I'm not putting up with this. I don't care what the fallout is. It's not even that I don't deserve it, that doesn't matter. I just won't stand for it, whether I'm worth it or not. And…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 07:18 PM
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I read your post quite a few times in the last couple weeks (recommended by r/ImpatientZen). It really laid the framework for this whole thing. What a powerful story. You're right - this is the beginning. It feels like getting out of debt - at first you're in major trouble, nearing bankruptcy, weighed down by every little expense. You don't really understand what you're doing and you have all this baggage that is going to take years to shed off. Then you get some steam - snowballing - and figure…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 05:24 PM
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I still read loads of oneitis and scarcity in your reports, don't let this cloud your judgement. Yep. You're right, but you already know this because you're the one who pointed this out to begin with. I think alongside improving my leadership and polarity in the relationship, I have an interest in real abundance. I see, even from just approaching, what it does to my mental state. I think I do need to "test and learn" here. To be transparent, I'm jealous of your ability to be a dark fucking savag…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 05:07 PM
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You did a lot for me in the last couple weeks, man. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 02:10 AM
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There's something to the idea of taking yourself to the edge to jump. It really is weird to turn off lights, close doors, and think "that might be the last time I do that here." It's freeing, but leaves you with an eerie feeling too. You can't fake it either.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 02:09 AM
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Thank you. You know what - I'm pretty fucking happy too.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 02:06 AM
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I want to say something about this community. I don't deserve the level of insight I've received from a group of random strangers on the internet reading about my life. Money could not really buy this collective wisdom. A group of random guys on the internet has changed my life forever and continues to impact me deeply, in an immensely positive way. Thank you. Last week, I had what I believe was a main event. It happened fast but it has created a complete 180 in my relationship in the following …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/21 02:47 PM
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Watch Craig Ferguson
/r/askMRP09/07/21 11:14 PM
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No disrespect, but I think you might be autistic given how this is organized. What was your post about "if you're under 30?" I'm under 30.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/21 02:13 AM
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I really believe this now. My eyes have been opened.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/21 03:11 PM
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Will do. Onward.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/21 08:33 PM
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I've been thinking about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/21 08:33 PM
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Appreciate this input. I know that I can be a better leader. I'm learning how to do that more each day. This is a longer response - know that it's for me to distill my own thoughts and don't feel like you need to respond. The reason I haven't moved on is that I don't have abundance and I'm scared. Full stop. I've been scared to up my dominance and make hard boundaries for what behavior I want to see. I've finally actually written down want I want (this OYS) and have given myself a timeline to dr…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/21 03:42 PM
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You bring up a good argument, I think it could be diced a few different ways. I'm comfortable going full out (dominate) for 6 months and making a decision then. I need that backstop and the opportunity to make a final decision then. I have been afraid, but I try to be as honest as possible too. Could I be better served by cutting ties and starting over? Maybe. Probably. It might seem like I've been standing still but my personal growth has been exponential this year, whether or not my relationsh…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 08:47 PM
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Good shit. Thanks also for kickstarting this whole thing. I went a few layers deeper because of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 08:15 PM
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It's true that not a lot of guys enjoy it, but there's a lot of women out here like this. Doesn't make it right, but my girl isn't really an outlier. So the question is, how can I become more dominant with attitude and boundaries, to polarize this behavior and bring out the feminine (and praise it)? I believe that 99% of women will submit to a true high value man. My girl will too. Could I go out on the open market and find a more submissive girl? Probably. But from the string above, it's obviou…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 08:01 PM
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Fuck. I'm sure my analogies are annoying to read through a lot but this is exactly how I think, so it works for me. "back to class, young man."
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 07:45 PM
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I'll reflect on that answer. It makes me deeply sad, not angry, that it's how I feel now. I could change my mind, but I need the backstop of 6 months (at the latest), to make a determination and move forward one way or the other with focus. I can't keep fucking around and letting time slide by in limbo. On the other side of the coin, for the first time in my life I'm at a real crossroads and feel like I'm in control of my own destiny. I know I'll be okay but there is real courage needed to be th…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 05:50 PM
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I see what you mean now. To answer your question, no. And I'm getting further away from liking her as time goes on.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 04:54 PM
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Can you explain this bullet point a bit more to help me understand: Or, maybe you're making excuses and refuse to cut through the bullshit - you did with your goals today - but no action with your wife to stop the bullshit. What's the worst that can happen? Clay might go flying off the wheel?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 04:03 PM
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I like the way you put the timeline together. Very organized and will be cool to look for themes in a year or more.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 02:01 PM
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There have been a quite a few major turning points on my path to becoming the man I’m clocking in as while typing this. Each bullet point is another layer deeper into the mental model of the man I aim to be, sometimes without me even knowing what exactly was happening. I’ve added my thoughts about what each meant below. finding MRP due to an internet search similar to “I’ll get divorced so I can get treated better”. I was floundering in every aspect of my life and had no idea what was wrong or h…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 01:50 PM
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I will post it soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/21 01:16 PM
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you're a fucking loser
/r/askMRP24/06/21 03:07 AM
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How related do you think your first sentence and first bullet point are?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/21 05:15 PM
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I like your resolve, old man. Next time you're with him, for a weekend or whatever, build in gym time and go with him. Get the Saturday night pump and STFU, nothing crazy. Pay for his access ahead of time. The 2am text, I'd tell you to fuck off lol
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/21 02:32 PM
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This is exactly what I'll do.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/21 02:08 PM
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I've been gnawing on this since I read it. It's probably the most specific and accurate (to my history) comment I've received back on MRP. Cuts deep. Saying thank you really isn't enough but it's all I can do. You're exactly right with everything you said. Time to set a timeline and get it done. I'll check out scurvemuch too.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/21 12:31 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. I'm flopping around because I can't answer the question "what do I want?" I need something concrete and tangible, like you said, to chart out my course. I'm stuck because all things considered, I'd stay with my wife if she acted right (respectful, feminine, etc.). But if she doesn't, I won't. And I don't know when to make that call. I see glimpses of good behavior and bad every day. I'm staying because I think I can mold her into what I want - is that a fucked minds…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 02:32 PM
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u/ImpatientZen brought up good points. I'll respond to him separately. Your point here is solid too: I would only be fucking myself if I left with opportunities still on the table. Maybe that's the trick... recognizing when there is nothing more to learn from this relationship. Then it's time to go. This is exactly it. You and I both know we are not at end state and can still leverage our women for our own improvement. That's the rub. You dropped your pronoun here. I do that when I'm admitting s…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 02:16 PM
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Good reply. I'm certain my mindset is fucked up in different ways and I'm missing pieces. I really do feel outcome independence because I'm ready to walk away and would be, almost... happier... to do so. I have the full plan in place and can implement in 2 days. It's not a big deal. Starting over has this allure. It won't fix me but there is always this benefit looming to cutting off the dead branch and regrowing. You're right that I'd feel like I failed or didn't try hard enough if I do that. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/21 12:31 AM
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This actually explains a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 01:48 PM
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Yeah, probably right. I'm still getting my bearings for where I'm really at in the process.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 12:54 AM
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I'm stuck in a multi-month cycle right now: things are good --> I'm happy --> shitty behavior / disrespect starts up --> I enforce boundaries and withdraw time and attention--> I lean farther toward initiating divorce because it's not worth it --> wife begins comfort cycle and adding more value --> repeat Fuck. It's just a giant covert contract: if I do X and expect Z - you don't do YZ I'm going to leave. But isn't that just how relationships work at some point? If I can't get what I need, I'm g…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 04:21 PM
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Good for you, man. This inspires.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 09:53 PM
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Blarg, you have a J10-esque way about you, and I like it. Excellent comment. Spot on.
/r/askMRP06/05/21 02:24 PM
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I understand why you might feel that way.
/r/askMRP05/05/21 11:45 AM
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This is art at the highest level
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/21 04:17 AM
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It takes time. Years. Just like it did to get there. You got this.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 01:58 PM
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Hold tight brother. If nothing else, grind yourself down into a diamond at the gym and live to spite everything, everyone, that makes you feel worthless. Giving up is a stage past anger, ratchet it back a bit, get angry again, and you'll slowly find the reason to make it work. For me it was (from the bottom) give up --> fuck everyone else --> fuck me for allowing this --> road to recovery. If nothing else, go for a walk every day and get out of your head. It can be dangerous there.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 12:43 PM
4

Or maybe you're just a shitty manager
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/21 05:14 PM
0

How would you handle this situation if it was an employee of yours?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/21 05:10 PM
2

I disagree with your assessment but I can see where you're coming from. Having this conversation every Saturday would be useless. Once every 1 or 2 years, in the right space, I think there can be purpose there. I was congruent. MRP has become pretty hostile to any talking, and I get why, but I see value in showing my woman - with actions and sometimes words - what I want from her. In this case, I gave her a rare peek behind the curtain. Maybe it crashes and burns, but she knows what I expect now…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 11:56 PM
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Therapist suggestion wasn't for relationship advice. It was to deal with some serious shit that happened a few years ago that we glossed over at the time. It was unspoken, but she gets this. She didn't promise shit and I wouldn't have believed her if she did.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 05:46 PM
1

Please do.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 03:49 PM
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Welcome back. This is really good shit. I remember reading the blood oath story early in my time here. You're spot on. I suppose for many MRP ends at sexual strategy: "I'm getting laid so I've made it." For me, it's more about finding my path to being a high value man. A man with purpose, vision, integrity. Frame. I can go out and get laid. Why am I on this earth? For some, it's just pleasure. I don't know my purpose yet but these are all rungs on the ladder I'm climbing. The onion peels and the…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 02:51 PM
1

This is accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 02:05 PM
1

I don't know how people can survive without zero based budgeting.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 03:06 PM
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There comes a point where you stop putting your head down and STFU and begin to engage. It's not living in her frame. You have to engage to provide an alternate frame for her to choose. Whether she does or not is up to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 02:57 PM
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OYS 31 (April 13, 2021) Career I've identified a market niche and I'm launching my business soon. For the first time in maybe 4 or 5 years, I'm amped up about something. I'll begin as a side business working 5p to sleep, and ideally make enough in the next 1-2 years to go full time. In the meantime, I'm looking for new jobs that will pay 30-60% pay increase from my current job. I've landed some interviews in the last few months, but it's time to get serious. My current job is a dead end due to c…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 01:35 PM
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No
/r/askMRP09/04/21 07:40 PM
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Thanks. Usually a lot of people trying to prove they're the smartest person in the room but no leadership. haha. This tactic seemed to work well.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 08:24 PM
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Interesting take. I probably could have cascaded more responsibility to others instead of handling everything. I took control of the situation but wasn't micromanaging, more just setting the tone, if that makes sense. I really hate micromanaging and prefer to state up front "this is what I want" or recommend a path and let other people handle it as they see fit to get to my desired solution. If a lot of unplanned things happened, it wouldn't have been a big deal but my demeanor would have been t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 08:22 PM
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OYS 31 (April 6, 2021) This past weekend, I hosted some family at my house. I planned the meals and set up a few activities we could take part in throughout the weekend. I purchased the groceries and supplies we needed, deep cleaned the house beforehand and gave my wife some tasks, and thought through everything in detail. I was prepared. Usually my family brings all the food (delicious but all fat/carbs), and I would just say bring "whatever you want" so instead I set up a meal plan that I like…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 11:48 AM
1

good stuff, I'll give this a try!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 11:54 PM
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OYS 30: (November 2, 2020) Physical / Lifts: 5'3" 130lb. for reps BP: 160, SQ: 250, DL: 275, OHP: 115 Peeling the Onion My last OYS was Nov. 2. 2020. I was stuck in a mental rut. I listened to the OYS Youtube stream and heard HoA, WAS, and Johnny talk through my last OYS post. I laughed along listening to them joke about my autistic ways. It was what I needed to hear. Ultimately what it came down to: I was not the prize. I needed to delete the reddit app, take time to myself, and fix this issue …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 01:11 PM
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Congrats on the progress. A little WISNIFG goes a long way in these scenarios. Don't try to redpill your wife. Just let her tell you what her hamster is thinking and say "I understand why you might feel that way." Kiss on the head. Fuck later. Don't get caught up trying to explain how shit works unless you have to.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 03:39 PM
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Right on. Todd is dark/stormy type. James tusk is another that helped me understand final state. Just keep trying until you figure out what works for you. Basically want to get to your type of flirting that's congruent to who you are. Everybody a little different but A&A, amused mastery, cocky funny, wordplay are all tools you can use.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 07:27 PM
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this helped me a ton
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 01:06 AM
1

Wish I spent my therapist money talking to hookers. You think they're covered at specialist rates?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 12:58 AM
1

You're probably right, sounds like you have it figured out
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 08:37 PM
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Jesus dude. Let me quickly hammer you again this week. 1. You haven't learned anything 2. You haven't internalized anything. 3. Every guy here thinks MRP is about sex for 4 days, 4 weeks, 4 months, or in your case, 4 years, until it becomes obvious it's not about sex at all. what would people think if Cheap Whiskey was fucking that bitch?" Not to worry. Nobody is thinking that. But it says volumes for where you're at, which is dog shit despite your ego: I have lifted for the last 4 years and am …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 08:08 PM
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Lol is right
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 03:31 AM
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Something about the way you came in with pistols in both hands blazing about your religion has stuck in my craw today. Annoyed me enough to type up a comment. Horns did you a solid and obviously you know your ego is an issue but still wrote an ego-riddled OYS. It's a starting point. Good for you. But watch the religion shit with ego issues. It can be a pedalstal you peer down from, and I'd say that fits you pretty well given your post. As you self actualize, your religion will come into frame an…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 01:10 AM
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I love watching ego maniacs burn. Keep coming back brother
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 01:03 AM
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You misspelled autistic
/r/askMRP11/01/21 11:44 PM
1

Would you have stuck it out if you didn't have kids?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/21 12:23 AM
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I love the simplicity of MRP. It's like a choose your own adventure: -lift -sidebar -STFU -lawyer
/r/askMRP30/12/20 03:34 AM
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MRP is about trying, failing, continual learning. Daily, at first. Then, as you progress to a certain point with consistency, the easy wins disappear. But you train your mind and begin to notice the slow shift of the glacier. You aren't spinning out of control, shit tests become easy and fun. You see your wife (and women) for who they are - riding waves of emotion. Sex happens or it doesn't. Your wife doesn't matter. When you make it, you know your value and that you can share it with others at …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 04:06 AM
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It's all fun and games until Red anal trains your girl
/r/askMRP05/12/20 03:46 AM
1

Have been reading up on exercises. Practicing them. Already seems better, we will see how it goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 12:18 AM
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OYS 29: (November 2, 2020) Physical / Lifts: 5'3" 129lb. for reps BP: 140, SQ: 235, DL: 275, OHP: 115 Personal: Internalizing my value. It's clear that this is the biggest hole in my boat right now. It's easy to say "I'm the prize" but I've become a dancing monkey to myself, propping myself up based on exterior qualities. A friend of mine suggested I tell myself words of affirmation every morning. It's bullshit but I like the idea behind it: I want to soak up the positive aspects of me. Not what…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 01:57 PM
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I didn't put that together based on the video on Sunday, you mentioned it then, but I see your point. Interesting perspective and valid. So what does that say about me? I'm over here hedging the situation (in my head) by saying "she's really hot so that's why". Even if it's about me not actually believing I'm worth it. I need to figure out what it is about myself and my life that has me stuck in this limited mindset. What can I control and move the needle on this? I need to figure that out and b…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 01:35 PM
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OYS 28: (October 20, 2020) Physical / Lifts: 5'3" 129lb. for reps BP: 140, SQ: 235, DL: 275, OHP: 115 Relationship: I've edited my OYS based on value from the Youtube video on Sunday. Not only did I get some deep laughs about Unicorn Handjob Queen and what I'm calling the "My 200 lb. Wife" bits, the discussion about wives flirting with other guys was priceless for me. JA said it doesn't fucking matter, Horns said it doesn't matter but his wife respects him enough not to do that. Really shined a …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 12:41 PM
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I'll work on it for next time
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 06:11 PM
1

JBP also offers self-authoring suite for $30. Could help you solidify where you've been and where you want to go given your skills and interests. I just started it last weekend and it's been pretty illuminating.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 02:58 AM
5

This reads like an AI bot writing blackhat SEO pages
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 01:25 AM
1

Love it
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 02:49 PM
1

OYS 26: (October 5, 2020) Physical / Lifts: 5'3" 129lb. BP: 140, SQ: 235, DL: 275, OHP: 115 Relationship: Went away for a weekend a couple weeks ago, first entirely sober trip I've ever had since I was 17. In the past, I would get fucked up on trips, bar crawl, drink at hotel, hit weed pen, etc. This time I stuck with "I just don't feel like drinking" and had a club soda w/ lime at every spot. I booked the hotel, listed out a general itinerary, and researched some main activities that we could p…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 01:15 PM
2

Captains of crush
/r/askMRP03/10/20 09:56 PM
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Oh my God what a butthurt bitch you are. Every guy on this sub is here for a reason, life being perfect isn't one of them. Take the advice you want, ignore what you don't like, and most importantly fuck off until you're ready to own your shit.
/r/askMRP01/10/20 02:44 PM
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The basics feel difficult and unnatural because of how fucked your mental models are right now. Lift, read, follow the plan. Most of all STFU. And eventually you'll start to see progress IN YOURSELF (not your wife) and think to yourself goddamn it was simple ... But it's gonna be uncomfortable for a while.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 09:42 PM
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First off, STFU in general, you shouldn't be fighting period. But yeah it is obviously fucking with your own self esteem as you're doing it in secret. Chad might be able to openly blaze and not give a fuck and girls might love the IDGAF attitude. That's not you and you need to dig deep to figure out that you will need to make huge changes to improve. This is an easy step to be completely honest, like lifting is. When I started here I didn't get it, first post guys told me stop smoking, I didn't …
/r/askMRP30/09/20 09:06 PM
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You know what's cooler than spending precious brain power on trying to develop systems to get away with taking your hands off the wheel regularly? Not taking your hands off the wheel regularly. If you wanna smoke on occasion, do it with your buddies and keep shit steady at home. For me, even that fucked with my frame days later so I stopped entirely. Who wants to fuck a half boner anyway. It's really fucking hard to hold frame when you're stoned. Weed is feminine energy, though it does give you …
/r/askMRP30/09/20 08:37 PM
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Of course it's the case. When you blaze, do you instantly get overwhelmed by guilt and shame? Whose frame are you in when you're secretly smoking pot and then trying to figure out if mommy is noticing? Let's agree that "stoned husband" is not going to play well from that counseling couch, and your wife is practically overdosing on the moral superiority she feels over you. If you want to succeed by developing frame and control over your life, quit blazing. At least give yourself a chance to succe…
/r/askMRP30/09/20 08:21 PM
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Been there, big time. If you smoke weed or drink, stop. That in itself cleaned up a huge swath of my anxieties and overthinking. Turns out, for me at least, substances hit RESET on my frame progress and steal my confidence. You're beginning to notice that you're constantly operating in everyone else's frame, all the time. Keep reading (WISNIFG), STFU, lift, and develop your hobbies. Spend time alone. If you're anything like me, you spent your life people pleasing and have no idea who you are, wh…
/r/askMRP16/09/20 06:18 PM
1

Plot twist: the AI clones slay.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 01:55 AM
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OYS 25: (September 8, 2020) At the point in my journey where I'm grinding, seeing small improvements as I continue to develop. I've been practicing charisma and voice tonality. I learned that I end a lot of comments with "up" tonality - rapport seeking and weak. Have been working on slowing down, speaking from a lower register, and presenting myself more confidently. I realized that I was interrupting a lot over video calls at work and have had to slow down my speaking, improving my pace as well…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 04:12 PM
2

Apparently your username is as thoughtless as this post.
/r/askMRP14/08/20 02:54 AM
2

Google NMMNG and WISNIFG. What comes up? You can download all the books from Kindle. There's even a cache on TRP of all the files for free. Then put a password on your phone. It sounds like your wife feels like you're changing a lot at once. Now she sees a nightstand of collated books with names like No More Mr. Nice Guy. And you think she won't take a peek? Put the pieces together man. She doesn't want to know how the sausage is made. Her finding the books might be the majority of her emotional…
/r/askMRP31/07/20 12:53 AM
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Don't talk about fight club. You left all the sidebar books out? Wtf. Of course that's going to get you a bad reaction. Don't talk about fight club. OPSEC.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 12:28 AM
2

Bit of a ramble but this post resonated. MRP is like the dad I wish I had. Like you said, it's giving men like me a toolbox that we use in our own way. Some of us are fine craftsman and some are demo team. It's just a framework for going out in the world rather than a rigid worldview. Too many guys on here are just sucking the dick of MRP, calling everyone faggots, larping and ultimately not making progress. I've been guilty too at times. I've come to realize a lot of the rigidity and "tough lov…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/20 10:26 PM
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You have so much fucking work to do, dude. Post less about your walk with the Lord and spend some time mastering yourself and shutting your stupid fucking mouth. You know nothing. You are not special. Your wife is not special. You think it's just her that's immune to your tight game right? Go to a bar tonight and get 1 number. Just 1. Can you? No, you can't. And you probably won't go to a bar even. Ask me how I know. Forget nearly everything you think you know up until this point. Your parents w…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 07:12 PM
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Appreciate the words of wisdom. I think you're right on about the gap being small. Not that I'm necessarily close, just that it's a subtle shift. I've been at this just long enough to where I'm starting to see past the lifecycle of her emotions, the day to day, and instead seeing the larger picture. I will keep learning, and above all else, find ways to have fun doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 03:34 AM
1

Yes. Touche Johney
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 03:14 AM
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You have a point, the frame of power struggle is stupid. I've mostly moved beyond it. I don't know how else to categorize this, she started walking 10ft in front of me, at an absurd pace while occasionally turning and looking back to see if I was following. It was a 15 min walk each way. It's not the first time it's happened, struck me as odd behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 03:04 AM
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OYS 24: (July 28, 2020) Lifting Squat PR 235 for 3 on Friday night. I like seeing the progress, it sucks to not hit 6+ reps on the last week of 5/3/1 and have to deload for 1 cycle, then have to wait for the next cycle to get a chance at that weight again. BBB sets at 50% and am going to push for 60% next cycle. I enjoy OHP the most, though pretty brutal on the last reps. Keep grinding and increasing weight and reps. 5/3/1 is much more enjoyable than 5x5. Relationship I had a cookout and fire on…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 06:25 PM
2

Main takeaway is it's a vibe. It's really less what you say and more how you say it. Touch with a purpose and move on. Eye contact. You're trying to close, she knows this, so have some fun in the process. Keep it light. Purposefully misunderstand, give a look or make it clear you're fucking around, and move on. Tell her you feel like she's just using you for your body, I'm not that easy, at least buy me dinner first. Lame dad jokes and overplaying A&A were killing my vibe. Good luck. Load up the…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 08:00 PM
2

On YouTube, Todd V Dating. Craig Ferguson interviews with beautiful women. I'm a little autistic so reading doesn't help me translate as well as seeing it live.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 07:21 PM
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OYS 23: (July 21, 2020) Training Deadlift up to 260x4 (PR). Traps coming in, chest coming in. On point with my diet and training overall. Slow and steady progress. Got my yearly T bloodwork back. 380. Thought it might be a bit higher after the year of lifting, did increase slightly. Game I put a lot of work in this week learning about game. Keep going back to Alpha=frame, game, and looks. There is more work that I need to do on culling my style (looks), I've got a basic frame that keeps me groun…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 12:58 PM
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OYS 22: (July 14, 2020) I've made a bunch of personal progress but I'm not where I want to be yet. I keep retyping this post trying to get to the meat of what I want to say. I keep initiating and getting turned down. I don't provide any substantial comfort, comfort tests are few and far between. I pass shit tests with relative ease. I keep lifting to failure and reading. I don't get out of the house enough. My wife keeps bringing up money and I STFU or A&A - keeps saying "come up with an idea so…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 02:24 PM
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OYS 21: (July 7, 2020) I started listening to Craig Ferguson interviews with beautiful women, and my game has improved significantly. Even in the last 1-2 weeks. My A&A is more creative, off the top, and relies on "implying" with a grin. Watching him do it effortlessly helped me to understand the point of the whole thing again - it's just to have fun. I was missing certain elements before and feel like I have it calibrated now. When I hear a hook and go for it, my girl sees it as a time to have …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 01:24 PM
1

My idea of eating big is binging 5k extra calories a day.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 06:14 PM
1

I need to revisit this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 03:36 PM
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OYS 20: (June 23, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 123lb, 11-12% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 220x5, bench 135x5, OHP 115x3, DL 250x6 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, Day Bang I need to dedicate an hour a night to reading. Not MRP posts, the actual sidebar books. I spend a lot of time on MRP looking up old threads, reading up on specific search terms, J10 posts. A lot of it is mental…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 02:34 PM
4

So what's your love language?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 02:01 PM
2

Wow. Absolutely respect the effort put into this post. Simple opener, basic comment/observation, then threads and subthreads, and ultimately using the main thread to back out. Fucking brilliant, really, in distilling the process. Simple enough. The roadmap itself makes it seem so much easier. I am the guy who will notice 5 cues, ignore my opportunity, then be super awkward about it while it's too late and uncomfortable, beating myself up that I didn't even say hi. Or say hi... Only hi. I was kin…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/20 03:07 AM
1

Lmao. Good shit, got these locked and loaded for next time. Gotta brush up on my Grey's.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 02:03 PM
1

OYS 19: (June 2, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 123lb, 12% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 220x5, bench 135x5, OHP 110x5, DL 240x4 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, Day Bang Lifting / Diet: As I've leaned out, I can feel my max lifts suffering. I look better than ever, but I'm going to need to lean bulk soon. In the last week, I didn't track my calories closely enough, saw the flab inc…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 12:17 PM
1

I'm definitely still working on ruminating. That tends to be my go-to when I'm alone, I just kind of sink into rehashing shit. I spent a lot of time doing that when extremely high, thinking it was benefiting me. I did pull out some lessons, now it's just a bad habit. "Sometimes the right action made for the wrong reason is still the right action" Interesting how you can tell something is the right thing to do, when it keeps coming up and you keeping putting it off. Not ready yet, but it's coming…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 03:33 PM
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OYS 18: (May 19, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 123lb, 12% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 220x5, bench 135x5, OHP 110x5, DL 240x4 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, Day Bang Lifting / Diet: In week three of my first BBB cycle. Good stuff. The volume work seems to be doing its job. Career: Job interview was canceled last minute. Keeping an open eye for new opportunities. Mindset / Frame…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 03:27 PM
1

I started seeing my parents for what they are about 4 or 5 years ago, but I was so twisted up with anger and resentment and not a clue how to fix it, or why it was happening, it paralyzed me. I now see, like you said, they are just byproducts. I was just a byproduct. Without the right outside force and a willingness to change, we're just stuck in that box. Therapy has been really helpful in bringing shit to the surface that gives me that clarity that I'm not crazy. There were a few sessions wher…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 04:02 AM
1

Very interesting. Ok I think I get it now. I'll try this out.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 05:02 PM
1

Agreed. Boundaries with him will be an important step forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 02:32 PM
1

Interesting technique, thanks for sharing that. Can you provide an example in this context? Like, "travel the country..."? I would like to try this in other areas.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 01:04 PM
1

I appreciate the thought. Some men just can't be saved from themselves. I've asked him more open-ended questions like what do you want out of life, what's some things you'd like to do. Every answer is about what my mom wants. He worked a long career with the dream of buying an RV and traveling the country. My mom was not into it and wove together "physical issues" right around his retirement to ensure it was dead in the water. Kills me because he had a muscle car, motorcycle, plane license, the …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 08:14 PM
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OYS 17: (May 12, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 124lb, 12% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 220x5, bench 135x5, OHP 110x5, DL 240x4 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, Day Bang Lifting / Diet: Weighing everything. I have set meal times that I don't deviate from. As soon as I give myself some leeway, I'm +2k calories deep and binging like a madman. I don't want to be this way, but it's who…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 02:47 PM
1

The orange XR drip... priceless
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/20 06:50 PM
1

Drop the vodka and replace it with a protein shake, that could be the small difference between maintaining and losing.
/r/askMRP29/04/20 06:57 PM
1

I'm 5'3" 120lb and cutting maybe 1lb a week of fat (recomp) at 1400. You should be losing a fair amount of weight at 1700cal a day or so. 1400 is obviously too low for you. Are you weighing your food and logging in MFP? Based on the pic you posted, you need to cut 15 or 20lb. Don't get too caught up on the scale. You are a fat 150lb and can make lean gains over the long term once you cut. Good luck!
/r/askMRP29/04/20 06:49 PM
1

Think it was a shitty comfort and I failed. Watching for this now!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 12:27 PM
1

I'll work on listening for the change in tone too. Pretty sure I've failed almost every comfort test up until this point. Have to get these right. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 03:32 AM
1

I think the idea is that it was a shitty comfort test I failed. I didn't detect it at the time, was locked in on shit test mode.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 08:43 PM
1

I missed the boat somewhere. She doesn't have a history of abuse, I thought it was just more shit testing to try and control my behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 07:06 PM
1

OYS 16: (April 28, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 12% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 220x5, bench 130x6, OHP 105x6, DL 230x8 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, Day Bang Lifting / Diet: Weighing food, sticking to my diet plan. Got some wrist straps and grip trainers to help improve my deadlifts - my grip is costing me precious reps right now. Career: Same. Mindset / Frame: Starti…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 12:53 PM
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Lol more and more posts on here are either fake or written by somebody's wife. Absolutely zero understanding of the material. Fuck off.
/r/askMRP27/04/20 12:08 AM
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OYS 15: (April 21, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 12% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 225x2, bench 130x6, OHP 105x6, DL 230x8 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, How to Talk to Anyone, Day Bang Lifting / Diet: I need to cut my calories back another 100-200cal per day. I've stalled at getting leaner, I don't want to get so low that I'm dying in my workouts, but I want that six pack…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 02:34 PM
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OYS 14: (April 14, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 12% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 225x2, bench 130x6, OHP 105x6, DL 230x8 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, How to Talk to Anyone, Day Bang Lifting / Diet: Grinding Career: Same. Mindset / Frame: Spiraled a little bit this weekend. SBIII's comment last OYS slapped me a bit. I deluded myself into believing that I "wasn't that in…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 12:12 PM
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You're on to something here. I didn't see it as a fear response but it probably is, a response to the rejection. I've made strides but there's obviously still something there.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 07:26 PM
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OYS 13: (April 7, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 12% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 225x2, bench 130x4, OHP 105x5, DL 230x3 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, How to Talk to Anyone Lifting / Diet: In my 3rd week of my 3rd month of 5/3/1. Really getting the hang of the program. Have to really push week 3 to progress. I have been skipping the deload (week 4) and just recalculating…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 01:01 PM
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OYS 12: (March 31, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 13% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 225x2, bench 130x4, OHP 105x5, 230x3 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, How to Talk to Anyone Lifting / Diet: Starting to see some pretty encouraging results. Chest is building up, traps coming in. Overall looking leaner and bigger. My back feels strong and is no longer sore due to improving my …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 06:48 PM
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You're right, and you were last week too. I keep the chalk in hand to mentally update the scores whenever I can. It's a bad mindset, and ultimately, leads to passive aggressive bullshit and mental masterbation. "Not based on whether it will make her happy or not. Is it the right choice." Sounds almost like being a good leader. Will keep working on it. "Did I handle that the best way possible?" There was room for improvement to say the least. I like the shift in question and will use it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 08:45 PM
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Yep. I'll be using this. Need to work on the "funny positive."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 07:24 PM
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Simple enough. Gotta kill the retard...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 07:22 PM
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OYS 11: (March 24, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 124lb, 13% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 225x2, bench 130x4, OHP 105x5, 230x3 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: WISNIFG x2, How to Talk to Anyone Lifting / Diet: Counting calories in MFP is pretty damn easy. Tracking calories and rough macros this past month. Career: Still working from home. Possibly stalled my review/salary discussion a couple m…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 05:00 PM
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Yeah, I am a fucking retard sometimes. Looks like I still got some fat to lose.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 03:44 PM
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OYS 10: (March 17, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 124lb, 13% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, squat 225x2, bench 130x4, OHP 105x5, 230x3 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, 6 pillars of self-esteem, book of pook (re-reading everything, starting over) Lifting / Diet: Going pretty well. Really trying to dial in the diet at this point, playing around with different calorie maxes to…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 12:22 PM
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She was about to leave for a trip, I isolated and said "don't leave yet" and she went straight for my pants. I didn't ask but it wasn't 100% out of the blue. I'm trying to find the damn plug. I know I'm fucking it up, my approach is not quite right. Catch myself looking to her still for certain things, but haven't quite rid myself of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 12:30 AM
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OYS 9: (March 10, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 124lb, 13% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, Max 5x5 squat 210, bench 130, OHP 95, row 125, dead 225 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, 6 pillars of self-esteem, book of pook (re-reading everything, starting over) Finished NMMNG. On to WISNIFG x2... Lifting / Diet: Hit 2 reps squats at 225 yesterday, like seeing that number rise. …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 11:08 AM
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"And I took tren A a while back and felt amazing, tool tren E a few weeks ago and felt like crap so had to stop. Which do you prefer."
/r/askMRP06/03/20 04:51 PM
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Am I missing something? From your latest OYS: LIFTS SQ 150 5x5kg DL 160kg 5x5 BENCH 100kg 5x5 1RM OHP 70kg 5x5 LTR3 years. Kids 2,9,12 Yet based on comments you're on tren and test?! This is a joke right?
/r/askMRP06/03/20 04:36 PM
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Athleanx is actually where I learned that foam rolling the lower back isn't ideal. Good recommendation. And yeah, it's amazing how powerful STFU actually is.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 10:18 PM
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Spent a long time in this line of thinking. Yeah, anger stage. Fucking obviously. But I get it - it hurts to realize everything you've learned, your entire foundation, is sand. I also grew up in a very surface, conservative Christian household, where thinking and questioning was actively discouraged. Conservative interprations were taken at face value as absolute. Complete black or white in every aspect of life. Fucked me up bad - a process over 4 or 5 years, to realize that everything I learned…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 10:11 PM
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OYS 8: (March 3, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 14% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, Max 5x5 squat 210, bench 130, OHP 95, row 125, dead 225 How do I update my lifts to better reflect 5/3/1? Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, 6 pillars of self-esteem, book of pook Finished NMMNG. On to WISNIFG x2... Lifting / Diet: Felt some lower back pain over the course of the last tw…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 12:04 PM
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Interesting. Like I said in the post, last week was the first time I really felt that way about my job. Have imposter syndrome, or something like that. Might "deserve" a promotion based on time in the chair but don't feel I earned it. Have been too honest in past reviews but it's helped drive good feedback when I otherwise wouldn't have received it. RE: shit testing, you're right. I need to work on throwing it back at people. I have the quick mind but often override the thoughts (think it's too …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/20 09:43 PM
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Cool. I'll get a package of passes and give it a shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 04:24 PM
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OYS 7: (Feb. 25, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 128lb, 15% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, Max 5x5 squat 210, bench 130, OHP 95, row 125, dead 225 Mission: (In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now) Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, 6 pillars of self-esteem, book of pook (re-reading everything, starting over) About to finish NMMNG x2. Still need to read more. Going to calendar out an hour a night for this. If it's not schedule…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 01:28 PM
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I appreciate the covert contract glasses! I want to be a man who is comfortable touching and being touched, it is aligned with that. RE: PE, yes you're spot on. Entangled situation. I like the idea of naming the demon out loud and then putting at least the mental issue away. The embarrassment is the worst part, and I think talking about sex wants/needs to some degree would be a good step forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 06:08 PM
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You'll get it right next time. For now, just move on and don't mention it. GL!
/r/askMRP18/02/20 05:34 PM
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Sounds like a shitty comfort test to me. I think she wants you to tell her she's fine. You can't do it directly, so light A&A, AM, tell her you'll see her soon, maybe that she should cook for you more, with a smile? It's all good, I think. Interested to see what the others say.
/r/askMRP18/02/20 04:42 PM
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OYS 6: (Feb. 18, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 128lb, 15% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, Max 5x5 squat 210, bench 130, OHP 95, row 125, dead 225 Mission: In progress, I know this isn't a great mission right now)Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, 6 pillars of self-esteem, book of pook (re-reading everything, starting over) Didn't read enough this week, got caught up in other projects to keep me busy. Need to make reading more of a priority th…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 11:53 AM
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Just heard of them from Alpha M! Very cool. I've had success with certain brands but still have to get everything tailored. Actually got a sewing machine and going to learn how to do the basic stuff (hems, slim shirts, shorten arms). I'll order a few P.M. items and see how they fit! It's crazy how much better you feel in good fitting clothes.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 02:45 PM
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Goddamn, that post and top comment slapped me. It's easy to make excuses for why it's ok to smoke, bottom line is I'm not where I want to be. If I don't move on, I'm settling for mediocrity, for what? Smoking sure as hell isn't getting me where I want to be. Sure, I can "get by" doing all kinds of activities high, but it's not me living up to my potential. I want to reach my peak. Dammit I will reach my peak. I don't want to wake up in 23 years and realize it was all a stoney fantasy. Realizing …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 02:01 AM
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Great points. You're right that it isn't a binary issue, it's what you make of your lot in life. Need to improve my mental, build confidence, and ultimately have a rock hard (dominant) frame. I've looked at it as a binary issue in the past, like it's unbeatable, a losing mindset. It's a daily struggle but I can and will push myself to success. Frame is even that much more important.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 01:48 AM
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Words to live by, honestly. Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 05:18 PM
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I like what you said: start living more at your edge. I use weed to dull the edge, but that edge is where I'm going to find myself. I've honestly changed my life for the better on weed, it was a tool for me to stop drinking as a hobby and build productive and positive loops in my life. I just did it really stoned all the time. Sounds stupid but it probably saved my life. Now I need to put the tool down and move on. I can't be the man I want to be if I'm stoned, I've tried and failed. I'll read u…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 05:14 PM
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Correct, not there yet. I've started to just walk away after a few minutes of trying. She doesn't chase me. otherwise it does feel needy. A few times I tried to push through and take her pants/shirt off, and she got angry and kept saying "stop!". Lots of physical resistance, I was simply touching her, laughing. But she didn't get up and leave. If I touch her arms, there is noticable resistance the whole time. I think I could push through with higher SMV and be successful but it felt really rapey…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 02:41 PM
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Spot on. L-20M-R, my Olympic sport at the moment. Have started to just walk away after a few minutes and move on. More info in comment below.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 02:30 PM
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OYS 5: (Feb. 11, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 128lb, 15% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, Max 5x5 squat 210, bench 130, OHP 95,row 125, dead 225 Mission: Be the man I want to be. Be better today than I was yesterday. Reading: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, 6 pillars of self-esteem, book of pook (re-reading everything, starting over) Lifting / Diet: I am looking fluffy, put on a few pounds in the last few weeks. Out of town and ate more, hit my workouts, but it wasn't enough. Since I was a fat fuck for years, …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 11:56 AM
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I'll work on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/20 04:15 AM
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Dek or ice?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/20 04:14 AM
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OYS 4: (Jan. 28, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 13-15% bf, 5'3", 5/3/1, Max 5x5 squat 210, bench 130, OHP 95,row 125, dead 225 Mission: I am a confident man, with integrity. My goals are my driving force. I am courageous and lead others through my actions. When I fail, I learn and become stronger. Others rely on me as the oak. I am active and let my interests lead me to new adventures, which I invite others to share with me. I am my own judge. I am the prize. Reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, S…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 11:56 AM
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Brutal
/r/askMRP21/01/20 09:35 PM
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I wanted to hear him say it, though.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 09:02 PM
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Thanks. BBB looks up my alley.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 09:01 PM
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What advice do you have for overcoming height challenges?
/r/askMRP21/01/20 05:10 PM
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OYS 4: Jan. 21, 2020 Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 13% bf, 5'3", 5x5, squat 205, bench 125, OHP 95, row 125, dead 220 Mission: I am a confident man, with integrity. My goals are my driving force. I am courageous and lead others through my actions. When I fail, I learn and become stronger. Others rely on me as the oak. I am active and let my interests lead me to new adventures, which I invite others to share with me. I am my own judge. I am the prize. Reading: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, 6 p…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 11:34 AM
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Sounds like an abundance issue. Say you're at Dread 4 or 5, like you say. At least 1 other girl who you can fuck. This weekend. Is there any question? Also, move out of your parent's ASAP. Based on the post, they've been fucking with your head since childhood. I interact with mine as little as possible, because they spin me up bad. You don't need anyone's opinion here. What kind of place would this be if even one person said "she's cheating but you should def stay put." Get it done ASAP, get on …
/r/askMRP17/01/20 03:54 AM
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"I work on ME for ME." That's my new mantra. I need to burn it in, because I am worse than a depressed angry faggot, I'm an entitled one. Thank you. You're spot on with everything here. I opened NMMNG again this morning and started again. Doing the goddamn breakouts this time. The first time around planted a seed but my bitterness and anger wouldn't let it grow. My whole life has become a giant covert contract, I let my ego fuel.
/r/askMRP15/01/20 07:47 PM
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I'll bite. What would be the benefit to actively starting the divorce process vs. quietly improving?
/r/askMRP15/01/20 06:12 PM
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No doubt. I can and will leave them behind. But fuck man, would it suck. Thanks for your time today btw.
/r/askMRP14/01/20 10:06 PM
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Cool. Going to find the Wendler book tonight.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:58 PM
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I'm definitely not ready. But I can live alone and rebuild if it comes to that.
/r/askMRP14/01/20 08:56 PM
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I like the idea. Lotta horror stories on here but I think a 50/50 split is most likely (if it's a legal option). Just not that much to fight over. I'll look into that too. I've thought about my go plan. Part of me wants the house and part of me would sign it away for a new life in a new place. Leaning toward option 2, but I love my dogs. Edit: yes it's a few hundred dollars for uncontested in my state
/r/askMRP14/01/20 05:22 PM
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One and done. Used to bang out a few a day. No desire at this point. Thanks for the info. I'll meet someone and talk about it.
/r/askMRP14/01/20 04:36 PM
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I jerk off once every couple weeks, or if I get blue ball pain. I found a lawyer to meet with a month ago. I'll make an appointment (is first consultation free?) Think it would be a pretty simple deal given we don't have kids. House has a small amount of equity at this point. Dogs would be the main issue. I put up down payment out of my personal account so I might have claim there. Wife makes 2x my salary fwiw
/r/askMRP14/01/20 03:30 PM
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This one hit home. Thanks.
/r/askMRP14/01/20 12:47 PM
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Quit porn. Haven't met with lawyer.
/r/askMRP14/01/20 11:34 AM
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OYS 3: (Jan. 13, 2020) Stats: 28, married 4 years, 125lb, 13% bf, 5'3", 5x5, squat 205, bench 125, OHP 95,row 125, dead 220 Mission: I am a confident man, with integrity. My goals are my driving force. I am courageous and lead others through my actions. When I fail, I learn and become stronger. Others rely on me as the oak. I am active and let my interests lead me to new adventures, which I invite others to share with me. I am my own judge. I am the prize. Reading: MMSLP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, 6 …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 11:30 AM
1

Maybe you're right. I was hoping to avoid some of the noob mistakes, but I didn't. Thanks for the link.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 09:35 PM
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I get some interest from girls at work. I can hold conversation and be charming. Get smiles when I walk around. I don't have women dropping me numbers in the wild and know I have a lot of work to do in cold approach. Recently been to some parties though, chatting it up with other women, making them laugh, and my wife will grab my arm, hug or kiss me. About the only time it happens.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 08:52 PM
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I went the opposite way. 8 months of deep thought isn't an instant cure. Probably equally as unhelpful though.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:53 PM
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Been married 4 years. The last time I got an unsolicited BJ... What's an unsolicited BJ?
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:40 PM
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I wanted to be alone with the ideas for a while. Took them as far as I could, now see the benefit of the locker room.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:29 PM
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I'm looking forward to starting TRT.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:19 PM
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TRT does seem a necessity for me.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:15 PM
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My question is how can I move on from dancing? I am working the program autistically, are there obvious next steps to being more natural? It's true that I started trying to get my wife to fuck me. She isn't. I'm still steadfast on working on me.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 04:49 PM
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Don't look back. Got it. You're right, I'm nowhere close. Need to get on the path and keep pushing.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 04:30 PM
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I'm not even Asian. Lol
/r/askMRP13/01/20 04:27 PM
1

You're probably right, I could have gained a lot by posting throughout the last year.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 04:26 PM
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His name is Alex Anderson. His name is Alex Anderson.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 09:02 PM
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It's a fair question at this point.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:42 AM
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I've finally got the masts up and charting course on the USS PussyDestroyer. Do I actively discuss mission and help FO find her place? If so, how? Or wait until mini events / main event, when she comes asking, to share? Basically, how do you officially promote wife to FO and get to Phase 2 (true captain / FO). I'm autistically creating a maze for her based on my vision but feel that I haven't spoken my vision into existence. She isn't bought in, and as such, isn't stepping up as my FO. It may be…
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:53 PM
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Not the main event, but keep grinding. You need time to improve your understanding of how it all works together. Good luck, man!
/r/askMRP03/01/20 04:06 AM
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Agreed. I came to realize I was giving zero comfort. Ever. There's another post on here, I think a 1 year FR, about upping baseline comfort. Testing that out personally, and so far, seeing some encouraging results. Must be non-needy comfort!
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:51 AM
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The stories are entertaining. I like the fuck shit up and fix it mentality. That said, this is not good advice for newbs. He hasn't had time to marinade and internalize the concepts at 10 weeks. He is a badly dancing monkey that isn't making the circus, he's headed for the zoo. Also the anger stage is real as fuck and can last a long ass time. He might not even be there yet. Fuck shit up and fix it after year 1 of STFU. Let the concepts really sink in.l, start seeing the code and thinking proper…
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:43 AM
1

Hopefully not?
/r/askMRP28/12/19 06:33 AM
1

Rage Against the Machine. Became Audioslave.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 04:41 PM
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If somehow this isn't bullshit. I'll speak up to your point about us all being jaded. A word of caution. I too thought I was the motherfucking exception. A month into this or so. I look back at my notes. Basically: "Wife is ready to receive this gift of MRP I will bestow on her." I get off thinking I'm the fastest MRP study. You know, like you do. And let me tell you. The fall is going to break you, man. You're going to be absolutely crushed at the bottom. The only way you can make it better is …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 05:15 AM
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Starting to wonder if this sub is being spammed with bullshit
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 04:44 AM
4

I also dabbled heavily in self torture. Waking up to ruminate. Unpacking every little interaction. Searching for escape just like you. I'm still in process. Your friend doesn't want to hear it. Go to a shrink, book an appointment this week, and start unpacking the shame. Cry on the fucking couch if you have to, get it out there with your wife miles away. At the end of the line, after you talk out your bullshit, you will realize it's ultimately on you to step up and move on. Get to that point. Wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 05:42 PM
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Not a ton of OYS stats from guys of this height. Nice to see where I can take my lifts from someone similar. I'm still sub 200 on DL and squats but very near those milestones. Looking forward to packing on to that size.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 07:37 PM
1

Found the other short guy! Fuck ya. What are your lifts?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 07:24 PM
1

I paid for the Kindle book out of pocket, so it would be disappointing for that to be true.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 10:01 PM
1

I read the BPP book, and saw him pop up in the OYS comment section this week. He doesn't seem to push his stuff that hard on here but the book is the shit (as are his youtube videos).
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 04:46 PM
1

It's actually a big piece of enneagram type 6 people. Some call it "threat forecasting." I'm not sure if/how it fits into MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 04:32 PM
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Spent an hour typing up a full OYS 2, all nice-like into Reddit. Computer froze and I lost everything. Lesson learned, I'll type up in Notepad first from now on, then paste in. Here's the summary: Still learning what I want to write here and in what level of detail I've been fighting a virus, got squat to 145 and upped bench to 110 but failed in set three, dropped to 105 Two of my lifting numbers were incorrect last week, I'm currently BP (105) and Row (95) interactions with wife this week were …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 01:41 PM
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Around 22-25% currently. I would like to tighten up before bulking. I'll keep my eye out for that section of the book and tune in. I struggle with looking very young due to size + baby face, and unfortunately losing weight and getting skinny, for me, is like a Benjamin Button scenario. I will definitely need to bulk.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 06:39 PM
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:)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 11:11 AM
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Ok. I'll give it serious thought. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 04:29 PM
1

Thanks for the links, I am reading now!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 03:26 PM
1

f I'm here for the hard truths, but glad you liked the dog stat lol. I have to keep reminding myself that it's all my fault, when I find myself getting mad. Just because my mindset changed in 3 months doesn't immediately revert the few years of my bullshit in her mind. As for your other suggestions, notes taken.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 03:21 PM
1

You're the reason I'm posting. Thanks. I lift 3x per week and to exhaustion. The numbers will rise, results are being achieved from a visual standpoint. Starting from scratch here and it shows in the numbers. Mission "command a room" is dog shit and plan to read up on it this week to include a solid mission next week. That being said I do feel a sense a purpose and motivation to wade these murky waters. A mission will round this out. I specifically included daily weed use in this post and expect…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 03:11 PM
1

Thanks man. Excited to get into Book of Pook and ratchet up the "fun."
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 02:14 PM
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OYS #1 “Tear Me Up, Boys, I’m ready” (April 30, 2019) Mission: command a room ​ Stats: 3 month lurker, 27M, married 3 years, 2 dogs, 5’4”, 133lb (start: 160, goal: lean 125) Edit: OHP: 75, squat: 140, bench: 80, dead: 140, row: 80 ​ Reading: Completed: -BPP “Guide to Low Sex Marriage” -NMMNG -MMSLP ​ Current: -WISNIFG -Book of Book ​ Background: Met at college, both have very religious families. I was captain of cocky-funny and she ate it up at the time. ​ A few years ago I got married, moved fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 11:13 AM
2

Tonic for the soul. We can and must be better men.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 06:01 PM
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You got this
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 02:27 PM
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Yep, similar situation here. Fuck man, great post. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/19 12:01 AM
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