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Whatever, man. I'm sure your happy believing most women will love you unconditionally and faithfully if you treat them right. Ignorance is bliss, they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:07 AM
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We don't really have a catch-all, nondescriptive, bs term like "the patriarchy"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:00 AM
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Only if a woman is saying it ("don't question women law" is more powerful than the "don't talk about TRP" law.) If a man wrote this he'd be fire by now. She has the vag shield AND "this is just my personal experience" shield against feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:54 AM
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There are always a few. Like there a few people in Dubai? Or a few stars in the sky? What's few isn't women who are attracted to red pill men, but those that actively admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:52 AM
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So basically, if it doesn't align with your many, many experiences you don't take it seriously. Fixed that for you. When someone tells me they saw a leprechaun, I'm not skeptical because I don't believe in leprechauns, but because all other evidence in my life has proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:45 AM
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Unconditional love. While not all, or even most, men have unconditional love for their women, that is the standard of what love is for a man, to love your partner no matter the circumstance or change. Love for a woman is always conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:44 AM
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Most feminist women complain about male privilege and how men have it easier, yet I doubt most would say they would actually rather be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:40 AM
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Because most of the guys on TRP have been red pullers their whole life and aren't coming off a string of relationships from their BP days. And after sleeping with a slew of women who are dating guys who think they are perfect unicorns, I tend to take the "I've never dated a hypergamous woman" thing seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:37 AM
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Like most things, after a while you don't have to work for it anymore. I don't worry about shit tests and not losing frame because being weak, needy, and subservient to women isn't my base level anymore. It's muscle memory, I don't exert more effort than any other guy when it comes to sex and relationships. It's second nature. Also, I doubt the guys who came into TRP really were having much "fun" in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:34 AM
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Red pill and alpha have no direct connection really. Taking TRP just means accepting the truth about sexual dynamics. Of course, upon realizing this, most men want to be alpha. The typical example is the fat, angry neckbeard who hates women. Someone who is blue pill can still be an alpha male, it just means they don't actively understand sexual dynamics. There are plenty of guys who have lots of sex bit refuse to accept the red pill (while inadvertently living up to every standard of it).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:29 AM
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You do know the main technique to get over LMR, dating from back to oldschool "The Game" and Mystery PUA days is to completely recede back and end the sexual mood completely. Eh... I've seen it go other ways. On the "Comprehensive Guide to The Red Pill" they define Last Minute Resistance as: "Contrary to feminist sloganeering, no doesn't always mean no. Often times “no” simply means “not yet”. Simplest advice is to back off and try again later, or if she's adamant and clearly shutting you down. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:24 AM
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I tend to have a different opinion than the rest of TRP on LMR. My position is, if a woman lets me do all of the above, and she shuts me down when I try to seal the deal, I get right up and leave, then never call her again. Ghost. I delete her number, delete her on FB, and ignore her forever. Nuclear option. And it's not because I'm afraid of a rape charge. It's simply because I'm in my early 30's now, and I don't have time for women who want to play teenager games That's a very common view in T…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:22 AM
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Go monk mode--Drop all your friends, no matter how important to you, because they are losers and betas that will hold you back (although some RPers do think you should drop "beta" friends IIRC) Means strictly taking some time to focus on self-improvement and getting rid of distractions. You don't drop all your friends forever. Although dropping lazy, boring, toxic friends is good advice in general. LMR--Like someone else said, "power through" and just keep taking her clothes off because no means…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 03:47 AM
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Manipulate your SO in order to see that you are a catch when you, in fact, are not. If we said "become a catch" would that be better? Getting into that grey area of rape that can get you into trouble with the law, but fuck that because getting your dick wet is more important than possibly going to jail and traumatizing your partner. You do know the main technique to get over LMR, dating from back to oldschool "The Game" and Mystery PUA days is to completely recede back and end the sexual mood co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 03:45 AM
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Get over last minute resistance Rape. This is what blue pillers actually believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 03:36 AM
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Get over Last Minute Resistance: Dont back down when you see somebody is interested Although that is absolutely the opposite of what that is, most BPers think that's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 03:03 AM
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I think it's all related to abundance of sex. Men rarely have frequent sex as an option, women almost always have an opportunity to have sex. If women had sex to feel fun/safe/loved then they would be having sex 24/7 because it's so easy for the average looking woman to fuck an average to above average man. So they naturally attach a higher standard. A rich person will buy a fancy item when they're in the mood to. If a poor person buys a fancy item it makes them feel good. A rich person can't bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 02:32 AM
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I could see the same situation happening with a young guy and an older woman, or both of the same gender. Yeah, because that situation is awfully familiar and available to most guys. We live in the real world. The one were the sexual market is highly in favor of women, and an average woman has the option to fuck a guy for a place to sleep and then take his money, where a man would have to straight up mug someone. Men rely on physical strength in crisis situations, women rely on their ability to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 03:30 AM
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Remember, women are always the victims. It's like saying "This guy offered me $100 to get kicked in the nuts, I accepted it, and he kicked me in the nuts! I WAS BRUTALIZED, HOW COULD HE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME LIKE THAT!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 03:26 AM
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I love how she said it was him taking advantage of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 03:21 AM
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I think men prefer it that way. It seems men don't feel "masculine" unless a woman is validating them or yielding to them. Whereas I wouldn't feel any less like a woman with or without a man. Thanks menstrual cycle for the monthly reminder! I think being in the presence of a beautiful, feminine woman makes us feel more masculine (ignoring those who feel afraid of women). It's been proven that being around attractive women raises a mans testosterone. Talking to them gives an even greater boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 03:12 AM
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I think the major problem men now have with dating advice (especially in TRP) is that it isn't judged on how it actually works or is effective. People will say whatever sounds right without actually seeing if it works in the first place. If a man wants to have more sex, and not just find a nice girl to settle down with, there is no place to actually go for that advice that is actually checked that isn't constantly on the attack (and women are the only ones who get shamed for wanting sex, amirite…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 03:03 AM
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For anyone interested in the biological and evolutionary aspects of the polygamy vs. monogamy debate, check out "Sex At Dawn". It's a great book on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 02:55 AM
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You are completely, and I believe intentionally, ignoring my point that dread game for women is generally and unconscious and automatic effect. I am not saying women intentionally employ dread game. Women will always have more sexual options than a man of equal personality, looks, as long as she is pre-wall. Therefore their dread game is implied if they are pre-wall and at least mildly attractive. Every man knows their SO can get a Tinder account and be flooded with requests for sex. And yes, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 05:54 AM
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]I don't have a right to my girlfriends body. I do have a right to leave her ass if she isn't having sex with me as much as I want. The fact that you see this as abuse is downright hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:39 AM
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There are plenty of famous, academic feminists who have said really horrible, vile things about men. Should I grab the list?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:35 AM
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They don't need an extra edge. That's like saying Megan Fox would get an extra edge if she learned to cook steak sous vide. No one who finds her hot wouldn't fuck her because she was a shitty cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:31 AM
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This question is the same as asking feminists "But why don't you fight for men's feelings and rights, why don't you fight for men's issues?" Because it's a women's movement and they could give less than a shit. The only difference being TRP doesn't pretend that they are fighting for both men and women equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:27 AM
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Seriously, how does "powering through" LMR come off as a RP mindset? 90% of PUA and RP game tactics come from how someone who could have sex with just about any woman would treat the situation. How would that person deal with LMR? By trying extra hard and pushing through or giving up and saying it's too big of a hassle?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:25 AM
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Dread game, put simply, is a reminder that you have options. That's it, no more no less. It is implicit for women. In our current sexual situation, men have much less access to sex than a woman, as long as she is not obese or has some other major hit against her (and even then, obese women or whatnot have more opportunity than their male counterparts). Women don't have to actively run dread game, they always will have options. The cat calling movement is clear evidence. A comment like "Oh a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:16 AM
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Dread game for an averagely attractive woman is automatic, for men it's only available by having many alpha traits or something similar that makes having other sexual options available in your life possible. A mid 20's woman who has a shitty career, a boring personality, and nothing going for her has thousands of men willing to have sex with her. A man with the same qualities would have to work very hard to have a new sexual partner. I know that, you know that, everyone knows it no matter how we…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:15 AM
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The thing feminists have never considered or cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 07:58 AM
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You're thinking of /r/seduction. Hell, not even that, that's real old school PUA stuff "Say these lines and you'll get super laid". TRP is all about saying "If you want to be attractive to women, here's a guideline, but it requires massive work, reevaluating who you are and where our life is headed, and putting in lots of time and effort." Most scummy, "get laid quick!" programs are all about sales and lying to the consumer to get them to pay $49.99 for your book. The fact you believe what you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 07:56 AM
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I think TRPs massive boon has more to do with a legitimate affront from feminism. Not just feminism, but general misinformation about sex and relationships. People have been told to follow what society wants to work, not what does work. Attraction is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 07:52 AM
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I'm spinning 4 plates and advancing in my career. Life is great! (Yet I have time to sit on TRP giving long field reports and endless long responses to the field reports/posts of others) Giving back to a community that helped you get where you were is pretty common. And having four hook ups is not as big of a time sink as you think it might be. From a BP mindset, I can see why you'd think having four plates would be some huge amount of effort and time. I'm going to LTR one of my plates. She dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 07:50 AM
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Well if you like fucking big, strong, burly women I guess I can see where I was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:29 AM
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Mods thought it was bluepill for some reason. Their sub, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:19 AM
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Quite funny how feminists will say false rape accusations are a miniscule problem while in the same breathe complain about the gap between rape accusations and convictions. A world run by women, this is the result men. And they won't stop.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 05:14 PM
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And not only in the beginning. Universities have grades, businesses have quarterly reviews, etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:32 PM
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I doubt it. Why would she tell him? If she wanted to swing branches, she would just hook up with the guy, hide it, then change her relationship status a week after the breakup. It was what he said, a shit test. Her version of dread game. Perhaps she feels that OP hasn't been showing enough love, or hasn't given her enough attention. So she's letting him know that she has plenty of guys after her and wanted to gauge his response. Women are men's whetstones, constantly providing the resistance nee…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 12:48 AM
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A woman doesn't give a shit about fair, except when her slice of the pie is smaller. Hmm, that seems awfully familiar to a certain women's movement.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:25 PM
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Which makes it equally infuriating how vehemently women are against it. They don't even bother to veil it under women's rights, it is so obviously solipsism and hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 08:04 AM
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Mark Manson defines this as a "polarizing trait". Basically, if you have a polarizing trait you make women who are neutral about you either receptive or unreceptive. To have attract any woman you must do this eventually. Having a polarizing trait makes it instantaneous. Those who don't will have to waste time seeing if women are receptive or not. Some women are very unattracted to black men (you'll generally find the vagina to be far more racist than the penis) and others are extremely attracted…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 08:00 AM
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Feminists complain about unrealistic beauty standards. They complain about objectification. But never in my life have I seen a man call a woman "pathetic" for having small breasts, being chubby, or being ugly. Attractiveness for women comes from their beauty, so we judge them only skin deep. Her attractiveness is a sum of her physical parts. This is why women are objectified, because we don't tie what we find attractive in them to their character. Men are held to a much higher general standard, …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 07:49 AM
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I consciously don't use any of the tactic,s of TRP that I deem to be "bad". My moral standard is also considerably higher than that of most on TRP. Well then which do you deem to be "bad" and "not bad"? And by consciously being aware of not using certain RP tactics, how are you able to still subconsciously use others? What makes some TRP tactics bad is the way in which they are used. Whatever I do, I always think through the effects before I do so. If someone will get hurt, it doesn't matter if …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 12:56 AM
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Blue pill society teaches men to completely live for their wives, to treat them like princesses. They must focus on the happiness of their wife first, spending less time on all the things that make them independent if necessary. BP society teaches codependency. TRP teaches outcome independence, living life for yourself, to next women mercilessly, and to not be surprised by their hypergamous impulses. It teaches you that both you and your partner would be happier if you lived life for yourself. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 12:51 AM
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Does that make you a bad person? Is what makes suggesting these tactics bad the fact that it's a conscious effort instead of a natural action?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 12:30 AM
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From Robert Greene's The 48 Laws of Power: To some people the notion of consciously playing power games — no matter how indirect — seems evil, asocial, a relic of the past. They believe they can opt out of the game by behaving in ways that have nothing to do with power. You must beware of such people, for while they express such opinions outwardly, they are often among the most adept players at power. They utilize strategies that cleverly disguise the nature of the manipulation involved. These t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 10:02 AM
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What was the basis for defining an "opposite sex partner"? What level of sexual contact is needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:56 AM
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I absolutely would never dread game if it didn't work so goddamned well. I never saw dread game as a thing you do, but a lifestyle. A lifestyle of abundance. It's all about living a life that says "I have a life, options, and standards". If a guy who lives an abundant lifestyle starts dating a woman, he doesn't have to "run dread game" on her, she already knows (although she will try her best to end that). Implicating "dread game" is telling someone with a shitty life, a bad body, no friends, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:45 AM
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I love how Blue Pillers say that RPers are socially dumb robots, but have not even the slightest idea of how people flirt. You see him saying "sucked" as him straight - faced, genuinely trying to hurt her feelings. It doesn't even cross your mind that he looked at her, smiling, and jokingly said it sucked. It's just so obvious on my end, but it's just funny to see how someone less experienced takes these things at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:36 AM
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That's not creepy. You know what is? Blue pill guys trying to hit on women, especially the ones who are so vehemently against this stuff. Some of the creepiest, cringe worthy stuff I've seen is from vehemently vocal pro-women, non RP guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:26 AM
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I'd say, besides the ugliness (I'm not sure what you're getting at with the comparison, why would we try to fuck so many women if we found them all ugly), I generally agree. There's so much evidence, why wouldn't it have some validity? But here's the kicker, you could say all that in public and not worry about it. Post that on facebook, many women would probably agree with you publicly and not be ostracized for it. If someone pulled up that post and showed your boss, you wouldn't be fired. At th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:21 AM
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But if women are mentally children then how can you expect them to be able to handle adult sentences when men are really the only adults? You are taking "mental children" to mean "have the brains of children", while it means "childish" as in "of, like, or appropriate to a child." Like if I saw a man who spent all day playing video games, who blamed everyone else for his problems, who did nothing and expected everything in return, I'd say he was a mental child or "childish", but if he killed some…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:14 AM
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Because feminism pushes the narrative of women being completely equal to men in every way, and deserve equal treatment, yet completely ignores that women are given lighter punishments and does nothing to change the fact. Feminists claim to be trying to create a completely equal society while only pushing for benefits for women and ignoring all else. Pussy pass never used to be in the lexicon, everyone understood that women got treated differently than men because women were different than men. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:06 AM
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With most of these things, I used to not get angry at the fact that this existed as it did make sense, but that the fact that the literal reverse would be considered extremely sexist and the target of multiple women's rights campaigns. Now, of course, it's all just another grain of sand on the beach of female solipsism (when it helps me, it's logical and understandable; when it hurts me, it's evil) and hypergamy evidence.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:12 AM
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Compound this by most women's gut reaction to men giving each other actual advice that works to be more attractive to women (aka stuff that is field tested and proven to work and not "be yourself, just be sweet and nice, worrying about getting laid is lame and vain, aim to be marriage material) and you get a perfect concoction to keep men from upwards mobility. I remember reading a story about a Chinese (I believe) man who dumped his wife after she gave birth to an ugly baby, finding out that sh…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:45 AM
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This is why I love Dominique Francon from The Fountainhead. Absolutely personified this.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:11 AM
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It's funny how many will see those guys as pathetic and saying those women are only loving then for their money, and completely ignore the guys who get sent to the cleaners by their wives.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:26 AM
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No no no. That was in the past. And it wasn't really cheating, I just fucked him once or twice. And now that I think about it I really didn't say yes, so he raped me. I mean I said "yes, yes!" when he was fucking my ass and cumming on my face, but I didn't give full, specific consent to the first kiss. God, just shut up! I'm a rape victim, why are you harassing a rape victim!?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:55 PM
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If you had cancer, wouldn't you want to know? Sure it may hurt to find it out, you may face your mortality much sooner than you wanted, but you can get treatment. Knowing the truth could save you. What if you were in a relationship where your woman was cheating on you. Would you want to know that? The initial pain would hurt, it would ruin the relationship, but would you rather go on fucking a woman who's sucking some other guy's dick and raising his kid than be ignorant about what's happening? …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 07:03 PM
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It just happens sometimes. She has the ring off, she intentionally doesn't mention having a boyfriend, and she tells you after the fact or right before you're about to dive in. At first I was disgusted, "Why I never! What sort of a man do you take me for, you're a horrible woman!" After like the 12th time it happened, I honestly just stopped giving a fuck. Women will lie about having a boyfriend to get some beta off their trail, and lie about not having one to get some alpha dick. Such is life.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:54 PM
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Also, this is a big pleaser to the liberal arts and women's studies students, and they make the college more money. Someone who goes to school for an actual career that's hiring doesn't waste time. They go through their four years and are looking onwards towards their bright future. Those who go for art and women's studies? They know there is no career that pays enough to live off of. So maybe they get their masters, maybe they get a double major in another one ("You majored on women's studies a…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:50 AM
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That is so completely naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 04:19 AM
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Ugly women will have a hard time in any setting -- hell, lots of average-looking women struggle even in that environment. Ugly women don't have an easier time getting sex than average or attractive women, but they have a hell of a lot easier time than a man of even close to her attractiveness. Don't believe me, create a fake Tinder account for an ugly woman and an average looking man and see who gets more people trying to fuck them. With even those unequal starts, I guarantee the woman would get…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 03:56 AM
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Why, how eloquent. I'm officially been out-debated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:43 PM
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Haha, what? So for men to get sex we have to do something illegal when women can get it pretty much anytime? And at $100 a pop? Way to make my point for me. You're in finance, you should see the basic economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 09:52 AM
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Ok, so the analogy is wrong not because of the basic idea, but because of the specific job. Since getting sex (for women), is not a meritocracy, what would be good job? What about TV? Kid of a very famous director vs. kid with no prior experience? Let's work from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 09:51 AM
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... In America? Is prostitution legal already?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 09:49 AM
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Well let's take someone like Donald Trumps son (does he even have one?). Let's say you hear Donald Trumps son is now the Vice President of Trump Inc. or whatever they fuck he calls it. The son has a BS college degree you know he pretty much go without working for it, and did no work to rise up in the company. Now that poor black guy is Vice President of an equally important and high class real estate company. What do you think of Trumps son. Sure he's getting all the money and power the black gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 09:05 AM
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I would, 100%, much rather be born a rich white dude than a poor black one, even if Affirmative Action were doubled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 09:01 AM
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Again, the comparison for white-rich to black-poor. Much easier for one to get the same result as the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:42 AM
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Eh, I don't really care, that is just the way they want to live. Whether I think they place too much or too little value on it is a moral judgment that is irrelevant. I find sleeping around unimpressive, not repulsive. I don't know, you just said how you thought men who wanted to sleep with women were hollow. That seems like a moral judgement. And it's easy to find things unimpressive when you lack the ability to do them. It's easy to take something you can't do and say "Meh, it's unimpressive a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:41 AM
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Now, the guy who PUA'd his way into having sex with 50 women? Not so much. He has absolutely ZILCH to show for it. No money, no prestige, nada. Totally unimpressive by most people's standards. It's actually funny now that I think about it. That guy I mentioned, the guy who's super good in business. I know a lot of those types. Most are lonely as fuck. The only way they can get a woman's attention is by flashing money and getting gold diggers. They look at guys like me and would give up their for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:31 AM
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Women have to work hard to be attractive. They go to the gym, they spend a lot of time on their hair and make up, they spend more time on looking good than most guys do. But objectively, to get the same amount of sexual opportunities, there is nowhere near a comparison girl to guy, just like there isn't for black-poor to white-rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:22 AM
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A woman who sleeps around also puts a higher value on sex. See, you're digging at women who sleep around now too. Are you saying instead of "slut/stud", it should be "slut/slut"? I'm fine with that, but I doubt your BP buddies would be. Quick, find a way to get around it. One lasts longer than the other and yet, if you do it only to get laid, it's completely hollow, since you aren't doing it yourself, so much as for the acceptance of others. By learning skills and carrying them throughout life i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:21 AM
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... Why does the woman not value sex so highly? You just said women and men put in an equal amount of work to get sex. If so, why is a man working on himself and improving himself to get laid mean nothing, while a woman putting on a cute dress and some make up not effect you. If anything, working on your confidence, intelligence, wit, and life improves everything about you. I've ruined a girls dress and make up in a night of passionate sex. One lasts much longer than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:10 AM
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So you're saying which one game matters more in vs. looks? If you aren't a tall, handsome, white guy (black guys will polarize and get super easy lays because of all the stereotypes going both ways, latinos not so much, Asians and Arabs will have to work twice as hard as white guys) then Tinder is not for you. If you're in with a social circle, you have your SMV already laid out (good or bad), so it's easy to work with. More risk though if you're new and fuck up you're calibrations. Bars and clu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:08 AM
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So you're saying that a guy who sleeps with a lot of women isn't seen as a stud by society, or shouldn't be? Because I know the word "Womanizer" is thrown at sexually successful men a lot, whether the women they sleep with call them that or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:04 AM
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Ok, so a man puts A amount of work hours in for finding sex an a woman puts A amount of work hours in for finding sex, and the man gets 10 opportunities for sex but the woman gets 1000 opportunities. But if a man put's 10A in he gets 100 opportunities. And you still don't see why the slut/stud thing works?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:57 AM
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are just socially inept or have low prospects or both. ... so betas? You can call a light bulb a tomato for all I care, but it still emits light and would taste horrible if I bit into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:55 AM
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A man saying "hi" isn't catcalling. A man saying "hey babe, you got a nice rack" to a random woman on the street is catcalling. Referring to this catcalling video, here are some things considered verbal harassment or catcalling. "How are you this morning?" "Have a nice evening." "What's up, miss?" Are you saying if a woman said to a man "How are you this morning?" or "Have a nice evening" or "What's up, sir?" that it would be featured on a catcalling video? And don't go talking about context. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:52 AM
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They are, but not in the availability of sex. You know what complementary means? Doesn't mean equal, that's for sure. It means they complement each other. It means they are different yet fit together. Red and green aren't complementary colors because red is green, but because red brings out the best in green and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:46 AM
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However, very attractive men get hit on all the time. Yes! But average women get hit on just as much if not more! If you want to see things be different, the societal expectation should be for either gender to be allowed to approach. But you see, instead of women being more allowed to approach (although that is happening), men are being more harshly scrutinized for approaching women. Saying "Hi" is now considered cat-calling. A woman saying "hi", or even "hey sexy, what are you up to?" would nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:43 AM
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... What TRP'er said that? I absolutely guarantee it's not equal overall if you're talking about the exact same results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:39 AM
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But I think TRP vastly overstates the work that men have to do if they want to get laid. And by vastly, I mean grand canyon vast. Ok, let's take a woman and man, both face and body wise considered equally attractive, without any makeup, dress, grooming, etc. What do you think the man has to do to get the same amount of opportunities to have sex without approaching as the woman does? You can easily recreate this with Tinder, I'll help you test this if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:38 AM
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I feel you're still actively avoiding the really obvious meaning of the analogy because you don't have a legitimate response. Prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:35 AM
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Take a man and woman who, without dressing well, without wearing make up, without grooming, without any work, are equal in looks. Who gets laid more easily? Take a well groomed, well dressed, average looking guy and put him up against a chubby girl with no make up and see who gets more attention on Tinder. If you deny it, I dare you to try. Even if you take a woman who puts a lot of work into her looks, it barely compares to what a man needs to do get the same amount of sexual opportunity as her…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:34 AM
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Same amount of work, different amount of opportunities. Whether we're talking about how easy it is for women to get laid, or how easy it is for rich white guys to get jobs, then you're just delusional either way. However, people manufacture opportunities to attain the things they want. Let's face it, you don't get to a high level without working your ass off. Woah, hey. I thought you weren't into TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:25 AM
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You just need social acuity. I could get the most BP, feminist woman to agree with some RP truths if I word it correctly. A truth is a truth, they are hard to deny by definition.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:13 AM
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You're missing the point, I feel intentionally. Do you agree that it's much easier for the rich/white guy to get a high status job in the long run, and that a poor black person would have to put in much more work to get the same job?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:08 AM
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See, the point of this whole thing is for BP'ers to accept that some people are born with something easier than others. Just that acceptance alone allows the sluts vs. studs debate to be legitimized. It's not perfect, but it's very hard to deny one while accepting the other. A woman who's a barely attractive getting laid is like a rich guy getting a job his dads bank as a teller. A black guy who put in as much effort would be lucky to have a job at Arby's. An attractive woman who works out, puts…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:06 AM
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In general, I guess overall it's anti-male purely numbers wise. But if there was no slut-shaming, it doesn't mean your average beta gets laid more, it just means the alpha guys get laid twice as much. Women don't hook up with beta guys because of slut shaming, it's because they aren't attracted to them. No amount of anti-slut shaming will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:52 AM
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telling him that once entered, he can never leave.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qidScNKzjX4
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:50 AM
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I dunno, I'd rather have a key that opens any lock once than a lock that is opened by any key any time. Although I fail to see when we started talking about failed keys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:48 AM
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I bet if I didn't put on a dress, makeup, shaved, I wouldn't get anyone talking to me...what if I didn't shower? Ewww. I'm actually totally down for it. You dressed down to the maximum, no make up, not shaved (feminist wet dream, right?) and not showered vs. a guy exactly as attractive (even maybe more so) dressed down, not shaved, and not showered. Each of you goes up to someone of the opposite sex and say "Hey, do you want to have sex?" and see who gets laid first. I'm down if you are. did you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:47 AM
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I'd probably go to a bar with less nerdy arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:38 AM
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Getting a guy into rp is like getting someone into spicy food. You don't just shove a ghost pepper down their throat. Start off with a dash of red pepper flakes on pizza, move up to Sriracha on eggs, then hot wings, then before you know it you both are chewing the Habeñero peppers on your gumbo.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:37 AM
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Honestly, in our culture, there isn't a woman who enjoys sex who isn't a slut in one way or another. There are just about no girls who really like and are good at sex without having 30 odd partners. Unlimited access to sex joined with an all-time low in consequences for such is a tricky equation. I don't mind if a woman was or is a slut, better sex honestly. I just date without commitment for a long time and see what other red flags come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:28 AM
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Well it seems silly for someone to spend a good amount of time replying to something they didn't spend the time to read. But you know me, I don't judge ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:20 AM
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Thankfully I have a master key. If you remember the analogy correctly "A key that opens many locks is a master key, a lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock". If a master key fails with one lock, it has a hundred others it can open. I was trying to teach most guys how to have a master key, but all the locks started protesting ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:17 AM
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Ok, I see what you're getting at. I think we diverted a bit at the beginning, but we're on the same page. I was using the black/poor-white/rich as a comparison to male-female in abundance of wealth/sex. You're smart enough to get that. I will say that just because a woman has more availability towards sex than a man doesn't mean she can use it to move up in the world. There is male and female privilege, they both work differently and concurrently towards each other, and just because one has it e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:11 AM
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Then you don't disagree with my original analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:06 AM
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What happens when you're shamed about ANYTHING? Food habits, music preferences, etc. If you get shamed for it, you're lying about it. That's basic psychology. Well you shame us for learning game, let alone learning TRP. I can call it even if you can. Women are born with the natural, innate ability to get laid compared to a man of completely equal physical attractiveness. If you women stop shaming men for learning to get better at getting sex, we'll stop shaming women for having sex. Deal? Not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:02 AM
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So you agree that the white wealthy man had a huge advantage over the black and poor man in my other post?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:44 AM
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Don't worry, I acknowledge racism. I don't give a fuck if the red pill subreddit doesn't (although I have to say that I see a lot of black posters there). Black men are more disenfranchised than any white woman. If TRP is very actively ignores that (at least as often as feminists remove the "man" from that part of the struggle of black men) then I would leave it in an instance. And I've seen feminists compare the women compare themselves to black people and their struggle it's fucking disgusting…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:39 AM
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If that's the case, why do so many women lie about their sexual past. Why are there so many "I fucked a bunch of guys and my current bf found out, what do I do?" posts on /r/relationships? Personally, I don't care about numbers. Women like sex and they have super easy access to it, I can't say I wouldn't do the same thing in the same situation. Sex is fucking awesome, it's one of the top 10 greatest pleasures I've experienced. And it women who fuck more fuck better (if they're with the right guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:33 AM
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C'mon, at least try. This is my first post here, I thought I could get a little bit of intellectual discussion going. Getting opposing viewpoints is good for the mind. If you actually don't get the point I'll type it out real simple like, but if you're just fucking around what's the point in debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:32 AM
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Holy shit, I never thought I'd say this, but you're making me feel like an SJW. I'm a sheltered suburban white boy, but even I know of the struggles of my black brothers and sisters to get to where I am by just being born in my skin color. I'm surprised you don't see that honestly. Nah, they both worked for where they got to until other information is given. Both deserve an equal amount of praise for their work. Haha I'm sure you believe that until it's convenient not to. Nope. Because there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:23 AM
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It might be fair to praise the black guy in this situation more, since he has to work harder to get to his position than the white guy and that effort is worthy of praise. How either of them attained their position has no bearing on how they fulfill there duties today though. Now they're just 2 hardworking guys moving up the company ladder. So you're saying that one has to work much harder than the other to get where they are now, but once they're on an even playing field it all depends on their…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 05:16 AM
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They mention drugging, is there actual talk about drugging women? If they were talking about, it's bloody wrong and they deserve everything they get. We are against actual rape (as opposed to regret sex rape that most feminists legitimize). But I'm looking for examples through many posts and have only seen it mention once without any sort of example. I don't want news posts and editorialized evaluations, I want actual evidence. I'm sure this is too much to ask nowadays. EDIT: Holy Shit. The "dru…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 04:59 AM
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No matter where you live, you should be able to find good fruit depending on the area. And in the areas where good fruit isn't available, you have to have some other resource I don't have (seafood, meat, etc) And I'll eat unripe fruit, I'm fucking lucky to be able to eat any fruit out of season compared to our ancestors, I'll take what I can get.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 04:46 AM
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Motherfucker you must be eating Walmart apples. I grew up in the apple state in the area with the most apple orchards per capita. Golden, Empire, and if you can get your hand on a Breaburn your good to go. But there's nothing better than the sweet, graceful taste of Red Delicious picked fresh from a tree on a dewy morning is a simple pleasure most won't experience.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:21 AM
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Your only source of sugar should be full fruit (not juice). You can convince me not to drink soda or eat a KitKat, but tell me to put down the Red Delicious apple and you've lost me.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:00 AM
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As someone who has a family full of former Motocross riders (including one surprisingly good female cousin) this kind of thing is ridiculously hard. I honestly would respect any woman there for being able to make it through. But the fact that not only were the best female riders they could find in the country and that this was completely signed off on us hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 01:05 AM
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To flip the genders, isn't "male entitlement" part of what feminism is trying to fight? Men feeling that they are owed attention/respect just because they are men? Feminists act like men are horrible and rude when getting rejected, but we're used to it. Have you ever seen a guy deny a girl, especially a hot one? If she doesn't try to hit the guy I'm genuinely surprised.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 01:43 AM
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My ex did the same. Discouraging me from going to the gym, making big meals and moping when I didn't eat a lot, posting links on my facebook about women preferring chubby guys. Yet the stronger I got and the more weight I lost, the more women paid attention to me and the more (and better) she fucked me.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 01:41 AM
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Women don't go to strip clubs to fulfill beta bux fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:03 PM
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Remember this isn't some low level skank or bad apple, this is a high level woman. This is the president's wife. This is a woman who has twice the approval rating of her husband. This is a woman lauded as a hero by all sorts of women, especially feminists, in America. And she is showing the basic, fundamental RP truths. And this isn't a dig at the first lady. As far as women go I have a large amount of respect for her. But she is a woman, and AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:37 PM
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It's funny. If a woman berates you for being emotionally unavailable and hurting her by not wanting to be with her, you're a jerk and her feelings are completely legitimized. But if a man even shows the slightest resentment towards a woman being physically unavailable towards him, he's fucking entitled Elliot Rodgers piece of shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:29 PM
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I'm sure you can do something where she pays on a monthly basis. If they can do it for child support, they can do it for this.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 02:13 AM
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As an aside, it's an amateur theory to assume that all girls are somewhat bisexual. There is a spectrum of sexuality in women (fully straight, fully lesbian, slightly bi-curious, etc) - I don't believe it changes when you hit 35 either. And many girls are legitimately repulsed by the thought of sleeping/ even kissing another woman. I know, the 'lesbian fantasy' in the media has men thinking otherwise, but it's true. I agree, but I'd like to bring up a few things: 1) There are way more women that…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 01:37 AM
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You know, I used to smoke. I don't anymore, it's in the past. But statistically, I'm a lot more likely to relapse and go on a chain smoking binge than someone who didn't. Get what I'm saying?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 01:26 AM
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These are the same women who will come here and say how disgusted they are with us, then probably cheat on their boyfriend with one of us a week later.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 06:06 AM
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I think the point of the majority of these is to show women how ridiculous they look and sound by reversing the genders.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 01:39 AM
1

See, that's the thing. This does sound like a great time and I don't judge her for wanting to do something like this. If some hot woman asked me to go with her on a amazing vacation for free, I'd accept. But she wants to have her cake and eat it too.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:53 PM
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That's something that's a bit more delicate and requires a bit more context. "I tried anal with my ex but stopped him because I didn't like it" is different than "I used to do it all the time with my ex, but didn't really like it". The context in the first was "I didn't like how it felt so I stopped" and the second was "I didn't really care for it, but he loved it so I did it for him". Overall it doesn't carry the same weight as the "I'm not that kind of girl anymore" BS that the post is more ab…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:45 AM
1

I still think marriage will be something that is expected of women and that they will feel like failures if they don't get married and have kids. But I guarantee you there will be a lot more prenups, and guys won't be pulling the "How dare you! You think I would do that to you!? What, are you planning on the marriage failing!" emotional trip that women manipulate men with.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:35 AM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. MOST WOMEN DO NOT MARRY FOR LOVE. They marry because it's expected of them. They marry because their friends already got married to a great guy. They marry because they know they are getting older. They get married because they've fantasized about their dream wedding (notice, the dream wedding has nothing to do with the person they are marrying as they have no input and are merely life-long placeholders). They will get married because they know they cou…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:45 AM
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The one thing I'm looking forward to, with women earning more than men, is women getting divorce raped at a crazy high rate. What do you think they will say? What do you think the odds are they will blame the patriarchy and sexism on the high number of women paying 50% of their salary to jobless men?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:09 AM
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"Oh fuck, my spouse isn't happy. Better shame him and divorce him for it instead of putting in any effort."
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 10:30 PM
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I've heard many older women who don't get catcalled any more say the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:20 AM
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In the reverse, if a girl has a common nickname everyone uses, don't use it. Either use her name or come up with a new one. For example, my girlfriend is called by a nickname by all of her friends. I have never once used that nickname. I once asked her after we were dating how shed feel if I started calling her by her nickname and she said "Eww, that's what my friends call me. Don't call me that."
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:16 AM
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With virgins you have to a) be genuine in yourself and your intentions and b) get more rapport than usual. That is generally my style, and I've bedded a lot of virgins (although they really aren't my preference). Also it's super likely they aren't virgins and are just using it as a LMR excuse, so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 06:32 AM
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What are some good resources for that?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:36 PM
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No one cares to ask how men feel. That's like asking women what they think.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:16 PM
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Always notice how they are against gender roles, but will shame MRA's by projecting female qualities onto them.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:15 PM
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My girlfriend literally said this when she was complaining about her future.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:41 PM
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Its funny, if a woman loves sex she will cheat on you eventually. If a woman doesn't, you have a dead bedroom with mediocre sex.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:32 AM
1

See that's the thing. You "acted" like you took the red pill, but that wasn't actually who you were. On the inside you were a beta. That is precisely why women shit test not only at the beginning, but all through a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:32 AM
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"Omg that is so sexist. Only a virgin misogynistic rapist would bring up that!"
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:54 PM
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Personally, I'm interested in how you guys end up here as it says a lot about society in general. And honestly, where else is he gonna tell this, r/relationships?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:43 AM
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It honestly just makes me grateful that I found this stuff (or at least stuff like it) early and didn't have to go through what he did. This may seem pathetic and idiotic to us, but soooooo many betas, even ones who haven't dated single moms, have a scarily similar story.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:05 AM
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But SJW's want men to treat it like its serious. And who are the only men who take SJW's seriously? Betas. And the cycle repeats.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 01:29 AM
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Probably the same reason non Jews didn't really question Nazism, or why most white people didn't question Jim Crow laws. It's easy to follow something without question when it does nothing but help you.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:20 PM
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Dude, look at her profile. Nearly every post is to creepypms. They aren't even funny or over the top. They're mostly guys trying to start conversations, her acting super bitchy, them calling her out on being a bitch, then "Woooah, fucking sexist creep". It's like she only has an account just to show everyone on reddit how much she's hit on and "lol so many creepers after me ;P". Just imagine if that was your life. You just hung out on a dating site not to meet someone or start a relationship, bu…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 09:48 PM
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This is what happens when you let women rule as women do (not as men do). Emotions over logic. Automatically believing a woman without proof so her feelings aren't hurt, while throwing men to the dogs. Can't say I'm surprised with the outcome so far. Eventually some poor, innocent guy is going to be proven guilty in the court of public opinion and will end up getting killed for it. I wonder if, even then, they'll say "automatically believe the accuser, what's the worse that could happen?" And I …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 09:39 PM
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This isn't even a man-woman issue, it's a maturity issue. An immature sees a problem and says "Someone should really fix that", an adult says "I should fix that". Now does our society coddle women to the point where they aren't forced to mature as much ad men? That's the real question.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 05:47 PM
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Do they know how hard it is to send a woman to jail for a false rape accusation? You have to prove 1) the rape didn't happen 2) she knew the rape didn't happen and 3) she lied so profusely and consistently with so much conflicting evidence that there is no doubt that she went in to lie and hurt another human being by manipulating the law. Motherfucker, how does that effect women who have actually been raped?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:24 AM
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I'd even say emotional cheating is stronger than regular. Women are driven by their emotions, and a man who controls those doesn't just own her pussy, but her mind and everything else about her. Even if they haven't fucked, you've already lost her more than you would if some random guy fucked her in a club bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 01:03 AM
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Gamers have also seen a slow degradation and attack on their culture. People shit on gamers as lonely nerds for years and years, then it became mainstream and women wanted in without judgment. But as women are want to do, they aren't happy being a negligible part of a community they need special treatment. "We're only 15% of the noncasual gamer market? WE WANT MORE WOMEN MAIN CHARACTERS IN ACTION GAMES, YET WE DON'T WANT WOMEN TO GET HURT! IGNORE YOUR MAJOR DEMOGRAPHIC AND CATER TO MEEEEEEEE!" R…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 12:09 AM
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Oh no no no. It's literally defined as controlling what you're partner uses money on. It can be as serious as that, but if you look up articles on it its mostly filled with women complaining that their beta bux cut them off because they were spending too much. I'm dead serious, check for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 05:09 PM
1

It evokes the same reaction as a man finding out he slept with a MtF trans person. I believe, in many way, all women (even gorgeous ones) are jealous that men make their own value. Even a woman who is the second most beautiful woman in the world is jealous of an ugly, poor man, because that man can become to be much more valued than her through hard work.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 02:34 PM
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Dude, financial abuse has been a thing forever, but guess who's always the victims in those?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 12:24 PM
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Women hate upwards social mobility. They don't see guys learning game as self improvement, but as losers lying and tricking them into fucking them, because in their mind winners and losers aren't made, they're born.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 12:23 PM
1

This really reminds me of a scene from Louie. Where he's on a date and some young jocks try to start a fight with him, and he refuses and acts like a bitch to take the high road. Even though it was the responsible and mature thing to do, she still gets turned off. I know plenty of women who thought that was offensive, but it's so true.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 11:48 AM
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It's a focus issue. You don't have the ability to block out unnecessary and unimportant noise and just focus on what you're doing. One of the most important aspects of a man is his unrelenting focus, it's what allows all of his other skills, from simply throwing a spear to building skyscrapers. I would definitely suggest meditation. Its all about blocking outside noise and directing your focus. I used to not be able to talk or think if someone was trying to talk over me. Now I can focus so well …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 11:23 AM
2

You think they would acknowledge your reply if it didn't fit their narrative?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 05:57 PM
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I love that specific hamstering as even the most hardcore, slutty feminist will use it. "I am completely unashamed of how many men I've slept with, so I will do everything in my power to prevent anyone from knowing how many men I've slept with."
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:41 PM
1

Throughout history and in different parts of the world, more than men are; this is just a fact of history. The degree to which this exists today in Western countries is debatable and difficult to accurate provide evidence for. No one here is saying that women in other places without legal equality (especially third world countries) shouldn't get it, but really? Look at any feminist blog or website, is it about helping women in those places or is it about the comparably tiny microagressions in th…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 06:56 AM
2

A few moments a week? That's pretty generous. Check out the dead bedrooms subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:30 AM
1

That probably is due to some residual discrimination, not on a structural level but because managers of both genders perceive women asking for raises negatively, but men asking for raises positively. Is there any literal proof for this, is this examined specifically? From what I'm seeing in these studies, they simply state that women don't get raises when asking for them as much as men do, but they never examine tactics, body language, confidence, or the like. There are thousands if classes, sem…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 12:25 AM
1

What exact right does a woman have that a man does not, speaking in specifically legal terms? I can think of many laws specifically designed to give women certain rights over men, but know of none that specifically prevent a woman from doing anything a man can.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 12:17 AM
1

I get up early to make breakfast for my girlfriend, bit why? Because I'm fucking busy and have shit to do early on. If she's stuck in bed and won't get up, I'll make it for myself.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:56 AM
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No no no, not to them. Women are viewed as more valuable than men in our society, so they work harder to get less.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:54 AM
1

He has been with this woman for a total of 8 years trying to get her to have anal sex with him. A couple months into an open relationship, she finds an alpha to pound her ass. I absolutely, 100% guarantee the fact that her chode beta husband wanted anal for so long and she was giving it to this alpha guy after a few months ridiculously turned her on in and of itself
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:26 AM
0

I started off by making a Tinder account, and then my wife got upset that I was “looking for something” when she wanted the relationship to come to me. Hahaha oh wow. 100% woman "logic". "Why are you actively looking to meet women? You should just do what I do and fuck one of the random women that hits on you every day!" Also, the whole 50 shades thing is a small but important detail.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 08:10 PM
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But how do you feel about not being able to produce your own children? I mean, the fact that you need to go through another person in order to pass your genes along, and all the hoops you must jump through in order to do so? I would think this would be a huge handicap. You do know that women don't reproduce asexually, right? They need sperm to make a baby just as much as a man needs an egg. And if I impregnate a woman, I just have to fuck, she has to carry that thing for 9 months and give birth …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:53 PM
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If I fail I have no one to blame but myself. That's true of women, too, whether they realize/admit it or not. The difference between men and women, in that situation, is that women have all of society to tell them otherwise. They have an infinite slew of people who will tell them (even if some may personally believe the opposite) that it's not their fault and that they are doing nothing wrong. This leads to them leading a very delusional life with no self-blame. Men don't get that, so although t…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:24 PM
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Not even smug, but content. I'm always smiling, but I'm just about always happy and relaxed, that's just my personality. Its not for anyone else, but I wouldn't suppress it just to seem masculine.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:26 AM
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Logic overload? That's rich, how can a logic circuit board go haywire when it doesn't exist on an sjw? You have yo understand, they don't see those harassers as black men, only as men. Just like if a black guy posted a video of a hundred white girls being racist to him, it wouldn't be an issue with white women, but white people.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 11:25 PM
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Well he's practically full rp at this point. Most people in the pua community don't like him and he runs thereturnofkings. Unless he or one of the partners of that is the person in question, I really doubt a red pill teacher is making that much money.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:59 PM
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A weird thing I've noticed is women will complain about how much of "a man" you are, but will never gossip about you if you're spineless wimp or a pushover (even if they hate it). Like they'll readily tell their women friends that you don't open up enough, or that you spend too much time lifting, but never that you're a pushover and a complete turnoff. I think this has to do with them viewing intrinsically male behavior as attractive qualities, while beta behaviors as unattractive. Its almost li…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:33 PM
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Not to mention that I've never heard any pua coach use "hamster" or "plate", that's pretty specifically red pill terminology.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:32 PM
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Oh yeah, definitely agree on never doing it. Resorting to violence is only the option of a man who has no control.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:37 AM
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Remember, dread game isn't DO WHAT I WANT OR FUCK OFF.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:30 AM
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You sound like a whiny prick.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:16 AM
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As men, we are taught to never, under literally any circumstance, hit a woman. Not if she deserves it, not if she is attacking us, nothing. Of course a woman can hit a guy as often and as frequently as she wants. Imagine if a close male friend broke your trust in such a way that a cheating spouse does, most would say he would deserve to be hit at the very least. But women are, in every situation, off limits. So when a man is faced with something that effects him at a really deep, emotional level…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:12 AM
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Did it really take you 2 tries to come up with that?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:44 AM
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I'm saying spinning a plate isn't (or shouldn't be) hard work. Unless you literally don't have 30 minutes free once a week, spinning 7 shouldn't be too hard. I'm sorry if it's so hard and takes so much work for you to keep a plate.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:19 AM
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Dude... If you currently have SEVEN different girls that you "spin on the reg", there is no possible way you can be serious about pursuing your future career or work... Or even have a job at the moment, for that matter. I have a more than fulltime job (pull about 50 hours a week), work out daily, read daily, and have about six plates going right now. I don't fucking wine and dine each of them every night, I just call one when I feel like fucking or like doing something (and then fucking) and the…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:15 AM
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OP, I suggest you check this older thread from the confessions subreddit out. He was in pretty much the same situation as you and did pretty much the same thing. It's worth the read. I'll sum my advice up to this: End it. It's not worth it, it's better for you (and her if you give a fuck) to just cut her off completely. And remember, she's not giving you the best sex she's ever given because you're the fucking man or because you're a badass, but because you caught her in a lie and are holding al…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:08 AM
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If I had a magic potion that would make these post-wall women who claim beta males are more attractive answer one question completely honestly, it'd be this. -Describe all the men you had sex with when you were 18-22.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:54 PM
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Once again proving that men have it much harder than women, because when a woman gets treated like a man does it's a tragedy and social injustice.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:38 PM
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Or they are really socially retarded and are really off putting to other women, so can only be friends with guys who will give ignore her lack of social skills since she has a vagina.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:36 PM
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This is the main difference between someone who is true rp and a newbie. Newbies think women are all full of intentional malice and hate, and hate women for it. True redpillers know that it is just nature, and hating them for it is like hating someone for shivering when it's cold.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:55 AM
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But remember, (most) women don't usually do this out of intentional spite or malice. It is just how nature programmed them. Much like you wouldn't blame a snake for biting you if you get too close, women will test and prod you if you are showing signs of not being alpha.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:45 AM
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She wouldn't have brought it up if she was attracted to you. I agree with everything but this. Women constantly shit test men they find attractive. It's her natural way of making sure you're all that you seem. If an attractive woman fucked every alpha-seeming guy who talked to her, her pussy would be so consistently stuffed with beta dick they wouldn't be able to fit a tampon up their on their period. Fake alphas crumble under pressure, real ones handle that shit. Hell, I'd be so bold to say tha…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:31 AM
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Men can often be the same way, completely ignorant to their own nature. Being cognizant of your nature and your thoughts/actions is what makes a self-realized man.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:22 AM
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You should at least count calories for a few months, just to realize how much you eat. It's not as necessary once you develop good habits.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:20 AM
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Well, to the person who it effects the most. I bet literally every other woman they know knows about this through gossip.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 03:22 AM
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Sex is a valuable currency in our society to men, friendship from a man to a woman is not. Sex is like gold coins to most men, rare and extremely valuable. To a woman, men's friendship is like pennies, they are everywhere and you won't miss one if you can't find it. You don't complain that your pennies aren't worth as much as gold coins, because that's just the value society placed on them and it isn't going to change anytime soon. And I mean "friends" loosely, but in beta orbiter situations one…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:54 PM
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I love how the women laugh. The men chuckle and applaud, but the women? Jeez. They say humour comes from truth, getting a big truth you relate to exposed in a clever way. The men chuckle because they know about it, the women get laughter in unstoppable fits of laughter because they know they do exactly that all the time.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:06 AM
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It's funny, even though they were trying to set men up as evil and bad, they really revealed something true. Look at the comic, how does the male protagonist reach their full potential? BY WORKING HARD. Name one movie popular among women where a woman works hard to reach her full potential. Name one training montage starring a woman that's aimed towards a female audience. What? None? Of course, because there is a main difference. Men fantasize about having a secret great potential they can only …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 05:43 AM
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I treat my cat like he was my son. I love him but if he does something I don't like I punish him and correct it. I maintain dominance and don't put up with his shit. I'm the head of the house, he is there not only because i love him and because I have a responsibility to his well-being, but because I allow him to be there. Other people (women I see moreso) just get frustrated or allow their pets bad behavior. They will call their pet their "children" but the pet is the boss of the house. It real…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 05:13 AM
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This is a prime example of hypergamy. "But I want to shit on male gamers AND have big companies who rely on male gamers to support me! This is so unfair! Misogyny!"
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:21 AM
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They like having guys right these types of articles because they believe it gives them legitimacy. Like "see, I'm a guy so I have the authority to say men are horrible! Yet when a woman says "it doesn't bother me, these feminists are entitled and crazy" she's a special snowflake brainwashed by the patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:39 PM
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I feel like, in most situations, the man-woman relationship is easily comparable to a employee-boss relationship. Like a boss may say that they're understanding and you can come to them to talk anytime about any issues with the company, but if you start complaining about your workload, start saying how stressed out you are, in the end they'll think your weak and a bad employee.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:22 AM
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If you read it, actually read it, the subtext is: you're not attractive enough to be his wife
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:16 AM
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Sex for men has always been about self validation. Look at how virgins get shamed, how men are defined by their ability to attract women, how men who are extremely successful in all other aspects of life are suicidal if they've never had sex. That is why having sex with a prostitute to lose your virginity makes you feel worse, not better. The act took place, but you cheated and still feel like a failure in attracting a woman. This is doubly strong as a young man embracing masculinity as puberty …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:12 AM
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Why are men socialized to be assholes? And why does society applaud and encourage that behavior in men, while stifling more enriching and healthy traits like empathy and good communication?" Jesus Christ, are they that thick? Its because you fuck them!' If all women (even a slight majority) were hugely turned on by kind, courteous, and respectful men, the number of "asshole" guys would drop tremendously. And not in a "he'd make a good husband" attraction but "I want his dick in me now" way that …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:29 PM
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Actually not really. A bit chubby, but moderately attractive from what I remember. There much hotter girls at the party I was having fun with, wasn't tempted in the slightest to go after her.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:59 PM
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Fun fact: Very few of the girls were hot. Most were very overweight or ugly, if he got close to a hot girl he treated her well. Buy he would purposely hook up with less desirable women because they were easier to break.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:01 AM
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I wholly disagree. 1) A man is only as good as his word. If, when we all agreed, he said exactly what you said, no one would fault him. But instead he agreed wholeheartedly and bragged about it after the fact. 2) This was the friends fairly recent ex, split up when she went abroad for a year and he was gonna see if he could rekindle it now that she was home (I know, stupid) not just some random crush. 3) If you would ruin a good friendship just to finger a girl, that says a shit ton about you.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:58 AM
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Or they try to turn him into a beta.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 11:02 PM
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Knew a male feminist on college. First guy to get a minor in women studies at our school, in the school newspaper and everything. Very well known within our local feminist crowd, led some organizations and was in every protest, march, and event. He treated women like shit. People call us horrible and sexist, but seriously the shit this guy pulled was fucked up. He was a charming fuck (which is why my group of friends loved him) and pulled off the classic "confident yet sensitive" that made vulne…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:20 PM
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Alphas=Physiological attraction. Even if she knows it's a bad idea logically she can't fight her tingles. This why we see women who cheat on their betas say stuff like "I know it was a bad idea and __________ is such a great guy and great boyfriend/father, but I was just swept up in the moment." Classic emotions and physiology over riding logic. Betas=Logical attraction. He has a great job, is stable, treats her nice, etc. He may not give her physiological attraction, but he is the logical choic…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:53 AM
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At this point it's his fault, no way around it.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:10 AM
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Honestly I don't care about sexual history as long as it's honest and consistent. If she was in threesomes, took it in the ass, and had a lot of sex (as long as she's std free) I don't mind as long as she's super horny and will do anal and harems and all that shit with me. But if she used to slut it up but that was a "different time" in her life and now she wants to only have vanilla sex once a month that screams AF/BB. How many times have you seen stories of betas given that same line of bull o…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:14 PM
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I kinda want to do that experiment. Give me a month or so.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:10 AM
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Being short is like being ugly. Yes it matters. Yes it will immediately put you at a disadvantage. Yes you'll have to work through it and constantly have it working against you. There is a lot you can do to help. An ugly guy can work out, dress better, get a good haircut, etc. A short guy can improve his posture, work out (again), and carry himself like a man twice his size. But in the end, the taller/more handsome guy will immediately get more attention than you. But what does a man do when fac…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 03:06 AM
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Our current society benefits dominant, masculine men and attractive, feminine women. Ugly, fat women don't get all the benefits the attractive ones do and beta, feminine men don't get all the benefits the masculine men do. The main difference here, as seen with most women-related issues, is that instead of self improvement, they try to bend the society's will to their lifestyle. A man sees an attractive man on TV and works out, a woman sees an attractive woman on TV and cries sexual objectificat…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:53 AM
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Make sure to involve your kids in your new path to fitness. Get them into sports, go for walks with them, maybe even buy some really tiny dumbbells and show them what daddy does at the gym. By changing and involving them in it, you show them what the power of motivation and positive change can mean in their life. And tell your wife what to cook. Send her healthy recipes and tell her to cook it. You're the captain, she's the first mate. If you let her make the choices, she will continue on the sa…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:03 PM
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Wanting a relationship without games is like wanting a job without work.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:44 PM
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Getting divorced is part of the new 'life cycle".
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:53 AM
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The average beta guy has almost no prospects, elsewise they wouldn't be beta orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:34 AM
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Can you blame them? The hottest most high value guy gets nowhere near the options of a moderately attractive woman. We preach abundance mentality, women live it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:31 AM
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It's the same thing wit h financial abuse.Read through what defines it and think about how many men you know go through that. Yet, of course, it really only applies to men.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:02 PM
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