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Not really worth your time. All her friends will already know your low SMV since your her beta orbiter. Maybe you'll get a couple lays out of it with her less attractive friends..
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 12:15 AM
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Sorry man. I'm sure you are feeling very upset right now. I would suggest seeing a psychologist. They are much better at the mind than we are.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:14 AM
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There have been studies that say you shouldn't ignore her completely. People that got out of relationships and ignored their EX completely (ie blocked on facebook) suffered less but took a lot longer to "move on". People that didn't block them moved on a lot quicker. It seems ignoring the anxiety you get from seeing her only amplifies it. What works for me is blocking for a month or so just to solidify the break up, then unblocking and looking through her pictures every now and then. When lookin…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:53 PM
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I'm a singer and musician. Many people take voice lessons to work on their accents. Everyone does it including many many actors.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 06:25 AM
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Why ask us? You haven't even gotten rejected yet. You literally spoke to her at a bar-- this was a perfect opportunity to invite her out for drinks. Maybe you blew it, maybe you didn't. You're wasting your time asking us, just ask her...
/r/askTRP13/05/16 11:49 PM
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Yeah, pretty sure that's what he meant.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 11:46 PM
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If she keeps grinding for an answer, eventually just say "Yes" or "Yes, we're not exlcusive". This is basic stuff guys.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 11:38 PM
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Finding low partner count isn't all that rare. You just have to look in the right places. High N-Counts usually have better sex and all around are more comfortable with being plates. Low N-Count women take a little more "trust" to get into the plate status, unless they're virgins in which case you own their soul until you seriously wrong her. You're not really looking at the whole picture properly for determining a girl is worth LTR. N-Count is ONLY a screen/red flag if it's too high. You can de…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 11:34 PM
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This is honestly just a matter of opinion. If you want to do the guy a solid, then tell him. If you don't really want to invade their business, don't tell him. Either way, it's not something TRP really takes a stance on I believe since it has nothing to do with getting you laid in the future-- unless you plan on seeing her again.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 10:35 PM
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Donated 50 :)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 10:07 PM
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Yeah, about that much. I could see them more frequently, but I keep busy with my passions.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 05:39 PM
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I would recommend talking about relationships between friends or people you know and transitioning to sex that way. "Mikes girl is crazy. I heard she wanted to drop candle wax on him. I would never want that shit done during sex." (expedited version)
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 12:21 AM
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I hang out with a plat once every week and a half and I have three. We usually grab ice cream or something and fuck at my place promptly after.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 12:18 AM
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There's a ton that you don't know about your own psychology that could be limiting you. Getting professional help like a psychologist can add a lot of insight that you didn't know about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 12:16 AM
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I'm sure that's the biggest reason why guys wont get it. Most of my friends dont want anything near their dicks. On the other hand I usually trust science and think the weirdness of it will go away way since we basically treat circumcisions as tradition.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 01:14 AM
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Are your plates significantly hotter than your ex wife? That would help greatly. Otherwise, time my friend. Time. Without plates it would be much worse I bet.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:32 PM
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Thanks. This post was what I was looking for :)
/r/askTRP24/02/16 06:58 AM
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I would argue that her past boyfriends cheating on her has damaged her greatly in both her ego and her self-esteem. She's constantly afraid he's going to cheat on her like her past partners, and is seeking out other men as her safety net to validate her ego. It's not that the dread game is "too much". I think she has trust issues, and the "alpha" guy she's with just picked a bad egg and didn't manage to find that out early enough. This has less to do with the alpha she is, and has more to do wit…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:31 AM
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Post by CH that I follow to a tee and almost always get past LMR. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/06/20/im-saving-myself-for-an-asshole/ I just repeat "I agree" over and over again and keep going for it xD
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 06:16 AM
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That sounds like a ridiculous adventure. I appreciate your insight, and will be honest that I plan on doing it anyway regardless of the possible blow up-- I'm moving away in 6 months anyway. Care to tell me the game plan you had, or any advice on how to sleep with them all?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:22 PM
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I just want to sleep with all of them... Maybe as plates, maybe as one night stands. Who knows, just havin some fun
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:20 PM
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This is actually very interesting. I think this has happened to me before. Specifically this part "She will then bad mouth you to those friends. Those friends will then try to get more out of you than she did, just to show her that they can."
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:19 PM
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Awesome, thanks for the advice. I'll definitely give that a try :)
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:49 PM
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Thanks buddy. So I wanted the first one to introduce me to more of her friends too though. When is it appropriate to stop "pursuing her"? By pursuing her, I assume you mean sleeping with her. She is part of a big social circle of Persians and I'd like to get in there and fuck all of them.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:44 PM
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Thanks for the response. I was asking more specifically about a group of girls I'm NOT friends with, but THEY are all friends together. I just slept with a girl, and I was wondering if I could leverage my lay with her to get me in with all her friends.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:03 PM
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Don't schedule dates that are 2 weeks away. Schedule them within 1-3 days before. Since you ended up scheduling it so far in advance, you should've followed up about it. Now you've approached her about it, and she flipped it on you. Answer it like a shit test and possibly reschedule.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:40 PM
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Yeah I figured, was just wondering if anyone had experience in the situation.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 08:24 AM
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I have, and from my understanding and experience good girls with extremely low partner counts and very little sexual experience are not AS cool with it. Especially because it's one of her roommates friends.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 08:23 AM
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Radio silence is not the best option if you want to drop her without being a total shit about it. The answer you're looking for is a "soft next". Every time she tries to contact you, subtly cut it short. If she asks you out again, just say "I'm busy for the next week or so". She'll get the idea and leave you alone.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:06 AM
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Hey man, I recently lost a father and did almost the same thing that guy did to your GF. I was going crazy and told a plate of 8 months I wanted to sort things out and overall wasn't interested in what we had anymore (I'm 20). She went literally insane for 2 months trying to get me back into her life in anyway shape or form. She said "What if I see you once a month" bla bla bla... You should dump her anyway though, girls talking to their exes is huge bad news. Those ex boyfriends are NOT friends…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 08:53 AM
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How I reacted to this entire post. Day 1: No no no nooo! Day 2: Why the fuck was there a day 2?! Day 3: She slept over?!!?!? You easily could have avoided this one... You get no sympathy from me, you did it to yourself xD
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:21 PM
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Probably nothing serious homie. I feel like there's probably a running inside joke or something. I doubt there's any bitchiness happening within the scope of that post.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:00 PM
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I am giving up porn, hot showers, and shitty food. I will be trying to day game every Sunday while doing work at a café.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:40 PM
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Read "Day Bang" by Roosh to learn more about approaching girls during the day. To get over your problem, do it a few times to ugly chicks to get a reference point. This will help you get over it. Then do it to some average chicks. Then the hotties. Gradual progression is a good start.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 08:58 AM
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Lol. It's their last line of hope that they'll be able to save it for prince charming and then marry him.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:48 PM
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Currently 2 other plates, while trying to get new ones each weekend.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:47 PM
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Hey man. A long time ago I was just like you! Big dreams, but I wasn't sure what I loved or who I wanted to be in life. Without a male role-model that can be hard! Here's how I did it. I read numerous biographies. I was young and knew nothing about life. Why not learn about life from people who lived it successfully? I would read biographies and learn about different successful means principles, drives, and methodologies. If something they said didn't resonate with me I threw it out. If somethin…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:44 PM
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Haha I can assure you that is not why xD Women respond much better to covert communication. Direct communication, which we guys default to, almost always comes off as pompous and uncool to women. The two scenarios-- Direct: "Hey I think we want different things. I'm interested in sex and I'm not looking for any kind of relationship right now" Most-likely result: "He only cares about sex, I don't want to lose my virginity to jerk like that". Covert: I stop asking her out. Most-likely result: "I t…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:39 PM
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It's not about that, it's about being made to wait for sex. If you are ever being made to wait, it means she has other things that are her priorities than you. If that's true, she's not worth your time and you should never assume the pursuer role. EDIT: Also to address the "head plate" thing, I like sex more than I like head. I would never want to give my time to a girl who just sucks my dick.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:22 PM
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:\ You're right. She probably wants exclusivity for it. I'll see her one more time, then hard next her if I haven't gotten the V-card yet.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:20 PM
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I've thought about this... Rollo always says being direct with women is always a dumb idea. If anything I'm thinking I should just cut off contact, since that covertly communicates your argument. EDIT: Assuming I've made it clear I want sex with my actions, which I certainly have.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:18 PM
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In what other situations do you recommend such a passive strategy? This has worked for me before in sausage fest situations where all the guys were around the hot girl, and I wasn't paying her any attention. The only attention she got from me was when I asked to have some of her liquor (it was way better than the rest there) several times. Eventually she came on to me and was on my lap.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 07:40 AM
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Amazing post that is very insightful.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:48 PM
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Completely agree. Abortions really fuck women up emotionally and hormonally. It's terrible for their body's and fertility. When she got an abortion she probably was informed on all the shitty side affects of BC. I've been with a few girls not on BC. In her case, she had a fucking abortion, man. It's not you, it's her past. Respect it, or if it bothers you next.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 08:11 AM
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Fuck so much hate here... Sluts are not, but can be, "post-wall ugly used up chicks". A slut is really be definition, a girl who puts out easily. I fucking love them and I think they are awesome. EDIT: Wouldn't LTR them, but that doesn't mean I don't like them.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:16 PM
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I can speak more on the Iranian/Persian thing. My mom always warned about Persians and their infidelity. When I came to college I met a lot more because my skin tone is very alluring to them. Every Persian girl I met had an experience of serious infidelity in their lives. One girl's father cheated on her mother and she hated him with a passion for doing that. One girl cheated on boyfriend that was persian, one girl got cheated on when she was dating a persian, etc. My mother said it was more of …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 01:48 AM
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