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DISCUSSIONredpowderdivinity/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 09:47 AM
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Wow, I'm really confused about how you interpeted my message! It was supposed to be a praise for the sub and the RPW ideology. That said, I am happy to explain. To your first question, before swallowing the pill and embarking on the journey of developing myself, in a case there being a disagreement, I would have continued to argue until there would have been a closure to the discussion. To your other question, no it is not. Often in Reddit that however is the rhetoric used and I also might have …
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/16 09:31 AM
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I have a lot of to-do related things on my feel-good-after list (as you can check from my post below), but also more abstract things like having the courage to do something etc. Anyways, for me fulfilling the to-do list works as a self-care and I prefer to keep it that way, I like to think them as routines as little as possible. Also I'm going to check the new book when possible, thanks for the insight on that. Going totally on a side track here, but thanks RPW for pimping my mindset! Before I w…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/16 07:47 AM
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Alright, I see where you're coming from and I agree with you. Prevention is always better than putting out fires. However, I still think that it is important to identify those feel-good-after things as well, just to a) have more tools in the feel-good-toolbox and b) to know what things help when the initial bad day happens. Why not have two lists, just like the older book suggests! In the end, these lists are just items of self-knowledge and the more we know, the better we may become. Having the…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/16 06:57 PM
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Ooooh, I just made my lists a few days ago and was thinking of posting a similar thread! RPW hive mind, hah. My lists both have 9 pieces but I'm working on figuring at least one for each. Creating these was surprisingly difficult so good on you for asking suggestions. I also tried to think about mostly things that don't have anything to with my SO, just so that I can more incorporate the fact that I am responsible for my own well-being. Making the lists made me feel really good about myself and …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/16 09:52 AM
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Interesting! I haven't read the new book but have just been reading Surrendered Wife. I found the distinction between making the two lists actually excellent, because sometimes it is difficult for me to for example change my mood with activities from the "quick fix"-list. That's what I call the first one. Sometimes I need to experience some perseverance and do things from the second list in order to feel my strength returning. This is the situation mainly if I feel especially shitty for some rea…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/16 09:39 AM
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Very important things on the opening post! Taking responsibility of my own happiness is definitely something I have been and will work on, but I have gotten better at it! I have really taken time for myself and thought hard about what I want out of this life to not just drift from a year to the next. My SO also pointed out that he always notices when I'm acting "glued-on-top-RPW" and not really genuinely. This confirms further the fact that there's no quick fix, us ladies really need to change o…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/16 09:35 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly with /u/StingrayVC, although I do identify with your worry. What has helped for me is to let go of perfectionism. You do not have to be perfect, not now or ever, it is not even realistic! But what you have to do, is to delight in everything you have learned. Notice and be happy about the experiences of successful learning, because you will learn something almost daily. That's what keeps me going, even in times when I make some mistakes by behaving or thinking stupidly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 07:27 AM
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Before learning about RP, I literally told him everything. After I realized that as he is more introverted than I am, that actually can be pretty exhausting for him, I cut down the chatter a lot. It took some getting used to since I'm (or was?) a person who wanted to share everything with her loved ones. However, I have learned to for example enjoy things on my own. Not everything needs to be shared, especially since the things delighting me are often tied to a context and suffer when explained.…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 07:13 AM
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I agree and if I remember correctly, the same was also discussed in the book I referred to!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 06:41 AM
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Thanks for your input! I hadn't even thought about that first reactive thought issue, and now that I think it, I agree with you. I wonder if in time a person can also train that one, but I'm talking about years now, not weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 01:18 PM
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Yayyyy for posting this thread so early! It's mid-Monday here now and earlier I've had to write to these things in the Tuesday mornings. So this is from my last week's self reflection post: Goals for this week: Kick ass in a job interview, remember to STFU about sex, exercise vigorously. 1/3 achieved, I think that I did kick ass in the job interview. Should receive call about that tomorrow. But yeah, was not able STFU and also got really sick so did not exercise after Wednesday. Last week was no…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 09:25 AM
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Wow, my SO has almost an identical fantasy, so I'm in agreement with the men in this thread that this is normal. I was also extremely upset when he first told me about his thoughts. It is up to you two if you want to ever take steps to realize this fantasy or not. In my relationship we have not yet, but then again we haven't been together that long. I don't see it completely impossible to go and try out something like this in the future, but maybe not just yet.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 09:12 AM
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Thank you for the time frame suggestion and pointing out the differences in sense of time. I'm also having problems with my patience and although I'm working on it, sometimes I slip and mention to my SO about things I have decided not to mention.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 06:22 PM
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Good luck with your monk mode! It would be really awesome to hear your experience regarding your husband's absence in the near future, for example on how you cope with the longing, and so on. Also if you have some tricks that lessen your (assumed) anxiety or how you pass the time when the missing hits hard. Thanks! :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 07:12 AM
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Good: Ooh, last week was quite a good one! I had a chance to see a gig from a band I really like and to socialize with my old university buddies. This was the first time I really tried to put my femininity on in a social situation and I enjoyed it very much. I also surprised my SO with a full make-up one day and cookies another day. He was very pleased. The Valentine's we skipped since where we're from it's more of a "friends' day" but on that day he did state that he loves his life at the momen…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 02:10 PM
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I found a new artist yesterday from Spotify! It's called The Greatest Bits and it's music from old games, very true to the original music but with a very good quality and there is A LOTS of it. Have already listened to at least Castlevania, Chrono Trigger and a couple of Zelda albums. Also recommended the artist to my SO, he seemed quite excited also, so I'm looking forward to listening to them with him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 04:57 PM
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Thanks! The info about iron deficiency is news to me, I'll pay attention to that. Zinc and B vitamin intake should be OK.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/16 07:56 PM
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The Good: I have had no idea how to apply makeup really correctly (just mascara and a liner, that's about it) and I invited two of my friends to my place to teach me! We made a list of what products I needed, went shopping for them together and after that they taught me. Especially drawing the eyebrows has been a total mystery to me but now I understand it too. I learned so much during that day! I've applied my newfound skills once or twice since and in my opinion I've done a good job. SO's been…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/16 07:01 PM
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Hi! A long time lurker here, decided to finally register and contribute to the discussion because this survey sounds super exciting! Most of the suggestions given here are extremely good and I look forward to answering the survey. I do have a few suggestions of my own, however. Firstly, I would be interested in knowing are us ladies' partners' familiar with TRP or otherwize "enlightened". Another interesting thing would be to ask if there are things within the RP theories the respondent does not…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 08:23 AM
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