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redpua/r/seduction07/09/11 05:13 PM
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I think he was just frustrated that he lost her and instead of staying with him she went with me. I don't care what he thinks about the girl, it's between them, I care what he will think about me. If he is so quick to judge, I don't want him telling the rest of the group that I'm a sleazeball or worse.
/r/seduction14/09/11 07:09 PM
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Thanks man! I think it's better not to bring it up at all next time I meet him, just be friendly and don't look bothered by what happened.
/r/seduction14/09/11 04:59 PM
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This is solid advice from iznou. Go out there and make mistakes, don't forget to learn from them!
/r/seduction13/09/11 09:12 PM
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This is brilliant! It shows that you want to meet her again and it's funny. EDIT: spelling
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:33 PM
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Yes, follow the order I gave but not necessarily to the letter. If she gives you her hand, don't touch her forearm :)
/r/seduction12/09/11 09:37 PM
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What did I tell you stop thinking you are not doing what I'm telling you :) ! *Don't be afraid to touch her. Better to try and lose then to not try at all. Assume attraction and touch her everywhere: place your hand on the small of her back while trying to make a point, touch her forearm and touch hands. If you sit close to her everything will feel more natural.
/r/seduction12/09/11 09:16 PM
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First thing you have to do is to ""stop thinking"" ! Relax, listen to some music or make yourself a nice meal before you go out with her. Try and make a connection when you are out for coffee because it's going to be harder at the movie (movies aren't quite the best idea for a first date). Don't sit across her like you are sitting at a job interview, try to sit as close as possible so you can touch each other (kino her back, hands). Sit down and tell her to move near you if you are at a table. D…
/r/seduction12/09/11 09:01 PM
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Please, delete your personal details ! Be careful :)
/r/seduction12/09/11 08:49 PM
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You could just ignore and don't say anything or you could say: " Neither did I, are you trying to take advantage of me?"
/r/seduction12/09/11 06:32 PM
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This is a great response to this kind kind of shit test.
/r/seduction12/09/11 12:13 PM
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Hey man good job! :) I think she left early because she has "buyers remorse". You should definitely call her and tell her you enjoyed spending time together and you would like to see her again. Don't delay calling her because attraction will fade away.
/r/seduction12/09/11 12:12 PM
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How do you usually escalate after the makeout ? How do you get them home ? This is the part I'm having problems with because for me it's a little hard to believe that girls will sleep with guys the same night they meet (I'm talking about how things go in my country, people are not so open minded, the communist regime left a big scar in the way people think).
/r/seduction12/09/11 12:03 PM
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I know you have to bring something of value like alcohol or girls. You need to add something to the party. Once again thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction11/09/11 09:18 PM
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I honestly think you're having a small midlife crisis. :) I had one too this summer and I'm 22 (aka young and stupid). I didn't know where my life is going, I lost a great girl and two of my best friends left the country. Try to focus on working out because it definitely helps mentally and physically. Try not to think about finding the one , let things follow a natural path and focus on yourself.
/r/seduction11/09/11 08:53 PM
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You have a lot of social proof at parties and this helps you a lot! Girls love guys who have an interesting life and know a lot of people. The problem is that in my country, house parties are rare since a lot of people live in apartments. Nevertheless, thanks for the response, I got the info that I needed :D.
/r/seduction11/09/11 08:39 PM
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Hey Redposterboard, I think you are trying too hard, investing too much time and effort in trying to get laid. I see you mentioned Chase, he has a great article on his blog about effort-reward. Try to relax and see the glass half-full. Get rid of this type of mentality "It cannot go on this way… it’s driving me absolutely mad." Good luck!
/r/seduction11/09/11 08:29 PM
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I like the way you think, abundance mentality all the way ! Isn't it harder to game her at a party?
/r/seduction11/09/11 08:14 PM
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Hey Jmanor, Here’s how I usually handle club game. I usually go out to clubs that play top40 music because it's easier to dance and not it’s not as loud as electronic/dance music. a. Be on the dance floor If girls see you dancing and having fun, they’re more likely to dance to you then with the guy that stands at the bar creeping at them. Have fun and let loose (alcohol may help initially :) ). b. “Asking” a girl to dance: When you see I girl that you would like to dance with make eye contact an…
/r/seduction11/09/11 08:08 PM
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I think you didn't get the kiss both times because they already invested in you by giving away their numbers. You usually have to build more comfort in order to get a kiss. Girls don't want to seem to easy especially when they are with friends, isolate and k-close or #-close. Also, for me this pointing to the cheek thing seems a little unnatural. . Everything else was done well! PS: Learn to dance it will open a whole new world ! :))
/r/seduction09/09/11 09:34 AM
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Just give her a big warm smile and leave. If she treats you like shit, be different smile and walk away. Be different!
/r/seduction08/09/11 05:29 PM
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This was my first #close because I never thought that girl will give out numbers in clubs. I was usually going for K-closes.
/r/seduction08/09/11 10:53 AM
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