redraven1160 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Cheated on me with one of my best friends and ex business partners - UPDATE Based on the timeline that you gave in your post. Do you think you need to have a DNA test of your daughter?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/25 07:01 PM
14	She's upset that I moved on so quickly - and she's the one who left You should not be surprised if she suddenly decides that she wants to try reconciliation. The grass was not greener when she got there. She has shown you who she really is.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/25 09:39 PM
1	Ex wife introducing boyfriend to kids. But thought she already did… Leave it alone, there is nothing you can do about it. Unless the kids are in danger and even then it takes a miracle for the courts to do anything.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 04:22 AM
13	STBX says she filed for divorce because I did not agree to a separation and I should of “offered to leave the house because I am the man” She was trying to get you out of the house to use that as leverage. Check in your state. But if ok, start recording your interactions with her. You do not want her filing a false police report to try and get you out of the house that way. See a lawyer ASAP.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 09:43 AM
4	She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful? That was my initial thoughts. She thought it would always be the new relationship energy with AP and it’s just not there now, she’s beginning to second guess her actions.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/24 06:07 PM
1	So how many of you believe your ex wife is/was having a midlife crisis? The more you can detach from her the better it is for you. I know it is hard with children. But, always trying to read into her actions will drive you crazy and stunt your healing. The more you are able to rebuild your life, the better you will feel and the less power she will have over you. Giving her head space is giving her power over you.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/24 03:48 AM
1	Wife is being treated to a vacation with another couple, sans ME That was my thought. Either that or the friends will magically have one of their other friends show up. He seems afraid to ask the hard questions and do the necessary evidence searching.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 02:35 PM
12	Wife is being treated to a vacation with another couple, sans ME Something dos not seem right with her story. Are you sure you are being told the truth. Updateme	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 11:20 AM
32	Ex wife message She only wants to reset because reality is not as she imagined. She destroyed your family and turned your daughters against you, let her rot.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/24 08:13 PM
7	Still can’t process the hard truth People do not realize how much social media and divorced friends influence divorce decisions. After 32 years my wife decided I was not good enough and that she had missed out on the single life. 3 years later, I am retiring early and traveling to visit grandchildren. Meanwhile she is working to support the manchild that she meet and asking our kids to help broker her return to my life.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/24 06:05 AM
7	Separation = divorce? Don’t leave the house. Contact a lawyer ASAP and explain what is happening. Work with them to formulate a plan. This is the beginning of the end game with her.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/24 06:39 PM
5	Staying in the marital home until divorce is finalized Do as the lawyer tells you. You are paying them to represent your interests. It is only uncontested now because your soon to be ex-wife hasn’t had time to talk to people. Once people begin advising her, it will turn into a contested divorce. Right now she’s in a hurry to get on with the divorce so she can enjoy her new life.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/11/24 12:59 PM
4	Car crash conversation - now what? That was the feeling I received from the wife’s actions too.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/11/24 03:43 AM
3	Divorce coming-Update from post from almost 3 weeks ago. The children will end up being in her way of true love. They will end up spending the time their mother has them either with dad or a family member of moms.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/24 03:50 AM
5	STBXW Constant Slander This is the kind of question you want to ask your lawyer. There are certain guidelines for slander and harassment. But those vary by state and municipality.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/24 09:57 PM
7	Contesting final divorce decree Do not deal directly with her. Have a lawyer handle this.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/24 03:40 PM
5	Finding potential evidence that.. The trips had nothing to do with it. Neither did losing your job. She probably already had the other guy waiting. I used to think that people are exaggerating on Reddit when they said that if a woman leaves without any warning that there was another man involved. But the more I read these posts, I truly have begun to believe that is an accurate assessment.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/24 04:02 PM
7	Wife having affair with her therapist I would go scorched earth with the therapist.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/10/24 10:19 AM
1	Son, 5 yo Not doing well with divorce However, you decide to handle this. The most important thing is that you’re honest with your child. Don’t lie to them. All that will do is cause future problems for you. Children remember what they’re told by their parents especially when it concerns an issue of this magnitude in their life. If you’re not sure what to say, talk to a psychologist or a therapist to get an age-appropriate acceptable comment.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 06:50 PM
10	Son, 5 yo Not doing well with divorce Do not lie to the child. They remember that. Contact a therapist and get him counseling. It is not your job to repair the relationship that she destroyed.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 03:41 PM
18	Truth always finds a way to the surface. Nice friends you have. They should be Ex friends for knowing and not telling.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/24 03:48 AM
18	She said, "You could just pick up the dog poop without me asking. You see it just like I do." Why would you do any chores for her. She’s the one who destroyed the marriage and the family. Unless it involves your children, I wouldn’t do anything for her. Let her learn to fend for herself. She wanted this, now she needs to live with the consequences of it.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/24 05:35 PM
4	Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorce That was my thoughts when I read the post.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 04:56 PM