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There is ultimately no way to tell what the truth is. My one interestingly has had sex with ex partner for years, but now wishes to "wait for marraige" - the toothpaste is out of the proverbial tube with that one and it's he main reason I'll let this one go - regardless of how great she is. Outside what she has told me, about that one person, I've discovered myself through snooping that there's another "mistake" of some kind in her past which she hasn't mentioned to me. She also hid this from he…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 11:19 PM
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so I hadn't seen ur txt. This one is cult religious - wouldn't have sex but has done everything else. busy trying to get me into lock down mode via marraige and then I get it all the time apparently. Last night, did anal for first time - my gut says it was a first for her based on behaviours and discussion afterwards today - she didn't seem cool about the whole thing at all. She was adamant that she had never done it before, and had no idea how to behave in it all - matches what i experienced ha…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:48 AM
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yup. hacked in again - found more stuff. While away she was "travelling with me" via txts - whatsapp etc. Have found a chat history with someone else halfway across the world doing the same thing - not.as many txts by a long shot, but same buzz "oh it's great to travel with you".
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:44 AM
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and to be clear - filthy. Conservative yet filthy. I've not been dillusional enough to think it's about me, though I certainly draw something out of her by utilising sex god.method approach. saying that,...this post caught my eye as i was concerned about the amount of travel she has done - it's astounding. As TRP says.....she's only with me now. That is all. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 03:33 AM
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not necessarily. in part im a mix of both, but ive been pretty alpha when I attracted her. I reverted into beta via vulnerability and let myself slip too much in that direction (read models). this is more the nature of the beast methinks. - 5000 miles away - nature of the beast. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 03:31 AM
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just hacked the phone. seems my instinct was built for this planet ! Not fully sure what was going in a recent trip but certainly been hiding intentions from me and was sharing intimate time and txting afterwards with some holiday fling it seems. Definition of fling is unknown based on photos but I think I've seen enough to trust my gut in the intentions which is what it comes down to imo. I remember a great saying - not.quite rp.- but act as if ur partner was in the room. This is certainly not …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 03:29 AM
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Yeah - I've got a highly religious one at the moment who "loves to travel" and has travelled more than anyone I've ever met in my life. Everywhere. The jury is still out on how prudish she actually is - as she would actively have me believe. Since discovering TRP, I've changed as has my naivety. There is a chance that this one has behaved herself - though I'm not naive enough to be in any way certain about that. If she hasn't behaved, I'd guess she has fucked everything possible....... cause tin…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 11:28 PM
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Ain't that the absolute fuckin truth of it......
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 02:13 PM
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It's a great point. It's easy to let the male hamster take you to a place which is far away from where you were at the point of meeting. It takes focus and discpline to maintain the frame that you had when you meet as there can be forces at work which push you away from it and ultimately sign your own death warrant.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:37 PM
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Telling them you love them is almost the equivalent of marrying them. Right now I live in the UK and a lot of younger adults, especially in Ireland and Scotland they just end up loving each other and staying together for a while not really concerning themselves about marriage. The girls have their man's Love and exclusivity, the next step to marriage isn't that much more of an accomplishment in their eyes. I say we should move in together. Again, I have been with LTRs who have wanted me to move …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:31 PM
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dating a Mormon girl. Funny thing is she was in a 3.5 year relationship and ended up fucking the guy after a year and onwards. now that she's 'learned" from that mistake it appears sex is off the table entirely. about to bail as it's just madness. not at the abstenence for Joseph smith stage myself. highly frustrating tbh
/r/seduction25/01/16 07:10 PM
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Yup ! Pretty much ! Cheers Bro :-)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 04:18 PM
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That was the single word floating through my mind this morning - plate. I was on the road to plates, had a bunch ready to spin - met her - got oneitis - here I am ha ! Lesson learned as I've said somewhere else here - I'm glad to see how it played out here and I've learned a lot about how quickly I reverted to old beta behaviours by not watching my self. Abundance mentality and answering a few messages on POF this morning already has mee feeling a lot better about myself and the whole thing. Bes…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:03 PM
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I'm curious - you seen my mormon comments here yet? I think it's quite possible yes - not 100% convinced but I do think it's possible. I still agree with you either way it's a shitty deal, so gtf outta the whole thing seems the smartest course of action now.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 07:41 AM
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I know it's not my fault. After the chat I had where I saw the apparent effect her shitty choice had on her life, I'd not be happy with myself to compound that - nice guy or whatever that is. Even if shr is full of shit, it's abput me not her. I genuinely like the girl - so call it whatever it is. But I'm fully aware that it's not my doing. the more I look into this mormon madness the more I realise the mess I've ended up with here. Lol. Unicorn my ass ha !
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 07:19 AM
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Probably indeed !
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:41 AM
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Defo has issues - I'm realising that over the past 24 hours. Just been researching mormon chicks - i had no idea what I was walking into here !
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:41 AM
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She certainly is waiting for me to lead - I'm fully aware of that. She is fighting and I reckon the mormon programming in this one coupled with the shame from breaking her "rules" and it not working out with the first/last guy have her defences up real high. I could probably get past them with work, but not sure I would be comfortable with the damage it would likely leave behind when it all inevetibly goes south.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:38 AM
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Ha ! Yeah - feels like it at times tbh - as I said my frame fell to shit and I see it clearly. Learnt a lot about myself and my old blue pill traits which are deeply engrained. What I wanted ? Some fun and a connection. Im confident she sees me as an alpha as I have been working hard to get my shit together over the past 18 months. What I want now is to get out safe as it could get quite messy otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:32 AM
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Doesn't want kids - she has indeed mentioned marraige. Maybe you seen below, but it's a shit storm I've walked into here - she's a bloody orthodox mormon and didn't tell me until yesterday because she was afraid it would scare me away. Orthodox but yet still drinks and has crossed lines with me which are causing shame and guilt. The more I'm reading about these chicks the more I feel need to gtf outta this without causing major damage - could bite me hard in the ass if I don't exit cleanly here.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:26 AM
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I agree with the analysis, but am coming to the place that I'd do serious damage to her if I did - and I'm struggling to reconcile myself with doing that to someone. I took your advice and went into that discussion with her and it was incredible stuff that was being discussed. Unicorn schmuincorn indeed - that's become more and more obvious by the day - lesson learned there.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:21 AM
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I'm guessing it actually is true now. There's a huge part of this chick that wants me to ravage her, though I know that if that happened she would be in a dark place due to her religious value system and the shame that it has instilled. I'd feel pretty shit about doing that to someone and it's the core reason that I've not pushed that far. Cutting her loose seems the best thing to do it starts to seem.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:17 AM
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That's pretty much it isn't it. I did that yesterday and she got pretty down about the whole thing - she was in bits at the concept. She seems torn between her values and her actual feelings - it doesn't reconcile but I have to say I've not dealt with such a strong stubborn religious value system like this before. There will be some very interesting lessons in here for me in all this and I'm sure that regardless of what way it plays out that I'll get value about myself and where I need to streng…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:13 AM
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Backdoor clause might be a runner aswell too. Interesting claim risk - hadn't considered that even though I should have......
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:38 PM
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Turns out she's a pretty devout Mormon it seems.....wasn't expecting that - thought she was catholic ha !
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 11:38 AM
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OK - update. Last night she came clean with me. Seems I have met a Mormon who hid the religion. She was intrigued by me but never expected to fall for me. Set lots of tests for me but I passed and she ended up stuck out on a limb with everything. Previous relationship she had sex and had significant emotional issues after crossing that line - thus she won't do it again to risk that and also problems with family and church which she has last time. Seems I'm a secret ha !
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:59 AM
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Been reading redpill for 2 years - second I met her my frame fell to shit. Upside of Redpill is i feel strong to walk away - a few years ago I wouldn't have had.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 11:01 PM
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.explain ?!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 10:47 PM
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Not quite. I believe her - it's quite strange. Have a history with that bullshit and previous women and sniffed them all out on gut - not convinced this one is lying.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 10:45 PM
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That's for sure. ......only realised that all today x she had played y h e reformed Virgin well. Not the first one I've been with in my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:16 PM
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Yeah - I've been working to be strong - i gym for months, achieve, read, and she was clearly attracted to that. Since we hang out more, I've allowed myself to slip a bit into some blue pill behaviours which have probably cast me into the "he waits" category. Last BF it "went too fast " and "not making the same mistake again".... Starting to doubt what way is up - she's asleep in my arms here......
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:15 PM
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My gut says gtf outta here yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:11 PM
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M38 f32 I'm becoming aware that after a number of relationships myself that this makes absolutely no sense to me to move forward with. And yes, my suspicions are raised fully at this stage.......
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:10 PM
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I know - trust is going out the window ..........I'm really unsure wtf is going on and what's real and not real x
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:08 PM
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Yup - i know better. It's dawning on me how easily I was fooled it seems.......
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:07 PM
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O know they don't. I'm quite concreted I'm Beta Bux here and I've gone against a lot of my study from the past 2 years here in my behaviours. No sex - hours petting in bed - biting kissing teasing - foreplay. Fyi m38/f32.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:05 PM
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Yep - this works a treat.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 06:16 PM
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I've had Issey miyake for about 15 years now as my regular - i personally still can't get enough of the stuff and the chicks love it. Will check out that Tom Ford tomorrow in the airport and maybe try it out :-)
/r/seduction28/12/15 02:46 PM
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So, progress update. Since Friday, and since I updated my online dating pics with some nice ones I got done at a friends studio, I'm suddenly being chased by 5 different woman. The effect it has had on my abundance mentality with respect to the first one is impressive. However, the unicorn does have a nice ass - but thankfully I reckon so do at least 3 or 4 of these - all 6's to 8's. Abundance mentality makes sense, but when it comes to women I've not had it - it's truly great. Must be insane be…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:33 PM
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Cheers man - it's the first time in my life I've had multiple women clearly interested in me at one time. I actually believe I am experiencing the sweet taste of abundnance mentality about me and it's helping me keep some perspective in terms of.having options. Gym in the morning, what a time to be alive :-p
/r/askTRP06/12/15 06:30 AM
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That's it isn't it - just keep my shit about me and eyes open. I'm certainly in a different place to 10 years ago when I walked blind into this sort of thing like a lost fucking puppy :-p
/r/askTRP05/12/15 07:39 PM
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Cheers man - time will surely tell - it always does :-D Meanwhile, go me - didn't know I had it in me !! It's been an interesting week for validation.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 02:25 PM
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My brain taking me for a ride us exactly the thing - I felt disciplined and then.....bang. I was hanging with 2 other chicks the previous night and didn't get this buzz - so clearly some chemistry here which stunned me. She txt me this morning already so obviously she's keen. Anyway - yes - caution absolutely required. Beware the pedestal.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 02:22 PM
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let me elaborate a bit more. When I met these 2, I was outside having a smoke - it was almost closing time where we were watching some bands play and the blond one engaged me - I did some amused mastery as she threw a few shit tests at me and swatted them pretty well - later she called me defensive and told me I shouldn't be so much - "you're such a great guy". Funny, it got me that far didn't it ?!! We hit a resturant, and on the way in I was asked as a joke to slap the male waiter on the ass b…
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:06 PM
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Link dead ?! Take down today ?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:52 AM
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She's all over the media today here (irl). Heard a phone in show and some lowlife hamsters were tearing each other apart about it on national airways - one side saying she was clearly taking the piss, the other defending genuine mental health and suicide. One thing for sure is that Sinead has, and has had, serious problems. 4 kids from 4 men and a bohemian lifestyle has lead her to this place. I would suspect that things will probably get worse from here out as it appears some of the kids have t…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:35 AM
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So how do you get past the " being in a bar / club on your own " without looking like a lunatic ?! I'd assume ( maybe incorrectly ) that it's important to sell that story well and correctly and then once you can manage the silences that a wing can't cover, it's potentially easier in some ways - especially if your wing is shit for whatever reason ?
/r/seduction29/11/15 02:57 PM
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I'm interested in your experiences of going out gaming alone versus with wings. In terms of your game, what way do different scenarios / locations impact better opportunities and successes ?
/r/seduction29/11/15 06:37 AM
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Yup ! Same here - I had no idea what the signs were even though they were there. I let myself get out of shape and recently got back into good shape - the IOI's I'm getting is crazy - I'm actually a bit stumped as to what to do next but I'm loving the validation - my confidence is building rapidly which shows in how I hold myself which generates more IOI's !!! I just have shit game so working hard on that now as I move into approach mode.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 02:45 PM
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Solid stuff there :-)
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:03 AM
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My primary focus was the actual dancing as I knew there'd be plenty of guys who were pretty rough - so I was leading confidently. Skills first which builds street cred !
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:00 AM
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Yeah - unless exceptional it screams long term game - Christmas party sort of game.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 10:58 AM
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I'm not so sure - was a big circle of men turning around circle of women - so every 2 mins we switched partners. I was quite confident about my shit and there were chicks blushing as I introduced myself. Maybe I'm just dillusional though - will watch closer next time. Good tip on the turndown if I end up in about class like that :-)
/r/askTRP16/11/15 10:56 AM
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The fucking state of Facebook today is off the rails. The whole thing is french flag everywhere - and FB offered a one click mechanism for people to put a 50% transparent flag over their picture. Fucking sheep went for it - the sheer validation of it all. I think people are so mad that they see the button to "skin" their shit for the poor French and think "I better do that in case someone sees I didn't, and that I'm not sorry and supportive". Fucking validation hamsters working overdrive in both…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 09:37 PM
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I'm just out of a 10+ LTR a few weeks and have had moments like this aswell. I find its when I have fuck all to do that it can creep in. Also Alcohol and any other substance is like a stairway to betadom at times. Ghosting seems the most sensible. Enforce frame and remove her from the frame. Rinse and repeat while improving yourself. Tough work though. ......
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 02:22 PM
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Thanks. I will game them all - just had to put parameters in the search and not used to the POF app yet. I aim to become a ninja at that app.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:18 AM
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Lol ! I hear ya ! Can pm u the pic. I'm comfortable I don't look like the uni bomber - seems to be a steady flow of interest and a whole bunch of them browsing me over and over again.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:15 AM
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Been reading all sorts of stuff - originally was reading mgtow first. Haven't spent a lot of time reading about online game though - saw a bunch of stuff, but never focused on it like I am doing now. I want to get some plates up in the air - maybe that group isn't ideal and I should focus younger. I'm just diversifying into online mixed with real life as another source. So my question really is " how do I deal with when she asks" - specifically if she does early / first meet so that I don't blow…
/r/askTRP26/10/15 10:36 PM
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What about LTR'S - I've been ice making over the past few weeks. I've been more butt hurt than professional in the very few interactions that have taken place. Would you tweak anything in this framework for LTR ice making ?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 07:45 AM
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I'm finishing a 10 year LTR after finding TRP about a year ago. the relationship always had frictions, but the more I swallowed TRP, the more she resisted my behaviours. Her striving for equality was in direct conflict with my road map. This ultimately destroyed it.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 01:55 PM
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Yep - WordPress could do it indeed - with a simple app plugged into it for uploading and seeing the feed of your network etc Zuckerfuck and the face fuckers did a great job of that rollout- truly epic levels of traction and all other platforms seem to integrate into it by default as they know people will be more integrated than if it was standalone. They have confidence that the users are locked in and fully invested in facebook so once they attach to that model t he user may become attached and…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 10:40 AM
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Yep - it's amazing what they've done. The society wide investment into doing things "that" way because it's easy has reduced people's ability to commit to anything that takes longer than a vine. Emails take longer than a vine. I was thinking about some sort of personal blogging environment with security features and an aggregate engine in the middle that manages the networking. Make the engine like an open source torrent style network and aside from basic security , allow users to control what t…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 02:43 AM
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Yup ! That's it for real. The history of that "platform" is very interesting - and not in a good way. Tier 1 appears to be 1 billion products to be marketed at via ads etc. That's really Tier 2. Tier 1 is likely to be an unfathomable data collecting wet dream that 1941 Germany could only dream about accomplishing. Users are definately the product - but the buyer is more sinister than the majority are aware of. It's great to use for its handiness to keep in touch with certain people who are far a…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:38 PM
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2 things. 1) I love how so many non English speakers have this "my English is shit" thing going on - the general level of english by non native English speakers is often intimidating compared to native English speakers abilities in other languages. You appear no exception to that rule. 2) Inspirational post - keep up the good work !
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 06:40 PM
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Nicely put together !
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 10:21 AM
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Holy shit -that Gaga is madness. Sneaky insidious mother fuckers. Sad to see culture manipulated so blatantly like that. Fuck 'em.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 07:40 AM
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Yeah ! I know ! I had a throwaway thread about it a while back - it was a terrible mistake on my part - caused me a lot of challenges I may have got past if I hadn't made that fuck up. Lesson learned big time.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 06:31 AM
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One of the most effective tactics for a chamelion/psychopath/BPD female is to mirror your statements and views. Nobody has ever understood you like this ! No need to have her own personality even. It's a technique taken directly from "How to Win Friends and Infulence People", and it can be turned off immediately after marriage has been registered. That's almost exactly what this one looks like though ! Mirrored me and followed me - and then it's like it was turned off - became the anti mirror on…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 06:30 AM
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Interestingly I found mgtow about 18 months ago and was regular there until I found redpill. Also shutdown of one of the big mgtow forums happened which was a bit crazy at the time. I'm reading and lifting constantly - still lots to learn !
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 01:27 PM
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Oh it's only standard crazy - well thank god for that.... !!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 12:52 PM
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I'm not aware of her turning people against me. Playing the victim is AWALT stuff - sure ,she does that - though recently has been taking a bit more responsibility for herself and her part to play in outcomes.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:36 AM
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Is there some effort to catch them - i know on some of the mgtow forums they used to hunt them like sentinels with an emp - they can have distinct characteristics in the way they write/think which makes them obvious. Downvote/Schmownvote. I pay attention to the content itself - not how much fucking validation it gets !!!
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:37 AM
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Not sure what that line even means. Coming from her, it probably translates to: "You need to work harder at making me happy." Yes - my thoughts exactly. My issuesc: more fucking and less bullshit. 80% of the time she's grand. Recently, 80% she's not but that's being escalated at the moment in an attempt to get a desired result of some sort. Her issues : apparently there are "thousands" - ie - not much other than displeasure at my awakening I'm thinking.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:35 AM
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That sounds pretty extreme compared to my one, but I can see the potential for her hamster to end up there as a result of some insane spiral of destruction. Ive not seen that level of Chameleon - it was far more subtle than that. Cut from the same cloth for sure though which I guess is my underlying point to this discussion.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:32 AM
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I made a huge mistake sharing some red pill theory with her in the hope that she would see value - I know I know - hindsight and all that. She was quite anti feminist so I thought it was worth a punt. It wasn't as it turns out. Made it more difficult for me to implement when she was researching redpill on ask women or some other bullshit site. I'm not being a dick - though I don't have much room to not be tough in.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:28 AM
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Care to expand ? Ive just been on shrink4men actually reading about that. Ive been getting at least a lot of gaslighting - no thats not what I said - eh yes you did 30 seconds ago - no I didnt.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 09:22 PM
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Just like people who say when they haven't fucked with their partner yet even though they are already in a 3 month relationship "I don't want to hurry things." Yes, they do. They want to fuck this woman the minute they have met her. But they are ashamed and afraid that people will judge them over it, which is utter bullshit. That would be NMMNG defining nice guys as dishonest - this is a perfect example. Pretending they are this nice person to hide the real intentions.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:47 PM
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I'm in the middle of reading it at the moment actually. Did the self assessment and reckon I'm scenario 3 so went straight to that. Time to look after myself properly and not just with women - other areas too. It makes total sense so far.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:23 PM
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I'd say it's a bit of both to be fair.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:22 PM
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I'd never considered the lyric of that one properly before ! Amazing - was one of my favourite songs when I was a kid !!
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:21 PM
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Yeah - I've let this one slide up all over me for years without knowing what to do with any of it. Boiling frog indeed......
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:20 PM
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This part is where you've gone wrong, likely your LTR has hit the wall and you've been letting yourself go and thus have lost frame. I know it seems like she's betrayed you, and she has, but it really is your fault, though we'd like to say women have agency, when it comes down to it they can only be subservient to their emotions. Yep - that's completely true. I let myself slip over the years, and take full responsibility for my part. Regardless of what you choose, it all begins with dreadgame. I…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:16 PM
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