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Money doesn't usually get women horny, though it can help in the sense that money is associated with a higher social status, something which is sexually attractive. Money by itself signals long-term mating value only if it isn't paired with alpha behavior (beta bucks). But at the end of the day, you shouldn't be exerting this much mental energy on rich people's lives. Start by trying to get an intuitive grasp on the core principles of the Red Pill as they apply to your life and the lives of thos…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 09:55 AM
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http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/common.htm HB - Honey Bunny, an acronym coined by Ross Jeffries in his newsletters. Also sometimes mistakenly read as Hot Babe, Horny Bitch or Hard Body, but it's a free world, to each his own:)
/r/askTRP14/09/17 09:47 AM
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If you're going to be doing anything meditation-related, I'd recommend starting out with basic qigong. Meditation was for a very long time considered to be an advanced art, and there have been instances of people having mental breakdowns because they weren't being guided properly. You should start with these folks, imo. I've had great results https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3K-0JpiJu-o http://flowingzen.com/start-here/
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:18 AM
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When you realize "HB" originally stood for "Honey Bunny", it's kind of funny
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:11 AM
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baby steps...
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:04 PM
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In some jurisdictions in the US, I believe alimony is required for common-law marriages and marriage-like relationships
/r/askTRP03/09/17 05:23 AM
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The Roissy Reader (it's online on a forum), more of the Rational Male, the top-level TRP posts
/r/askTRP24/08/17 08:08 AM
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The r/asktrp sidebar
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:35 AM
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FB = I'm not interested right now. If she was into you and willing to act on it, she would have given you her number. She may consider you one of several potential backups if things don't work out
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:34 AM
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You tried, and it failed. You can't shove a red pill down someone's throat--it's much too large for that. They have to consciously work against the gag reflex themselves.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 06:10 AM
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I stumbled upon the subreddit, read through most of the sidebar material late one night and thought it was a fascinating, if possibly incorrect view of the world. I spent a day or two after that thinking it over in my mind and trying to decide which view of the world (red pill or blue pill) actually matched my experiences. Then, it clicked.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 10:17 PM
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Honestly, I have serious doubts about what you're saying. I've not seen evidence in support of the immutability of personality, and instead evidence in support of its changeability, both scientific and anecdotal, myself included.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 01:21 AM
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What makes you think this? I've undergone a radical personality shift since finding TRP, and many other people on this sub have too
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:53 AM
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In my case, it comes from knowing what kind of person I am. I'm determined. I'm resilient. If I fail at something, I still know that I did what I could do, and if there's a next time, I'll be prepared for it. The inner pride that comes from disciplining your mind and body comes from a source that is directly dependent on you.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 12:27 AM
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Wtf? Since when is being a cynical dick genetic? You're just blaming your problems on your genes so you don't have to put forth the effort to actually improve your life.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 11:44 PM
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In his defense, he has stated several times that his intent is to give a descriptive account of sexual dynamics. His blog was not meant to be, from the outset, a game or a self-improvement blog per se. I'm not sure where intuition can exactly fit in in all of this. Sure, scientists and inventors use their intuitions, but when they published their papers, they didn't say, "You know, I just have a hunch that the speed of light is constant in all reference frames.". They followed their intuition, a…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 04:17 PM
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You asked for a reason to do it. Assuming you understood the benefits of meditation, I gave it to you. JP Sears is not relevant
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 10:27 PM
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Which is precisely why men need to quit porn.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 03:50 PM
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It's basically meditation, but you're moving during most of it. flowingzen.com
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 06:40 AM
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An alpha is ultimately someone who is confident in himself. This reveals itself in non-needy behavior, since he is outcome independent. If you really do have this unshakeable confidence then you won't be scared to show your true self. If your true self is an asshole, then you'll flagrantly be an asshole. If your true self is a kind person, then you you'll be a kind person. But the point is, you do it because you wanted to, and not for any other reason. If you give her flowers it's out of the goo…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:27 AM
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A good deal of this is likely attributable to the large amount of xenoestrogens that are coming in from things like dairy products and basically all plastics (even BPA-free ones!). If you raise estrogen levels, you're lowering effective testosterone levels, which basically means that you're become a skinny-fat, low-energy, low-sperm count guy. Now why does that sound familiar...?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:15 AM
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You keep mentioning straw men, and yet, I think I've represented your point fairly. You think people in LTRs should spend all of their fun time together, provided both of them are having fun. I disagree, since there are many times in my life where I'd rather be alone than with someone else. I have to mention, though, your comment has nothing to do with the original post--OP was talking about cases where one party cannot go or does not want to go, and makes the other stay.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 09:08 PM
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Who said anything about both people doing the same thing separately?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:32 PM
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To be in a relationship is not to be misconstrued as meaning that both people should spend every moment of their life together. A conception of LTRs as being two people having to do everything as one person is misguided since it ignores the fact that there are two separate people, with separate desires, who are willing to compromise on certain things. So, of course it is natural to want to do things independent on one's partner. Marriage is not an all-or-nothing proposition. One can be married a…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:58 PM
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I disagree with your premise, because it seems to elevate the importance of what a guy wants. I understand that it may seem that way, but I was very careful to write that one must be prepared for cheating. The message you seem to be so concerned about having TRP convey is conveyed. Great, then there's no problem--people repeat info here all the time, they just phrase it in different ways.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 04:51 PM
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Love and sex are amoral. The concept of "an excuse" is >meaningless. Does a lion need an excuse for eating a zebra? Lions gonna lion, woman's gonna woman. The descriptions of love and sex are amoral in and of themselves, but when placed within the context of human interactions, they sure as hell are moral. Since humans are moral agents, the categories of right and wrong apply. I most certainly do not have the right to kill children, even if that's what chimps and lions do when they find a new fe…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:14 AM
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Virtually all information in the Red Pill consensus is descriptive in nature (hypergamy, polygamy, alpha vs beta, etc.). However, when it comes to advice on what you should do, there is quite a bit of variance: some people advocate for marriage, others think it's a waste of time, and so on. So while you are correct in that the Red Pill teaches that all women will be tempted to cheat, it is not the case that the Red Pill community is silent as to whether or not cheating is OK. I have seen posts a…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:05 AM
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It's stuff like this that makes me think that they are like this from early childhood, and then have to grow out of it, but that our culture infantilizes many women so that they don't have to or can't "grow up", so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 06:12 PM
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This is what I'm doing: 1) Learning languages. Assimil, along with old Linguaphone courses, is the best language learning method I've found. There are whole communities of language learners (language learners dot org and how to learn any language dot com), along with polyglots who give incredible advice (Alexander Arguelles, Luca whats his name, etc.) 2) Learning how to code. I'm starting with Python. There are various resources that teach you the basics for free--codeacademy, How to think like …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 04:22 AM
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This guy knows what he's talking about
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:04 PM
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Just a friendly warning: While the diet has been shown to be effective in the short term, the long term effects are not fully known. Since ketone bodies are used during times of starvation, they're more of an emergency reserve and may not be healthy as the main source of energy in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:02 PM
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Unfortunately, most of this info is already on his well-read blog. However, this write-up probably forced you to organize your thoughts concerning the different concepts you learned, so don't think all your efforts were wasted
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 07:58 PM
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Take a look at "Glossary of Terms and Acronyms (2005)" under "The Rules & Glossary" on the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:09 AM
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The book of Ecclesiastes is also traditionally attributed to Solomon
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:35 AM
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Note that there are recommended ejaculation frequencies in TCM based on your age. Despite this, many people retain semen for longer periods of time (including me). I've found that walking and working out, especially squatting, help me "release" the pent-up energy. If it gets to be too much for you, then masturbate (either a little bit, or to the point of ejaculation), and see if it helps.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:33 AM
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I'm curious as to why you think creativity is feminine. The way I see it, it is the masculine that creates, and the feminine that nurtures. So, my coming up with a brilliant new idea is yang in nature, and my developing it into a fully-fleshed out system is yin. This is why men who store up yang energy through semen retention feel more alive and more creative.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 04:46 AM
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Oh, I totally missed the part where he listened to her demands and got her... I actually had hope for the show after watching the first season
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:54 AM
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I'm confused. What you described is that the show shows that if you act in a purely beta fashion and have a blue pill perspective, then your love life will be messed up, right? Then doesn't the show serve as a warning for the realities of life, and is therefore actually a good thing?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 09:38 PM
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1) That wasn't really all that kind... 2) If we're gonna get technical here, it's a loss of jing, not a misuse of qi.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 11:49 PM
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I would advise people to look deeper into the testing and realize its limitations. Some of the tests only check for total testosterone levels, and not for active testosterone. You could have super-high testosterone, but if it's all bound to protein, then you'll be relatively high-estrogen.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 05:50 PM
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I'm very curious as to how you came to that conclusion
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:55 AM
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So, did you get all this from some study, or is it just based on your experience?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:45 AM
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Genuine altruism =/= insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:12 AM
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Man, someone comes in here with actual logic and people just shit all over him.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 11:41 PM
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Nah. My point was that scientific knowledge is not the only source of knowledge that we have, and that our knowledge of the scientific method's validity is not actually scientific in and of itself.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 11:38 PM
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What is the scientific evidence you have that can show that lack of scientific evidence for a position is grounds for criticizing it? I've never seen a study done on this before...
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 10:13 PM
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1) Always go for the number, and never for FB. People add anyone on FB. 2) Never expect a woman to take the initiative.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 03:51 AM
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This is a very good article. However, I have to mention that sitting meditation is quite advanced. If practiced improperly by the wrong person, it can actually increase anxiety, depression, and lack of self-control. A better solution is to practice qigong, which is a kind of moving meditation (gets the same job done). FlowingZen.com and Mimi Kuo-Deemer's 8 pieces of brocade on YouTube are good places to start.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 02:02 PM
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But what if those claims are true?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 03:09 AM
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While you certainly have a better chance of finding high-quality women elsewhere, it's not a guarantee. Feminism is what happens when the dark side of female nature is allowed to run freely--its already in them. If you don't have enough game to control this and bring out their positive side, then once you're married, expect a decline in happiness, just like with American/British women. Actually, even with game, it's not always guaranteed--some women will never give in. As far as green cards go, …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 01:45 PM
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Where? The part where he gives the same recommendations doctors do?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:48 AM
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I meant to comment on u/prodigy2throw's comment
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 05:05 AM
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And your feelings are more scientific? It just takes a few Google searches to see if he's right or wrong...
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 02:00 PM
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Many people in America (especially blacks like me) suffer from Vitamin D deficiency. However, taking vitamin D before bed really negatively affects sleep quality. It's been true in my case and in others'. Just do your research on negative effects of these, and be careful
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 01:58 PM
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A non-needy compliment on something about her that's within her control (not looks). It should sound more like a statement of fact.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 09:41 PM
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How does one go about living according to Ecclesiastes? It offers a lot of contradictory advice if you take it at face value. It offers different ways to view the world, but then ultimately rejects them all in favor of serving God and being good. You're not Christian, but are you some sort of theist?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 04:51 AM
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When you find a unicorn, please link me to your FR or RP Example post
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 12:55 AM
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I'm Christian and I do see a lot of red pill advice in the Bible, especially in Proverbs and Sirach. However, I think you could improve this post by adding in your own commentary (How does this relate to what we see today? What's the historical context?, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 08:36 PM
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I'm Christian and I do see a lot of red pill advice in the Bible, especially in Proverbs and Sirach. However, I think you could improve this post by adding in your own commentary (How does this relate to what we see today? What's the historical context?, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 08:35 PM
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I'm Christian and I do see a lot of red pill advice in the Bible, especially in Proverbs and Sirach. However, I think you could improve this post by adding in your own commentary (How does this relate to what we see today? What's the historical context?, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 08:35 PM
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It isn't really clickbait. The title was nothing fancy and it delivered what it promised.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:40 AM
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Never works with regards to what? I could just as easily say "watching TV never works" or "playing charades never works". Mental masturbation, as you call it, can be detrimental, like all things, when it is excessive and detracts from other useful activities. However, some people are inclined to ponder topics and come up with explanations for why things are the way they are. Not only do they derive gratification from this, but they also are engaging those parts of the mind that deal with creativ…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 01:05 AM
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Click "about this community" at the top
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 12:26 AM
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Carnegie himself said that you would get the most out of his books by reading them over and over again
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 08:50 PM
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Ikr? The steins are much better
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 12:52 AM
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When there's an excess of carbohydrates or protein in the blood, insulin is released, which in turn helps promote fatty acid synthesis and storage, which is probably where this idea comes from. As far as long term effects go, it seems to be debated, based on a quick Google search.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 08:36 PM
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Both styles that I described can be called "mindfulness", fyi, though your practice seems to be more zen.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 06:41 PM
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It's not necessarily about avoiding a voice in your head. One of the most hpful kinds of meditation, vipassana, has you noting with one word different feelings, thoughts and emotions that come up, and then returning to a mental noting of the abdomen rising and falling. Counting breaths for a few minutes is also recommended in both vipassana and and zazen as an initial way to develop proper focus. Zazen has you focused on avoiding thoughts entirely from the get-go, but vipassana considers this to…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 03:13 PM
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Bruh, men and women pig out, and the opposite is true as well
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:57 PM
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Just letting you know, deepstrength has several articles on the red pill and God's will for the nature of women, if you're interested
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 02:54 AM
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Your account of happiness is utterly nihilistic and serves its purpose only if actively suppress your longing for purpose. To the religious person, the will of God is known, and in fact, all other forms of happiness pale in comparison to the fulfillment of God's will and contemplation of him. As far as social skills go, I agree. There are tons of people I hear or overhear on an almost daily basis that say things that would sound completely stupid coming from someone else (and they do to me), but…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:25 AM
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First off, I have to say, the only sketches I've seen of an INFJ (myself) that really hit close to home are the one that Jung himself, the originator of this whole theory, put forth in his "General Description of the Types" (as the introverted intuitive type), and Michael Pierce's video sketches online (he's an INFJ himself, go figure). In general, it's best not to trust the ones you find on those kinds of sites. Second, someone else mentioned this, but Jungian types are really best explained by…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:03 AM
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So before there were large-scale scientific studies conducted, no one knew anything about personalities?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:55 AM
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You have literally nothing to lose. Hell, you could use a fake name, if you wanted. What purpose does your comment serve?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:10 AM
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You can use the Kindle app for computers and phones. https://www.amazon.com/gp/help/customer/display.html?nodeId=201245960
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:09 AM
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You can always use the search function
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:07 AM
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The guy went through the trouble of writing that entire book. At least buy a physical copy if you read the pdf and find it useful...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:48 AM
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In a sense, you have lost frame. Frame of your life. One solution would be to re-frame these things. For example, when your wife annoys you, start meditating on why it's annoying you. Then, re-frame the situation and take it as it is, with equanimity. Neither good nor bad, it simply is, and maybe you can learn something from it. It gets easier with time. Another option is to actually just change the subject when your wife complains or says something you don't want to talk about. If she seems rea…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:47 AM
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I mean, what you're doing is good, but I don't really see how this relates to my comment...
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:12 AM
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You can't force women to desire you. What you can do is become a desirable man and let the women come to you. There will always be women who will not like you no matter what. There's just nothing between the two of you. However, if you interact with women from a place of confidence, following the advice on here--lift, develop your social skills, learn how to be cocky and funny, amused mastery, and all that other good stuff--then you will find that women become attracted to you. Women have evolve…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:43 AM
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Maybe try giving him advice about how healthy relationships can't be one-sided and that he needs to set personal boundaries? She screwed him over, and he's only hurting himself by letting her still have power over him like this. You can't completely unplug him, but advice like this you see even among feminists who give relationship advice.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 07:07 PM
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Chad doesn't have to be beautiful to be chad. He can look downright disgusting. But yeah, be a fully-developed human being, not a douchebag.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:32 AM
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If you look at it from an evolutionary perspective, there is naturally a dynamic equilibrium that is reached between the mother's interests and the father's. In general, if a guy is good for the mother, he is good for the daughter (at least back in the day), so it would make sense that if she doesn't like you personally, she will instinctively try to keep you away from her daughter. Now, some women override those instincts consciously, but others give way to them, which seems to be the case. Sin…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:01 AM
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Should our dicks be touching during the make-out, or should I take the time to put it back, risking a little bit of awkwardness during the pause there?
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:52 AM
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Stop thinking about alpha and beta. There are only worse and better versions of yourself. Whether you are a better or worse version of yourself depends on what you do with the lot that has been given to you. 1)You are short. So what? There's nothing you can do about it, so get over it. 2) You have a low T:E ratio? Start eating fat and protein-rich foods, lifting weights, getting enough sleep, taking vitamin D, stop eating soy, eating from plastic, and just do whatever you need to do to increase …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:25 PM
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I cannot see anything wrong with that plan in the slightest. The only problem is that whenever I take my dick out, they usually try to one-up me by whipping theirs out to show just how much bigger they are.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 11:11 PM
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I generally don't touch, though that can change.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 06:56 PM
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Some women do give long answers, and I know more men who give short answers than long answers...
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:06 AM
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I mean, everything we see online is a wall of text. At least he added frequent paragraph breaks.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 12:10 AM
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Try looking up what events/rallies/meetups are going on in your city. A quick google search will probably bring up some results, given that you live in a big city. Another option is meetup.com. Also, just try exploring the city on foot and finding new places, not with the intention of finding women, but just with the intention of having fun and doing something new. Then when you actually see a chick you're interested in, go for her then and there.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:26 AM
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No one is forcing you to be here, you know. You can choose to read the material (which I read in three sittings) and possibly learn something useful, or you can choose not to and miss out. But there's no reason to be upset and insult everyone.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:10 PM
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You can still catch herpes from someone who doesn't have an outbreak
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 01:56 AM
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So are the one hundred pushups in each challenge the same as the hundred in the rules? If not, 200 pushups seems a little much imo
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:06 PM
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Though I don't disagree, this is probably better-suited for another subreddit
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 11:24 PM
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There's also their advanced knowledge of mathematics and many sciences, as well as engineering, formal grammars, etc.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 09:43 PM
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