redsealsparky Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Need some advice	Escalation & Calibration	redsealsparky	/r/seduction	15/12/21 08:20 PM

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1	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex But what if I think it's important to establish a relationship first? Sex isn't meaningless to me and treating like its special makes it better.	/r/seduction	26/10/22 03:48 PM
1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt... The number one thing I struggle with: I just draw a blank sometimes and don't know what to say? How do you never run out of things to say?	/r/seduction	29/08/22 01:23 AM
9	Nine tips for improving your conversation and social skills I just remind myself that they probably have poop inside them and they are just another person. I try to focus less on what exactly I say and try to think how what I say will make the person feel.	/r/seduction	16/08/22 06:29 PM
13	Thoughts on smoking weed day/days before a date and if any effects on self If your a responsible adult and smoke occasionally I don't see why it matters. If your showing up to dates ripped out of your mind that's a different thing.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 12:44 PM
3	Went on 3 dates with a 10/10: My experience (so far) She gave you a shit test?	/r/seduction	15/01/22 05:23 PM
1	[deleted by user] Not exactly as you described but I moved to the cayman Islands and was swimming in these kinds of girls. I guess for starters you have to put yourself in places where you'll cross paths with these people.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 12:07 AM
1	Need some advice Thanks for confirming what I was thinking	/r/seduction	15/12/21 09:19 PM
1	Need some advice I agree, we've already "planned" a couple date ideas. She indicated she's down and we've established what our schedules are. I've made some suggestions of times we could do things but I don't want to push the subject too hard. I wouldn't say we've been talking endlessly with no point, it's been engaging and we've learned a lot. Okay I'll stay the course and let her reach out. Thanks bro.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 08:52 PM
23	The best thing to say to a woman when you approach Yeah this guy's thing is way too many words to blurt out and why lie? Just be straight.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 02:35 PM
8	Posture is Key Don't forget your walk, if you got a goofy walk that's no good. A good trick for fixing your posture is to look straight up, then pivot your head down and put your shoulders back a little. Make sure you arnt ridged.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:31 PM
2	I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out. If it's any consolation, I never know what to do when a woman approaches me. I'm so used to having to put in the work it honestly shocks me every time. I just never know what to say, I'm passionate about a lot of things but none of them are very interesting to other people.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 09:08 PM
2	I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out. The good news is you must be handsome or have very low standards lol	/r/seduction	26/10/21 09:00 PM
6	How to approach girls indirectly (from art of seduction) Here's the thing: Ready? Woman are just people Humans with feeling, needs and insecurities just like you. So you could be a player and try to mould yourself to what you think everyone wants Or You could be the best most authentic version of yourself. If they like you great! If not they can fuck off and you'll keep on living your life. Just talk to them like anyone else, build a connection.	/r/seduction	23/09/21 08:34 PM
1	How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward? Congrats, your the stand in boyfriend! She uses you to fulfill some of her needs and will string you along till she finds something better. I'd say be aware of it but move onto something else.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 07:05 PM
2	Question about Sex I couldn't imagine not cumming from sex, seems like a waste of time. Learning to have control over when you cum so you arnt a two pump chump makes sense though. I have been with some woman who where nymphos who would love to be fucked for hours but I always found them tiresome. With extended foreplay, multiple rounds and post cuddling it might make it to a couple hours but the actual act of penetration for hours? Fuck that, my shit would get sore.	/r/seduction	13/09/21 02:18 PM
2	How to end a date with a kiss? Throughout the date gradually break the touch barrier, nothing sexual just talk with your hands and touch their arm to get their attention or something like that. Go shoot pool and show them how to play. Hold their hand while you walk on the beach. At then end of the date offer to walk them to their door and ask them if they kiss on a first date. Or it will just happen organically if she's feeling it.	/r/seduction	20/08/21 07:23 PM
5	[FIELD REPORT] 5'7 Asian Las Vegas Night Game Cool report. I'm envious of your ability to walk up to people and just pull something out of your ass to say.	/r/seduction	20/08/21 06:11 PM
11	Going out with extrovert friends indirectly kills my confidence with girls I'mma be honest with you, I hate going out alone. How do I get over it?	/r/seduction	24/07/21 10:18 PM
1	Going out with extrovert friends indirectly kills my confidence with girls I'm the type of guy that works best with an extroverted sherpa.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 10:17 PM
1	Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls? I've been in pretty good shape most of my life but when I was at my peak woman where all over me. That level of fitness is pretty hard to maintain and with that work and life I eventually burnt out. I'm still in decent shape and do alright for myself I've just never been great at meeting woman.	/r/seduction	18/07/21 07:24 PM
1	Is it possible that she is having sex with someone else? Ahhh you're the stand in boyfriend. You feed her craving for attention and she gives you just enough to string you along. I wouldn't say it's a total loss, just be aware of your situation. Unless your exclusive and it's agreed upon its safe to assume shes getting dick from everywhere she pleases. I'd say keep up some contact as theres no need to throw it away but don't make yourself so available.	/r/seduction	07/07/21 02:43 PM
1	Moving from India to the US for college (large state school) Well in my experience dating for men is kind of a numbers game, you could adapt a player mentality and try to adapt to be the thing people like or be an authentic person and attract a person that is the right fit for you. So get out and get exposure, not nessisarly to "pick up woman" youre just out talking to people trying to make a genuine connection. The most attractive thing to woman is having fun with your friends so having a well establish social circle is important. Also being In shape is …	/r/seduction	03/07/21 03:27 PM
1	What do you guys do in an environment not in your favor (ex: being a non White in the South or being dark skinned in Asia)? I'd say be aware of negative sterio types and try to avoid being them. If anything I'd say being new and exotic is a huge plus, you just gotta know how to play it. Have some interesting stories and facts about your home cued up. Get out and immerse yourself in the local culture. Learn the local language and history.	/r/seduction	03/07/21 03:05 PM
1	How can I incorporate a sense of slight ‘risk’ or ‘danger’ into my personality?? Just start dealing meth.	/r/seduction	28/06/21 11:29 PM
2	Dating tips for high quality women I can get behind most of them except the don't answer questions so seriously. I want people to take what I say seriously and not think I'm a clown.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 04:03 PM
1	what is something attractive that women do during conservation (in person)? It's kind of hard to quantify. I was going to type some out but they seemed weird when I was looking at them on paper. I guess I'll try. it has to do with the way a woman moves, the sway of her hips when she walks, how she might have to get on her tip toes to reach something, a cute sneeze. It doesn't mean being a bimbo or helpless damsel in distress. A quote I pulled from google Ask a man and he will wax eloquent on softness, grace and charm as the epitomes of femininity. "Curves, softness and …	/r/seduction	20/02/21 03:59 AM
1	what is something attractive that women do during conservation (in person)? Not nessisarly conversation but those little bits of feminine grace.	/r/seduction	20/02/21 03:37 AM
8	First time flirting with a woman? I'm not going to tell you have to live your life but I'd say don't shit where you eat. Also don't think of it as I'm talking to this woman I like, there just a person and your just having a conversation, if you have chemistry you'll click. The number one thing I try to keep in mind when talking in a situation that could lead to flirting is focus less on the exact words and more on how your words will make that person feel.	/r/seduction	15/02/21 01:11 AM
3	How to have a good posture? A trick I use to correct my posture is look straight up at the ceiling then concentrate on just pivoting your head and look at something eye level. Do a little should roll backwards. Then breath and make sure you arnt carrying any tension cause if its forced that just ruins everything. Or at home you could put your back on a wall and the first two things to touch should be your butt and shoulder blades.	/r/seduction	14/02/21 09:22 PM
2	Being interesting while texting. If I where to give you one tip that's helped me: worry less about what exactly you say and more about how what your saying makes someone feel.	/r/seduction	05/10/20 02:34 PM
1	How To Get Laid By Being Boring (Infield) I have literally never done a cold approach like this in my life, had you two had any sort of interaction previously?	/r/seduction	26/08/20 11:30 AM