redshavenosouls Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	My ex's boyfriend thinks he can discipline our teenage children and that he has parental authority over my kids. If it's the boyfriend's property, then yes he can take it away. You should by your sin his own, even if it's a burner from a convenience store.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/26 11:33 PM
1	What do I do with 1000’s of pictures of my STBXW on my phone? Delete them all. Looking at them only causes heartbreaking.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/25 03:28 PM
3	Funny what happens when you can’t weaponize divorce anymore… Ugh. That happened to my husband. He is stuck with a judge who hates military fathers. His only hope for appeal is if the ex wife moves to a different county.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/25 01:23 PM
2	Has anyone been on the r/Divorce subreddit? I feel like it’s run by women and is 90% posts from women talking about how much they hate being married and want a divorce. Sorry for the late response. My husband doesn't use social media and all the things you talk about are relevant to his experience and his ongoing custody disputes. I sometimes read something on this forum and him the phone so he can read through you what you all have to say.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/25 09:56 PM
16	Has anyone been on the r/Divorce subreddit? I feel like it’s run by women and is 90% posts from women talking about how much they hate being married and want a divorce. Yeah I'm a woman. Don't go to that one. It's definitely woman focused. Also if you guys ever date in the future, stay away from r/ blendedfamilies. That one is usually step parents asking for advice and all the birth moms beat them down. I read this because my husband is in the same position as you with a crazy ex wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/25 09:54 PM
1	Applicable to US States: Pro tip to men with unstable marriages Nothing if you can find one. All the large banks do, but you might have better luck with a credit union.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/24 05:19 PM
3	Applicable to US States: Pro tip to men with unstable marriages Sorry dude. What you are portraying is not correct. Chex systems only has about 3 flags. It's based on your activity at other banks. NSF history is one, meaning you have a history of bouncing checks. Charge offs is another, so you overdrew your account and never paid it back, so your account was sent to collections. Next one is fraud activity, this one is common with people using dead Grandma's social security number to keep cashing checks. I worked in banking for 20 years.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 01:58 PM
11	Women who lurk in the Men's Divorce subreddit, why are you here? Because my boyfriend happens to be in a county that has a backlog of divorce cases to hear and 14 months and counting later his BPD soon to be ex wife refuses to settle. He's about 20 grand into legal fees and everything you guys say is relevant. She has done all the classic stuff like try and paint him as abusive, try and alienate the kids, call the police, etc. I appreciate you all. And I'm sorry you are going through that. FYI. I'm 10 years younger and 50 pounds lighter than the ex. There is …	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 04:26 PM
5	Now she wants to work on it, lol. Hey dude, I don't even know if I'm allowed to comment since I'm a woman. I follow this sub because my man is going through it with his STBX. Im just waiting for this to happen. I'm about ten years younger, 50lbs lighter and god knows how many IQ points higher than her. The main thing is, my man says I'm nice, and kind, and don't argue and have an awesome sex drive. You will meet someone like me.. don't even consider going back. Cheers!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/22 12:13 AM