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This has prompted me to start reviewing prob & stats, this time in both R and Excel Good going. I have a high paying career in Data Science, and these skills are good for the bucks.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 11:52 AM
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Sure. Fine with it as long as its medicine. :) Been off lurking MRP lately, so might as well come in handy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 04:12 PM
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but I saved all the comments before that happened. Mr. Persaeus, could you please share these with me? do you have a bot that searches the word? Lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 11:47 AM
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You know what, when I read your comments, I have this rage and I tell myself, I just hate this guy, he is such a jerk. When I read these replies, I thought the same. Only that I found myself doing pushup variations 5 mins later, which I had been procrastinating with the surgery as an excuse. It worked and I am getting my ass back on track.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 09:46 AM
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You would rather be fat than be in good shape? No. I am having such thoughts for a couple of days now. My frame is fucked up.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 09:40 AM
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It's too bad your mindset is so fucking ugly. I know and I want to get out of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 09:39 AM
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Lifting: On hold. Recovering from surgery. Will be starting bodyweight exercises this week though. I simply cannot stand the boredom(or the depressed feeling) from not working out. I have consent from doctor to start basic exercises and cardio. Diet: After doctor's consent have started adding fats to diet. Will be slowly moving into LCHF and calorie deficit. Overall health: Core area has been healing and the 4 holes in my stomach feel itchy these days. It probably means its healing well. Have st…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/16 06:25 AM
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My ltr looks like one, Asian though not from the North. I have a thing for North Asians too. :) Fuckin source of my oneitis. :(
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 02:04 PM
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Lol. Second this. Why would an HB10 live in that small a town anyway. She will want to monetize it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 02:00 PM
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No he didn't. But I did my research and I know certain foods are going to be rough(or smooth? Lol) on me. I had 2 McD burgers and fries yesterday and digestion has been normal. And I finally got consent from my doctor to restart keto. So, that's good news. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 01:56 PM
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Oh that helps. HB6. Thanks for the link.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 03:19 AM
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So dark chocolate babe, what was she? Then HB3/4 maybe, she is just fuckable, nothing more than that. She is a 20yr old btw. Don't know if that adds points in my case.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 06:52 AM
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Wait for full recovery, plus an extra week. I am definitely not doing the compound lifts for another 5 weeks. And even post that I will start with the empty bar again, from scratch. There are 4 bloody holes in my core, one of them is 20mm in size. Too much risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 01:52 PM
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does her cooch talk back? She impersonates her cooch, and talks back. ;) An HB1 is like the ugliest land whale there ever was I though HB stood for Hot Babe/Body. These females were like the most basic hot babes(when dressed well with make-up) that I might fuck but never brag about. Maybe my scale is wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 01:37 PM
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Yes I do. But I haven't checked out the jobs there or in the mailer. Thanks for reminding me of this. I had gotten this job through LinkedIn.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 01:33 PM
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Lifting: Lifting is on hold and will be for the next 5 weeks. Need rest & recovery from gallbladder surgery before I step under the barbell. I feel a bit depressed from not going to the gym for the last week. They shaved my body before the surgery, and I was absolutely delighted from seeing veins on my quads, for the first time in my life. The bad part I think is I might lose those gains over the course of the next 5 weeks. Diet: Diet was absolutely fucked post surgery and I think I have been on…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 08:31 AM
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Writing from the hospital bed. Got my gall bladder removed and a 20mm stone that was in it. Huge relief. I got laid off from my job, the startup I work for is shutting down. Suddenly sex frequency and quality went up and ltr has been a good FO at both fronts. Squat progressing great. Went up 10lbs this week. Read NMMNG again. Read the manipulated man. That's it. This week has been tough mentally and phsically.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 01:12 PM
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Keep hoping, you will be alpha soon. For me, I always like a shit test as my pre-workout. Does the job, without the side effects.
/r/askMRP25/08/16 01:00 PM
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but this one seems a bit more natural to me. Same here. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 07:11 AM
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If that's a magical boundary that she's not happy with - she's free to make different choices in life Your comments are helping me get out of my anger phase, just like J10H's. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 07:01 AM
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Then he has to actually have self control as well. Lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 06:58 AM
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It is perfectly acceptable to realize you have self control and your woman needs you to control her a little. Perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 06:57 AM
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I get your point now. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 06:56 AM
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For me, it doesn't matter where I learn how to do something, so long as I can get good at it. This is great advice. I see this as a part of a strong frame. If I had one, I wouldn't have seen it as a DLV. Thanks WNS.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 06:56 AM
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She keeps on asking for guidance and leadership, you keep on deferring. You have to take the lead Yes. I have realized this now and I am going to work on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 12:15 PM
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it's emasculating to get fucking destroyed over and over. What would MRP do? I have the same issue and find it hard to keep frame. Its embarrassing to tell you guys, but I fuckin lose to my SO at games when we go to an amusement park. Its hard to be stoic with her teasing me on it. The TRP answer might be: next her. Lol. Check this out if you haven't already. Edit: context
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 12:00 PM
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There's plenty of room back at dread level one. I don't know why I like this comment a lot. Do I feel more comfortable going to back to being a BP? No, its impossible to go back, now that I know of the matrix. Maybe I have realized, its ok to take it slow. As for the Chad stories, that's still a huge reason for my anger phase and I want to let that go. what you are doing to improve yourself. Agreed. I will keep that in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 11:41 AM
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My chick doesn't mind that I read trp stuff. I see it as a DLV, letting your sparring partner know that you need to go to the internet to learn how to be a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 11:14 AM
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Lifting: Squat, BP, OHP all went up 5 lbs last week. Out of keto and added carbs, following doctor's suggestion for a planned surgery next week. FR1: Failure 1 Took her out for a party with the wingman(WM, my game partner and close friend) and his gf. We got drunk. It was all good, until SO overheard me talking to WM about how the guy(Chad) in the corner is the asshole who women including ours would hate but have sex with. SO flipped and told me:"I am not that kind of a girl. Don't judge me. You…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 08:57 AM
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This?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 02:36 AM
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Funny part is TFA using a crushed car image within the article.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 12:24 PM
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Instead of hiding it, I told my parents and her parents. They were mad, but I held my ground This is a big move, yet I am considering it. Thanks for the tip.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 05:01 AM
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Why would the sex go down if her sister moves in? LTR is very shy when it comes to sex.(Maybe just with me). With a family member in the other room she would be extra cautious. Not to make it loud with all the moaning etc.. I might have to get a sound proof room. LOL. Best would be A&A: "Time to make SIL jealous." or something along those lines. shit testing to go way up when SIL moves in The last time SIL came home, I had a huge shit test from LTR within 5 mins of her entering the house. I pass…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 04:59 AM
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It's about setting expectations as a "we". This works like a charm and also your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 04:46 AM
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how you deal with a woman threatening to leave - call her a cab Is there not more to this? Shit got so bad she wanted me to leave. That was a shit test("You leave because you are an asshole."). Hence what OP did or what you suggest is the right option. If it was: I can't take this anymore. I am done. I am leaving you. Isn't that a comfort test?
/r/askMRP22/08/16 04:13 AM
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You had an opportunity to end the line of chads.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 04:06 AM
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Yes I have. NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren't married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. Is that the one you are pointing me to?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 08:44 AM
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Porn: This is a tough one, 35 years of porn is a horrible addiction to break free from. I may need counselling to get over this unless I can find some resources that specifically address it. /u/redmountainpill has a program to address this, mentioned above in one of the comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 08:40 AM
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Was it something like:"Why don't you go across to him and maybe he will let you blow his whistle". ?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 08:02 AM
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It strikes me that you might at the point where you're excited with your new found 'tools' and therefore talking about them too much and their place in your relationship. This might be true. I am fairly excited because of the power RP is giving me. I thought about this, and the only thing that pops up in my mind is: "My ego will feel good if I can nuke this relationship and go fuck many women, now that I have the tools to do that". And I think that's just me saying:"That will show her I am an al…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 05:58 AM
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I turned this into an MP3 This is wonderful. Thanks for sharing man.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 05:49 PM
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Be an adult and explain we are in a relationship,living together,deal with it.... Yes, I am going to let her decide this one. OI. I am going to be happy either way. Think you need to STFU more Week over week, every shit test I ignored or laughed at, has led to shitty comfort tests and its breaking her heart: "I am a good girl. Why are you doing this to me? What have I done? You are hurting me." She knows, she can sulk as much as she wants, and I will still keep doing my thing(with a smile). I gu…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 05:08 PM
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You have to lead a relationship, but it is not on you to move, stay or heavens forbid rent a place for the 3 of you. Yes this. I should be happy either way, and I should let her decide this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 04:52 PM
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Lifting: Squat went up 10 lbs this week. Very happy with this success. Realized that listening to favorite music sections, helps push through. Learning when to not STFU Part One: Her: Shit testing... Me: Hahaha Her: "Don't laugh at my shit testing, it makes me more angry." Me: Hahaha Her: "Why do you keep laughing, can't you see it makes me more and more pissed off?" Me: "I will not laugh, but leave the room the next time you want to act pissy." Her: "Why do you not console me when I get pissed/…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 09:17 AM
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your ass is so busy being RPRambo that you make her hurt too much Second this.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 02:09 PM
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She's been used by "asshole" exes and I've never wanted to be that guy. Quoting from the book you are going to start reading today: "Nice Guys are especially concerned about pleasing women and being different from other men." You know which book that is, right?
/r/askMRP12/08/16 05:27 PM
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how do you get 166lb on a bar, fractionals? I have kg plates in my gym. 75kg SQ 3X5. Off the top of my head, that should be ~166lb. If you are doing your protein supplements I am off the supplement right now, but used to take one some time back. Getting most of my protein through whole foods: I eat 6 whole eggs and around 250g of chicken everyday. I think that's 110g of protein everyday, so doesn't hit my target protein intake for my weight by any chance. Maybe I should add a scoop of whey here …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 03:52 PM
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I'm a man of value, extreme value. Now I get it. I think I am not there yet, and that's why I have better frame if I just assume every woman cheats given the right circumstances. I remember a comment by J10H about hypogamy. Is that even true/possible?
/r/askMRP12/08/16 03:18 PM
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How you will you manage to make those lifting goals? My current SQ: 166lb 3X5, don't know my 1RM. Current BW 180lbs at 5'8" with 52lbs of fat, that's 29% BF. Within 48 squat sessions, I will be under 20% body fat and squat 230 lb. Whether I will be able to squat at the rate I describe is not completely under my control. But I am getting a PT to help me out and he told me it's a stretch but possible even on a cal-deficit with adequate rest(8hrs + ZMA). Don't know if I can trust him but he increas…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 03:11 PM
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In other words, never too late to become that great man you dreamed of back in the day. Yes and it has been sort of fuel for growth for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 02:47 PM
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this sub is about building yourself so that you become a man where she does not want to cheat, does not want to have sex with another man, nor has a need to I thought, this sub was about internalizing the fact that given the right place and circumstances your woman WOULD cheat on you. Losing you should mean, losing out on life. So her best move would be to get damn good at hiding. In fact she only wants to be intimate with you. Disney fantasy? Correct me if I am wrong, /u/jigglydee .
/r/askMRP12/08/16 09:06 AM
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Just bought my copy yesterday Good going u/doodleflopper. It's a life changing book.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 04:34 AM
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Currently at 530 and getting stronger Are these 1RMs? And is this a stall in progress? Does keto(and cal-deficit) cause this plateau? I am at 460(SQ 3X5 + DL 1RM + BP 5X5). Keto/cal-deficit has definitely made my progress slow.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 03:02 PM
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Re-reading NMMNG this week. Thanks /u/The_Litz
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 12:02 PM
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All points taken. Thanks /u/Persaeus.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 12:01 PM
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Sleep patern is haywire at the moment. 3 ZMA pills, 30 mins before sleep might help, if you want to workout and get adequate R&R. Working for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 11:57 AM
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For me, it means its ok to be rejected for up to 4 times, beyond that I will remove my time(value). Also understand that your time=value only if you are an awesome busy self improving man.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 07:39 AM
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This weekend. Thanks man!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 06:05 AM
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The more senior guys can probably help you better on this. I am reading BPP's book. Read Chapter on DL4 in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 04:19 PM
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Fuck, you got me there! This. I am still not owning my shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 02:50 PM
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I'd like to know how the denials ladder works out for you. Do you mean my relationship and sex life working out for me? /u/doodleflopper, I want to reach a point where it doesn't matter if it works out for me or not. I am far far away from that point. I don't want to use an RP tool, if it has a purpose other than developing a rock solid frame and happiness with or without.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 02:43 PM
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It just reminds me of how a woman should be the last thing that destroys my masculinity. There are many other verses that I like a lot, especially from Chap 3 on Karma Yoga(selfless action as a way to perfection). Talks a lot about outcome independence, validation that should come from within, owning your shit and letting go of the covert contracts. I have just recently started re-reading the scripture. The scripture now makes absolute sense, through the redpill lens. Yes, I absolutely like WOTS…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 02:29 PM
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It helps fill in the top portion of my chest. No matter how ripped my chest gets, the tissue will always be on top of the muscle, so visible. Plus the tissue causes puffy nipples, which is far from aesthetic on a man's body. I am yet to get the surgery done, and its part of my MAP. I am just waiting to get down to 15% BF before I get that tissue removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 02:13 PM
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Last week's spill over: I lost frame and upped the beta the first 3 days of this week. This was because she had been acting aloof, as if she is checking out, following the massive shitty comfort tests that I supposedly failed last week. Beta failures, too much texting and too much talking on my part. Too much texting: I texted too much, because I made her the priority over my mission. Found this and put some sense into me. No more texting except for logistics. No gaming her(or any other woman) o…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 08:26 AM
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would like to add a lot more muscle; but I am comfortably below 12% BF and wear tight fitting clothes. This is inspiring. Great FR. Mr. Persaeus. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 05:59 AM
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I like this post a lot. Lol. Are you serious? You can realize that you can't spin a hotter woman... that's just being real with yourself. Yes. This. Your insecurities are what got you in this mess. Totally. Now that I am not insecure, she wants the insecure boy back. Back when I was insecure, she wanted me to man up. How fucked up is that!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 10:33 AM
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Your awesome switch is always on and your dickhead switch is always off. The switch you toggle is being in the room/house or out of the room/house. I knew this all along, but failed to follow up. I now get it: she successfully broke my frame, no matter how much frame I was trying to fake on the outside. The impact of being low on sidebar fuel. Thanks man!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 11:33 AM
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There was a post by one of the Endorsed Contributors about "the Hamster maze" This
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 11:23 AM
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You sir, just enlightened me. Against the professor vehement advice you have removed your mental-presence from the relationship; and as predicted your woman is freaking. This is exactly what I did. Off to the sidebar now.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 08:14 AM
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Correct me if I am wrong. You guys broke up and ended the relationship. Not even a day later you are still together? She told me she is leaving me. I told her "Whatever makes you happy!". I continued to keep frame, and didn't bother moving out or asking her to move out right away. Kept my shit on track and remained happy. Now, correct me if I am wrong here. When shit tested, I take the simplest action that lets me keep my frame. So, if the woman, wants to breakup, she knows where the door is and…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 08:13 AM
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but she things she wants more... because he did more She wants the beta me back. Tells me you can be alpha to the world, just not with me. That's not happening. I am far far happier being an alpha that gets 0 sex from LTR, than a beta that gets sexed 2-3 times a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 07:53 AM
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Sound like OP is ignoring his woman I had planned a (very romantic) date with her. But she had been acting silent and sad all day. In the evening I told her "Since you don't seem to be happy, I will cancel the date". That's where it started. I withdrew my time, attention, affection and presence, all of it at the same time, against the Prof's prescription. This was my fault. I see your advice. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 07:37 AM
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If you got her through beta game when you got together, this may wind up being a deal breaker because truly, you are not that guy. I got her completely through beta game after 3 months of some alpha behavior when we met. I have come to accept that she might never see me as Alpha. But I want to take it to DL10(currently at DL3), before I move on. If you are afraid of messing up the relationship so much that you are afraid you may loose it then why bother with MRP? just plug back in. This. I need …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 07:28 AM
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Lots of she's here. More shitty comfort tests this week. Shitty Comfort Testing - Day 1: Her: "You have become such a hard hearted person. Its like there is an armour around your heart and mind. Nothing can pierce through you and my emotions don't break you."[This made me smile. I got some frame, it seems.] "You are killing this relationship and I am standing on the edge. Do you even care for me? I don't know what to do? What is my fault in all this? I have been such a loving girlfriend to you[r…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 05:24 PM
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I will do some research on how to apply the 80/20 rule to my shit, sounds like this was key for you. Dude, dude, dude. Stop. There is no research here. Just write down(or mentally note) all the things you need to get done. Pick those that have the highest priority and importance and get them done. Go back to the now smaller list, and repeat. As simple as that. Maybe some of the senior men here can help you better. I might be giving you wrong directions. /u/Persaeus ?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/16 09:41 AM
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Got to try out the brand new tent Kudos on the camping trip! What brand of tent do you use?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/16 08:38 AM
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Other than attain a perfect score every day I'm not sure what I can do about this. Perfect score in whose eyes? Hers? Then don't! but she still follows me around pointing out shit that I've not noticed or hasn't gone 100% perfect. Apply this when she is pointing out shit, and get the shit done anyway, because it needs to get done. Make it 100% perfect in YOUR eyes. Then hold frame. Repeat. Noob here, my 2 cents. I used to have the same issue in my relationship. She was being a captain(a shitty o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/16 08:29 AM
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Co-workers look me up for a chat/bitch/moan session. I don't partake if they start venting their shit. Can you advise me on how you handle this, without coming across as dick? Concepts from WISNIFG/NMMNG?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/16 08:01 AM
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This is the equivalent of two lumberjacks talking about clearcutting a forest, and one of them ask what should be done with the ferns. Lol. rpnow, I also have a similar aim as you: Got at least 40lbs until I'm 15%. Persaeus is right. We need to lift heavy(compound lifts, low reps) to maintain(or grow) the muscle as we lose the fat on a diet with a calorie deficit(suggested keto, one reason: fats keep you feeling full). Hypertrophy should be the last thing on our mind right now. This is a great c…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 07:24 AM
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Thanks for this advice. Will do.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 06:39 AM
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Rapid weight loss can actually exacerbate gallbladder problems. From this People who lose more than 3 pounds per week may have a greater chance of getting gallstones than those who lose weight more slowly. But they formed because I was on a low fat diet(thinking fats make you fat) in my BP days. On the other hand, keto diet makes the issue more pronounced because of the high fat and the higher amount of bile required to digest the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 06:38 AM
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Shit I am owning: Career: I know I have put in average efforts last year, yet among the top rated on the salary hike. Putting down a concrete action plan to give my best in the coming year. Lifting & Diet: Joined the most expensive gym in town, for convenience and avoiding long commutes in peak traffic. This is making everyday life much easier for me. I am going to put the saved time towards either sleeping more or hobbies. Jumpstarting the day with light 10 min cardio, followed by heavy compoun…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 01:25 PM
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I can't help but feel as though I'm the woman she settled for You guys are two women in a relationship. I'm not self actualized enough to dismiss her remarks with confidence. Self actualization is right there.>>>> Also, do you lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 02:02 PM
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Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 01:39 PM
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phrasing isn't thanks, it's a compliment Got it. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 08:26 AM
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I got it. Thanks for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 08:25 AM
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Suggest you perfect AM and just ignoring shit test. Done. Will do.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 05:43 AM
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She has told me she likes me giving her space as she has a chance to miss me. My LTR used to say the same thing. Post MRP I realized, its not that she wants the space. The truth is she does not want to be around my beta behavior. Since MRP, with DL2/DL3, she is getting all the space she always wanted, but complains about how little time I give her. MRP noob here, but just my 0.02 cents and might not be true in your case.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 11:04 AM
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Thanks man. My first one, and I have a long long way to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:29 AM
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"Will this be funny / amusing for ME?" Gold! Will remember this.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:29 AM
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Be mysterious not a fucking comedian. Thanks for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:28 AM
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If she cooked dinner, how about just saying "this tastes really good." Isn't that rewarding a basic expectation from the LTR? And thanks for pointing out my IGAF attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:26 AM
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Love all the dick jokes in that movie. I had more popcorn on the floor than in my mouth the last time I saw it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 10:25 AM
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Shit I am owning: Career: Got a 33% hike on a decent enough salary, increased responsibilities and people reporting in to me. Should be good enough to handle the expected expenses this year. Also, will be receiving the full amount on the variable bonus end of this month. Game: Found a male friend partner to start gaming people. Put a strategy for this and we are going to do this every Sunday for an hour in nearby malls/happening localities. This guy is a fan of people like James Clear, Stephen C…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 09:59 AM
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What have been some of your most effective forms of dread and at what level of dread? That you stop doing dread FOR HER, at almost every dread level.
/r/askMRP17/07/16 06:13 PM
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I've been introduced to the Headspace app Just installed this and started. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 01:00 PM
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I just told her I have a couple surgeries in the next few months and went broken record on the shit testing that ensued. Surprisingly, she has been sweeter and more submissive, thereafter. You do not need to tell her shit about your health and management of your health. This. Will always remember this. And she is not my mommy, nor do I need her emotional support for this. Have told about the issue to a couple of male friends and they are definitely the support I need(if any, one text and they wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 05:55 AM
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Took your advice and doing more AM now than A&A. AM seems to work for now, in my case.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 05:44 AM
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The real take home message from the astrologer OP is your beta can be seen from orbit. This. He even told me how I have a soft body type, and my mind is even softer. Lol, I have lost 20+kgs and still soft. Will continue lifting with rage. Thanks for this, it really makes sense now.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 05:23 AM
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Is there a specific form of meditation you are doing? Can you help me with one?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 12:12 PM
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Yes. I am not good at talking. Do you have any pointers on how I could do this better?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 08:21 AM
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Lol. No. He actually mentioned a dozen ways she shit tests me and how I budge every time. He told me I need to become outcome independent, have abundance mentality, give up the validation seeking behavior and the oneitis etc.(in his own words). He was talking to me like one of the mods would thrash a guy victim puking and all this by doing some basic number crunching on her and my DOBs. The point was, I sulked thinking this relationship will never work, which made me realize I am still trying to…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 07:30 AM
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I will add it. Half assed job on my part. Thanks for pointing out.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 02:27 PM
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EDIT: Litz pointed out my half assed job on the OYS. 3 months in. Going slow and step-wise with the dread levels. Dread Level 1: Passing shit tests and building frame: I am living with a extrovert, smooth talking woman. In the past I have always been dominated by her words. Introvert and silent me needs much more work on A&A, AM, STFU. So, writing some of the shit tests here, so that I can get any advice on how to better DL1. I see a strong DL1 as the minimum frame that I need in this or the nex…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 10:15 AM
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How long you have implemented red pill into your marriage? Almost 3 months now. Where are you at on the 12 Levels of Dread? Level 3. But do fail sometimes at DL1. Enjoying DL2 and DL3 thoroughly. How long have you been married, and how is it going? 2+ yr LTR How is your sex life? (quantity and quality) Quantity definitely has improved. Quality approaching to the way it was when we started out. Blowjobs are on the table, while they never were pre-mrp. How are you? (happiness, fitness- do you even…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 10:38 AM
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Shit I am owning: 1. Lifting on track except SQ. Failed at 155lbs for the third time. Deloading to 145. 2. Diet on track. 3. Reading BPP's book, WISNIFG, MAP. 4. Guitar on track. Connecting with musicians around. Shit I am starting to own: 1. Grooming and dressing: Got a new haircut, researching on and choosing new clothes. Shit I am not owning: 1. Sex: She is out of town. Once. 2. Anxiety. Getting over my beta shit history. 3. Postponing marriage talk. Still figuring out the best way to do this…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 05:32 PM
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You fuckin raped me in 2 secs.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 04:40 PM
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marriage is a big fucking deal I agree. But, with this girl alimony is not going to be a problem for me. I would not have to pay it. If I divorce her in the future, the problems I would have are a significant drop in my parents' social status and a hard time getting re-married(if I wish to), to a woman who has never married before. get away from the whole idea of this being a marriage I am not going to get a marriage certificate. I am not going to have kids. This still doesn't mean I have to get…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 04:17 AM
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She doesn't already know and accept your expectations The problem is, my niceness had set almost no expectations back then. I was that beta. I am guessing the only way I can bring in expectations is if she starts mate guarding the man I become. And I need to man up fast. I need a solid frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 09:53 AM
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If you crushed a set on stage in front of a packed venue, she might be interested in the status boost I am no Malmsteen. But I think I need to get back to doing shows.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 07:54 AM
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Got it!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 07:53 AM
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There is also the concept of lag, or the 1000' tow rope The lag is a definite concern since I do not have much time left. I think that's where improving myself as a dependable leader and leading her comes into picture.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 07:52 AM
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I will think about these in more detail tonite and on my hour commute back home from work. Quick thought before I log off. Might not be penning it down in the best way. Ask yourself why you would not be happy if you nexted her tomorrow? You know what scares me about nexting her today, is knowing that it was not her fault all this time. That it was me. That I slowly killed the passion in our relationship, with my behavior. If I next her today, I hurt her to depression with no fault of hers, I hur…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 01:30 PM
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Yes it does, at first and for awhile. I sometimes feel like punching the wall, pulling my hair and crying at the same time as I read and ruminate on the sidebar material. I sometimes feel cold and a slight pain in my chest area. I control myself. Am I going through the anger phase? If yes, are there any reading materials you would suggest me to use this anger and fuel self improvement through it? In a corner of my heart, I have stopped caring about her in my life(first signs of depedestalizing a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:54 AM
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Shit I am owning: 1. Lifting on track except SQ. Failed at 155lbs SQ(4th set 3rd rep, slouching while getting up) 2. Diet on track. 3. Reading Book of Pook, WISNIFG. 4. Guitar on track. But need to get more serious, so that it isn't there just to pass time. 5. After-shave recipe almost nailed. Now working on the right fragrance oils for the same.(GF tried to be a mommy:"I love the way you keep doing things!") 6. Made a cafe racer design, talked to a customs shop, work on the old bike starts this…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 01:06 PM
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She only does enough to keep you around. I just read through that lifting thumb-rules post by mrprider. Opened my eyes, I am far below the STFU row. I can't expect her to have sex with me all the fucking time, can I? I smell a covert contract here. This maybe true. And I think she smells it too. I won't stop the fun though. I will genuinely do it for myself. Thanks for pointing all this out.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 05:31 AM
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I feel like I have been RP for a year I am just more than a month or 2 into RP, and I haven't spent as much time learning these skills as you have. Yet here are my 2 bits. Attraction: Me and my gf met in my previous office. I was a cute fat(obese) panda, she was the most beautiful woman in this 2500 people office. Yet she was attracted to me. I was a man at the workplace, one of the best, with dual tech degrees from the best institute in my country. I was a trouble maker to colleagues and middle…
/r/askMRP27/05/16 06:22 AM
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Shit I am owning: 1. Reading Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man, WISNIFG. 2. Flirting, ass grabs, doing fun things at home and planning fun dates. 3. Guitar practice going good. Nest management on track. Got my motorcycle repaired. Shit I am starting to own: 1. Sex was had 4 times last week. She was into it twice. Incorporating DEVI slowly and steadily. Initiated atleast 10-12 times. 2. Called up a few friends and reconnecting with some. 3. Verbally appreciating her good deeds. Number of …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 12:46 PM
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Not sure what keto program you are following. There are keto programs too. Thats news. I went to r/keto, and looked up acceptable foodstuffs and following that. Will check out the New Atkins.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 08:09 AM
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One thing I hate is being asked to do something I'm literally just starting to do; happens a lot This was my exact situation some time back. It does not happen anymore. I think the 'Never Change Your Mind Just to Please a Woman' section from Deida's TWOTSM helped me with this. However, if you listen to your woman, taking everything she says into account and making your own best decision, then you are acting in accordance with your core. You are saying, in effect, "My deepest wisdom is leading me…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 06:07 AM
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Its tough to not eat any carbs for me. Yesterday I ate a fourth of a sweet watermelon pre workout, just couldn't control myself. I might have netted 20g carbs there. Had nothing carb heavy otherwise through the day, though I am sure it added up in small amounts. But this is just guess work. I think its time I take myfitnesspal seriously and that should be on things I need to own.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 07:13 AM
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Shit I am owning: 1. Completed NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, SGM. 2. Into the 4th week of Stronglifts 5X5. Never missed a workout. Still fat. She is still at a higher SMV than me. 3. 10 sec kiss a couple of times a day. 4. Picking up the guitar and playing it once a day and more on weekends. Shit I am starting to own: 1. Re-read NMMNG, re-reading WISNIFG and giving my best to internalise stuff. 2. Bought new clothes for the new waist size, a trimmer and some after-shave lotion.(Got an 'Are you che…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 02:08 PM
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how long have you been together? 2 yrs now. 8 months living together. I see a lot about what she is doing but you? Nothing. There is no you. Move out. Draw fire. Can you please expand on this a bit. I cant make any sense of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 12:28 PM
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Gym night is gym night is gym night. Exactly, exactly this was what was on my mind. Nothing else comes between me and the gym, and in future I would expect my SO to either understand this or adjust plans accordingly. So the hard decision of going to the gym in the face of the guests(which she told me about at the 11th hour). Actually I did not get butthurt on it, and I might be wrong in my assessment. I just wanted to set a boundary, that I am not cool about guys hanging around drinking at our p…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 12:26 PM
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If you are walking around thinking "she doesn't love me," "she finds me unnatractive" she sees it, she senses it and it takes energy away from her. How about, accepting the fact that she doesn't love you/finds you unattractive right now. Is that not the point of the philosophy? This acceptance is probably what is driving me to not be complacent about self-improvement. I want to be attractive to all women, my gf being one of them. Am I wrong?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 06:03 AM
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2% is really low, is that usual for the U.S.? It is very low in my country. I am not in the U.S.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 09:11 AM
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I would most surely buy a house, but not in this city, maybe in a small town. I will just copy my reply to IASGame here: As such in my country/city, the statistical mode of rental yields is around 2% p.a. of the value of the house. If I had to buy the house I am currently renting, I would have to pay an EMI of 6 times the monthly rent I pay. Plus, the statistical mode of returns on properties in our city is around 4% and inflation rate on renting is another 4-5%. The money I save by renting can …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 05:44 AM
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I think you could use the calculator suggested by hambley. As such in my country/city, the statistical mode of rental yields is around 2% p.a. of the value of the house. If I had to buy the house I am currently renting, I would have to pay an EMI of 6 times the monthly rent I pay, over and above the down-payment value(usually >=0.2Xproperty-value). Plus, the statistical mode of returns on properties in our city is around 4% and inflation rate on renting is another 4-5%. The money I save by renti…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 05:41 AM
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Yes. That's a good calculator.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 05:32 AM
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Hmm. I have to set the boundaries, but its tough, since I have raised her expectations too high in the last 2 years.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 04:16 PM
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Oh yes. I think she is trying to find my breaking point. I have also been observing a pattern : Every new shit test is harder than the previous one, if I passed the previous one. As I pass a set of shit tests, I noticed she calms down and becomes affectionate of me. But maybe I am wrong about the observation and I am not passing at all. Realizing it's a game and sticking with her for a bit will give you practice and opportunities to improve yourself. This I believe strongly.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 04:14 PM
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On your direction, going through WISNIFG again. Thank you Sir.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 04:07 PM
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That article is great. Thanks.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 04:06 PM
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Thanks for this, stone. My brain's processing time to distinguish between a shit test & a comfort test has been sluggish. This helps a lot. I am going to go re-read it a couple of times and try to internalise with all the tests she threw at me today.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 03:57 PM
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Seems like you are still LISTENING to what she says, instead of watching what she DOES. This is great advice. Glad that I read this before I got home for the weekend with her. She says & feels so many things, but does almost exactly the opposite most of the times. She is definitely testing me for my breaking point.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 03:47 PM
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OP, value your time. Totally agree to this. Just that, in the last 2 years we have spent so much time together, its become very common for us to do things for each other. There have been so many times she has ignored her friends and family, to be with me & doing nothing but relaxing and I did the same for her, for example. I want to get out of this cycle and also help her get out of it.
/r/askMRP24/04/16 03:41 PM
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she's just shit testing you after you pass her compliance tests to see if you're the real deal. How do I understand whether I passed the test or not?
/r/askMRP24/04/16 03:34 PM
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"Taking more time to focus on myself is not caring less about our relationship. It is because I care about you and our relationship that I'm investing in myself to continue to be the type of man a woman would be lucky to be with". This is beautiful. And it is exactly what I want out of my life. I am sure there are going to be even tougher hardships on this path. I remember, everytime I have taken up on self improvement, I have quit somewhere on the path. I just pray that I don't stray away, I ju…
/r/askMRP19/04/16 09:16 AM
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I remember in these last few days, she also mentioned that she doesn't feel like a part of my life. That had hit me. Yesterday, my boss awarded me ESOPs that would make me like 'ok-ish' rich in the next 3 years. When we met after work I said to her "Baby, WE did it! :D" and told her I was amongst the top 2 performers for the year. She was very happy to hear the story and told me that I was a motivation for many. I don't know if I did the right thing by telling her about this 'financial' achievem…
/r/askMRP19/04/16 08:51 AM
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Separately, any woman with as weak of frame as you describe is not marriage-mother material. Not even fucking close. Hmm. I am going to give this some time, may be 6 months to an year. Maybe you are right, but even I am currently not husband material anyway, and hence her behavior. Off the top of my head, I can think of two things I want to achieve before I make that decision: 1. A strong attractive physique 2. Strong leadership at home, work and in social circles. which I believe should take me…
/r/askMRP19/04/16 08:42 AM
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Believe it or not, calling you only 25% helpless retard was quite a compliment coming from WMP. LOL. Haha. :) near where you were when you were THAT guy screwing her 5 times a day every day. I remember I used to be so witty, unpredictable, over-confident and a show-off in those days. I just don't understand why I became a pussy! :(
/r/askMRP19/04/16 08:36 AM
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The r'ship is still your number one priority. Oh yes, it is! That's why I'm here. Keep pursuing your interests without all this grief. Hmm. I am working on developing my improvement plan this week. Let's see what I come up with.
/r/askMRP19/04/16 08:32 AM
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Yes. I would feel little dread if she does that. Its a very unspecial, replaceable bitch. At the same time, I agree on this for a fact.
/r/askMRP19/04/16 08:29 AM
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I think I sure am going to take time to digest what you mention. It was my fault I gave her all the unconditional emotional comfort for 2 years in this relationship. I didn't know it was wrong to do that, then. Though I am not sure if I completely internalise this, still I repeat after you: "Her feelings are hers, not mine. Her feelings are hers not mine" I think I have a lot of work to do. Thanks.
/r/askMRP19/04/16 08:23 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askMRP19/04/16 08:19 AM
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Thank you for this. I will be spending this week's time setting up a solid improvement plan. Any post/article suggestions to get myself a self improvement template/format?
/r/askMRP18/04/16 09:01 AM
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She doesn't need to know about TRP, but it will help her to know your plan of improving to become the best possible version of yourself to in turn improve the relationship for both of you. Yes agreed. She herself mentioned that she sees me improving in terms of my physique, personality, career, social circle and sees me as becoming a hot guitarist. She said that she has always been supportive of it and wants me to continue doing what I do. She feels that while I am improving on other things, my …
/r/askMRP18/04/16 06:46 AM
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he's a 75% helpless retard. I think I am 100% helpless without TRP. How do I go from 75% to 0%? On the bright side, at least he's admitting he's getting butthurt. Oh yes. I do get butthurt when she shits on me. And I do feel very happy when she validates me.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 06:36 AM
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I did not bend to her will yet. What is she using to pressure you? All kinds of things she says/does: "I feel better with my friends back in my hometown and staying with you is depressing to me." "I am not feeling happy with you, I used to be 100% happy with you earlier." "I am strong enough to leave you for good if you continue this behavior." "I feel you are taking me for granted, and once I am sure you are, I will leave you and never come back. I have done that before to someone." "I will spe…
/r/askMRP18/04/16 06:16 AM
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In no way should lifting have priority over your job unless your a professional body builder and then that shit is your job I agree. Just that I have been focusing most of my mental and spiritual energy on workouts lately.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 05:54 AM
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"It means you can borrow my jeans" .. even better "It means I can borrow YOUR clothes ; )". Haha. :) you 1st prove you're valuable enough for her to give a shit if you leave for 3 hours. Yes. This is exactly what I need to work upon, being a valuable man. I think if I leave the house anytime soon, she would try to back-dread me by saying 'leaving the house' is now allowed in the relationship, and she would herself do that to me.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 05:43 AM
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Yes you are right. I used to feel her happiness is in my hands, and I should be doing whatever it takes to make it right, earlier. And that's what I was feeling again when I posted this and wanted to give her comfort. I would surely leave the house if she is being a bitch. I am also sure that she would try to dread me by doing the same to me, saying that 'leaving the house' is now allowed in the relationship.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 05:37 AM
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Like this :| most of the times. 50 yrs? Wut? Yes I know, you're right. I ain't givin up. Thanks for this.
/r/askMRP17/04/16 04:46 PM
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