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It's taken me years of trying to go cold turkey to get to my longest streak of 45days. I'm still not porn free, but at least right now I'm NoFap almost 40 days. I try not to be too hard on myself. NoFap is a part of an overall larger transformation, I'm lifting, eating healthy, socializing, working, so at the end of the day no time to fap cuz I'm exhausted and gotta sleep! Also don't get too down on it if you relapse. I'll be the first to tell you NoFap works; the benefits are real. But its not …
/r/askTRP23/06/15 12:48 AM
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I work as a strategy consultant. What you describe is typical to varying degrees of 90% of workplaces. All large companies eventually ask consultants to come in and fix things. Time and again we see that they wouldn't need us if they focused on results over corporate BS. (In the end, most consultants just continue the cycle of BS btw. Its a form of enjoying the decline. A lot of companies are so caught in political BS that they don't want the solution, they just want BS. So we give it to them, a…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 12:34 AM
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Hey man, I'm legitimately trying to find help. Pre-PUA/TRP my assumption observation had been that women don't like me. TRP showed me a way. If its wrong, could someone help point me in an alternative direction? what to not do doesnt really help guide me on what to 'do'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 05:08 PM
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what's better advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 04:58 PM
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Sounds very passive aggressive
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:42 PM
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Yup! Started reading this one already
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:41 PM
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You're absolutely right. I'm currently unemployed so I am able to do all of that and still have time for her. That changes next month, so I see a breakup happening if she's not worth the time out of my week.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:40 PM
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Hygiene wise, I've been on top of that all the time. 1hr of foreplay isn't a limit she imposed, its how long it takes for me to be good to fuck. Without her stimulating me. So I kiss/finger/eat her out while waiting to get hard. She's coming back from a weeklong vacation, I'll try your advice once when she returns: Go down on her then tell her to suck my dick. If she doesn't, I'll ask why and just talk it out a bit. After that I'll do what the other poster said. Cut out all submissive acts, just…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:38 PM
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I'm actually not hard for the hour, but as soon as I am I fuck her. But yah, its not entirely my fault. She's being a starfish which doesn't help. But even during the day I'm not regularly horny when I see a hot girl - big part is my sex drive too. I'm going to do that. No submissive acts. She's coming back from a week of vacation, so after the first night -- no kissing, no riding, no going down on her. I imagine what'll happen is it'll take an hour just to get hard, lying there in awkward silen…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:34 PM
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That's a good point. Perhaps they shouldn't be my default assumptions. I don't really have my own set. Only what I've read. My own set I abandoned because I only had one: women are not interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 04:12 AM
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Bagging lots of women is putting the wagon before the horse. TRP suggests you increase your value as a man, by being fit, building a solid lifestyle, contributing to society, etc. As a result of being a better man, women will be attracted to you. Success isn't from women, its just a side-effect. To cement this, TRP posters include MGTOW, people in LTR, in addition to people who just ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 12:39 AM
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It is a lot better. It basically means, until proven otherwise, assume all women are like that. It's a practical notion, not a moral judgement. ... rather than all women are like that. Yes there are exceptions, but observe for yourself if she is. We all make assumptions about people, TRP just has a different set of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 12:34 AM
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How do I have her start lifting and dieting, and how to get rid of the acne?
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:46 PM
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I'm definitely working on myself and would like for her to do the same. How can I get her to lose weight and address acne? I definitely want to bring up BJ again, but I feel right now I can't simply because I have the lower libido and take time to get/stay hard. Though I get her to climax from oral/manual all the time, and she seems very satisfied from the sex. Not just BJ, but I want to try anal and sex in places aside from our apartments. I'll definitely do it when I'm more confident in myself…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:41 PM
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Actually its both After decade of prone-masturbation & porn it became hard to get/stay hard. I've been trying noFap on/off for almost a year and its always recognizable on long streaks. Likewise, have been working out for half a year, also to up that libido. I'm convinced libido would probably help my game a lot too, just cuz you game better when horny.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:32 PM
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Yah, could breakup to commit to improving. Will keep that in mind if I notice myself falter. If I still have no job and have to move back with parents, or stopped going to gym, or stopped socializing. For now, I think my 'morals' says I should break up with her, so its motivating me to improve myself asap.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:27 PM
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Good point I'm running a pretty tight ship (I think) but can def dread game more. Honestly, me today can't. I don't have the job, fitness, looks, most importantly the confidence/game. But there's no reason I can't have all that by 30 if I take action to attain it
/r/askTRP02/08/14 12:33 AM
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Yeh. I recognize the hamstering too. Which is why I try to keep a clear end point: get a job/new apartment and active social life going - then release her. You're right, no altruism from her, she could lose weight and clear her acne, give BJ.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 11:31 PM
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Yah, I'm happy with her for sure. So low maintenance I'm never spending time doing things I don't want to. I think its a great frame in that I'm always leading, she's always following. I'm inexperienced but feel like this is how a relationship SHOULD be, at least for me. Maybe to the point of holding future potential GFs to her behavioral standards. Only restriction is is I can't flirt with other women, and no BJ, but are relationships ever without compromise? I know that as I improve I can meet…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 11:31 PM
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what do you mean "Instead of getting discouraged I stepped up my game"?
/r/seduction28/07/13 11:06 PM
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So. I do agree with this mindset. What I'm unsure about though is that this essentially makes this more of a #'s game. Where the only thing you can do is tweak your 'variance' through experience, but it still comes down to approach more. In the end is it really just a #'s game?
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:28 AM
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