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Off TopicreduxDev/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 05:39 AM
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Eh, just like any other type of people there are an overwhelming amount of shitty ones out there, just avoid them. Life is something like 95% figuring out what you don't want. I don't consider time getting to know random girls as a waste. You're just trying to figure out if they're sluts or not and you usually find out your answer. Sometimes hypergamy is actually a good sign. When I first was getting to know my LTR I wrote her off at first (which helped me not give a fuck) because she acted hype…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:19 AM
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They can if they honestly believe it's in their best interest. I've heard from multiple women that they don't go after attractive or rich guys at all because they know that they have a ton of options and that raises the bar for them and causes drama and is overall a worse strategy. A married man can be attracted to his daughters 18yo friend, who also finds him attractive. But it really isn't in his best interest for them to fuck and so they don't. If your question is, is there a way that women w…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:08 AM
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It sounds like you really appreciated the experience of being with her, but she just wasn't a good fit for you. Has she been to therapy? I think this is one of those rare instances where men and women can be friends. You can keep in touch and wish each other the best and actually mean it. It's possible you appreciate her as a person, but not so much as a potiential mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:01 AM
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No you fucking rapist, don't be pushy after that. Just be like "oh okay, lucky guy" and leave. If anything that will increase the attraction. If she's lying about having a boyfriend and is attracted to you, she'll chase. If she's not lying or not attracted she'll let you go. And those women aren't worth your time anyway.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 01:52 AM
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Her: Haha, we do have good chats, but I barely answer to my friends, so theres no point don't respond to this bs. wtf is that? You let her get away with that? the moment you smell bs stop replying, if she's still interested she'll come back without the bs
/r/askTRP11/03/21 01:46 AM
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There is a huge double standard on body count between men and women. The lower the body count is always better for women, and for men you want to be around the average. Overall I don't think it's likely that a women rejects you on the grounds that you've slept with more people than she has. If you don't like hookups then don't hookup. If you're just searching for someone long term then just date around and fuck girls you wanna fuck and don't fuck the ones you don't want to. Honestly a therapist …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:42 AM
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Depends. do you want taco bell and someone to share it with?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:21 AM
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Yeah, hint that you might help her out and then after you cum say you get paid next week or something and bail. She'll be telling all her orbiters how big of an asshole you are, and they can pay her rent.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:15 AM
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Do not actually do this. In your mind, you're not taking her request seriously with the 10 dollars, and also showing her 10$ and some taco bell is nothing to you, making you look good. In her mind, her request pulled you into her frame, she can now get money from you. If you do this once there is 0% thats the end of it, she will ask again and again and again for more and more. These small inconviences add up, and next time you'll think "well i'm really horny and 40$ isn't that much. You're liter…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:09 AM
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It doesn't work if she knows it's a reaction to something she did. Which it looks like that. Women can never take responsibility for anything, if she thinks she did something wrong she'll just blame you for responding to the thing she's doing poorly AKA you couldn't "handle her". The soft next works because you're supposed to appear to be doing something more important than giving her your time, and so she improves to meet that standard. She's going toward something positive, not avoiding someth…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:59 PM
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Who the fuck cares. This is not your problem. Why are you wasting time thinking about this communist parade of a woman with endless red flags? Go focus on something else.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:51 PM
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Act like you just cured cancer, but all the time. People will give you respect for being so confident and sure of yourself, that respect is then social proof. You don't need to actually have anything physical or related to status, you just have to live it.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:29 PM
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Why are you second guessing yourself like a needy little girl? You don't need our validation you pussy. You did it, so it must've been the right thing.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:27 PM
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Why are you switching every time? Pick one thing and stick to it. What makes plumbing better than coding or carpentry? Ideally, switching jobs like that would diversify your skillset, and so if coding didn't work out, you could just go back to carpentry. But that's not what happening. I think even if you think you didn't learn anything from your time in carpentry, you probably learned more than you think you did and you could get another carpentry job without as much trouble as someone with no e…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:49 PM
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I think almost all redpill content is heavy with emotion and victim mentality these days. Even Rollo has this "they're all against us" theme, which, while I don't disagree with. Is extremely offputting to people on the outside. As well as apealing to our own confimation bais and really just looking to confirm redpill beliefs and not actually trying to be objective. If you're going to make content I'd suggest making it more understanding to and cohesive to the rest of society and not linking an a…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:04 PM
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They're eager to whip out their test as soon as possible these days because they're so used to guys failing them. Women have never tested men this much in all of human fucking history and it works 99% of the time. She wants to see right away if you fall all over her or let her change you or influence you. It's like a kid with a new toy, they just wanna play with it until it breaks, maybe cry a little, then find a new one to break. They have absolutely no intention of forwarding the relationship …
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:28 AM
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From my experience therapy can be nice for changing your thought patterns in a more productive way, or help a person stop beating themselves up all the time. It doesn't sound like you'd really take advantage of either of those things. I was in your exact position once and spent years in therapy and it was always just kinda meh. It gave me a 1% or maybe 5% boost but never helped in a significant way. You need to fix your life, and you need good friends and good interactions with people more than …
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:09 PM
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If it's a no either way, why do you care and why does it matter?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:08 PM
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I don't really agree with the whole "numbers game" thing but other than that I totally agree with you. A big net will catch you the most fish that can't get out. It gets you the lowest common denominator, which is why it works. But the lowest common denominator isn't worth OPs time. He needs to detach his since of value from women. He doesn't need to get laid. He could fast for weeks, catch one big fish and be fine the rest of his life. Or he could catch 3 tiny little fish a day and bearly get b…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:31 AM
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Honestly usually I offer a quick write up of some simple mindset advice. But uncontrollable anger is not something simple that can be solved with a reddit post. Just like being overweight, talking about it only does so much and a just thinking about things differently is not going to do that work. Uncontrollable anger is something deeply incorporated in your personality and most people never fix it, they're just screaming assholes forever. Just like most fat people stay fat and die fat. If you r…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:22 AM
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"Do I have any hope of ever catching a fish if I've never caught a fish before and I don't stand a single chance?" yeah just catch one dude. No matter how inexperienced or ugly or whatever you're insecure about, there are women with 50 times it and 100 times it and 10millions times it. Insecure about ur body? Well ur not forcing yourself to vomit like tons of women do. Women are in a much worse position than you, trust me. You have all the cards in your hands even tho it looks like you have noth…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:59 PM
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"Hey I wanna go fuck you today but I gotta post on reddit and see if its okay first"
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:45 PM
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I think the perspective isn't exactly wrong, you need to be above women, and she needs to know you are above her, but that doesn't HAVE to be in some administrative sense. Most chicks aint worth shit, so ur already there. You don't need proof, women literally put themselves down all the time, you just have to not disagree and don't pass up opportunities to push urself a little ahead. Women are so insecure, just being a normal human being gets you far these days. Most guys go from simping to shit…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:43 PM
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Finding people is always hard, because people are strangers at first, and going from stranger to friend/actual person in your life is hard without a reason. Doing so unnecessarily can be forced, and doing so with the intent of attraction shows lack of abundance the way most guys do it. Career: I work in the data industry, so even when I get to a leadership position it's only men that will respect that success. You're so wrong on this it's not even funny. Any "smart"/computer field will impress a…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:02 PM
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Do whatever you want, it's smart to save the money but stupid if it stops you from living your life.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:51 PM
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You don't bring up the future plans, you just wait for her to talk about it, if she never talks about it then no problem.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:49 PM
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I don't think you'll regret missing out on people who didn't really stick around. In the future you'll wish you put more effort/time/energy into the things that gave you the best results over time. If that is school/music/gym (which it sounds like it is) then I don't think you'll regret it. But you'll probabably regret not starting and nurturing lasting relationships, like family or good friends that will be there in the long run. Not seeing value in yourself, despite your accomplishments and po…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 08:40 PM
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Don't punish her if she doesn't know why. I'd just continue as normal but when discussing plans for the future or something hint that you're ideal girl wouldn't be using insta so much. Overdoing it could definitely start a fight and have her screaming "why the fuck are you acting like this" at you at 3am or some dumb shit. Other comments are pretty dumb, imagine explaining to a regular, non TRP person that you broke up with ur gf because she made an insta story u didn't like. Women don't grow on…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:20 AM
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Just gotta make it authentic, women will eat up any guys bullshit if you serve it them right. Oops I mean, it's not bullshit, it's you really rethinking your life and what you want, and how, you could really see yourself starting a family someday because your current life is unfulfilling. something like that
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:12 AM
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Yeah this sucks, there isn't really a solution. Just have so much shit going on you down care and wait for the other guy to fuck up. If he doesn't cool. If he does, cool.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:47 AM
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No girl in her right mind is going to endlessly fuck a guy and expect nothing in return. Despite what TRP thinks, riding the CC and then trying to settle down isn't really all that common, most chicks see a future with the person they're fucking. Of course there is always crazy ones who will be fine with it, but normal women do not want to function like this, they agree to anything at first to seem cool and impress you, but after you're comfortable around each other they try to bitch you up and …
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:42 AM
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This has happened to me millions of times, theres 2 reasons she was up at 5am and for some reason looking at your messages and accidentally hit the call button she was crying and needed someone to turn to, and called you to comfort her, but chickened up and hung up before the call went through It's most likely the 2nd one if it was at 5am and she didn't apologize. Either way, you play it cool, act normal, pretend it didn't happen.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:36 AM
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And you are worried you will not be able to compete with said mosquito simps? I'm all for avoiding women who post bikini pics or constant selfies, but this isn't really that. If she wants to talk to other guys on the side, you being possessive of her pussy is just going to make her complain about it to other guys more, about how weird you are being, and the other guys will all assure her they'd never act like that. Again I'd stop shooting yourself in the foot, if she brings it up, comment on it,…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:32 AM
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who cares about the story? Do you think she's marketing herself? Can any potential mates see it? You said it was not sexual, who cares? Why does this matter to you at all? If you let her know her man, her king, is weighing down his mind with dumb shit like this shes going to lose some respect right away, she knows you saw it but she assumes, like everyone should, that you just brush it off like 99% of insta shit. Are you worried this is going to start to become a problem or something? Why does t…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:06 PM
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Other comments are pretty fucking retarded, a chick isn't banging a huge black dick anytime she skips out on you. And hard nexting a girl you see regularly is just going to make her think you're gay, she can see you don't have an endless parade of women around you, and isn't going to assume anything beneficial to you is happening. She'll probably just think you're hypersensitive and leave you alone despite being interested. What I'd do, and what I have done in this situation is what I like to ca…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:38 AM
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You act like people exist in these one-dimensional states like a math problem. Just because a girl isn't shit testing you right now doesn't mean she just isn't a girl who does that, or her interest level is so high that she won't. In my opinion if a girl doesn't do any shit test ever, she's just easy. And some women are just so damaged or desperate for validation that the test are seemingly non-existant. Think about Mia Khalifa in her prime showing up to a new shoot. She shows up, takes one look…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:23 AM
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To run this shit? Do you understand how complicated shit is? Humanity has gotten spoiled as fuck, we're used to all this infrastructure that no one understands, and the few people who actually own it and run it, make all the money, thats the 1%. There's a top 1%, or at least 10% of everything, and those people are an absolute necessity for it to exist.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 09:36 AM
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You are telling me she "pair bonded" with her first rapist who raped her once and never saw her again? And the second rapist was her "next love" and ect? That's bullshit. Literally no one has ever said this ever, you're vastly misrepresenting the other side of the argument. Do you actually think theres an overwhelming group of people who think women fall in love with their rapist 100% of the time after the assult with no proof? Being a victim of any crime makes you feel vulnerable and hyperaware…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 09:08 AM
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I mean that completely proves the theory, the fact that you are no longer bonded to this person, even tho you've had sex with them, makes it easier to forget them or discount them in the future and harder to bond with future sexual partners because you're getting more and more used to doing that. I'm all for inviting people in my life if they move me forward, I get what it's worth from the interaction and then they dip, but I'd rather invest in something lasting even in friendships. If it's stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:46 AM
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I don't disagree men are thirstier, but it's obviously a more complex issue than that, and you know that. Sorry I didn't recognize the troll account, your sarcasm is impeccable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:44 AM
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Simping doesn't work. Men do it anyway because they are desperate, and instead of chemically decreasing the average male already terrible testosterone levels or hook them up to VR porn machines, we just stop it? Stabilizing the sexual environment by implementing ways to creatively remove 80% of men from it, involuntarily, would obviously worsen the problem and result in civil unrest. I'm criticizing your spitballing "solutions" by pointing out that they aren't related to the cause of the problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:48 PM
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How about we just stop simping?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:25 PM
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I agree with these studies and experienced it anecdotally and it ties into the underlying idea/theme of this thread. The main talking point of any red pill idea is hypergamy, that women will not date down and women don't see a problem with this, and it isn't necessarily a problem. Except we are making it a problem. Never before have we lifted women as high as their potential can take them and then are shocked when there's no where to go after that because we don't do the same for men, we just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:19 PM
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The most important thing I've ever learned as a man. The moment you feel attacked, it's over, you've lost You say "I know it's so bad lol" and smile. If she persist be like "I know, it's crazy you'll have to put up with it. What are we going to do". and she'll level with you if she likes you or at the very least, try to ignore it.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:14 AM
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Having bad breath isn't a disability, no one is perfect, and the fact that you're stressing so hard about this proves that you feel like you need to be. If it wasn't this it'd be something else. I have bad breath, and not from any condition I just don't brush my teeth alot, and even when I'm breathing into a chick's mouth she doesn't make a huge deal of out it. If a girl likes you, she'll let you get away with alot, its how you own it. So start owning it, if it comes up don't act like this is so…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:45 AM
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You could ask but you really don't want to do that. If she's 19 it can't be that bad, and if it was it'd probably be pretty obvious. Theres lots of different small tricks you can find in TRP documentation like asking about previous relationships or get her to tell her stories about past boyfriends and see if she brings up the same stuff over and over. Same thing with sex. I'd just assume under 20 and not worry about it. Your relationship probably won't last anyway.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:29 AM
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You fuck with this hoe, and then are shocked when she acts like a hoe? Why do you know she's fucking another guy? Did she tell you? If she's making it obvious then its an ego thing for her, she thinks she's powerful fuckin with both you guys at once like this. Or the other guy doesn't know about you and she's just having fun with you while the other guy is relationship potential. A lot of shit could be going on here, but it's not a good sign. If you're possessive about her pussy at all that will…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:43 PM
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Go grab some Milf porn my dude. In my experience any sexual drive is easily satisfied with, you know, sexual activity. That doesn't mean you have to actually go fuck some older women, if you're really not happy jerking it, then it's not a sex thing, it's a validation thing. Think about what is missing inside you that you would get from fucking these older women, are you convinced older women have higher standards or something? Why do you think they'd be higher than your LTR's? Honestly I get urg…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:35 PM
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You're writing this post like you're so high and mighty above all this social media use, while posting on reddit which many people consider a social media platform. She doesn’t know how to view things from another persons point of view, no awareness of her surroundings this is like 85% of women dude. It has nothing to do with the phone, they don't have to act like responsibile human being, carry their weight in conversation, or hold their attention on anything for more than 2 seconds because the…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:21 PM
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they are still not dating down. Women would see no value in manipulating a loser. They see something in that person, that is valuable in some way and while they do not respect the man, society does not respect the man, his SMV is low, she still sees value in that thing and gets off on dominating it. Sometimes it can be as simple as being good at videogames. A super hot chick who likes videogames, could get into a relationship with a fat videogame nerd who has no redeemable qualities. The relatio…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:32 PM
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however she couldn’t come because she had already organised for her father to pick her up at 2:00am and her father was also dropping her friends home. Awww man dude, too bad. This slut went out partying looking for dick, but aw man her dad was going to pick her up so she had to say no to her dream guy? Aw man dude, you know, this one time I had a lottery ticket, and it had all the winning numbers, but I couldn't turn it in because I had to pickup my mom from the airport. You really bought this b…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:54 AM
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women only date up. The women you are discussing in this post are losers. If they can get a guy with a job who isn't going anywhere they're in heaven. A good amount of women actually avoid superficially attractive men because its obvious they have options. A guy being hot/cute, fashionable, or jacked can deter women seeking monogamy from even trying. Plus they make good Dads, which is I guess what they're looking for.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:39 AM
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This is like the most low effort constructiveless feedback imaginable.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:33 AM
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The vast major of vetting a chick is 1) not fat 2) not a hoe 3) not crazy if they're on tinder they probably have one of those.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:13 AM
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yeah came here to say this. TRP neckbeards will argue for years that every girl in existence is getting endless cock from tinder constantly but they just don't go outside. If someone links you popularity statistics, do they not realize tinder is like 95% male?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:11 AM
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I mean, I never clean the dishes, just cuz my gf always does it. She doesn't have a super high dish cleaning drive, she just does it. If she didn't clean them for 2 weeks I guess I'd do them eventually.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:09 AM
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Why would she when you always do it.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:02 AM
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I'd post this in legal advice.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:50 AM
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then tell them you're just lookin to smash and pass I guess.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:05 PM
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Just fucking lie dude, who cares. You're looking for your special someone to be your soulmate forever. You really think these chicks are gunna give it up if they know the real deal? You can always "change your mind" later. If you're looking for quality women they usually won't be okay with you fucking other chicks at the same time, so don't be really obivous about it. I think TRP guys get so caught up in being players sometimes they get so sloppy and blatant about it just to brag, when in realit…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:14 PM
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That's not a shit test that's just pathetic and slutty dude. Respond appropriately.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:41 PM
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She doesn't care about what happened at the party as much as she thinks she does. She left that party and went with you remember? So who cares? Why do you care what your plate's friends think? Your plate will keep fucking you as long as she wants to and if she stops because of her stupid friends that isn't your problem and you should refuse to consider doing anything about. What are you going to do? Change your behavior so you can all geta long? Thats not what your plate wants dude, she just wis…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:33 PM
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I relate to this alot. BP guys think you have to establish that you're interested and you just don't, you can do that with eye contact, you don't have to pretend to be interested in whatever she's doing or call her pretty, that shit actually hurts more than it helps.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:53 PM
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The game has become much more difficult even for high value men (in the post 2014 world, which is basically when smartphone dating apps went mainstream), I don't really think most of the excess attention even comes from dating apps. If you're a pretty girl and you want free attention insta is the best place to go. I think most girls view tinder as an absolute last resort, or at least every one I've met. If a woman is treating you and an orbiter the same, newsflash, she doesn't see you as high va…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:20 PM
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Any girl of value, doesn't need an army of simps to validate her. If she knows her value, she'll be creeped out by these advances and outright reject these men because she is getting nothing out of it. That being said, 99% of women have self esteem issues and these simps are their heroin. The whole thing is just fuckin sad. Overall, a high value guy's attention is worth an endless amount more than any of these simps. So you don't even have to tell them drop them when the time comes, 1 drop of yo…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:39 AM
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It's someone else's turn now, I would not delete her but go no contact after a while, because you "got really busy sry". If she wants you back she's gotta show up and the lack of constant validation will make her actually miss you. But if you text her everyday nonstop, it'll be the same as if she never left except some other dude is bangin ur girl.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:46 AM
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I used to feel very ugly. But being ugly is really just looking unhealthy. And you can always start the process of improving your health, or at least the appearance of it. We live in the best technological age of human existence. Never before have you been able to vastly improve your appearance, be healthy and happy. Sadly no one does that and like 35% of Americans are obese ugly fucks who will die of a heart problem ~50. But no matter how blackpill you are, It's never too late to start. It's ra…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:58 AM
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oh you did say it in the first sentence, my bad, must've missed it. Well she knows if she wants that again she can just call you up and get it, because she did it to you. She made out with you and sucked your dick and left. But she wants to get fucked. Theres no mystery in her head, she knows you wanna fuck her if she lets you, so theres no excitement. She's not wondering what you're thinking, she's doens't even seem to want to do it again because she wanted to know if she could get you, and she…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:23 AM
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I'm not really sure what LTRs you're looking at, but a girl openly disrespecting a guy just sounds like a poor relationship, if thats the impression you get from one night stands you'd probably think they're lame as well. I don't think LTRs are all that amazing, but as someone who is in one, you don't exactly want excitement all the time and after you've had a good amount of women they lose their taste, the dopamine hit you get from banging a new hot chick nulls and you build up a tolerance, you…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:55 AM
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she said it was ok and that it has happened to other dudes how you reacted to this situation might've done it. I couldn't get hard, but she said it was okay. So she's allowing you to not get hard? You should've shown her it was okay somehow by leading, she took the lead, which is ladyboner killing. I don't wanna really drill you on why you got a blowjob in a park but sex was weird, but why did you mention the kiss and not the blowjob earlier in the post? Idk, doesn't really matter. But this whol…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:38 AM
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I’m 17 some people get lucky in highschool, some don't. /thread
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:18 AM
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Are you ever out in public and you see some dude doing some obnoxious shit and you're like "get a load of this guy". Do that kinda shit, say something really obnoxious, push the boundaries. Say some polarizing shit. She'll either agree with your actions and be attracted to the fact someone had the balls to do that shit, or she'll hate you, but still recognize that you had the balls to do that.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:17 AM
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np bro, it happens, theres like 3 trillion women out there, you didn't lose anything.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:13 AM
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If this girl gained 80 pounds would you suddenly lose interest? Thats what it's like for them. Why haven't you sealed the deal? Chicks generally submit and stop with the games after you fuck em at least once. Is it some made up religious bullshit? She doesn't want a pregnancy scare and shes not on the pill? If you're totally unable to fuck her for some reason, and she's also super testing you like this, then fuck this bitch. Put in the investment when you can actually bang. Girls this age also h…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:10 AM
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but she’ll get mad and starts threatening to kill herself so I have to comfort her. Because I don’t won’t to be responsible for her killing herself. you let her know this works so she'll do it all the time now. Plan Z became plan A and now shes the suicidal chick who gets all ur attention. I'd say call the cops and see if they don't laugh at you. If they do, maybe buy a gun, put a no trespassing sign and answer the door with it? She's only doing this shit because its working, if it didn't work s…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:03 AM
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my ex and i have been broken up for 1.5 years (she initiated it) i saw her there for some reason, i decided to talk to her and see how it goes, i told her "let's hangout next week", You want to she doesn't, the fact that she didn't outright reject anything you did means absolutely nothing. Women will never do that under any circumstance. She's just 100% flatout not interested. If she was when you said "let's hangout next week", she'd of said "okay what about wednesday". She doesn't care if you g…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:57 AM
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the fact that she has the power over you to confuse you and make you create a reddit post about her is the problem. And she'll always doubt everything you do now, because it's untested. If a girl doesn't know you're a virgin theres an implication that you might know what you're doing because it might've worked on another girl which means its okay for her to fall for it. But she can't convince herself that you know what you're doing wihtout extra tests, rooky mistake. Get a side hobby that you ca…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:50 AM
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I'm on your side, aside from hanging out with her. I think keeping an ex as a plate can be fine, but why are you hanging out. Whats the point of hanging out with a girl who you don't want to LTR. What are you getting from it? You're investing, not to get an LTR, not to get sex, to get what? Whatever that thing you're getting is, will be gone as soon as she is, so your depending on her in some way. If it's friendship, get more friends. If it's love or companionship, call ur mom idk. But women rea…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:48 PM
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Same story with my Dad, hated him for years, hated everything. After a while I just realized it didn't matter as much as I was making it out to be. Life goes on, ur not dead yet, you still have things to do and whatever happened doesn't affect the new stuff at all. Things lose importance with irrelevance, as soon as my Dad was 100% irrelevant to my life, I just got busy and forgot about it. He called me maybe 3-4 times, just didn't pick up, anytime I knew he'd be somewhere I'd avoid him. Fast fo…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:25 PM
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lol yeah react is dope. Ye this is my SFW reddit acc that I pretty much just surf TRP shit on cuz I can't look at porn. I actually met her playing WoW when I was blue pill. Stayed an orbiter for years (ignoring TRP advice), focused on self improvement + working out, started spinning plates, took her on a date and hit it off and now she's just waiting around for me to marry her.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:44 PM
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We as guys spend years looking for a girl who is insanely beautiful and nice and fun to be around and smart. After like 10-15 years of searching, most guys come to conclusion that the beauty isn't really that important and we usually find a girl who we also think is beautiful, but not like a 10/10 supermodel, who also works for us. Honestly I'm there right now, my gf said something earlier today about how she thinks California is going to go to the democrats this time(implying there was even a c…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:23 AM
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They don't get a low SMV guy, they get a guy that works for them, which they still consider high value. Usually not in the traditional chad sense. A girl doesn't have to have a body count of a huge number for this to take effect, this counts for any girl who is hot and knows shes "above average" smv. They try really hard, for years, to get Mr. Everything, but after a while, they realize they can just get Mr. Mostly great and they're fine with him. Most of these girls end up with a very tall, ner…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:10 AM
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IMO it depends on the woman and what shes looking for. If you're just trying to smash a young, hot girl, maximizing attraction and maintaining frame at all costs is probably most effective. But if the woman is even older than 26 and has some self-esteem, she's going to want some level of comfort. Also depends on your intentions, do you wanna hit it and quit it? What type of girl are you going for? Most red pill content will claim that attraction is always 100% everything and I think that's not e…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 05:46 PM
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Odds are she's fine, but if you care so much you have to be sure, go for it.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:03 PM
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Stop giving a fuck about your reputation. Do whatever it takes to make things easier for you right now. Don't compare yourself to anyone else, just focus on getting to the next step in your life. Don't focus on what people are thinking about you right now, just do what you gotta do for you. If other people don't stay around for that, fuck em. Drop those fake people. I cut out 99% of people in my life when I went through hard times, and now I have nothing holding me back.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:54 PM
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It's not a bad idea. As a felon I would go for skills that will serve you without employment, like freelancing or having your own little business. I think web development works pretty well for this if you're good, you can get some clients and really take off. Brad Traversy from Traversy Media youtube channel had great success with this. But as far as traditional computer science learning a .net language or something to make offline applications might not be super useful unless you are creating y…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:43 PM
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Fuck these cases, don't get the shit kicked out of you for dumb shit like that just to "be alpha". Sign up for shit that will get you spam phone calls, like education referral services (or just wait for usual ones) and when you get some dumbass calling you trying to scam you into something, reject their proposition with as much force and assertion as you can. It's great practice. Then when a restaurant gets your order wrong, or some asshole at the gym is being bitch to you, it will feel more nat…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:07 PM
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so, shes either been wanting you to fuck her since august, or she's been wasting your time since august. That should make you angry.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:56 PM
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Other comments cover it pretty well, just wanted to add she's a hot chick so theres 2 possibilities, she wants to fuck and ur not goin for it right. Or she wants to be "just friends" and waste as much of your time as possible. Either way you gotta go for it and stop fuckin around.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:42 PM
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Here's where I think I lost frame and acted cringe. The next day I bought some chocolates and a teddy bear and I wrote in a card "To the warmest kindest person I ever met. Hi sorry if I said anything to hurt you last night, keep your chin up. Love from cliptarp86498_." Yeah you're right that is cringe. This is some simp shit for a girl you aren't even fucking. Is she actually pregnant? Or did you say she looked pregnant when she wasn't? Why is a pregnant girl your roommate? Anyway, should've bru…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:12 PM
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check your testosterone levels, get more sunlight, workout more, lower sugar, stop jerkin off.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:38 PM
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but have nere closed any leads (intercourse nor any dates) with any plates They're not plates unless you've at least met them dude. One time I made it hard by myself by answering every 24 hrs and when I waited 48 hrs she removed me Overthinking, no one cares about the specific timeframe dude. From the start it can be concluded that she lacks reading comprehension skills or she is acting stupid, probably the latter. bro this is cringe. The six message rule applies, but I know that it is needy & b…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:35 PM
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Theres alot of interesting things in this post. You say you are looking for something long term, but then ask if its a good idea to push her away, because she is also looking for that? You need to do some real, hard testing my friend. 1) Why did her 5 year marraige not work out? she's 32, so she got married when she was 27? Why would you wait? Why didn't she have kids with that guy? Why did she marry him if he wasn't sure? Did she cheat on him? Did he die? What the fuck happened? If shes vague i…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:24 PM
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It's not the dating scene. It's women in general. Women will always complain about "all the games" while initiating 100% of these games because they have to test their man. Any women you associate with will be in some way eventually influenced by Western Culture and start doing dumb shit, unless you stick to Brazilian prostitutes I guess. The only thing that matter is you win, it doesn't matter how it's played or what happens or who is who or anything, just win.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:36 PM
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Yeah, why the fuck do you care if she gets in trouble? This is kinda weird but its not entirely bad. You showed you really wanna look out for her, and are willing to put her needs before yours. Which does make you look like a simp, but she's into you anyway, so killing a little attraction like this might go far for making you look like relationship potential, but I still wouldn't really recommend it, especially when you guys are this young. A very young girl is alot more willing to put up with l…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:18 PM
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Agreeing and adding onto the other comments here, watch your body, watch your hormones. I was in a weirdly similar situation and for the first few years all I did was plan for what I would do "once I got control of my life back". But when you graduate you aren't going to magically make everything better instantly without any momentum. You need to focus on your health and building momentum. You're overweight, so watch your diet, studying alot means not alot of time for exercise and I'm willing to…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:15 PM
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They do it because they can. Every single time this happens its a shit test. If her car had broken down, she'd tell you about how crazy it is that she took an uber to see you if she was invested. This is something every guy has to learn how to deal with or stay a beta bitch forever. It depends on the individual situation, but overall, you're an important person, you can't have people canceling your time like this. You can't let people do dumb shit like this to you, especially women. Women aren't…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:18 AM
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Depends on what you want. Assuming you just want more of this with no commitment, then yeah just don't text her at all. She knows where it's at and she'll come get more if she wants it. If you want to LTR her not texting could fail a comfort test and make her insecurities worse, which could result is really shitty behavior you don't want to deal with. Either way, she's definitely thinking "is he just going to fuck me and not call me after?".
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:53 AM
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Your options are. 1) do nothing 2) nothing? what are you gunna do? ask/tell her to not hang out with him? shes just going to do it anyway lol If you wanna know if its a good or bad thing or not, thats up to you. But ur in highschool, unless this girl is 100% head over heels for you, the only thing you can do is pick the best one and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:44 AM
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No she won't make the connection. Just withdrawl respect right after the comment is made. Like if she says like "Wow you're friend is really hot". Start this time with "You want us to pass you around?" and if she keeps doing it just continue, "multiple guys? I had no idea you were that type of girl, good thing were not married yet lol". That last one will force her to snap out of it, but also start an argument. My girl did this a few times when I was getting to know her and I just slut shamed he…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:10 PM
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It's a test and you're passing, I don't know why she's continuously doing it. Next time she does it in real life give her a weird look and say "can you stop being weird?". So she gets the picture, which for some reason she isn't already picking up on. Is she socially awkward or something? Doing this 1-3times isn't surprising, just to test your response, but if your response is the same every time that just kinda wierd and disrespectful.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:58 PM
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Facial hair is probably the quickest solution. But you know what the problem is, you should reframe the question to "How do I appear older" from "why do only underage girls seem interested" Odds are if underage girls are interested in you, older ones are too and just mature enough to not say anything.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:47 PM
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You have a skill not many guys have, I had to learn the vague shit. You shouldn't ever define the relationship, but if you're looking for something casual saying you "can't do a full on relationship" gets the message across. Eventually you have to put her in her place tho, every girl will do shit you don't like because they're needy attention whores and if you let that go on unchecked long enough they'll fuck ur friends just to trigger you after 15 years a marriage. But if you want anything long…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:39 PM
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Np man thats why I look at this reddit, discussion makes sure my ideas are sharp at all times. I think you can make them happy for a short while, but eventually I think they'll all test you and you need to not fail. If a girl is upping the test and doing shit like flirting with other guys in front of you that means you failed big time. If you see a 10 year old kid smacking their parent and laughing in public and the parent is like "please stop it" whose fault it is? "Well the parent must've fuck…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:33 PM
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Are you good at writing? something like "I know we're both struggling with commitment right now, and I'm accepting of that. I really like you, (girl name), but I'm really busy and I just don't have time for a full on relationship right now. I think you're hot as fuck and I love hanging out with you so I don't see why this has to end, but I just want to be mature about it. So why don't we just fit into each other's schedules when we can? maybe a better way to say that last sentence. And if she sa…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:16 PM
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I 100% don't think you should give her money. But since you know shes having money problems, paying for an extra meal would help her out a little, right? So you can still be the good guy without being the simp who pays her rent. I think you should ask her out to dinner (on me) and don't ask about the money shit, because she'll definitely tell you, and if she feels like you're helping her and understand her and she isn't super stressed maybe you smash after the dinner.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:11 PM
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It's a shit test. You only really get comfort tests in a relationship and its like if a girl says "would you ever leave me" and you just play along and go "no, never". You can tell if they're being really insecure about it when they ask. But most of the test are shit tests, and it's when shes just being normal or kinda bitchy. They think it will work out by you being the heroic romantic and stopping at nothing to be with her. You just coming over to fuck her and leave doesn't turn her on enough,…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:06 PM
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Do you want a relationship or just tryna smash? If you're just tryna smash leaving her thinking about why you haven't texted her is the way to go. But if you actually want to build up some comfort and rapport with her to build a relationship off of then you should try not to ignore her needs. Granted there not your problems and you're in no way obligated to help her out with rent, offering small ways of helping to show her you care would show you're "not like those other guys". Idk what that is,…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:58 PM
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Walking away from a shit test is like a 8/10 response to them most of the time, unless it's a comfort test, then you really fuck up if you walk away. They just wanna see if you take the bait. So when you see a "oh hey I actually don't want sex because it's raining today" text, think "this is bait".
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:50 PM
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I went for the friend plus I have unique resources, route early on. what does this mean Recently she's been writing stuff like: "I reopened my dating app again, and gosh I've been talking to a lot of other men, I still prefer talking to you" and "I know you like to keep your being single but you have to talk to me too, I'm not like one of your projects" Okay this first sentence is massively disrespectful. Tell her she can talk to other guys if she wants but if you hear about that slut shit you'r…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:33 PM
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Honestly it's probably better to cut your losses. But you don't want that, you want a strategy. So you've taught her that you like engaging with this dumb bullshit frequently and often, so frequently, actually every single time she tries it, you engage with it. Think about it from her perspective, she knows she can get you come over and fuck her, she wants to know much many obstacles she can through in your way and see you climb over for it. Next time she says the dumb shit like "Uh i made plans…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:24 PM
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Ok I'll bite and actually respond to this. The main problem I see in the overwhelming blackpill perspective you've outlined is that it isn't as black and white as attractive/unattractive. Believe it or not it's not super hard to understand women's realistic perspective. I've looked into this alot and seen the tinder profile with "convicted sex offender" and I agree that this definitely works in these fringe cases. Extremely highly attractive men can easily pick up street trash, but the fact that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/20 03:48 PM
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"If entry level jobs require experience, how do I get experience to be able to get the job to get the experience" It's all a shame dude, just find a way that works and when you're winning don't stop winning, the system is fucked but being Red Pill alone probably gives you an advantage so you got that going for you.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:57 PM
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Leaving a woman when she acts that way is passing the test. Children do it too, you do dumb shit as a kid just to see if your parents let you. And if they do, then you do it whenever you want. If a woman does something openly disrespecting to you, and you apologize to her about it, then she knows anytime it's coinvent for her to disrespect you, she can and should. Thats why when they act like this you need to be Red Pill and tell her to cut it the fuck out or she's gone, or actually leave. Not t…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:54 PM
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I think "checking up" or "making sure you're still on" every few days is extremely needy and insecure. Like "really? you actually want to go on a date with me? I can't believe it, I have to ask you constantly to make sure its okay". I'd only ever do one "we still on?" text ever. And that's if I really don't wanna waste my time for some reason, but when I get a date with a 10 I just assume they're going to stand me up for the ego boost so I'd definitely build rapport first then wait even tho most…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:31 PM
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I don't know anything about you, but I can tell you care too much. Women aint shit dude.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:09 PM
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"Multiple guys? Ohhh you're one of those kinda girls. Nice meeting you but I'm not into that."
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:18 PM
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yeah it is tbh. Theres tons of little tricks to it. I was getting coffee with this girl once and I asked her what kinda stuff she talks about on a first date and she literally said that she asks for the guys income. If not the first than the 2nd for sure. I asked why she didn't ask me and she said "well I already know your a software dev those guys make so much". Hard ghosted her but I still get chills of what I'd of done with her if I didn't ask that, she was really fucking hot too.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:13 AM
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I think if you know you really have a problem with your jaw it can be really helpful. Like if you have an extreme underbite or just generally have a ugly no chin thing goin on, getting something done would probably be a good idea. I knew this one chick who had a huge chin, massive overbite. I kept talking her into getting something but she was soooo against it because she didn't want to look fake. But she got it done and went from a 2 to a 9 overnight, it was crazy. I never got to fuck her. But …
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:52 PM
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Yeah it's a red flag. Don't bring it up tho, because she was probably convinced it was normal by her friends. Do you do this kinda shit? Do you at least smoke weed? If you're a straight shooter you guys probably just won't match up well, she'll bang some dude she met at bar at 3am to show you how you're just way too "uptight". If you would do this kind thing yourself, just keep vetting her, talk about hookups and relationships and be really vague about the details. She'll probably reveal how "sh…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:43 PM
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I like questions like this that have like nothing to do with relationships. She's out to prove something, she's fucked up. Honestly be really happy you are not involved in anyway with this woman, interact with her in the bare minimum amount and when she has a sly remark like this laughing at it the ultimate slam dunk response. She needs to show everyone that she's serious and taking things so seriously, even more than all these incompetent men like you right? Every time she lets that disgusting,…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 09:34 PM
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Shes doing this to see if she can get away with it, and she can. If you're okay investing more time and attention into her so that one day maybe you can go back to fucking. Then sure. But thats pretty stupid. Honestly the best way to handle this shit is just be a huge dick about it. Girls think they can get away with this shit all the time. I usually tell them, "hey if you wanna have a conversation over text start with a nude to get me interested, otherwise I'm too busy". You don't have to fuck …
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:48 PM
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I don't know anything about game in Russia, but you're going to have to invest somehow. You can invest time instead of money and after a while you build up some rapport, she likes you and is willing to pay for shit but thats almost always a waste of time. And if you postpone fucking her that long you're wasting time. But it depends on the situation. I usually pay for a meal or two because I don't really need the money, but with my current LTR I never paid for anything because she was really inve…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:40 PM
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Jerking off isn't really an issue. I understand no fap arguments, but fucking having wet dreams on purpose. Just cool it, jerk off when ur laying in bed and can't sleep and are thinkin about ur highschool chemistry teacher you always wanted to bang, just don't bring porn into it and you'll be fine. You won't even need to limit yourself because the mood doesn't really naturally strike that often.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:04 AM
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In your post you say she isn't pursuing anyone else and in your title you say she isn't talking to anyone else. She's still talking to other people, but shes probably being honest about you being the front runner and asking what she can do to compete and stuff. The long paragraphs are weird, she must be pretty comfortable with you if shes not worried about scaring you off. Just pretend to be blue pill, you're happy to explore how things go with her and your definitely interested, but you're not …
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:23 PM
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I don't think it matters that much, but it'd help to introduce yourself separately than when everyone does it at once. Best thing you can do is step forward, introduce yourself, and then introduce your friends.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:15 PM
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"too cool for school" attitude. A very content, soft, "I'm better than these people". No emotion attached to it, not forcing it. Just a general aloof tone to everything. You are different than the other people at this party. Yeah everyone's having fun, but you're an ASSHOLE and these guys are NICE PEOPLE. Just something that signals you are not cut from the same cloth as your ineligible friends. It doesn't even have to be better, just different. Guys do this at bars alot, were they'll poke fun a…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:09 PM
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Focus on Man to Woman lingo. Odds are absolutely non of these women see this party as a sexual opportunity and probably doesn't even want to assess any of you guys as a potential partner given like half of them are already disqualified. I would say focus on the one that seems most interested and don't be too friendly. Yeah you're all there to have fun and laugh n shit, but even if you're the life of the party subtle little "this party isn't my speed" vibes go along way.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:50 PM
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did she actually say mr. no response? Thats kinda needy. This is genuine. For some reason women don't see any line between relationship and friend, as a guy your girl being your best friend is supposed to happen when your like 60 or something. Anytime I've ever told a girl she's not my friend she just feels hurt and doesn't understand, other guys get it tho. Women are an endless amount of trouble you'd rather not deal with, but you have a penis... so...
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:44 PM
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Feign disinterest in her, and when she notices, tell her exactly what you're thinking.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:39 PM
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Do you really think you're entering her frame by just texting her back whenever you want because shes doing the same? How could she possibly know that you're not doing it organically? So you hit her up right away and if she doesn't instantly respond throw her away? You're tossing out almost 100% of women there just to stay in frame bud. Not sure on that one.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:03 PM
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Is this even a real question. You know it's fine, whats sloppy about it? I never let them leave visible marks on me, you just did.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:29 PM
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What is the question dude. Is it good to jerk off when shes not in the mood? but then you say its working. What is the problem. She cares about your attention more than the sex. She doesn't like you going off and paying attention to those pornstars when shes right there, but when she has your attention she isn't in the mood. Idk man, is this like an everyday thing or once a week? If she is literally never in the mood to fuck you, and will only do it in the context of you earning back your attent…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:24 PM
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How socially aware are you? I've met a good amount of "doing everything right" guys and they always come off as totally unaware of their obviously flaws. Do you have good friends that would tell you if something was wrong? I think what you're doing is great and you're doing significantly better than most people, but that being said it won't do absolutely everything. Why are you doing all this? From the guys I've talked to that are in your situation they had very well off parents and are doing th…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:10 PM
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Uh idk, doesn't matter a ton to be honest. I mean she can't really fuck you on a date right? It just puts more pressure on you guys to do something afterwards. Like "Now that the dates over, wanna watch that movie we were talking about at your place". That's just like a "do you wanna fuck y/n" kinda thing. And if she says no then you just go home lol. You want to only need 1 yes, not like 4 in a row. So yeah just make up an excuse to hang out at her place is probably best. I mean her place is ki…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:41 PM
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Just match her texting pace. Yes everyone sees messages right away but then you don't respond until later when your not thinking about anything and you remember that they sent you a message and that you should respond. I do it to friends I don't really care about all the time. Like if someone you went to highschool with sends you a message on facebook, why would you respond to it right away? They probably want to sell you something or some dumb bullshit. So you only respond if you have time late…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:19 PM
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You're asking this question because you don't want to fuck it up. Get it out of your mind that you can fuck it up. You suspect she's into you and from what you said that seems to be the case. So what are you worried about? Don't listen to the shit she says, this girl is a slut and wants to fuck you. You're job is to create as many opportunities for her to fuck you as possible, without pressuring her. Alot of inexperienced guys work hard to make "the perfect moment" and when she turns it down, th…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:09 PM
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This is actually good, she expressed such strong emotion toward you all you have to do now is not care and she'll keep thinking of you. Wait a while, let her negative emotion subside and then slowly creep your way back. The fact that she got OMEGA triggered by you joking about her putting moves on you means either shes super insecure of herself and sees being with you as such a massive insult to her value as a human being that she needs to retaliate to defend her value in her mind, or she actual…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:53 PM
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So forget she even cancelled and move on if they reach out. Use them for their wet hole and send them their way. in the wise words of Patrice O'neal. I only want pussy if thats all you got to offer. Its good you managed to get her to submit. But would you go through with the same effort with what you know now? Yes. Because she fixed it and I like fucking hot girls. She blew me off because I was a beta retard and let her blow me off. I even cancelled other plans when she wanted to hang out random…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:08 PM
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100% of the comments will say to get more plates. But relative to the situation, if you make this a big deal or pay attention to it, she knows that you care about it and fuck you nonstop about it. This is stupid drama to you, if she's just a fwb who cares if they did anything. If you do care, then cool, you need to negotiate monogamy. But this is NOTTTTT the time to do it. The time to do is when you can easily slide your dick into some other bitch. The question you're asking isn't "is this trick…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:59 PM
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It's just the correct response. Women view anything else as childish. If her little canceling plans actually affects a high value guy like you then she must be either just as valuable or you're not worth her. In a girl's mind cancelling plans is something that anyone participating in an activity has a right to do. Just like being late. It's always an option for them and the frequency that they do it is entirely dependant on how much they can. It's not a power dynamic play. Realistically she has …
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:41 PM
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No, you don't soft next an LTR. Whats the point of being in an LTR then? Soft next is divert your interest else wear. If you run 3 youtube channels, all with 10k subscribers, and they usually do pretty well. If your recent uploads to one channel get less interest and perform worse for whatever reason, thats a problem. If it was your only youtube channel, you would but a ton of time and effort thinking about the problem and trying to fix it. But that doesn't always help, sometimes just letting th…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:49 PM
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She didn't tell you why she couldn't see you today. And theres also no context as to what the plans were, did you guys have a set time in mind and something else came up? Why wouldn't she tell you what the interference is? She wanted to see if you would be okay not seeing her for a while, and you said you were. But in her mind, if you actually wanted to see her, you'd try to set something up after your sisters leave. You gave the alpha answer, but not the one that shows interest. She probably is…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:32 PM
4

"girl said or did something that I mildly don't like, how do I next" stop being a volatile reactionary little bitch. She was trying to humblebrag. It's not like "oh shit here comes female nature again, in 20min shell be deepthroating this guy". It's just kinda cringey. Forget about it and don't make reddit posts about extremely minor miscommunications.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:18 PM
1

yeah now that you say that I'm pretty sure he used that exact example in his lecture lol
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:55 PM
1

If you want to just fuck her and thats it, and you absolutely refuse to have her believe that isn't the case. I don't know how you'll ever fuck her. Most of the time girls don't wanna get dicked down and thrown away. And even if that is what they want, they want to pretend like that isn't going to happen. You have to lead her to believe that you are selling what she's buying but she has to buy it with pussy. If for some reason you are also 100% certain that you don't want to be seen as anything …
/r/askTRP18/08/20 06:34 PM
-1

I would like to bed this girl tonight and will lose interest and next if I don't. this one is creeping into oneitis and is fucking with my mind. These are contradictory statements. You're not going to "lose interest". You're going to give up, you obviously care more than you should, thats why you posted about it. I think any sane valuable girl isn't going to fuck on the first date unless you're famous. I agree you fucked up the frame, because you pushed her to a "hard no". The relationship is no…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:40 PM
2

I think you're focusing alot on showing him you have what it takes. What could be more valuable is just getting him to like spending time with you. This post sounds really beggy, and you don't really have room not to beg. But if you approach him like this, the time he gives you is out of charity and pity. If you gain his respect however, he could see his time into you as a great investment. How are your social skills? How confident are you in a situation where people clearly outclass and out ear…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:15 PM
6

I think TRP gets too caught up in throwing women away alot of the time. The point is that you shouldn't value them. If a new girl is an 8/10 and a girl you knew in highschool is an 8/10 and one shit tests you more than the other, you should always just take the new one because their value should be the same to you. Most people have sentimental value to things they know, especially people, and that's where you shoot yourself in the foot, getting a worse deal in a relationship, just because the gi…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:57 PM
10

This is a great reply. By distancing himself he showed that he was above her bullshit, which is very attractive to women. Most guys will be totally fine being just friends after being rejected because they're so desperate for female attention and it just lets the girl, and all other girls around, know that you are beneath her and willing to follow her lead.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:14 AM
1

Yeah I agree with you man, it is NOT worth it. But what can you do. Take a few long breaks from pussy, then just get right back into it because i'm not gay and I still love fucking hot chicks lol. I also agree it's not just 10's that do this. My buddies a tall skinny guy whose a chubby chaser and legit 1s and 2s will pull some crazy shit. And my friend, being blue pill as fuck, would let this girl go on dates with other guys to "find herself" and even drive her there and give her money. It's mor…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:09 PM
1

Instragram followers could inflate someone's ego and cause them to act in ways that seem like mental disorders? That's my guess.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:01 PM
1

I have to disagree. Yes it's not normal for any girl, but I've never met a girl who was a 10 and clearly trying her best in the SMP not do this stuff. It's very typical and predictable, that's part of what this subreddit is for. And if you take any "insta model" that's over, say, idk, 5k followers? They'll 100% all do this shit to the letter. It might die down after a few years of being together, but there isn't a unicorn girl out there who is just going to act like normal about all this and als…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:42 PM
2

I think you need to focus on what you want. You broke things off with her because you wanted plates, but now you don't have any plates, so you miss her. Things gain/lose importance with relevance, if your your ex wasn't relevant to your current situation you wouldn't care at all. However, you shouldn't tie your wants/needs to whatevers available, thats what women do. Decide what you want and go for it. If you wanna fuck 2-10 plates for the next 4 years, go ahead and do a good job. But changing y…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:26 PM
1

I've never met or been with a 10 that didn't act like she was going to cheat every 10sec. It's just a test, making it look like shes keeping her options open, when in reality these women have no options, their dating pools are extremely small. If you actually think ur chick is going to drop all of her orbiters or you, or she's going to randomly start respecting one and fuck them you're out of your mind. It's their nature, they don't even know how to stop. If you let it affect you it just makes y…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:23 PM
19

Did you actually break up with her just for being clingy? It doesn't sound like you're not over her, it sounds like you just miscalculated. Almost all crazy hot girls are equally crazy in the head, what were you trying to upgrade to? Did you just wanna bang the plate? Did you want a relationship with the plate and she declined? What was the motivation for ditching the hottie? It sounds like you thought you could do better, but it turns out you can't. What's better look like to you? A girl thats …
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:16 PM
1

I don't think continually beating yourself up over beating a beta is really going to help all that much. The next time you have an opportunity to be with a chick all you'll be thinking is "don't do that beta shit again!" and you'll forget anything actually good to do. Ideally, you shouldn't have to think, you should just do the right thing without thinking and then later when you have some free time, remember why you have to act like that. If you really care about this girl you should care about…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:13 AM
1

I don't think you did all that much wrong. I think she just wanted to throw her virginity away for some reason and you along with it. I don't think she was lying about being a virgin, she might've just thought sex was alot better in her head or had regrets afterwards or who knows what. Her trying to brush you off with "I lost all my contacts" is fuckin hilarious tho, like you fuck and a few days later it's like a "excuse me sir, do you have an appointment?" style conversation when you literally …
/r/askTRP06/08/20 07:42 AM
1

why are you posting this, whats the question. Of course shes gunna regret cheating next time she talks to her bf and block you. Idk what you were expecting.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 06:14 AM
1

It's good that you wrote out part 2 like this because you just want to say it, you don't want her to hear that, it won't work out well but you really wanted to say it, so it's good that you said it on reddit. As far as what you should do? Lemme try and make it really obvious she texts you this stupid bs thing you should do. you say ur busy and ignore it she then freaks out you let it affect you and say you'll do it she has all the power now, brushes you off "like you did to her" in her mind. The…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:52 AM
3

If you are literally only concerned with getting money, then do everything. Do whatever you can to get money. Write a book, start a youtube channel, and make good investments. Get any job and manage your money wisely. Once you start dont' stop and just do where that leads you. Get into accounting, become a notary, get all the skills you can so you turn your time into money as frequently as possible. Get a job in fast food and then get another job driving UBER. If you think these jobs are shit us…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:51 AM
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Well, it's a losing game to begin with, but you if you really have this as your only option, you stand out. You don't stand out by doing something really impressive or bragging out showing off or being flashing. You also don't show off by being funny or thinking of some "awesome" pickup line that'll make her say "ok you win" right away. You give her the only thing you can, your experience. Women, and people in general, are always interested in this. I learned this a while back and tested it heav…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:35 AM
1

Why are you commenting on ur ex's pictures.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:28 AM
2

I didn’t write this post to criticize myself because I don’t think there’s anything I’ve done wrong in our interactions. I had them both laughing and wanting to know me better, I don't think you did either, but how does that effect the quality of these women? Are you looking for advice to pull them? You already think you can so whats the question?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:27 AM
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It comes down to Worth. Men are worth more than women because we're stronger and more apt for survival. If our social status is low, it negatively affects us. Women cooperate with men to survive. If they're social currency is low, they suffer significantly more than men because it's less likely they can survive on their own. If you're a man with access to the internet, you realistically will most likely have a life better than the majority of your ancestors due to technological advancements. It …
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:22 AM
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Most guys are gunna say ditch them both asap and go find urself some quality women, but theres more to it than that. Idk why you made this post just to shit on these girls. Told me she was losing feelings. I couldn’t care less. you really couldn't care less? Why are you posting about it on reddit then? Is this the highest quality type of women you can attractive with your SMV? Let's not be like those girls on facebook and say Baby girl that man was trash you deserve better Do you deserve better …
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:09 AM
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There are some women that are red pill but it's really hard for them to see eye to eye with unless they lack alot of self respect. Women are enforcers of the system we're trying to navigate. They made the blue pill. Throughout history and prehistory, men fight for resources to ensure their survival and women seduce men, they seduce us with their bodies and their ideology. After that seduction occurs, they leech the resources for themselves and thats how they survive. The seduction is so nice, th…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:58 AM
2

This is a good thing. Start asserting yourself more and notice the results.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:33 PM
11

I feel like any girl who’s an 8 or above you’ve gotta meet in person and raise her interest in you that way or else you stand no chance online. yeah pretty much. These girls think their time has some insane value, so when you just offer to trade yours for it, well ur just a guy. She is looking for someone to level with her on this retardation and ask her out on a helicopter ride on the first date or something. Tinder is really shitty for getting like almost model level hot chicks imo, because th…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:31 PM
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Shes guessing what it's gunna be like. "I'm so stressed out, so it'll be like this". Shes the woman, how the fuck does she know, all she knows is she aint gettin anything good from you and should look for someone else. Since she even suggested the break, it's over dude, and shes got someone else in mind 100%. Think about it, if things were so hard, wouldn't she want you, her loving supportive bf, there through the entire thing? Heres what I'd do. Lay it down, tell her how it is. Women get all co…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:16 PM
2

Well the reason they say that is because if you get invested in this girl, and she does something crazy and blow a football team, you're feelings would get hurt and you'd be crushed but realistically as you get older you realize they're all crazy to some extent. I think maintaining frame and being as TRP as possible is the best way to keep her inline, and if she does do something stupid, just learn from it and move on. Obviously it would be better to just not have feelings in the first place, be…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:59 PM
3

Whats the problem here? Do you want a way to break things off with this girl? Why? Just keep her at arms length and if she loses interest, thats good for you. You state like 3-4 times how clear cut the situation is, that she's all over you. If that was the case why overexplain it? If you feel something for this girl you're in a really good spot, taking her virginity means shell pretty much never forget you, most girls get really clingy about this but it seems like she isn't because she doesn't w…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 07:40 PM
1

She's only replied to you once? You said you got a girl interested in you so I assumed you've talked alot before. Still, showing interest is about you showing interest in you, if you don't talk about what you're doing or about yourself, and she asks, thats a very good sign. If she never asks about you or your life, it's a good sign she's not interested. I'd stay vague and elusive either way.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:25 AM
2

You just don't acknowledge it. Make her ask what you're doing. Answer as vaguely as possible. Keep her wondering and help her take an interest in you.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 05:37 AM
1

Help him as much as you can but don't die with him. Always offer actionable alternatives, even if you have nothing to provide. If he needs a job offer to help him with his search, if he needs a career talk to him about his options. Invest in his success so he at least won't want to let you down. But you don't have to offer him a job or give him money or do anything that is "required" like go and visit him and stuff. Most people who are suicidal just don't think life will work out for them, and t…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 04:23 AM
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I went out a club with her and her friends, we made out and had a lot of fun and we went our separate ways home. I texted her the next day that I had had a great time. She responded positively. She avoided me the next week so I stopped chasing. This could've been a shit test to see if you were actually interested or just fucking around. We went out, had a great time and went back to my place. Same story afterwards. She's busy and avoiding me. I don't take it too seriously because she had a lot o…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:21 AM
2

You do it the same way you read anyone, get to know them, and get to know whats important to them. I knew this girl for a really long time who acted like a total thot, but was a virgin. But her being a virgin was part of it because sex was so important to her she was waiting to cash out her pussy points on buying the perfect man. That being said, it really didn't matter. She acted like a girl who'd been with 100 guys and still acts that way (I've heard). It can be really hard, because pretty muc…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:07 AM
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Currently I’m bulking to build more muscle mass. But Sometimes I get really busy and can’t eat my daily calorie intake for bulking or even for maintaining. This is kinda dumb, you can't be too busy to eat. You can eat a sandwhich while walking around or working. 70% of American's find it hard to have that problem. But I get what you're saying, you're too busy to put focus on it or make it a priority, but change this language in your head, if you think "i'm too busy so i can't" thats the perfect …
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:26 PM
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I had was in this exact same situation with my girlfriend in highschool and eventually broke things off with her so she could go find someone actually excited to be with her. This is a passive process that occurs extremely frequently in males. You're emotions are being suppressed. You are not a "master" of them, you're not a super awesome rationalist or realist or a "natural stoicist". Your body is not allowing you to experience them because it feels that they would create a dire situation that …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:29 PM
1

I don't think you were being defensive, you're responding with proof that assumptions other people are making aren't true.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:48 PM
1

yeah this is the play. Act like you didn't notice it happen. Most of the time when girls do bad dumb little stuff like this its for attention, like a kid acting out. If she really wants his attention she can go hang out again or use her big girl words.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:47 PM
2

I agree with the other advice in the thread, theres a huge chance if you cave she's just doing it for ego and games and will drop you soon after just to feel good about herself. At the same time, if you like her and you can fuck her without much work. Then dropping her just "because its the right move" is really stupid because who cares about the right move if your dropping her anyway. I say ignore her for 2 weeks then hit her up for a bootycall. Out of the blue, thats "her chance back in" and j…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 12:27 AM
1

She knows shes got you so shes pulling this shit. If you really want her, doing some redpill shit won't do much of anything. You need to put your foot down and reorder all of this shit. You can do all of this for her, but in the end we all know when you get to the point she wants to fuck you, you'll be done with her, it's what always happens with oneitis. If you still wanna dig through the trash after ur trasformation, thats on u bro. But trust me, you won't, we never do. Use ur blue pillness to…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:56 PM
1

Why did you kiss someone you weren't attracted to? Her bringing the friend was an obvious "lemme see if I can get away with this bullshit". I would've noped out instantly and questioned the sanity of the friend, ask the friend in a very straight up and confrontational way what the first girl said to her, and she'll tell you something like "she asked me if i wanted to go hiking with her and her guy friend". The first girl obviously had to say it wasn't a date or the friend would've felt like she …
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:00 PM
2

they're never yours
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:44 AM
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The best way I've found to be a leader is to just consider everyone else as incompetent. It's a pretty asshole thing to do but it gets the job done right away. I never wanted to lead my work teams, but after realizing everyone else was going to be super shy about it and beat around the push I stepped up and stepped in. I consider it one of my top qualities now and when people ask me if I see myself as a good leader, I always consider the people I'm leading as below average. If you respect your e…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:28 PM
2

mentality of modern women is statistically favoring taller men when it's clear it is but you still have to play by those rules if you wanna get with a lot of women. This is blue pill. You're setting your standard to that of women. Chad is not the ultimate goal, the ultimate goal is to be the most well rounded and best version of yourself as possible, which is oddly what alot of blue pillers say as advice to get women. You're right, it is stupid to be focusing on height as a disqualifier when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:36 AM
0

Thats up to you really. I don't have any advice because I'd need like a situation with details and which women you're trying to impress. Just make sure anytime other women are around you're on your game and act like you're single around them. I like to hint at it with half-jokes nonstop. Like when her friends are around, odds are someone will bring up their looks, and then I just throw in "yeah, (my girlfriend) might have to step it up!". Which upsets her in the moment, but long term sets in tha…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:21 AM
9

You are thinking about this wayyyy too much my dude. Being a virgin at 18 is not weird, but even if you were 35 why does she need to know? Because you're unsure if thats okay, thats why you made this post. It's not whether or not its okay, its that it's not really relavent other than her checking your social proof. If she asks you directly, say "what do you think?". If you let her think this is a negative she might say its okay, but she'll say you make up for it in other ways. Which is retarded,…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:06 AM
4

If you're ego is disappointed because you thought hooking up with her meant something, thats the lesson. It never means anything, it means you got what you got and if it wasn't fun don't do it again. You shouldn't be trying to fuck a girl who no one else can fuck, thats all ego bullshit. Just pick one who makes you happy and is the least problematic. They're all like this. Women have very poor judgement overall compared to men, they think with their feelings, their judgement shouldn't matter to …
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:53 AM
5

Social proof is really all you need. If other women have good things to say about you, she'll believe them.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:43 AM
1

I think its good to not be addicted to jerking off but I think its bad to think about how ur not jerking off all the time. One of the arguments for noFap is that it saves time, but then they spend days making and watching noFap videos and developing strategies for success when they could've just rubbed one out and got back to work. It's probably better to not jerk off than to jerk off, but you shouldn't obsesses about it.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:40 AM
1

Well the makeup is to make it look like you have good skin, good skin is a sign of health. You want a healthy girl because if she has some disease she could die while pregnant or something or pass that disease to your kid. Good skin isn't a gene tho.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:34 AM
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It's because all women are super insecure, so they want backup on the opinions all the time. I actually just had a discussion about this earlier today. I used to be with this girl and anytime we'd get in an argument or disagreement she'd feel super unsure of herself because I gave a good proposal, instead of counterarguing or trying to change my mind or doing anything important, she'd text all her friends, like 15 people and tally them to see who agrees with who. She'd always frame it in her sid…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:31 AM
13

The problem is that although you're relationship is nice, it's not serving any purpose to you. But fucking hot randoms keeps your ego nice and big. What are the goals both of you have? Do you want to build something together? You're very young. Yeah she probably wants marriage and kids, but is that what you want? Do you want to live in your hometown? What are your career plans? What do you want to achieve and how will you make it happen? All of this is important, and if you get that figured out …
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:12 AM
1

Being hot doesn't really equal good genes despite what most people think. Being hot for a girl means having a good waist to hip ratio, which you want for a healthy birth.And having big boobs, which you want to feed your kid. You don't care about her genes, just that ur offspring survive and they are actually yours. But to answer your question, it's not bad to pick #1, but it is bad to always be picking #1. If i pick the best toothpaste in 2002, and use it my whole life, thats kinda stupid, tooth…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:59 AM
4

Never a bad idea to compare notes or help other people out i guess. I think i'm pretty solid on this this stuff too, but i'm very welcome to be shown i'm wrong so I can improve.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 07:44 AM
2

Laughing is usually my initial reaction. I don't know why, I'm not a very hostile guy and I don't see any reason to start anything physical for no reason, but the times someone has been extremely short with me or thrown a minor insult for no real reason my go to in always a "wow look at the balls on you" attitude. I don't think it needs to be "you think you can get away with this? I'll show you how wrong that is" this actually seems pretty insecure in the long run, like guys who go around consta…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:59 AM
9

If she doesn't tell you, just drop her when you find out. If she does tell you, drop her.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:46 AM
2

yeah i dont like movie dates either, but it was a solid example
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:36 PM
4

You should do it for sure, but don't be super up front about it. Alot of guys get this idea that when you hit up a girl you have to be crazy forward and alpha. This just makes it way more likely for the girl to not want to give you a yes, because shes giving a yes to something that is super set in a stone, and every woman has "make up my mind for me" syndrome. They don't know what they want, so if you say "hey bb wanna smash" they'll never say yes. Coffee can be good, but it's still pretty forwa…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:58 PM
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I think it's not an actual active haram. Our current situation is mostly lonely people trying to get by, guys playing videogames and girls watching nexflix, and not that many people having sex. The Top 20Men these men are found attractive by 80% of women, realistically 100% but the lower 20% wouldn't have a chance and they know it. These top 20men ARE NOT banging 80% of women. They are having more sex because, well they can, they're spinning plates, they're banging their LTR's more often because…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:29 AM
5

lol dude what
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:34 AM
13

Yeah they can change, but fuck em dude more women for you.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:14 AM
2

Never let dumb shit, like her changing her profile pic, get to you. Being left on read isn't how it ends, she didn't block you. They always leave the window open for the next alpha play because they want you to make it, especially after they ramp up the dumb games. So ye, my play would be wait a few days, then when ur not busy, invite her to some excuse for sex, like "come over to play board games" or something. Shes a fuckin hoe she knows what it means, but she doesn't wanna act like a hoe, she…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:12 AM
11

No, what you're asking for is responsible. And it's actually the best way to LDR imo. She wants all the attention she can get from you, she is going to complain no matter what the fuck you do, she'll always want more. It's a test to see if you'll give her more, or if her being super needy will throw you off, and it's thrown you off everytime so far. Women need to see if a man will say "nah fuck it" to some annoying needy crying because that's what babies do and they don't want a guy to break up …
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:01 AM
11

I think the right response would be something like "What do you mean? We text all the time" if she protests then say "I don't really pay attention to my phone, if you want to talk you can come over to my place?" But I think no matter what she's going to leave you on read to super test you and get you to freak out and make a reddit post about it, like ur doing right now. Just wait a few days like it's no big deal and text her like "Oh did you still wanna come to my place?" and really just keep br…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:53 AM
6

c r i n g e
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:06 AM
2

I wouldn't. Just put the best pics from insta on ur tinder. It's like a resume, you don't really want ur employer to know you worked at mcdonalds 12 years ago, just show em what you want them to see.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:05 AM
3

It's Winston Churchil "If you're going through hell, keep going" And I think that can be true for alot of things, you can just fight through it, but depression is different for everyone and I encourage anyone to try anything to bring it to an end. No one deserves that kindof suffering.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:21 AM
5

You probably can't do exactly what I did, everyone has their own path, and everyone has to find their own way out. I always thought I was 100% gone, I had no chance. But if you're alive you still have a chance. One solid fact that no one seems to ever fucking point out for some reason is that men's overall life satisfaction is highly linked to their career and work. It's hard to see from the outside but I can never me upset when I get alot of work done, even if something bad happens, it doesn't …
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:20 AM
37

If you think my dick is a problem, you're thinking about my dick too much.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:13 AM
24

I was someone like you not that long ago. Depressed for life, hopeless, going nowhere. And I have some advice for what I did, but I have no idea if it will work for you. One day I just accepted it. I knew, and always told myself I was worthless and not going anywhere and had people, including my parents, say it to me multiple times as proof from a very young age. And so most of me believed that, but I still had maybe like 5% resistance. 5% of me was keeping me alive, it was saying me, and all th…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:57 AM
39

I hate all the talk about dick size. You know if you're extremely below average, almost all guys don't know and just assume they're small because they see 8-9inchers in porn nonstop. I agree with it being similar to height, no, you don't have to be 6,3 you just might have an issue if you're 5,3. Yet every single guy below 6,1 is insecure about it for some reason? I feel like this is a huge problem no one cares about, we freak out over instagram photoshopping causing confidence issues in young wo…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:34 AM
8

Exposure therapy/progressive overload can build you up to anything. You don't actually have to go to therapy, just take it babystep by babystep. If you're not comfortable talking to strangers, at all. Just walk around alot, and when you see someone with a dog say "hey thats a cute dog" ask old people how their day is, compliment a guy on his shoes or something (guys freak the fuck out of compliments from anyone, even another guy). Then when you hit up a girl, shes just another person, tell a gir…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:14 AM
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Raise your standards and get with more women you approve of. You didn't hold her to your own standards, so you're standards feel useless. If you want an instant ego boost, find a girl hotter that ugly girl but not anything special, seduce her and reject her.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:03 AM
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Not everyone has that opinion, so applying it to all cases of sex men have isn't doing anything useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 12:01 AM
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The problem with this is, with women believing their own bullshit justifications for their behavior that lowers the integrity of everything they say and we can't just devalue an entire gender. Or at least we can't these days. If we "take the safety labels off" and describe women accurately they would heavily protest and men would naturally support them by simping and then you have a war all the sudden. Women can't handle responsibility that comes with extreme freedom the way men can, or at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:55 PM
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To really understand this you have to think about it from the perspective of the women. To women there are people (other women, children, most men) and then there are sexual candidates. (hot guys) A man who doesn't get female attention isn't a "failed sexual candidate" he isn't one to begin with. It's not "what is he doing wrong". It's not qualities that are lacking. You're in the woods, you're hungry, you wanna hunt a deer, you're looking around for a deer trying to hunt it and kill it and eat …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:23 PM
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Yeah well I mean I think we agree if he stays blue pill obviously nothing will get better no matter what he does lol. Divorcing his wife and staying blue pill at 45 is asking for a borderline relationship with a single mom. I'm not certain she hasn't cheated but it's not mentioned in the post so we don't have that information. Her willingless to openly shit on her husband to such an extent, should be what it takes to redpill him, and after he's redpilled his marriage problems are solved so why e…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 02:03 AM
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I don't think it's a fallacy to value 20 years of your life. You don't stay with someone for 20 years if you don't even like them lol. She still loves him but she just lost attraction, which is normal, and fantasized about what could've been, which is also normal for BPers. The settling part was where she crossed the line. But It's amazing shes still around at all after 5 years of deadbedroom, and she hasn't cheated yet? It could've been way worse. It's really insecure to end 20 years of marriag…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 01:27 AM
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I'm not really a fan of social conditioning or "society says" arguments. I agree with Rollo in the fact that it's deeply embedded, but it's embedded in our biology, since we were like 12 we've been dying to shove our dicks in a them nonstop and never questioned the authenticity of that. Treating women like shit feels like throwing food away, it's devaluing a resource to us.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 11:58 PM
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This is a solid red pill proof of concept. But he's been married to this woman for 20 years. He obviously can't just ditch her and go fuck some 22 year olds. He's devoted a huge portion of his life to this woman and he was 2nd best the entire time. They have kids, or at least a life together, that might not be worth destroying because of a phone call. Theres nothing to fix, just an unfortunate situation. Of course he could hit the gym, better himself, spike up that SMV and give it another shot. …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 11:45 PM
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OP's post seems like pretty rudimentary information. Alot of guys, like I used to, would get stuck in "I'm in the friendzone what do I do?" look up advice on it, and 100% of the advice was to drop her and move on, which a person with oneitus would never do, so you don't take the advice and u keep being blue-pilled forever, it doesn't help anyone. If the girl is just tricking you into making you believe that she wants you while in fact just using you then you need to develop an awareness and judg…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 10:54 AM
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Thanks for the recommendation i'll have to check him out.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 03:42 AM
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I think agreeing without emotion is probably the best disarming technique? Someone says "DON'T YOU CARE ABOUT BLACK LIVES?" just shrug it off "of course I care". "Are you upset about police brutality?!" "yeah I can't believe it". You give them no room to attack you any longer. And you don't feel attacked so you never took a hit to begin with, so you win. If someone presses you further they'll just lose more, "If you really cared you'd go to the protests" "yeah maybe I'll go to one". When you bot…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 08:24 PM
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God damn, it's like someone with a more educated vocabulary just ejaculated whats in my head and multiplied it. This is my exact opinion, but I'd never mapped it out like this. I understood contributing to the vengeful swinging was useless, but I hadn't decided on a course of action against it other than "I don't like to get political". But you're completely correct, whenever I utter that sentence it always feels inadequate, because I'm feeling attacked and using it as a shield. As for the elixi…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 10:15 AM
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I noticed I had trouble with this years ago and I tried to fight with meditation and just being more socially avaible but it just wasn't right for me. It was like I was forcing myself to just do more all the time, when what I wanted to do was reflect. When I was talking to someone I'd fight back all the things I wanted to think about, but in the middle of the conversation, they'd always pop back up in my mind. So I decided to go with it and just carry around notebooks that I write important thou…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 09:47 AM
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I hate the whole "women looking for good genes thing" most of surival is about behavior, not genes. There are millions of dead people who had great genes, probably a better starting point that you had. Genes don't give you resistance to being shot in the face. Also epigenetics exist. I think what women really are thinking when they want a guy who "just gets it" and just "is" a winner is that they want it to be so implied in his being that he will conquer that it doesn't even need to said or rein…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 09:25 AM
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I've been going back and forth on this for a while now and I can't decide. Women need subtlety, they require it. Being extremely straight up has always been my go-to. Brutal honesty and straightforwardness, but women see this as alot of pressure. If you tell a girl you like her and then just look at her, expecting her to say it back, when she doesn't, you won't get a good result. Notice how "will you marry me?" is always met with a "FUCK YES" or a "can we talk about this?" . It's never a "no". Y…
/r/seduction13/04/20 06:43 PM
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