redwhiteandfreedom Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	I was an AH, we didn’t communicate, she cheated, now we’re mid D		redwhiteandfreedom	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/24 01:54 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	What is a reason that will stop you from remarrying? I don’t see the point to do it again without a prenup. I like the idea of it being a commitment to one another. There is value to that. I won’t say I would never do it again, but losing half of what we’ve built because she decided on a whim that she wants someone else would be the main reason I have no interest in another	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 11:18 AM
1	What is a reason that will stop you from remarrying? Are you really doing great though? You post indicates you still have your defensive walls up not allowing vulnerability. You can still be vulnerable, just need to learn your boundaries. That’s the healing part. 🙂	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 11:16 AM
6	Division of property It sounds like you potentially could be on the hook for alimony so factor that into your negotiating	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/24 12:17 PM
1	I was an AH, we didn’t communicate, she cheated, now we’re mid D Some threads ban language in the titles lol	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/24 09:50 PM
3	I was an AH, we didn’t communicate, she cheated, now we’re mid D Because she’s just now realizing what life will be like in her own. Now that she doesn’t have her backup plan, she’s in a spiral	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/24 10:47 AM
2	Too fast or am I good? I’ve seen it go both directions and this dude hasn’t even hired a lawyer yet he’s still 100% married she could totally use this against them	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/24 07:05 PM
3	Too fast or am I good? You are correct it’s not illegal, but you see stories about it everywhere and it’s generally not advisable. My wife cheated on me and my lawyer specifically told me to stay away from any sort of a fling until the divorce is final.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/24 07:04 PM
1	Too fast or am I good? Because X wives can be quite evil and use it against you once they’re back in the corner	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/24 07:02 PM
2	Too fast or am I good? If you have children and aren’t legally divorced yet, I would advise against dating as it could go against you in court when it comes to custodial, right	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/24 06:16 PM
3	Getting the Snip I’m getting one because I don’t want anymore. I’m near divorce being finalized and I don’t want unnecessary drama down the road	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/24 08:20 PM
7	Moved back in a couple weeks ago but now I have Syphilis. Probably should have told her before sleeping with her again. Condoms or not. That not telling her is the nail in the coffin.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/24 03:58 PM
1	How long did your contested divorce take from filing to agreement? Sorry. Filed early April. Pre trial about weeks from now	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/24 10:59 PM
1	How long did your contested divorce take from filing to agreement? Same boat. I filed early Pre trial mid may. She’s done nothing. So I assume it’ll go another 45 days after mid may before anything of substance. I expect 6 months at best	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/24 10:50 PM
2	Life as a young If it’s gonna happen, best time to have it happen	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/24 07:45 PM