redwine1223 Archive

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4	Young adults complaining about the current dating scene (or anyone complaining about any dating scene) have only two actual solutions: (1) offer more, or (2) demand less Not a bimbo either and have had no problem finding a good man. My friends and I are all mostly in LTRs and from what I can see- we are all happy and successful women. She has the mindset of me when I was like 19. It also probably doesn’t help that being a public a figure will attract only a certain demographic of men🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 05:45 AM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years why do you care what a “Blooper” has to say/thinks about you? Why should he even know what your dating preferences are and what effect does that have on you? Women will shame other women for wanting a low n count as well or for “giving into the patriarchy” and that has absolutely no effect on me. Edit: read that as Feminists not male feminists. But again why should you care what tf they think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 05:04 AM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years Lmao by who? High n count women? Who tf cares	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 04:13 AM
4	Young adults complaining about the current dating scene (or anyone complaining about any dating scene) have only two actual solutions: (1) offer more, or (2) demand less Yeah the vid gives me serious second hand embarrassment for her. Yikes girl 😬	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 03:04 AM
12	Young adults complaining about the current dating scene (or anyone complaining about any dating scene) have only two actual solutions: (1) offer more, or (2) demand less Yeah well just goes to show looks alone won’t get you a good man. Im sorry but Tomi is a huge loud mouth and very strong in her views which fine okay, but as someone who is also a career woman and has passionate opinions -I know how to stfu sometimes. Not worth It, relationships take compromise which includes shutting up occasionally. She seems incredibly disagreeable and stubborn. Can you imagine getting in an argument with her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 01:19 AM
2	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years Yeah completely agree. Calling It rape is just as bad for the prostitutes as if adult women are incapable to make their own decisions regarding their bodies. If a women wants to do that then it’s unfair to force the label of victim on her. Same with a John, he’s not a predator for paying for sex. If two consenting adults want to do that then that is not rape in the slightest. I wasn’t even gonna respond because it’s a dumb comment, but Im glad you said something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 12:30 AM
1	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years It’s not that I don’t have empathy, Im glad that’s an option men have. It’s just not desirable when looking for a relationship. Men don’t like women with high n count, women don’t like men who sleep with prostitutes. If you are sleeping with prostitutes our values probably don’t align in general. You can also just simply not tell people if you are concerned about being judged I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 11:37 PM
2	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years Where I live it’s not legal so there is no regulation or mandatory STD checking or requirement for protection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 08:54 PM
2	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years Eh maybe. Sex addiction is not prevalent enough in women though for that to be a real concern. Girls can get laid regardless so i feel most just like the ability to be more selective and abundance of options. You also don’t have to worry about guys you aren’t interested in hitting you up because you can just next them. My friends are all on tinder and majority have low n-counts so 🤷🏻‍♀️. Also not everyone uses It purely to hook up. I’m sure a lot guys do see it as just hookups but in my own expe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 08:16 PM
2	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years I don’t think it’s equivalent to going out to eat lmao you said that. Prostitution is also illegal and risky from both STD standpoint and reputation in general. If you are willing to put all that on the line for sex then sorry that is a red flag and also yeah it definitely doesn’t show good character. You are who you associate with. Im sure there other women don’t care at all so just go for them I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 08:00 PM
2	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years First I don’t think sex workers need to rescued or are bad people, I never said that. I also don’t think women making only-fans or selling sex are doing It to be liked, they want an easy way to make money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 06:29 PM
2	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years I am a woman but would love for you to explain what you mean	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 06:16 PM
3	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years Yep I suppose. I don’t think this is the kind of sex work we’re talking here. Getting naked and having sex with random men for no other reason than for cash is different than sending a nude to an intimate partner imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 06:15 PM
4	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years And guys send unsolicited dick pics all the time or sent them back. I don’t see how that’s sex work. That’s like saying having sex in general is sex work because what’s the difference between hooking up for $1 or hooking up for free. It’s all sex work I guess lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 06:09 PM
4	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years I would not date a guy who paid for sex because it seems desperate. Like you couldn’t get sex on your own? Are you a sex addict? Porn addict? Kind of a red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 06:00 PM
1	The decline of the traditional nuclear family in the Western world isn’t necessarily the worse thing as there are alternative family arrangements that could work as well What place and time period are you referring to? The bourgeoise almost always married for political purposes, family alliances, and prestige. It also had to do with economics, a girl still needed to find a wealthy respectable husband that would take care of her. You think a wealthy girl would marry a working class dude? No. Not unless she wanted a huge stigma attached to her for life and lose all respectability. If you wanted to marry a wealthy girl you still had to be wealthy and of high status…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 04:49 PM
2	The decline of the traditional nuclear family in the Western world isn’t necessarily the worse thing as there are alternative family arrangements that could work as well I mean this isn’t a new thing though? Women needed to find good providers since women working and going into higher education was not as much as a thing now. Marriage at one point was completely dictated by purely economic or political considerations. There were still many thriving families during this time so...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 03:58 PM
3	What's your opinion on condon use? Plan b prevents the egg from being released. It’s really only helpful if you haven’t ovulated yet. It won’t kill off an existing implanted egg, since It prevents the egg from ever being fertilized and implanting. It’s actually the exact same thing as regular hormonal birth control but a slightly larger dose. But some people DO consider hormonal birth control as a form of abortion so I guess that depends on what your feelings on that are. But as another comment stated- plan b is pretty dumb, It i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 01:57 PM
3	CMV: Modern Day "Christianity" is worse than feminism when it comes to gender roles and totally useless for single men 🙄 I was just giving an example. Not sure how history has to do with being a SJW. Facts are stubborn things i guess. Either way people were horrid to each other in the past and arguably much worse despite the vast majority claiming to be Christians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 04:45 PM
3	CMV: Modern Day "Christianity" is worse than feminism when it comes to gender roles and totally useless for single men I was just giving an example because world history is pretty vast. My point was that most people weren’t “real” Christians in the past either. I mean take a look at colonizers who came to spread Christianity and they all went and had pre-martial sex aka raped indigenous people with little thought or care. Humans treated other humans pretty horridly in the past even in staunchly Christian time periods and places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 04:36 PM
3	Dave Ramsey and the epidemic of fake "TradCon" Christians who Apply gender roles only to men but absolve them from women: Are they worse than feminists? I think men can be good protectors, but considering men account for nearly all violence against women and considering the large amount absent fathers- a lot of them choose not to. But you are right, at least in my case the men close to me in my life (father, brother, partner) are great protectors and I admire them and men like them- however for many women these same kind of men in their life can be the perpetrators of their violence. They probably don’t view men as protectors and instead as the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 03:58 PM
3	CMV: Modern Day "Christianity" is worse than feminism when it comes to gender roles and totally useless for single men Majority of people even in the past weren’t all that “Christian” if we are just talking about following rules here. Murder, rape, prostitution, pre-marital sex, stealing, lying, and being selfish in general was common in many different time periods where nearly everyone claimed to be “Christian”. King James I was in a sexual relationship with his male cousin while dishing out severe punishment for sodomy due to Christian beliefs. Or the fact they had female leaders like Elizabeth I who had tons …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 02:58 PM
2	CMV: Modern Day "Christianity" is worse than feminism when it comes to gender roles and totally useless for single men It depends what church. A lot of evangelical churches are full of young people and certain ones are pretty trendy with the younger crowd these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 02:48 PM
1	How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could? If it was a choice with those two options presented: I think the large majority of people in general would just pick not getting married if it meant giving up the freedom to navigate their own lives. I do not find casual sex alluring in the slightest but i don’t want to be controlled. You also don’t have to bring the government in in order to have a committed partnership anyways. Though i do think people who engage in lots of casual sex are being destructive to themselves, I also think people in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 11:41 PM
1	Men who get women pregnant and then leave them behind should be forced to invest their time and money and not force other men or the government to foot the bill Gotcha, I didn’t read this before my last comment I understand your point better now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 09:28 PM
1	Men who get women pregnant and then leave them behind should be forced to invest their time and money and not force other men or the government to foot the bill How is It a justification though? I mean for the argument for abortion it makes logical sense (even though i disagree) because if it is accepted that something is just cells you theoretically aren’t harming anyone by making that choice. But to say a baby being “just cells” is a justification for forced abortions makes is no logical sense because it is undoubtedly harming a person by taking away medical autonomy and someone’s rights. Even if It was “just cells”, that doesn’t justify forcing a per…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 09:26 PM
1	How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could? I mean marriages lasted longer because divorce wasn’t easily obtainable. Would a dead bedroom be grounds for an at fault divorce then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 08:52 PM
1	Men who get women pregnant and then leave them behind should be forced to invest their time and money and not force other men or the government to foot the bill I mean your comment was basically “why can’t we force abortions, its just cells?” . When that’s missing the point and the actual reason which is medical autonomy which people in the free world have . So yeah Im not sure how something being cells or not changes anything in this instance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 08:40 PM
1	Men who get women pregnant and then leave them behind should be forced to invest their time and money and not force other men or the government to foot the bill What do you mean it’s just cells? The reason you can’t force someone to abort isn’t because “it’s just cells” or whatever it’s because you can’t force a full grown human being into a medical procedure regardless of reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 08:19 PM
2	How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could? Seems like a lot of people would just be settling in order to have sex or marrying just so they could have sex which to me doesn’t sound like a solid foundation for a happy lasting marriage. Also would suck to marry someone thinking you are going to have endless sex and they find out they have an extremely low libido or have no interest in It.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 06:56 PM